short: met a girl off match a week or so ago. hung out almost daily, no sexual action besides kissing, wanted to be friends, pulled moves on me, again wanted to be friends. fuck that. at the bar, doing me totally NFWG (no fucks were given) bartender chats me up, couple free shots, wants to get my #.

long: so i met this HB 7/8 lets call her steph she's 27(her personality at the time made her like a 9 to me) we emailed shortly then no response from her for about a month or so randomly her # and to hang out. ok i contact her she's an hour away, i told her come on up ill show you around. she proceeds to call me not gentlemanly. ok so decide ill come down, I'm literally waiting down stairs in the rain for like 20 minutes while she's getting ready. damn cubans, so we go to downtown to get dinner i grab her hand to cross the street and at this point she didn't pull away. I'm thinking ok, she "goes don't you feel weird? we just met we're friends thats it." i said "no i just helped you across the street you have the wrong idea. if you want you can pull the moves i said sarcastically." we get to the restaurant we talk a lot night goes well. we end up both smoking bud so we got high went to dennys and she was very affectionate hugging me holding my hand her head in my chest etc. K-close. alright so we do this a few more times I'm going down there, i sleep over no sex, in her bed she's on her rag. she finds me on Facebook, stalks me a bit, and wants to get one of my drawings as a tattoo. (uhhh ok.....) we continue to kiss, food shop, cook together, she's still hesitant on any form of hand holding, etc unless on her terms. so come her birthday a week later (this past saturday) she comes up to my place i openly state the weekend before that i want her to spend the night and her birthday with me. i get her cake, candles, balloon, tiara, the whole shebang no guy did that for her before. anyways I'm annoyed she has plans that night and didn't tell me, i cleared my night for her. she proceeds to pull me over, kiss me again over painting, and then over dinner. that night we're in my bed hand up the dress she still won't make out. at this point I'm just about to say GTFO. how lucky she states i have to go meet a friend; whatever later. next day she was to come up, bitched about the drive, flakes, states "i didn't want to ruin my birthday lets be friends." WTF?! after a week you know what you want with a person, fine you succubus.

fast forward yesterday at the bar, couple friends were busy 1 in particular was going to hang out with another woman i had interest in, i know they're hitting it off. my luck is awesome lol so I'm waiting for a buddy to arrive. the bar tender chats me up for drinks, i introduce myself. she ends up getting hit on by some guy with an awful receding hair line. she comes back around, i get a shot of whiskey she gives me some flat soda. ill use this remark on her next come around, we start joking about the soda and ask if she can take a shot (my friend just arrived) then politely turns it down but gave us a free round. she said she doesn't drink much, which leaves me with you're probably a stoner. DING of course i love to smoke! she says ice breaker complete. she calls out my friend who came in with eyes as red as the devils dick and I'm a tatted up kid with a custom snap back, yea we toke. she says we should def. hang and get my number. i reply "sure" thinking she's bullshitting. she's like I'm off shift sweet, and hands me a pen and paper. this is were it got a BIT odd she gave it to me rather than my friend, I'm the alpha. I'm dumb founded like wtf you want with this? she says your number! oh ok, i then proceed to get her number and said. sorry we're not smoking tonight tho ;) she giggles and agrees i message her after i leave nice to meet you i owe you ;) she replies we definitely have to get together and toke. ill set that up for this week.

back to cuban chick she knows I'm interested and played this game? ok your loss so post of FB i got this # yata yata. my friends thought i was dating the match chick, stated no we discussed it I'm single. my friends go on a tangent about if steph was interested she wouldn't play those games, id be getting some action, and say I'm single. etc. etc. all truth id say i get a random text at 2 AM "you're friends a bitch don't ever speak to me again" WOOPS! not really i invested time, money, and emotions into steph and in the end i was "used" and classified as a friend. well sweetie you're not getting any special treatment, theres 600 more that can replace you. did i think she was great? of course but games are not my thing, I'm 26 i need a woman not a child.

my class is back, my aura is back, and I'm more confident than ever. today ill go work on a new number at the mall. remember gents, if a lady doesn't appreciate what you offer theres always a better woman out there.