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Two, the main one i'm talking about here and a side one i only see every two weeks just not to put all of the eggs into the same basket. And i fully agree i'm not red pill. I'm internalizing this stuff little by little. If i were i wouldn't be posting here.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:28 PM
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Yeah, seems like i got played. Gotta admit it.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 02:08 PM
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So should i cut out all side activities and stick to meeting for sex only once-twice a week? I've got to demote this plate somehow and let it show.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 11:35 AM
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To elaborate, we weren't just fucking, it has been more like a FWB arrangement. We've been doing other "couple-like" things such as going out and doing sports and what not. I propably have gotten too close and developed some feels. Shit. Would bringing this up be a way to enforce boundaries or displaying neediness?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 09:27 AM
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I'm in the same exact situation. Basically she's been the main plate out of two. No push on exclusivity on her behalf and sure as hell not from mine as it would make me lose all power in the relationshit. Extremely good sex though. I'm going to go radio silent and have her contact me only. This will either make her work more or drop me for good. Lets see. Game on. EDIT: I also made a thread on somewhat similar topic lately with some good answers on it: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/66…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 05:30 PM
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Thank you, this was the reality check i came here for.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 09:58 AM
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Great breakdown. I definitely do not want to enter her frame. Guess i'll just have to wait out and keep approaching new prospects in the meanwhile.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 08:56 AM
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This is how i found this place, i can reflect on this in a lot of ways. I can hold a frame but not 100% in a multi-year LTR, i believe even the alphaest have their weak moments. All it took for me was a few weeks of stress after two years of strong frame for the relationship to deteriorate. I wasn't even completely burnt out, just the first sign of weakness from my part to her ever. Makes me wonder about LTR's in general. To me holding frame is a thing you have to actively work on, cant just rel…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:09 AM
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Amused Mastery is something i really haven't gotten a hold of, anymore examples on this? The way i see it: AA - easy PF - medium AM - hard
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:00 PM
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Great post. Having had this mindset during my last LTR would have saved me from a shit ton of misery suspecting that i was being cucked. Knowing when to draw the line is the hardest part - commanding respect without being needy and mateguarding.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:25 PM
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Man i'm just coming out of an almost similar situation down to our ages and all. Wrote a post earlier and got a lot of great answers to help me cope but the ultimate one that has helped me push on so far was: CUT HER OFF COMPLETELY Delete, unfriend, whatever it takes to kill the memories. There is no substitute. She was your drug and it's dealer, time to cut ties for good.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:51 PM
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Because it's the polar opposite of femininity, therefore seen as hostile?
/r/askTRP13/01/16 03:20 PM
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In Europe, i'd rather not go in detail.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 01:56 PM
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Yeah indeed i've thought that there was better days to come with her that i'm now missing out on. Just lately i re-read this gem from CH: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-women/ According to this a woman's SMV is highest from 17 to 20 years old, after all i banged her from 19 to 21 so i guess i could say i got the most out of her better years, or at least my male hamster tells me so.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:08 PM
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Please get rid of the toxic sloot before she drags you down! Do it!
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:41 PM
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Just wrote a report on AskTRP on my expericence with a similar trickle truth, high n-count girl. Once the truth came out i was never able to get it out of my mind and be at ease, started to eat me up inside. In case you decide to pursue this chick make sure that you can deal with her past and not let it bother you. In the long run it can be devastating or even destructive as happened to me. Whichever path you choose, good luck to you bro!
/r/askTRP09/01/16 10:34 AM
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Seems rather prudish from my point of view!
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:41 PM
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Solid response, keeping frame is indeed the hardest thing over long periods of time. All it took for me was a month of weakness and visible stress after two years of handling all her shit tests almost perfectly. Once it's lost it's lost.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:24 PM
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Already got rid of all her shit before, every single reminder. Just now deleted her from facebook, was the hardest but it's done!
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:37 PM
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Damn right about the sluttiness level. She told me she didn't even know all their names.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:26 PM
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Just did it. Deleted completely. A huge step for me. Thought it would make me look petty and butthurt but fuck what she thinks. She's no longer a part of my life and never will be. Let her seek validation elsewhere, i know she'll have more than plenty.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:13 PM
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Just got back from the gym where this song came up on my playlist, had to stop to listen: Motörhead - Bye bye bitch bye bye https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEsoyJDlY0o Although now that i've blocked her everywhere it would take some heavy investigation to reach out to me anyway. Incredibly RP song to be honest. Think i'm gonna act something like that.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:44 PM
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True, i was in too deep after learning the truth that trickled out. The relationship was never the same afterwards, even though oneitis was strong my mind was never at ease.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:30 PM
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I appreciate the support, this is why i love this community. And it's crazy how i thought after returning home, having seen all the death and suffering that i was somehow stronger and nothing would faze me. Yet i let a vapid basic bitch get to me. Well i guess the most important lessons ain't the easiest ones.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:26 PM
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Thanks, had not heard that one before!
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:27 PM
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One thing that soothes the pain is knowing that the new cock is now stuck with a CC-rider without knowing it until it's probably too late. Feeling like shit for feeling anything for someone not giving a shit tho.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:14 PM
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