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berttbeans996/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:52 AM
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berttbeans996/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:16 PM
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Yes it’s also a business too. Like, tinder makes it harder on purpose so you can buy all their added features in hopes to get more matches
/r/seduction15/11/23 03:25 PM
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They’re pursuing the top males who have plentiful options and don’t want to settle down. Alpha widowed due to dating top males as well.
/r/newTRP28/09/22 02:27 PM
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Thinking about getting braces. I had braces for 4 years when I was a teenager but they’ve shifted a bit. Ppl tell me I have a nice smile but idk I want that perfect smile
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:24 AM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:18 AM
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Just a cultural thing. Some cultures have more specialized dancing I don’t really know why
/r/newTRP19/09/22 11:43 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:17 AM
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Increased
/r/ExRedPill01/03/22 03:07 PM
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Red pill ideology exists for both men and women. It’s not “for” men
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 09:05 PM
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Uptown or Addison. maybe Deep Ellum. Couple cool clubs depends on your vibe
/r/seduction13/01/22 01:51 AM
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Can’t say this has happened to me bro. Usually the girls who I feel the date went well they never ghost. The girls who do end up not wanting to hangout I can always pin point why. Maybe do some more reflection. Also think about how good is your masculine frame
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:16 PM
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I live in Dallas and it’s pretty good. There’s a huge millennial scene. Idk how old you are but there’s lots of different areas with a lot of single ppl it feels like
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:31 PM
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Damn how old are you?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 09:51 PM
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If you’re a man yes.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:50 AM
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Send me pics
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:14 PM
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He just has social proof that’s the difference
/r/seduction23/12/21 12:18 AM
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Chasing high value men for a long time because you believe that is your league and have been told not to settle. Until you realize you’re getting old and your options are slimming down. Giving your prime years to men who only view you as an option for sex. I’ve done this/ am doing this to multiple women at the moment. I do not understand for the life of me why they allow me to get away with this. I’ve been having sex with 2 girls for over a year now. I think they view me as someone who satisfies…
/r/seduction20/12/21 08:18 PM
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🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction20/12/21 08:14 PM
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He explained that. Men in higher leagues date down for easy sex. Someone in his league is chasing men out of her league and now believe she’s in that league.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:26 PM
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The alternative is to be sex starved, thirsty and low confidence because you aren’t having sex. Nah man, take advantage of feminism and the sexual liberation of women. This is what they wanted. They don’t know the consequences and don’t realize this is doing them way more harm then good, they’re starting to realize it now that it’s too late.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:25 PM
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She didn’t meet the criteria. I guess I’m not emotionally unavailable, but most girls I’ve dated I just don’t see as relationship worthy.
/r/askTRP20/12/21 07:49 AM
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Yeah. We hung out and had sex like 5 more times or something. I’m emotionally unavailable so I just stopped reaching out to her and as did she. She initiated most of the hangouts so I guess she felt some type of way about it. She has a boyfriend now so good for her.
/r/askTRP20/12/21 07:21 AM
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Don’t care and I don’t pay attention, and neither should any man. What are we supposed to do? Fall over and let our bloodline die off after it’s been staying alive generation after generation? Because in 2021 it’s not “ok” to say hi and strike up conversation with a woman? No thanks
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:51 AM
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They’re chill. We talk about the activity we’re doing. But I notice when I’m on a sit down at a table date, the conversation loses energy. Took one girl on a sit down date, it sucked. Took her on a second date to a bar that had ping pong and connect 4 and a bunch of games. It went 1,000x better. We talked while doing the activity, feel like the overall energy was better.
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:56 PM
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Personally I like arcades because I’m not much of a good conversationalist. Gives us something to do
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:15 AM
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Tf no
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:14 AM
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Idk bruh, pursue the connection if you’re feeling it
/r/seduction13/12/21 08:16 PM
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Nice. I still have approach anxiety. And also little exposure to women as I don’t go out a lot. I go to the gym a lot but feels difficult to hit on girls at the gym
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:48 AM
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Do you mind me asking how old you are? And does cold approach actually work for you?
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:44 AM
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I edited my comment a bit and added more to the answer. They don’t wanna see a man as a hoe but also don’t want to worry about getting cheated on, or don’t want to think they’re just another body to you.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:26 PM
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It does matter. Are you bringing it up, or them? If you’re the one bringing it up then it looks as if you’re trying to brag. If they’re bringing it up, idk. Personally I’d refuse to answer or give info on my sexual history. It will never be in your favor when you reveal it. It’s a lose lose. If you’re inexperienced it looks bad, if you’re over experienced it looks bad. And every woman views it differently so it’s not even worth the risk. If the body count is high, the woman will think you’re a s…
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:21 PM
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Why are you talking about your sexual past?
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:13 PM
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Sure. But it’ll lead you to the result you just had. She’ll stop talking to you. You’re an adult, (I’m assuming you’re an adult) she’s an adult. If you aren’t exclusive then you’re both free to do as you please until someone breaks the ice and asks for exclusivity. Until that point you still don’t tell her you’re dating other women cause that’s none of her business, if you agree to be exclusive then stop dating other women and be exclusive with her.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:45 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:35 PM
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Yeah that’s the fastest way to get a girl to stop dating you. Why would you just throw it out there? If y’all aren’t exclusive it’s none of her business unless she asks.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:31 PM
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Is she the one asking if you’re dating other girls? If so, be honest and say “Yeah at the moment I’m dating until I become exclusive with someone”
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:16 PM
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It’s not too late though bro. Can always work on your game
/r/seduction09/12/21 06:04 PM
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Fr right haha
/r/seduction09/12/21 06:03 PM
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Lol I wish. Peeping your Reddit profile there’s common ground. You’re an EE, I studied EE and work as a CompE now. You like hip hop. Nice
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:46 PM
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Stop listening to women. Your bloodline has been ongoing for millions of years way back to your ancestors for generations. The one and only way to keep it going and the ONE and ONLY way to enter a relationship with a woman is to speak to them. Women haven’t grasped that concept. But it doesn’t matter. The women who are open and receptive to being spoken to aren’t on Reddit saying “I’m receptive to cold approach :)”. Ignore this fuckery and speak to women.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:34 PM
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25 and still unable to do this though I want to. Don’t want people to think I’m a fkn loner weirdo even though I am.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:31 PM
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They like attention. Next question.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:26 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/seduction09/12/21 01:00 AM
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Dallas Texas
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:43 AM
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I’m 25 and it’s easier than it has ever been in the past, ever. My only basis of merit is dating apps, however. At age 20-21 I got absolutely no girls off dating apps. I’m 25 and have gone on dates with at least 30 different women this year, entered casual relationships with many of them. But yea it might get better as I get older, idk. But so far 25 has been easiest.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:45 PM
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Wtf. Why?
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:19 PM
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Yes it is
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:10 AM
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This is wild lmao. This generation is crazy. You two are having sex and seeing each other often. It’s blatantly obvious you both want and already have a deeper connection than just hooking up. Just buy her some flowers and surprise her with them and say “will you be my girlfriend?”. That’s it
/r/seduction08/12/21 01:55 AM
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Unfortunately I have immense feelings of guilt. I know there are men who do not give one shit. But yeah I currently have 2 girls I sleep with regularly, even though they know our status I still feel immense guilt because deep down they’re hoping I come around to wanting something deeper with them someday, one of them admitted this to me. I follow certain rules so they don’t get attached like only seeing them once every 2 weeks. If I didn’t care for them I’d see them more regularly as I like to h…
/r/seduction07/12/21 04:19 PM
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I don’t see how it wouldn’t be. It’s not that time consuming. Let’s say you’re out with your friends and see an attractive girl. You chat her up, ask for her number then try to set up a date or something. If you have a good Instagram you’re way ahead of everyone (I don’t).
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:22 PM
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Where to start is self improvement. Improving your body, your wardrobe, your face routine, your haircut. Dating apps though is the most straight forward. Doing research on how to take high quality photos of yourself, then taking a bunch of photos, finding your angles. Writing a good bio. Messaging a bunch of girls, working on how to message women and land dates. Trying different things and sticking to what works. But no 23 is not late.
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:19 PM
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You handle it by leveling up and working on yourself
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:13 PM
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Uhm never play the long game. Ask a woman out on a date if you’d like to date her
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:03 AM
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Nah you’re wrong.
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:48 AM
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Yes. When I was the most muscular at 215 and lean. Huge arms. Specifically if I wear tight shirts that show off my arms. Girls would always be grabbing them and touching them nonchalantly. I’m 205 right now, more into street style so my shirts tend to be on the baggier side so this doesn’t really happen anymore.
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:17 AM
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Care to share your profile?
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:28 PM
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Work on yourself. My friend is 5’8 and he attracts women.
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:45 PM
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Online dating mostly and one from social circle
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:36 AM
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Once you sexually game one girl, the rest come easier. Then you game and sexually escalate 2, play your cards right and you keep her in the rotation, then 3 then 4 then 5 and so on. Turning point for me was when I got two girls. Because if you have one it’s easy to give her all your time and attention. After I got 2, I easily got the next 4. But yea I was in a 3.5 year relationship and it ended and I was heartbroken. I had to reconstruct myself because I had not been working on myself for those …
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:06 PM
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Stop texting her. Ask her out on a date. And when you want to talk to her again, ask her on another date.
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:51 PM
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I wanted to know what I’m getting myself into bruh
/r/askTRP09/07/21 02:00 AM
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None bruh 😎
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:08 AM
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I don’t understand the scenario. How are you communicating with women who haven’t seen you?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:03 PM
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Are you trying to increase smv? Cause 180 lbs @ 6’4 I feel like you’re very skinny and have that super skinny guy look. Need to bulk up.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:28 AM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:51 PM
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Idk why you feel you’ve made some sort of realization that’s not basic red pill. Women sleep with guys who have high smv. The 80/20 rule is in effect. And that fkn sucks, and that’s what most guys complain about. It fkn sucks for both parties. It leave women alpha widowed and thinking they can lock a Chad down because they have access to sex with Chad and nothing more. And that access also inflated women’s own ego and self esteem, hence 6’s thinking they’re 9’s because they have access to sex wi…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:16 PM
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Stop entertaining her bs drama. You’re not walking away. Her mood changes are affecting you and you’re entering her frame every time. When she throws bs at you, be non-reactive. When she says she wants to break up, I can tell you’re convincing her not to, don’t. Stop allowing her to threaten you with her breaking up with you. Next time she threatens you with a break up, you need to say fine and end it and walk away. Eventually she will stop, assuming she reaches out to you.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:26 PM
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It all just depends on you and what you look like and what your SMV is. And your woman will reflect that.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:25 PM
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You haven’t had sex with this girl?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:34 PM
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Everyone’s clowning on you but I think it has some truth to it. Girls like bad boys.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:13 AM
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Just tell her you can’t anymore. You don’t owe her an explanation. Then invite her over to your place when you want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:32 PM
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Yea bro wtf. You’re insecure af.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:31 PM
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She doesn’t belong to you bro. She’s free to do whatever she wants and owes you nothing. She offered exclusivity/commitment and you declined.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:27 PM
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Yup. I do feel like in 2-3 years I could be in a different location, which is what’s been putting me off on buying something.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 07:06 AM
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Just focus on you bruh
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:55 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:26 AM
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Nice, unfortunately I don’t have any friends in the city I live in and I’d have to resort to living with strangers if I wanted to reduce rent. And I don’t want to do that.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:25 AM
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You’re right, thanks
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:12 AM
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I don’t see how that’s relevant. Regardless I’d be paying $1,050 for rent on a renewed lease.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:51 AM
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I guess I’d just like the balcony and pool. I disagree, these pools are really nice. I never go to mine cause it’s shit, but get invited to peoples pools and they’re really nice.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:51 AM
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I’m living well under my means. After all my living expenses are paid including gas and groceries I have a little over $2k monthly to spend as I please. Which includes setting aside money for savings. I enjoy having a lot of money leftover I’d have to give up a little.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:49 AM
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I’ve heard Atlanta was like that. I wouldn’t want to live there but that’s just me
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:10 AM
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Sounds like you’re trying to humble brag. No it’s not a shit height. Average height is 5’9 in US. You’re 4 inches taller than average.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:58 PM
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Nice. Idk bruh. How much you weigh and BF%?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:56 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:54 PM
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You showed possessiveness, controlling tendencies, entitledness. Like other commenter stated, she was probably looking for a FWB and she was offering that to you. You showed the above qualities and she realized she doesn’t want that with you. Unless you saw her as LTR material, ignore and keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:14 PM
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You showed neediness and insecurity like a mf and it turned her off.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:21 PM
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Never tried that approach. I may be going for the kill too quickly
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:41 PM
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Those are some good tips at the end man thanks. Do you have good pics? I feel like I match with attractive women, never ugly/fat ones. But fuck, they just leave me hanging all the time and if I bring up going out they just stop responding. How tall are you?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:31 PM
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Send me a pic of your face and body, no homo
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:30 PM
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How often are you in the weight room?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:27 PM
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Damn bruh. You mind sharing your profile? I feel like I have the opposite problem. I struggle to get girls to go out with me. I’ve probably had 20 first dates in the last year from using dating apps. Out of all those girls, only one didn’t want to continue dating me. I blame that due to getting out of a fresh relationship and trying to get back into the dating world, she was the first girl I went on a date with from a dating app. For me, all the girls will dry message me or stop responding altog…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:16 PM
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Where do you live? How old are you? How much money do you make?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:12 AM
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Eat healthy and high protein diet 5 days a week, cheat day 1 day a week, semi cheat day the last day, repeat. Lift 5-6x a week.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:10 AM
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Whenever I pursue women I feel shame because I’m using them for their bodies for my own selfish reasons. Didn’t mean I feel shame from masturbating.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:14 PM
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I feel this 100%. Except mine isn’t cringe it’s more of a feeling of shame. When I beat my meat less I pursue women more and have more sex. I never regret it but I also struggle to fight the urge to beat it.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:59 PM
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Social programming.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:35 PM
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Send me a pic of your face
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:13 PM
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Depends on whether you’ve met her in real life or not. But personally? Hell no. You don’t fall in love with bodies of text. You can’t seduce her and pursue sexual relationships or even just a regular relationship through bodies of text. Hangout with her in real life and have these conversations in person.
/r/seduction28/05/21 10:36 PM
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Grow a beard and get a tattoo’d hairline like below https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMevka6y2/
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:08 PM
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Work on your fashion sense, and your grooming, including your haircut, as well as skincare and dental hygiene.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:06 PM
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I’m 5 3/4 inches It slips out when a girl is on top. But any other position nah. Even smaller guys shouldn’t have problems with bigger women. You just grab their ass cheeks while you fuck em, or if it’s missionary the vagina is also flush. When a girl is bent over her vagina is flush with her legs though.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:56 PM
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You just spread the buttcheeks bro plus when they’re in doggy style the vagina is pretty flush
/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:30 PM
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I try not to identify with that label. But others have labeled me as that. But you’re right, I just need to speak what comes to mind, I tend to say it in my head and not let it out.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:57 PM
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Fuck that bruh, ask em out asap. If they reject you who gives a shit, friendzone them back and be friendly to them anyway. Don’t be ashamed for being attracted to women.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah bruh. If I was 15-16 and I learned game, fuck. I lost out on so many girls cause I was childish/immature/goofy, and had zero game.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:32 PM
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My charisma is lacking, appreciate the response though
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:09 PM
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I’ll have to keep that in mind. I think typically I do that, but this past date felt like I was just so tired of hearing it
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:08 PM
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Thanks for the response bro. It’s not something I care to change really, just gets draining when I’m constantly hearing how quiet I am.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:55 PM
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Nah bro, that’s creepy af
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:31 PM
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Says he’s not racist then continues to stereotype black men as having no standards. That’s racism bro. If anything I feel like black men are the most sought out men by women.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:02 PM
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Seems like you’re enabling her to message you stuff like this. Should’ve left her on read for telling you that. If it bothers you, bring it up to your girlfriend and retract attention.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:48 AM
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Feel like you need to look in the mirror bro and objectively assess yourself leaving your ego at the door. Be transparent.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:38 AM
1

But I didn’t grow up with sisters. So clearly there’s a way I’m acting that is showing I’m inexperienced in my interactions with women. At least that’s what they’re thinking.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:01 PM
2

Bro its obviously something in my behavior that’s throwing girls off. I’m sure it was a shit test. But it’s also been said kind of with negative connotations. So what behavioral differences are there between guys who grew up with sisters vs not?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:01 PM
1

Post your physique Can you grow a beard?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:57 AM
3

??
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:18 AM
17

How tall are you bro?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:18 PM
1

I’m in a similar situation as you, still not over my ex and it’s been a year. I wish I could go back but I know I never can. Man I’d say just keep focusing on leveling up. Money, body, fashion sense, look up how to take better pictures. Practice taking better pictures. Find your poses, find your angles. Just keep leveling up. Pour yourself into a hobby. I’d say pour yourself into a sport. I’ve met a lot of guys playing basketball. They want to be friends with me because I’m good. I got asked to …
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:16 AM
1

I feel like if you actually improve. Actually put the work in and increase your SMV, they’re gonna treat you different regardless. If you transform your body, image etc.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:44 PM
0

Inexperience. Happens with young girls. Not my problem.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:34 PM
1

Keep in mind a lot of women that age, especially high smv ones, do not have you as an option in their age range. You’re only being shown women who are age 30-45 who have a range that includes 25. The good looking women aged 30-45 probably have an age range of 30+.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:29 AM
1

I have a Honda Civic Si coupe. I like it, it’s cool. Wild though, a girl thought it was like a super fast car. They really don’t know anything about cars. In my defense the car pulls and you feel the torque, especially if you know how to maximize the pull, so she thought it was like a super fast car.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:24 AM
2

Get your own place Just bring her back to your parents crib?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:59 AM
1

That’s the answer bruh lol. Just try your best
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:05 PM
5

Should’ve ignored the whole entire situation from the beginning. Your friend is an idiot for even messaging her. At that point you shouldn’t have gotten involved at all. But whatever. Too late for that I guess. Try not to escalate the situation. But defend yourself if you need to.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:04 PM
5

I feel like TRP is starting to be more socially accepted amongst men.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:49 PM
1

Hmmmm interesting. Woman want a dude who can protect them, I think height makes them feel that way. Which on the contrary should mean if height is that important, building muscle might have similar effect
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:10 PM
1

Who are these guys and what indicators are they showing you that they dislike you?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:26 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:47 PM
1

Just be strong idk.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:23 PM
2

He’s gotta be trolling. Just sent me a pic of a handsome ass face
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:21 PM
2

Nah. Now a days girls have inflated senses of value. And they’re addicted to validation, and it’s easier to get validation now than ever before. And men smartened up and got even more competitive. So the good looking guys got better at taking better pictures overtime, so the 90-10 rule is in place. I don’t believe in 2015 dudes were taking model tier pics like they are now.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:27 PM
1

Do you try to hangout with them? I match with really attractive girls, I message them and they’ll either only respond once or not at all.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:24 PM
2

Don’t see how, it’s a valid question
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:23 PM
1

Send me a pic of your face
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:09 PM
1

Honestly I think you’re right. I have a good paying salary and I’m satisfied with my bi-weekly check. So what’s the solution? I must be ambitious and driven to make more money simply because I’m a man?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:31 PM
1

I have plenty of that, as I stated in my post. I’m ambitious in my hobbies and self improvement. As well as finances and investing. Just not that much in the workplace. I’m mostly driven by deadlines.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:13 PM
1

So you’re saying Napoleon complex isn’t an actual thing?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:39 PM
3

You pull a lot of women bro? My point is, most tall guys have hella confidence from their height. White knighting is something dudes who don’t pull women do so they can try and gain the favoritism of a woman. Rarely do I see tall dudes white knighting. Short dudes tend to have Napoleon complexes. Unless they put the work in. My best friend is 5’8, never been a white knight. Dude pulls. Cause his grooming is on point and his style is superb. From my personal experience white knighting is done by …
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:36 AM
1

I guess I’m missing the why. In the past, my why was I wanted to not be poor as an adult. What’s my why to overachieve? I’m still getting paid for underachieving
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:22 AM
1

I work slower than the rest of my colleagues. The expectations from management and team leads seems to be low. But then again, I am one of 5 younger engineers. And it seems to be the same situation for them as well.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:53 AM
1

How tall are you bro?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:06 AM
-1

Ultimately we’ll never know, but personally I feel like he wouldn’t have displayed that type of behavior.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 11:14 PM
4

Girl was shit testing you. She only said that because she found you attractive. Short dude is as you said, white knight and unfortunately he displayed his Napoleon complex, can’t be mad at that. You’re a bully if you punk him and would feel even worse if you took that route instead. I think it’s your masculine frame. Just walk with your chin up and chest up. Don’t look like a goofy dancing clown. What’s your weight?
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:26 PM
5

Definitely the issue is with setting boundaries and discipline. You’re getting pissed because you wasted time just on the phone not being productive when you could’ve been doing something productive. How are you spending 2-3 hours on the phone with her? This isn’t adding up bruh. You must be contributing to the convo or she has insanely high attraction to you. There’s no way someone would talk on the phone for 2-3 hours without the other person contributing to the convo. My guess is you actually…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:10 PM
1

Use tiktok. The content is tailored to your liking by their algorithm. My tiktok is mostly red pill content and self improvement + funny ass shit + workout shit + finance shit
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:04 AM
1

Nah it won’t change your face structure unless you’re skinny fat
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:14 AM
5

Agree with other commenters, this is a valid question.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:08 AM
1

For men no, for women possibly.
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:05 PM
4

Dress better Don’t let bodybuilding be your only identity. Develop another one or two
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:54 AM
1

Pretty depressing honestly
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:04 PM
1

I guess you feel that way because that lifestyle is still appealing to me. It looks miserable to me. When I see it, I’m happy for them, but I want no part in it at the moment.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:32 PM
0

you got a roster of women you have casual sex with?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:55 AM
2

You got a roster of women you have casual sex with?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:34 PM
3

What’s your height and weight and BF%? To answer your question, it depends. If you’re tall and skinny and can dress you’ll be fine. Look at MGK and Pete Davidson. They’re tall, tatted and dress cool and have the bad boy image. Ultimately, putting on muscle makes you feel beast and gives you confidence to look and feel like a man.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:20 PM
1

Nah bruh, and I don’t expect her to. Paying for dates is simply one of my principles as a man. If it’s not yours then cool. I’ll continue doing it my way, all the women I’ve dated see it as a good thing.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:35 PM
0

Well I’m glad y’all keeping the bar low. I pay for dates, 2 max and never dinner dates.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:53 PM
-8

I always pay bruh. I’m the man.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:21 PM
1

Good looking dude. Wardrobe could use improvements. Grooming as well. If you can afford a periodic haircut, you need to stay sharp. The facial hair looks a little messy, I’d say bring it down to a stubble and line it up. But yeah bringing the body fat % down will increase your confidence a lot. Just keep shooting bro. Also what’s your skincare lookin like? How often do you exfoliate? I applaud you posting yourself bro. A lot of dudes need to do we can really assess them.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:55 AM
2

How does a confrontation even come about? I haven’t been in a conformation with another man in 4 years. The 3 times I’ve been in a confrontation was because the other person did something explicitly disrespectful.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:20 PM
1

Yup. And I’ll respond by not answering the question. “I don’t want to speak on our past sexual histories.” Maintain frame and hold firm on that.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:04 PM
12

Ehh. Dude is asking for help. He’s asking us to assess him. Can’t assess someone when we don’t know what they look like
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:36 PM
2

Not defensive bruh. I’m a straight up person, especially with women. I’m not speaking on my body count and I don’t expect her to either. Doesn’t matter anyway cause they’re gonna lie about theirs. It’s a lose lose situation so just say I don’t discuss that unless we’re serious. Better way of saying it would be “I’d rather not share sexual history”
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:35 PM
10

Send me a pic of yourself bruh
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:25 PM
-2

“That’s personal”
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:24 PM
1

I have no advice bruh as I’m not on this level. But I’m wondering if you’d be willing to share your profile
/r/askTRP03/04/21 10:23 PM
1

Yea bruh just keep fucking her and enjoying her company
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:26 PM
4

Yeah you gotta out of there bro. It’s awesome saving money, but that feeling of having your own spot, you truly feel like a man and become your own man and own person. I was in the same situation as you. I saved $10k and left
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:52 AM
45

Honestly bro. A lot of these red pill qualities when men try and do them to other men I avoid. Maintaining a masculine frame, trying to be alpha, with other men is just fucking annoying. Men actively trying to get you in their frame. Like bruh relax, save that for the ladies. I’ve seen dudes in this subreddit claim that it’s important to do this, ridiculous. Dudes who amog, foh I rarely ever see this kind of behavior in real life. But the few times I have seen it, has just been so fkn exhausting…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:41 PM
3

Nice bro, glad to hear that. I’m creeping up on 25 soon
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:29 PM
8

How old are you now bro?
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:02 AM
2

We’re programmed to want to live. That’s the only reason.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:54 AM
2

I feel tired af if I get less than 8
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:31 PM
1

25
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:11 PM
1

Shower, brush teeth, put on clothes, do hair, put on cologne
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:21 PM
2

Moved to Dallas from San Antonio
/r/askTRP25/03/21 05:06 AM
2

Nope. I moved because of this. Best decision I’ve made in life. But I moved for a job. But the catalyst is what you said.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 05:02 AM
4

Why aren’t you feeling Dallas?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 05:01 AM
1

The value of status. Seeing dudes in my local network having a bunch of girls when they’re average looking dudes. But they had hella followers, lots of friends, etc. bunch of status.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:39 AM
5

How do you know all this is happening?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:28 AM
16

Man hell na. It’ll turn them on subconsciously. Show some remorse about it to soothe her conscious, but subconsciously she’s going to be more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:11 PM
1

Online dating. Widen your net. Approach more. It is a numbers game. But remember, all it takes is one. Once you have one girl, the next becomes easier, and the next becomes easier. Sooner or later you’ll have a roster of women who give you consistent sex.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:08 PM
2

Damn shorty. I’d give you the same advice that we give to the males. Work on yourself to attract another high quality partner. Hit the gym, invest in your fashion, teeth whitening, skincare etc. Men are attracted to women almost based entirely on physical appearance. So maximize this.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:20 PM
1

So you think he’s hitting on her when he never explicitly hit on her. That’s insecurity bruv.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:21 PM
1

So is your addiction to the actual pornography? Or masturbation? Or both? I can say, there’s no way to stop yourself from masturbating besides just flat out will power. Same way there’s no way to stop yourself from indulging in junk food. The thing that stops me is having sex. Every time I have sex with a woman I can’t cum when I’m going through a masturbation cycle. My dick goes limp asap. And I want sex less. My desire to pursue women goes way down. I have multiple plates who I don’t care to s…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:19 PM
1

I don’t know. But I definitely noticed when I masturbate 2-3 times a day for multiple days on end, my life was very different.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:12 PM
16

Honestly, to see if you’re worth giving advice to or not. A lot of dudes are at level 1 and claim they’re putting the work in when they’re really not. I’ve tried helping out those type of dudes. But they just don’t want it bad enough and I can’t help them. Just a waste of energy. But also to see if I’m even able to give you valuable advice. What if you’re a Chad who makes bank but has a porn addiction? I don’t think I could give valuable applicable advice to that type of guy. I can only try and …
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:20 AM
-4

Let’s see some receipts, what’s your physique looking like?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 05:40 AM
123

I was more sexually attracted to women in real life. Previously I was disgusted with the smallest imperfection in women. If her stomach stuck out a little bit, or her proportions weren’t perfect, I’d struggle to get hard and would just overall be disgusted with myself. Kind of a crazy concept. We spend hours finding the perfect video. Waiting for the perfect moment to masturbate to. It warps our perception of reality. Are you in physical great shape?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:41 AM
27

Looks bruh I’m 6’1 and my 5’8 friend has gotten like 3 girls that I wanted. It is what it is
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:38 AM
5

Yes I’m an anti-engineer. I try to not fit the stereotype even though I do. I love anything sci-fi, and am really introverted. I play video games. I have hobbies outside of the engineering realm. Mine is basketball. There aren’t many engineers who play basketball. And I’m pretty good, so a lot of people want to be my friend because of this and play with me. I also like fashion. Which, a lot of engineers don’t lol. I also love hip-hop, which I also feel a lot of engineers don’t like. These likes …
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:40 PM
1

Honestly bro that’s pretty beta. After 25 you’re a man man, not a young kid anymore
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:28 PM
3

Wtf bro. And this has happened more than once? Text for logistics only. Very simple solution. Ok nvm. I saw that she wants to be LTR. I don’t think that’s LTR worthy behavior. Seems like she’s purposefully fucking with you. But yeah, above advice if you want to keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:37 AM
2

Nice. Are you a big dude?
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:35 AM
2

How long does it typically take to make $100?
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:34 AM
1

You’re able to do dumbbell bench but not barbell? The main idea is if you can lift these type of numbers, or close to it, or their equivalents (the dumbbell equivalent of barbell) you’re gonna look like a fkn beast
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:33 AM
14

I don’t think the question is vague. Get to 12% body fat and be able to bench 225 for reps, deadlift 315 for reps, squat 225 for reps, overhead press 135 for reps, bicep curl 35lbs+ for reps. If you can accomplish these I promise you will be jacked regardless of height. Whiten your teeth. Watch fashion YouTubers and increase your fashion. Teachingmensfashion, Alex Costa, alpha.m. Invest in a minimalist wardrobe. Get some good fragrances. Experiment with hairstyles until you find one that suits y…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:30 PM
1

No response bruh
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:39 PM
5

How tall are you? Are you back talking to these people? You’re making it seem like they just got in your face which seems unlikely. What are you saying before they get all up in your face? I’m pretty muscular, 6’1 205 lbs, 10-12% body fat. This doesn’t happen to me.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:37 PM
1

Thanks bruh. I used to have huge arms. Don’t really like the look. I like more of the basketball player physique. Like Kawhi Leonard. My shoulder genetics suck but I’m still trying to grow them. Hate when my arms are much bigger than my delts.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:25 AM
3

Credentials. What if this dude is way more jacked than me? But mostly just credentials. I think a lot of guys ought to post their bodies. Asktrp preaches to lift and self improve. A lot of dudes claim to do this but aren’t really putting in the work. Also why does this upset you?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:23 AM
1

Idk, girls? You said Chad, but nah not Chad
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:11 PM
2

Why are you talking to people about this? Keep it to yourself
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:50 PM
16

Women have anxiety as they approach 30. They know about the wall subconsciously. That anxiety pushed them to procreate asap.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:49 PM
2

Nah face is like 6/10
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:47 PM
21

You just do it bruh regardless, that’s discipline. Being fit and muscular is a part of my identity. It’s also a hobby. It’s also an escape. When I’m feeling down/sad/depressed working out is the only thing to get me out of the funk. Have something that drives you also. Why do you workout to begin with? You should post a pic of your physique, here’s mine: https://imgur.com/a/QEGm8uD
/r/askTRP16/03/21 04:45 PM
1

Ok. Why do you care?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:11 AM
1

General rules of thumb If she gives you a dry response, stop messaging her, she’s not interested You need to learn which girls have high interest in you, and aim for those. Do not try and keep a conversation going. Ask her on a date asap. I ask girls out asap. Don’t listen to people telling you it doesn’t work, it does.
/r/seduction16/03/21 02:21 AM
1

Like I said bruh. Probably high smv, can get away with it. Ugly girls don’t act this way. Your examples are so vague bruh. What specifically did you say/do, and what specifically did she say/do as a response?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:05 AM
2

Yup. Most guys hearing about this stuff think you’re just a bitter dude who is resentful toward girls because of what one girl mightve done. They succeeded in their blue pill life so their truth and reality is different from yours.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:49 AM
2

That’s just girls bruh lol. Girls barely suffer any consequences especially when they’re young and have high smv.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:49 AM
1

A large amount of men will deny it and think you’re preaching misogyny.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:44 AM
2

Bruh let’s hear a very specific scenario of where you’re seeing this. She could be cheating, depends. Withholding information in what way? Are you pestering her for information? What makes you think she’s acting like she cares? She might just not care. Let’s hear a specific situation where this is happening.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:38 AM
1

Oh. Your post didn’t mention that until you updated it. Your example is way too vague. Let’s hear some specifics
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:31 AM
2

Someone answered this before. It’s simple. Don’t laugh at your own jokes.
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:18 AM
3

Adults typically talk to little girls and give them validation when they act “silly”. You ever seen little kids act silly like age 2-6? Everyone thinks it’s funny and cute so they end up talking to them nicely, telling the little kid they’re cute, etc. It’s just programmed into their brain. Men have to break this programming as they age, especially earlier on when society typically teaches men to “man up”. So yea, they did this and got validation as children so now they’re just doing what they k…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:15 AM
16

no response bruh
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:51 AM
1

I’m 25 and it hasn’t been an issue. All the girls I’ve seen want to continue seeing me. They make jokes or hint that I suck at texting to which I respond yeah I hate texting.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:33 PM
1

How old are you? What is your diet like? I go at night because I’m not a morning person.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:46 PM
10

How do you know you’re attractive?
/r/seduction05/03/21 04:56 PM
3

I guess I find it awkward/weird/socially unacceptable to have conversation with someone in daygame. Most places I frequent: grocery store, gym, mall I’d like to get girls from the gym though
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:26 AM
1

She wasn’t intimidated. I just had that intimidating look. I have RBF bad. So I always look angry
/r/seduction25/02/21 08:12 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/seduction22/02/21 10:49 PM
3

Work on yourself until you feel like the prize
/r/seduction13/02/21 06:35 PM
6

Idk bruh. Sometimes when my ex was super super super wet, it would feel as you described. No friction at all lol. Like air. Couldn’t feel it. I’m sure she won’t be as wet when she gets used to you
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:00 AM
1

ahh
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:28 AM
2

I’d agree that you definitely need a smiling pic Personally I think two shirtless pics is too much. Plus it doesn’t look like you’re doing any activity in the shirtless pic, just shirtless for the sake of being shirtless.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:17 PM
0

What’s SJW
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:06 PM
1

Ignore I ignore shit like that in real life too
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:55 PM
1

That’s cool. Unless you’re a billionaire it will make you less attractive
/r/seduction12/02/21 04:00 PM
1

Yes and no. Mark Zuckerberg looks like trash. And no he does not wear well fitted clothes, his clothes fit him awfully and they look awful. Having well fitted clothes is more than enough. Fitted blue jeans and a fitted black t shirt with black leather sneakers or white leather sneakers is a clean look. Add more personality with accessories such as a watch or a clean simple necklace. Mark Zuckerberg does not dress like this: https://imgur.com/a/vaYNeSv
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:38 AM
14

I don’t even know bruh. I do the same thing with every girl. Some cum, some don’t
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:55 AM
1

I don’t understand the question. Those guys need to work on their fashion
/r/seduction12/02/21 02:16 AM
2

Shit idk bruh. I guess that’s up to you. It would be hard to look past that.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:50 AM
2

I think what’s more important is asking if she has a history of cheating
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:41 AM
8

Shit idk man. I guess ignorance is bliss for me and I wouldn’t even ask.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:30 AM
1

Who cares bruh. Fuck her, use protection, don’t wife her
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:14 AM
1

Be real bruh, that’s not happening. Bodies age, and are more susceptible to wear and tear.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:58 PM
8

Lots of things you can do to become more attractive, don’t believe the defeatists. Work on your fitness. Lower body fat% and increase overall muscle mass. Invest in fashion, be someone who is known for dressing well. Just recently a girl told me she likes the way I dress and followed up with “boys that dress well are hard to come by.” Teeth whitening. Always smell good. Invest in an everyday cologne that isn’t too strong but can be worn everyday. And one for going out. Ultimately two biggest one…
/r/seduction11/02/21 08:05 PM
1

One thing is for certain, I will not be playing at the level I’m playing at right now after that age. Discouraging. Plus my joints aren’t going to reverse heal. I very much feel the pain from jumping up and down frequently at 205 lbs.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:38 AM
1

She fucked him before she was with you? Like you two were friends? Did you know beforehand?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:16 AM
1

What’s a 1000 rd burner day?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:11 AM
1

I mean yea I guess. But I’m at my peak right now. I love the competitiveness. I like getting better and better everyday. There’s gonna be a point where that starts to rescind
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:10 AM
1

Truthfully idk. My ex liked it. I feel like some girls find me unapproachable. So I really don’t know.
/r/seduction10/02/21 04:02 AM
1

No. Hit the weight room. Get in amazing shape. Upgrade your wardrobe. Take high quality pics. Hop on a dating app for passive girls. Go out and meet women.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:08 PM
3

Just shoot for high protein and at least 3k calories a day I’d recommend somewhere around 185g protein a day
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:42 PM
1

I’ve never been told that. Women always try the opposite with me. Or, I never pursue if I don’t see high interest.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:51 PM
0

What’s your race bro. I wish they opened me
/r/askTRP07/02/21 06:39 PM
1

Yea bro. I’m 24, well paying job. Life is good right now. I’m financially secure. I’m in the best shape of my life. I can buy almost anything I want if I save for it. I don’t worry about money. I eat good food, I treat myself. I always pay on dates with women. I have more free time than I did in college for sure. Like you said, my world revolve around school. I have a lot of time now to focus on hobbies and recreational activities. So yeah.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 05:37 PM
2

Bruh wtf No bro Work on yourself, maximize your looks, get your confidence up
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:00 AM
1

approach bruh. I think OLD would work well for you to get the 5’8+ girls
/r/seduction05/02/21 11:06 PM
1

99% of the time
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:56 PM
1

How old are you
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:06 PM
1

Just go to zenni and check out their frames
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:44 PM
1

Usually I wait til we’re at my apartment. If a girl is at my apartment she knows what’s about to happen. But yes cues like her getting nervous
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:07 PM
2

Get cool trendy frames. I had nerdy frames and got a cool trendy pair and the difference is drastic
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:17 PM
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I always grab her and pull her in for the kiss. Always scary. And it’s always the guys job. Every single time I’ve kissed a girl I don’t think she would’ve went for it
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:21 AM
1

You right bruh
/r/askTRP05/02/21 02:21 AM
5

Builds muscle, which builds confidence. You gain discipline which can be applied to other parts of life. It becomes a stress relief as well as a hobby. Exercise has too many benefits to list out here.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:57 PM
3

100%
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:56 PM
0

Agree 100%
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:58 PM
2

Status helps ugly guys get girls
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:49 PM
1

Strong points?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:49 PM
5

You got oneitis for this chick. Idk bruh, if you like her just wife her
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:40 AM
1

Oh. That’s pretty weird then. That’s the only red flag in my eyes, and a big one. I wouldn’t make her LTR. That’s just my ego. Knowing that she’s insanely attracted to a certain type of dude and that isnt me
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:15 AM
5

Tattoos a non red flag for me Hating her alcoholic father is a non red flag How do you know what she talks about with her friends? Ex being a drug dealer a non red flag. Bitches love bad boys, get used to it. Especially if she’s young. Don’t let her be controlling. Maintain masculine frame and she’ll learn her place
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:06 AM
2

Man. Women are not attracted to betas. If you’re an alpha you stand out. This isn’t a bad thing to me.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:45 AM
29

Wouldn’t say it’s everything, but definitely the most powerful. You can still be successful with ladies with no status (myself)
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:44 AM
10

Lmao
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:47 AM
3

Yea bruh, my ex broke my heart 1.5 years ago. Red pill rage creeps up on me and I enter this irrational rage where I’m bawling my eyes out. Sometimes lasts few minutes, sometimes longer. Was worse during quarantine with no distractions. But a lot better now that I can channel that anger into other things.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:26 PM
1

You can get a girl horny through text after youve seduced her in person first
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:14 PM
3

Idk, I feel like if you just retract your energy she'll boomerang back.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:13 PM
3

Are you one of those guys? You described the top 0.00001 % of men. They’re not on Reddit. Dan Bilzerian, Drake, Leo DiCaprio. They get pussy thrown at them and focus on their work. Mmmmmm I guess what you described isn’t that crazy. My first comment applies. I’ve dated max two girls in one day. Have had sex on first date. No threesome yet though. I’ve had sex with one girl in the morning from the previous night, then with another for my night time date. Guys better than me probably do what you d…
/r/seduction03/02/21 01:19 AM
1

Dating apps is a passive way to get girls, your profile is up and you’re in the dating pool while living your life. Text for logistics only. Setup dates for after work or the weekends. Two dates max before you fuck. Once you fuck a girl, it’s easy, invite her to the crib and you spend less money that way. I’m only taking girls out to drink from now on. When pandemic first started bars were closed. Restaurants were only option, that got super expensive.
/r/seduction03/02/21 12:49 AM
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Bruh no. Use texting for logistics only. Ask her to hangout with you and escalate in person. I’m 24. Needed to put my age so you know I’m not just an old head giving non helpful tips to the younger generation.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:38 AM
5

Stop giving her so much attention. Hang out with her, play it cool, ask her questions about herself, then retract all energy from her.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:38 AM
1

But you aren’t hanging out with her. You said she made excuses as to why you couldn’t hangout. Stop having conversations via texting and hangout in real life.
/r/seduction02/02/21 11:48 PM
3

Move on. And don’t text girls for conversation. Meet up with them and get to know them in real life.
/r/seduction02/02/21 11:40 PM
2

I have a group of 7 male friends. Known them since high school. My best friends. 10+ years going strong
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:27 PM
1

Mona Lisa is so hard
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:10 PM
2

I wanted to start one and I did on Spotify Favorite tracks: Ice age by Denzel curry (please listen to this asap) Heartless by The Weeknd All I know by The Weeknd and future (futures verse is so hard) Love hurts by playboi carti and Travis Scott There’s more songs but those are the ones I feel embody red pill ideologies the most
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:09 PM
7

Act normal. Don’t listen to these horny ass dudes. Pretend she doesn’t exist and wait for her to come on to you. If she doesn’t, she doesn’t.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:05 PM
3

Nah bro that’s justified. Only place I was able to study was in the library in complete silence. I couldn’t imagine having to be distracted by babysitting.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:03 PM
5

This is 100% facts. If you truly want kids, do it right. Settle down with a high quality woman. Raise them together. A kid needs to be raised by a mascunline father who’s there everyday. Not a stepfather who got with his mother. Then your kid will be raised by someone you don’t know. Your kid will embody and adopt another mans personality traits and values.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:00 PM
2

Withdraw your energy slowly and she’ll start chasing you.
/r/seduction02/02/21 07:26 PM
1

Be careful with RP overdose bro. I disagree with this dudes whole ideology and I replied to it. There’s no single way to live life so just do what works for you. That may be this guys advice or mine or someone else’s.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:23 PM
1

I’m 6’1. The best shirts I’ve found for my body type are the Amazon next level men’s premium t’s They’re very long, sometimes too long for me but they’d be good on you. I suggest a couple white t’s, black t’s, and grey t’s. They’re fitted around the arms chest and shoulders. They’ve been great for me so far. My little brother is 6’3 and loves them. Asos is great too for trendy clothes that are affordable Zara and H&M as well
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:21 PM
1

Lmao all of that is solid MASCULINE advice. But yes top comment prevails.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:19 PM
1

Looking good bro
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:13 PM
0

Bro why? This whole ideology is all ego, very annoying dealing and associating with men like this trying to subtly be alpha in every aspect of life. It wreaks of insecurity Bruh hell na. This is the crazy side of RP. You don’t have to try and out-alpha every man you encounter. The world doesn’t have to “feel your dominance.” Make people defer to your frame as much as possible? Lmao bro you don’t have to live life this way. I’m someone who has always naturally had to have a masculine frame cause …
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:00 PM
1

Oh yeah I definitely stopped taking that a long time ago. Couldn’t sleep when I was taking pre. Physique: https://imgur.com/a/QEGm8uD
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:53 PM
1

Sometimes I feel mentally exhausted after work. Soon as I get warmed up in the gym it’s go time. Just have to fight through that initial hump
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:01 PM
11

A lot of people complain about their energy levels is typically caused by their diet. Cut out sugar. Drink plenty of water. Eat only Whole Foods. Eat veggies. Meals should consist of carb source, protein source, veggies Example: chicken rice and veggies Chicken potatoes and veggies
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:56 PM
2

The psychology is that girls never have to face confrontation. They lie to not have to face confrontation. They’re protected their whole lives. They’d rather lie and make up an excuse because it’s less confrontational. Men do this too. One girl I had respect for was just like “sorry I can’t hangout today, something came up”. She didn’t even bother to make up an excuse so that was cool. But yeah bro. It doesn’t matter, if a girl likes you she won’t cancel.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:34 PM
1

I feel that bro, thanks
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:57 AM
1

Don’t that’s an awful idea
/r/seduction02/02/21 04:16 AM
3

Your suspicion of what happened sounds about right. It hurts a mans ego to know a girl he likes had a thing for his friend instead of him. Almost as if he’s second option. Or he started seeing somebody. Really anything could be the reason, best way to find out is to ask him directly
/r/seduction02/02/21 03:49 AM
1

I seriously have no idea what “do you believe in something?” Means. Yes, I believe in a lot of things.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:53 AM
1

Plates/fwb Im in a new city. I enjoy going out for drinks and trying new restaurants and checking out new places. Which is what I’ve been doing with women. I want a LTR when I meet a girl I’m really attracted to, but my current rotation, I don’t want a LTR/exclusivity with any of them. Just fwb/plates. Some I enjoy fwb with and some I want strictly plates
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:07 AM
1

Great advice Do you think I should just go with the motions with a girl? I.e. hang out, dates, be intimate, be affectionate, sex? and just keep doing this until she brings up the “what are we?” Convo?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:51 AM
1

Yes Like cook a dinner? Was thinking of just going out for drinks and coming back to my place after
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:59 AM
16

Gym? Man. I wish I had a male friend who was on a path of self improvement. I made a new friend with a dude in my apartment complex, first time we hung out we smoked weed and chilled in a car til 4 am. Can’t do that again. Also you’re in a small town, I feel like like-minded men would be in big cities.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:51 AM
1

What do you mean by believe in something? I’ll try to focus on not being outcome dependent
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:30 PM
1

I feel you bro. Guess I just wanted to see what other people do. Is it fucked up to do it this way? Less problematic to do it a certain way? Etc.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:22 PM
3

In MY opinion I’d keep it to yourself. Let the girl find out. Let her experience your personality before she mentally puts you in the box or “dorky nerd”. That’s just how I do it, personally. Do what you want. It just feels like girls start putting me in that box when I tell them. Software engineer btw As a matter of fact some girls have no idea wtf I do because they don’t even ask. I’m definitely the type of engineer who is anti-engineer. I try to not fit the stereotypical mold of engineer.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:54 PM
1

The answer to your question asking for a cold approach move is to walk up confidently and say one of the two things I said in my comments. You’re welcome.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:20 PM
1

I answered your question directly. You asked for a cold approach pick up line/move. That’s the move. And a lot of people agree.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:19 PM
2

You’re an idiot. I have 5 upvotes on my answer. You’re welcome. Keep it simple, be confident and direct.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:09 PM
7

No, not at all. Follow the KISS method. Like the other commenter said, there is no magic pickup line. You approach with confidence and she’s either gonna like you or she’s not. Ok. Say something like “hey my names XXXX, you caught my attention and I was wondering if I could get your phone number”
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:06 AM
10

“Hey my name is XXXXX what’s your name?”
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:01 AM
0

How the fuck are you gonna get a rotation of 7-8’s with the body of an adolescent boy bro? You said you dress alright, aim to dress fuckin phenomenal. Go on tik tok and see what the trends are. I’ll give you a hint, Air Force 1’s, Jordan 1’s, Jordan 4’s, baggy pants, loose t’s, dope colors. Fitted hats. Just to name a few Do you have a cologne that ppl compliment you on? Are you the guy that always smells good? If not change that
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:06 PM
0

Don’t try then bro, you have a defeatist mindset You’re 6’2 skinny as fuck with bad posture. It’s not your face How about send me a picture of your face and I’ll let you know if it’s your face and what you can improve on “Tall ugly buff ogre” I’m not telling you to get buff, you have the body of a child. You do not have the body of a man.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:35 PM
0

I appreciate you being open and honest with yourself and with me. You are 6’2 and 160 lbs. You are skinny as fuck. I am 6’0 205lbs, 10-13% body fat. You still haven’t tapped into a whole new level where your body is amazing and you know it. You will become a completely different person when this happens. You’re 6’2 and 160lbs, you have the body of an adolescent boy and you’re wondering why you aren’t attracting women. Sure your face will look the same, but body is a big component to attraction. …
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:20 PM
0

You’re over 6 feet tall and skinny, according to you. How tall are you exactly and how much do you weigh? How do you expect to attract women when you have the body of a young boy? Do you dress great? Not decent, great? Do you smell good? Do you have straight teeth? Do you have the best possible haircut that flatters you the most? Do you have clear skin? Do you have a facial routine? There’s a lot more to it than just facial features.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:06 PM
0

Yes. But judging by his comments, he fits under the mindset of “I can’t compete with Chad therefore I shouldn’t even try.” He isn’t even going to attempt to be the best version of himself because he deems it pointless. Sure Chad vs best version is no competition. But best version of OP vs current version of OP would not be struggling with women.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:03 PM
1

You haven’t even tried. Hit the weight room 4-5x a week, eat at least 150g of protein every single day for 6 months then talk about trying.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:19 PM
1

Yes, my point exactly. Point I was trying to make is that short guys think they are handicapped for their height.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:16 PM
0

How old are you? How tall are you?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:12 PM
7

I agree it was a good move by you to provide that comfort via text. I did something similar but I waited two days before reaching out. You did your part, so just wait for her. Absolutely under no circumstance do you double text and reach out again.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:24 PM
1

I can give you 50%. Considering height does a lot for women. But if a dude is 5’8, dresses well, groomed well, fitness on point. That dude will not struggle with women I PROMISE you. One of my best friends is 5’7, I’m 6’1. He’s gotten girls that I wanted badly. Handsome ass dude, clean af, fashion on point always.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:19 PM
0

So you have a 6 pack abs?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:05 PM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:05 PM
1

Oh so you are a defeatist. It doesn’t take 10 years to achieve optimal physique. 6 months of working on yourself will do. You said you were skinny skinny. Man. You’re a defeatist. I challenge you for 6 months to fix your diet and workout regimen. 175g protein every single day. Working out 4-5x a week. This will change your life.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:02 PM
1

Yes if Chad and average joe both do maxxing Chad will be ahead. Problem is a lot of average Joe’s don’t compete at all because they think they already lost to Chad.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:57 PM
1

Hell no bro, stop being a defeatist 100%? Absolutely not. I will agree if Chad and average joe both max out their looks Chad will be ahead. There’s also dudes who have Chad genes and don’t do any maxing out and are ugly. I have a friend in this category as well. 6’4 the long and lanky kind, shit posture, teeth tinted yellow, scrawny. Chiseled jawline. Unappealing haircut. Dresses decent. This guy has what you refer to as Chad genes. Which is basically a good looking face and height. Everything e…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:56 PM
1

I disagree. I’ve never met a Chad who didn’t put any work in to his appearance. Friend of mine is a Chad 100%. He cares so so so much about his physical appearance, he’s highly insecure. But this is the most gorgeous friend I have and everybody knows it. Women throw themselves at him constantly. Outfit always on point, fitness on point, haircut always on point.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:31 PM
4

I believe a lot of men have a defeatist mindset and don’t unlock their potential. Braces + laser teeth whitening, Getting your diet right, Working on fitness 4-5x a week, Upgrading wardrobe, Smelling good, Getting optimal haircut This is a lifestyle. I truly from the bottom of my heart, believe if a guy did all those things above he would have no problem with ladies and confidence would be sky high. Problem is guys don’t put in the work. Side note, being 10% body fat completely and I mean COMPLE…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:28 PM
1

Appreciate you bro. I got you. I definitely enjoyed vibing with this girl so I’ll continue to do so. And personally I start to feel like a rat in a cage if I’m constantly just in my apartment all the time so I’ll probably be asking her out to places.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:17 AM
3

Thanks. Followed this advice and decided not to overthink. She responded and has been receptive over text do you think I should invite a girl like this over to my place constantly from here on out? like should I take her on dates at all?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:54 AM
1

do you think I should invite a girl like this over to my place constantly from here on out? like should I take her on dates at all?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:53 AM
1

I needed to read this, thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:43 AM
1

I figured that was the case. She was super horny. “She will respond enthusiastically if she wants more” agreed, thanks
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:29 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:47 PM
1

Same bro
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:29 PM
1

Thanks for that. Sometimes I let out my aggression on them for things that have been done to me in the past. Why do you say they’re not?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:14 PM
3

How do I fully swallow the pill?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:40 AM
1

💯
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:35 AM
1

How do you keep this up with multiple women? I.e. woman 1 expects your time everyday, but woman 2 does also
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:37 AM
0

I feel like this is what I’m doing which results in them getting more clingy
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:42 PM
1

Yeah
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:42 PM
0

I see. She’s not blowing up my phone or anything. But just texting me more frequently. I guess not clinginess, but showing higher interest. But I feel like that’s a precursor to clinginess since we haven’t seen each other that long
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:20 PM
5

Peeped your history. Bruh u good looking for sure, and you can grow a beard. Honestly you just have a skinny body frame. I think you need to put on some more muscle
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:10 AM
3

How is your fitness? What’s your body fat %? How is your fashion sense? How is your grooming? Look up king von. Is that what you mean by grown out hair? Or more of like an Afro ?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:02 AM
3

Needed to read this. I agree. In a new town and I don’t have many friends, only reason I’ve been considering a dog. In my hometown the thought of having a dog never crossed my mind.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:51 AM
3

Yup
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:45 PM
8

I’ve contemplated this. You can be soft with a dog and they’ll still love you, idk.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:26 PM
1

Nice
/r/askTRP11/01/21 10:17 PM
1

The thing that sucks about slick little shady disrespect is you’ll be seen as a hot head who has a short temper and overall unpleasant to be around
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:19 AM
3

Man honestly I struggle with this too. I just don’t know how to react to slick disrespect. The kind that’s not explicit disrespect. Pisses me off.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:23 AM
1

I know we’re supposed to be amoral, but I guess growing up blue pill I’m still trying to kill some of those tendencies. So yeah I feel guilt cause I think she wants a relationship out of me. Any advice?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:20 AM
0

You regretted backing off? How come?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:09 AM
8

You’re that dude bro
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:59 AM
1

You’re bald with a beard? That’s a badass look, if you have great fashion you shouldn’t be struggling. Great fashion + great fitness, absolutely no reason you’d be struggling. You have a lot to work on. I suggest checking out teachmensfashion and Alex costa on YouTube. They’re young and in touch with current trends in fashion. Teeth is something to work on later when you have the above nailed down. Or now if you need braces.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:12 PM
9

What are you doing externally? Are your finances good? Do you dress well? Are you in good physical condition? If so or if not, just tell yourself everyday “damn I’m that dude”.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:19 PM
1

Can you grow a beard? Are you in peak physical condition? Is your style great? Not good, great? Are you known as a guy who dresses well? Do you get compliments on a particular pair of shoes you wear, or a particular jacket or anything? Do you smell good? Do people know you as a guy who smells good? Do you get compliments on the way you smile? Are your teeth bright white and straight?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:18 PM
1

The difference I’m considering is a 25 minutes to work everyday vs short commute around 5 minutes. Once my office opens back up we’ll be expected to work from office
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:13 AM
1

I will be starting to work from office again
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:12 AM
2

Hi bud, commented on another post. Currently I have 5 meals in rotation. Chicken rice and Brussel sprouts Chicken potatoes and green beans Pork chops rice and Brussel sprouts or green beans Ground turkey chili made with green and red pepper, red onion, crushed tomato, black beans and red beans and chili seasoning mix. Chipotle chicken rice and beans But the answer to your post is a lot of rice, beans, and potatoes.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:07 AM
1

Damn bruh. What’s taking you so long to self improve? Never have my coworkers had to tell me how to get girls out of pity. I’ve always been pretty swole/jacked since I was 17, and have been decent looking. When you’re like this people assume you get girls. Not trying to toot my own horn. But it sounds like they perceive you as hella low smv if they feel the need to try and help you. Hit the weight room 5x a week. 1 gram of protein per lb of body weight a day. Google “best haircuts for men” and g…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:04 AM
2

What do you define as self-improvement? Self-improvement encompasses everything that goes into making yourself more attractive. Haircut, hygiene, fitness, fashion, money, interests, status. The fact that your ex is telling you you think you’re better than people pretty much sums it up. It sounds like you’re projecting to the outside world that you’re self improving and you’re also being arrogant about it. Yes need to adopt a “I’m better than the person I was yesterday.” Seems like your mindset i…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:55 AM
1

See it for what it is. Attention seeking. Women’s primary currency is attention. And they get unlimited attention on the internet by just showing off their body. So why not?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:48 AM
1

Did you not read the first sentence of my post?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:04 AM
6

I think with covid there is a lot more people on dating apps in general and a lot more girls just using them for free attention. I feel dating apps still have a general negative stigma behind them also so before covid there would be a lot more people on there who actually had intentions to meet up. Just my hypothesis. Oh and another down side to a lot of people on dating apps is there are a lot better looking guys and guys in general are getting better at presenting themselves online. Taking hig…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:21 AM
1

Self improvement
/r/seduction21/12/20 12:09 AM
1

Nah man, I’ve actually upvoted some answers
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:51 AM
1

Yes when I’m comfortable and confident they’re dry. I’ve tried anti persirant, it worked a bit. I should try it again
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:13 PM
17

You’re right man. I ended up going and enjoyed it
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:04 AM
1

I just don’t know how to dance. Also I have this hand condition where my hands sweat a lot, it sucks, so dancing and being touchy has always been difficult for me
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:37 AM
3

What do you mean you got played? How did you get played? What did somebody do to you to play you
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:46 PM
1

I was skeptical of female roommate. But the general consensus is that it’s a bad idea. Will look for male roommate
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:21 PM
4

This king 👑
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:14 AM
6

Even for a plate tho?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:54 AM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:58 AM
2

How old are you? There’s a guy at my gym who’s fkn JACKED, super swole and he’s probably like 5’5 if I had to guess. Salute to that guy. He’s always there with his girlfriend who’s like the same height as him. Get fkn JACKED before you come on here. There’s no statistics for dudes who are short af and swole like that.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:29 AM
1

I would agree. But it wasn’t a sure thing. She said we can hangout tomorrow IF XYZ If it was a sure thing I’d probably reschedule for the next day
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:54 PM
2

You’re absolutely right thank you.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:49 PM
2

What I needed to hear, thanks bro.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:49 PM
1

Her reasoning was valid and she sounds remorseful. I do want to reschedule. Just wanted to know if I should reschedule for Saturday or a weekday? Considering she was my Friday plans and now she would be my Saturday plans also.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:04 PM
1

Definitely man, especially 2. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:37 PM
1

I was dumb honestly. My ego grew large. I had a vision of the perfect girlfriend who was ambitious and motivated and went to the gym. Because I was a gym head who took his diet and career serious I wanted a girlfriend who was also that way. Basically I tried controlling her, forcing her to gym with me, forcing her to eat a healthy diet and take her career seriously, all things she didn’t want to do. I did it the wrong way. I was direct and confrontational about it. My mindset is changed now as I…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:12 PM
2

The first thing anyone ever said about her was about how pretty/hot she was. Literally everyone. If I posted her on my insta/Snapchat a girls would respond with “she’s so pretty!” When we’d be out in public guys would literally give me props for being with her. She’d come to my basketball games and every single dude would be glaring at her. I really don’t think I imagined or amplified it at all lol. But man. I really don’t think think its in my head at all, physically she is my dream girl, serio…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:54 AM
1

You know what actually happened. That’s all that matters.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:44 PM
1

I feel like all the girls I’ve met off hinge have been my looks match. Mmmmm can’t say the same for bumble though, never used tinder
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:34 PM
2

How is she acting like she cut you off if you cut off contact, like how do you know she’s acting this way
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:24 PM
15

Idk. I’d feel uncomfortable with it. But I fear commitment and hate women getting attached to me.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:55 PM
8

I read this completely wrong. Thought it was the other way around and she wanted you to get her name tatted on you. Uh damn. Idk. I wouldn’t let her do it.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:51 PM
12

Bro no wtf is wrong with you Actually idk. I feel like it might trigger pre-selection with future hoes.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:44 PM
1

You were right. Everyone else’s roasted tf out of me. Fucked her a couple times and she wants to keep seeing me.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:38 PM
1

Just following up. Everyone else roasted tf out of me for the way I handled this. Ended up fucking this girl a couple times and she wants to see me more. Your assumption was spot on. My assumption was that because my ex was so attractive she thought I had impenetrable confidence and could just be mean as fuck to me.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:37 PM
0

I’m trying to fight this urge to let her know, but why shouldn’t I? Just pisses me off that she’ll probably do this to the next guy. Pisses me off that women have it so easy that they can just say “ehh I don’t feel like hanging out with this guy anymore 🤷🏻‍♂️” and just ghost without giving a fuck that she wasted someone’s time. At least if I let her know she’ll be reluctant to pull this with the next guy.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:06 PM
2

I keep telling young people who are considering NOT going to uni, would you rather be 22 with a career you can fall back on, or 22 with no career to fall back on and your endeavors failed. In my personal opinion it’s best to be 22 knowing you still have a degree/technical skill you can fall back on. Also read this book: Worthless: The Young Person's Indispensable Guide to Choosing the Right Major https://www.amazon.com/dp/1467978302/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabt1_kIFUFb6JZ9TKV
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:32 AM
3

Why haven’t you answered people asking you your age?
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:28 AM
1

Yeah Idk. Just don’t be a dick. If he were the type of guy who you thought he was initially and was actually bluffing that would just make you a bully. Who gives a fuck if some kid is bragging about his sex life or anything for that matter? What made YOU feel like you HAD TO say something about it? Idk. If I thought dude was bluffing I wouldn’t call him out on it. Cause if he was that insecure to the point he’d have to lie about it I’d just feel bad.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 12:33 AM
5

🤣🤣🤣 yea bro u asked for it
/r/askTRP22/11/20 12:06 AM
7

How do you even get into a situation like this? How did this even start?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 11:56 PM
5

How old are you
/r/askTRP21/11/20 11:45 PM
3

How old are you?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:24 AM
1

The answer is that she’s using you for free attention.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:03 PM
1

Why wouldn’t she ask you?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:02 PM
3

You still don’t understand girls or red pill. Women LIVE OFF of attention/validation. If they can get it from multiple men they will.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:19 PM
1

So in a month? It doesn’t matter what she says. Hang out with her anyway. Either she likes you and wants to cheat or she’s using you for free attention and validation. Judging on the fact that you text her every day 10-30 minutes in between I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s just using you for free attention.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:17 PM
1

You said you asked her to go out
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:11 PM
1

I don’t know what advice to give. 10-30 minutes for a couple days straight? Jesus Christ. Stop replying so fast and so much. Try to see her in person. What’s the point of texting?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:08 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:04 PM
3

Hoping people get STD’s, giving your unsolicited opinion on a guys sex life. You are rude, and delusional about it.
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:26 PM
2

You insulted him first because you are jealous of his sex life. So no “sexhavers” aren’t rude and egotistical, that’s you.
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:10 PM
1

He was bragging about his sex life and it made you angry? Why? Did he insult you first, or did you insult him first?
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:07 PM
2

Why did you get angry? Sounds like you were rude and egotistical first and then he fired back at you.
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:03 PM
2

There’s the answer.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:58 AM
3

Did that happen in real life?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:23 AM
1

20 min isn’t too bad just don’t go during rush hour I have a gym 2 min away from me, literally across the street. For some reason I don’t workout there. I have 2 memberships. I just like the general feeling/vibe of the other gym I go to. The one across from me has a nice basketball court so I’m there 3-4x a week. And also lift 4x a week at the other.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:16 PM
1

Probably how I fucked up too. How do you do this? One girl was giving me crazy hard IOI’s I actually was getting scared cause I thought she was crazy. First date saying she liked me and wanted to continue dating me. I legit didn’t respond when she said that. Cause I was honestly freaked out a little bit. Her words were “I like you, I want to date you and get to know each other more.” I legit said “😐”. She got kind of weird and was like “You don’t seem enthused.” That was first date. Second date …
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:13 PM
4

Man idk. Two girls ghosted me after me trying to escalate sexually. My assumption is because I tried to attain sex too early. I posted in dating_advice and a bunch of feminist girls basically shamed me because it was clear I only wanted those girls for sex and they knew it so they ghosted me. asktrp said otherwise lol. Apparently I was too pussy and didn’t pursue sex hard enough and it turned the girls off that I didn’t pursue sex hard enough, which I thought was rapey af.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:12 PM
5

I just can’t believe a girl that’s 6’1 is high smv. She’s taller than most men, she probably has scarcity mindset as even the tall guys want shorter girls. But yeah as the other guy said, just try again. 3 dates rule of thumb is a good rule of thumb. If after 3 dates nothing happens then just stop communicating with her.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 12:32 AM
1

This. She is COMPLETELY unphased by my yelling. When I’m yelling she’s calm. This pisses me tf off. When I’m calm she listens. That pisses me tf off. I guess because when I’m yelling it’s because I’m angry and want to be heard. Feels like I have to change myself for her. But I guess I want others to tell me yelling is no good so I can change myself for me.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:24 PM
1

That’s deep man I’ll try to remember that, thank you
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:47 AM
2

Actual yelling and screaming. I need to hear stuff like that. Thank you. I need to control myself better
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:32 AM
5

This is how I aspire to be. Idk why when I voice things that upset me and they’re denied it pisses me off and I lose my self control. Need to work on that.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:31 AM
1

this red pill not mgtow
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:50 AM
1

I’m in the same exact boat bro. I need advice on this too. I have a scarcity mindset because my ex is smoking fucking hot. No other girl compares besides ig model types. Even when I’d go out with my boys pre-covid I’d never see a girl that was more attractive than my ex.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:29 AM
1

Second chance she was great. Mentally I just couldn’t get over her entering a relationship with somebody else + she did/said a lot of things that fucked me up during the 3 months we weren’t together and she was in a relationship with someone else. I tried getting her back. She kept telling me “I need time to figure myself out” but was actually in a relationship without me knowing. Basically leading me on for about a month. Plus did other things after I found out. And I didn’t find out that the o…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:54 PM
3

Yeah 100%. Been over a year and a half now, still regret it. I’ve gotten better. Our stories are similar but different. Similar in the sense that she did something I can’t forgive. She started a new relationship after we broke up. Almost immediately. Lasted two months, they split and we got back together. A bunch of shit happened during those two months. Things I can’t get over. Ultimately I regret it because I was a shitty boyfriend to her while we were together (before rebound) and she just wa…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:25 PM
1

If you choose to prolong the relationship with the selfish agenda of increasing smv. Which is what I did. It worked for me. At the time I was still working on the relationship but was preparing in case we did break up. Which we did
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:01 PM
2

Also her her to take cool pics of you. Went on a Hawaii trip with my ex, she took a bunch of cool pics for my dating profile.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:30 PM
1

I feel you. I fear karma a lot. And often struggle with the idea that karma is fake and shit is just coincidental or karma is very real. Idk. Man. I hear you. For a long time I felt dead inside, like there was a big gaping hole inside. Because I lost a huge piece of me and my life. If you’re good looking, have social status, and have charisma you’ll be fine. But the drastic change of life between having a partner and not having a partner will take its toll.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:55 PM
2

I hear you brother. Been in a similar situation. In my case felt like all I had to do was forgive her for one thing and I’d be happy with her but I just couldn’t do it. If you can’t see yourself forgiving her, then you just have to brace yourself. Break ups are brutal. I constantly had depressive episodes, felt dead inside, loss of motivation in everything in life. Only things that make me feel better is dating new girls and working on myself. I’ve still yet to meet a girl who compares to my ex.…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:57 PM
26

It’s been a struggle. Self improvement has been drastic though. Because of initial quarantine I tried a new hairstyle I was scared to try and it’s boosted my confidence tremendously. Luckily still have my job so I’ve been investing into my fashion/style a lot. Only thing I can do is hit the weight room so all I do is lift now, body looking crazy and I physically feel better than ever. But fuck. I’m sick of wearing masks. I’m sick of social distancing. Cold approaches are a struggle, going out is…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:54 PM
1

I hear you bro. Thank you. As for the plate. She did something that pissed me tf off, had to let her know. But yeah she’s cut off
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:28 PM
1

I hear there’s girls like that who pretty much want approval badly so they always self deprecate. Never had a girl like that tho lol Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:58 PM
3

this is subjective. In my opinion yes. But i wouldn’t give a fuck, just wouldn’t make LTR
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:36 PM
4

I spent 3.5 years with a girl who I was highly attracted to. I always initiated because I was always horny and was driven by my urge to fuck her. Why is this an issue to you?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:19 AM
1

My mistake
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:59 PM
1

What does that mean?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:19 PM
3

Yes. I was broke in college. Didn’t give a fuck because I was working toward a goal. I was more worried about finding a job after graduating.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:02 PM
1

I’ve never met a natural. Good for your friends though.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:35 PM
1

You got 6 pack abs? What’s your bench? Squat? Deadlift? Overhead shoulder press?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:14 AM
1

Oh I think he’s fine now. I mean at age 18 he’d be that way. Lately he’s more confident in himself due to all the self improvement.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:03 AM
1

I deleted my comment contents felt like it didn’t answer the question. Pursuing high value is worth it if you do it right. Expand your social circle, always inviting people to hangout with you. Meeting their friends and it continues. I’m not that way and I moved to a new city and I’m a loner and get lonely sometimes. I just felt like it was something he wanted and then pursued, nothing deeper really. It does suck that when he’s not at a high value function and no women are around he’s just bored…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:27 AM
3

Bro what the fuck. There’s no such thing as natural attractiveness. If you’ve been friends with a chad you’ll know they put tons and tons of work into their appearance and overall lifestyle. To answer your question, getting sex isn’t important. Just masturbate as you said no on will give a fuck. Men are expendable.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:32 AM
2

Not only do they make it harder, it’s also cowardly and autistic af. Not hard at all to just say “sorry I don’t think we should see each other anymore”
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:07 AM
1

Do you count calories protein and carbs? You need to be getting at least 120g protein a day
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:51 PM
4

Count your calories and protein and carbs and come back with numbers. What’s your weight?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:40 PM
4

Interesting. I always wondered about this. But nah man I can’t. I had sex with one girl I wasn’t physically attracted to and I can’t do it again.
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:08 PM
5

Why are you getting defensive? Gave advice in a different comment btw.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:33 PM
18

I’m just anti-ghosting/blocking girls because then you create a society where girls are scared of getting ghosted if they have sex with a dude, so they then make it harder for the next guy to have sex with them.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:27 PM
5

Why would you block them? Just have sex with them again
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:13 PM
2

How do you meet women in other countries? IRL or dating apps?
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:09 PM
0

I know. I’m trying to not be that way. Which is why I came to askmrp, to get perspective/advice from older dudes
/r/askMRP09/11/20 08:25 PM
1

I’m 24, 6’1, 205lbs, 10-12% body fat. Lift 5x a week.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:40 PM
0

I’m 24, I lift a lot, and I still feel a void. I feel like ive done nothing but work on myself for the last 5 years. All I do is lift, eat a strict diet, have a cool engineer job. I have my own place and pay all my own bills. Have good money and live comfortably. I still feel a void. I still miss my ex terribly. I still have low self esteem.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:40 PM
1

I really don’t understand what you’re saying or think I’m doing. I still have severe oneitis for my ex girlfriend. She’s 25 I’m 24. Wanted to ask some married guys if they believe in love. I think I’m in love with her but she’s the only girlfriend I’ve ever had. I want her back often.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:27 PM
1

No
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:26 PM
2

Thank you
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:24 PM
1

I don’t get it
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:13 AM
2

I feel like this. I feel like my life is an empty void just going day by day waiting until I’m done with life. I know I need to have a purpose I just don’t know what that is.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 02:59 AM
0

I guess I wanted an answer from a red pill perspective. I travel a couple times a year with friends so I can see how that might be difficult to do. But being red pill I’ve developed this ideology that no one gives a fuck about me, besides my mom and maybe my brothers. But other than that a woman would never love us. But dogs do, I think, idk.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:22 AM
1

6’1
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:07 PM
1

No bro. You brought this upon yourself. You already know a lot of girls are liberal. You intentionally displayed that you’re a Trump supporter. You knew the outcome and now you’re complaining about it.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:48 AM
2

Happens to me all the time lol. I always say “I have a strong heart”
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:43 PM
1

Oh so you brought all of this upon yourself and then came here to complain about the outcome
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:29 PM
2

Up to you. Some guys have different tactics. I’m not a tap dancing monkey, so I’m not going to try and entertain a girl in hopes of her liking me. I’d offer or ask for her number, then I’ll text her to set up a date. Simple
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:43 PM
2

Idk honestly, that’s just what I would do as I don’t like wasting a girls time trying to increase her interest. Also don’t want to waste my own time. So, grab the number -> ask for a date And she either likes me or she doesn’t
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:37 PM
8

Nah bro, do you. Idk what’s up with me, but when a plate develops feelings for me I start feeling immense guilt. I’m a relationship kind of guy. So I’m stuck in a predicament. I know the exact kind of woman I want, but I also know that woman is highly desired has many options etc. what do I do in the meantime in pursuit of that woman? Be a sexless virgin? No thanks
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:27 PM
7

Very weird to ask a complete stranger if you can shop with them. I’d say get her number or Instagram if your Instagram is solid That’s awesome though bro, congratulations. I know it’s hard to overcome approach anxiety so good on you.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:23 PM
1

“Women are people too” False. No I’m kidding haha, partially.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 04:46 AM
1

We’re genetically and biologically programmed to want and enjoy sex. It never gets boring because of that.
/r/seduction05/11/20 11:16 PM
4

Oh yeah. Just talk less lol I recently just fucked up too cause I over talked. Sucks cause it only happens when I actually like a girl. I get comfortable with her and start talking too much
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:13 PM
2

You’re probably just giving off beta provider vibes. Throw in some bad boy to your overall image. I’m the same. Engineer, good job, I realized my “image” was more wholesome dude that could be a beta provider. Had to switch it up
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:57 PM
2

It’s ok, I love you ❤️
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:32 PM
11

That’s the point of dread bruh. If you’re motivated and ambitious your girl will be too. Happened to me and my ex. I got fat, she got depressed.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:27 PM
1

You posted on asktrp whether something was a good example of AA, and my answer is no. It is not an example of AA, at all. It was a disagreement and one person chose not to disagree further.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:21 PM
1

I’m not going to explain this to you again. One guy says he needs to save money, he disagrees with his sentiment and amplified his own original sentiment, which is no I will not spend money. Therefore, a disagreement. Not agree and amplify. It’s a disagreement. The other guy could’ve said, “you need to spend some of the money you hoard.” Instead he chose not to continue the disagreement.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:04 PM
2

It’s literally disagreeing. First dude said he should spend money, his response is saying no, I save money. So you’re saying he agreed with himself? Lol
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:31 PM
38

Take a look at yourself in the mirror. Are you ambitious, do you dress great and work on yourself constantly? Sounds like you never applied dread which is why she is like that. To answer your question, just do it. There’s no easy way and there is never a right time to break up with someone, you just have to do it. There is no path with less pain for the other person.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:08 PM
2

How is that example agreeing? He’s disagreeing with their sentiments that he needs to spend his money. They asked what the point of saving money, his response was that he simply hoards it. He’s literally disagreeing.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:56 PM
9

You could’ve just said you feel sick
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:13 PM
1

How do they know you’re a Trump supporter
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:02 PM
3

“I don’t talk about politics”
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:00 AM
1

You gotta work on that masculine frame bro. Walk around with your chin high and your chest up. Don’t play fkn games with people, be about your business.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:07 AM
1

I suggest to always ignore, always. Don’t even give it any energy at all whatsoever. Do this for a while and see how it changes. I promise it will. Seems like you’re trying to go along with it to show you’re unphased, but it’s not working. Either ignore or embrace being the aggressor. That’s my advice and that’s how I’d handle it.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:00 PM
1

What is your response in person when youre mocked? When they mock you and insult you how do you react? I dont want to come off harsh but it sounds like in this situation youre the one thats displaying the qualities you listed above. Youre avoiding this conflict and allowing it, youre also not having a backbone if people keep insulting you and mocking you. I hope when they mock you and insult you youre not laughing along with them. You need to literally not react at all. Not be moved by it at all…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:22 PM
1

How would you know a man is cowardly, avoids conflict, and cant fight? Passive aggressiveness is my biggest pet peeve, I hate passive aggressiveness. But I feel like I am a man who avoids conflict, I dont know if I even know how to fight cause I havent been in one. Does that make me feminine? What constitutes "Having a back bone"? And in what situation are these characteristics even being displayed?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:46 PM
2

I misunderstood your comment as your family not allowing you to move. What country are you in?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:26 PM
4

Part of being red pill is doing whatever the fuck it is that YOU want to do. Youre a MAN. Cant be letting your family control your life decisions. You should hear them out and listen to what they have to say, but ultimately you must decide and not let people hold you back from what you want to do.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:35 PM
2

Why dont you move to a big city?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:09 PM
1

I dont think social media is pathetic. Guys with high value profiles displaying high value activities and being social get A LOT of girls off social media. Its hypergamy and preselection. Ive gotten girls off of posting high value stuff on social media. But im not on that level where I post myself doing a lot of high value stuff. Just every now and then I go on a cool trip. As for snapchat though? I need to delete it. Im talking more about instagram.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:08 PM
3

How did you plate 18-19 year olds, am also 24.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:52 PM
1

So where is the lie? Sounds like youre not even lying to them if they know youre sleeping with other girls.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:12 PM
1

Good question. I think that hunger comes from not being content with your life. I grew up poor so I was obsessed with landing a good job all throughout college. I was not content with my life AT ALL. I saw what poverty looked like and the stress it brings and quality of life associated with it and I wanted more for myself. I did. And now idk wtf. Im pretty content with my life so I feel like I dont really have motivation for success. I work my job which I enjoy, and I chill the rest of the time.…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:04 PM
8

Improve yourself. Get the dread going.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:45 AM
9

5 usually 3 is better than 0
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:18 PM
0

That’s what I wanna do and that’s why I want to delete her off social media, out of sight out of mind. But also don’t want to come off butthurt
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:32 AM
6

Me neither. To me, 8 is a girl that’s super hot. 9 could be a model and is also insanely fkn hot, immediately catches everyone’s attention everywhere she goes. 10 is like a supermodel perfect woman. 7 is very good looking but has some very minor flaws. 6 is a good looking girl. 5 is average girl nothing special. I plate 6’s and above. But have never plated anything above 6 lol.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:36 AM
1

got damn
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:14 AM
2

What’s an 8 to you?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:09 AM
3

It’s cause u don’t fap lol I fap like 2x a day and I have the opposite problem. I take forever to bust. Girls always tell me to hurry up. Which I like. Because then they think they don’t sexually satisfy me and it makes them want to make me bust badly
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:53 AM
1

I think you should start focusing on bodybuilding and following a bodybuilding regiment. Diet + workout routine
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:50 PM
1

I think you should start focusing on bodybuilding and following a bodybuilding regiment. Diet + workout routine
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:50 PM
2

Man. Don’t let a woman consume you. When you understand that women give no fucks about men and will do anything that’s in their best interest you won’t be phased by this type shit. Learn from this and don’t let it happen again.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:23 PM
1

Think you handled it like a G honestly
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:22 PM
1

Were you previously overweight and lost a lot of weight? Kinda looks like you have loose skin. I say you need to build more muscle, work on your decline bench press. I recommend your chest workout consisting of 4 exercises, flat, then decline, then incline, then chest flies.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:21 PM
2

You recently followed a random girl on social media that you dont even know? Why?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:20 PM
5

She clearly still has control of you and your life. As hard as it is you need to focus on you and your life, not hers.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:03 PM
4

From ams I heard to do this you need to just not laugh at your own jokes. I agree
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:51 PM
6

I guess I want to learn from those who are older than me and have more experience. Wanting to know if any guys regret getting married. Is it a good idea or just completely avoid it. I was thinking the general trend might have been they married but it’s too late now since they have a family already and don’t want to split bc of kids. I guess because I want to have a family some day but my views on marriage are fucked. My parents don’t love each other, I have an uncle who has openly said he regret…
/r/askMRP28/10/20 03:15 AM
4

That definitely is one of my life goals. Thank you.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 02:55 AM
1

There’s a difference between trp and mrp? Thought MRP was just TRP but for guys who are married lol
/r/askMRP28/10/20 02:54 AM
4

How so?
/r/askMRP28/10/20 01:58 AM
7

Idk. One time a girl asked me to send her a dick pic, I said “sorry I don’t do that” and she just unmatched me. Another time a girl asked me to send her $15 on cashapp and she’d let me go over and “make it up to me” I said “no sorry I don’t do that” and she unmatched me
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:16 PM
21

Status is the most powerful of all, man.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:44 PM
2

Protein is any meat, I usually do ground turkey, ground beef, chicken breast, or pork chops. Very rarely I eat fish Veggies: I only eat green beans or Brussel sprouts, or a fajita veggie mix Carb source: rice or potatoes
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:46 PM
7

A lot of protein Typically it’s Breakfast: 6 eggs + oatmeal Lunch: protein, carb source, veggies Dinner: protein, carb source, veggies End of day: protein shake
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:05 AM
9

I started off really skinny so it was much more noticeable. But I think the biggest thing we gain is confidence. And when you lower your body fat percentage to sub 13% it literally changes your face structure. Makes your jaw more prominent.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:06 AM
1

Just to be happy
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:11 PM
1

I work a typical office job. Evenings I’m free, and weekends.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:41 AM
10

Hell yea lmao. Flaking hurts more than anything, like? It would’ve been better had they not even agreed at all
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:05 AM
29

Was in the same position as you bro. Decided to continue working on myself. I had a 2 month drought. Couldn’t get a plate. I continued working on myself. Worked on my body a lot and my fashion. Traveled somewhere with my bro’s and my good bro took pics of me. Appreciate him a lot for that. I’ve been relying on online dating myself and I agree it’s poisonous as FUCK. I think competition is sky high right now because most people are relying on it to meet people. Luckily I’ve been able to get two g…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:48 PM
1

Always look presentable. My work clothes are casual wear. My gym clothes look good, IMO. My chill at home clothes look good, IMO. I’ve been working from home and I look good when I do that. The phrase look good feel good is very true. Strive to always look presentable and you’ll feel better about yourself.
/r/seduction22/10/20 05:37 PM
1

I am a loser with no friends though lol. Jk I’m not a loser. But I am in a new city and have no male friends. Just been dating multiple women. Though that’s fun, I want some bros. I see what you mean though, thanks.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:27 PM
1

Did you even watch the video I sent? Body is one part of it. Confidence is key. You’ve ignored everything else I said. Women are attracted to confidence, not self loathing, self defeating, self deprecating men who feel sorry for themselves. Do the things I said above and gain some confidence. Body is one part of it. You need to work on everything else, your grooming, your fashion sense, your skincare.
/r/seduction22/10/20 05:25 PM
2

Nah, just a standard benchmark. Seeing if you really lifted or are just coming up with excuses. Getting your body right is one part of it, getting your fashion sense right is another part of it, getting a good haircut, and taking care of your skin are the other parts. Once you accomplish all those there’s no way you won’t have a good level of confidence, and there’s no way not a single girl wouldn’t be interested in you. These are just things I believe every man must do to unlock a high level of…
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:53 PM
2

You had a 6 pack abs, could bench 225 for reps, squat 225 for reps? Deadlift 315 for reps? And did you dress well?
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:48 PM
2

What’s a “decent” body to you? Do you hit the weight room? Look up basic skin care routine on YouTube Follow alpha.m and teachingmensfashion on YouTube to gain some basic style.
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:41 PM
3

Work on your body, your skin care, your fashion, get a good haircut
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:37 PM
3

Yeah it’s insecure. AWALT, assume she’s dating other guys.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:23 PM
3

Work on yourself bro, chase a bag, and learn the game
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:19 PM
5

Drink water throughout the night as you’re drinking to reduce hangover
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:58 PM
9

Bro shut up
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:35 PM
29

Don’t worry king, you a king too 👑 we all are 👑
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:05 AM
65

It means you held masculine frame and her hamster is runnin fast af, keep up the mystery and masculine frame King 👑
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:33 PM
9

Wtf lol. 7 months is nothing. You’re still in the honey moon phase. Just relax and take it easy. I had a honeymoon phase with a woman for 1.5 years, the latter 6 months were complete shit. If you’re in love with her and get along well together I say move in and take it day by day. Living together will completely change the relationship.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:22 PM
52

u never had swag in your step?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:57 PM
61

Idk if it’s normal but I go through the same thing bro. Some weeks I’ll feel unstoppable. Other weeks I’ll relapse and pine over my ex badly. I just take it a day at a time.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 06:33 PM
2

You’re better off gaining lean muscle mass so you don’t have to go through this cycle of getting fat then cutting which ends up with you being fat for a year
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:09 PM
5

Bulking for a year? Bro you don’t have to do that. Eat a high protein diet high veggie diet year round. https://youtu.be/xbJb94TuU2w https://youtu.be/wJ0QXCTqjUs These two videos explain the same concept one from an expert and one from a swole red pill dude. Just eat a balanced diet year round.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:57 AM
9

I’m the same man. Why do you give a fuck about your soft dick? I don’t.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:48 AM
2

Why don’t you care? How do you not to care?
/r/seduction18/10/20 05:53 PM
1

I’m currently struggling with this. I’m in the same position as you. Got out of a relationship and am now just looking to date casually. Just sucks because you never know what a girl wants/expects from you. Is it the guys responsibility to assume all women you go on dates with want a serious relationship? Idk.
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:43 AM
27

I used to feel like you bro. I simply chose to stop giving a fuck. I don’t know how, maybe it happens naturally as you get older and realize nothing matters, idk. Wish you luck.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:57 AM
1

I wish I understood this too. Something about he is already screened out. It sucks.
/r/seduction17/10/20 10:35 PM
26

What is the other option? Like you said, be 40 year old bartender struggling to find work, or a 29 year old entry level mechanical engineer who will build on his career for the next 20+ years or so, presumably. There is no such thing as being “behind in life”. Stop comparing yourself to others. You’ll be 29 making $70k plus benefits. Would you rather be 29 and NOT making $70k plus benefits?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:00 PM
0

That’s rapey af bro. Idk. Guess that’s just not my game
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:49 PM
0

Age 24, 10
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:11 PM
3

Missed that part. Yeah a few hours before the scheduled time just hit her with a “we still on for tonight?”
/r/seduction17/10/20 06:31 PM
4

Give it at least a full 24 hours before double texting. People say not to double text but I do it in situations like this to stop anxiety. It’s relieving. If she no longer wants to proceed with you you’ll know after a double text and won’t be left wondering. But yeah a full 24 hours. Cause everyone checks their phone in the morning and at night.
/r/seduction17/10/20 06:25 PM
2

Yeah, maintain masculine frame
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:54 AM
1

Bro you’re acting sensitive af, your masculine frame is weak af and you are fragile
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:02 AM
3

Bruh wtf she’s your friend that’s why. You said she was your best friend. She’s sharing personal shit with you
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:10 AM
0

She was poking fun at you trying to be cute. You’re definitely insecure about it
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:54 AM
3

Yeah she’s inconsiderate of your feelings, as all women are. Women don’t take men’s insecurities or mental health in general serious at all whatsoever. They give absolutely no fucks. As for “it crossed a bunch of borders for me” she poked fun at one of your insecurities. If she is truly your best friend and nothing more then yeah tell her how you feel and how what she said made you feel
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:39 AM
4

Money
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:18 PM
1

Damn
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:14 PM
2

Her roommate walked in and out couple times I didn’t try though
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:07 PM
2

Hmmm. I guess since we were at her place I didn’t know how to lead her to her own room lol. Second time hanging out. So you’re saying instead of asking “wanna go to my room?” I should just stand up grab her hand and take her to my room?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:33 PM
-1

I wanna do that but I also have a fear of being too pushy especially with the me-too movement, making girls uncomfortable, them claiming they didn’t give me consent etc. I like to verbally ask, so they can’t claim I made them do something they were uncomfortable with
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:21 PM
0

Second time
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:44 PM
2

Lol women will not ever?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:13 PM
2

this is the answer I was hoping for, thanks
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:21 AM
1

What do you mean
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:56 AM
-1

I guess I just don’t want to be unattracted to women my age and constantly be wishing I could get a younger girl I never thought this way before red pill. I almost married a girl year older than me now I’m afraid to marry
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:05 PM
1

No wtf If you suck then yeah honestly But if you’re pretty good and lose it’s whatever, you’re not a professional athlete
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:07 PM
1

What does “very competitive” mean to you? You can be very competitive and still be stoic. Think Tim Duncan But if to you “very competitive” means crying to the refs, talking shit to the opponent, getting upset at teammates. Then yeah. You’ll be seen negatively...... as a crybaby...... by everyone
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:03 PM
3

That’s what I’m sayin. Is this something that needs to be fixed?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:37 PM
4

That’s crazy cause I know exactly what you’re talking about lol. It’s like their overall excitement about life becomes bleak. It makes sense though. All the way up to age 22 they live in an artificial world going from high school to college. Then enter the real world. Guess it takes a year or two for that reality to set in. Same thing happens to men, but I guess since we’ve always been judged and molded into being providers it’s easier for us to handle. Or maybe not, most suicides are men.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:36 PM
1

Guess I’m asking how to think more blue pill in a red pill sub lol Hoping someone would say “25+ year olds are hot af” or something. The goat 🐐 AMS doesn’t believe in the wall
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:52 PM
1

Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid Idk bro. I feel like when you’re 25 if you have the qualities of a beta provider, I.e. good job, own place then there is a sea of women trying to get your commitment. Idk though. I’m 24.
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:52 AM
3

Are you obese? Do you masturbate a lot?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:45 AM
2

How old are you Would be best to cook at your place so she can get there and the food be ready already
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:55 PM
2

My biggest question man. Everyone says crying n shit and begging repulses a girls I’ve always wondered why this worked. My guess? She was narcissistic so she actually enjoyed having someone beg her to take him back. OR based on what she claims, she’s in love with me. From my perspective? I don’t know. I’m tall (6’1) and make good money. We always talked about a future together, growing old together etc. and we actually had a lot of fun together. She’s 5’9 and has a fat ol juicy ass. A lot of guy…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 11:58 PM
30

This is how I got into red pill. Left my girlfriend cause I thought I was hot shit. Entered the dating scene and flopped badly. Smashed two girls, both from social circle, one is hot as fuck. Got sad and missed my ex so I hit her up. Crushed when I found out she moved on. Was heartbroken like a mf for months. First couple weeks couldn’t eat/sleep. Everything I heard from red pill was true. Pre-selection hurt me the most. I hate that pre-selection is 100% true. Never felt so inadequate as a man. …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:22 PM
10

I refuse to just be an option to someone. If a girl is indecisive about me and another man I’m no longer pursuing. Peace I’m out ✌🏽
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:46 PM
11

I always step back in this situation. Personally I have an ego. If youre indecisive about me and another dude, I’ll help you decide✌🏽.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:42 PM
9

Shiiiiiiiid. I don’t know man. You just have to develop empathy and sympathy for the women. I don’t know how you can do that. At times I wish I was less empathetic/sympathetic and more selfish. Just yesterday I was texting a plate. I can tell she really really really likes me. I felt awful for not feeling the same at all, felt like I was just leading her on. So i told her this wasn’t headed anywhere, to alleviate my guilt. Red pill teachings would tell me to continue leading her on so long as I …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:51 PM
1

Mmmmmm. I say go out to a nice looking bar and ask a friend to take a pic
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:51 PM
2

Oh shit lol
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:14 AM
2

That’s what I thought and I tried, she rejected me twice. I didn’t want to keep pursuing. she said she was sleepy, I asked if she wanted me to leave, she said no. Told her to let me know when she wants me to leave. We make out more I advance again, she rejects me again. I settle down again, she says she’s sleep again so I left. I was a little confused Initially I thought she just lead me on to get a free ride home since she ubered and lived like 12 mile away so maybe $20-30 to get back home.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:48 AM
1

I see. I guess I’m afraid of inviting over to watch movies or whatever because it insinuates sex. How do I get over this?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:41 PM
5

Hell no, they’re defeatists that have no discipline and take ZERO accountability for not being able to attract women. The common theme amongst incels is lack of accountability.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:55 PM
1

Lol I’d like to believe this. Everyone else in the comments making me feel like a chump
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:06 PM
6

My girl was the same way. Personally I think it’s one of the first warning signs that she will cheat on you. Now I’m a believer if your girl isn’t chasing your validation she’ll be chasing validation from elsewhere. Used to compliment my girl 24/7, be all over her, constantly validate her in every way possible. When I discovered red pill and started pulling my energy away from her she started chasing my validation.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:15 PM
3

Hope this gets normalized on here
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:01 AM
2

Just thought it’d be plausible deniability
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:11 PM
1

Watching sports bad idea?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:03 PM
1

Guess I should’ve been more specific with my question. Yeah that is what happened yesterday, but the game we watched ended late and she had to leave. Note: I want to watch the entirety of the sports match we’re watching. But yeah if the situation is watching movies that’s good.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:54 PM
1

In this situation it’s watching sports. Movies sure. But I really am into the game and would like to watch the whole thing. Should I be cuddling the entirety of the game? Like 2.5 hours?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:53 PM
3

Lifting 5x a week, investing into your diet and fashion isn’t lame advice. My assumption about most dudes with low social iq is that they play fantasy video games and watch sci-fi where people don’t talk normally. Watching shows like friends and the office are reflections of how people normally talk IRL. Hella hoes watch those shows too. So much conversation can be had over popular TV shows.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:30 PM
17

Didn’t say the world is fucked. Meant too far gone as in too far gone into blue pill philosophy.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:27 PM
87

Yup 100%. The world is too far gone though. I feel like red pill philosophy is starting to go mainstream especially with the younger generation. Anti simp videos have been spread all over tik tok. Making “the boys” a priority. Hopefully we see a difference.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 09:44 PM
3

Start talking to girls first. If you can get girls easily then break up with her. 2 years is a long time out of the game. You’ll quickly realize it isn’t as easy as you think it is, you have a girlfriend so you dont realize how hard it is to be alone. At least that was my experience.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:40 PM
3

I started ignoring her calls. And then she picked up that I don’t like talking on the phone.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:09 PM
1

Me. Gotten laid from about 4 girls off “digital world” ig + bumble + hinge. Dated more. Some that wanted me more than I did them, and I’ve dated girls that I wanted more and they didn’t want me. Currently dating 3 girls off digital world, 2 I’ve slept with.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:30 PM
2

Whatever works for you man I feel like the girls that are down to see you would be down to see you whether it’s the first message or the fifth. I just like asking what they like doing so we can do something they like
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:14 PM
5

The one with least energy invested. Yes trying to continue convo is bad. It entirely depends on the energy the girl puts in. If she’s super receptive and she tries putting in energy then good, otherwise don’t do it. Questions is key here. If she makes a comment, I make a comment back with NO question. If she really likes you she’ll be the one trying to keep the convo going by asking questions. This is my strategy but I have a huge ego and refuse to allow a girl think she is more valuable than me…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:24 PM
1

Gym not an option?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:04 AM
13

Should post pic of yourself for better assessment. You need to be hitting the weight room 5x a week, fix your diet, invest in your fashion. As for not fitting in with people, I suggest binge watching the office and friends on Netflix. It’s what all the girls watch.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 03:41 AM
7

How did you respond?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:58 AM
32

To get the validation that you would respond The way you respond is a reflection of how much you want them, they can sense it For example: you post some cool shit and they respond “wow that’s so cool 😍” Your response is either: “Thanks 😄 Im skiing in Colorado with my family at this skiing resort, it’s been great so far 😌” Vs. “hell yea” See the difference
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:18 AM
1

I’m glad there’s people on here who take accountability. I had braces at a young age, 14, my jaw is crooked not sure if braces did that.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:25 PM
1

You got sparkly ass white teeth after getting them laser whitened? I’m saving money to do that. Easily adds +1 Braces + teeth whitening adds +1, I had braces in the past tho Nah bro. Hit the weight room 5x a week, eat hella protein. Getting your body right adds +2 easily. And the confidence you gain from it adds +1. Actually the confidence gained is +2. Confidence is a double edge sword, not having confidence is like -5
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:15 PM
1

Yeah, I just don’t believe #1 if you get a solid skin care routine, braces + teeth whitening, complimenting haircut, drop body fat until you’re at about 12% (this slims your face and makes jaw more prominent) you’d be at least a 6
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:58 PM
4

Confidence is EVERYTHING. Thats the answer.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:47 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:37 PM
5

That’s weird. I’ve had so many girls want me to not use a condom. The ONE time I didn’t use a condom I got an STD. Pissed me off. Now I always use condoms. In an actual relationship tho? Absolutely not. I’m not using a condom under any circumstance. If she feels that strongly about condoms I’m not making her my girlfriend. Was in a 3.5 year LTR, never used a condom.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:35 PM
1

You completely ignored my last remarks. Go to the gym 5x a week, follow a weight lifting program, fix your diet, learn to dress well, experiment with your haircut. Dm me if you need help.
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:13 PM
2

Status, money, looks. He has status, you don't. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:13 PM
-7

Post a picture of yourself for better assessment.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:14 PM
1

You ignored my comment. Like I said. Make improving yourself a priority. The way you dress, working on your body, finding the best haircut that suits you, getting a skincare routine, that should be number one priority.
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:33 PM
3

Shut the hell up man You have a defeatist mindset and attitude it’s shameful. Do you make improving yourself a priority? Every aspect of your life. The way you dress, the way you talk, the way you present yourself. I can tell you don’t.
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:15 PM
1

I’d ignore that too, personally Just depends on her energy in the text. Personally, only way I’d be down for it is if she triple texts in this situation
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:57 PM
1

Work on yourself
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:51 PM
1

I say ignore until she texts you
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:07 PM
1

I go to the gym, we have to wear masks
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:06 PM
3

You’ll get complacent. Start working out again. But sure, bang her, why not?
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:05 AM
6

Hell na I wouldn’t. I’ve been you. First of all, how old are you? I’d do this, because it’s what I did, hit the weight room 5x a week, fix my diet, work on my fashion, get a haircut that works best for me, and get a good cologne.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:58 AM
1

Ehh. All dates I’ve gotten have been from literally 2-5 messages in. I’m not gonna waste my time texting back and forth to build comfort. Example: Me: hey Her: hey what’s up? Me: nothin much chillin, what are you up to? Her: oh nothing bullshit Me: oh nice lol, what do you like doing on your free time? Her: blah blah blah drink Me: cool, let’s have some drinks somewhere some time, when are you free? Something like that
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:37 AM
1

Yup, exposure therapy. Keep getting rejected until it becomes numb. OR, only make moves on IOI’s/choosing signals.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:34 AM
1

Everyone’s shaming you but Ive done this. I have a butthole fetish, Idc. My ex got mad and I do what I always do when she gets mad. I’d smother her with affection and smile and laugh and say sorry I can’t help it I’m just so attracted to you. It worked I think? She’d never get seriously angry. She liked my attention/affection
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:33 AM
1

Work on yourself. Hit the weight room 5x a week, consume a lot of protein. Experiment with haircut until you find optimal haircut. Get a skincare routine. Follow teachingmensfashion and alpha.m on YouTube and learn how to dress well. After you do all this for at least 6 months you’ll gain insane levels of confidence, IOI’s will start flying toward you left and right. The problem is the men who fail at this don’t have the discipline to actually implement this lifestyle, it’s a LIFE style.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:30 AM
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Id ignore personally because I have an ego and I can’t have a bitch thinking her time is more valuable than mine
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:16 AM
1

I see. Yeah. I don’t really do that lol. I just maintain a masculine frame. Most girls tell me they weren’t even sure if I liked them or not, cause I don’t really flirt at all or do kino. My move is to basically get to know them, ask a lot of questions and listen. I never try making a girl laugh, if it happens naturally so be it. After a couple dates I invite them to my place, and after some drinks I just make a move. It’s pretty much a mental hurdle for me. I’ve never been a flirty guy, I reall…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:39 PM
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I suck at small talk. How did you get better?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:29 PM
1

I wouldn’t fuck with a girl I work with. Work on your body and your fashion and either start taking candid pics of yourself or go out
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:08 PM
1

The way you dress has to be FIRE. You gotta dress DOPE. Not good, GREAT. That’s my advice. Haircut has to be on point ALWAYS. Experiment. Experiment with fashion. Experiment with jewelry. Just last weekend saw a dude probably around 5’7. Best dressed at the function. Badass haircut. Cool chain on. Man it was prominent from the way he walked. Dude was oozing confidence. Talking to chicks all night. It was inspiring.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:13 AM
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Took a while honestly. You can check out my post history. I had severe oneitis for my ex and honestly I still do. Started hitting the gym HARD, cleaned up my diet big time, changed my haircut, invested a lot of money into my wardrobe. Started wearing different accessories. Picked up some hobbies, cycling and playing guitar. Gym wardrobe and regular wardrobe, going out wardrobe, chillin at home wardrobe. I went the online dating route, which was trial and error. Made multiple profiles and saw dif…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 10:14 PM
1

The dude refused to clean a mess he made until being threatened to get kicked out. Clear sign of disrespect. The accident is ok. Refusing to clean it up until being threatened to get kicked out is where we’re fighting. Good for op for threatening to kick the guy out for refusing to clean up his mess.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:57 PM
1

A man breaks some shit in your home and refused to pick it up. That’s not the same as the example you stated. That’s someone clearly disrespecting your home and your property. The only solution I see is kick him out and if he refuses then whoop his ass. 🤷🏻‍♂️ What’s the probable solution for when someone refuses to leave after that? Call the police?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:38 PM
2

Exactly my point.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:37 PM
3

As others said, you gotta lift and put on some muscle. I think that would solve your problems
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:42 AM
8

Post pics for better assessment
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:40 AM
11

LMAO
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:40 AM
4

Man am I the only one who would straight up try to fight a dude for that type of shit? Especially in my own home
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:23 AM
1

Should post pics for better assessment. Do you have 6 pack abs? Dress great, not ok, great. Athleizure for when you’re just chillin. Experiment with hairstyles until you find the best one. Skin care routine.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 10:31 PM
2

Should have posted pics for better assessment
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:43 PM
1

All girls do that
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:38 PM
2

You are right. If I did meet a theoretical “perfect” girl (to me) id want an LTR. Need to shape my mindset to think this way. Thanks
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:21 PM
1

I feel you bro, thank you
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:13 PM
6

I meant in this very post I put not looking for a relationship. I’m not looking for a LTR
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:12 PM
0

I put not looking for a LTR
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:03 PM
1

As silly as it sounds yes lol. Bumble allows you to put what you’re looking for on your profile. Hinge has been marketed toward relationships, so I think girls use it that are looking for relationships. Which is why I think I’ve found higher quality girls on there.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:49 PM
2

I said use hinge when not looking for an ltr. I’m not looking for an ltr I hear you on the, best girls are not on the app. Only place I can meet girls is gym or grocery store since I don’t really go anywhere else. And everyone in my city is required to wear masks everywhere so it’s been tough. Plus I don’t have a social circle. I need to establish a social circle and make friends just haven’t had success yet.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:44 PM
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Yup. Sounds like OP is deliberately telling her explicitly “I’m hanging with a female friend” you’re supposed to dread by saying “I’m busy, can’t hangout”. And let her wonder why
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:29 PM
1

I need to have that mindset, thank you.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:22 PM
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She's playing the game and she's going to be better than you at it. She sounds extremely prideful, petty, and probably narcissistic. She seems like the type to get "even" with you and take it further than you did. My ex was the same way and she broke my heart lol.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:14 PM
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How old are you? Fuck everything, just follow the KISS method. Keep It Simple Stupid. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJ0QXCTqjUs&t=340s This video explains it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbJb94TuU2w&t=425s This video explains the same thing. For each meal eat a high protein source (meat), veggies, and a carb source. For breakfast eat eggs and oatmeal. And thats it. Dont complicate it. Stay consistent.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:10 PM
2

You look great for 40 big dawg
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:11 PM
1

Post your physique
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:17 PM
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So no You’re stating the obvious. If you have abs + can lift those numbers I listed above, I am 100% positive your physique would be impressive
/r/askTRP05/10/20 12:15 PM
1

Post pics You have 6 pack abs?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:15 AM
1

Can you hit those numbers I stated above for reps? And have abs?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:15 AM
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you’re saying someone who benches 225 for reps and squats 225 for reps and deadlifts 315 for reps wouldn’t have some serious muscle mass? If they do all that and have a body fat percentage low enough to have abs, they must have some serious muscle mass. Regardless if they’re 5’5 or 6’5, both physiques would be impressive if they could move that kind of weight
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:36 PM
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Have you seen results from lifting and eating and lifting? Is your intensity in the gym high? Are you huffing and puffing and sweating at the end of your workouts? Do you have a 6 pack abs, can bench 225 for reps? And deadlift 315? And squat 225 for reps?
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:34 PM
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Keep lifting and maintain masculine frame. Dread game is necessary in a LTR.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 03:33 PM
1

The downtown thing isn’t open because it’s a bar. Only restaurants are open. You’re right tho about screening for high interest. Need to break that barrier
/r/askTRP03/10/20 12:49 AM
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Yes from dating app, but it is the second date
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:44 PM
2

This. Been in situations with girls having post nut clarity and I just feel awful lol.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:10 PM
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You should post a pic of your face for better assessment and so we could give better advice
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:32 AM
2

Why would your dad do that? Legal purposes?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:20 PM
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Currently working on adding more plates, just have one. Talking to a couple chicks. Took one out to lunch this past week and we’re gonna see each other again next week. Doesn’t seem like an impossible feat, I just got out of a relationship and started talking to chicks. Dating in itself is still kinda new to me.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:40 PM
2

Isn’t that what macros are? Calories and micronutrients?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:54 PM
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? ??
/r/askTRP23/09/20 11:17 PM
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Aesthetic I’ve trained for aesthetic since I started. Throw in deadlift once a week for overall strength plus it’s beneficial for your posture so that counts toward aesthetic as well.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 08:51 PM
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Ignore it and accept that the rest of the world is blue pill
/r/askTRP22/09/20 07:23 PM
1

then what u cryin bout. you’re top 20%, make an OLD profile and meet some chicks
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:11 PM
1

You got 6 pack abs, dress well, and can bench 225, squat 225, deadlift 315 for reps?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:13 PM
1

I feel like when I masturbate frequently I have less desire to have sex. I was in a 2 month drought and broke it. Couldn’t cum because of how often I was masturbating, I had to fake it lol. I stopped masturbating because of this. We had sex again a couple day’s later and the same thing happened. So I stopped masturbating for the next 3 weeks. I noticed I wanted sex with this girl a lot more. I’d invite her over, we’d get stay in dinner. And I’d be excited to talk to her. I started masturbating a…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:32 PM
1

I almost always send a text that right after hanging out 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:55 PM
1

Maybe what you’re saying isn’t funny and actually offensive. Only thing I can think of.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:08 PM
1

I haven’t encountered any like that. Feel like it’s pretty obvious who’s real n fake.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:07 PM
1

How often has this happened?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:41 PM
1

Interesting. Idk, guess I’d just rather take the chance than message a girl for a couple days. Worse case scenario, she’s a little less attractive in person. Has only happened once to me. Full blown catfish though? I’d walk away. Serial killer? How do you determine someone isn’t a serial killer?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:40 PM
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That’s unusual. Girls love attention, they’d rather leave you unread so their little number of notifications increases, boosting their ego. Tinder, bumble, and hinge all have little numbers that display notifications and when it’s their turn to message back. They try increase this number to boost their ego. To flat out unmatch you would be taking away from this and they’d be gaining nothing. I have a feeling you’re probably saying something they don’t like or interpret as rude/disrespectful.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:25 PM
2

You “X” every girl in the search feed? I was under the impression if you “X”’d them then you wouldn’t appear in their feed
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:22 PM
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Uhhh every single girl I’ve met on a dating app was after 4-5 messages
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:18 PM
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Alpha/10
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:12 AM
1

What’s BPD?
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:43 PM
1

Yes I agree, never said it was a choice
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:17 PM
2

I think marriage is the only solution. There’s stats that back up kids are more successful in life and less likely to become fuck ups in a family household.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:50 PM
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Ehh, sure. I’ve read from lots of guys claiming that blue pill they were happy af when they were “in love”. And it’s true. There’s a reason the entirety of the world is blue pill and not red. Even the goat himself said this (AMS). Once you’re exposed, there’s no going back. Even you’re saying it, they’re happy because they haven’t seen the truth. My point exactly, ignorance is bliss.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 09:54 PM
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Not yet lol. The idea that I’m battling is if you were happier blue pill how does that make red pill the better path? Happiness is the overall goal in life. I was happier when I was ignorant in my blue pill world. Ignorance is bliss
/r/askTRP18/09/20 09:34 PM
1

I do cuddle n shit. I also don’t know how to get sex without dates first. Feel like that’s very relationship-y too. I often take out on a couple dates. Build comfort, then invite to the crib for 3rd date for movies + wine.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 08:37 PM
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I don’t want a relationship. I want sex. So I feel guilt pursuing sex because getting sex from a woman often leads to them wanting a relationship in return. At least that’s what I’ve experienced
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:41 AM
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I guess my fear is that a girl will develop feelings for me and I know I don’t want commitment, so then I feel guilt
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:31 AM
1

What do you do? Do you have weekends off, or you mean literally everyday? Why do you have this job and what’s your pay?
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:42 PM
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Make eye contact I was socially dumb and didn’t do this before
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:41 PM
1

I feel you
/r/askTRP12/09/20 11:50 PM
1

I have a date tomorrow. Quick turnaround so idk if it’s because of the photo
/r/askTRP12/09/20 10:36 PM
3

Mmmmmmmm
/r/askTRP12/09/20 08:13 PM
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I was 215 but I was meaty af, going through a bulk. Maybe 15% body fat. I was a big meaty dude, huge back chest and arms. It helped to get the thicker girls. Which I like a lot. My ex was 160lbs, 5’9 thick thighs and a fat ol juicy ass. I think she was attracted to me cause I was big and meaty and didn’t make her feel like a big girl. Same thing with a girl who I got after my ex. About 5’6 HUGE tits, probably triple D’s, very nicely shaped and a fat ass. Maybe she was about 140 lbs. My ex always…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 07:22 PM
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I finally got a shirtless pic on my dating profile so I’m about to find out
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:01 PM
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Wake up, make breakfast, wash face, brush teeth and mouthwash, put clothes on, start working for the day. When work is over hit the gym. Come back home. Shower. Chill for the day, repeat.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 07:09 PM
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How do you look bro? I don’t think a girl would let that happen if she was with a dude who made his looks a priority. Because of dread. Do you dress well? Do you have 6 pack abs?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:46 AM
2

“I am older than 25” uhm? Why not just say your age?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:00 AM
3

Crazy man. This was me. I have another friend whose father distilled into him pretty much red pill philosophy but just from personal experience. He slays the most girls and is very red pill, but I’m pretty sure he’s unaware of actual red pill
/r/askTRP08/09/20 04:45 PM
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Yeah, forgot to mention tall girls are also super receptive to me 5’8+. Thanks for the input bro
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:31 PM
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I’m saying if I were to make moves on girls short and medium height and tall, I’d get more responses from the short ones >5’3. Vs girls within 5’4 and 5’7. And also girls will be more responsive 5’8+
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:21 PM
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Stay humble bro. Just because you derive life satisfaction from being fit and self improvement doesn’t mean everyone else does too. You think Elon Musk was like you in high school? No, he was that nerd you think you’re above. What about Jeff Bezos? Same thing, nerd. Mark Zuckerburg? Bill Gates. Those guys probably think it’s ridiculous you think you’re hot shit just because you lift. I truly think nothing in life matters besides ones self safisfaction/happiness. Those nerds don’t self improve bu…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:13 PM
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lol I’m kind of not. Would prefer taller. But I’ve definitely been extremely attracted to a hot short chick
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:09 PM
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You think blue pill guys are happier? I resonated with this 1,000%. It just sucks lol. So there’s people who make it work with their oneitis, marry them and live happily ever after in their blue pill world, and live to tell about it. Doesn’t seem so bad.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:01 PM
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Do you do any STEM related work now that you have an MBA? I too have a STEM degree in electrical engineering but thinking of doing pursuing a new goal, possibly an MBA. I too have faces this problem of complacency. The thing that has been giving me motivation is the thought of losing my cushy office job because of outside factors like jobs being shipped overseas or company failing etc.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:18 PM
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Interesting. Makes sense, never thought of it that way.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:58 AM
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Don’t have it in me to reciprocate the savagery
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:49 PM
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That’s wild cause I agree with what you’re saying. Yeah I’d say my ex and my mom have strong holds on me. My self esteem is shit right now. Like I said I have a whole post about it. I guess the only thing is I don’t want to be sexless while I figure out my issues. Probably bad right because I risk getting emotionally attached to someone.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:00 PM
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So you’re saying it was abusive behavior for her to give me an ultimatum? Either we are headed toward a relationship or we can’t see each other anymore? So you think because I am fresh out of a LTR she sees this as me being vulnerable and she wants to prey on it? So that’s why you say it’s abusive/disrepectful? I truly don’t know what you’re trying to say nor see your point. It’d be helpful to just say it in a clear and concise way.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:32 PM
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Bro, instead of trying to get me to see it for myself you could simply just tell me. What makes you think you’re right and everyone else is wrong? There’s literally like 100 people who agree with top comment except you. What’s your advice? I’m not rejecting it, I’m curious to know.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:19 PM
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Lmao! I wish I was savage enough to say that
/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:05 PM
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You’re the only one who implied disrespect. The top comment and other comments said i did the right thing and I just gotta keep going with the flow. I feel like I hit rock bottom with my ex lol. You haven’t even offered an explanation as to how I’m allowing myself to be disrespected, or how I’m setting myself up for hurt.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:55 PM
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She really hasn’t been disrespectful though lol. Which is why I say she’s LTR material. She’s been nothing but kind and very submissive and wants to see me often. Why do you say she’s been disrespectful? I broke up with her over a year ago because we were just fighting a lot. This was before red pill. I didn’t have any sense of masculine frame, always lost control of my emotions, yelled, cried etc. Looking back on it I know what happened, I was a pathetic excuse of a man, didn’t lead, didn’t wor…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:46 PM
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Fuck I think that would’ve been a good one. The keeping tabs. Cause wtf lol, I stopped posting this chick on my Instagram over a year ago lol
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:38 PM
1

Damn that’s a good one
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:29 PM
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I know we’re talking about two different situations here because I posted two lol. But how is a girl asking if we’re headed toward a relationship disrespect?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:28 PM
1

Basically, I broke up with her. We split for 3 months. I reached out 2 months during the break up and she had a new boyfriend already. Like a week later she started dating somebody else. I begged for her to get back with me. She did. But not after she got to fuck the other guy a couple last times. Hard to get over that, we stayed together 9 more months and then I broke up with her again.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:26 PM
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Cause I thought of that one example I sent you. It felt like a shit test in the moment
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:20 PM
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I see. I guess I need to work on avoiding answering questions directly using the amplify
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:07 PM
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Idk, I guess she doesn’t shit test at all lol. Other girls have shit tested and it was clear they were doing it. She hasn’t. She shit tested me first date when she asked me if I always bring girls over to my apartment on the first date. But that’s it
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:01 PM
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I did that in the moment. Conversation played out like this She said “she’s so out of your league” I said “I know right lol” She said “she was so pretty” I said “ehh she ain’t shit” Then yeah conversation played out.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:55 PM
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I feel you bro. Appreciate the response, very valuable info. I agree
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:54 PM
1

A bunch of time trying defend and excuse myself? When did I do that? Shut down? Like say nothing when someone is asking a question? Haha I’ve heard of that just never done it before
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:36 PM
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Agree and amplify, wrong terminology on my part. So what would have been the appropriate response? Also I felt like I was clearly being sarcastic, by my tone and my laughter. And I’m pretty sure she picked up on it.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:28 PM
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I thought I did agree and amplify by my response. At least that’s what I was trying to do I don’t see how I tried to defend myself. I felt like if I tried correcting her by saying “no actually she didn’t dump me, I dumped her” etc. would’ve been defending myself. I agreed, she did dump me, and amplified, because I wasn’t enough for her. Did I not do that right? Lol
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:21 PM
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Was trying to agree and amplify as a response to a shit test. I said it in a joking way. What other response would have been appropriate? I feel like the other option was to deny she dumped and go on a defensive spew about how no actually I’m the one who dumped her. Like? Doesn’t that mean you failed the shit test. Getting defensive
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:16 PM
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It’s not something I’ve shied away from nor was trying not to admit to. I made a whole post about it lol.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:15 PM
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Admit what now?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:06 PM
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Very badly :). But yeah I agree if you can see it through a post she can see it more. So you think she’s going to somehow prey on this? How could she do that? What actions could she take to do that?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:47 PM
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What’s my emotional state? I figured she just couldn’t let go of me because people want what they can’t have and also she liked our sex.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:46 PM
1

I see
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:45 PM
1

I see. Don’t see where you mention abuse, you mean disrespect? She has yet to do that, so it didn’t cross my mind.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:44 PM
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I see what you’re saying. She didn’t say she wanted a relationship that very moment. Just said she wants to know if it’s headed in that direction. Idk, multiple girls have done this to me. Very early on, they initiate “the talk” and ask what I want. I didn’t think it was a big deal. I’ve just never had a girl stand firm on wanting to be in a relationship and telling me she doesn’t want to see me any longer if it’s not headed in that direction. Usually I say the same thing as I said and they say …
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:33 PM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:31 PM
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What do you consider relationship material? I’ve outlined it in my other comments. Relationship material is someone who has a job, a passion, and cares about their fitness, and we have similar sense of humor. Those are pretty important to me. And I’ve dated a bunch of girls who don’t check all those boxes so idk.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:30 PM
2

To me, modern dating rules like, no double texting, and waiting forever to reply. And not initiating contact unless other person initiated previously, little bullshit like that.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:25 PM
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24
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:23 PM
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She didn’t say she wanted an LTR, she just wanted to know if we’re heading in the direction of that. She made it clear she wants to be in a relationship, and wanted to know if I’m in the same head space I guess.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:23 PM
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I feel you. I’ll slow down, and you’re right I can’t make judgements on a person this early.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:01 AM
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Fuuuuuck didn’t think about that last one
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:42 AM
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Don’t have it in me to lead a girl on. Would prefer to be upfront from the jump
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:42 AM
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I guess the bar for me is if a girl has a job and cares about her fitness and has passions and is ambitious I consider her LTR material. As for the shit test, I don’t think she shit tests a lot, because I’ve been on dates with excessive shit testing
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:41 AM
1

Man, you gotta post a pic. Im a strong believer in we have to actually see what you look like to assess your situation.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:51 AM
1

I feel u bro. Thanks for that, seriously
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:15 AM
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Why would she ask if you think you raped her? wtf lol
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:08 PM
1

I agree. Damn thats crazy that you say the thing of novelty. Never heard that before but its true af. My ex was novel in the sense that she was so different from most girls looks wise. Mixed half black, half latina, tall af 5'9, big curly hair. That novelty feeling is what made me proud to show her off.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:33 PM
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How long have you been with her? I dont see there an issue why she would care if anyone about the job, shit she might even have liked the dude who you told. Or like I said, she might be scared to lose the job or the shift.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:55 PM
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Yeah im trying to maximize the self improvement in the meantime while bars are closed and I cant do night game. Hell I cant even do day game as masks are also required here. Thanks though bro. Great tips.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:53 PM
1

She definitely wants you as a backup in case anything happens and she cant find a better option. Fuck that. Youre not a second option. How old are you? Do you only communicate via snapchat?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:46 PM
1

Are you unathletic? I suck at soccer but I am also confident in my speed, and general athletic prowess. So this wouldnt be an issue for me if I wanted to play soccer. You say fit, but that doesnt directly correlate to things like hand eye coordination, speed, endurance, feet-eye coordination etc.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:43 PM
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Sounds like she wanted it to be kept a secret. Either because shes interested in someone else at the job. Or because she truly values the job and wouldnt want to jeopardize losing it if word got around. Or jeopardize losing the shift.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:41 PM
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Why would you be keeping your relationship a secret? And why would she WANT the relationship/break up to be kept a secret? Also was the WHOLE relationship a secret? or just the breakup? And why would it upset her that someone knows youre in a relationship?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:36 PM
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I'm 24. I really do think younger girls (19-24) are way more attracted to social status above all and think im lame because I dont have much social status. I think they think what I do is nerdy af and paint this image of me that im this introverted, low social iq, virgin because of my career. Older girls start to realize they need stability not social status. Thats just my theory. So yeah I have abundance with career women but am a little insecure because my instagram isnt *cool* enough for youn…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:30 PM
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lol fuck we have the opposite problem. I have abundance with "career women." Seems to be the only type of women I attract on dating apps. I have my job in my profile, im a computer engineer for a big company, so I think these career women are ready to settle down but they want a guy who is independent and well off and has his shit together. It feels like I cant pull the non-career women who care about bullshit like social media status etc. The party girl type. My theories are they are intimidate…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:12 PM
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Im not pedastalizing. My question was more of a "Is it beta to show too much affection?" "Will it ruin the dynamics of a relationship with a girl im seeing because she will see me as more of a relationship type of guy?" "Should I keep it to a minimum for my own good to not start to want a relationship either?" Does it even matter? Am I good as long as I keep my distance and am unavailable while we're away from each other?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:43 PM
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I agree. Im trying to tread lightly with this one in the meantime. Theres another girl Im dating, but it hasnt gone anywhere yet, just been on one date but shes very responsive, initiates conversation, wants to see me again, etc. She just got back from out of town.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:42 PM
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That’s a good opening line preciate u king 👑
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:40 PM
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Personally I feel like dudes who claim stuff like this should provide receipts. You can be used as an example for what other guys can strive to be like. What kind of pics we need to take for our profiles, where our bodies need to be, etc. Not trying to tell you how to live, it’d just be helpful.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:19 PM
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I don’t even know what that means bro lol I need to research more into investing before I pull any triggers. Will look into this
/r/askTRP04/08/20 05:19 AM
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I guess I’m just thinking long term. I want to own property. If I start now I can be well off when I’m older and have passive income from real estate.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 05:18 AM
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This advice is always given out but it’s nearly impossible. Duplexes are the most sought out property. The prices on them by the seller are ridiculous and they also get bought out the quickest.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:10 AM
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damn bro. do u have any advice tho?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:05 AM
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Yeah that’s the reason I’m hesitant to do it, because I want to live closer to the city. Maybe I should just continue to save money and rent another year. I’m extremely hesitant to buy a house for the sole purpose of renting out the entire house. That’s scary and I’ve heard so many horror stories from the real estate investing subreddit. I’d hate to try this and have thousands in repairs pile up on me.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:48 PM
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What do you mean? I thought sublease just meant someone takes over a lease for someone else? Or you rent an entire apartment with more rooms and have roommates?
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:04 PM
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That’s what I’m thinking. I’d have to be able to rent the house out for more than the mortgage. Not sure how easy that is. From a pure investment standpoint. Idk. Real estate investors don’t bother with buying a house if it doesn’t cash flow. But I’m like? Why not pay $100-200 a month for a house that could gain equity over a couple years? Idk. Maybe I should do more research on real estate. It is scary though to rent the entire house out because of repairs that need to come out of your own pock…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:57 PM
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I went mini golf with a girl. It was cool because you had to make reservations so it was minimal people. And masks were required which is kinda weird but it’s new norm I guess.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:37 AM
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Nice bro
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:27 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:27 AM
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Computer engineer
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:33 AM
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Thanks bro. Only thing holding me back is I don’t have a bike haha and they’re pretty expensive for a good one. A cheap road bike is $450 right now, might get it I don’t know
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:19 PM
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Man. Thank you. I really needed this, for real. I gotta go out and do shit while I still have my youth, you’re absolutely right. Something I want to do is cycling. Just hop on a bike and ride around, just haven’t pulled the trigger. But I think it’ll get me out of my apartment. I think I’m gonna do it now. As for anti depressants, idk, I just don’t want to rely on medication to make me happy. But indeed I’ve been wanting something or someone to just pull me out of this rut I’m in. I used having …
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:19 PM
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I will take this advice bro
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:05 PM
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I’ve thought about getting a dog. I feel like it’d be a cop out. I want to find fulfillment in life first. Plus the dog I want is a restricted breed at my apartment which sucks. I really wanna do boxing just haven’t found a gym
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:14 PM
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Appreciate the words brother, I will definitely look into those books, thanks
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:13 PM
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I definitely need some bro’s in this new city. Not sure how to get them but I need them. I want to start meditating
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:12 PM
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I agree, I have a severe scarcity mindset. I relapsed and called my ex after immense feelings of thinking I’ll never find a girl like her. Still working on the self improvement, not just the gym, but skincare, hobbies, wardrobe etc during quarantine so I can be ready when it’s over.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:10 PM
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Honestly I think I have some of those symptoms. Something else I can’t do is watch a series on Netflix or something. I always tap into my phone or YouTube for instant gratification.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:08 PM
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Idk about the reserves right now as my career is sometimes demanding. I am seriously considering house hacking. Might do it when my lease is up in 6 months. A little nervous and skeptical to but I think it can work.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:36 AM
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Yes I think friendship is first and foremost. I was working on this previously and joined a basketball club. I really felt like I could’ve cemented myself there, but then Covid happened.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:35 AM
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I find it fkn delicious smelling haha. Idk how to describe scents but i love it
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:09 AM
1

I’ve gotten compliments on Dior Sauvage
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:49 AM
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I like that mentality
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:07 AM
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that’s awesome bro, I commend you for pursuing that
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:02 AM
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I feel like it’s important to post yourself man. I feel like a lot of dudes problems would be solved by hitting the weight room. Took 30 seconds to blur out anything to give away my identity and post it on imgur lol. My ex was the sexiest girl I’ve ever seen bro. Now I feel like my issue is I’ll never find a girl close to her in terms of attractiveness in my eyes. I feel you brother. I don’t know how I can ever get over this girl. Not only was I so attracted to her, she had good genes, and we bo…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:48 PM
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What kind of music do you produce? I’ve definitely been feeling like some of this void I described has been filling with playing guitar but not completely. I agree though, that’s something I’m missing, a creative outlet.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:45 PM
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Mmm. Nice, thanks. I actually have it on my iPhone. Alright, no more bs I’m gonna read it. I feel like my attention span is pretty low and I often quit reading cause I’d rather bs on my phone or watch YouTube videos. I’m for sure gonna read it now. And thanks for complimenting my physique, appreciate you king 👑
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:52 PM
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This is very motivating. I’m not near that in squat but I’m slowly getting there. Deadlift I think I can do sooner than squat. I’m currently 6’0, 205 lbs. squat 225 for 10, and deadlift 275 for 5. Haven’t tried deadlifting for 10 reps though I usually do a 5x5 for deadlift. Benching 185 for 10, so that’s weak too.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:56 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:52 PM
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Dude who commented first had a good answer. I just wanted a general bar at what my goals should be. Your response tells me I shouldn’t have a goal, doesn’t make sense.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:51 PM
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So LSD is what made you depressed?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:11 PM
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