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My ex husband used to say this all the time 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:23 PM
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Mf said "good luck"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:14 PM
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Yep. Obviously not all muslims believe this. But there is a term called awrah, which is essentially what you can't show except to family. Women obviously have a larger awrah than men, but some people go so far as to say your voice is part of your awrah and that you shouldnt speak unless you must.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:17 AM
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For real tho, and i this as a "muslim" woman, many will blame you for speaking too much because your voice is too attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:24 PM
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I have never been able to masturbate even a little bit. I try all the advice I read online and it just either doesnt feel like anything or it hurts :/ I really wish it was something I could do. Also it is a cicada! One of my fav bugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:15 AM
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Do you mind sending a copy of your bf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:06 AM
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Never had one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:40 PM
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You say a man should make you orgasm before you have sex. But in my case my clitoris is extremely sensitive and I hate when it is touched. I cannot stand when a man thinks he can change that and make me feel good so he ends up ignoring me and trying anyway. I hate it so much. Also I can't orgasm, so. But otherwise I relate to this post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:45 AM
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What is c ptsd?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:20 PM
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I would find ways to work salmon into the conversation just to hear him say it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:33 PM
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I don't understand that. Like there are women who want just sex. Why not find one of them instead of deceiving one who doesn't???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:32 PM
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It will make its way to her eventually. Probably years from now, but I have no doubt that it will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:17 PM
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This was my experience in middle/high school... I would look at other girls and realize I'm the smallest chested out of every girl I have ever met. I got teased a lot. My body is like you said, after giving birth I am gaining weight everywhere else, except my boobs, I hate it. As men grow older many of them are not obsessed with breast size or they like small boobs. But I am at the point where I don't care what men want or not, so why do I still hate my small breasts? I keep thinking, maybe it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:16 PM
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Oh, the problem is that when I go to the page that has the link: "fill out your fds 8 digit code request form" I cant even get to the form because when I click the link it just reloads the same page 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:07 AM
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Wish i was like that, I don't even have time to think about it, my face is smiling on its own already and I'm dying on the inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:32 AM
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I went on my first date since my divorce and the guy kept talking about stupid conspiracy theoties like the corona virus :( didn't wear a mask at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:27 AM
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Fuck, whenever a man tells me to smile, my face automatically smiles as soon as they say it! I don't know how to stop that, why am I like this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:13 AM
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Hi, the 8 digit code link is not working for me. Every time I click it it just reloads the same page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:56 AM
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My friend nanny's for this family even though the dad stays home he refuses to learn how to change a diaper or feed the baby or cook or clean or anything. This is their third kid and I dont know why the mom hasn't left. She is obviously very frustrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:21 PM
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I wish all guys with long hair took care of it like the guy in the pic. I really like long hair on men, but most of them just don't brush it or wash it and it looks scraggly and terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:28 AM
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Who and what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:08 PM
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Lmao, what made you determine he would be late?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:23 AM
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I have a lot of anxiety about teaching this to my daughter. What if she doesnt take me seriously? Shes only 1 now but i really worry about her future when it comes to men. I dont want to be authoritative and controlling. But i also dont want her to be like i was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:47 PM
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My narc ex husband idolizes Musk so much and now i see why. Hes teaching his 6 year old son to idolize him too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:17 PM
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If you decline to answer they will eventually circle back to it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:27 PM
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Luckily I have small breasts so I never wear bras. The most I'll wear is one of those bras that have no cups, just a rectangular fabric over my chest if I'm at work and I'm wearing a thin shirt. But I don't even wear that if I'm not at work, I dress very modestly otherwise though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:32 PM
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She even said she is the one who bought the sheets.. Just to add insult to injury
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:32 AM
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Wow, if I were that friend I'd try my best to never introduce my friends to my dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:45 PM
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Same as fuck mine didnt listen to me when i said I hate being fingered, and he never washed his hands. Then thought I WAS GROSS for getting yeast infections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:28 AM
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Has anyone noticed that lately there has been a whole lot of, "my husband/bf has been having sex with me while I sleep and wont admit it" like wtf? And most of the time they insist this guy is great and this is the only hiccup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:54 PM
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Dude has this guy read the FDS handbook or something??? Holy moly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:12 AM
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I agree what will work for some wont work for everyone. I would say confiding and seeking help is key. From friends and family but also checking out what resourses your city has to offer. For example in my city there is a program that helps you find jobs and a place to live, and if you raise 1000 dollars they will match it with another 1000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:31 PM
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I was in a VERY similar situation. I communicated secretly with trusted friends and my sister and my father who all helped me get my shit together on the downlow and leave. I was lucky enough to have a caring father who also happened to need a place to live as he was selling his house right at the time I was planning to leave my husband. We now rent an apartment together and me and my daughter live with him. I wasnt expecting that though so my original plan was to live in public housing until I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:26 PM
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Yeah I guess he couldnt get it up because in his fantasy the girls arent really attracted to each other they just want to please the man? So when she broke that it was over for him lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:00 PM
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I dated a guy who wanted to do both kinds of threesomes... Something to do with watching a man fuck his woman but knowing shes all his turned him on? I agreed we would do them one day but im so fucking glad I didnt lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:57 PM
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This sub is full of happy stories and I love it. Too many sad stories on reddit about women currently with abusive shitty manipulative men who are too afraid to leave and blame themselves. I think I'm gonna unsubsribe from r/relationship_advice cause it was bumming me out. Congrats sis, gotta love that feeling of freedom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:49 PM
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Thank you. I say that because I havent accomplished anything in my life and I feel like a loser. I have nothing to offer anyone, really. But I really really want to get my shit together and show my daughter I can accomplish anything, even getting a degree while raising a baby by myself and working full time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:42 PM
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Yes I have a feeling I may end up single forever but its sooo much better than winding up in a shitty relationship. And my daughter is my #1 priority, giving her a better life is the most important and if I dont meet a man that I think will improve her life then I am absolutely fine being alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:40 PM
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Thank you, that's very kind of you to say 😊 having a child has given me a lot of insight. It was because of her I realized I cant stay with her father. I thought about what I wanted her to learn from me as she grows up, and staying with her dad would absolutely teach her the wrong thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:37 PM
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What IS another way to gauge other than fancy restaurants? I am thoroughly uninterested in all that. Like you I love walking and hiking and camping. I love that this seems like the only stub insistent on not lowering your standards one bit and improving yourself, and finding a man willing to do the same. I like that this is like the only place on earth that doesnt approve of porn and anal and bdsm and shit. I like that it calls out women just taking breadcrumbs from a man and encourages to just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:27 PM
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I would say its totally plausible either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:29 PM
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Ewh, why do they do that in porn :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:34 AM
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Wow yeah this is like thre R Kelly documentary. The young girls felt the exact same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:21 AM
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Single mom here. Now since I have my daughter my standards are INCREDIBLY high. Its not just me anymore, so I cant be taking any risks. In fact I will refuse to date or marry anyone for years because my own standards for myself are not high enough. I need to finish school and get a good job so i can be independent, only then will I be okay with starting to look for someone. Her dad was trash and I lowered my standards a lot for him. Never. Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:35 AM
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LMAO hard boiled egg face. But thats my pet peeve too. Or when they ask questions that they would know if they bothered to read my profile. Side note, what does OLD mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:23 AM
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If straight porn is geared toward straight men, I wonder why they care about the actor having a big dick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:20 AM
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