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| 14 | The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone.Yeah and the sad thing is that the thing he is likely "not good at" that he referenced in his response is turning someone he's not into down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HVYour story makes me think of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 22 | From HV to NV, a short story.You can't leave it like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 10 | No one asked him to research love languages...You forgot. My girlfriend didn't do anything for my birthday. That just isn't our thing. It's not a big deal! Some people just don't do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 10 | No one asked him to research love languages...I know it is garbage but it will show up without fail in advice to women. They might as well be asking her to check his horoscope. But have you researched LoVE laNGuaGES? His might not be giving gifts or acknowledging your existence until he's ready to have sex with you. - typical reddit advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 42 | No one asked him to research love languages...This is exactly why I was given pause at the comments. Like this is all good advice they are giving him but this is NOT the advice they give women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Trust your instinctsHey I actually posted something new that should be in the queue. If you can approve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 3 | The Truth About Women in the BibleI'm huge into Greek mythology so I'm going with this story, the gods made man but when Prometheus gave them fire he had stolen from Olympus, Zeus was pissed. He didn't have a high opinion of man. "they ain't shit" - Zeus probably. So he created Pandora the first mortal woman and had the other gods give her gifts that would set her above and make her desirable to men keeping in mind she didn't marry a man. Pandora (all gifts) was wed to Epimetheus the Titan and had a daughter Pyrrha, Pyrrha marri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Moral of the story - NVM wants her to give up on her future to be a mom. PATHETIC!I think this is more they made an agreement when they were younger and stupider and now the reality is neither of them would be willing to give up their jobs that they worked really hard to achieve. Like when I was 19 I said I would stop going to clubs when I turned 27 because that was so old. Obviously, that was the thought of a 19 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | The Truth About Women in the BibleKing James had it translated. The bible is a bunch of books put together. The new testament is a specifically curated document put together by a bunch of religious scholars who frankly couldn't agree with each other on sometimes the smallest points. And you are right. They definitely wrote women out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | The Truth About Women in the BibleGod made us Humankind (Ha’Adam). He did not make us man and woman, he made us human. Ok yea, Genesis 2, wasn't woman made from the rib of man? No, God made woman from the rib of Ha'Adam and the word is plural Isn't this splitting hairs tho? Because it is pretty well recognized that humankind really referred to men and that woman is other because she was created from the rib of Adam. Whether we call him human kind or just man. The original intention was that Eve was to be a helper to Adam and set… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 10 | Neglect versus violenceAlso society has no problem with the evil step-mother stereotype. Somehow the father that let's his kids be abused isn't under the same scrutiny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:59 PM |
| 53 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.She was 17 when she met him. making him 31. This poor girl was groomed. At least the update is a good one. She left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 157 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.His story will now be "I didn't do anything, she just left" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 5 | On today's episode of Count The Red Flags!She's in France | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 26 | Nothing to add, she said it all LOLWell that answers the question of what would Kevin Hart sound like if he took over a woman's body. That woman in the beginning. I just want to say "Maybe your husband's money is not yours but you cannot speak for anyone else" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 22 | YouTube comment about Netflix’s To All The Boys 2 (but really applies to pretty much all movies)My favorite line in that first movie "You haven't even posted us on Instagram!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 31 | Male Pandering At Its Finest.. Embarrassing.Is she...drunk or high? Because that is what it seems like. You know when you say something and you think you sound like you are saying something profound but it's just...this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Don't give him a pennyShe's not in the same city. They had to go LDR so she really could just block him from everywhere and he's out of luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 11 | Why is his "career' more important than me, more important than my own life?He doesn't even have to be accused of a crime. Do you remember when that girl talked about her terrible date with Aziz Ansari? Everyone was so quick to say "It was just a bad date! She shouldn't be ruining his career over a bad date!" Um, it was terrible and we should be talking about things like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Don't give him a pennyWhy is she still calling him her boyfriend? He's literally a guy she went on a vacation with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 13 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?The love language thing kills me everytime I see it and it is always "Have you looked into what his love language is?" What are they even talking about? Has he looked into what hers is? Or maybe it's all of them because she wants a well rounded relationship? They act as if it is some ancient wisdom and not some bullshit some guy came up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | Don't give him a pennyShe was in the mood to be gaslit by LVM's telling her that she should pay up because she's entitled and shouldn't assume someone would pay her way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:35 AM |
| 18 | Don't give him a pennyAnd laugh when they ask him to prove that she agreed to pay for anything and he has nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 75 | Don't give him a pennyYeah they would be but you didn't "ComMUniCAte" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:55 PM |
| 62 | Don't give him a pennyThat's the advice I gave her. Just block him everywhere and ignore the request. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 276 | Don't give him a pennySo many men call her entitled for assuming she wasn't paying for the trip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | The processI'm curious, if the theory that everyone in your dreams is a part of you. That football player is a part of you, that friend who slept with him is you. All unintegrated parts of you. then what is it inside of yourself that your subconscious is trying to get you to forgive? What part of yourself are you unforgivably mad at? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯heal shame and improve your self esteem Doesn't it feel like sex on the first date would do the opposite? Since the phrase pump and dump comes to mind. These people don't seem to understand relationship dynamics as they exist in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 111 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!in her comments she said that the ring was the last straw because he doesn't take her out to eat, or pay when they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 34 | Throw the entire husband outHow can she call him caring and considerate and then says "He knows this, but he does nothing" She needs to look up the definitions of caring and considerate. A caring and considerate man wouldn't subtly tell you that he doesn't expect to pay any household expenses. Did she birth him that she should be expected to pay his way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:04 AM |
| 11 | One for the ages (2 parts).Do you believe she didn't know he was married? In the entire time he was working there he wasn't wearing his wedding ring? mmm...I'm gonna call bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 4 | As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships.Can you pm the source, I can't seem to find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 23 | One for the ages (2 parts).He broke up with her and kicked her out, no doubt because that kid wasn't his. He fucked up his whole life for someone who clearly saw him as a mealticket. why are men so dumb? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 12 | LmaoIs FDS watching me? I was just watching this movie on tv. This boy didn't need boxing, he needed therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 5 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumThis sucks. How did you find out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:05 PM |
| 23 | Saw this on Facebook earlier. These replies, omfg.I just meant like how can someone who didn't get chocolate be like "Girl, you deserve someone to buy you chocolate" uh, ok, so do you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 7 | If men like this communicated this to their fellow men..The comments section for that video is a mess. "BuT WHaT abOUt 50/50!!?" There is just so much pretending that it doesn't mean something about a man's interest and respect for a woman when he pays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:34 PM |
| 20 | Saw this on Facebook earlier. These replies, omfg.This made me almost spit out my water. She told you that was the saddest thing she ever heard? I would have challenged that. Why? It sounds practical not sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 6 | There are worse things than dying alone.I don't think your mom was a strong matriarch type. It sounds like she was an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Plot Twist: Scrotes are the biggest gold diggers around.You need to post this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:01 PM |
| 45 | 50/50 is a scam, exhibit #126272This man was living with his parents before moving in with her. According to him he isn't saving money because he was living rent free before. red flag parade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:00 AM |
| 54 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?OMG. That's horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 17 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮I feel like if someone did this to me I would resent them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 30 | Brainwashing in Greek media.I stand corrected apparently I was walking by a Ukrainian show dubbed in Greek. It was problematic in its own way but you are right. My mom was like, "She is right it is brainwashing." And then she launched into a long description of that Ukrainian show that has attractive but terrible people in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 22 | Brainwashing in Greek media.really? I feel like my mom only watches Greek shows with young good looking men and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 26 | Who's he marrying?how did people make that crown of hair? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:00 AM |
| 27 | Apparently saying sex work is exploitative means we want to live in Gilead nowI had a friend who had a lot of casual sex and thought "why not get paid for it?" and tried to be a sex worker. 6 months later she stopped. Because casual sex and sex work are entirely different things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:08 PM |
| 249 | Remember ladies, anyone who says this sub is "redpill for woman" or "female incels" chances are close to 100% that they are an MRA or incel. They're just bitter their fave sub got banned. It's the same mentality as a child throwing a temper tantrum when their toy gets taken away.We get so angry we start going back to school, focusing on our careers, organizing our finances, going back to the gym. Feeling lighter and happier to not have some toxic man in our lives. We're savages /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:37 AM |
| 1 | It's an epidemicI didn't even bother adding the article because the headline says it all. What is going on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:33 AM |
| 33 | I just get more and more flabbergasted with what women put themselves through to be in a relationship. I just think it's just so sad they don't have self-respect enough to drop a guy like this.I saw this and immediately thought of FDS. Like what is even happening in the world? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Girl posts about not liking her boyfriends hentai habit, gets flamed in the comments for being apparently insecure and jealousIt means he doesn't think she's very smart and he's hoping she buys his bullshit? probably. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Repost: Cultural Gaslighting and Unpacking the Britney Spears storyHave you checked out the Psychology in Seattle coverage of the documentary. It is interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...Do you think she knows on some level that she sounds like a clown? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:23 PM |
| 4 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowWhy is he trying to be in a relationship if he isn't over it? So he can torture some girl with his grief? Women aren't rehabilitation centres. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 24 | "His teeth are gross but I love him." 🤢🤮"That seemed to all end when I accepted his proposal" I guess the reality of committing yourself to a guy who doesn't brush his teeth, drinks too much soda and is overly attached to his parents made her think shit, I don't need to be so desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | an excellent message!!You can need people and be a strong person. She is equating toxic relationships with all relationships. Her refusal to have compassion for women who find themselves in relationship cycles that are actually hard to break isn't exactly ground breaking. It's what society has done to women for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!I’m genuinely and deeply second hand embarrassed. I’m....bored. Sorry I honestly was pointing out that your feelings were deeper than embarrassment or boredom. That this relationship is damaging you. You say of course but it wasn't clear that you were aware of that in your comment. I just commented so you wouldn't minimize your feelings. You matter and your feelings about being shown love on a day that is supposed to celebrate it matter. Hopefully this guy is in your rearview. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 29 | What happened to first dates?And that guy who is willing to have sex with a girl after meeting you for the first time, thinks very little of that girl. Why have sex with someone who will only believe you to be disposable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:33 PM |
| 75 | What happened to first dates?Since tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 56 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...She even outlined it in her little manifesto. "If he's having a bad day, I'll be there for him" Ok. What's the 50% he's giving you in that scenario? Nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 110 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...Don't expect a man to treat you like a queen if you can't treat him like a king. She's definitely a pickme. Who does she think she is telling me what my expectations should be.? If she wants to set her bar low that's her business. Why do my standards make her mad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | If it wasn't for FDS my v day could have been like this! They're engaged and he always posts the uglist/eyes closed pics of her 🤮 she even negs herself in the post that's another level of being LVM brainwashed 🤮I think it is sad but kind of funny that she says I love you tons (even though you are garbage) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else unwind with bad reality TV on occasion? I've been a fan of this train wreck of a show since it first aired in 2001. It was rebooted a few years ago and new season premiered last night. I don't see any HVMs in the mix so far.Bling Empire! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:05 PM |
| 29 | Drowning in red flagsHe is a DECENT HUMAN BEING. Line up!! I just died. that's so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 7 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!I think you are actually hurt. I don't think this is the relationship for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!i would be worried continuing to date someone who doesn't have any emotional fortitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:00 PM |
| 23 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!You are breaking up with him right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 9 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!he is now mad at ME for getting so upset about something as silly as “flowers.” he really is a good guy (smart, hardworking, kind, decent lover) Really? kind? You cried with disappointment and he reacted with anger. nah sis. It's good you guys are going your separate ways. He knows his gift was bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Young Mistress of 30+ year old man died trying to fight his wife in his houseI think this case would be tried much differently today because now we do know about things like grooming which in the 90's people were ignorant of. Or at the very least didn't have a word for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Never take a man at face value. My BF agreed with his roommate that shelling out all of your savings for an engagement ring is an unfair expectation , and you can show you love someone in other ways Here you shouldn't have bothered to push back you should have asked him what other ways. Because an engagement ring isn't supposed to show you love someone it is supposed to be a reflection of the future bride's taste as she will ostensibly be wearing it for the rest of her life. So technically he is right he doesn't necessarily … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 37 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!When asked if she wanted a car "Yes she wanted a car" And you got her not a car but still wanted her to be grateful and suck your dick. hmm... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 41 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!Basically that is his way of saying that him showing up should be enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 122 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!The person who suggests the date pays for it thing really worked in his favor because he didn't like doing anything. And he said it with such arrogance. I've given no effort and now she doesn't like that! Of course she doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 72 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!He just wanted to give her adoration. Is this his first relationship? Did he just start dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:23 AM |
| 149 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!This comment is why women need FDS: "LOL. Find someone who makes it easy. I woke up today, it's Valentine's day, I've smoked a ham and am making cheesy potatoes and green bean casserole - my girlfriend's favorite meal. That's it man... I guess I forgot people give GIFTS and not just adoration for Valentine's day. You guessed it. She got me gifts haha. I felt pretty bad.. so I just told her exactly what I'm typing here. I didn't realize. We're happily watching a movie together and enjoying each o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 155 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!"She didn't initially join it for advice." Yeah, sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 346 | Men won’t even put in the bare minimum these days and it’s because there are women who tolerate it.I would rather imagine a world where weak men didn't exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 34 | The LVM on Valentine's DayIt makes shake my head whenever a poster says they communicated and someone says "well then sit him down and tell him..." She did that! Just say you don't have any advice because you think a woman should just hold onto any garbage that is in her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:09 PM |
| 168 | This is very sweet.I really liked that he was asking if it was a good sign of love. He wants the flowers to really express his feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 26 | Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case.I'm laughing at this because it's the opening question that is rubbing you the wrong way. You ever wonder how certain women who aren't classified as attractive by society standards are happily married with a good man that breaks his back to keep a smile on her face? No, I don't ever wonder how an "ugly" woman gets a man to love her and care about her. I certainly don't waste time wondering all the things she is doing to bring "peace" into a man's life while also "raising him up" to her level. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 34 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.Why on earth does he think you should care if it is rare that he reaches out to people? Or it's rare that he sees himself with someone long term? It should be rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | A lot of “Doms” in bed are really just sexually selfish men who use the presence of a dynamic to justify not having to care about their partner’s sexual pleasure.I genuinely do not understand this. How do you have sex with someone without your orgasm being important? Like the whole point of sex for a woman is her orgasm. You are letting a man inside your body, you shouldn't do that unless he's given you orgasms first. Preferably many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Lots of LVM in the comments, ofc.I hope you didn't think I was defending him. I'm just saying that his mentality is so fucked why would he think of her. He is showing her who he is and she's like what do I do? Do I believe him? The answer is yes, believe the doubt that lives in her heart. He is saying she needs to accept whatever garbage ring because love. But he's ignoring what that garbage ring says about his love for her and that should actually be her only criteria for deciding to marry him or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Lots of LVM in the comments, ofc."A potential unwillingness on my brother's part to spend money on her the way he spends it on himself." It's not potential. It is actively happening and he thinks her feelings for him should be so strong she accepts being treated like less than. He doesn't take into account that his ring choice is telling her that he doesn't love her. Why would he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 8 | Guy a cheap date?this guy tells me he grew up poor And he lets it affect his entire life. I grew up poor and I also know how to be generous with myself and others. If he hasn't figured it out, he needs to work on himself. You can't fix him. You've been dating him a month too long. Let this guy go, he is not the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 9 | I always faked my orgasmsWhen I lost my virginity, I was 15, and he was 23. It seems that your lack of orgasms were because you were rushed into sex by someone who emotionally manipulated you. I think you were definitely failed but it wasn't the school system. Why was this relationship ok at 15? Because it is not ok. At that age you should have been at most idling at 3rd base where you should have experienced orgasms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Not being fully informed and consentbut when I try to tell him he acts like I am crazy. Of course he does. He doesn't benefit from admitting that he's a shitbag. Stop trying to get something from him when he has clearly decided he didn't do anything wrong. I'm sure if you look back on your relationship this won't be the first time he's shut down your feelings. Now all you can do is block him and put him in your rearview mirror. Then do the work to heal. Don't feel stupid. You forgot to trust yourself when you knew something wasn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:20 AM |
| 26 | Got this gem from a guy I used to see in college(my 19-year-old pickme era)Did his brain just malfunction? Who sends a message like this? with a shrug emoji and everything. He just doesn't even understand anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 238 | This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the commentsall the talk about love languages makes me want to scream "WE NEED ALL OF THEM!" I like gifts I like hugs I like spending time with my SO I like having nice things done for me I like being told I'm awesome I would like to know who doesn't like these things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.I saw this on another sub. Apparently she's with Andy now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.Why? Just why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 7 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.my thoughts exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 11 | What in the holy pickmeisha gaslit denial is this horror show that I am reading???Huh, there is a whole lot of what? Why? in this post. 2 days ago, he decided to confess to something that happened roughly 22 months ago because he just realised he was abused by his ex. He's since them been in constant contact with this person. Why does it feel like there is A LOT missing from this story? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 15 | I made a terrible decision of checking my ex's instagram and now I feel awfilBut seeing how my ex is treating his new girl 10x better than how he treated me is making feel like I was disposable and not worth fighting for. I told her he was trying to cheat with me twice and she just blocked me. Sorry how is he treating her 10x better than you if he was trying to cheat with you? It doesn't sound better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 24 | Analysis | Britney Spears and the trauma of being young, female and famous in the ’90sI also thought it was gross that I knew that she gave up her virginity to Nick Lachey after they got married. Why did I need that information? I didn't. But they were so obsessed with that shit. It's wild that she has a billion dollar business now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 14 | Stop talking to him at the very first sign of disinterest/lazinessI'm getting a chuckle at imagining his confusion about what he did wrong and why you just wouldn't "CoMMuNiCate!" with him. Like dude, if you don't understand then that's why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 58 | Analysis | Britney Spears and the trauma of being young, female and famous in the ’90sI honestly didn't understand the obsession with her virginity. It was so weird to me as a young woman. Why do these people think it is ok to ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 22 | Momentarily slipped into pickmeisha slip by giving an apology to a LVM who slapped me back into FDS reality, what a fucking croc of shit.Wait why did you apologize? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 19 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectGod, and you know he won't disorganized enough to screw her over if it becomes successful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 38 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectYou should just casually ask her if her stake in the start up is in writing. Just like, plant the seed. I know I have to do that with my pickme friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"I think she responded professionally and as good as she could without getting involved. Let's agree to disagree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 52 | Just gonna leave this little gem here 💎"Always be in a position to tell a dude he can step" Truer words have never been spoken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Oh.....oh no.......begging him to compromise? What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | STOP PLAYING HOUSENeither did I. This is how I learned about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:23 PM |
| 15 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEYeah that whole relationship leaves her in tears regularly. I had to straight out say "Listen, you made a bad choice. He's not the guy for you" and she just started crying. I felt bad but really he went to the hospital for smoking too much weed. Do you know how much weed you have to smoke to poison yourself with it? It's crazy that they are in their 30's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 75 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"This is such a sad sad response from her. She left him for drug abuse and infidelity. Evan Rachel Wood was the child he was cheating with. Probably not the only one but the most significant. They divorced in 2007 and in 2007 ERW and Brian went public with their relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 25 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEYeah.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 29 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEWhen I found out my mom only had a joint account with my dad I was like well guess what we're going to do? Can you imagine that for 40 years she's just trusted my dad? Like he's great and all but what if he wasn't? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 74 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEI was talking to a friend the other day and she was complaining about her "husband" I was like "Wait when did she get married? Am I a bad friend? Did I forget she got married?" I didn't want to be rude so I asked a mutual friend and she was like "No, she just says it because they have kids and probably feels like they are married." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 3 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEDid you ask your dad why he did that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 22 | Clown Central 🤡🤡I think maybe she doesn't know what being Christian is supposed to mean...because vices now and then is really supposed to be antithetical to that. I wonder at the entitlement this woman feels to tell someone who is literally asking for prayer to consistently stay away from porn "I DoN't THinK tHeRe's ANytHINg WroNG WitH IT" Who cares what you think this dude is clearly saying he has a problem. It's like telling someone who says they have a problem with alcohol. "I don't get it, I like to drink … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:14 PM |
| 57 | Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't.I just had a conversation yesterday with a friend who is in a relationship with a guy who just won't make plans ahead of time unless she's the one to initiate. I keep telling her to stop initiating and to not agree to last minute plans. She believes that if she just lectures him enough about it then it will change. she's 4 lectures in and still nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 3 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedYeah it's in the comments. Apparently he's at the side chicks place and she packed his shit while he kept unpacking it. Does he actually think that she's going to stay with his cheating and lying ass? Men. I know that it's devastating to find something like this out but it's really a blessing. She can now move on with her life and she deserves a real partner who wants everything with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedThen he transferred the money in their joint account to himself. luckily it wasn't a lot of money but man. This is why you don't mingle shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedI saw that and I hope so! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:53 AM |
| 34 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedwow, you really sunk that lady's battleship. she really wanted to be righteous about her forever girlfriend status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 157 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedI think the worst part of the dealbreaker quote was that she said "he's allowed to have them" Yeah and so is she but she's just ignoring that. The other very sad thing "We both want kids, and he's said we can have kids without a marriage." She deserves so much more than a guy who lies about her and gets her to serve him coffee while he's in fucking meetings at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 37 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedI'm so happy to see so many comments telling her not to buy property or have kids with this guy. What is she doing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:40 PM |
| 51 | This is horrifyingThen he should be with her is what I would say. No one is entering my exits. It just isn't happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | A rant about double standards and committment-phobia/emotional immaturityGirl, you need to move on from this guy. You know it. This post is proof of your frustration and that guy is NOT the one. Make decisions for your future and your career as if ONLY you matter. Because you do. You are the main character of your life. You are not Barb the builder. You don't need to build him up only for him to take you for granted. Just figure out what you need to do to make your single life happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 11 | The audacity. (Found this on another sub)I just have to be that person and say I wish she didn't reply. Or if she did it was just No. It's a complete sentence. That lol is such a reflex that I just wanna smack her hand and ask nice for what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:33 AM |
| 24 | What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You LeftHe just decided stuff about me without actually talking to me. Then he would lecture me about said things. I learned don't date a guy who is judging you and not actually trying to get to know you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:24 AM |
| 3 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?It’s at 84% positive upvoted. Oh, wow that sucks. Maybe it is that I called her a pickme. Only because she's blaming herself for even having feelings that makes me think that. Her instincts are all there but she would rather value a relationship than herself. Though I do like what one comment called the other girl Patricia Pickme. that made me laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?Is it getting downvoted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:47 AM |
| 7 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?What's worse is that she thinks there is some kind of work she needs to put into the relationship to make sure she hasn't "ruined it". Uh no, there is nothing you can do to make it ok that he is more excited about his friend than he is you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 12 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?Lol yeah, that's the awful thing. She KNOWS but she's so blinded by being in a relationship that she'd rather hold on than be single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 12:14 AM |
| 8 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.You aren't behooved to do anything. What a lame dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 11 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?We are thinking the same thing. I just meant that she thinks this is a problem with the best friend but it's a problem with the LVM she's attached herself to because I also don't think there is anything he can do. She should have seen his behaviours and moved on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:49 PM |
| 31 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?I'm of the opinion an HVM would have figured out his feelings for his friend. It is obvious from some of OP's observations that she sees her boyfriend's interest in the friend but it is not acknowledged by the boyfriend. (His eyes lighting up, he answers really quickly to her texts etc.) I think the mistake OP is making is saying that the girl is crossing boundaries when really her concern is how her LVM over here is behaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 21 | She's a pickme for sure but what's the FDS advice on this situation? What does he do to make it right?Based on her comments she doesn't have a problem with female friends it is just this female friend. Personally I think that is your cue to get out. I was just curious to hear what other people had to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 52 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.It's so funny how many people are replying with "That's not small that's a big reason" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 51 | Another thing to vet for?I know its ridiculous but I hate going to sleep sniffing farty air. What world am I in? Did I transfer to another dimension? Why is it ridiculous? It is perfectly fucking normal to not want to smell someone else's farts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 31 | Cats, candles, wine and the golden girls??? SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍How does this guy know my retirement plan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 33 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.Good for you and now you never have to listen to any of his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:16 AM |
| 12 | His GF refused to bow to him, so he tired to kill her.The absolute worst line the tmz article "The Seahawks released a statement on the incident on Monday night, saying, "We are aware of the situation and still gathering information." Like that's all you have to say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 6 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplacelol this made me snort my morning tea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:45 PM |
| 113 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplacethis made me laugh because I feel like I"ve seen this so much in the ra sub. It feels really obvious to say "He's already in a relationship you should leave him" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 24 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceI'm so averse to this I won't read romance novels that are workplace romances. Like no, it's too messy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:11 AM |
| 105 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceSo glad he's the ex-husband. What an asshole. I hope it is long behind you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:09 AM |
| 25 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceI guess people probably thought, well who else am I going to date? But affairs are just so messy why would you want it to bleed into your work life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:07 AM |
| 17 | A high-earning woman may never be fully rid of a scrote. Beware.lol. when the bar is in hell... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:33 AM |
| 5 | What’s your opinion on Jordan Peterson?I think someone with the kinds of problems he has shouldn't be telling other people how to live their lives. He just says stuff and doesn't seem to care if it makes sense. People who are listening are like "He's dumb" and people who aren't listening will hear one sentence and take that as gospel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Armand Hammer: textbook case of the 'woke' LVM narcissist.I remember seeing some interview with him during RBG publicity and I thought "I don't believe anything he is saying" I think he was talking about how that movie made him a better partner. I was like "Do you get to decide that though?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, I am literally CRYING at this exchange 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Ugh, I saw a thread where a man was listing all the reasons his girlfriend of three years broke up with him and he describes this emotionally abusive relationship and wants to know what advice someone would give her if she wanted to get back together with him and advice for him if he wanted to win her back. Someone said "I would tell her not to get back together with you, because you described a very abusive relationship. I would tell her to read Why does he do that? by lundy whatever his name i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:37 AM |
| 36 | A high-earning woman may never be fully rid of a scrote. Beware.Audrina always had the worst taste in men. Does anyone remember Justin bobby? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:26 AM |
| 38 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadI'm kind of worried for her circulation wearing that ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 6 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?The funny thing is that it wasn't a serious conversation. It was a throwaway line of advice to someone she was ostensibly helping match with someone on tinder. Yahoo created a headline and then this yahoo got butthurt. What is hilarious to me is that his criticism just isn't valid. A woman who has collected more rings than Thanos has the experience to say whatever she wants about relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 9 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?It is weird that he thinks it is an insult that many men have wanted to marry her and have ponied up for a ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | There is no Dream GirlEscape is such a good word for it. That is how it felt. I don't know what it is called when someone feels emotionally obligated to stay in a relationship they don't enjoy anymore so I didn't even feel betrayed. I felt relieved. That I finally had a reason that was his fault and tangible. I was 25 is my only defence for not just leaving even though I knew I didn't want to be with him anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 43 | There is no Dream GirlWhile I know this isn't the point. You should totally watch Vacuum Wars on Youtube the next time you need a vacuum. I think I've always felt this way because when my ex approached me about opening our relationship because he wanted to "explore" his connection to some other woman. I said no, first of all, then, I'll just move out and he was devastated. He was acting like I was the one telling him I wanted to cheat. But I was like if you don't value our connection then I can't make you do that and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 19 | Boundaries are for you to be protectedI’m becoming less socially polite and more protective of myself. I think the etiquette for a situation like this would be to remove yourself from the situation. They were the ones who were being rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 30 | Vasopressin Receptors and Male BondingI guess this explains why guys tend to cheat with friends and co-workers. Because they are spending time forming a bond. Also why women get hurt by developing feelings for someone who just sees them as a sex buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | SpyLife of the Party was a fun movie too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 21 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄Lol or we're "toxic" man the world is toxic and we're just trying to stay clean and healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 82 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄I've seen fds messages get downvoted to hell so I just private message the girl. It' feels like I"m giving her the code to a secret society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?It might help you to read about attachment theory. I think there is a good book called Attached that a friend recommended to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?I’m so disappointed in myself. Don't waste your emotional energy dragging yourself because you were hopeful that this initial aggressive push might mean something. I’m like, was he just not into me??? I think he was obviously into you enough to string you along. that's HIS failing NOT yours. You didn't do anything wrong except for practice more discernment. If after a week he started having doubts you should have mirrored him and had the same doubts and gone one step further and made mental list… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:57 AM |
| 7 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?You remind yourself that the him he was with you wasn't good enough and didn't meet your standards. If he's able to be that for someone else then good for him. It doesn't mean that there is some deficiency in you. After all there are lots of guys who you aren't interested in. Should they hate themselves? I think you are taking personally something that has nothing to do with you. The thing that does have to do with you is the "I give them a chance" mentality. I don't think you should be giving a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:40 AM |
| 4 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬I would love that joke explained to me cuz I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 9 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?The thing about HVM is that it is very subjective. If he didn't want you after a few months then he isn't very high value to you. But the fact that you have described him as avoidant with his sketchy af dating past tells me that he ain't shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:23 AM |
| 12 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬The "friend" also claims that the I like my best friend video was also a joke. But let's face it everyone can see clearly that there is an inappropriate closeness and there are way too many pictures of the friend with the guy sleeping. So I think there is some truth to all the situations. That the girl has a crush on the boy and that the boy feeds into it and that the girlfriend is uncomfortable with all of it. These videos are all an unhealthy expression of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 26 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬Even had a photo of their feet together, with heart drawings over it as the header, lol. How does that man expect anyone to want to date him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 15 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬my niece sent this to me and said "It's just like the relationship advice subreddit but on tik tok" It is a little disturbing how many of those images are of him asleep and her taking a picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 15 | So often women blame their insecurity for a man's janky behaviorDo these pickmes have any loyalty to their own gender? nope. they like to hide behind the "friend" title and say "omg why is she so insecure and controlling? that's so toxic" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:27 PM |
| 66 | So often women blame their insecurity for a man's janky behaviorBut then there is the subset of guys who have never admitted their feelings but it is obvious there is/was something. I've seen too many stories. I think women just need to accept their instinct the first time they think, "I"m ok with his female friends but this one friend makes me feel uncomfortable" and then walk away because who wants to be in an uncomfortable relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 72 | So often women blame their insecurity for a man's janky behaviorI know right? "He hid things that he thought would hurt her." Uh, that's what cheaters do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 39 | So often women blame their insecurity for a man's janky behaviorTo me it's the reconnected and now they are best friends again. I'm sorry what? No. That is not how best friends work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 15 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!I'm dazzled by this magician of seduction I just died. so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:06 PM |
| 25 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!You should have stopped at normally I'd ask you for a coffee and a nice walk.And then the laziness comment. No thanks, buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Not enough boobs!!!!! /sWhy are men even watching Enola Holmes? No on cares what they think about the movie. It isn't for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 9 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.So, my life is pretty empty right now, but rather than looking at it as a wasteland, I’m looking at it as space for new and better opportunities. Nowhere to go but up. You gave yourself the gift of peace of mind. Who needs the constant worry of being with a manchild? Not you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't believe in making plans, cancels plans, doesn't think you should be annoyedI was like the bar is in hell if "He doesn't make plans" is acceptable to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 53 | Proud of myselfthe money isn’t sexually transmissible. This. Omg I'm dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Proud of myselfWhat do you mean we won't think it is a big deal? It's huge. Congrats. How did he react? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 35 | How my best friend's bf took her away from meShe'll be back but you won't be there to open the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:48 AM |
| 37 | YOUR pleasure is just as important as his, if not more. Act like it!it's in your best interest to put your pleasure first. It's also in your best interest to be fully present. Sex is supposed to be sexy and it is two people communicating with their bodies. If someone isn't listening to yours then you shouldn't be in that conversation. You definitely shouldn't let that person INTO your body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:31 PM |
| 71 | Video games are more important to him than helping his wife with their babyWere people at least giving her good advice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: A person is not HV just because they're physically, economically, or socially advantaged.I think the worst thing is he didn't tell her. He told other people. Just straight smeared her to get Blaine to break up with her. That guy is the poster child for toxic LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 30 | Reminder: A person is not HV just because they're physically, economically, or socially advantaged.I know your post isn't about Pretty in Pink but I saw it recently. That movie has the LVM trifecta. LVMs in so many different shades. Duckie was a creep who rode by a girl's house a hundred times a day if he liked her. It really freaks me out how many people think Andie should have ended up with this guy. Like why? We're supposed to believe he's HV because of his devotion to Andie but nah, because he acts like a fucking baby. Blaine was just weak and rude. Can you imagine a guy asking you if you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 11 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videosThat response to this post is insane. This person completely and I mean completely disregarded the part where the boyfriend completely withdrew from OP. He was absolutely cheating by jerking it to the OF "friend" The mistake that OP made was even bothering to talk to him about it. If I were her I would have just quietly made my exit. He doesn't even deserve a conversation. To even say "all these months later". Nah, sis. No months later because you shouldn't even be talking to this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Women have been way too nice for men, that's why they act upWhich scene from Clue? I love that movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:51 AM |
| 14 | We've seen the bad, what good gifts have you gotten?The kitchenaid mixer of my dreams and for no other reason than I'd been feeling down for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:24 AM |
| 48 | Ex NVM slept with a prostitute before dating me and lied about it. His bff thinks it is okayI'm so sorry this happened to you. Good rule is to suss a dude out. Don't tell him your standards, find out what his are by pretending that you are super open minded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 22 | Please don’t humiliate yourself for a boy or allow yourself to be humiliated like I was.I do still have a lot of shame in how I had acted. Forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for not trusting in your instincts after you broke up with him. Forgive yourself for not valuing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:17 PM |
| 41 | "Maybe he was just trying to help!"You know what I find so ridiculous about the "Maybe he was trying to help?" line of thinking? It completely invalidates you as the narrator of the story. The person listening doesn't want to accept your perception of the situation. They just want to benefit of the doubt some man when you are clearly telling them that you are the one who needs to be believed because you are telling them the story. They are literally saying "Ya, but maybe you're wrong" That is a person you have to stop turning to.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 27 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.A box of chocolate covered cherries. I had no idea why he would buy me my least favorite chocolate. Oh, because they were his favorite and he ended up eating them. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 15 | “Strangers don’t owe you any loyalty”What their really saying is "I don't need to feel guilty that I enjoyed his attention" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Like why? I never watch it and it's being recommended to me. Why is this a thing, I never want to see my Ex Ever.I thought Johnny Lawrence and Alli Mills meeting up on season 3 Cobra Kai was awkward. I can't imagine doing this in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 11 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!This reminds me of a conversation between two drunk girls that I overheard at a club once: Girl 1: I think he's good looking though right? Girl 2: No, it's beer goggles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 14 | Suggesting couples counseling can be a form of gaslighting. This lady could have died in the shower while pregnant and her husband got mad at her for being upset he wouldn't answer her, after her begging him to just answer his phone. It pissed me off to see "counseling" suggested here& it's upvoted.Have you considered couples counselling is akin to saying "have you thought of going to someone to convince him to be more caring? Have you tried that?" No because you can't talk someone into caring about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:37 PM |
| 96 | Thank you to whoever posted this meme to FDS. Worked great on NVM ex who was looking for a 2nd chanceListen to this guy talking about what he deserves and like he doesn't know why you are avoiding him like the plague. You are right you don't have to explain nothing to nobody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Dream share time!Other people in dreams are just different parts of yourself. This dream is telling you that all the things your boyfriend represented to you are things you are rejecting. You don't want to be whatever part of him you think is also inside of yourself. Everything that part of you has to offer is old and not a true gift to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Everyone saying she's the AH when she really isn't. Could she have solved this problem in a better way? Sure, she should have just dumped him.Yeah but sadly I can understand she was hoping that if she can get the roommate to be more considerate then the problem would go away. Essentially, she didn't think deeply enough to realise that she's known all along that she has a boyfriend problem and let's face it, the boyfriend knows it is a problem and he just doesn't care. So she should definitely dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:34 AM |
| 30 | This whole post is a dumpster fire of immeasurable levels but the amount of red flags in the background info alone is mind blowing.If the girlfriend had posted this would make me feel better because this guy is being told he's an asshole but she is the one who needs to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:43 AM |
| 143 | Most of the comments are praising him for COmMuniCatINg.These commenters are dumb they are trying to reassure her that he's so mature (he's not) because he told her about it. What no one realises is that he already lost her. They don't come back from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolEuropeans use 24h time lol Really? huh. interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:49 AM |
| 19 | Asking for advice on Reddit hurts and confuses womenThis reminds me of a post a girl had made where her boyfriend had come over and then gone to a party without her. When he left she straight up had a panic attack. She was upset because despite the fact that he invited her to the party that wasn't something she wanted to do because she knew there would be drugs at the party and she didn't want to be around that (side note: her and her boyfriend had been smoking weed so I think she meant hard drugs). Her boyfriend despite knowing she doesn't want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 06:02 AM |
| 24 | So I just finished watching BRIDGERTON and I am SO FUCKING ANGRY. The two protagonists are a pickme and a fuckboy. Why are people shipping them? Their relationship is toxic AFSis he LITERALLY just said he would rather DIE than marry you, what more do you want? Simon then tells Daphne "I know you want a family, but I am unable to have children, so go marry someone else and be happy" Sis he is LITERALLY telling you that you deserve better than him, MOVE ON! Like, I just don't get why they were acting like the Duke was the last man on earth. A PRINCE was after her. like come on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolWho uses military time in real life? I like how he couches the invitation to his or yours as something you would prefer. Like you were sitting there thinking "I really would prefer a date at his house or at mine won't he make the suggestion?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 6 | Who has ever experienced the DENNIS method?It's always sunny in philadelphia It's a hilarious show about terrible terrible people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Well it is not too late to block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Who has ever experienced the DENNIS method?Maybe he was regretting that he didn't try it on a boat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:54 AM |
| 31 | Who has ever experienced the DENNIS method?The implication is so good. Trying to explain to Mac of all people that you aren't rapey when in fact you are rapey. You know, because of the implication. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 9 | Who has ever experienced the DENNIS method?No! really? That is nuts. What a way to announce that you are nuts and should be avoided. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 16 | If he's not interested in your pleasure, don't stick around.They really are. I can't imagine letting someone use me as a fleshlight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:16 PM |
| 5 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?We should also acknowledge that no man interested in a woman is EVER too overwhelmed in his life to send text messages. It's why when guys are cheating the first thing to change is how glued to his phone he is. After one month you should not be getting this message. Did you end up messaging him or did you block and delete? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 11 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Oh yeah, this guy should absolutely be ignored and blocked and never seen again because he's just wasting her time. I was sincerely curious about the every day texting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:07 PM |
| 26 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Really? Every day? I don't communicate with anyone every day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:21 AM |
| 8 | A guy I’m talking to just joked about being a psychopathYou are reacting. Trust it. Trust yourself. Everything else is you trying to convince yourself you are wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:12 PM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha horror tale. Hapless scrote nearly destroys mind/body of once-vibrant girl. She has an STD (prob bc of him)+ is at risk for cervical cancer. Jobless bum doesn’t care. Friends beg her to leave b4 this kills her. They “just can’t see the good”. And she’s STILL f*cking him. Mother help her!I will never understand why someone would place being in a relationship above their health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:22 PM |
| 12 | I’m washing my hands of my pickme friend.You can only do what you can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 72 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)The comment section for this post brought out all the scrotes. Can you imagine someone tried to say this beauty: Her misinterpretation of his reasons for being with her is not him lying I replied: What a messed up way of blaming her in order to excuse him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 153 | lmao the benefit is questionableThere is also the benefit of self reflection as you doubt your self-worth when he stops talking to you because he has a girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:04 PM |
| 11 | The audacity! Be my carer while I wither away and put aside all our money for my mistressI really hope someone suggests this woman go into therapy. A betrayal like this. She forgives him cheating and stays with him to care for him while he is dying and he does this a few days before he passes. Doesn't even give a shit about handing over close to half a million in money and assets to another woman. The fucking coward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:57 AM |
| 13 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?What kind of person makes a comment on someone's Pinterest board when that person isn't in their life? Why? That is just so weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:28 AM |
| 4 | What in the living f*ck is this thread? 17yo gets slapped in the face during sex and "it sounds like he's a good guy"?!I wasn't trying to flame her because it felt really obvious that she hasn't spent time with her daughter to get to know what she's into and it is equally obvious that she needs to be having these conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 38 | What in the living f*ck is this thread? 17yo gets slapped in the face during sex and "it sounds like he's a good guy"?!I'm not being salty but my comment was a good one. My comeback to the idiot who tried to tell me that what the daughter was asking for was healthy was also a good one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:56 PM |
| 6 | If it feels wrong, walk awayI don't have such a hard line against female friends but I would say if I were in this particular situation I would be like I'm going to pass on this relationship because this guy has already decided that even though C is the problem it's up to OP to be patient and fix it. And worse, OP actually thinks she needs to find a solution. "How do I prove to C I'm good enough" Fuck that. No. C is the one who isn't good enough because she didn't learn how to play well with others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 18 | If it feels wrong, walk awayWell the obvious answer is because she's prioritizing the idea of this relationship above her own wellbeing. I didn't get why she felt she needed to prove anything when this is a wonderful time to see if this guy can prioritize her because so far he's failing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:40 AM |
| 44 | If it feels wrong, walk awayIt really should because honestly it comes up soooo much and almost no one has good experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:57 AM |
| 48 | If it feels wrong, walk awayIf you need to set boundaries at 1 and a half months because a grown man doesn't know that he has an inappropriately close relationship in his life. Then he's already too much work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:45 AM |
| 45 | If it feels wrong, walk awayThis just seems like a big old red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:35 AM |
| 23 | Being low maintenance just doesn't work.I hope that is the last time you visited him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 17 | Being low maintenance just doesn't work.It's very strange. I just don't understand why she is in this situation. I dated someone long distance and while he wasn't perfect I never wondered why he made me pay for my meals, mostly because he didn't. Ever. He either cooked or ordered in or took me out to eat and I didn't have to do anything but show up. So I don't know why this minimal thing you would do to anyone who is invited into your home is such a big deal and why she is actually questioning if it is a big deal. The answer is of cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.He got the box from a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:21 AM |
| 58 | Being low maintenance just doesn't work.Write it out? How can she be living this? If I went to visit someone I would be like "What are we doing for dinner?" I wouldn't be like playing a game of chicken with my hunger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:53 PM |
| 93 | Being low maintenance just doesn't work.This would have happened to me once and never again. Generosity is so important in a relationship. If this ever became a thing it just wouldn't be the relationship I would stay in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:37 PM |
| 14 | Predatory LVM 🤮 feels like he missed out on "naive and innocent" girls by not dating as a teenagerI think the fact that he doesn't think that the women he can get are human beings and he just reduces them to their weight is so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 30 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.I honestly had no idea what they cost and looked it up and thought this makes me so much sadder for this woman. Those rings go from $35 to $180 USD like that's how little he thinks of her. She would have been happy with so little and he was like "No, I think you are worth even less than that" and they've been dating for SIX years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 15 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.He didn't even care enough to check the size. He specifically asked her for her ring size and got her a ring that wasn't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 127 | Just let him goI was also wondering this. He had a whole life before her didn't he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:31 AM |
| 115 | Just let him goI'm going to guess he's counting on his "outgoing" friend to reel them in and then he'll just take whatever girl his friend isn't going to bang. He has some real delusions about what this trip is going to be like in the aftermath of a pandemic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:10 AM |
| 323 | Just let him goWhy would she accept being punished because he didn't sow his wild oats when he was younger? He should have thought of that before he married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 9 | Ex-Husband Contacted Me to "Catch Up" After 6 Years of SilenceWhat kind of psycho obsesses over an egg slicer? You did the right thing in not responding. He's obviously not right in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this?This is just her not well thought out way of saying "If he wanted to, he would" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 8 | This made me sad and angryAnd that was after she asked him to stop being so rough. She's so concerned about not hurting his feelings when his whole goal is to hurt her. sigh. how did she convince herself that she's not as important as this relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:01 AM |
| 31 | Exclusive but not in a relationship...seems like not a good ideaThis is what I was thinking! Why wait for him to decide? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Bridgerton or the epitome of liberal feminismYou know what the most fucked up thing about that show is? At this time period the men would have been brought to her. The eligible dudes who would WANT to get married would be angling for invitations to meet the beautiful "diamond of the first water" sister of a Viscount who comes with her own sizable dowry. SHE wouldn't need to go on the marriage mart because she was the catch. Instead she would come out and have her season and go to parties and meet people in society and that would be it unti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Marriage KoUNseLInG is a waste of money unless it Post Divorce CounselingDid I say counselling was bad? I was just sharing a story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 03:59 PM |
| 111 | Marriage KoUNseLInG is a waste of money unless it Post Divorce CounselingI saw a post where the girl and her boyfriend went to counselling because he has a toxic female friend who was badmouthing her and her boyfriend didn't stand up for her. She was there to ask if it was ok to give him an ultimatum. Everyone was like dude he already made a choice and it isn't you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Nah, sisThat's just dumb. She picks bad partners to fuck with. I've never faked an orgasm because I don't like to stop until I'm satisfied. I'm not a porno, just because he cums doesn't mean it's over. People have such weird ideas about sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 55 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.He doesn't like giving gifts? You dodged a bullet here. Just think you are going into a new year with all the trash from 2020 left behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 10 | I can’t believe how the comments are encouraging this guy to ask for “consent”, he attempted to rape his GF when she was asleepThis comment: It's great that this concerned you to this degree it shows that you care. What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 35 | I'm curious if anyone else feels like this is a block and move on situationThank you, this is what I was thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:21 PM |
| 18 | Would break up with someone if you bought them $300 xmas gift and they got you nothing?doesn't the hopeful "Maybe he'll show up with a present" make you shake your head. Like are you really here trying to get her hopes up? Why? She's asking how to bring up breaking up with this guy and they just don't want to hear that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:09 AM |
| 13 | Would break up with someone if you bought them $300 xmas gift and they got you nothing?How did you convince yourself it was ok to stay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 24 | Would break up with someone if you bought them $300 xmas gift and they got you nothing?She mentioned in a previous post that she spent $300 on him and that he told her that he had been driving around picking up stuff and had nothing for her. They've been together 2 years. Would you bother "communicating"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 54 | This just doesn't seem worth it.Yeah everyone told her he wasn't worth it that she was the backup girlfriend she should value herself more and figure out why she accepted any of this She deleted the post. I think she thought people were actually going to tell her to not worry about it but no one said that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:09 PM |
| 18 | Boyfriend pranked her with fake proposal and laughed in her face.Literally none of their mutual friends commented on this casual humiliation. It's so normal for him to have this "sweet moment" with ANOTHER woman in front of her. I just want her to gather up her stuff and leave him. He already has another woman he loves and cherishes it's not like he'll miss her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:57 AM |
| 9 | Boyfriend pranked her with fake proposal and laughed in her face.It was on relationship_advice but it was removed because of some kind of karma comment limit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:52 AM |
| 9 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.Worse, her instincts are on high alert and she knows this situation isn't right. She's just doubting herself. If she trusted her instincts she would have moved on already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.Did you at any time feel like you needed to talk to your husband about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 4 | 5 years of having her in his life and he has no scruples lying and withholding the state of his sexual health from her, possibly twice. what the fuck.Not quite he got mad at her asking her how she got it because he didn't cheat so it couldn't be him. It's a very special type of manipulating that he's doing here. She believed him. Because she's been with him since she's 18 and she wanted to believe him. Now she doesn't know what to believe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:29 PM |
| 10 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.Say NO to Captain Save-A-Hoes! This needs to be on a t-shirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 45 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.They are just acting like she's dumb. What advice are you even looking for? There's nothing wrong here. Like this condescending shit: I think this has more to do with your maturity gap than anything. You’re still young, he has some years on you and has male and female friends. You can try to sit him down and explain your discomfort, but I don’t see it ended well for the two of you. It’s something you’ll have to either get over, or deal with. What is the difference between dealing with something … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:12 PM |
| 16 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.What's the appropriate overall mood and setting that make the facetime thing anything but awkward for the girl you are with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 77 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.The comments are so against this girl. Telling her "ThEY aRE oBViouSLy GooD FrIEndS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 10 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️She's a brain surgeon and she hasn't figured out she needs to leave this man and his mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionI guess especially if you are in a long distance polyamorous relationship. What are boundaries even in a relationship like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Why would you want either?I find girls, especially groups of girls, manifest random things that wouldn’t have necessarily crossed your mind. So groups of girls = bad? Isn't it good that they make you think of things you wouldn't have thought of? None of your girlfriends teach you to be high value? Only your straightforward guy friends? I'm not trying to rag on you but I think you need to take some time and ask yourself why you don't have high value female friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Please remember to block out screen names when posting screen caps from reddit. This is to protect our sub and our members. Failure to do so will result in a 3-day ban.Are people not allowed to give someone the source to a post in the comments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 6 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionI'm so sorry you went through that. If you want I can delete this post. OP deleted her post, I don't think she liked the responses she got about her predator "boyfriend". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 9 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionI wish I wasn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:26 AM |
| 5 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionThat she even worded it "Is it OK for me to ask him to stop talking to her" Why wouldn't it be ok? What world are you living in where that is a hard boundary? The thing is why do you have to tell him? Why isn't that something this creep already knows? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 13 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionShe doesn't have any real information. She doesn't know the girl, she doesn't know for sure anything is happening. What could she tell them? The text he sent isn't proof of anything. All she knows is that she suspects he's a creep so the answer is get away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 43 | I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship.Congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 7 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.She revealed it was because she was trying to find out when he was going to pick her up. He ended up making her wait hours and was mad at her. She's in such a bad relationship and really needs to leave it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:11 PM |
| 78 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionI can't believe she is asking if she is over the top in worrying about him talking to someone so young. Forget asking him freaking walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 5 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.It's possible that girl your friend went on a couple of dates with was trying to do some weird ddlg stuff with him. I know they refer to themselves as brats. He didn't get it so she didn't talk to him again. He made a lucky escape. I don't know if society is ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:44 PM |
| 16 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.I took the stupid test and it's dumb. My love language are words of affirmation and quality time. Fuck those guys if they think I don't also want gifts. Maybe I don't value them when comparing them to something else but I want gifts and I want hugs and I want all the fucking languages. Why are they trying to put me in a box? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 28 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.i commented she should give herself the gift of being single and someone literally told me that I should resort to breaking up and that THEY believe you should communicate first. I laughed when I saw that because it is now such a joke. Tell the man who bought you dead flowers, made you cry on Christmas Eve and bought you cheap gifts that you can't return because they were so cheap he never wants you to see the receipts so got rid of them that he hurt your feelings. Give him the power to then inv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you even vet for this?I had a co-worker named Marc who told me once "You know, once I sleep with a woman I find I'm no longer interested in her" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:52 AM |
| 45 | Have you ever been too embarrassed to accept your man is an LVM? Share your experienceI just had a friend in this predicament. She was telling me that she texted him 2 days ago and then he got back to her that afternoon asking what she was up to later that night. Me: that's disrespectful. He obviously doesn't respect your time and it's especially messed up that those two days were christmas eve and christmas day so there really is no reason he couldn't have replied to you. Her: Well, he's just really laid back. What? I was like "No, he just doesn't care." She was trying so hard t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:38 AM |
| 18 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.This must be it. Nothing else makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:40 AM |
| 130 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.The people asking "Do you know about love languages?" Like that is some ancient knowledge that will unlock the secrets of a good relationship make me roll my eyes. He gave her dead flowers on Valentine's Day and she didn't break up with him. This guy knows he doesn't have to do anything for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:39 AM |
| 94 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.I just saw her comment: True. He got me dead flowers for Valentine’s Day so I think maybe he just isn’t great at gift giving. This guy just doesn't care about her. Like at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:35 AM |
| 62 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.It seems really strange to me to say to someone "It's ok, you just have to develop no standards. That's what I did!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | I had Christmas gifts this year!You gave yourself the gift of freedom and higher standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingyeah, it's messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingOh yeah, he was definitely called the asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 22 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingI like that she looked at him and saw that he was going to play along with his family and then walked out. I really hope she shook her head at him before she left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:06 PM |
| 21 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingYeah, this girlfriend has a very real read on the situation and now all she needs to do is leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 42 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingI actually hope it is because it's sad if this happened to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 38 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingNo it wasn't a typo, she was telling him he was trying to make it her fault by telling her that she ruined things by overreacting. His 'apology' "I said I was sorry she was offended by the joke but but she ruined the whole day with her reaction" He's trying to make it about her reaction being the problem. If she wasn't so "sensitive" then everything would be fine. What a family of AH's. seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 30 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingikr? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.I sometimes wonder how it much feel to post something like this and get HUNDREDS of people telling you that your partner is garbage and you need to leave. She spent so much time rationalizing and now people are validating her feelings but telling her she needs to get out. How much must this mess a person up? Do we think she'll be wise and actually break up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.I'm so sorry this was your life but I'm really glad you have started a new chapter. Just you and your Instant Pot making new memories. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 32 | Andrew Schulz’ incel fans taunt his ex-gf relentlessly over his “success” with a new Netflix show, trying to make her feel bad and ungrateful for leaving him. She reveals she left because of his insane abuse.I genuinely do not understand the impulse these people have to harass this woman. Why do they know who their favorite comedian's ex girlfriend even is? It's such a weird way to spend your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 47 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.It sounds like she has really low self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 36 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.and then there is the edit which will break your heart. This guy just does not care about her and she's been doing mental gymnastics to make this all ok. Edit: We have been together six years, including two years long distance until July of this year. I was in grad school and that's where my debt comes in. When I chose to go to grad school he thought I was wasting my money and he wanted to make it clear that our finances would be kept seperate because of my debt. This is why I am quite unwilli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:42 PM |
| 25 | Just an LVM doing LVM thingsHaha, no, relationship_advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:11 PM |
| 10 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!I feel this, I have a friend who let some guy ghost her after hooking up. She ended up leaving the country and when she came back she sent out a group text that she was back and he was one of the contacts. He reached out to meet for a drink and she called me and was all "I'm just going to be cool". I was like "NO! Why? Don't even meet him. You don't have to be nice to him. He does not deserve it." Can you believe that never occurred to her? That she could blow him off blew her mind. "But I just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 31 | He bought himself a gift and pretended it was also for her and she still described him as a great guy and she felt bad about having to call him out on it.Yeah and I think the worst part is that he's this much of a jerk with gifts 2 months in and she's so conflicted. She knows she feels disrespected and the answer is to dump him but she values being a girlfriend so much more than she values herself and this is where her conflict comes in. When the answer is easy. He's not the one. boy, bye. Instead she created 4 posts on different subs probably hoping someone was going to tell her it wasn't as bad as it actually is. But no one did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 61 | He bought himself a gift and pretended it was also for her and she still described him as a great guy and she felt bad about having to call him out on it.She's not allowed to touch it unless he is there supervising. Can you imagine? But definitely Step 3 needs to be done right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:51 AM |
| 18 | Let her have him. That's all I have to say.happy cake day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 62 | He bought himself a gift and pretended it was also for her and she still described him as a great guy and she felt bad about having to call him out on it.The mental gymnastics people will do to excuse obviously shitty male behavior makes me sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 54 | He bought himself a gift and pretended it was also for her and she still described him as a great guy and she felt bad about having to call him out on it.It's a VR system. Ugh, I hate that I know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Having to tell a grown man that he shouldn't invite his mom to your dates should make you rethink your relationshipNo! Really? That is a Valentine's to remember. But not in a good way. How freaking awkward. How did that happen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:42 PM |
| 11 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴She's immature? He's not even house broken. Who just sprays their pee all over and then shrugs and walks away. It's his house too and he's ok with spraying it like an angry skunk? Can we also talk about the fact that he tried to convince her that she did it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 23 | Having to tell a grown man that he shouldn't invite his mom to your dates should make you rethink your relationshipIt makes me a little sad that leaving this situation doesn't seem like an option to her. She just wants a way not to look like she's making him choose. Like what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Can we spot all the red flags?Cynical or realistic, you take your pick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 67 | The LVM responses to this post should convince any woman to never get into an FWB relationship. People think you are less of a person for being in one.I agree if women really understood that men who ask for FWB arrangements see them as less deserving of consideration they would understand the contempt that drives that request. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:35 AM |
| 34 | Jasper Bloom was the ultimate NVMI have seen this movie a million times. Have I never actually paid attention to it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 19 | Jasper Bloom was the ultimate NVMWhat movie is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Can we spot all the red flags?How did you know? Top comment: Well....I mean, you really need to have a sit down conversation about his communication issues. Not being able to communicate is what will kill the relationship. ANY relationship. If he more easily opens up to her by a lot, than your marriage is in crisis, girl. Maybe a marriage counselor can help you guys develop healthier ways to communicate? There's no shame in talking to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:14 AM |
| 79 | Can we spot all the red flags?Can you imagine feeling bad because you can't spoil a man? Like what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:28 PM |
| 87 | Can we spot all the red flags?Let's start with she doesn't list her age but she describes herself as a broke college student. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 44 | I finally left!Congrats! Think about all the money you can spend on leveling up! You've never been single before and now you get to date yourself. Imagine how much you are going to get to know about yourself. You should consider starting a journal so that you can document your new chapter in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 11 | A LVM grades her stressed wife.It's so gross and that poor woman doesn't even fucking realise it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 10 | I woke up todayI guess you finally internalised the saying "If he wanted to, he would" and it has nothing to do with you and your value if he doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 30 | A LVM grades her stressed wife.What the actual fuck: There have been times where her conflict resolution and co-operation have lapsed but this has often been accepted by senior management as understandable given the unusual circumstances we have found ourselves in during 2020. Um, how is he senior management in their marriage? He's only one year older than her. How does this man have seniority in their marriage and relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!And yet there is always one idiot who comes in with that old "communication" nugget. I agree but also he could be scared of the risk of marriage? Perhaps his parents are divorced and he just finds marriage to be too big of a commitment. OP should have a serious conversation with him in regards to their future as well keep in mind, you'll keep learning more and more things about your SO the longer you stay together. Even after many decades, my parents are still learning new things about each othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 4 | I'll spare you the details of the update... Sister needs a major reality check💔She doesn't want to break up with him but she doesn't want to be a forever girlfriend but he doesn't want to marry her so she'll just keep thinking about the one loser who proposed to his girlfriend multiple times and hold out hope that things will work out if she wastes her life with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The update is that she "communicated" and who knows what she ends up doing.And the worst is that she knows staying with him will be a mistake. She acknowledges this isn't what she wants. Then she lets that one random stupid story get in her head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 06:01 AM |
| 6 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!Girl, she updated It might make you sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 17 | The update is that she "communicated" and who knows what she ends up doing.She doesn't want to break up with him but she doesn't want to be a forever girlfriend but he doesn't want to marry her so she'll just keep thinking about the one loser who proposed to his girlfriend multiple times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 39 | 🤡 They just never stop, do they? Between the audacity to ruin a girl’s future and the pick me behaviour, idk what’s worse tbh.proportionate to what they make. So she makes more money than him. Let's him live rent-free, has paid for half of multiple rehabs for his son even though they both agreed to be hands off with the other's children. She has allowed her daughter to grow up in an unsafe environment where belongings are being stolen by her stepbrother and there are no repercussions. This man is taking advantage of her and emotionally scarring her daughter and she is so blind because "SHe lOvEs HiM". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 9 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!This is totally it but the mental gymnastics these people are doing to rationalize his rejection of her proposal makes me hope that OP doesn't listen to these assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How can anyone possibly think that buying your coworker a sex toy is ok?Did this get removed I can't find it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 21 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!I honestly just can't with some of the comments to this poor woman: Maybe he doesn’t think he’s in a good place right now. He could be struggling with something you don’t know about, and this year has been particularly difficult for many people. If I were in your position, I would ask him if he’s okay. It’ll be a tough conversation, but he might be dealing with financial stuff or family stuff. Not saying yes to a proposal isn’t a good enough reason to break up. It just shows he isn’t ready. And … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 8 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!Exactly. Yet here this woman is being blasted by this guy who is obviously projecting his nonsense onto her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 10 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!I agree with everything except that she wants someone to talk her out of the truth she already sees. I think she wants someone to validate her feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 84 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!I think it is. I sent her a PM because man did she need one. Can you imagine telling this story and being told you are the problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:30 PM |
| 198 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!The way the comments drag this woman makes me very sad for her. That she had to edit her post to let people know that they HAD talked about marriage and this fucker is basically stringing her along. Top comment that is really unhelpful to OP "Have you ever discussed marriage? A proposal really should not happen until serious conversations have been had and everyone’s on the same page. Thanks AH that's super helpful /s Or this that she responded to Yeah as someone whose ex liked to unilaterally d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | This is why you don't move in, or let shit drag on and you definitely don't proposeThe amount of people dragging her and telling her she needs to communicate better is astounding. She actually had to edit the post to let people know it wasn't out of nowhere. Can you imagine anyone telling a guy that he should have been talking to her about marriage before proposing. Nope. Men are entitled to literally "Pop the question". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 13 | She stayed with him for 3 years after he had an affair and she isn't over it and wants to know how to get over it. I felt mind f*cked reading this post. The manipulation is strong with this guy. This woman needs a rescue missionThe original post in case anyone is interested https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/kfe8ow/still_think_about_woman_he_cheated_on_me_with/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 16 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.I was going to say maybe she's from the 1700's when they did that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 27 | Hitting his pregnant wife in the face with confetti during the gender reveal. I feel like LVM being blatantly abusive as a “prank” on social media is becoming more and more popularThis is exactly what I was thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:40 AM |
| 20 | Am I the only one who thinks she should break up with him and not bother with a "talk"?omg you've just articulated the biggest problem with trying to "communicate" . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 06:19 PM |
| 19 | Am I the only one who thinks she should break up with him and not bother with a "talk"?Yeah I'm with you. Like he's using a work phone for a reason. He KNOWS what he's doing is wrong. He's not going to say anything that isn't hurtful and/or makes any sense. But leaving without addressing this gives her all the power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 17 | Am I the only one who thinks she should break up with him and not bother with a "talk"?If she sends a screenshot it might come off as bitter. Instead she should start practicing indifference. This guy doesn't deserve any of the emotional investment she has made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 33 | Am I the only one who thinks she should break up with him and not bother with a "talk"?I've let her know this post exists so that she can see the feedback. Hopefully she listens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | This long ass post just to reinforce that if he puts off marrying you DON'T do wife duty.This woman didn't realise until the comments told her that he probably had no intention of marrying her so that she couldn't be entitled to anything if they split up. She was still mentally trying to work things out in good faith with a guy who made sure she got the least out of the relationship. This is the most cautionary of cautionary tales. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 6 | I understand she's happy but damn, what kind of loser husband does she have who doesn't care whether she climaxes or not?? As long as he gets his, all is well 🤬Congratulations to her? I guess? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 157 | So glad he is her exWhy do I feel like a pickme would say "At least he remembered you liked Laffy Taffy. He's trying!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:46 AM |
| 38 | I’m truly disgusted.This makes me sad. There is a 6 year old girl with a father who has been hiding her existence for 2 years. Who admits to being a bad father and yet does nothing to change that. He's so worried about his girlfriend leaving him and he isn't even remotely able to care that he is damaging a little girl with his neglect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | This guy is just wasting her time and wants advice on how to continue wasting it. Upset that people are taking "her side". Trying so hard to be the victim.I agree. If someone needs to be convinced to be with me then I'm out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 32 | Queens, I need some major encouragement tonight. I broke up with my bf of 3 years today.I'm just going to quote you from a comment you made a few days ago: Once you’ve fully let go, you begin this great undoing and restarting of everything you’ve wanted, everything you truly deserve. It was worth the temporary pain and I’d do it again in a heartbeat. Also move your body with yoga. Journal your feelings to get them out of your system. Meditate to keep you in the present moment. These are all tools to help you move through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 18 | This girl needs FDS. Why do people think "I love you" is a magic sentence? He wants to work it out and go on vacations with this girl-friends. Just no.Worse was her asking if they could go on a trip "I'm not sure, because of school". He's not even trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 9 | This is sad. And nearly every single comment says “as long as I’m in his presence 😌”wow that makes me very sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 11 | This girl needs FDS. Why do people think "I love you" is a magic sentence? He wants to work it out and go on vacations with this girl-friends. Just no.Can we help a girl out? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/kdbnfw/is_it_going_to_work_between_me_19f_and_my_ex_25m/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 10 | This is sad. And nearly every single comment says “as long as I’m in his presence 😌”This was supposed to be funny right? Because she said she was doing hot girl shit but then she wasn't. Right? Were people seriously like "No, that's my life and it's totally fine" ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 73 | This guy is just wasting her time and wants advice on how to continue wasting it. Upset that people are taking "her side". Trying so hard to be the victim.Yeah especially when he revealed that they had a conversation last March where she decided to give him until this March to make a decision. This guy is a real time waster. He could easily have said a couple of months later "You know what I don't think our sex life is going to get better let's break up" but no, he wants to drag it out and make her a forever girlfriend. I don't know why she wants to marry a guy she doesn't even want to have sex with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 71 | This guy is just wasting her time and wants advice on how to continue wasting it. Upset that people are taking "her side". Trying so hard to be the victim.According to him if she upped her sex game he would be more than happy to marry her. Why don't i believe that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:55 AM |
| 112 | This guy is just wasting her time and wants advice on how to continue wasting it. Upset that people are taking "her side". Trying so hard to be the victim.If only she could want more sex with him. Like dude what are you doing for her to want sex with you? Oh, nothing. huh. weird that didn't work out for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:45 AM |
| 4 | I would just nope out of this situation. Why does she really think she is the problem?100% agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Anyone heard of the subreddit “ Waiting_To_Wed “ ? It’s as bad as it soundsThat sub is truly depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:23 AM |
| 16 | R/LadyBoners has NO taste 🤢 what’s with the crusty old white men??Watch the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice. You'll get it. Colin Firth is not attractive to me unless he is playing a Mr. Darcy. This includes Bridget Jones Diary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:09 AM |
| 13 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”I saw this and thought, there is more to this story that he isn't telling the audience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 6 | I would just nope out of this situation. Why does she really think she is the problem?*She's I'm not the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 30 | I would just nope out of this situation. Why does she really think she is the problem?I don't know that she is a rebound. They broke up a year ago and he just decided to orbit her as her "friend". This poor girl has convinced herself that she's the problem when it's obvious she should just bounce. Whatever instinct she'd had to reject him before deciding to date him was one she should have respected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:22 PM |
| 15 | I would just nope out of this situation. Why does she really think she is the problem?Is it just me? I just don't think insecurity is the problem here. Source for anyone interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/kc07qn/i_21f_get_jealous_of_my_boyfriends_19m_ex_gf_who/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the commentsI saw that reply she sent you. It made me sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the commentsIt looks like the comments are mostly FDS ladies the one few "communicate" people are near the bottom. Now she just needs to take the advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 6 | She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the commentsomg, he did what? Why? I'm so glad you left that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:35 AM |
| 12 | I hate how common this is on this sub :/ guy thinks two minutes of rubbing is enough to lead to penetrative sex. It sounds like a horror show; she's told him MULTIPLE times to do more and he just "shuts down" on her. So f***ing manipulative 😡They have sex 3 times a week and she's letting herself get conned into not asking for a healthy pleasurable sex life. She's so scared of him "shutting down" and hurting his feelings that she doesn't realise that he doesn't care about hers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:24 AM |
| 27 | She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the commentsIf she gets enough of it she might. That's really the hope right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 42 | She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the commentsI'll upvote it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 33 | She's being told "communicate" when really she needs to drop them both. Source in the commentsShe really shouldn't have to tell her boyfriend or her best friend not to third wheel her. They are like "twins". Nah, sis. Please feel free to give her advice because telling her boyfriend how she feels is such bullshit advice. She's young and doesn't know any better. She wants to be a cool girlfriend but this is exactly why you don't. Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/kbw69l/i_think_my_best_friend_is_falling_for_my_boyfriend/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectOf course there are guys who don't watch porn. But there is also the difference between watching it once in a while and being porn sick to the point that you don't want sex with an actual partner. Where your dick doesn't work when faced with real life sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 10 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectAnd she said it with an exclamation mark. I don't know why she felt like she needed to try and make us believe that she's having the time of her life and really saved her relationship by accepting and participating in her husband's porn addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 25 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectI think that is the saddest part. This woman is so starved for her husband's attention that she doesn't even exist in the story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:51 AM |
| 34 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectShe's been with him since she was a teenager so I imagine it must be. In fact, she was told to walk away and just can't imagine throwing away 10 years of love and memories. completely ignoring that some of those memories are of her feeling sexually rejected by her husband who doesn't care about her sexual pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 84 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectHer whole thing is "wow life is so great now that I can watch him get his dick hard" Cool story, bro. How she managed to hypnotize herself into believing that since she's been in this mess for 10 years she should continue to throw her life away is pretty wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?How awesome would it be though if she just decided to say, fuck it I'm out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?I think OP definitely wanted to be a cool girl but I don't think it backfired. Both her boyfriend and the "friend" have shown their asses. She should just cut her losses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?That is so shitty. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Liars are the fucking worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:33 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?I would agree with you except that the way she has worded it she didn't know that this girl felt this way until her boyfriend's confrontation. She sensed some distance but only really knew this other woman wasn't into it when her boyfriend (who I think is the problem) told her she was overstepping and bothering her and she needed to stop. The boyfriend has been letting this friend convince him that his girlfriend is weird and thirsty when she's just trying to get along with someone who is import… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:11 AM |
| 1 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfI think based on the comments in the post before it got taken down, it seems that he lied about where he was taking her. He told his girlfriend he was taking her to some casual diner in the city and then she sees photos that they are at some fancy restaurant, then she finds out that he had no intention of going to the first place because he reserved a table at the fancy place and never mentioned the casual place to the friend. Then he mentioned that he thought of that place because he took an ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 24 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?It's fair that this friend obviously doesn't want to be friends with her. However, the way the friend over-reacted and then the way the boyfriend brought it to her would make me question what kind of partnership I had. If she didn't want to be friends with her she could have just ignored the message. She could have unfollowed her. To me it's boundary crossing to go to the boyfriend and freak out about it and have the boyfriend talk to her about it. I would have already blocked the lady and told … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 19 | Trying to "save" a relationship with a cheating NVMSo what advice does she want? She made up her mind to stay with him. Does she want people to lie to her and say he's going to change? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 176 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!oh man, who is going to tell her that she's in a dead end relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:39 PM |
| 77 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?For me it is the way the boyfriend completely takes the side of the friend when he really should have told his friend to chill out and then gone to the girlfriend and said Listen "friend" is being weird maybe don't reach out to her since she seems to be the one with the problem. Instead he completely blamed the girlfriend for a nothing conversation starter. I just wouldn't be ok with any of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 38 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?Yeah it's the wording from the boyfriend, She's overstepping. Let my friends be my friend. I don't bother your friends. I would be so offended if someone characterized me sending a message like how are you guys doing as "bothering" them. Or as overstepping. They've been dating for 2 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 42 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?It's weird she said they when it is really only one woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 153 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?She's been with him for 2 years and only started following this "friend" 3 months ago and she's being told she's overstepping when she really isn't. I would be like why are you taking her side in something that I'm clearly not doing wrong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 10 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfhttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/k9qkmz/boyfriend_31m_took_my_bestfriend_21f_out_for/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 13 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfExcept the friend is the one who reached out to the boyfriend after she canceled their group meet up. She still needed "advice" and what couldn't just text him for help? She absolutely needed to meet up with him and you know because he's her friend's boyfriend she wanted to get comfortable with him. It's like the more explanations come out of them the stupider they sound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 6 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?Turns out he was cheating on me and putting me down on purpose. I'm so sorry you went through that. That's so fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 77 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfIf they are that oblivious does she really want to date an idiot? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?I'm saying there is a good chance he's an idiot who doesn't realise that he's making his crush on this girl obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 78 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfSame but everyone on relationship_advice is like "Well you said it was ok for them to meet so you can't be mad" Um...yes she can. Why do they even need to meet up if all she needs is advice? Ever used a phone as a phone? Also why a fancy sit down dinner? Just bullshit and people are still like "Well you need to tell them you have boundaries" um...no how about instead they should use some common sense and should already know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 7 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?I think it might also be that she wants to be "reasonable" because you can tell by her post that she think she is the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 7 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?Was he always complimenting her in front of you? How did you react to that while it was happening? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 30 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?In this case what exactly is she supposed to tell him? "Hey, I feel like you are secretly in love with Kate and you are using me as a placeholder because you can't be with her" What is he supposed to say to that? He's certainly not going to tell the truth if he is. It feels like if you think your dude is secretly in love with someone else because that is what your eyes and ears are telling you then why not walk away? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:54 AM |
| 4 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?I don't even know that he's doing it on purpose. He's definitely doing it but I don't know if it is intentional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 4 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.Those comments are crazy. Why do people who think he didn't know what he was doing when he didn't do any of it the first time. He knew enough not to do it but he didn't know enough to ask? Why is the burden on her to communicate and be understanding? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 67 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?Omg! Yes, though not just talk to him but talk to the friend too! She might tell him to put more attention on you. Like what?! Why would you suggest she humiliate herself like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 138 | It seems so clear the way she lays it out..why doesn't she believe herself?Everyone is telling her to talk to him and this is one of her replies Thanks! I'll talk to my boyfriend. I'm always a bit embarrassed to talk to him about my self esteem because it feels like I'm constantly saying something negative about myself. It's really hard not to compare myself to Kate, or anyone, because Kate and I are so similar... so why isn't he with her? I know it's not a good way of thinking, I'm trying to stop. emphasis mine. Why isn't he with her? Good question...probably she does… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 4 | How did I let him treat me like this for so long?At least you can console yourself with knowing it won't be 8 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 28 | Husband brings home new gf to meet his 14 year old daughter 3 WEEKS after his wife’s deathFor his son. This is the example he is showing his son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 5 | When you give all that wife energyYeah but it does sound like he strings her along. She's only realising now that getting married isn't a priority to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:05 AM |
| 7 | When you give all that wife energyThat's the consensus. Hopefully she is coming to that conclusion as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 112 | When you give all that wife energyThe sad thing is we see how this ends so many times. He ends up giving that commitment to the next girl that comes along. The one he actually wants to be with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:38 AM |
| 31 | When you give all that wife energyI just hope she realises that and doesn't continue to waste her time and her life on a guy who isn't interested in moving their relationship to the next level. Like even if he did propose at this point would she even actually want it? Or would she feel like he's only doing it because it is expected. That have that kind of doubt would just suck any joy out of the relationship. It is better for her to figure out what being single and living on her own looks like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:34 AM |
| 31 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheatingI feel like I've seen posts where it has happened and men end up feeling the same way women do. It's not a gender things. It's a shitty person thing. In both cases it's just an excuse to cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:10 AM |
| 82 | When you give all that wife energyWorse, on a guy who pretends that he'll marry you to keep you around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 17 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheatingWhat happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 47 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheatingI think it is summed up in "I was afraid I was going to lose my husband" when really does she actually even have him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 86 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheatingI think she just needs to get away from him. This relationship just isn't going to be comfortable for her ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:02 AM |
| 54 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5It always surprises me when I see a "You need to have another talk with him and this time really be clear" Like what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 42 | Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get outYou also can't help but think that he'll be ready when she's 30 and he meets the 20-something that is the "right one" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 58 | Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get outI should add that she posted comments she is 27 and he is 37. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:36 AM |
| 37 | Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get outomg your username. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 8 | After 2.5 years I broke up with my bf. He felt like home to me but that doesn't mean he was.Well as long as texting with him now doesn't interfere with you moving on and doing the work of healing yourself so that you are ready for a new relationship. You need to mourn the breakup so that you can leave it in the past. obviously the tools to facilitate that are yoga, EFT, meditation, journaling As long as your conversations stay in the category of "Yeah this is weird but it is for the best" and you steer it into the friendzone you'll be fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 11 | After 2.5 years I broke up with my bf. He felt like home to me but that doesn't mean he was.That's insane, he doesn't even have enough information to say that. He said so himself! As for what to reply to your ex. it depends were you determined to go no contact when you broke up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:56 AM |
| 13 | I finally did it, I leftThis is great! congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 95 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMI cannot believe some woman actually commented I don't want to sounds rude or anything, but I don't understand the stuggle here. Being married, it's not a white card to share your income or your savings with your love one (despite of the family or the mortgage). FYI I'm in a similar situation, but still employed. And I will never ask to my Husband to lend me money, it's inconceivable. He work for it and he's owing it, I'm not. Of course, I being married you have to support each other, but the is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:42 AM |
| 38 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMThat's definitely how it seems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:22 AM |
| 128 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMPeople are all over the place. You have the scrotes telling her that maybe she is bad with money. You have people wringing their hands and saying "this is not normal" There are people who are telling her that her divorce idea is a good one and he's forgetting that since they are married his stuff is already hers. What is worse is that she felt like she had to justify it in the comments to say she was just asking for a loan not for him to give her the money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:45 AM |
| 133 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMHow did it take this for her to notice his complete lack of generosity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:17 AM |
| 124 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMAnd sadly she's never questioned it until now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:05 AM |
| 82 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMAccording to the comments there was no prenup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Lord have mercyI don't know there standard was...too much karma and comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:25 AM |
| 10 | Lord have mercyYeah the mods deleted it https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/k06tnk/how_can_i_f19_please_my_boyfriend_m25without/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | I read asktrp for almost a year to gather insight on how LVMs mind workAn offshoot of number 9, guys who have a female "best friend". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:52 AM |
| 20 | Books that changed my lifeI would also recommend "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk if you have suffered any childhood abuse or trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Create your own story and happiness.I sent this to my sister and she told me "Thanks, it's what I needed today" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 5 | People really think "communication" is going to help herMy whole thing would "two can play this game bitch and I can play it better" but also why bother just evacuate the dance floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:13 PM |
| 6 | People really think "communication" is going to help herThank you. Like seriously what is this garbage advice. Why on earth would she have to tell a grown man who has been potty trained that common courtesy is a real thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:12 PM |
| 33 | People really think "communication" is going to help herInteresting that she didn't add her own age. I'm going to guess there is an age gap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:31 AM |
| 27 | People really think "communication" is going to help herMaybe he's trying to get her to break up with him so he doesn't have to do it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:16 AM |
| 91 | People really think "communication" is going to help herI don't think these men even like themselves let alone their girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 131 | People really think "communication" is going to help herThis girl thinks she has a healthy relationship and thinks insecurity is her problem. All the comments are telling her to "talk to him" and "let him know it is hurting you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Grand pickmeisha. Precious “husband” is going to be walking all over this doormat in no timeThis edit on this is hilarious: OKAY YES I GET IT KNOW IM THE AH IM GOING TO TALK TO BRAD TOMORROW ABOUT THIS Why do I feel like she doesn't get it? She an asshole about being an asshole. I really hope her sister still doesn't want anything to do with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 3 | She needs some guidance FDS style. This makes me sad for her.More like he's Jenny's lapdog and is like "ShE's LiKE a sIstER" Uh huh, except dude she isn't your sister so why do you think you need to fix her car, help her apartment hunt, hold her purse, pay for her meals, walk her home, and give her your jacket when she gets cold and be late to meet your girlfriend because Jenny needed something? I really hope this girl dumps him, she was crying for 4 days when he wanted to cancel their tentative plans to make firm plans with Jenny. It makes me so sad for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How to leave when you don't have a "good" reason?Oh and he also tells me he treats me different because he feels I'm the only person he can be fully comfortable & himself with Well, he just told on himself. He's like "I'm a shitty person once you get too close" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:49 AM |
| 8 | Ex-boyfriend calls to “catch up”. Why?You want logic? It's been six months since his feelings weren't strong enough. He doesn't need to be rewarded for his exit with your attention. Don't let him waste any more of your time since that was what your relationship was. A waste of your time and life. Edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 27 | When you notice changes in your own behavior...he is still married (but separated) and living with his ex until he gets his life together So instead of getting his life together he's trying to trick women into dating him? That's some special mental gymnastics he's doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:46 PM |
| 37 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themThis reminds me of a guy who posted on relationship advice because he had asked to open his marriage and she reluctantly agreed and 6 months later she had 2 boyfriends and he was feeling like his marriage was over and he was right. The motherfucker had asked her for the open marriage within days of her giving birth because "he just wanted an exciting sex life and she wasn't available and I thought this was the right answer". He was all I know I messed up but I didn't expect to lose my wife like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:35 PM |
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