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Men's Rightsbgny/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 02:24 PM
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bgny/r/MGTOW20/03/17 02:51 PM
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Off Topicbgny/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 03:32 PM
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Legal Horrorbgny/r/MGTOW19/05/17 03:02 AM
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Monolithbgny/r/MGTOW04/05/17 03:59 AM
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Men's Rightsbgny/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 02:06 PM
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bgny/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:17 PM
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bgny/r/MensRights04/09/13 09:24 AM
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Blue Pill Examplebgny/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:00 PM
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Red Pill Theorybgny/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:20 PM
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bgny/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 12:12 PM
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bgny/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 07:17 PM
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Blue Pill Examplebgny/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:39 PM
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bgny/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/14 02:47 PM
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bgny/r/MGTOW14/09/13 05:09 PM
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RedPillbgny/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 07:43 AM
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bgny/r/MGTOW27/04/19 09:08 PM
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RedPillbgny/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 07:30 AM
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bgny/r/MGTOW06/10/14 07:15 PM
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bgny/r/MGTOW27/04/19 09:03 PM
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bgny/r/MGTOW06/06/19 05:49 PM
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bgny/r/MGTOW23/05/19 04:50 AM
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https://www.seattlepi.com/local/crime/article/Jury-acquits-Highline-teacher-accused-of-child-6882702.php
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 06:19 PM
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You just have to get through. I had a small dog that was hit by a car and died in my arms. I was like you and only time will help. Eventually I went to the local shelter and saw many dogs who have no homes and who were abandoned. This helped me move on enough to get one of those dogs. I will always miss the one who died but now I have to take care of this one and hes just as loving.
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 11:54 PM
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Do you have plans for the tiny house you built?
/r/MGTOW26/05/17 12:48 PM
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I think r/marriedredpill would be a better fit for you than MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW26/05/17 06:44 AM
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The same logic which Hillary Clinton used to say that women have always been the primary victims of war.
/r/MGTOW16/05/17 02:52 AM
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Not an argument!
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 06:19 AM
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Is your life over without a woman in it? Are you no longer defined without a female partner? Is there no meaning or purpose for men without a woman? Since you have more time now without having to endlessly entertain a woman how about some reading to start with.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 03:18 AM
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I was also removed but was able to rejoin. Overly paranoid maybe? A "detailed introduction" is required now but its not explained what will satisfy that requirement.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 03:07 AM
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If you do decide to start dating again r/theredpill
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 11:22 PM
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If anyone wants more about this, here's a press conference held by Alex to set the record straight about his divorce. His ex has been putting him through hell for years by working the gynocentric system. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ln-kbhNgAGM
/r/MGTOW01/05/17 04:57 AM
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You should have left her when she was pregnant with another mans baby period. I don't think the ultimatum of kill the kid or divorce is something a decent person, and especially a strong man with principles or any pride, would do. You had her kill the child so you could try and save a shit marriage to your precious cheating whore wife. It was ultimately her choice to abort but I don't think you get to come away from this disaster smelling like roses sir. The child bore a heavy price for the sins…
/r/MGTOW09/04/17 07:42 PM
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I'm an introvert and don't mind being by myself. I prefer to be alone a vast majority of the time. I don't have any "huge flaw" unless refusing to do what society says I should. You may be different. Maybe you need friends and a wife to be happy. MGTOW means understanding exactly who you are and what you want, and then living that way, no matter what anyone says about it. This is my way. Find out who you truly are, then you will know what to do.
/r/MGTOW21/03/17 06:48 AM
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Thanks for turning me on to antinatalism. It seems to be a very old idea, pondered over by philosophers all throughout history. I feel I'm in good company now, and there are good arguments on the morality of not producing children.
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 03:31 PM
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Families are different from each other.
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 03:22 PM
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Not kidding unfortunately. For example, in the Ice Age series of animated movies, there's a pair of rhinos, Carl and Frank, which you can tell are gay, even if it isn't spelled out exactly.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:54 PM
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I think an example of disappearing male spaces is the "man cave" phenomenon. A married couple lives in a big house, but the only place in it that the man can decorate himself and make his own, or really have much of say in, is in a "man cave", usually the garage. Happy wife, happy life right!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:15 AM
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I've noticed this a lot in animated movies geared toward kids. There's usually a flamboyant male character or a pair of male characters that talk with gay speech patterns like a lisp.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:10 AM
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If you want to win you got to learn how to play.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 09:27 PM
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Yep, perfect scene for an example. Great movie.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:10 AM
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Awalt means all women have the same nature, not that they have the same behavior. I swear this sentence should be on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:03 PM
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The way I see it, if you aren't put off marriage after taking the pill, you haven't swallowed. Unicorns do not exist. If you want a family You better learn Redpill philosophy inside and out and constantly game your wife. Now, some women will be less of a challenge than others. Awalt means all women have the same nature, not that they have the same behavior. It's not about finding a unicorn, it's about finding a woman you can handle. Even then, a woman may change over the course of a marriage, so…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 06:50 PM
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There are certain milestones in a man's life and losing your virginity is one of them. It has nothing to do with anyone else, it's an early achievement and as a young man there's not much better for your self-esteem. Women don't hold this power, his genetics do, his sex-drive does. If you are ok with being a virgin that's fine, but for most young men they want to know that they don't have to only masturbate and fantasize their whole life in order to fulfill their needs.
/r/ThankTRP06/07/15 06:33 PM
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A man doesn't turn down a half naked woman he's attracted too going down on him because it's not "special enough". It's insecurity making an excuse. Nothing wrong with having sex just for the fun and experience of it. What is "special enough"? You have to be in love? It has to be romantic? She has to be a prospect for marriage? If she decides it was just a fuck, will you be hurt because you thought it was special? Most women, sorry to tell you, don't want "special" romantic sex. They want primal…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:58 PM
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Christ man, the guy just got laid for the first time, let him enjoy it a little. You still in the anger phase?
/r/ThankTRP06/07/15 03:32 PM
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You are in a very good position, at the peak of a man's sexual prowess, with a good career, and at prime health. Don't waste it, this decade should be the best of your life.
/r/ThankTRP06/07/15 03:24 PM
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Doubting is probably not the right word. It's more the indecision, hesitation, insecurity, and the weakness displayed by his behavior. Whatever the reason is the effect is the same - the loss of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 02:56 PM
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A man who is doubting himself is not attractive. A man who stops a woman who has just gave herself to him completely is not a man in her eyes. He made her angry, disappointed, and disgusted. So when he's ready to start again it seems forced and all the spontaneity and sexual excitement has been sucked out of it. He ruined a special moment that will never happen again.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:44 PM
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I'm as little late but will try to read the book by Monday.
/r/RedPillBooks02/01/15 09:07 PM
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A little of r/theredpill a day IS working on myself, because it is one of the only places where men can talk candidly with other men and counter feminist programming. The philosophy is new and still developing, so it is good to keep up. But, as with everything, moderation is wise. In other word's, fuck off, I'll do what I want. Edit: it is kind of strange that a post telling everyone NOT to read the subreddit in which it is posted is so popular.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 07:55 PM
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MGTOW is a protest of non-participation. Men dropping out of the rat race, marriage, and the idea that there's nothing for a man but to become a wage slave, marry some post-feminism cunt, and having a bunch of rug rats, is a logical response to all that BS. The more men that drop out the more it will be asked why, and the more society will crumble without these men holding this poisonous society together anymore. Society might even change when it is shown that treating men like shit is not going…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 07:22 PM
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As a military man recently discharged I will tell you that military life in war time is stressful and exhausting and you have to be super focused on your work for long periods of time. Lives depend on it. If he could talk to you more often he would, trust me. Most guys are waiting all day or days or even weeks for those 5 minutes where they can send off a text or letter. It is one of the few things to look forward while training or deployed is speaking with loved ones back home. Trust in your ma…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 02:49 PM
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I'm an older guy, and I'll tell you there is no greater joy for a man than to understand who he is, what he likes, what he wants, and then to DO THAT, no matter what the pressures of society, or women, or family, or tradition, or rules, say you are supposed to do. If this sounds familiar, yes, I resonate with MGTOW. And although I think avoiding women entirely is a bit extreme, I do think that breaking the chains of societal conditioning, especially in this post-feminism world should be the goal…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:54 PM
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The answer is learning to love yourself first my friend. Everything is transient, change is constant, women come and go, friends and family won't be there forever. I feel the problem is a lack of identity, and that you think without a woman you don't really have one.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:42 PM
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Woman can add value to your life if you understand them and can handle it. That you have no motivation in life without a woman involved is a problem though. And I don't believe that women are the only motivation for men to do anything. Those men on the deserted island without any women still had an instinct to survive and make the best of things. Men shouldn't live to impress women, but to impress themselves first. Men should be able to be happy with women or without women, not because of them.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:28 PM
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But you keep your self respect. In fact if you truly respect yourself and have confidence you will automatically hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:15 AM
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Ah you're trolling. Carry on blue virgin!
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:42 AM
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Lol, this girl was trying really hard to flirt with you, but you made it so difficult! You were actually approached by an attractive woman. This doesn't happen often. And it was a godsend for you since you seem to have trouble doing the approaching. So after some awkward conversation because of your overthinking, you pull your friend into the conversation, which looks like you need help or even worse that you want to be saved from her advance. So she walks away. Get out of your head and focus on…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 05:42 PM
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At least one of the entries includes mention of a paternity test: "Dance instructor at Most Precious Blood Catholic School in Corpus Christi, Texas, was indicted Jan. 24, 2008, on charges she repeatedly sexually assaulted one of her 13-year-old students. Borrego was indicted on 22 counts of aggravated sexual assault of a child, and was ordered to undergo testing to determine if her baby daughter had been fathered by her alleged victim." Edit: another "Redwood City, Calif., woman gave birth to a …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:39 AM
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The Republican Party does not equal Conservatism. Conservatism is an idea, a party is a group of people. Just because a group of people says "We are for conservatism." does not mean that their actions in any way resemble the idea.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:13 PM
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This is truth OP. A GF who calls you a week later in an emotional state pretends that she is upset about you, when in reality she just got the pump and dump.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:47 PM
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Except we read the side bar first instead of asking stupid questions.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:40 PM
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Is the woman not responsible for agreeing to an open relationship and then getting mad and hurt when proof that the relationship is exactly what she agreed to is right in front of her eyes? How is the man treating her like shit for being honest about the situation right off the bat? "We are not exclusive." She agreed. How hard is it to understand this?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:38 PM
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If you go the e-cig route, which I strongly suggest you do. You want to start off with the right set up. If he starts on the cheap e-cigs at the gas station it will turn him off. Check out this first time set up for a guy who smoked for 15 years: link. This is an Innokin itaste VV and a Kanger protank2 mini. I suggest eliquid from Nicoticket, who makes great tobacco and fruit flavors. My favorite is Gravity. He can wean himself off of cigs by smoking and using his vaporizer at the same time. Whe…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 01:08 PM
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In a volatile relationship when I was 18. There was an argument, and she punched me in the face with a cigarette in my mouth, which exploded in sparks all over me and in my eyes. In a blind rage I grabbed her arms, and as she was still trying to hit me, I swung one of her arms to the side and meant to slap her with an open hand. The heel of my hand connected with her jaw and she crumpled to the ground unconscious. I had never hit a girl before and never did again. You can do real damage to a wom…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:07 AM
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Great report, congratulations on saving your marriage. Would love to read an update in the future. Keep exuding that masculine energy!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:33 PM
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I like to answer "Only a couple."
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:52 PM
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Haha, no doubt, but I'm partial to Albert King myself! Also like Buddy guy and the Iceman. Gotta love getting down with the Minor Pentatonic!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:19 PM
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My hands are good with detail work, so I like painting miniatures, card manipulation and magic, and tinkering with electronics. A newer hobby is building atomizer coils for vaporizers. I do a ton of reading, and some writing - mostly for myself but I have a few publication credits. I like bass fishing and hiking, and playing blues guitar. I'm curious what the comments would look like if asked in a female subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:06 PM
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She's your mom.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:32 PM
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My grandfather was also a WWII vet. He flew the B-17 Bomber. He told me a story about his most memorable experience, when he went on a mission to bomb a target in Germany. "They threw everything up in the air at us including the kitchen sink. It was hell up there. I made it though the first pass but I missed the damn target. Command wanted to abort, but I knew these B-17's could take a lot of punishment and still stay in the air. So I turned around made a second pass and blasted it. My Fort (bom…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 03:40 PM
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I'll add that the club atmosphere makes it very difficult to pick up women. First you are competing with a lot of good-looking men all trying to do the same thing. You have to be above a certain height, be in the top 10 - 20 percent in the looks and body department, and/or be a master at game to do well. Many of the ladies aren't even looking to hook-up, and just want get their attention fix and ego-boosted. I would never go to a club again unless it's with a group of people that include women. …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:46 PM
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Clubs aren't the only place to meet women. In fact the women there are probably not the best women to become involved with. There are plenty of other places where there are better quality women, that are less attention seeking, slutty, and more intelligent. Like hiking groups, bookstores, dog parks, reading/writing groups, ect. Develop a hobby and find meet up groups. Even if you don't see as many women in one place as in a club, the women you do meet will be of higher quality and at least you w…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 05:34 PM
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I see, and let's say that you did want it at 12, but the older woman had a disease? Was married? Became pregnant? Had kids of her own who were your age? What if you think you are in love with this woman? Do you think you or any 12 year old has the maturity and mental fortitude to handle something like this? Is it really good for a minor to be involved in these types of situations even if they do feel sexual?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:04 PM
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I would add that OP should find a MALE therapist. I've been to many therapists and the best were male. OP, if you find the right one, (which is not easy), they can help. Ask questions, like "How do you approach psychotherapy? What techniques do you use? Have you had other clients with depression? Did they improve?" The best therapist I had was an intern writing a thesis for his doctorate. He used some Fruedian techniques like dream work, gave me specific goals, and taught me some cognitive techn…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:00 PM
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But if a male raped you at 12 he should rot in prison right?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 07:11 PM
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I moved from New York to Vegas to play professionally 10 years ago. I made just enough to pay for my bills, rent, food, and car, with not much left over except my bankroll. My car was stolen about a year in, so then I walked to the casinos. I played about 10 hours a day, 7 days a week, depending on my winnings. I burnt out in two years, and didn't get rich, so I went back home. It wasn't my kind of atmosphere anyway. The girls, well, it was hard finding a good-looking local that wasn't a prostit…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 06:48 PM
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So you've met your plates by using day game and the internet? Most younger women on the internet have age restrictions that don't go above around 40 it seems.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 07:43 PM
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Yea, I meant to explain how you have come to have such success with younger women as an older bachelor.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 07:41 PM
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That's great, but can you expand on your success as an older bachelor?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 06:04 PM
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Feminists have devalued women's work as caregivers, and now the family as a fundamental part of a functioning society has begun to fall apart. Her answer? "We need to re-socialize men." How about admitting you were wrong and feminism dies a well deserved death? Men and women are different. Get over it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:43 PM
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Eye-opening post, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:12 PM
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You don't understand what MGTOW is, and most people here don't. It's not incel (involutary celibacy). You can't be MGTOW if you have no experience with women. It's not "giving up". These men don't go their own way because they can't be "alpha" enough. So many people still think that if you don't follow the life script of corporate work drone, getting married and becoming a slave to wife and kids that you aren't a real man. There are other ways to live your life. Just because a man chooses to liv…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:32 PM
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Did you even listen to his story? And aren't you missing the point? Did you hear how her lawyers by the end were demanding a half a million dollars THAT DAY, or he goes to jail until he pays it?! I'm amazed he went as long as he did, even going to court by himself after he ran out of money and his lawyers bailed. Why focus on any "mistakes" he made in the face of this insanity? After you listen to the poor guys story all you can think about is a bet this idiot made mistakes? Who doesn't make mis…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 01:39 AM
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The top comments are to contact the authorities or her family, which he agreed to do. What else do you want? Would you like him to give her number to you so you can go save her?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:56 PM
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What is your suggestion besides contacting the police and/or her family, which are the top comments?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:53 PM
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Do you have any sympathy for the kid she had sex with?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 02:50 PM
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Is it not a dangerous idea to think there is no free will? To say that there is no free will is too relieve people of personal responsibility. I guess you would agree with the judge who let's a murderer go free because they claim abuse? There needs to be a balance. People are steered and influenced by nature but ultimately they do have a choice. Once a person is aware of their proclivities, and understand what is right and what is wrong, they must be held responsible for their actions.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 05:33 PM
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I'm MGTOW but I don't feel depressed about it. In fact, I'm happier than I've ever been after over two decades of LTRs, short flings, and ONSs. After acceptance at stage 5 a man can either go MGTOW, which is a rational response to the misandric society, or continue playing the game with eyes wide open. Placing MGTOW in the depression stage feels a little constricting to me. An angry stage man may decide to go MGTOW, a depressed stage man, or an accepting stage man. Even a bargaining man can be M…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 02:26 PM
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Don't use steroids.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:41 AM
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From "Men on Strike" by Dr. Helen Smith: "American society has become anti-male. Men are sensing the backlash and are consciously and unconsciously going “on strike.” They are dropping out of college, leaving the workforce and avoiding marriage and fatherhood at alarming rates. The trend is so pronounced that a number of books have been written about this “man-child” phenomenon, concluding that men have taken a vacation from responsibility simply because they can. But why should men participate …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 03:46 PM
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I also disagree. I'm 40 yo and I've been in 4 relationships over 3 years long, the longest was 5 years. I have plenty of notches besides that. I was never married and have no kids, by choice. I choose freedom. That's why I am MGTOW. I don't need a woman in my life - don't need the hassle, don't need the drain on my resources, or the limiting of my freedom. Not to mention of dangers of false accusations and jail, which I spent 3 days because my ex cried to police that I hit her after holding her …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 02:02 AM
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Women don't have to get good at lying, they are born with it. It's in their DNA. Men are born with strength, and women with guile. Say what you want about the Bible, but it told us the truth right from the start. Eve hamsters about what God "actually" said about not eating the apple, and fools Adam into taking a big bite.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 03:58 PM
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I just wanted to say thanks to the RPW going against the grain of today's feminized culture and having the courage to express it. I have been MGTOW for the last few years, but hearing you talk gives me hope that it's not impossible that there could be a good woman in my future. Keep fighting the good fight and being good to your men!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 03:21 PM
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I used a key-logger and found out my girlfriend of four years was STILL stringing along her ex-boyfriend. We met after she had moved from a different state and I found that she had been promising him that she couldn't wait to move back (with our fucking dog too, which really pissed me off) and live with him again. How I was this and that and the other thing - you know, all the things that women say about their "jerk" boyfriends to their orbiters, all totally untrue or greatly exaggerated of cour…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 01:14 AM
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Wow, sorry to hear that dude. How have you been holding up? What is the situation with the kids and marriage now? Have you moved on with someone else or is it just you and the kids?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:14 PM
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If you have a dog, I've met some nice women at dog parks. At least you know they aren't so selfish that they can take care of one. I also recommend hiking groups, the women are down to earth and in better shape than average.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 03:39 PM
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Like in "American Hustle", the best con men usually have a women to add credibility, distract, and pull sympathy cards.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:54 AM
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I've read many posts in r/relationships that start with "My (soon to be ex)boyfriend is the most kind and wonderful man I have ever met BUT....(hamstering)"
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:38 PM
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I do like the posts that say how theredpill helped them and changed their lives if they have specific examples of their past mistakes, what actions and behaviors they put into practice, and how those actions and behaviors changed their lives for the better. These stories are important to show how the redpill mindset works in the real world. I do agree that the one liner posts gushing and thanking are pretty useless.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:34 PM
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It wouldn't be a total loss, there's still great advice here that will no doubt help and educate others.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:52 PM
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Good I hope he gets away with it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 10:31 PM
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Congratulations. It's always great to see a broken man become whole.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:03 PM
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I agree. I've had my fill. Getting a women in the sack has lost it's charm. The hassle is more than it's worth. Now I'm GMOW.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:46 PM
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"Where do you get these women mate?" Like they are rare or something.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:43 PM
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When women gained the right to vote that created a new voting block that politicians could not ignore and still gain and retain office. It is why feminist groups gained so much political power - by just threatening any politician not in agreement with a label and losing the women's vote.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:54 AM
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Thanks for the reply, and enjoy the gold - I think you deserve it. It takes balls to leave your native State, let alone country. I think of what it would take for someone to say, "You know what, it's not ME that's the problem, it's this fucking country!" That takes real confidence. It's easy to say, "Well, don't I suck, I guess this is all I will ever amount to, might as well deal." And live out the rest of your days unsatisfied, but still somewhat comfortable in what you've always known. I was …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 03:41 PM
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Where did you move to? Can you talk about the things and people you left behind and what you found? And How do you live on that relatively small income?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 10:59 PM
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For me MGTOW means choosing freedom. Freedom to live MY life exactly how I like, without giving fucks about how everyone else thinks I should be living it. Freedom to spend my time and resources how I please. I am not MGTOW by necessity, but by choice. My choice is not to marry and have children. I could marry, I could have kids, I could run the rat race, I could give up myself and my freedom a hundred different ways. I CHOOSE not too. If other men are happy with their marriages and children tha…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 06:58 PM
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Dont forget to subscibe to /r/redpillbooks!
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 02:11 PM
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What about your friends and women you are familiar with? Do they think and act like you or are they more like the women we are talking about?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:57 PM
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I would add that men make up most of the homeless population. Could this have something to do with women being the primary recipients of welfare and housing assistance, along with the proliferation of women's shelters?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 07:22 AM
34

Obamacare is a huge transfer of wealth from men to women. link Marriage can be argued is now just a transfer of wealth from men to women. Divorce laws heavily favoring women. (chlid support, alimony). How many high profile celebrity men have you heard of that have made millionaires out of there former waitress and babysitter wives? Even without divorcing, women end up controlling the money. "At home, the majority of women (90 percent) still control the family's purse strings, from stocking up on…
/r/MensRights22/12/13 09:35 PM
1

Her writing is a bit dry and the book is somewhat lacking in hard data...a lot of anecdotes. It's not as deep as I would of liked. But I think it is worth a read, especially for those still plugged in. It still covers the gamut and holds a lot of politically incorrect truth. I read it and gave it to my father. It definitely opened his eyes. I would try to get a cheaper used copy and pass it along.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 06:48 PM
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The nanny state also helps. There are all kinds of ways that men's income is transferred to women.
/r/MensRights22/12/13 03:42 PM
3

In the book No More Mr. Nice Guy, a lot is written about the inadequate or toxic relationships that male children have with their mothers and fathers, and how this creates beta behaviors as adults. Also talks about how the anti-male society makes males less confident. I'm sure reading this book will help you recognize where at least some of your issues stem from.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 02:40 PM
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They said basically the same things. It just made you feel better to hear it from men.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 09:35 AM
3

Dr. Helen Smith did an AMA on reddit. She maintains a very good blog here. About Men on Strike: "American society has become anti-male. Men are sensing the backlash and are consciously and unconsciously going “on strike.” They are dropping out of college, leaving the workforce and avoiding marriage and fatherhood at alarming rates. The trend is so pronounced that a number of books have been written about this “man-child” phenomenon, concluding that men have taken a vacation from responsibility s…
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 07:56 AM
2

Very important section on the true meaning of love and debunks the myth of romantic love. People don't just "fall in love" uncontrollably and love is not just a feeling. A person chooses who to love. Also learn about defense-mechanisms, laziness, lack of discipline, and other impediments to spiritual growth, along with accepting responsibility, understanding your unconscious and it's role, and the acceptance of the first line of the book - "Life is difficult."
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 07:51 AM
3

Very good book for beginners and any guy that has ever been called "too nice". But I think most men will learn something from this book.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 07:48 AM
9

Did you think of calling her out? "You're not drunk. You know exactly what you are doing." "And what makes you think I want to have sex with a sloppy drunk who doesn't know what she's doing?" "Stop playing games. If you want to have some good sexy time tonight get over here, if not I'll take you home. But enough of this BS." When a women gets all indecisive, teasing, and playing these games and the like - just call her out. Step up the alpha behavior and she will either respond favorably or get …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 02:41 PM
2

I would also recommend getting him the book No More Mr. Nice Guy This will teach him to break out of his beta and nice guy behaviors that are working against him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 02:27 PM
2

Have you been honest with him about your reactions? "I know I treat you badly sometimes when things are stressful and you get sick. I get scared because I look to you for leadership and when my Captain is less able it frightens me." Does he say "Listen I have everything under control. You have nothing to worry about. Whatever happens, I can handle it. We have been through a lot and we have always come through. It is no different this time. Even though I'm sick I am still the acting Captain and w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:56 PM
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Always own your emotions. Never say "YOU are making me angry." You say, "I am angry." Do people control you like a puppet and make you feel whatever they want you too? No. You are a man and feel how you feel regardless. For how your future may turn out, make this your new mantra - "I can handle it." Whatever happens, you can handle it. You are a man and your life will not end. You will continue on and find an even better partner because you are improving. If you stay together it will be more dif…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:38 PM
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I'm not really sure what you are asking. This is a group for men. You should ask your questions over at /r/Redpillwomen. The best thing that you can do for your relationship is send your bf here so he can learn to be a man and treat you in a way that will keep you happy and attracted to him.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 05:09 AM
1

He is responding to an article here. Which is excerpted from this book by Enrico Gnaulati who is a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with children and families. Why immediately disregard something because of what site it's on? You might find something interesting or worthy of discussion at least.
/r/MensRights17/12/13 03:40 AM
1

Having emotion is not a bad thing, all men have emotions, it's how you deal and express them that will set you apart. Nice guys or betas hide emotions and alpha men are more direct and clear. Nice guys end up being passive aggressive, they push down emotion that they think will not be well received, like anger. They are afraid to rock the boat and so become pressure cookers full of rage and eventually lose control. Alphas do not suppress, they deal with emotion no matter how painful, and do not …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:23 AM
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Welcome brother, glad you made it. TRP is a safe place for men to talk, discuss, bond, and enjoy our manliness in all it's glory, good and bad, warts and all. It's become somewhat of a support group for blue pill survivors, the broken-hearted, the divorce raped, and every intelligent, open-minded, introspective man in between. It is painful, and the pill is hard to swallow. Congratulations on being man enough to take it. You are now on the road to a happier more fulfilling life.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 04:24 PM
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Everything she told you is designed to get you to trust her completely. She has succeeded. And now that she has you at a disadvantage she can start deceiving you.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 03:38 AM
4

Except when she decides to divorce rape her future husband. Or leaves him when he doesn't make enough money for her. Or overspends and puts their family into crippling debt. Or tells other women they should do the same... Nah, no biggie if all women aim for the same thing: being an uneducated gold digger. It's not like men and children will suffer for their selfishness.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:24 PM
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This is posted on thebluepill and most of the comments knock her for being married three times and trying to give advice. Total lack of empathy and understanding. Can it be that after three failed marriages she has done some introspection and now understands her mistakes? And now she is trying to wake women up to theirs and increase their happiness? Nope just, "this idiot failed in marriage three times and now she's trying to impart her "wisdom" LOLOL
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 03:36 PM
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I strongly suggest "The Road Less Traveled", to learn about what love truly is. It teaches that love is a decision and an action - something you do, as you said. It debunks the myth of romantic love. People don't just "fall in love" uncontrollably and love is not just a feeling. A person chooses to love and take loving action. The more spiritually developed a person is the more they are capable of loving. It's a good "redpill" type of book to learn about defense-mechanisms, laziness, lack of dis…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 08:30 AM
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It is much more than that. Men are here for different reasons but the sub doesn't "teach men to be promiscuous." It teaches men to reclaim their masculinity, understand the landscape of today's feminized society, and how to navigate said landscape successfully. How they apply this knowledge is personal. Some men want to have lots of sex with different women, some men want a long-term relationship and learn how to increase the odds that their partner will remain happy, attracted, and monogamous w…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:50 AM
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These poor women. Feminists have recreated society in a way that they thought they would want. Now that they have it, marriage and children has become such an unpalatable and risky proposition for men that they are opting out. Women have disowned their femininity. Now women are complaining they have no family. Well, big surprise, you can't "have it all". Men are actually people too! We can respond to misandry by refusing to marry and have children. Enjoy your long career!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 03:41 PM
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It's usually as simple as just listening. Let her know you understand and have her back. Be the calm in the storm, the shoulder to cry on, the strong arm to steady herself by. Being strong for her has always worked better for me than being emotional with her. Being a caring man in a LTR is not pussy behavior, as the relationship is a two way street if you have done right by yourself. The same behaviors toward a female friend who just calls you whenever she has a problem is not appropriate, since…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 06:45 AM
3

Freedom.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 06:25 AM
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Because she is a pedophile?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 06:23 AM
1

There is no reference to the study in the article...not sure where to find it.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 09:45 PM
5

I've never heard this but the article mentions that The National Center for Juvenile Justice 2005 report on statutory rape found that among children ages 7 to 11 and 15 to 17, boy victims outnumbered girls. On average, female molesters were nine years older than their male victims, compared with a six-year age gap between male offenders and teen girl victims.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:19 PM
5

I've said something like I can forgive some things but cheating is not one of them. If you cheat one time I'm gone. It does not reek of desperation when you communicate standards. And it actually says abundance because you can easily leave and find someone new.
/r/askTRP27/11/13 10:24 PM
2

Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/13 04:04 AM
3

You're one of her plates, and she likes playing and winning the game. She also looking for an alpha that knows how to handle her shit. I think you are way behind right now and it will take too much effort for too little reward. Even if you won her over the constant shit tests and frame control required would be exhausting, plus she has other plates to fall back on if you get the best of her. This is advanced game and you're probably not ready and/or are already too emotionally invested. I would …
/r/askTRP10/11/13 04:55 PM
4

I wonder how many of these women would be alive if they had been armed.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 09:14 AM
3

It seems to me that marriage is so heavily skewed towards the female today that a man loses a lot of respect from the woman he is marrying. If getting married turns you Beta (if you aren't already) in the woman's eyes or subconsciously, and she loses sexual interest as soon as you put a ring on her finger, there doesn't seem to be much hope for a great sex life after marriage, no matter who you are. Seems like a lot to overcome and that can easily be avoided by not marrying. Edit: Maybe if the w…
/r/askTRP24/10/13 03:04 PM
9

Son, we live in a world that has walls. And those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. Who's gonna do it? You? You, Lt. Weinberg? I have a greater responsibility than you can possibly fathom. You weep for Santiago and you curse the Marines. You have that luxury. You have the luxury of not knowing what I know: that Santiago's death, while tragic, probably saved lives. And my existence, while grotesque and incomprehensible to you, saves lives...You don't want the truth. Because deep down, in…
/r/MensRights23/10/13 10:48 AM
3

Men (especially those of us a little older) have a disadvantage as red pill knowledge was not something taught to you or easily found. Someone like me who grew up and was educated in the 80's and 90's before the internet and before there was such a thing are just now beginning to understand. Many of us have gone through bad experiences and are just now waking up to how misandric society has weakened us. Many men are still stuck and need help, so more empathy from those in the know is important a…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 01:30 PM
8

This is what got me arrested for the first time in my life a few years ago. When my ex started swinging I would just cover up most of my head and let her hit the back of my head, neck, and back. I usually could take this with no real problem but one day she got a good shot on my spine that hurt like a bitch so I grabbed her and held her down. After she calmed down I let her go. She calmly went to the phone and called 911. I was arrested and spent the night in jail. She dropped the charges later,…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 01:19 PM
2

Did it it matter to you or her that her friend would hear you? I am going to assume it was her that cared and wanted to be somewhat discreet about having sex with you. Did she give that as an excuse not to have sex? I've found that if you can convince a woman that what happens between you will remain an absolute secret from a larger social group, many women who might not otherwise sleep with you just might. Did it bother her that you were ill and she might get sick? If she didn't bring that up a…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 01:32 AM
3

Any male who marries today loses all power in the relationship and is instantly beta because of all the risk he is taking and everything he can and will lose. Marriage is absolutely not worth it in western society today. Younger men who are affected by societal pressure to get married still have an idealistic hope they will meet the right one to marry. They are mostly fooling themselves. Any divorced male will say it is not worth it. The way the laws and courts are set up no woman can be trusted…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/13 10:16 AM
2

I don't believe that there is only one woman who is the most amazing one you will ever be with. If you are always improving yourself, always changing and growing, then the most amazing girl for you will also change at certain points in time. There is not just one soulmate in your life, but many strung out over time as you grow and your life changes. The soulmate mentality is restricting and is a major cause of oneitis, and drawn-out crappy relationships. Because every exceptional girl you get wi…
/r/seduction07/10/13 01:42 PM
4

The proper response to her going to another guys place is an emotionless robotic response. You never let them see they've hurt you. Something like "Cool... Well later, I'm heading back to <bar> to find some chick to fuck. See ya" This is true. Seems to me that is exactly why she invited him to meet her that last time, just to get the ego boost of watching this man break down over her.
/r/askTRP07/10/13 01:12 PM
3

When you are younger the first few women you fall for seem irreplaceable, but as you gain in experience, you learn that there is always another in the near future, different and better than the last, as long as you keep improving. There is always another!
/r/askTRP07/10/13 01:08 PM
4

Something I've learned: When having intercourse don't just swing your hips up and down. Tighten all the muscles in the area, your glutes, your thighs, and your abs, and fuck her with your strength, not just your weight. This feels more enthusiastic and aggressive to them. Try it. Also: The better shape you are in the better sex will be for both of you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 01:00 PM
2

She doesn't want her husband to know she is pregnant until she gives birth.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 12:17 PM
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The only reason she isn't getting an abortion is because she is going to use her kid for leverage to get as much money as she can. She refers to her baby as a "thing" and "whatever's in there", she has no love for her poor child. The baby is just a pawn in her disgusting game.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 01:41 PM
9

What if you don't mention cost or money at all and just say "I have something else planned for our second date. I'll pick you up at 8."
/r/askTRP26/09/13 06:29 PM
1

Could you explain
/r/askTRP26/09/13 06:15 PM
2

Is it the wrong answer to just be honest and say it is a lot of money to spend for a second date and you should split the cost?
/r/askTRP26/09/13 04:18 PM
5

Could you tell us about your private conversation with him? What did you say and how did he respond?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 08:11 PM
1

Thanks for clarifying. I'm wondering why don't you like MGTOW? I think think they have a point when they say that they would rather avoid women because it is dangerous in today's misandric "rape culture" for men to associate with them. And I like that they may even choose to stop participating in the feminist society altogether, hastening its demise by refusing to contribute.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:43 AM
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I don't think MGTOW is about being angry at women more than angry at the situation men are in. It is just dangerous, in today's misandrous "rape culture" to merely associate with women, let alone having relationships with them. Whether in the street, in the home, or in the workplace, MGTOW are not willing to take the risks.
/r/MGTOW14/09/13 07:32 PM
0

So no one will ever read your fairly vapid and unoriginal diatribe, and you felt you could at least get some of the praise you slavishly implore of the world by posting here. Nah, I just thought it might start some conversation and a few people may like to read it. If you want heaps of empty praise and self esteem massages, you should be posting FOR feminism, not against it. You're so right! Why am isolating myself holding contentious views that are so unpopular! I am going to become a beta mang…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 07:17 PM
1

Just more of a writing exercise than anything else. I like to write, and it helps me roll ideas around. I'm not really expecting to change anyone's mind. I liked it and thought others might like it. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 05:25 PM
1

I appreciate your honest opinion.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 05:19 PM
1

Christ, why does anyone post then? For validation, or because they know they have something worthwhile to say? Fuck your BS.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 04:30 PM
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And maybe this rise of porn and prostitution she whines about has something to do with feminism loosening the morality of women and telling them it's ok to do whatever they want? I mean, if women are going to show, men are going to look. If women are going to sell their bodies, men are going to buy. It's a man's fault women CHOOSE to be whores?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 03:49 PM
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Ah well, maybe you're right. Although I think debating on the internet is fun and worthwhile, bastions of misandry like this website do so much damage to anyone charmed by it, I felt I had to try at least. I should learn by now that a man sticking his head (or any other appendage) into a women's circle jerk is bound to have it cut off. I'm still glad I wrote the post, since I can put it here where at least it will be read by someone.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 02:28 PM
2

It did occur to me that since it seems women have achieved equality long ago that what feminists are really fighting for today are privileges and perks, which results in inequality.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 01:50 AM
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I'm just starting to learn about men's rights and gender relations - I have to start somewhere. Because I am a man, I naturally started with men's points of view. And it's not like I am unaware of feminism - it is everywhere - from our school classrooms to our laws and our government, so I did learn something about it along the way (much to my detriment, because I didn't understand the opposing point of view until recently). I also think men's studies have value for me as a topic all on it's own…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 10:43 PM
5

When someone is trying to learn about something, they are informed by other people. I am taking those differing opinions and ideas from other people and forming my own beliefs from a combination of that input and introspection of myself and experiences. My opinion has not been supplied, but I am learning from others. There are a lot of things I haven't read and do not know, and so my opinion is not set in stone, but evolves over time as I gain in wisdom and knowledge. So, in response to your neg…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 09:28 PM
2

Answered a lot of my questions, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 08:20 PM
9

I agree, and would add after some thinking, that maybe feminism has also crippled women's ability to take responsibility for their own behavior and choices, and to change. They have been taught that all their problems are the fault of the "patriarchy." It's amazing realizing how much damage feminism has done to both men AND women, and their relations.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 07:34 PM
3

Seems like a lot of baseless conjecture. First they say females shared in the leadership because they gathered most of the food. Then that males developed language through hunting together (I guess also implying that men become more dominant). Then they make a huge jump of time and correlation and say because male hunters developed language is the reason why there are more men in modern politics!
/r/MensRights06/09/13 01:58 AM
2

In response to the girl saying that men can't be raped because they would like it, you might have pointed out that many women have an orgasm while being raped. Does that mean the man should get away with it? No, it doesn't mean they liked being raped, it's just a involuntary physiological response just like an erection.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 01:36 AM
1

Thanks a lot.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 01:16 AM
1

I've been looking for it, but I don't think it's on the web. It was years ago on TV. I don't remember the name of the host but I am going to guess it was male, maybe Donahue? I would love to find it also.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:56 AM
1

Yea, I've heard that before. I've also heard that I was stupid and that I was weak. I've been told that I am a pussy for letting this happen and that I'm not a real man. I've been told "that would never happen to me" or that I should of "fought back" and "put her in her place." Yes, I made mistakes and I can see them in hindsight. Remember I was struggling with mental health issues and she took advantage of the that situation. But do not assume that a man's intelligence exempts him from getting …
/r/MensRights04/09/13 03:15 PM
6

I saw a talk show that was about males being raped by females. As soon as the host said this the audience was chuckling. A well-built black man came on stage and said "I was raped by a female." The audience now was laughing their heads off. Then he told his story about being forced to have sex with a big ugly woman who held a loaded gun to his head and how scared out of his mind he was. He told them how this traumatic event affected him for years to that day. When he finished speaking there was …
/r/MensRights04/09/13 07:18 AM
2

It's not too late to talk to her. You could open by asking her how she's doing in the class so far, or ask her what pages you were supposed to read, or if she finished the assignment. Something related to the class. After you open with something simple, the next class you see her you should greet her right away and smile. Don't let the class end without trying, it will bother you forever.
/r/seduction09/01/13 04:07 AM
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