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still stumped about the stephanie chick, I'm not one for loose ends. any ideas fellow sedditors?
/r/seduction26/06/12 04:31 PM
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you did great! the flaking outcome just comes with the territory, you can't win them all.
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:44 PM
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Me too, damn I was not expecting that. I mean what woman likes frozen dinners? Pot heads
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:57 PM
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I'd put my energy into her so to speak, Women tend to dip set after a month or so though, it's my luck. Why do they? No idea.
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:56 PM
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Wow Never thought it was possible to "fall in love" on a 1st date. I feel odd asking to see her so soon (today, tomorrow) whatever lets see how it goes.
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:54 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:51 PM
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this right here is the basis of "assume attraction" show some signs or I'm moving on to the next woman, ASAP.
/r/seduction20/05/12 10:03 PM
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theres a seddit frame war, the heck? but thank you sir, i actually went out after dropping her off. visited a restaurant with a female friend and picked up a cute blonde hostess' number (HB9) after she came by my table and commented how she loved the lobster mac and cheese i ordered, and had to comment. ends up being her name is victoria and I'm victor haha what i found was odd when getting the number she said my reception/phone is shitty so just call or text me a few times ill answer. I've NEVE…
/r/seduction19/05/12 08:23 PM
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PERFECT explanation balanobranco
/r/seduction19/05/12 08:16 PM
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yes, out of the friend-zone on this one. 1st time EVER.
/r/seduction19/05/12 08:15 PM
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no, she kicked me to the curb those many years ago, just had to 1 up a certain woman.
/r/seduction19/05/12 08:14 PM
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psychologist, and start confronting these insecurities if possible. step 1 though is to stop saying you feel like shit, and you're miserable. my dr. taught me about affirmations, i scoffed at the technique until actually tried it. ex: "I'm positive for me" "I'm living a good life for me" "I'm approaching new people for me" "I'm fucking amazing for me" " i do what i want for me" i got chills, and i smiled. instantly. make up your own to counter those insecurities, repeat each one 10 times call it…
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:49 AM
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ahhh man this was a toughie to get over, but i concur on your lesson. know you look good, dress comfortable, and don't over do it. if i see one more guy with lipgloss....
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:41 AM
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you sound like me. research FR's, and search conversation topics. for my first 50-100 interactions i typed a list of over 75 questions i found from a quick search online and studied the list religiously. hell i still do this today, i get tired of the same lines. its gets easier, but one key is before any initiation i tell myself the four rules you miss 100% of the shots you don't take she's not special, don't put her on the pedestal the worst she can think is you're a normal boring guy (most men…
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:34 AM
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thanks for the kind words Squand. i agree with your tattoo theory and its a conversation stater about 60% of the time, they tend not to comment about the tattoos until the first date. do i mind it? hell no, but i don't like to rely on it. I'm waaaay to random, and have ADD to stick to that routine. its funny because I'm usually in a T shirt, all of my tattoos on my upper body are covered, so when people first see me in a tank they're usually shocked. i get that look from girls thats identical wh…
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:19 AM
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ahaha exactly! always assume they are attracted to you....unless she's go a taser in her hand. fucking run.
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:09 PM
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thats an interesting question, TBH i stopped giving a fuck lol but i can think of three tips: i discourage talking about myself unless the woman asks, my belief of being too smooth is putting yourself in the spotlight rather than it being about her. posture, and you let her know she's not on a pedestal. I make it obvious by quickly glancing at another woman when its quiet between us if i know she's not 100% into me. its identical to when a woman is bored on a date they'll look around, check a ph…
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:06 PM
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tis I, in all my nerdy glory! http://imgur.com/jgIpv http://imgur.com/aQB0g
/r/seduction17/05/12 10:43 PM
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19?! jesus bro let go NOW, i had a fiancé for 5 years in now 26 and regret not living up my past few years. experience life, experience women, lots of em.
/r/seduction07/05/12 09:25 PM
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let her ass chase, she wanted to take it slow right? don't show too much interest. women love a challenge, as much as men do. this was my fatal flaw in the beginning of seddit, they don't want a guy at their beckon call...yet. you want to show interest? go hit on another girl, shell come around.
/r/seduction07/05/12 09:16 PM
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if you don't know the girl, i try and escalate within the hour if any signs of interest: handshake/hug-->shoulder/arm touching--> hip touch ---> wrap around ----> kiss don't waste time, its probable some other douche will intrude like your previous situation. claim whats yours, or its up for grabs.
/r/seduction07/05/12 09:11 PM
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i prefer solo game, you control the conversation and its a quicker way to build rapport. I'm all about getting it done as fast as possible and move on to the next one. a quick step-by-step approach (don't quote me on this, everyone has their own technique) to me would be: interest from the female (eye contact, smile, wave, any gesture) introduction (hi my name is.....whats yours, nice to meet you) kino lvl 1 (handshake, shoulder touch, etc) try to open with a little joke/wise ass comment convers…
/r/seduction07/05/12 09:05 PM
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Those books and music they're listening to is the perfect opener, as gay as it may sound the final scene in 500 days of summer where summer states "i found the love of my life because he asked me what book i was reading in the coffee shop" Keep in mind this is also when a woman is LEAST guarded.
/r/seduction07/05/12 01:53 AM
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I agree jk147 keep the silence shes probably nervous, women who give off the first signs of interest will be concerned with looks and just about everything else when approached by a guy theyre "interested in". Also most women dont expect men to come up often and in such a confident manner due to self psych-outs such as "she's so hot I can't get that" literally think in that exact moment "walk, pick up towel, say hi" the future can't be predicted but you can guide it. She was constantly adjusting…
/r/seduction07/05/12 01:49 AM
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Brilliant write up.
/r/seduction30/03/12 04:16 AM
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good man, the most simplest acts can usually be the most affective. good luck!
/r/seduction21/03/12 08:24 PM
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