I bring forth this question to trp, How to keep having pornstar sex going throughout marriage ?

[deleted] · 2013-10-23T19:13:34+00:00

Keep your SMV higher than hers, which is easier as you get older, and play a low grade dread game. That should keep her motivated to keep interest high.

[deleted] · 2013-10-23T23:43:38+00:00

Just don't be boring. It will never be "the best sex ever" every single time. But don't make it boring or predictable, that is the absolute worst thing you can do. Every single time, do something different. In fact, don't make it so that she has an orgasm predictably after X minutes. Sometimes she should go without one, something with 5. She never should know what she's going to get, which makes great sex a reward, rather than an expectation.

It is easy to keep sex addictive for the woman in a monogamous relationship. The challenge is in remaining super attracted to her - if you grow bored and meh about her body, then you will lose the drive to fuck her with the same qualities / spontaneity / etc.

This is the main flaw with monogamy, IMO. It is not that SHE will get bored (assuming you are on your shit). It is that YOU will get bored, and as a result, you will slack, and then she will get bored. If your wife commits to things like fitness, dancing, dressing up / make-up then this becomes a lot easier. You keep your game tight, and she will ideally keep her 'game' tight, and then it is certainly possible to maintain pornstar sex throughout a long marriage.

As long as she says attractive / you stay attracted to her, then following standard ideas here you should have no problem whatsoever with remaining attractive to her.

bgny · 2013-10-24T15:04:33+00:00

It seems to me that marriage is so heavily skewed towards the female today that a man loses a lot of respect from the woman he is marrying. If getting married turns you Beta (if you aren't already) in the woman's eyes or subconsciously, and she loses sexual interest as soon as you put a ring on her finger, there doesn't seem to be much hope for a great sex life after marriage, no matter who you are. Seems like a lot to overcome and that can easily be avoided by not marrying.

Edit: Maybe if the woman you are marrying has some red-pill knowledge and some understanding of her own nature that the transition to marriage will be much easier and healthier in the long run.

30years · 2013-10-23T23:30:47+00:00

I recently separated at 50 and I can tell you two things - I don't know if they will be helpful or distressing:

First, we had a great sex life. She would do what I wanted, the way I wanted, wearing what I wanted (or not wearing) pretty much any time. She had maintained her looks and she looked good. I had no complaints there.

Second, once we separated and I began having sex with other women, I found that there were not only many women willing to have sex with me, but they were also younger and even more attractive than my ex. Even though she maintained herself, she was still 49, and her face and body showed signs of age that are not there is the 35 to 40 women. Younger pussy is an amazing treat when you have not been with it in a while.

wakethfkupneo · 2013-10-23T20:58:17+00:00

I'd suggest Athol Kay's "MMSL Primer". In a nutshell: be alpha, aim for SMV 1 point higher than her's, but it's really not that simple - you should balance alpha and beta traits.

[deleted] · 2013-10-24T00:25:58+00:00

You won't be having great sex into your late 50's unless you marry a chick 20 years younger than you. A man's boner is simply not designed to get hard for chicks well beyond their fertile years, anyone saying otherwise is trying to sell you a load of shit.

With that said, the answer is going to be the same as anything else: health is number 1, and after that you just need to do shit that you can both get excited about, and maybe throw in some no-fap here and there.

Title	I bring forth this question to trp, How to keep having pornstar sex going throughout marriage ?
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Date	October 23, 2013 7:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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