How do you get tougher

berttbeans996 · 2021-01-11T06:23:07+00:00

Man honestly I struggle with this too.

I just don’t know how to react to slick disrespect. The kind that’s not explicit disrespect. Pisses me off.

ledbed · 2021-01-11T06:57:02+00:00

Are you being pushed over by your friends or other males?

The easy answer is lift and build muscle so other males will think twice before fucking with you, as well as learn BJJ so if they actually fuck with you you can break their fucking arm.

yeeyee739 · 2021-01-11T22:23:53+00:00

Join the military

MrNeurotypical · 2021-01-12T01:46:13+00:00

I used to deal with that when I was a little boy surrounded by other little boys. Mostly in high school. I would just go home and cry and masturbate. But then it happened. The biggest jock came at me for no reason and my prior training as a hockey player and self-taught tai chi practitioner kicked in. He ended up face down in the snow and I was unscathed. I never got fucked with again. Some guy tried to rob me at knife point and in the blink of an eye the knife was on the ground after my body twitched just doing it's muscle memory thing. I picked the knife up, handed it to him, and told him he dropped his knife and walked away. Never saw him ever again.

Now, just imagine the sense of doom when you enter a room full of AMOG guys that all know you can't be fucked with... not because you're cool but because it's physically impossible. Don't psych yourself out by thinking there's some psychological way to deal with this. It's physical. We didn't have MMA when I was young but Tai Chi was pretty good back then, especially with all the karate and judo guys around. Nowadays I would dread fighting a MMA guy. I'd go learn MMA and become physically impossible to defeat. Don't do the whole competition thing where you get brain damage from concussions, but do enough that your body will go MMA if attacked. You'd certainly kick my tai chi hockey player ass but then again I'm not dumb enough to AMOG anybody and I can afford to hire an MMA bodyguard so I don't worry about it. ;)

Title	How do you get tougher
Author	ledbed
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	January 11, 2021 6:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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