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Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get out

biggestsigh

December 4, 2020
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Title Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get out
Author

biggestsigh

Upvotes 102
Comments 18
Date December 4, 2020 2:42 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k6c2th/hopefully_she_trusts_her_instinct_to_get_out/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/hopefully-she-trusts-her-instinct-to-get-out.1193403
https://theredarchive.com/post/1193403
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Comments

[–]cantsextihavebillsFDS Newbie 89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just wait! I'm sure having all the benefits of a wife without any of the obligations or commitment will make him see what he's missing out on! /s

Can someone please direct her to this sub?

[–]biggestsigh 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

omg your username. I love it.

[–]dkwantsdkFDS Newbie 72 points73 points74 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't ever sacrifice career opportunities for any man. Even your husband.

[–]LevelTurbulent 43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seconded. It's a mistake. If the marriage doesn't survive the woman pursuing her career, good. It need to end anyways.

[–]shinyjewelsFDS Apprentice 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. The men who would want you to sacrifice career opportunities are the same men who don't appreciate the sacrifice you made and will likely complain when you are doing less for the family financially.

[–]biggestsigh 57 points58 points59 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I should add that she posted comments she is 27 and he is 37.

[–]chateauduchatFDS Newbie 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not that it was already bad but damn was it worse already. I don’t know where these men find their audacity thinking they can string along 20 years olds when they’re pushing 40. 🀑

[–]biggestsigh 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You also can't help but think that he'll be ready when she's 30 and he meets the 20-something that is the "right one"

[–]dkwantsdkFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

37!!! And she's sacrificing career opportunities for him?? If he was "committed," he'd be leveling up her career. There's no reason a 37yo should be learning on a young girlfriend.

[–]22leafcloverFDS Newbie 53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Him "Why would I marry someone who already acts like my wife and potentially risk losing my freedom and income while I wait for my dream girl to land in my lap?"

[–]yesmmeFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I cringed when she said she lost job opportunities to support him. She should dump the parasite

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Time for personal space and an apartment of her own. Peace and sanity will follow when getting rid of toxic environments/people.

Stop playing wife!

[–]four_qFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Girl he hate you

[–]feminologie_FDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Poor woman. When will she learn that men do not marry women they don't want to marry.... Especially when she's providing all the wife benefits without getting a ring! Come on sis. Have some self respect

[–]CatSweetsFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also, has anyone noticed that she said that they "have been together for almost 3 years" and "have lived together for almost 3 years"?

Seems like they moved in together super quick and, considered the age gap and that she said she supported him, it's likely that he's the one who moved in with her.

He's a parasite 🀒

[–]rideoffaloneFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I don't want to get married" = "I don't want to get married to you"

[–]ello-mottoFDS Apprentice 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can we also message her and recommend her FDS?

She needs a supportive group, and I'm sure whatever sub she posted this in won't be giving her advice that benefits her.

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