betteratdating225 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Is it possible to turn a girl off by "not trying enough" in a conversation?	Outer Game	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	06/05/21 05:56 PM
8	Do you wait for the girl to text first after a first date?	Outer Game	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	20/10/20 02:51 PM
6	Did you attract different women depending on your hairstyle (or lack of)?	Lifestyle	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	26/10/20 09:11 PM
2	Is having mutual interests irrelevant in pick-up?	Lifestyle	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	27/04/21 04:21 PM
2	How direct should I be when seeding for a 2nd date?	Outer Game	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	25/01/21 09:52 PM
1	How can I keep myself from being bitter/jaded with women??	Inner Game	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	22/10/20 03:22 AM
0	Has pick-up become a lot easier nowadays?	Conversation	betteratdating225	/r/seduction	07/08/21 12:49 AM

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1	Stats on 40 Cold Approaches Hey man I was in your situation 10 years ago when I first started cold approaching in 2012. I didn't just do 40 cold approaches but did over a thousand easily. I did 10 approaches a day for a year. I lost count of the numbers I got but out of some 1000-3000 approaches, I only got 4 or 5 dates. Yes, you read that right. Although my "cold approach mechanics" became really good - infact after building rapid momentum it became an instinct, there was something about my inner game that needed work. As…	/r/seduction	07/07/22 03:33 AM
0	Has pick-up become a lot easier nowadays? I make an observational opener like "I like your style, got some hippie vibes going on" or "who looks more hipster, me or you?" I shoot it off the cuff in the moment, so it obviously varies	/r/seduction	07/08/21 03:57 AM
3	Wingmen in Austin, TX Hey bro , I'd be down to wing, I'll most likely be moving somewhere close to downtown in a month or so. I started going out 10 yrs ago but am pretty rusty on cold approach as I started doing online dating heavily. I'm down to get back in there. Send me a message we'll exchange info.	/r/seduction	10/05/21 07:49 PM
3	how do i bounce women within first 45 minutes to my place? I used to bring 90% girls I met on online dates back to my place (before I moved back with my rents due to covid RIP). I'd say have the logistics in your favor BEFORE you go on a date. I.e meet at a place few mins away from your house, and during the date SEED the idea of going back to your place. I.e finding a commonality, oh you like tea? we should drink tea together some time. and then towards the end of the date say hey let's go drinks some tea, I live down the street. It's really that easy.…	/r/seduction	27/04/21 11:26 PM
1	Is having mutual interests irrelevant in pick-up? Ah yes I agree with you, I do get a bit interested especially if I find we have something in particular in common and become a bit more "agreeable".	/r/seduction	27/04/21 05:07 PM
1	Getting a drink with a girl ah yes I recently moved with my parents too due to covid .. I'll be honest it's a bit harder to bang on the first date compared to having your own place but it can be done. What I've recently started to do is I'll get drinks and then find an excuse to bring her back to my car (I'll have some liquor in my car, gotta move my car or I'll get a ticket, let's listen to some music, etc.). Then we'll go to the back seat and start making out. If she really gets into it and I know she'll be down (you can…	/r/seduction	26/10/20 09:16 PM
1	Getting a drink with a girl Have a general plan of how you'll pull her back home. For instance, when I was living in downtown San Francisco, I'd meet a girl for drinks 2 streets away from my house. We'd get 1-2 drinks each, chat, I keep the kino at a minimum and just have a casual convo. I'll pepper in something about tea, or netflix (excuses that I'll later use to bring her back to my place) After about an hour to 1.5 hours, I'll just say hey let's go get tea or watch netflix and she'll say cool and we'll just walk to my …	/r/seduction	26/10/20 08:56 PM
1	How can I keep myself from being bitter/jaded with women?? Not just for sex but more like a long term friends w/ benefits kind of thing (casual but ongoing ideally).	/r/seduction	22/10/20 03:45 AM
2	Do you wait for the girl to text first after a first date? hmm yess guess I have nothing to lose by doing it.	/r/seduction	20/10/20 06:22 PM
2	Do you wait for the girl to text first after a first date? yes good point !!	/r/seduction	20/10/20 06:21 PM