hi fellow sedditors,

last night i took a lovely woman out i met on match, 23, 5'4 brunette, dance teacher, majored in fashion (i own a clothing company), former sorority girl; exactly my type. I've been talking to her for a few days prior, she's a huge texter and one of the major rules for text game is don't text much. this rule can't always be applied, you have to adapt. its rather hard to tease or joke through text so i had to be careful. for this woman though i had to be a texter to entice her, and sure enough it works.

which leads to a rule I've read recently on reddit, no smiley faces if any limit it to 2 a day. 2 A DAY. its a decent way to joke through text and can also be applied to show interest.

so i met her last night, open kino: open arms hugged not too tight, she reciprocates with pulling me in further with pressure. its in the bag. I'm walking her to the restaurant i have reservations at and picking up topics to talk about is rather easy now just look around theres most likely something you can comment on or relate to a woman. showing obvious signs of IOI i baited her with a look or two waiting for the bar we were going to next. 3 hours of talking flew by, we had a few drinks and split tuna tartar. make sure to ask if she's allergic or does not eat anything specific just so happens she's catholic and doesn't eat red meat on friday, tuna was the perfect choice. we finished our meal and it was chilly i offered my jacket, she needed up wearing it the whole night.

randomness is key with progressing beyond phase 1 kino; aka k-closing. during a conversation at the bar she was talking and we've had serious eye contact the entire evening well, i just looked her in the eye and bit my lip (women LOVE this) and kissed her. next thing we know we hear YEAAAHHH!!!!! and whistles we both smile and keep kissing. we made out a few more times then i brought her back to my place we kicked it. I'm not one for one night stands, especially since i respect this woman.

closing for the night, i did not set up a 2nd date yet. i think this leaves some mystery/curiosity. i made sure to tell her text me when you get home so i know you're safe. she of course did respond. ill set up the date within the next 24 hours, let her reflect on the events of last night.

all in all a successful night, one thing i kept saying to myself though is affirmations. she's a normal girl, she's not special, she's not better than you, worst you can be is regular, etc.