Resources for oneitis.

a_nus · 2016-09-17T00:43:53+00:00

Abundance, knowing you have more options. Meaningful hobbies, keeping yourself busy. Friends, interacting with other people.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-09-16T22:09:09+00:00

Hey Friends.

Right now I am focusing on my inner game and getting over oneitis and validation-seeking behavior. Do you have any resources that directly address this?

Purchase the book "No More Mr Nice Guy." Take it with you.

knightSwolaire · 2016-09-16T22:14:42+00:00

abundance is key for getting over a one-itis. Knowing that you will absolutely get rejected.. start approaching any girl you think is cute. Talk to her. Then talk to another one. And another one. And another one...

bigk12345 · 2016-09-16T22:32:54+00:00

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Cunt_Robber · 2016-09-16T22:35:41+00:00

First off don't be hard on yourself. Understand that you'll learn and grow from the experience, and maybe many similar ones in your journey to becoming a man. Most of us have been there and man it stings, but hey it goes away sooner or later. It's just your hormones.

The only thing I'd advise at this point is hang around. Click through some sidebar material, follow the top TRP posts daily, subscribe to r/asktrp and r/mgtow as well and check them out regularly. Basically lurking and reading other people's discussions will help train your mind to see through the bluepill-dom you were raised on, and will help solidify RP theory in your mind steadily do away with your beta mentality. It will get better. Oneitis goes away with fucking multiple girls and cultivating abundance mentality, but since you mentioned you're focusing on your inner self, it doesn't sound like you'll be going out to fine-tune your game or chase pussy anytime soon. I encourage you to type in "oneitis" and look through any articles that come up in r/TRP with that keyword, read through the posts and comments when you feel the oneitis ache. Whenever I'm pissed about some bitch or some blue pill crap I come here and read and the way shit is written just helps clear my head of the bullshit. You'll get over this man, keep your head up.

Title	Resources for oneitis.
Author	bp_reject
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	September 16, 2016 9:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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