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He will not have any choice to give up his frugal lifestyle once she divorces his ass and lays claims on his assets.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 02:05 PM
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Jordan Peterson backs your point that women are responsible for the Evil patriarchy. Women are the one that perpetuate patriarchy because it is in their genes to look for the highest , 20 % high value male. Guess what? That means that women's word she picks a winner. She could really care less about some losers https://youtu.be/N7LN14IpVy0
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 02:09 AM
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I gave away copies of The Rational Male to couple friends after I found the book. One guy got divorced after, still rejects what I said. He lives in some magic land where there is a special unicorn that exists. Multiple redflags were brought up to him before Another guy seems a bit of a natural and keeps his LTR in check. Not because of the book, but mostly the game and frame. He has never brought up the book to me, but he still looks at it like it is some taboo internet conspiracy theory. Anoth…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 02:30 AM
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I didn't even bother reading your hamstering. Just reading your title says enough about your frame. You are in her frame. You are not becoming "Alpha" for yourself and your own growth as a man. You are changing for her. She wants you to "Just get it" and guess what, if you change for her, you solidify her doubt, that you are in fact a loser that has to work to become an awesome man. Work on improving yourself, your growth, dress better , talk to people, lift, advance professionally. Rollo has a …
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:31 PM
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That story, to me, is like Michael's story on the sidebar. Shit was painful to read, but at least the guy learned AWALT early. You have that link bookmarked, eh, Uncle Vas? For chicks, religion and church are just things that they go to and part of their mask. Look at how many people, even on this sub fall for "Christian" girls, because they somehow are an exception to AWALT. Shit, I thought the same thing. Until I found out my ex had an abortion. Because that would totally get God's stamp of ap…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:23 PM
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I gotta say. You give an awesome advice, especially regarding stuff post breakup. I realized you were the one that commented on one of very first comments explaining what happened with my BPD ex. Thanks dude.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 05:00 PM
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They are literally trying to "remove the man". Canada is ran by a bunch of feminist schmucks. Now, they are trying to remove "sons" from a national anthem to celebrate diversity. " A bill now before the Senate, initiated by the late Ottawa Vanier MP Mauril Bélanger, would change O Canada’s “in all thy sons command” to the gender-neutral “in all of us command.” The House of Commons passed the bill last June. Bélanger died in August" Source: Globe and Mail.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 02:01 PM
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That's not the way I read it. "In a Criminal Code amendment that a sexual-assault crisis centre called a direct response to the acquittal of broadcaster Jian Ghomeshi last year, proposed legislation would spell out for the first time that a complainant’s text messages, e-mails and video recordings with sexual content or a sexual purpose can be kept out of trials. A new provision would subject these messages, including those sent after an alleged assault, to the same rules as evidence of a compla…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 04:32 AM
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Or you can just have the state educating men on behalf of women. Check this out. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.theglobeandmail.com/news/politics/government-bringing-sexual-assault-law-up-to-speed-with-the-courts-times/article35213485/%3fservice=amp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:04 AM
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This was the toughest part to swallow. That the fact your perfect unicorn was giving out sex like it is candy on Halloween, but she is changed now and she wants to marry you. That they build rules for you because you are so special. But in reality, it is not about you. You are her cashing out prize. You are her last resort because that hot stud she fucked in Cancun might not offer her the light of day anymore because he has other younger girls that find him attractive. Women do not even hide it …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:52 PM
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Just a daily reminder to not LTR women. Women are for fucking.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 08:03 PM
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Same script here. It is funny looking back at it now. My friend showed me a post on how my ex was posting inspirational quotes on the social media of her branch swing. She cheated on me. One of the inspirational quotes was saying how you realize how manipulative someone is, but you realize it is them, not you . I actually laughed because it described her word for word, but obviously she needs to play victims mentality. Yes bitch. At least now I'm on her abusive list, which includes convicts. It …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 10:06 PM
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BPDs overwhelm you with love until you become a chewed up toy for them and they leave. Your analysis is spot on. Dread, distance yourself a bit. Cut down on texting. My BPD ex would panic if we didn't talk every night or text throughout the day. And I mean panic. When the shit hit the fan in my life and I ran into depression, she just complained that I don't talk to her anymore and she branch swung.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:49 PM
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Peterson actually talked about this in his lectures. On mobile right now, so hard to find the link. Law firms have trouble retaining female lawyers after 30 because their priorities change and they want kids. They see the lifestyle that working 80-90 brings and they just want no part of it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 03:19 PM
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My ex expected me to just give her money to pay for a car she did not need. I made a mistake of telling her about my investments before that. When we went to see an accountant to do taxes and he mentioned her salary out loud ( I didn't know it prior) she looked at me like she gave up Coke's secret recipe. The look like I am onto her and her leverage of "but I am a womyyyn and you must pay me" has gone out the window. She made more than I did, I have a pretty minimalistic lifestyle but the whole …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 11:21 PM
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Yes, exactly. If they work nights and day shifts, it screws up their sleep cycles . They must stay up late on their off days to force their bodies to adjust to upcoming night schedules. That's why most of the nurses I know and hooked up with go out and party until late at night. From there, it is just " Whooops, how did I land on Chad's dick?" I am not saying be paranoid about her whereabouts when you are in LTR, but she does have more plausible deniability to cheat because her schedule is fucke…
/r/askTRP19/05/17 12:52 AM
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Nurses are bad for LTRs. Great for fuck buddies though. For some reason, I attract a lot of nurses. If you have a regular 9-5 and date a nurse who has weird schedule, they just have that much more opportunity to cheat if you are in an LTR. That, of course, is an advantage if you are just spinning plates. They are busy with work, can come over for some fucking on a random Tuesday if off work, and you can maintain your independence.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:25 PM
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I got that line too. That is just their own projection. The funny thing is it is her solipsism talking and she is selfish because women are incapable of looking at it from the point of view of her man.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:59 PM
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Mothers can have great BS detectors when it comes to other females .Women know each other's nature. I guess it is like that too for fathers when they find out their daughter is dating. My mother hated my ex from day 1 and they never got along. My parents have pretty good marriage, dad leads the family and trusted to lead the ship. My mother is quite nagging when I have a chance to talk to her, but sometimes she drops RP knowledge. I told her that modern day women suck. She flat out tells me this…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:41 AM
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Your comment is so spot on. Women today, especially in the workplace, feel like they are so entitled that you are in idiot if you don't put up with feminine imperative and agree how she is a princess and how she is always right. This comes from moral superiority but also, self inflated ego. Bitches think they are high status because every Joe Blow bends over backwards to do work for her, get her drinks, so why aren't you, masculine manly man? Is that because you are insecure? The US election and…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:21 AM
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Read the Wikipedia entry: "Lima is a devout Roman Catholic who attends Mass every Sunday. In April 2006, she told GQ that she was a virgin. "Sex is for after marriage," she said. "[Men] have to respect that this is my choice. If there's no respect, that means they don't want me." She also denounced abortion as a crime, and stated that she agrees with any teaching of the church.[117][118] Lima is known to bring a Bible with her backstage before she goes onstage. She has also stated that, before s…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:30 PM
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You nailed it. False equalism hopes are detrimental to both sexes. Women expect you to "just get it" because they lack basic introspection and expect you to understand their experience. They want you to understand how she feels. Men just take women at their word, because you know, women and men are rational beings. I see so many guys just disappointed at how women are stupid and cannot act like adults. In other words, they expect them to act like men. This faulty expectation of equalism takes aw…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 04:38 PM
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Listening to it now. Stefan's podcast is great and he mentioned "hypergamy" in one of his shows. Pretty sure he reads this sub. Never heard anyone mention it except for Rollo, Stefan and Mike Cernovich. I will definitely check out his interview with Dave Rubin.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 04:26 PM
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Jocko Willink. He has a podcast titled "Jocko's podcast". Former Navy Seal and an ultimate bad-ass. Read his book about Extreme Ownership. A lot of concepts are preached here.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 04:15 PM
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Thanks for the links. Bluepill conditioning is deep. Boys are told they are abrnomal, anger and aggression is not good from a very young age. It is an emotion just like any other. It is OK to feel angry and channel it to something productive , talk to your boys and vent here. There is a scene from the Avengers. Captain America: " Right now would be a good time to get angry. Hulk: "The secret is... I am always angry"
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:25 AM
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I learned this the hard way. Women throw temper tantrums and get you to show off vulnerability , get you to overreact and to justify their cheating. Hook, line, sinker. That is why dread, hard next and soft next work. You let her doubt her own rationalizations. A. They see you as a loser B. She knows you still care and she is leaving on her terms. Her hamster has been proven right! My ex cried while I remained stoic during break up.I was bluepill to the core, didn't want to seek controlling so I…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:36 AM
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The book is a great starting point for guys. It teaches you that it is OK to have needs and that your needs are important. It also taught me that I am number 1 in my life. All the happiness and benefits I get will flow downwards to family, friends , gf, etc. Combined with TRP knowledge, it connects the dots--> "Men lead, women follow." Simple, yet mind blowing fucking concept. After all the years of brainwashing, it was a breath of fresh air. DO THE EXERCISES. I usually recommend this book to fr…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:13 AM
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Congratulations! You are doing it right. Use cocky and funny and amused mastery to keep things light.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:37 PM
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Justin " the Cuck" Trudeau strongly disagrees with Las Feminstas part. https://www.quora.com/What-should-world-leaders-be-doing-to-support-feminism-in-their-countries-and-around-the-world
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:56 AM
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She is a plate now. I would personally just move on to other women. If you want, you can fucking her for a bit but the damage is already done. She has absolutely zero respect for you. Look at it this way. You were gone for the entire week. Instead of chasing your cock as soon as your plane lands, she tells you she is not going to be able to see you after not seeing you for a week. You are not her priority. She would rather see another guy over you. She swung to another branch and openly shows yo…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 04:08 AM
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Thanks for sharing that story. If there is one thing I learned from TRP is that you gotta put yourself first and worry about yourself. As a 30 year old reforming nice guy, it is fucking tough to not put others first but manageable. I am making happier because of doing shit that I genuinely want, passions that I want to pursue.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:56 AM
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Men can separate sex and emotions. We can fuck another girl and say" Meh, she was good lay". And go back to an LTR, watch Netflix and still have a good time. For women, when they cheat with another guy, she despises you for what you are and your being. Her fucking another guy just screams " He is better than you ".
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:54 PM
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This is so true. Once I found TRP and all the misogynistic shitlords here, the concept of dread, ghosting and nexting was foreign to me. I started looking back at my relationships to see if any of those applied in previous relationship. Two come to mind. First one: Relationship of 4 years, which should have ended because she was needy, no father and I was just scared to lose her. Constantly breaking up and getting back because of hot sex. During one of our fights, I yelled " I don't love you any…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:48 PM
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Exact situation x4. Funny how women are no longer some mythical, erotic creatures once you see the same pattern over and over again and TRP breaks it down to a science.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:34 AM
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So true and women are just incapable of understanding what it takes for a guy to get laid because they get approached all the fucking time. In my last relationship, my ex, who was a solid 8, just could not understand why her roommate who is a chubby 5 at best and didn't look after herself, "could not meet people". Ex just hamstered how she is more social and loves to meet people. No, it is because all the guys just want to fuck you, dumbass and that opens up more opportunities for you just based…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:17 AM
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I have been fascinated by this concept lately. Making the woman agitated/ emotional instead of giving into her wants will give them emotions they cannot figure out, which always leads them wanting more. For them, it is like following a labyrinth or a maze where they finally escape, except for they enjoyed the adrenaline of escape too much and the exit leads them back to sad reality instead of adventure they just endured. I have been a dick to girls lately, cocky and funny ( comes naturally to me…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:07 AM
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My BPD ex fucked a convict,admitted to having an abortion with him and wouldn't dump him after he cheated on her at least twice. I still don't know the whole story neither do I care. This was before me. Afterwards, she moved to another state for a fling. She told me it was a friend because she insisted we wouldn't move in together UNLESS we got married. Afterwards, she slipped in they did date and actually lived together because "she had no other place to live". Here I was, Captain-Save-A-Hoe. H…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 02:40 AM
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T.I. - Urban Legend ( the entire album)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:13 AM
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Couple of Laws of Power Law 4 " Always say less than necessary" Law 34 " Be Royal in your fashion: Act like a king to be treated like one"
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 03:19 AM
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"It is not working out." Walk out. She will manipulate the fuck out of you with crying, emotional outcries and calling you an asshole. Do not stay there for the soap opera. She will move on quicker than you think. Done.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:08 AM
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You do not owe the bitch anything. She broke up with you. She is like another random, faceless stranger you see on the way to work that you could care less about and don't remember wtf they look like. Do not take peaks at her or who she is talking to or carry out conversations with her. Have a good time at social events and meeting new people. Lift. Maintain the same workout. Don't be phased that she just happens to use the bench or machine that you are using. If the topic comes out between frie…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:03 AM
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You know what to do. You are looking for someone to step in and tell you different. Pack her shit. Get your shit from her place. Ghost the bitch. Put in time to find other girls. She does not respect you anymore.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:49 AM
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If you mean to bond with dudes, read " How to Win friends and Influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:43 AM
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As a former varsity athlete myself , I can assure you, she is either cheating or willing to justify her cheating because " you are probably out there sleeping with someone else anyway". That environment is filled with alphas and training for the same goal just makes people bond together. You know how TRP advice is not to take your bitch out clubbing with you? It is pretty much the same environment without you there. Plate her or just move on to other women.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:40 AM
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Let's not forget that the bitch will balloon to 300 pounds once she locks down OP.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:30 AM
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The paragraph you quoted just summarized why my LTR failed . That is some wisdom right there.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 06:37 PM
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I would agree with you if it was done during a fight/ argument setting, but when a bitch says that during break-up, she already made up her mind. It is not a comfort test. It is her way of virtue signalling and feeling better about herself for cheating/ feeling tingles for another dude. She is betafying OP to loser status, so she looks and says "Ahha, I knew he was a loser. Well, good thing I already fucked Chad Thundercock. I knew it all along and good thing I made a better choice. Poor me just…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 06:41 PM
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What is hilarious to me is how they claim these faggots stand up for "equality". They can't see their own hypocrisies. Because a 20 year old woman must be an idiot and not know what she is doing dating a 40 year year old man. She a young, naive, kid that does not what she wants in life and not responsible for her decisions. Pathetic. But that 40 year old man. Must be a serious creep and not want to fuck young, beautiful, feminine girls. Why would he do that when there are so many strong, indepen…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:29 PM
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This. Plus bitches love "figuring" their man out. She will subtly ask you about your past in womenese to try to figure you out. Don't tell her you were a loser and when the shit tests hit, just jump through them. I went on a date and stupid me said I got hurt when I was squatting. Bitch was trying to figure out for 2 whole days what it was that I hurt. Her brain just couldn't figure out if I am fit enough to be the father of her babies.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:06 PM
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I have been getting "Is everything OK? You look upset " quite a bit, even at work. I feel like I'm just dialled in at work. My posture improved since I have been working out religiously. At work, I am social most of the time and everyone's energy jumps up because I get people involved in the conversations. When I am focused, everyone's energy plummets. Can someone elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 06:36 PM
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So what makes them different? I constantly see this brought up as some virtuous thing. Religion is great and all, teaches some great wisdom, but you don't need to flaunt it. And this comes from an Atheist. My point is that it is just flaunted around to suit chick's needs and their hypergamy.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:12 AM
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Bitches are just a by-product of your awesome life. Never the focus.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 10:23 PM
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I love how self righteous bitches throw around and mention they are religious. Religious bitches just use it as a cover up to show that NAWALT and they are good girls. It is a smoke screen. Huge redflag for me.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:19 PM
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I still can't figure out if women do this because they are that insecure and need plan B or can't fathom to break up with you,so she cheats because instinctively she knows you didn't do anything wrong. I recently had a good friend admit that her ex was an bad, asshole, etc to later say "the worst part was he didn't do anything wrong". I know the guy and if anything, he is a bit clingy. She fucked another guy the next day. What I found fascinating is she was fucking itching to cheat, but did not.…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:16 PM
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Agree with everything you said. Gaslighting is their way of projecting shitty values/ actions onto you.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:10 PM
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Alpha widows are beyond saving. There will be no happy ending for you. Her standards are so out of this world because of her unrealistic standards. She will not change for you and she will dump your ass sooner or later. Sooner or later, she will validate that she felt for her ex like this, why can't I feel the same for you? Hey, I know. It is because he is a loser and it is totally his fault/ Women lack agency. Lift, focus on career, hobbies and fucking other mentally stable girls.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 02:51 AM
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Practical Female Psychology is on my reading list. I have the file as PDF and shared it with feminist at work. She read the first chapter and said she is sick of how women are. I just told her that now she knows what guys need to put up with.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 06:16 AM
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The title of the video is "AJ McCarron's Girlfriend Miss Alabama Katherine Webb - Brent Musburger being a pervert at ESPN" Because calling a woman beautiful now is being a pervert. I guess the way to make their vaginal juices flowing these days is to call them "strong, independent women". That will do it!
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 03:37 AM
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In my early days of discovering TRP, I told my female coworker that I have a date. I was coming from a break up with BPD. Her advice : " Do not hurt the girl. You are not in the right place right now". Never again will I ever take advice from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 03:20 AM
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Not to all. I purchased copies of Rational Male for few of my buddies that are somewhat RP. They are not losers in anyway, have great careers , but still have some BP thinking when it comes to relationship. One is living with his LTR, wants to get married soon and keeps telling how she keeps shit testing him and how he just needs his space away from her sometimes. I gave him the book just to connect the dots and that them living together will kill attraction unless he sets up his game. My other …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:43 PM
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The medium is the message. She won't fuck you on your anniversary. Bitches love symbolic holidays/ occasions: i.e anniversaries, Valentine's Day, birthdays, etc. She is losing attraction. You negotiating her desire over text is useless and will make her vagina drier than Sahara. Since you are at her house, pop a movie in, have some wine, escalate and fuck her. If she won't, you got bigger issues. She is already losing attraction and she is pulling you into her frame, i.e betafying to further sol…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 12:27 AM
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I'm in the same boat. Lately, I was just getting into arguments with dumb girls to break down their logic to keep myself entertained. Just over the weekend, hung out with buddies and buddy's girl brings a 5 that is so into herself, she can't even fathom people will disagree with her. Of course she goes off making some remarks about males and how everything is their fault. Off course, I go off in the most logical, calm manner to show the holes in her logic. My buddies found it entertaining ( no o…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 11:46 PM
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Read "When I say Sorry, I feel guilty". It is on the sidebar of married red pill, I think. The book teaches you how to stand up against manipulation and goes over scenarios.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 11:33 PM
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"Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?"
/r/askTRP02/01/17 08:17 PM
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Shaved head. Grow a beard. Own it.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 12:10 AM
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Change is hard and habits need breaking. This goes for everything in life. Most people never learn because they think they know better or think their situation is different . Their entire belief system need to be retaught, especially if they are fully immersed into the "happy wife, happy life" bullshit. The answer to how to introduce someone to TRP is that you don't. You need to hit rock bottom in life in order to be open to some of the ideas here. Red pill provides the answers, but it doesn't m…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:03 AM
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It is not "abuse" in the parents' eyes. They are liberating the kid and providing the freedom to be anything they want. Of course, they are missing the point is that they are defining the kids identity from a young age and putting the poor kid on the path to unhealthy view of the world. What is sad is that these abusers are pigeonholing their kids to fit their own narrative in search of some egalitarian utopia. I read an interesting question from Jordan Peterson on twitter. The question was : "W…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:44 PM
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Close family friend told me this story of his young boy that made me cringe. Kid is an athlete and a great kid. Very active and energetic. He would get in shit from his lesbian teacher because he kept shifting at his desk in class and she viewed it as a sign of disrespect and "not paying attention" in class. Here is some lesbo that is already telling the kid he must learn and behave like a girl in class.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:24 PM
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Your ex is just miserable because you are getting some action instead of crying in your bed and watching Titanic on rerun. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:16 PM
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Redflag. I run away from "strong, independent" women because they lack or try to suppress any ounce of feminine quality that is left in them, especially if they are vocal about their behaviour. The ironic part is that they are doing that to become men, who they hate relying on. When they do not get their own way, guess who will guilty? That is right. The good old, evil man!
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:13 PM
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Canada is becoming a disaster . Here is the new age perfect family in the eye of feminists. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.thestar.com/amp/news/gta/2016/07/11/baby-storm-five-years-later-preschooler-on-top-of-the-world.html
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 03:10 AM
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OP, provide an in update in your post.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 12:50 AM
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In the words of Monsieur Pook, "Rejection is better than regret" Tell her you are going to grab a drink nearby at XYZ place and she should come.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:03 PM
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Where I am from, that is a fireable offence.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:54 PM
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"When there is a doubt, there is no doubt" from the sayings of Chairman /u/VasiliyZaitzev
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 06:45 PM
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All based on the context and body language. If the chick playfully punches you or if you assertively stand up to her BS, i.e she does not get what she thinks she wants, she is obviously attracted. A jerk or an asshole stir up feelings in her. Why? She doesn't know herself but that is because you are not caving and being a man. The main point is you stir up feelings in her and we all know how much chicks crave excitement and drama. If you are getting called a jerk/ asshole by dudes , do some self…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:39 PM
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The guys is at the crossroads and vulnerable. The responses here have been quite predictable. He is open enough to look for both sides of the coin. Whatever the outcome is, he can draw lessons from "the evil misogynist pigs" or the common advice such as relationship sub. I hope he keeps us updated and frankly, I'm encouraged that some guys actually visit that sub and encourage guys to seek out truth for themselves.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:24 PM
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Listen, and listen carefully. The first rule is you need to read the sidebar. The sidebar explains all the theory about women and their nature. Whoever sent you a message is a God sent and you should thank him. Relationshit sub is just full of a bunch of pussies and women giving advice. Depending on what you do with the information given to you, you are either going to embark on a journey of your life after reading the sidebar or you just going to keep soaking up lies that society tells you abou…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:51 AM
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I always split unless I am in an LTR. It also shows me what kind of chick she is right off the bat. If she acts all entitled and "men must pay" , be a gentleman, etc., the chances are she is a princess and I know I won't get along with her. Instead, I'll say "oh , you gotta get this drink. I'm buying the first round." They usually get the hint, but I'll also tell them to surprise me when they get second round. This gets their hamster going a bit and results in playful banter. "Surprise me, but o…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:17 AM
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Jerk or an asshole= attraction. Congratulations, you are doing it right.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:03 AM
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What is terrifying is that they can lie to your face that they did nothing wrong and they are convinced they are are telling the truth. Sometimes, I get envious of womens' ability to have short term memory and just move on. What is more painful is "communication is key" myth. BP who is immersed in the egalitarian utopia, must obviously have some trust issues if she does not trust his special snowflake because why else would she lie to him? That is such bullshit and it just hit me deeply how this…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:06 AM
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Atlas Shrugged.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 09:08 PM
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Sounds like my ex. Not LTR worthy. Lift, sidebar, become a better man. Absolutely no contact. Edit: I would recommend listening to stuff from Jordan Peterson. He makes you really think. Listening to this podcast at work. Whole thing is great, but stuff that is relevant for your case regarding toxic relationships is around 30 minute mark. https://youtu.be/gwUJHNPMUyU
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:45 PM
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What type of martial arts would you guys recommend for a 6'4 guy? I see jiu jitsu gets recommended, but I want to have some stand up too if the shit the fan and there is a real fight. I guess I am looking for something that will make me well- rounded.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:21 AM
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Yes, it is a fantastic idea. Also, ask her how many guys she fucked and if she did anal. Afterwards, tell her you forgive her and ready to take her back and marry her.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:27 PM
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From the sounds of it, dude fucked half of the female population at work. She wants what other women want- a high value man. He is like a hot, new Christmas toy that every little girl wants for Christmas. She is openly stringing you along to see which one of you is best for her, maybe even arrange a threesome(?). Girls that play this kind of game are not LTR worthy. Let's got through this hypothetical scenario for a second. If you tell her there is hot piece of ass secretary at work that all the…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:24 PM
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Because you give her a roller coaster of emotion, which is what she craves. She needs drama in her life and she will find it one way or another: - cheating - girls nights out - gossiping with single girls how her single friends did anal past weekend and how great it is - cosmo magazines - betafying you That is why a nice guy fails. He gives into her "needs", does not push back and she ultimately becomes a man in the relationship, which is what she despises. When you nail her comfort tests, pass …
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:51 AM
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This. Your penis was not a factor. Bitches are Machiavellian. Show them vulnerability and they will use it to their advantage like in you case. She did it to justify her deed of fucking another guy because she doesn't give a shit/ started moving on long time ago. She needs to find a reason, anything, to make sure that you are a big giant pussy and she got her closure. We all know she is an innocent snowflake that could do no wrong. Next time you are done with a bitch, do not give her CLOSURE. Ju…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:26 AM
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You are what you attract. Read No More Mr. Nice guy.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 12:00 AM
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BPDs try to alienate you from family and they absolutely fear abandonment. At best, she is an emotional basket case and attention whore. Think about it. It is a fucking funeral, attention is not on her, so she is pissed because she is not the star of the show. For fucks sake, you are the one that just had a family member pass away. Instead of at least trying to connect with people and offer sympathy, condolences, etc, she goes on a witch hunt on how you are a shitty person because you didn't acc…
/r/askTRP15/12/16 06:16 AM
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Just another example. She called her friends and drank water, but does not remember having sex.... https://www.google.ca/amp/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.3794859 The judge that told "rape victim" to close her legs most likely will lose his job. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/sec.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/committee-recommends-removal-of-judge-robin-camp/article33099722/%3Fservice%3Damp
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 07:50 PM
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I work under bunch of women in managerial positions. It is horrible. One would constantly give me "deer in headlights" look if I just asked questions and would personally look at it like I'm questioning her intelligence. I even got blamed for her incompetence once where she said I was late on delivering when I did it on time. I also got called in the office because I apparently raised my voice at a female coworker, which was false. I got called in to speak to a manager and had no clue wtf she wa…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 04:17 PM
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Same girl told me that Trump is a horrible human being and hates women. Yet, could not list what Hilary stood for.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 01:47 PM
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Next Chad will fuck her even harder.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:03 AM
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In my recovery from BPD ex, I had phone consultations with my therapist. He offered me two suggestions (only one was good enough for me) Write a letter to your "past self" from your "future self" offering advice and what your learned . These are your observations and non-judgemental way to self reflect. This is the one I did. Write your ex a letter. Let her know how you truly feel. Get that shit off your chest. I wrote about 3 pages double sided about the abuse I had to put up with to get her "l…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 02:43 AM
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Had a conversation about this with a female coworker. Her: Negan is so hot. Me. Really? He just bashed 2 skulls into the ground, including your favourite character. Her: Yeah, but wouldn't you want someone like that who is a good leader? Sometimes bitches just reveal RP truth. It is very refreshing.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 02:29 AM
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Unlikely. It must always be someone else's fault. https://therationalmale.com/2016/11/16/shes-unhaapppy/
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 07:43 PM
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Uncle Vasya gives out the best advice, as usual. Too many people come in here looking for some easy fix. The hardest part is getting started and there is a learning curve to this. You need to experience and embrace rejection. There is no going around it. That is like saying you going to get more jacked by watching Arnold's workout videos. That is why recovering BP noobs stumble on the goldmine called TRP and start devouring latest post on "50 ways of getting pussy" and think the know women. WRON…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 06:15 PM
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This. Since you are young, flirting with other women ( even when in LTR) will help you develop IDGAF and abundance mentality. Trust me, this will be helpful later on in life. Approaching and chatting up women will be a subtle reminder to you that you have options in case shit hits the fan. Don't cave in with any more supplicating BS like " Are you OK babe? How are you feeling today. Are you still mad?" She needs to know she stepped the fuck out of line and that shit is not OK with you. It is cat…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 01:31 AM
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Was there any other previous redflags? Was/is she a big party girl? Some women take shit like this to extreme , as offensive as it sounds. You are the only one that knows her well enough to make the judgement.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 01:19 AM
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I couldn't believe how important the bond and the family part is a reflection of HER, especially her father. In my BP days, I would just think "girl, you are your own person".
/r/askTRP01/12/16 01:13 AM
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Cold showers are awesome. I started working out in the morning before work. I alternate hot and cold for 30 seconds. Taking cold showers wakes you right up and removes soreness. Working out and cold showers first thing in the morning gets me wired for the most part of the day. When I was younger ,my old school Eastern European dad would constantly tell me cold showers makes your immune system stronger. Of course at that time as a young kid, it was tough to find cold water poured on you from a bu…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 01:06 AM
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Milo one is great too. That's the first time I heard of Milo.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 12:57 AM
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Listened to this at work. The podcast is 3 hours. You can tell Joe Rogan was blown away and he even admitted this was one of the best podcasts he has ever done. Jordan is a great speaker and a great critical thinker. I liked the bit where Jordan talked about the mapping out program that he developed ( forgot what it was called- will look it up at home) It was pretty much outlining your goals, your future and it might be available for free online still. When asked how people can support him in hi…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:18 AM
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I love how BPD bitches find Jesus as their saviour and turn to religion. Even religion is an excuse to forgive their shitty behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 07:35 AM
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Glad you are out of that mess. I didn't even know what BPD was until I found TRP. My ex was a classic case. I just thought it was a classic case of "that is how all women are"
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 08:20 PM
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Fifth I saw previous LTR posting some quotes saying how you stop taking people seriously because they are reflection of themselves and not reflection of you to her next boy toy, guy she cheated on me with. Basically took passive aggressive approach to show that it was not her fault. Of course bitch had an abortion, fucked up family, dated thugs who were locked up, stayed with guys that cheated on her multiple times, guys she stalked to prove they were cheating. Dad called her a whore in front of…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 07:20 PM
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I find this concept fascinating. Women, mothers in particular, might be unaware of their own nature. But as soon as there is an "outsider" female predator, it is like mothers perk up and filter the shit out of them. It is a fascinating dynamic watching girls meet your mothers . It is like your mother seeing shit right through them.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 06:30 PM
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This was my BP dream. It is no longer my reality.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:17 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy . Do ALL the exercises, not just read the book.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 02:45 AM
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"Thank you for setting me free" - Translation: " Wheeeee, I don't feel as bad for cheating and now I am like a kid on Christmas Eve that has a pick of my Chads" You don't need this bullshit anymore. She is out of your life. You deserve better. Block her on FB, Instagram, number, etc. She provided absolutely no value to your life and will be a massive hinderance to your mental state once you get busy with improving yourself.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:33 AM
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This. History has a way of repeating itself despite her claims that " she is changed now" after fucking all the bad boys and her turbulent past. Actions speak louder than words. Bottom line is her past is a pretty accurate description of what she stands for. Just gotta watch out for serial Commitment girls aka " I don't fuck random dudes but I jump from one LTR to another right away"
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:30 PM
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If she does it again and disrespects you, wouldn't you just next her?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 05:33 PM
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Depends on the context of the situation. It is not about just making you jealous. It might be her feeling guilty and giving you trickled down truth. She does this to make herself feel better ie. "Well, I told him and he was OK with me hanging out with this guy" Your response is OK for plates, in my opinion. In an LTR, I would next the girl. Girls are not stupid. They are testing your boundaries. Just to give an example. Ex said she went out with friends. Then, felt guilty and told me she went to…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 05:30 PM
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That is exactly what I implied to her. I am not oblivious that every chick has orbiters. She understood that they would only do it to bang her, but had no other purpose in her life.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 08:25 PM
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"How many branch swings are based in despair?" "the woman lives in a sea of feefees which are constantly reinforced by the liberal media and their brainwashed, slave cucks. She thinks that she deserves more due to "vagina" so in any moment of despair she turns and bites the hand that feeds. She blames her man for her own confused feelings and then seeks to cure her own confusion by swinging to a new branch. All she achieves in doing this is hurting the first man, damaging herself and sabotaging …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:41 PM
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I have noticed more and more women looking unhappy in the strolls of my daily life. It is quite sad. What's their way out? Look for some cock to prove her worth or go on Facebook/ Instagram because that is the ultimate, accurate indicator of her net worth. I just came from vacation on a resort in a Caribbean and I was still surprised how many beautiful women are clinging onto their cellphones, just sitting there, taking selfies totally disregarding the beach, the weather, the ocean and the beaut…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:29 PM
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This. I stopped whiteknighting. I always wanted to help my exes with their issues by giving advice and resources. Afterwards, I was just puzzled. Why won't this bitch just think of my logic? It makes perfect sense. Men are sold the myth of equality and how you need to communicate more. Of course, nobody really mentions women don't know what the fuck they want, how men giving up their desires and goals leads women to being aggressive, angry cunts who still do not understand why they are not happy…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:18 PM
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I'm still in the angry phase. It has been 7 months. Knowing the truth about hypergamy does not make it easier. It is unrelenting. With the blowing up with social media, it only feeds into the womens' fragile egos to be entertained at the snap of the fingers and to get instant validation. I see less and less women that are good mothers. I need to figure out how to lose the self imposed necessity to have an emotional connection with a chick to have sex I have fucked girls where I don't know there …
/r/askTRP15/11/16 03:50 AM
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After taking the pill, I feel like I am the only sane person around because things are so much clearer. Peoples motives, all the women that rejected me, all the female bosses that I had. All the shaming I encountered from people where I had some success in any endeavour. I am very pragmatic too and was always into psychology. Finding TRP was a blessing because I had so many "aha" moments. TRP provides that great voice of reason in your head which you cannot doubt anymore because you train yourse…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:03 PM
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I got in a habit of analyzing my game and approaches after the night now, not during the night. Helped in two ways: Takes the pressure off and let's me be more loose and natural. Helps you see the big things that need fixing if the same thing occurs over and over again ie. lack of escalation by touching, failing to approach right away, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 08:24 PM
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The worst type I constantly see is bitches slide in JUST before the door closes, so they don't have to open it for the next person. They think they are in some matrix shit and being slick. I'm sure pushing the door open would strain your tricep, sweet heart.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 08:16 PM
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What an ignorant comment to say about male suicide rates. Go read The Myth Of Male Power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 08:17 PM
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It is OK. We would have accepted you just like how you were back in the day.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 11:10 PM
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I laughed out loud when I read you friends comment and instantly got angry at the SJW's nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 11:06 PM
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It is crazy how diluted media and society can make a simple message like you mentioned. If you mention that men and females are not the same , you are called misogynist. Well, my lady friend, do you have a dick? I do, you don't. You have a vagina. Can you go chop some wood? Or can you help me move this huge sofa? What is that? Oh, you want to play the gender card now. I was at a liquor store the other day, she ID'd me and started chatting me up. Before, they had to check off on their computer if…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 06:55 PM
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If it is a chick I know fairly well " It is because you are taken"- with a sly smile on my face. White knights/ Betas/ Office environment " it is because I have not found the right one yet" Usually they just say some shit like "Do not sorry . You will find out" Just smile and move on. No damage done. Remember : you do not owe anyone a thing.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:55 AM
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I agree to an extent. She was extreme, but she did demonstrate AWALT behaviours. That was one of them.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:03 PM
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Stop listening to what bitches say. She is just reacting like a little kid because you rejected her. She does not feel that she is enough of a woman to satisfy a man and that something must be off with her. Her hamster is already going off the charts. Take screenshots. She won't go through with her threat about suicide.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:30 AM
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I wish I got to that with my ex and just DTB right after.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:26 AM
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This . They will start treating you like shit. My BPD ex started treated me like shit towards the end. Coincidentally, this happened after she hung out with a "friend " at 2:30 AM but she left as soon as he started pulling moves ( in her words). After break up, guess who was there to console her? That's the last time I am ever trusting bitches' words. You need to make a decision. If sex is great, keep her around, start emotionally distancing yourself and start hitting on other bitches. Your LTR …
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:25 AM
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I was watching Molyneaux's video today on YouTube and was pleasantly surprised he used the term "hypergamy". I thought only redpillers knew the term. I would love to see him and Rollo together . Gorilla Mindset is on my reading list, looking forward to see what Mike has to say.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:47 AM
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Friends came from Austria few weeks ago. They described said the locals look scared. They asked locals direction and the local Austrians just got intimidated.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:39 AM
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Can you elaborate how it is "obvious"? Honest question. Been to Germany two years ago. Things didn't seem half as bad.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:07 AM
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Here is another article I stumbled upon: Ugly bitch ran off from responsibilities of nursing her taking care of her kids just to get some Afghan dicking. https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2096916/devastated-husband-slams-wife-and-says-she-ran-away-from-her-responsibilities-and-kids-after-she-left-him-for-an-afghan-migrant-she-met-in-the-calais-jungle/
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 10:40 PM
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First, understand you are going in a right direction and it is huge that you realize you need to improve. Read the sidebar. Lift. At your age , you need to act to get the snowball going. One step at a time. Enrol in some school clubs, some other activities you like such as rock climbing, etc. Read No Mr. Nice guy. It will help you realize it is ok to have needs and chase your goals. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Afterwards , read Rollo's books.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:25 AM
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You nailed it. BPD have a fear of abandonment so they need to cut out your loved ones, friends, your support group to cope with their own issues and make sure you do not abandon them. They want your full attention, all the time, while they get away with murder. Ex didn't get along with friends because they are "players", yet never introduced her girl friends to any of them( she did not have any, only guy "friends"). Hated my family and try to change them. No appreciation for shit they went throu…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:54 PM
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Exact description of LTR that brought me here. It is funny how common these experiences are among men and really helps you break down seduction/ relationship game. I was a white knight with a BPD chick and thought that I could save her and that I will show her how we can overcome any obstacles baby, because that is the right thing to do. Now, we resent each other, haven't spoken since and she cheated on me in order to get out. I failed shit test after shit test and she was a chronic boundary pus…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:17 PM
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Exactly. They are fighting in wars while their innocent wives are fucking dudes back home. Aww. Poor innocent Susie needed just wanted some Comfort and some dick because that asshole Jonny was not there for her when she needed him. My father told me a story about the guy in his unit that blew his brains out when he came back because his wife cheated. These hoes ain't loyal.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:56 AM
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I almost lost my shit when I saw a quote from her that WOMEN are true victims of men going to war. It is one thing to trying to get votes from women,but it is completely fucking disrespectful to show absolutely zero remorse and concern for MEN who actually put their lives on the line for us to be safe.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:54 PM
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Women can't think for themselves. I had the same argument with chick at work. When she was cornered by my logic, she went with " he hates women"- typical canned response. When I said that he has a smoking hot wife and daughter, she simply rolled her eyes and said that I am a typical man. Media controls masses, especially women who are the ultimate consumers and just go with the flow.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:48 PM
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Bitches' are truly Machiavellian . Their tears are just a Trojan horse to reel you in or gain some sympathy points.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:33 PM
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I just started reading The Myth of Male Power. I can already tell it is fucking gold just by reading a few pages. Here is a quote from the book " Feminism suggested that "God" might be a "She" but not that the devil might also be a "she". It neglected the shadow side of women and the light side of men. And NEGLECTED " to acknowledge that each sex has both sides within each sex" Solipsism has no bounds. Bitches just use feminism to promote hypergamy and cry foul when "equality " and "justice" are…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:28 PM
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This is TRPs version of a Disney Land movie.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:00 PM
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Moral code is quite subjective in my opinion. You will see tons of guys here arguing you shouldn't fuck other dudes wives vs "just do it crowd".
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:56 AM
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Listen to this guy. Talk to therapist if you have to. Even your trusted friends, parents most likely will not understand the situation. Most do not even know what BPD is. They will laugh at you when you will say you two are broken up if you mention what you went through. "Oh no, she is an angel. She could never do that. She is just a woman". That is just the default response and when you, as a guy, mention that you were abused, they will think it is a joke. Time to move on. Keep yourself occupie…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:22 PM
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One part I am confused about that Rollo pointed out is how chicks stick together while they are in the same game,because they are riding CC. It is like secret society. Can someone explain to me why it seems like men are unaware and we do not stick together while women do? I'll provide an example . I mentioned to a 50 plus woman how Scottie Pippen's wife cheated on him. She didn't even know who the guy was but right after I did explain that he is one of top basketball players of all time, SHE imm…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 04:21 PM
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Because you want to save them. I am glad I will never play captain save a ho ever again.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 03:24 AM
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Agreed. She is the reason how I found the red pill and realized being nice does get you anywhere in life.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 03:20 AM
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Bitches do not accept responsibility. Their boundless solipsism MUST rationalize the MAN is guilty in one way or another. She needs to cling on to ANYTHING to justify her cheating is not a mistake. How can you justify this poor schmuck is guilty? From TRP perspective, he is a Beta bitch. The chick knows that on subconscious level, but consciously she does not what is wrong with him: he is a great communicator, believes in equality of sexes and has a solid job. They are incapable of logic. They n…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 12:31 AM
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Well, the Godfather himself, Rollo just came out with blog post doing a case Study on the OP's situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:43 PM
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"Women are children" has fundamentally changed how I view women and made me take them less seriously. I agree. You can find a lot of gold on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 09:18 PM
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Read the Book of Pook and Rational Male series by Rollo Tomassi. These 3 books are life changers. Pook ultimately tells you that you are the prize. Rollo takes a more pragmatic approach and connects the dots regarding inter gender dynamics.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:11 PM
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Start talking to everyone, not just girls. Baristas, girls that work in clothing stores. That will set you off on the right path and build great, playful vibe. It also gets you in a talking mood. My convo with a cute cashier at the liquor store yesterday. Her: Can I have you zip code ?( for marketing purposes to enter in the register) Me: No, I wouldn't want you to stalk me. I need dinner first. She was all smiles and biting her lip afterwards. Just small day to day interactions help you make co…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 05:55 PM
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People only learn once they experience traumatic experience in their lives. People need to be receptive to ideas that their way of thinking is faulty and treat it like a blank slate. That is why most of the guys here end up after break up. We are seeking answers, it is make or break state. They are vulnerable. You either learn or you go back to sugar coating and justifying shit like what this cuck is doing. I ended up here because BPD ex tore my heart to shreds and cheated. I got told the same s…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:23 AM
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Missed that part. Maybe she is just friends with the guy that she grinded her ass on heavily and they are just catching up..... This guy is getting cucked even harder than I thought.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:20 PM
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This might help. https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/23/vulnerability/ Sounds cheesy, but I think you need time to digest the red pill and let the truths settle in. What essentially you are seeking in a woman is something that she only has for her children. Men are supposed to be rocks in a relationship.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:29 PM
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The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference- Rollo Tomassi This revenge fantasy will not help you in anyway. Better spend time focusing on yourself. Sit down and figure out your priorities in life. The fact that you are still thinking about her is taking away your emotional resources and wasting time plotting some revenge. I have been there. I could tear the family apart of my BPD ex and that was initial thought after the break up . I realized it would speak more volumes about myself th…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:22 PM
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Come on guys. Accept her for who she is. She is beautiful on the inside..... But yeah, no fatties.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:13 PM
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Therein lies a threat. You think she is just an ordinary woman that shit tests and just emotional. Our society wants men to embrace women for their craziness because " that is how they are". BPDs walk the line to an ordinary BP that thinks her behaviour is part of her feminine energy. Except for she is anything , but ordinary. She is an emotional psychopath that will drag you through hell just to feel the thrill of the ride and dump you next day because she is bored.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:05 PM
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100 %. She fucked the guy. Now her hamster is going into overdrive and trying to rationalize what made her do it. It is like an internal battle within her. Her barely existent logic says boyfriend is a nice guy, marriage material, etc. Her feelz say " I got some dick last night. Yayyyyy!!! My dry vagina got some pounding from a guy that provided excitement" It is like bitch is putting together pros and cons in her head. Except for all blame will go on the bf because women are incapable of logic.…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 01:29 PM
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It is fucking everywhere. R & B songs , Disney movies, commercials, news, schooling, feminism and rape culture. You realize how deep feminine imperative is. We will have first Female president only to push the agenda to advance the agendas of "poor, helpless women" that have been repressed all these years. The only way for a young man to fight this if he truly has strong father figure who is unashamed of his masculinity and raises him with sprinkles of red pill knowledge. But even than, brave li…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:20 AM
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We are enlightened with TRP. I went through the stages you went through. Poor sleep, eating like shit, anxiety attacks for the first time in my life. It has been 6 months and I am almost over it. Men reflect on their past , learn from mistakes and move forward to conquer shit. Once you swallow the pill, there is no going back because the world will not look the same. You see how your BP version was reinforced by society which led you lies . The result was only for you to become a massive cuck/Be…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:51 AM
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Same thing here, except for ex was BPD. I have noticed a lot of stories on TRP start off with guys sstarting out as Alpha but becoming beta. That's why I realized TRP is about internalizing the redpill where DGAF, abundance mentality become a part of you, not just some empty words been thrown around. There is guys like Rollo that at least provide hope for a functional marriages. There is only so much shittesting and nagging a guy could put up from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:30 AM
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She is a woman + feminist. You can never use logic and have arguments. Just do not get involved. Women go on feels. I discussed last night's election with this chick for shits and giggles just for my own entertainment. Maybe it is some type of fantasy I have that I will meet a chick that has logical and deductive reasoning skills. I know, I know, talking about politics is a no go. I really don't give a shit about the job I have right now and looking for something new. She defended Hilary because…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:04 AM
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They do not mean anything on both ends. Men and women do not honour it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 01:50 AM
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This post took me in a trip to the Beta memory lane where I have seen the ghosts of all my Exes. Good shit. Will order the book.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 01:42 AM
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Especially if she is nearing the wall.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:12 PM
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Read this https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/23/vulnerability/
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:58 PM
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From what you listed, she does not sound like BPD. Read the comment I posted what my BPD ex did. When I said sporadic , I meant crazy shit that is out of line. It sounds like she is just being feminine and testing you. Keep an eye out if her behaviour gets worse.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:53 PM
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I ask for the girls phone and store my number myself. She usually says "why blah blah blah" . I store my number and message from her phone with something ridiculous like " OMG you are sooooooo hot". Works for me because it sets playful banter and easy to pick up from there. You can respond with " I know i am" or " I need dinner first".
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:46 PM
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Any other sporadic behaviour?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:49 PM
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Yup. Same experience with BPD. Questions the relationship one minute, then acts like you are her saviour. And than you wonder ... how the fuck are you able to turn around so quickly. How young is she ? It might be because she is a spoiled little princess but I highly doubt it. Has there been any irrational behaviour in the past? My ex got in a fight with parents and scratched the whole passenger side of the car when she tried to park it. I would have been flipping out. Instead, she ignored like …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 11:45 PM
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The best response I have seen here by one of the posters was: "Yes... just don't tell my wife or my mistress". I laughed at that one and gonna use it next time the topic comes up.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:43 AM
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I think finding your mission is going after it is what makes the life fun. Women just want to cling onto VALUE. It is your choice how you want to live your life. I went from wanting to have huge family to realize what a complete joke marriage is today. Is it sad? Does not fucking matter. That is how it is. If you want an end game of a marriage, you need to know the consequences and if the pros really outweigh the cons.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:23 AM
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Don't delay the inevitable. Break up now. Focus your energy on looking for another job while you are still at the old job and search aggressively. The search and the interviews will keep you occupied.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:15 AM
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Just curious. What is TRPs definition of long distance? I get another state, country, etc, but what if you live about an hour drive away from someone?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 07:02 PM
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Great book. I listened to the audio version. Beautiful prose and great writing style made the red pill easier to swallow. Plus he has got some great humour in there and refers to himself as Monsieur Pook. The best part I liked about the book were his commandments. He pretty much explains the dating cycle an average guy by going through the journey with him and guiding the youth. His battle with the feminism in the court was also entertaining + informative.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 07:00 PM
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I had the same situation. Ex was a social butterfly and would get a little too close to flirting for my liking. Of course she denied it. I called her out for talking too much to this guy she went on a date with(or so she said., can't trust that bitch) when she was talking to him right in front of me . I called her out on it and she got mad NOT because I was " jealous" but because I treated her like a little kid (wtf?) OP, I would go with option 2 and start building up your options. There is noth…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:24 PM
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Yes. But in her mind it will not be cheating "because things were not working out anyway".
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:13 PM
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Got destroyed by BPD chick that was on a spree to find beta husband after fucking all the bad boys. I grew up and got forcefed shit to be nice guy my entire life. I got fed up of the same answer that " that's how women are" and started looking for answers. The funny thing is I found the concept of AWALT but it outlines HOW they actually are.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:35 PM
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I went through an anger phase, now it is just acceptance and apathy most times. I feel dead inside, mostly because I wasted so much time in the matrix and the BP world. But I started lifting, hanging out with small group of guys, fucked some girls and starting to figure out my priorities in life. I also need to develop a social circle. I was always one of those guys that finds out about the parties last minute because I lacked self respect and being a pushover. Typical story of be nice to everyo…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 11:31 PM
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Wake up. She left you stranded after seven years and the other guy went in balls deep. Have some self respect. She wants to see if she has ever missed out on anything. Who gives a shit what she shared about and what is going on with her life?
/r/askTRP16/10/16 11:24 PM
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I have noticed a trend lately that couples buy houses to live together. I am talking about them not even being married.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 11:19 PM
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She is a goner. There will be a break up talking coming up soon. She already has pieces in places and set up her exit plan. You cannot go back. It is yesterday's trash. You are literally dead to her. What is the scary part for any guy when this happens is in fact you mentioned this part : "Being with her is very comfortable for me. I don't have much time to go out from zero and start knowing other girls" You do not have options at the moment while she does. Attraction is non-negotiable. Women co…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:12 PM
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Experience is the best teacher. It is tough to know what could have happened if we knew TRP back at the time, but our experiences can be priceless. What is surprising for me is how deliberate and thought out the entire break up process is. The new gym sessions, new hobbies, hanging out more with friends. These are the things that an average joe will think will benefit their relationship and be proud of his gf for getting more fit, try something new or hang out with her friends to get girl time..…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:47 AM
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No. it is a waste of time. You can only see so many people put up food pics and Look for external validation. I keep mine only to keep up with friends from around the world and family. Facebook and messenger app are deleted from the phone. I will get email notification if somebody contacts me.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 12:46 PM
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Great guide for signs leading to breakups. https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_breaking_up_a_guide_to_not_having/ Just goes to show that most women have back up options and how much work they actually put into to disconnect themselves. If you had a rough patch lately and she started going to the gym, she is sure as hell not doing it for you.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:37 PM
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That is a big one. The story sounds something like this. "Boy meets girl, boy is charming, witty, alpha. Girl loves it and is submissive. She acts like a woman, shit tests, guy fails them and does not establish boundaries. Woman goes off to another Alpha" As LTR goes on, he becomes a pussy because they lower their guard, rely on communication myth to solve problems and becoming a good old bf that puts up with with all her demands.... except for women have no fucking clue wtf they want!!! They de…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:32 PM
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One of the biggest takeaways from TRP is that you are the prize. I understand what you are saying and it sounds like you are clinging on the idealistic view of love. It is easy for us to let our guard down and enjoy the company of a loved one. Males get shit on from every angle and we just want to be accepted once in awhile. Women love opportunistically and will just shit on you as soon as they sense you are beneath them. That's why I realized vulnerability is not a virtue to a chick. Funny to t…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:54 AM
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Your gut feeling is what is tipping you off in order to think about it objectively in a first place .
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:18 AM
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Pook, is that you?
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:06 AM
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Thy are constant approval seekers . They need constant attention and thrill. Male approval is easy to get for a hot chick. They cover it up with the fact that they are "social". My ex could not get along with girls, especially my girl friends. My girl friend pocket dialled me one time and BPD started freaking out, crying, told me about previous abortion and saying she was always by herself.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:41 PM
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Don't ignore the redflags. Trust your gut.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:26 PM
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Quite a few. It is great for my self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:20 PM
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When they are miserable, they want the world to burn. When they are happy, they take you to 7th heaven.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:50 PM
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So true. On a first date, she bought me an outfit. I didn't consider that flattery is what worked well at the beginning and them playing up to your values. But again, every woman does that too.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:46 PM
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They are not assholes. They are psychopaths. If you are an alpha male, you can stomach them for a bit but it is not worth it even if you keep them as fuck buddies. The guy my ex dated said he was very dominant, been to jail, etc. She loved it, but her BPD tendencies pissed her off that she couldn't control it. Of course , her female nature loved being submissive at first , but afterwards hamster goes off as to why she couldn't control the guy who just left after the abortion.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:31 PM
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Feminism's empowerment and encouragement of strong, independent woman mentality makes it harder on men to realize that BPDs are no ordinary women. You are walking a line between a modern fem-powered woman and BPD. "Oh boy, there must be something wrong with you. You are not man enough and insecure because you cannot accept her "strong" personality." Here is another article I came across yesterday. Goood summary of BPDs as well: https://blacklabellogic.com/2016/10/11/women-and-borderline-personal…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:32 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. I am not a professional.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:08 PM
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90% on your oneitis. Holy fuck. Definitely delete that shit. I only keep messenger now in case family or friends from abroad want to connect.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 12:35 AM
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It definitely breaks it down in a concise, clear way. I didn't even know what BPD was. After reading the website, the light bulbs went off. I knew what I dealt with was not ordinary. BPDs are not for the light hearted. Average joes are taught to accept women for who they are, rely on communication and rely on happy wife, happy life bullshit while they emotionally mindfuck you. It is like they get a joy from bringing you down and bringing you to your knees only to dump you after and say " Yay, I …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:23 AM
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BPDs are intoxicating because they are hot and put you through a fucking roller coaster of emotions. They are also chameleons. My BPD ex pretended to be a good wife material - she cleaned, cooked, demonstrated good motherly qualities. And then insecurities plus her past started coming out. Abortion, random stalking of past " abusive" exs. It was mesmerizing to see how a woman could justify all these things and blame others for her own faults. Once she didn't get what she wanted( marriage) within…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 09:08 PM
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By picking up, I meant got numbers. I was into the girl I was with the time. But my point was that I just showed her my boundaries and that I have options if she pulls stunts like that. She was much more appreciative of me after that .
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:53 PM
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They will when the more promising male with show up. With that said, not all of them might cheat if you are already a high value male who has tons of shit going on. The thing I learned from TRP is that you are the only constant in life. Keep working on yourself. Bitches come and go. There is a reason why guys here preach "she is not yours, it is just your turn". A. It keeps you on the toes and develop abundance mentality. Yes, even when in relationship. Bitches will deliberately try to cut you o…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:29 PM
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I got told those exact words and that "I don't make her secure" and that " I wouldn't be able to fix it even if I got down on one knee". Bitch was an alpha widow, pretty sure has BPD, abortion, and whole bunch of other redflags that old blue pill me closed my eyes to. She also cheated. She said she cheated "because I couldn't provide her what she needed". The funny thing is she unwillingly exposed me to redpill truths. I went from being alpha and taking the lead to becoming a bitch boy. I later …
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:53 PM
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She is tired of you.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:42 AM
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Fuck her hard enough so you ex hears it.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:31 PM
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What do you mean less obsessed? Does she neg? Does she not provide value? Does she have girls nights out more often? Just want to make sure you are not hamstering away signals that she is ready to dump you. My ex went to Cancun, she didn't really talk about her trip after but there were posts with her sitting on the couch with some dude. She definitely fucked someone as she went with two of the biggest sluts I knew. To me, spring break = goner.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:30 PM
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Religion is a cover up for most chicks, just like feminism to cover up traces of AWALT to betas. That's why there is a lot of reformed sluts that pretend like they are born again Christians . Female hamstering is strong. I believe in God, hence that makes me a good person. Yes, God watched over you riding Cock Carousel and forgave you to for all those dicks you had in your mouth. He also provided a gift of betas to accept you at your worst when you gave your best years of the life away .
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:31 PM
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I think I had enough AWALT from the past few weeks of posts to last me a life time.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:26 PM
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Stop hamstering. It is irrelevant if "she is in small town and bored" Or responding " just to get her off your case" You got your shit figured out from the looks of it. You are relapsing because you are maintaining contact. Block her off everything, block #. Put effort in your game, lifting and studies. I get where you are coming from. I had anxiety attacks when I got dumped after my magical, perfect unicorn cheated and starting putting up pics all over how social media how great of a guy she ha…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:37 PM
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"Men and women can agree on one thing. That they do not trust women" - Pook
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:53 PM
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Yes. She is getting ready to cheat and/ or branch swing. The fact that she mentioned she would rather be with friends after inviting you is a sign.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:27 PM
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If you can't answer that question after doing diligent research (ie. reading the sidebar) and relating your own experiences to other members, just get the fuck out. To you we will be evil misogonyst who hate women. To guys here, we seek solace and support after getting burnt by women, plain and simple. But you will not give a shit. You already made up your mind.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:59 AM
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Don't be captain save a ho. Your situation sounds close to what happened to me. Btw, rape part might be bullshit. It might have been a threesome she willingly participated in. My ex had an abortion and blamed it as if it was the guys fault. I was so dumb I believed that BS. I wonder who opened her legs for that "abusive" ex? At the same time, she mentioned how she made her feel special. Women like your LTR and my ex cannot pair bond. They are alpha widows and they are beyond repair. They lack an…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:35 AM
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I am in the same boat as you. Starting to say no/ yes to little things that you want is key. This builds confidence. It takes time. Just a simple fucking concept, yet took years to realize this. You will also notice how some people will not like the new you. And that is totally fine.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 01:05 AM
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Buddy of mine dated some bitch. One night we had a party and they were over. Bitch got hammered and out cold. My buddy, his brother and another good friend put her to bed. She wakes up and asks them if they want a threesome. Of course bitch blamed it on being drunk. And then they wonder why guys are so "insecure" to let them go on girls nights out.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 04:30 PM
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Forgot to mention another important thing Block her number , social media , etc.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:34 PM
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Of course she was cheating. It always surprises me the amount of times guys want to rekindle the old flame and go back to ex's. She dumped your ass. You are her emotional tampon and puppet on the strings now when she gets bored with the new boy toy. You are inviting her back into your life for what? For more mental fuckery? Or do you enjoy putting yourself through this mental masterbation? Lift. Side bar. Go meet some other girls that are worthy.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:32 PM
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You can keep her in an LTR and get her prime years. TRP is amoral. One thing that I am internalizing from TRP is all LTRs have an expiration date. How you will handle it is something that only you know, but judging by your comments and how insecure about the count you are my guess is not well. There will be tougher shit tests along the way. How are you going to react when she tells you she is going on a trip with the girls? How are you going to react when she has girls night out? How are you goi…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 07:03 PM
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I laughed so hard in the office at this comment.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 06:52 PM
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If this does not kill any Blue Pill you have left in your blood stream, I do not know what does.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 06:36 PM
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That is him for now. Until she gets bored and gets tired of the " good girl mask" she is putting on. And will go partying it up because she was missing and craving the CC. OP, I came from the same boat. Ignored redflags, ignored the past because it was behind her and how she was a social butterfly. Party type girls require constant external validation. I bet her ex-bfs were Chad- type guys. You are her temporary stopover before she takes off to the CC.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:18 PM
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It is also plausible deniability when shit gets tough between you too and it does not work out. "Oh yeah. He is just very insecure and possessive because I wanted to have fun and be with friends and he was not fine with that" - Translation: " I want to fuck other dudes" BP dudes will look at you and trust every word she says and think that you are a loser. Her girlfriends will just fucking nod in agreement and know EXACTLY what she means.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:14 PM
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She is a party girl. They are not LTR material. Keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:32 PM
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"You don't value me. Watch the notebook for once. And oh yeah, I am not breaking up with you because any one of us cheated" - bitch is over this dudes social media two weeks after with people commenting how cute of a couple they look. Funny because bitch was a control freak who freaked out if I looked at girls or if any of the girls talked to me. Fucking sucks to be beta bucks. I am slowly improving now.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:48 PM
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The first real taste of TRP is when your little princess runs off with Chad instead of living with you in the castle. That is the ultimate shattering of the Disneyland bullshit. If you truly follow TRP, if that happens more than once, you are an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:43 PM
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I been trying something new recently. Read about it awhile ago in 4 hour work week. As an introvert, it was tough at first but got easier as I got going. Try to make eye contact with girls and do not look away if they lock eyes. With chicks , I just undress them with my eyes ( Women love to be objectified) I just do it when I walk to work, gym, etc. So far pretty good results. Combined that with lifting and better posture and it has been jackpot for me during the day. One of three things happens…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:01 PM
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"Women are children"
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:04 PM
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I just developed apathy. I just don't give a shit about anything anymore.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:42 PM
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Still surprises me to this date how people you call friends pull this kind of shit. Most of the people can't even stand a simple no. I am not even talking about personal boundaries with people. If someone comes to your work desk and asks your if you can do them a favour and you say "No, I am busy", people will act bewildered , especially women. Afterwards, they will go and talk shit how you are a "jerk" and and an "asshole". Yes bitch, I ACTUALLY have important work to do. I am sooo sorrry it is…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 12:57 AM
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Make your hobbies your girlfriends. Figure out what you want career wise and come up with a plan to follow up on it.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:39 AM
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That is a pretty messed up.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 11:46 PM
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I agree with you. My BPD ex was mid twenties and sold me blue pill of marriage. I found out she was an Alpha Widow. I got the best years of her life I guess. Now she is nearing 30, got back in the gym ( great shape ) and looks a LOT older just from when we started dating. The wall is real. The funny thing is she thought she deserved better than me and applying tons of pressure to get married, as in a set time line. Blue pill me was wondering why. Now I know that women are obviously aware of thei…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:46 AM
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/r/askTRP16/09/16 10:32 PM
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I had an experience with one that tried to be the centre of attention. I remained stoic and just had my drink at the bar and not paying her any attention. Bitch literally came up to me and asked if I knew who she was. I said no. She flipped her shit That wasn't throwing myself at her . She was just talking while I had my drink and had a convo with a person near me. Next thing you know, she starts crying how she has a kid with some some Jamaican dude, their love is gone and how she does not think…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:01 AM
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I find this really annoying. It is like giving her a pussy pass to act like a total bitch because " it is in her blood".
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:37 PM
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Or they will call themselves extroverts and type A personalities but they still will not be able to pair bond with people, especially girls.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:34 PM
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I agree. It is a must read. BPD girls are a hurricane of shit storms. Good fucks, but if there is any sort of attachment to them, you will get broken. This is no regular chick that throws hissy fits. They are massive tornadoes that will destroy anything in the way and nothing will stop them. We talk about how women love differently. These women are incapable of love at all. They only love they have is seeing a blue pill guys get manipulated, destroy their self esteems and dump them as soon as th…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:15 PM
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I'll piggyback on your comment. If I ever have flashbacks of my BPD ex, I read this comment from Illimitable man. This is perfect way of describing them "She is jealous at you more than you are jealous of her. This is a strange one. I had complete trust in her and always complimented her, seldom expression jealousy and insecurity. If a girl even smiled at me wrong or lightly flirted with me when she was around she would get extremely jealous turning it into a four hour insecurity accusation fest…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:28 PM
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Fucking hilarious. Ex mentioned that I should have watched the notebook to know how to treat women when we broke up. I have never watched it. Your comment how you need to have a mix of alpha and beta is what she was referring to.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:57 PM
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I am bookmarking this comment. Speaks on so many levels. OP, I came from the same boat. Attraction is not negotiable. She is literally moulding you in HER version of an ideal husband, which is beta bucks. She will come to resent you after when she had enough with you and hates the finished product. That is why she needed to enter YOUR frame going into the relationship. You failed to establish that from the outset. Save yourself the headache, do not get married if you don't want unnecessary stres…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:54 PM
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Agreed. It is funny that you mentioned that females see through bullshit. Females are social creatures, so they know the guys they keep around want to fuck them, but they get validation from withholding sex if they wish. They are not that naive, they just play with the unlimited hand that is given to them by society and betas. Alphas set the bitches straight. I have been enjoying reading Illimitable man's blog lately. The guy provides very great, mind stimulating material which is pure gold. He …
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:29 AM
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Teach her while she is doing it. Girls love being submissive and please their man. As long as she is attracted to you, she will do anything.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:42 AM
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Talk to a therapist. Having an open communication with someone that listens and can give good advice is key. My therapist set my ass on fire as soon as I started talking how my BPD ex was the one and kept resorting to BP fantasies. See if your college has any professional help/ counselling. Also, try headspace app. I'll get flack for this, but meditation has been great to me. It takes 10 minutes of your day and helps you collect thoughts. Really helped my anxiety. Keep lifting. Use that as motiv…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:33 AM
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It is because we feel enlightened while they are not . But some people cannot be saved. Sprinkling them with our newfound red pill knowledge will not do anything for them as their reality is too comfortable and complacent. And that is fine for them. It is their lives. Most of the people here ended up through heartbreak. How many alphas found TRP that were fucking tons of bitches and wanted to find out how to fuck some more ? Probably not many. Our realities were shattered when "the one" cheated,…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:38 AM
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Exactly. There is zero repercussions and the funny thing women totally fulfill their dual sexual nature in today's society. Rides CC, Has a kid, beta bucks provides she leaves, gets half of the money and hops of to Chad on the side until they get humped and dumped again. This keeps going until they they are no longer sexually desirable because guys can get younger girls. Sure, she will get some dicking but it will be a mercy fuck. Women are just not loyal. Men carry the burden and when she gets …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:47 AM
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Easy answer. In the office, just say that you haven't met the one yet. Done. Next topic. It will make you more likeable in the office environment and keep casual friendly conversation going. Of course, just ignore their dumbass advice and just nod. I could talk for hours about hypergamy, how women are not angels they are made out to be and cheat as much, if not more than men and that 70% of divorces are initiated by women. That will not get me brownie points in the office. It is one of the Laws …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:22 AM
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My parents have been married for over 20+ years and got married at 21 and they were born in patriarchal country The difference is that both of them were willing to put in the EFFORT to make it work and boy, did they go through a lot of shit in life and they still stuck together. Difference with the bitches today is external validation. Their prime at 21-25, but they want to ride CC because their hypergamous nature tells them it is ok and there is no repercussions. Since we know women don't know …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:16 AM
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Small town are like that too. Everyone fucks everyone.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:04 AM
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Because one of those guy friends might be the one she wants to branch swing too. Besides her guy friends you know, how many coworker guy friends are there that you do not know about? Or when she tells you she hangs out with Chad, when her best gf is there too? He is just another guy friend she met at the party. I think that is what we are talking about. I'm sure there is a bunch of guys that you can be cool With if you see them hang before or even have a beer. But there are others that you just …
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:31 AM
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Looking back, dread is probably one of the best things I learned from TRP. In past relationships when I applied it unknowingly, chicks loved me more but sometimes I would get a shitstorm of emotion coming at me. Of course, that shit was a struggle as a blue pill guy. This post helps a lot.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:09 AM
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I agree with you 100%. The chick left the door open for you. To her, you are a wuss because how could you ignore all these obvious signs? That is as close of IOIs as you are going to get. Chicks actually get agitated when their signs are ignored. It is kind of funny how chicks think these signs are so obvious, but most of the guys would not catch on . Some of the signs are like fixing their hair constantly if you are beside them, glancing at you, "magically" ends up sitting close to you in class…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:09 PM
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University lays were awesome. I don't know wtf this is about. If you have at least some shit going on in your life, it is easy to get laid in college.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:02 PM
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This is a big deal breaker for me in LTRs after ex fucked one of the guy "friends" and started dating him. These are the same girls that say: - "Oh, I only get along with guys. Girls are too much drama." They will shame you that you are insecure about her hanging out with other dudes but flip their shit if you start hanging out with your girl friends. I am no TRP expert , but it seems like to me they are setting themselves up to branch swing.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:49 PM
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Abundance mentality and realizing that you are the prize. This makes you go out and do exciting hobbies, set goals and come up with a plan to accomplish them. Chicks will want to be part of your world since they want to associate themselves with all the cool shit you got going in your life.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:42 PM
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Mandatory reading: https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/ This will help you get out of the Disneyland bullshit we have been force fed our whole lives. You need to start taking care of yourself first and foremost. If you ever think of her, just think of all the bad shit she did to you. She is no angel. You just built her up to be. Get busy with your own life.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:38 PM
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OP, you are such a misogynist. Haha. Just fucking with you. Great job.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:20 PM
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Similar to " I am not that type of girl" - every slut ever.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:39 PM
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This. The scarcity mentality is real. As a lot of reforming blue pill guys do, their first instinct is to lock down the girl, especially if she is hot because they believe that they will effectively "take her off the market" because you are in a committed LTR. Except for we know how that works out. Women despise you because you become beta bucks and hop off to the next Chad who provides tingles, because she didn't have to work for your commitment. I gave away my commitment to a BPD within a week…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:00 PM
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Welcome to the club. Anger stage will pass eventually. Read sidebar. Lift. Buy Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, volume 1 and 2. It will help you understand female psychology better. GFTOW. It will help.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:08 PM
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Exactly this. But if you give her closure, she will justify it as there must be a reason she cheated/treated you like shit. The verbal closure of the break up is for HER, not you. You already know she is not worth your time. Time to move on. In TRP terms, she is repulsed you are the beta bucks. Her hamster won't be able to justify her wrongdoing in any way and will eat her up inside if you just hard next. She will feel like she failed as a woman and left the door open on her past. She is not you…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:27 AM
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Go fuck other girls. You know she will be doing the same to guys once things are over between you two.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:19 PM
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Why? Meet some new, better women. What are you going to talk about? Unless you are fine with being her emotional tampon and her releasing all her feelings on you of how awesome how fucking life is without you in it.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:53 PM
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Give him a copy of Rational Male. Since he works long hours , maybe you could get him an audiobook too which is free right now on audible if you are a new client. Point him to the first chapter of the book about Oneitis . Another chapter is about Frame. Hopefully after reading, he will just dump your ass.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:50 PM
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I went to Pentecostal church one time . The pastor emphasized that it is inappropriate for parents to hold hands In front of the kid . He also mentioned it is inappropriate to have a drink in front of the kid. I almost lost my shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:40 PM
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They make the best lays. They can go to church after to confess their "sins".
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 03:43 AM
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No quite the opposite. If you read the rest of my post, I left with another chick. I was not butt hurt . In fact, I was encouraging her to go for him. I was just entertaining myself how this girl went from " I am not like any other girl " and I'm religious to admitting she likes BBC.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 08:26 AM
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Ignore. Say it is all good but just maintain your body language: straight posture, chin up high. Just had the same thing happen to me. Looked in a distance, some drunken Asshole started coming at me. His friends had hold me back moment. He instantly started apologizing because I didn't back down. I just stood my ground.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:43 AM
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I am still in the process of swallowing red pill. My anger stage comes and goes but I am coming around. The red pill helps you realize that you are in charge of your own life and sift through the bullshit in this world. I realized I am becoming more red pill when I started hitting the gym again and seeing chicks OPENLY just checking me out. I shifted my attitude to that of enlightened self interest. For the first time in my life, I ask myself what I want to do and what is best for me. This is a …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:06 PM
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Exactly. They do it to distance themselves and come up with excuses to justify their solipsistic nature. I have encountered quite a few girls lately, including my ex who said their Exs were abusive. WTF does this even mean anymore? I am not saying abuse is ok , it is certainly not. But what is fucked up is so many girls throw that word around and in most cases you can't get to the bottom of the truth. In my personal case, she ended up being an alpha widow and there is no way she can go back into…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:35 PM
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It is not abrupt. They start emotionally distancing themselves way ahead of time through subtle things like girls nights out, getting back into the gym and getting new hobbies. Like the video says , there is an emotional and verbal break up. What I found looking back at my previous LTRs is how hard it really it is to really break up with a quality guy for a chick if she initiates it. It like watching internal battle of feels vs needs in her head. Most of the guys just say that their LTRs become …
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:52 PM
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Watch the video series by Niko Choski on YouTube on understanding women. This one is is about the breakup. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7VHKfUAhLTc For women, break up is an emotional amnesia. They need to rationalize you are no longer a high value male to move on to someone else and get closure. That is why it is a bad idea to show emotions during breakups for guys. When you do, it just goes further to show that you are a beta bitch and confirms that she made the wrong choice in her partner. W…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 11:08 AM
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This strikes a cord on so many levels. I was on both sides, Chad and Billy Beta in the oneitis. They are responsible for their actions, but their decision to literally break you into her beta is like a constant uphill battle. That is why my blue pill dream of marriage is gone. The juice is not worth the squeeze. It is ridiculous. Not only are you making sacrifices for her, even giving up your dreams/ goals as most of the blue pill guys do but it is just never enough. It is like her solipsism tel…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 09:40 PM
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The main point from headspace is to get back to breathing. Not forcing your judgement on your thoughts is another one.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:09 AM
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Read the sidebar. lift . Use the anger to get that extra rep In. Trust . It will help in the long run. meditation. Headspace. Really helped a lot. do research and read based on your needs. I'd recommend Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi , Book of Pook and No More Mr Nice Guy By Dr Robert Glover. For me, No more mr nice guy. As a blue pill conditioned guy that is recovering , concepts such as "boundaries" , " you are the only person responsible for your happiness" and " don't ever tolerate the intol…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:04 AM
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Can confirm. Ex is banging one of the friends
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 08:48 PM
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OP, Read the post below and learn the signs for your future relationships. She broke up with you mentally way ahead of time. I am going through the same right now. I bet you will be nodding as you read through. Same thing happened to me. The distancing, the shit testing, inability to even have regular conversation, everything was a put down. And signing up for the gym 6 months ahead of breakup. https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_breaking_up_a_guide_to_not_having/
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:32 PM
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Agreed. Try Headspace app. Helped me tons already
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:57 AM
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I learned this the hard away. Ex told me some horror stories . Turns out she was just fucking alpha males that would not get in relationships with her lmao and "cheated "on her. I found out that "cheating " could mean having other options and not being locked into commitment. Old blue pill me said " I will be better than those assholes" . The funny thing she is so insecure that my she needed CONSTANT validation. She became an Alpha Widow and it is funny because she just keeps going back to the s…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 12:13 AM
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Totally agree. Hard next. She is not compatible with you and she already lost respect for you. Don't be bitter about it, hard next before she pulls any of the other manipulative BS like "I am just hanging out with a friend from work...You would not know her" My ex did the same shit. Smoke weed on the couch with a "Friend" at 2:30 am. But don't worry, I just smoked weed, slept there because she was too tired before driving AND left immediately before the GUY ( who I don't know about) pulled moves…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 02:59 PM
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Typing on mobile is a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:36 PM
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Can you elaborate further? How are they Molded? Just genuinely curious. These are the guys that out their lives on their lines yet betas.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 07:12 AM
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To me, military guys are the ultimate alphas. Why do they end up as beta bux and end up in uncharted territory? My dad witnessed a military man blow his brains out when he found out his wife was cheating out him when he came back from duty. I just don't get fucking get it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 05:06 AM
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Or idealizing someone to a point where they are what you want them to be.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 04:58 AM
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Because men are the true romantics. We are meant to fix shit and not give up on. We feel like we can climb over any obstacle ahead .Nobody teaches us to worship ourselves before anyone else and that some women are just damaged goods and that people do not change . We are not taught to follow our own path. We are either misogynyst, children , beta bux or somebody that just do not get it. We are are shit on from every angle , unless you best friends are naturals and nentors. I literally had a feel…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 04:57 AM
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Move on. She either wants you to get the hint because she does not want the responsibility to break up with you or you have the verbalized part of the break up coming soon. Best yet, she is probably with another guy and hamstering how she is single and it is not working out between you, hence it must be YOUR fault since she is no longer attracted. Niko Choski, who is member here, has great video on break up and mentions it is like an amnesia. The fact that she disrespects you like that, on a pub…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:28 PM
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Gym is my Playtime. I don't want my girls there to tell me stupid shit like they are tired after doing their 30 minute cardio workout or how the workout I do is not as fun and that they are ready to leave. If you do want to go with her in order to provide additional motivation for her , tell her you are on your own time and she can leave as she pleases. That way she gets her ass in the gym at least
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:49 AM
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As a recent grad - Focus on school - DO NOT get into relationship . - College is a place to make lifelong MALE friendships. - Focus on extracurriculars to expand social circle.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:42 AM
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Sorry for your loss. I will take a different view based on personal experience. I dated a girl who had all of BPD symptoms( not clinically diagnosed ) . I told her some of the shit that is so personal that I never told anyone except for her including: how some of family members died depression in some members of my family cheating in my family after marriage of 30 years. All I got was just her getting up at thanksgiving dinner and being angry that I wasn't thankful for her and for fact that my f…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:41 AM
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Here is what is helping me on my journey. " Rejection is better than regret" Would you rather be told to fuck off by that beautiful Girl at the bar and know for a fact you can approach other girls AND you got definitive answer with this girl? Or..... Think she was a girl of your dreams , perfect onetis, etc, without approaching her and literally idealizing her at the end of your night without approaching her the entire night. For me, it is either yes or no. That just makes it easier to move into…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:23 AM
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Thanks for this dude. I couldn't have said it better. I am a positive , pretty confident person but BPD ex chick destroyed my self esteem with the constant manipulation, degrading and emasculating just because I thought I needed to "man up" and take it because that is what men are supposed to do and fulfill her insecurity of hitting a wall and that I must marry her, otherwise I am just wasting her time and she is growing "bored". I really lost myself for some time because I truly forgot wtf I wa…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:58 PM
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I will provide another example. One of the hottest girls at work does not know how to do basic stuff. I see her texting all the time. She pretends like she does work once in a while and dramatizes it to make sure others, including the manager know that her over dramatization is noticed and thatthey are aware that she is putting in work. Takes 30 breaks to put on make up and perfume. I get called out for taking long shits in the morning. She does not get called out for anything, including her per…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:54 AM
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How so? BBs or redpill unaware men will marry chicks that rode CC because they will fill their blue pill fantasies when they want to settle . Kids will be born to spring into the society regardless. What made really angry, yet eye opening was his video about the break up. It is so true. Women will need to justify the break up and break up emotionally with you. It is like you don't exist to her anymore because you did not fulfill HER purpose. I always wondered how girls could justify cheating whe…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:48 AM
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I agree. I am always cautious, do not open up to anyone but she was perfect courtier that literally played up to my dreams. At the time , it felt borderline cruel when I revealed things to her that only she knows about me and she did not give a shit. Lesson learned : Woman's solipsism and hypergamy do not care . It is still a transaction while unconditional, pure love does not exist . Redpill opens up your eyes, but it is tough to swallow it all the way because we are really sold this Disneyland…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:33 AM
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That is why I can't follow religion. My Exs parents would say shit like " Devil got into me last night , that is why I had a fight with your mother" No bitch. You had an argument . Devil/ God had nothing to do with it . Face your problems and do not swipe them under the rug. Her mom was so concerned that she was a virgin , so she swiped her vagina one day to make sure she was . Who does that shit? She literally lost her virginity to spite her parents. And now of course she is riding CC and still…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:07 AM
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It is not just moms. I have a dad that is just a shitty communicator. Dude has been through a lot and tough as fucking nails. I talked to him about my recent experiences with girls and his advice was to buy flowers and not be cheap. Even the naturals , guys that CHICKS pick up in bars that I have been around , they do not know how to explain what they do. They just get it. It is like catch 22. You are force fed bullshit by society to be nice, do not be an asshole, you are a man - suck it up if s…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:59 AM
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OP, This. This was exactly my situation, it is actually fucking scary. EX was submissive at first and followed the exact scenario. She didn't follow your frame and lead going INTO the relationship . She viewed you as her BB and there is absolutely no reversing this. She wants you to be a provider, but she also has a conflicting feelings about fucking an Alpha and having a real man in a relationship ( in her eyes) She might be a bitch that is perpetually unhappy ( don't know her personal story) l…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 06:46 PM
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This . Listen to this guy. I wish I knew this earlier. Don't explain , don't chase her. Don't rationalize how you can make it work. She cheated and will lay blame on you with some bullshit story even if she is wrong. I had a girl tell me that " I couldn't provide her with what she wanted - what did I expect "when she fucked a guy when we were together and that I should want the notebook to be a true romantic lmao
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:02 PM
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Medium is the message. She already mentally "retired" from you. Everything else is bullshit. This is coming from a guy that just got out of 2 year LDR , where former gf cheated and I got blamed for all the problems. She was also on his cock officially a week after a breakup putting up pictures on social media. You say that she started hanging out with a colleague, but she mentally prepped herself that this relationship is a done deal with you . She just found another branch. I'm sure there were …
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:58 PM
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They are. Just funny in retrospect how somebody like her walks around and says that she has been cheated on multiple times, says she will never cheat because they know the feeling and would never want anyone to feel that away. Only to hamster away that it is a "friend" , it is ok to smoke weed at 3 am and jump his bones right break up when it is perfectly fine to alienate my female friends ( never slept with them) to stave off competition ( in her mind) Never again will I fall for this BS agajn.…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 10:36 PM
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Rejection is better than regret. Everything is a game and you need experience. Push the boundaries to see if your "projections" are what the reality is . For example ,thought women only had sex in relationship until I had a one night stand. The world is your playground and for you to push the boundaries of it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:21 PM
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"You cannot possibly understand the profound feeling of betrayal when one wakes up from that. " This is the best comment of the thread. It is easy to justify women's' feelings in society and their innate ability to cover shit ie guy she is banging a week after you is just a friend." Women are handed everything and expect to just be. Men are told to suck it up. Frankly , after my BPD encounter , I felt like a little bitch thinking why do I feel so empty, worthless, and abused, especially with a p…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 03:47 PM
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What is your way of determining crazy? I have definitely got better at establishing boundaries the break up with BPD and make sure no one crosses them. Willingness to walk away is key.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 10:24 PM
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What No More Mr nice guy taught me is that you don't need to put up with shit to get love and take care of yourself.IT IS OK TO HAVE NEEEDS. I literally have that imprinted in my mind. As somebody that has been raised to be a caretaker since I was a child, I thought that was the only way to get love is to please people. Not anymore. World is an unfair, ugly place and especially filled with bitches that will take what they need and run. Exercises are great too. I learned how to say no to people a…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 10:20 PM
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Wow she moves fast :)
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:29 PM
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I did . Best thing that had ever happened to me and led me to this sub. I never had such a hard time getting over a chick. Pretty sure she had BPD, highly irrational , EXTREME mood swings, crying as soon as there is any fear of abandonment , fucked up religious parents, sexual abuse by rents , abortion, cheated on by alpha dudes and wanted to settle down with me. Anxiety if you disagreed about ANYTHING, and constant angry tirades amount men( she still fucks guys and did. Parents consider her a s…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:30 PM
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Thanks a lot for the post. This clarifies a lot My ex LTR wanted to talk and broke things off before trip. When I was unfazed she said shit " There is absolutely nothing you can do to fix it , even if you got down on one knee" to immediately saying shit like you don't care about the relationship when I stood my ground. As soon as I caved and went to get her ,she says she is not breaking up with me because anyone cheated And not bother coming down. Bitch just wanted some closure to paint me as a …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 04:17 PM
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I'm in the boat as OP , but feel like the redpill mentality is now slowly seeping through. Dumped By 2 year LTR, reforming to redpill mentality. The bitch might have BPD , multiple previous abusive relationships , abortion and dumped me a day before our major trip while the same week she found her Chad, same guy she claims smoked weed at the house at 2:30 am " but he didn't pull any moves" and already posting pictures of them on FB from what I hear. Poor chump. Get ready for the abuse after few …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 03:07 PM
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Holy shit. Just read the 6 stages of break-up. That is real gold. Just going through really rough breakup after 1.5 years and it seemed like she just flipped. I tolerated her too much and now she is fucking the same Guy she was "friends " with. She also helped this guy to pick up girls and smoked weed at his house at 3 am and because I already had my doubts, she already mentally moved on . Reprimanding her didn't help and I failed to realize she was already a goner long before that. Edit: she al…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 10:26 PM
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Agree 100%. I am a recovering Nice guy and doing tons of improvement on my self, but this relationship definitely changed my view on marriage and that you should not be looking for a woman to complete you. Get your shit in order and the woman is the icing on the cake. This one wanted to be the entire pedestal right away. The girl had tons of issues beforehand that I should have seen as a redflag but it boils down to how I was not willing to walk away because I thought this was the best I could d…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:55 PM
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Can confirm. Same thing happened to my abusive relationship. Was alpha at first , she cleaned my room, cooked, happily had sex and did whatever I wanted in bed. The game never stops. She even said she got attracted to me because she doesn't want to steam roll through through a guy and I stood my ground. After a year , I didn't call her on her shit and she got hostile about everything, my parents, how she keeps wondering if we are compatible, she wants to get married which I was all fine for at f…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:05 PM
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Exercises help a lot . Some take longer than others. Some are great and cause discomfort like "Just say no to people for a week" Information about boundaries in the book is a fucking gold mine. Like he says " Too many people believe you need to put up with shit from the ones we love to get the love we want" This is now permanently ingrained in my brain.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 07:57 PM
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