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You are amazing. Can't wait to hear about all you'll accomplish 💗💗💗💗💗 EDIT to add: its good you're keeping your distance from your ex. LVM are not worth it. Look at how strong and accomplished you are and you know you deserve better. If you really want to fill a hole in your life, I recommend hobbies or seeking out strong women to become friends with. Proud of you for how far you've come!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:10 AM
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Devi's friends are expected to forgive her to "prove" they are good friends after she has already let them down twice. Mental illness and ~lOvE~ are not valid excuses to treat your friends like trash. Imagine if the roles were reversed and it happened in real life. Would a man ever forgive you or give you third chance if you did those things to him? It's unfair to expect women to be so forgiving and accept being second to someone's love interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:49 PM
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Uh, except in the end her friends easily forgive her for letting them down twice. It sends the message that we women should be okay with being put on the back burner by our friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:45 PM
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Is it the one based in Montreal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:58 AM
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She actually gave interviews about it and does not support the porn industry because of it. Men made millions off of her body. She suffered the shame and social stigma with not even 10k to show for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:56 AM
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Yikes, extremely creepy and defo violates boundaries of friendship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:17 AM
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Yea, I don't even keep in contact with my ex or any of our mutuals anymore. Dude was trash, so were his friends. I have no interest in looking back when I am enjoying and loving my life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:02 AM
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Lmao were you dating my exes 🤣🤣 their hairlines started disappearing in their early 20s. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:16 PM
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It was an internship, so it was less risky. I would recommend not dating someone who you know you cannot avoid if things don't work out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:15 PM
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I didn't follow her, she reached out to me. I didn't even know she existed lol. I have my ex blocked on all social media and we live in different states 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:13 PM
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People pleasing behavior is caused by intense childhood trauma often due to enduring or living in an abusive household. I recommend therapy or self-help books if a license therapist is too expensive. I personally like "Co-dependent No More". I also like "Why Does He Do That" because it educates you on how violent men think so you stop empathizing with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:12 PM
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Why do you want kids? I have heard of people becoming teachers for the same reason some want kids. You can also become a foster mom, adopt, or become a "platonic parent" with a trusted strong female friend. There may be few HVM simply due to a supply and demand problem. For too long women allowed men to get away with doing the bare minimum, and when we raise our standards, men will have to become better to meet them. Low and negative value men are not worth it because they will literally hurt yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:01 AM
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Can you change your number?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:52 AM
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Yikes, the whole thread is a dumpster fire. They'll probably divorce some day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:50 AM
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Im not sure about the FDS view but personally casual sex is a bad idea because 1) STIs and/or pregnancies 2) someone can catch feelings, even if its not you 3) it can create more drama in your life 4) in most heterosexual sexual encounters, the man's pleasure in prioritized. will your partner be invested in pleasing you if he knows he may never see you again? is the disappointment really worth the effort? There is nothing wrong with masturbation. With so many different vibrators and sex toys to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:40 AM
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Stop sleeping with him. You deserve better than that, girl. Seriously, you're young and hot. Go for a man who is crazy about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:35 AM
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I just spoke directly to his ex and told him exactly what he did to me. Turns out he was also sexually abusing her, and my reaching out to her made her realize she was in an abusive relationship. He was a pro at gaslighting and emotional manipulation in general, so I helped validate her (very real) concerns about the relationship. She just ended their relationship and I gave her tips to move on. I believe in solidarity. I wish a woman had warned me about him earlier!! I would've dumped his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:33 AM
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Yea, how does he have money to travel that much and how has his wife not noticed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:28 AM
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Cops also are twice as likely to beat their wives than men in other professions. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:01 AM
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Most of their hairlines start receding in their late 20s anyway 🤮🤮🤮 do not want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:39 AM
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That's great 💗 yea, I learned my lessonafter my last ex. No more dusty LVM for me! I'm happy dating a man who comes from a similar racial background from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:38 AM
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My ex reached out to me because his (now ex) gf and him were having "issues" (i.e. he was emotionally and sexually abusing her like he did with me and she told him off). My guess is that he was suffering from cognitive dissonance since he's always viewed himself as a victim. So he sent me an email and stated that I was right when I called him abusive. Then in the next half of the email, he started saying shit like "but you were wrong, I don't leech off of women". The he wrote me a sob story abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:34 PM
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If it helps you feel better, I dated 2 guys like this and they treated me poorly (I am a non-black WoC). My ex ended up dating a blonde after me who he also treated poorly! So y'all are actually dodging a bullet when LVM reject you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:58 PM
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I would tell both of you to be careful. I'm South Asian and I felt the same way and unfortunately ended up turning down HVM from my own race to date LVM black and white men. Keep your standards high and don't use race as a filter. Men of any race can abuse women. They just do it differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:56 PM
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I used to be like that but because i hadn't seen healthy relationships in my family and assumed my whole race was like that. Boy, was I wrong. I turned down HVM from my own race to date LVM from others. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:49 PM
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Ew what a tool. Men in their mid 20s are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:48 PM
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Im older than my bf :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:45 PM
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Yea wtf was that all about lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:38 PM
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My HVM helped me apply for my dream PhD program and I swear he was even more emotionally invested in it than I was. He even planned an amazing romantic date on an island for me but unfortunately it was cancelled due to COVID19 :( but yea, ladies. Good men exist. DON'T SETTLE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:25 PM
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You're gonna make it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:24 PM
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Hobby groups! It can also be career related. I found my girl friends through professional networking events, actually, because I am very career oriented and love surrounding myself with other ambitious women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:23 AM
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If posting screenshots were allowed, I'd show you what she wrote! Its beyond disturbing. She literally compared murder and brutal physical assault to "psychological abuse" to claim women are "just as bad"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:57 AM
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Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:28 AM
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How :o is it because older men are less hygienic? Have a higher body count? Refuse to use protection??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:28 PM
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Lol that projection. 🤣🤣🤣 a 40 year old telling a 19 year old their clock is ticking 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:05 AM
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What's BV?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:15 AM
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So gross. I would never want to waste my 30s and 40s taking care of a geezer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:10 AM
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What post in this about? I definitely wouldve defended you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:22 AM
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I agree with this!! I ignore dusty dudes on social media because their opinions truly do not phase me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:03 AM
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You can always judge a person by the company they keep. LVM befriend other LVM and pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:59 AM
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Hell no. I'd block and move on. It shows he doesn't respect women at all. Even in my pick me days I had enough sense to avoid men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:22 PM
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"Naturally empathetic" or a people pleaser with extreme anxiety and abandonment issues caused by years of trauma? Empathy without boundaries is self destruction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:21 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, this is not acceptable behavior in a healthy relationship. My boyfriend would never treat me like this. He has a very strong relationship with his mother and he respects women, especially older women, a lot because of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:16 PM
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Absolutely not. I grew up in the Middle East and we also got creepy white guys like that. They're usually very racist and fetishize women of color because they see as easy to control. Avoid at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:09 PM
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As a 25 year old woman, no thanks. I would rather set myself on fire than date a geezer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:40 PM
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Any man woth commitment issues is a red flag from the get go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:32 PM
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If a man doesn't prioritize you, isn't invested in you and your needs 100%, let him go. That's a sign he either doesn't care about you, or is a total tool. Either way, let him go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:29 PM
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My man can cook, AND knows how to build and fix broken shit. Ladies, men like this exist. Do not not settle. LEVEL UP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:21 PM
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...or it's trauma bonding "Traumatic bonding is a phenomenon in which the victim feels connected to their abuser based on attachment, and hormones that are being activated amid the abuse. During the stressful points in the relationship, the victim has elevated cortisol levels. The victim feels like they're on the edge, thinking that they may be hurt or abandoned by their abuser if they don't listen to them. They're desperately seeking the reward hormone dopamine, which is a pleasure chemical. Wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:17 AM
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I don't think toxic men have good dick at all. Women who say that are often survivors of trauma who are sexually attracted to toxic men because it's familiar to them. I have insane sexual chemistry with my current HVM partner and I've never had that with any of my toxic exes who focused exclusively on their own pleasure Also, women are brainwashed to find toxic men sexually attractive from a young age. In books and movies we see the same tired ass trope playing out of the "good" girl leaving her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:16 AM
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goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:45 PM
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You gotta have a strong group of girl friends to smack some sense into you sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:33 PM
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But bi people (like OP) don't because 99% of the time, they only date men, regardless of their own gender
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:20 PM
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Even things like sex are so risky for us. 3 words: Hitachi Magic Wand Problem solved ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:41 PM
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