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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Refunded checks w/ both names... Split or can i justify keeping | bkoehn_97 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/22 10:48 PM | |
| 3 | Parenting time schedule - options | bkoehn_97 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/23 06:37 PM | |
| 3 | Child custody and schooling > thoughts | bkoehn_97 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/21 11:58 PM | |
| 2 | Factors in school choice | bkoehn_97 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/23 12:02 AM | |
| 2 | Spousal support calculations, calculating impact taxes pre-paid | bkoehn_97 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/22 08:48 PM | |
| 1 | Minnesota Child Support > how or when to reassess | bkoehn_97 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 06:01 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Fought so hard for joint/equal shared parenting.Similar experience here. Took over 5 years, partly due to my willingness for too long to stay patient and her (now) broken promises. Also courts are slow. Beware that the fight for custody never ends for some. She's still trying to set traps and now pushing kids away from me aggressively, parental alienation. Feels like I'm losing my daughter again sometimes. I'll say transition days are super tough. Kids need to be detox'd before we can get to normal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Do I switch attorneys or are they all the same?I ended up getting a new attorney, and it was a great decision. Original attorney was young, made promises, but wasn't working to get me time with my kids, also "dropped the ball" in his words on some critical messaging. He didn't perform well in front of judge in the initial hearing, and wasn't living up to his promises. He also wasn't able to cut the fat, and keep me focused. New attorney was tough on me, but for good reason. She came to understand how awful stbx was without needing to hear an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Factors in school choiceI expect the court will default to current situation / status quo; i.e. will never grant a petition to pull the kids w/o consent from other parent or extenuating circumstances. When it was clear I would never get more than empty promises about her moving back to metro, I did move out to where the kids are in school last fall in order to force shared custody. The battle to formalize that is ongoing, but looks promising as the judge ordered us to "move toward" shared custody, ahead of March hearin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Cooking for YourselfGrill or bake a few chx breasts (or steak). Enough for ~ 3 meals. The first is fresh and served with veggies steamed/grilled and rice Keep the rest in the fridge, and make a salad and/or sandwich in the next day or two. I started baking sourdough on weekends, and it easily keeps for the week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/22 03:12 PM |
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