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It's fine if younger (read: naive) girls like older guys, but let's be honest......it often comes about as a passing phase. I know a girl that passed me up (I'm 28), for a guy who is near 40, and she is 20, but just barely. The guy is a sex-addict and not the best looking, but smooth, I guess. Everyone tended to not shame the man, but actually the girl for her bizarre choice. Let's face it, if a man is going for younger girls like that, he often can have serious baggage. Sure, he can be smooth a…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:25 AM
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You get laid when she's on vacation also cause no one will ever know.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:27 PM
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I really loved your comment about choosing not to care about the world outside your immediate vicinity. Focus only on what is real and can be felt and experienced directly by you. This will get you to focus on reality, allowing you to live in the here and now.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:39 AM
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Wasn't going to comment, but I just wanted to tell a story. I knew this girl who once was with me when she saw a guy sitting out on his lawn looking for moles to shoot with his rifle. She got all concerned and excited about it and called the cops on him. She loved the feeling she got by exercising external power to make her own self feel important and powerful. Just a while ago, she kind of did the same thing with a drunk. If it was me, I would just confront those people to their faces, but I'm …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 12:59 AM
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Can you give me another tip? How do I give points to commentors on my phone?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:12 PM
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Well, I lift at least 3 times a week for 2 or 3 hours a day and have my own weights. But I can't for the life of me get enough motivation to improve my motivation to fix my life , get out of debt, go back to school, etc. I'm seriously thinking about Adderall to help. Smoking might also be worse than I think it is for motivation.....
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:05 PM
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Well, I'm only 5'9".........but it's pretty hard as an attractive guy because girls look for any and every flaw and you have to socially instigate all the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:01 PM
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Well, I'm really just talking about the ghosting aspect of MGTOW. As for red pill, I'm talking legit success finding women and making them stay on for the right reasons.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:32 AM
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The problem for me is that I don't care most of the time until someone unique comes along and I put too much effort into it. But I don't feel even remotely interested in sleeping around in order to not care for anyone at all. I don't want to slay hambeasts and butterfaces to not care. Catch 22. I'm just not the promiscuous type. 28 and no stds and no kids I didn't plan for? I'd like to keep it that way.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:06 AM
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I guess it's low self-esteem to some degree, but also low drive. I'm 28, haven't done any significant schooling.......and getting to a point where I'm well-adjusted and have an interesting life seems daunting to me. If any girls are interested in me, it's usually shallow, based on looks, and it quickly fades. The feedback part based on personality and lifestyle can't begin unless I find motivation to believe that it will all pay off. It could take years of no fruits. It's tiring just to think ab…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:58 AM
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That may have been a problem for me. It's just hard to put yourself in a position of being somewhat available, while feigning indifference. Like texting first when she doesn't, and still trying to play off as if you couldn't care less.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:47 AM
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Dude, I'm huge. I've been working out for years. Maybe I don't have a six pack, but I am pretty big. As for the rest, well, I have gone to the mall before just to practice socializing but I have a hard time making emotional connections to people. And the last girl I felt invested in turned out to be playing me at first for sex, and acted like she cared about me when she didn't. We didn't have sex, but she wanted it, and pretended to be interested in me. I just don't see how I can get to a point …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:50 AM
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This post is kind of dumb, offense intended. Personally, I'm a shy guy at first a lot of the time, so I may not always be on my game socially. Girls may be like that too. I've been hit on at the mall before by a 7, and I didn't really put that much effort into it either. In my head, I was thinking I want it, but I don't know how much I want it, give me a reason to. Push ahead sometimes, walk away if you want, but try giving people the benefit of the doubt.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:51 PM
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This was a great story! Best thing I've read on this site in a long time. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 12:23 AM
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Fucking great addition, especially about the misallocation of human capital.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 02:22 AM
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