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Questionblowmyassie/r/newTRP15/09/22 11:58 AM
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Lifestyleblowmyassie/r/seduction12/06/26 11:50 AM
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Questionblowmyassie/r/newTRP25/09/22 09:26 PM
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Questionblowmyassie/r/newTRP01/09/22 11:27 PM
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Questionblowmyassie/r/newTRP18/06/22 11:50 PM
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blowmyassie/r/TheRedPill27/03/22 03:34 PM
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And how do we do best with these types of women?
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:10 AM
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I find this a bit utopic but I’m open to being corrected so please elaborate. I’ll give you an example. Let’s say you’re on a dating app. You converse and she’s answering half the messages only. If I were to treat her as a “normal human being” I would say something like “hey it’s hard to connect if you don’t answer to half the messages”. However that will most likely not do much for attraction will it? It would be a best bet to contain that and play along in case you increase her investment. But…
/r/seduction18/06/26 11:25 AM
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So who are the real 9s?
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:10 AM
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what did you do to achieve this?
/r/seduction07/06/26 07:47 PM
1

Got you! Thanks :)
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:33 AM
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No I said social circle
/r/seduction01/06/26 09:52 AM
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Social skills and game or social circle above all?
/r/seduction31/05/26 04:12 PM
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Thank you. Good point. I feel insecure next to them when women are around because I feel that they prefer them more than me statistically. Do you have any advice on how to work this inner game?
/r/seduction30/05/26 11:15 AM
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Thank you! But can you? How can I improve my career and money for example? I don’t know how to?
/r/seduction30/05/26 11:14 AM
2

I don’t think it is only that the pond is smaller. It’s also that whatever is in the pond has a statistical probability to respond better. Try being next to a woman or man 1 head shorter than you and one taller. See where it’s easier to be confident
/r/seduction29/05/26 08:41 PM
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What?
/r/seduction29/05/26 08:38 PM
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If we can define people just like secure or not as a 0 and 1, then most people will probably be insecure with so many broken family environments now. Anwway, how to become secure
/r/seduction29/05/26 08:30 AM
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Your “bracing” sounds very familiar to mine. I understand somewhat, thank you. I guess if we could distill it is to expose yourself and try to be conscious in your autopilot responses and try to feel safe in them for once?
/r/seduction28/05/26 04:18 PM
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And what can we practically practice every day to be more like this? Meditation?
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:25 AM
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You’re not saying how though. Because we are wired to read such cues, height helps you be confident, posture, etc. Theoretically we could override all that and claim authority, but how?
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:12 PM
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But isn’t there truth in their saying to a degree? Humans are attracted to the unavailable right?
/r/seduction27/05/26 01:35 PM
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I’m tired boss…do I always have to do this..?
/r/seduction27/05/26 08:42 AM
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So bad girls like good guys? Nah
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:11 PM
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But “bad girls” seem to be hotter often and they are not afraid to dress how they want or sex you how they want. Aren’t they kind of more desirable?
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:10 PM
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Give tips
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:09 PM
1

Validation of what
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:42 PM
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You talk as if self esteem is something that can be fixed. So how and when is it fixed?
/r/seduction09/05/26 06:01 PM
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Why
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:25 PM
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Should I treat women like men? Can I be open with them and maskless?
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:13 PM
2

Why do women love status so much?
/r/seduction07/04/26 05:06 PM
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What is gq
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:49 PM
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Idk how to make money with my skill set
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:48 PM
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Very well said. It’s also interesting to me why the same doesn’t apply exactly to female. Like indeed, white women are also the most desirable group. But black males are much more desirable than black females which rank bottom in desirability actors all ethnic groups. Why are black makes doing okay but black females not?
/r/seduction19/02/26 05:58 AM
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In your opinion why are they boring and are they worth it?
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:18 AM
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Are these girls worth it?
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:17 AM
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How tall are you? And how do we get to “have a personality?”
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:16 AM
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Be funny, how
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:53 PM
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You literally told him nothing
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:56 PM
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Why Vienna?
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:12 AM
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what is a transplant city?
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:11 AM
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Yeah no shit, the problem is nobody has attractive women in their circles easily
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:57 PM
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I also wanna know this too
/r/seduction05/05/25 11:04 PM
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How can i improve it?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/25 02:26 PM
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You don’t have a post about self love that we could find
/r/seduction15/04/25 03:04 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/seduction10/04/25 01:09 AM
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But what is wrong energy and what is right energy? How can we know we have the right energy and which energy a specific girls wants?
/r/seduction09/04/25 01:04 PM
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Same
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:35 AM
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How do change that attitude
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:18 PM
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You mean if we are 100% ourselves we are never clingy to anyone? How can I remove this crap?
/r/seduction24/03/25 01:24 PM
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But man you know that we all like what we don’t have! Isn’t it true? Whenever I treat women well they eventually get bored because I cling to them. When I don’t care much they chase me for years!
/r/seduction24/03/25 03:46 AM
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Probably because they don’t like the facts! lol But in situations where your personality can’t shine or you aren’t some top tier dancer to attract attention or whatever, it’s simple math that the differentiators are visual, and in a crowd of people, height makes you literally “stand out”. Hence the phrase.
/r/seduction22/03/25 02:10 PM
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This was excellent mate please don’t apologize and thank you! However, one question remains, isn’t it hard or impossible to not pull or go closer to the other when we intuitively just feel it? The key is to go against our natural tendencies to want to get closer with the other?
/r/seduction21/03/25 07:27 PM
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Bars and clubs are the tall man’s playground, if you’re that, it’s good, if not, better focus on other avenues
/r/seduction21/03/25 12:58 PM
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But how
/r/seduction21/03/25 12:45 PM
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So what do we do with this? Try to be assholes?
/r/seduction20/03/25 02:16 AM
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And then when she leaves you’re in tatters and your game needs to be brushed up again. However, I still don’t disagree with you because that is what I desire.
/r/seduction18/03/25 11:56 AM
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Totally true but what is it about this mythical abundance that makes girls feel it? Is confidence that much magnetic? And most importantly. If, in order to be at your most abundant and confident, you have to be in the midst of game, how is this sustainable with serious and long term relationship where you can’t just be dating and be on online apps and such to receive the constant reminder of abundance?
/r/seduction15/03/25 11:59 AM
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But what to do with it? How to handle it? It’s impossible to juggle 5 and 10 girls!
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:59 AM
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Do you mean hurt feelings of others? I don’t understand why you say “part of getting good at the game” is facing their hurt feelings? It is part of the game I guess, but why part of getting good at it?
/r/seduction05/03/25 12:25 PM
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Perhaps he feels bad seeing a girl suffer because she has the hots for him after banging her and leaving the house even though she puts the mask of being “okay”.
/r/seduction05/03/25 12:24 PM
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What about getting rejected by someone that knows you quite well and used to really like you for a lot of months ?
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:42 AM
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Look you are right, and I don’t know what “species” would mean. There is obviously a woman that is stronger than a man in physicality but generally men are stronger because generally that have bigger muscles. Likewise, hormones are similar and they influence our behavior. For example men tend to have more testosterone. Testosterone makes you more included to agression, among other things. Doesn’t it thus make sense that women, generally speaking, as men, generally speaking, tend to gravitate to …
/r/seduction20/02/25 03:10 PM
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Then why do you act your best self with women but not with men? Men and women are very different biologically
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:36 PM
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I don’t understand the last bit about logic
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:34 PM
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Thank you friend. I do want to make changes. I just don’t understand why I keep failing. Like I do two days of “productive” and then I relapse again
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:28 PM
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I wake up and feel bitter about my break up, I search for jobs because I got fired the same week as the break up. I try to wake up earlier but I fail, I try to exercise but I fail mostly. Then I game and ruminate about where to move and what to do and why she left me
/r/seduction18/02/25 02:42 PM
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I just wanna know how to do it
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:42 AM
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When a woman goes away, do you think it’s okay to be friends?
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:44 AM
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But how can I develop this emotional intelligence
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:41 AM
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I bet it does have to do. You can’t just click your fingers to a new state of mind. If you know how, do tell me
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:40 AM
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How do our ever day lives have to look practically to achieve this? I don’t know what to do
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:54 PM
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How can you seduce yourself?
/r/seduction16/02/25 03:50 AM
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But if the distance was the reason wouldn’t she have asked me to fix it as an ultimatum to save it? Or does that idea not invalidate the above distance issue because maybe distance killed the attraction to the point that she didn’t care anymore?
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:06 PM
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Thank you, I keep discounting this long distance major issue because I keep telling myself - if that was the issue - would she not give me an ultimatum of “fix the distance or I can’t anymore “ or sth? But then I’m thinking, if the distance killed the attraction, why would she ask that… I should try to attribute to distance it’s real merit here. Instead I only blame me! Have you had long distance before?
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:33 AM
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You’re right. I would like to think of myself as quite advanced at this point. I’m 31 and I understand some stuff. I’m still quite insecure in many aspects. Recently I got broken up with and I beat myself the first 3 months hard. How can I know how much of it was my fault and my “mistakes” or if it was her own issues and choices, or both? We can never know that?
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:13 AM
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Is it our fault when women leave? Is it not their own choices and emotional capacity possibly too?
/r/seduction07/02/25 01:59 AM
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What is the difference of needy vs liking ?
/r/seduction07/02/25 01:55 AM
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But that only works if you have common friends - if not it’s over?
/r/seduction07/02/25 01:53 AM
1

how can she she that if she’s not in the same event? Social media?
/r/seduction07/02/25 01:52 AM
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Bars in Europe definitely don’t have this problem
/r/seduction01/02/25 05:26 PM
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Don’t be needy. Okay. Does the book actually tell you how to not do that?
/r/seduction30/01/25 10:22 PM
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Okay I see, no experience there
/r/seduction28/01/25 05:40 PM
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I assume you are referring to the club promiscuity? Rather than a general one
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:42 PM
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How so
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:40 PM
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How can we feel worthy of life?
/r/seduction27/01/25 04:47 PM
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and once you figure out?
/r/seduction24/01/25 03:25 PM
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What if it objective? Like being short? So women don’t like short, so how can I be worthy? Example
/r/seduction24/01/25 02:25 PM
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How to fix self esteem?
/r/seduction24/01/25 12:31 PM
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how to not be intimidated by them?
/r/seduction24/01/25 04:15 AM
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how
/r/seduction24/01/25 04:14 AM
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So we gotta do 10 gimmicks to escape it. Thanks for adding it but OP is then right, very difficult to escape
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:31 PM
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Can you never relax and tell your complete truth to a woman? Even after years? I think not… :(
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:34 PM
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So it’s always better and safer to play games ?
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:29 PM
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What is your point? Genuinely!
/r/seduction02/01/25 04:52 AM
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But all these women you mention, they didn’t want to settle down with you, right? Because it’s different sleeping and dating for some months, but what about then? Also, why does confidence matter so much?
/r/seduction02/01/25 04:52 AM
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How about simply being human and connecting with other humans? Is that not enough to connect with the other gender?
/r/seduction21/12/24 11:41 PM
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What does the every day life of a man like this look like every day practically? I don’t understand what to “create”
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 10:56 PM
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How possible is it to be completely unaffected by outcomes thought? I can certainly at least work on it I guess. Again, I understand this, but how possible is it that my sense of self will be completely unshaken when a person whose ideas and preferences I found great - when their idea is suddenly that I am unworthy? I will try my best to do what you say and become stronger. But I have a lot of doubts.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 07:29 PM
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Very interesting… I ll make some points if you can answer, in hopes of understanding more. 1) in my case she asked for the relationship, she kept asking for closeness and I feel as much as I was giving it, the more I was losing the independence which attracted her in the first place. What should I have done? Remained independent? Or at least balance it in the middle? Because maybe I lost myself. In the end she left me. 2) You ask what a man gets from it. Now that I lose it, I feel like I lose th…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 12:37 AM
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Damn...you guys are on a good league... So when it happens to you, you don't ruminate on what happened, why etc? Because I stay stuck there like an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/24 08:12 PM
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Hahah I don’t understand the grape thing but it made me laugh!! Thanks man, I will try my best. I feel gutted. I don’t want to improve for my imaginary idea of what the girl “possibly wanted” - i want to improve for me, but truth is, I don’t feel anything is wrong with me for me…? Would it be right to improve for “girls”?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/24 05:41 PM
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I understand… Based on the quote you provided from Aurelius - How can I thus not blame myself for my mistake? Who or what should I blame if I were to be the “wise”?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/24 05:09 PM
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Thank you. And what if you lead well and still lose a girl? What should your internal dialogue be at that point? That you go to another one?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/24 04:47 PM
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Thank you…how can I truly know when I fucked up or to what degree? Or when it is to the circumstances? I suspect i became less independent at the end of my LTR. But how can I know if that was a mistake? And if it was, how much it was? Also how do you accept this? Doesn’t it make for a lonely existence? Or how do some marriages work?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/24 04:46 PM
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Thank you man. If I were to start from 0 and needed one resource on how to best make my performance and value in relation to all this. What would you direct me to? If you have something in mind ofc
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 07:58 PM
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Thank you
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 02:10 PM
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I think it is a simple distinction of the type: Of course break ups will hurt, it is the cost of entering a LTR. If they didn't hurt, you were not in one. Anyone saying otherwise is a liar. However it is the degree of suffering and inability to cope after the break up that exposes whether you delegated your happiness and well being to her. Which is a very painful mistake. I learned first hand.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 02:04 PM
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Thank you man. Is there any guide/book/anything that could help with this shift when all my life I have been focusing on others?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 12:44 PM
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Thank you man but I don’t understand 3. I thought that TRP says that we never own a relationship and women can always leave?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 12:30 PM
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I think I feel this to my bones but I can’t intellectualize it. Can you elaborate? Why is this the case?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 12:21 PM
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so you are saying that women are capable of loving men in the way that men would like to be loved and in the way that they love women? - contrary to what the TRP says?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 03:16 AM
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Unless he makes her disgusted at him by acting really needy right?
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:15 AM
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You’re advising him to be nice so she runs away?
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:14 AM
1

Isn’t that inherently “anti alpha” and fake according to all these seduction subs?
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:02 AM
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Why is gaming not a hobby?
/r/seduction12/10/24 01:46 PM
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I like your logic!
/r/seduction30/09/24 01:52 PM
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6.0””
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:01 AM
1

At what age and further can you no longer rebound?
/r/seduction29/09/24 05:37 PM
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I think in the context where the girl is flirting with me or we are on a date, if she sees girls greeting me (acquaintances) in an interested way, it helps a lot, she thinks I am popular and desired. If I go out of my way to try and be a player I think t will backfire as you say!
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:27 PM
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So basically yes - whether they stay or not is anyway determined on if they got what they bought for or not
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:19 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction13/08/24 02:06 PM
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Why do you think they attract ropey?
/r/seduction10/06/24 12:22 AM
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This is very valuable to me, thank you. I have a couple of questions more whenever you’re around. What separates a natural from a more self aware person? Do they have lower intelligence (as we define it?) do they have a different type of intelligence? More intuitive? Is one superior to the other in your mind? If I am not mistaken you mentioned identity is the trademark of a natural. Is that because without self awareness and detail seeing, they go 100% into their idea or goal, whereas a self awa…
/r/seduction04/06/24 05:56 PM
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So those of us blessed/cursed with self awareness are fucked? And can you be all of that if you HAVE self awareness or is it impossible? Or should you lean into self awareness and forget about being a natural?
/r/seduction04/06/24 11:23 AM
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Explain a few things to me please. 1) Why are not self aware people more attractive, isn’t the self awareness a state if intelligence? Why does nature punish it Believe in something and identity. So am identity makes you NPC? Identity makes you not self aware? Explain
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:50 AM
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In my case it was a girl I was dating
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:57 PM
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But can’t it be objectively true that one doesn’t want you?
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:29 PM
4

how is there more competition, but also nobody willing to compete?
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:40 PM
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Do you have any tips for the latter?
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:14 PM
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Thank you so much for this. I struggle with not putting in a pedestal. I will digest what you wrote and might be back with more questions, in case you will still be around! Thanks again. Really For example: Winning her back. Let’s rephrase it to, I miss that connection and I want to have it again. But it’s counterproductive to want it and to expect it right?
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:13 PM
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How does this whole thing fit when getting rejected after already having been involved with the girl? For example this girl was quite into me but we were in different countries so she met someone else and I could never win her back. How much can I know about how much to attribute to distance and how much to my own lack of anything? Also you say we are equals, but aren’t some people and women higher status than me? How can I know when that is the case ?
/r/seduction05/05/24 12:22 PM
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Can you go deeper? Like when I really really like a girl and we get involved and I admire her. Then she breaks it off because she met someone else or whatever, how can I not trash myself? I obviously valued her opinion.
/r/seduction05/05/24 12:19 PM
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My posts are about my failures, not about my successes in life, a typical way of using reddit for a lot of people, nothing to invalidate my experience which I am sure other people also had - but I get it, you have to keep your macho persona on, we can say you won
/r/seduction04/05/24 08:25 PM
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Anything is possible, just so rare in this case it would be better off seen as impossible. But I’ve had 2 girls that rejected me foam over me 2 years later
/r/seduction04/05/24 05:49 PM
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Where can I learn ?
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:38 AM
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Thank you!! but even if I am chill, won’t it be a problem that I am so often attracted to this visual “type” of girls whereas I myself don’t look visually like that?
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:45 AM
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She did…
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:44 AM
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Can it be changed?
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:44 AM
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You can’t just like different girls I think, we all like what we like, no?
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:44 AM
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Thanks a lot. Do you understand why I am tripping?
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:38 PM
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No but I like them, so aren’t they my type? I am just not their type
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:37 PM
1

Why do they only intimidate me then?
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:54 AM
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So do I have to become that to get what I am attracted to or should I be “myself”
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:58 AM
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So should I try to be less tame or should I be “myself” ?
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:57 AM
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But I feel that’s kinda impossible - for example I always like sitting in feminine ways if I am alone or with close friends, I will obviously have to sit in a societally acceptable way if I am on a date right?
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:54 AM
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Thank you so much. And if I became more like that, would I be less attracted to them? Also, what if it’s something else? What if there’s people, young as they are, are less emotionally available and that makes me feel unsafe? Should I then look for the people that are emotionally available or learn to cope better with the unavailable ones that are there and I like?
/r/seduction28/04/24 10:31 PM
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I gravitate towards these women because they excite me
/r/seduction28/04/24 10:09 PM
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Thank you for this but I have a gripe with “being yourself” - what does it mean? If your personality and interests are closer to the statistical average of what is acceptable and cool - you can be yourself. If they are not, you have to hide it and ease people into yourself more until they get your “humor” or whether other aspect of yours that is a bit whacky. Feedback welcome!
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:26 PM
2

What are some ways for this and also how to maintain ?
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:54 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/seduction13/04/24 10:10 AM
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Because women get attention easy, why would they care so much
/r/seduction13/04/24 10:09 AM
12

Why is attention so important to them?
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:52 PM
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Usually in life you get what you give. If you are fearless and trust people and open, they reciprocate as such. If you are miserable and afraid, also likewise. So why would attention and effort be the other way around. Do explain to us. Rather even better, why should it be obvious
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:50 PM
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Hi man! I read all the time about trauma and through therapy also how to change this but how?? How to do this re-parenting? So I get up every day and I talk good to myself, what else? The thoughts in my mind race all day and go to negative immediately. Should I put 24 alarms to keep changing my habits every hour? I am serious. What must I do to re-parent? I am 30, I don’t want to waste any more life. The last 5 years so many women and male friends of mine ask me what’s my issue if I am so well b…
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:32 AM
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You are onto something big and this is how it all works, in general with people and suggestion, not only women. The problem in my case is that I have chronically low self esteem even after many successes because I learned from childhood to be a loser. How can I believe anything else?
/r/seduction06/04/24 06:55 PM
0

What if you are upfront and she is always vague about her answer? I have a similar story… Also how to ask her out in your case? Are you not in different countries?
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:29 PM
1

So it can never happen?
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:30 PM
1

I had a strange story, would like your advice
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:30 PM
1

So your social anxiety still exists?
/r/seduction26/03/24 09:47 PM
3

So why doesn’t new appear
/r/seduction26/03/24 12:50 PM
1

I think it’s per individual but it’s too complex. We are both different actress the board though
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:21 PM
2

Agreed but needy people usually feel worthless
/r/seduction13/03/24 08:00 AM
1

I think it is accurate but only partially, just like what you are saying. I am attractive and girls like me and I can sleep with them but I can’t keep them around for long. That’s where what OP plays comes in. I focus too much on them and they don’t like that.
/r/seduction04/03/24 12:17 PM
2

In the case of a dog it’s more about physically playing with it. I am not sure how it would translate in women, do tell me more!
/r/seduction02/03/24 10:07 PM
0

Thanks boss!
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:20 PM
8

Do you have an article on how to stimulate their emotions?
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:14 PM
1

Thank you. If you ever got something, I ll be eagerly awaiting!
/r/seduction29/02/24 11:11 PM
2

I arrive to the point that I need to rewire my brain and to change certain narratives but I don’t know how to meaningly change them long term. Because they keep coming back, it’s like the water will go to the ridge that is already dug, while much rarer for it to go elsewhere
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:21 PM
1

Thanks for the advice man, I’m bitter I can’t be all in real, but I have to accept it I guess
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:20 PM
2

Can you describe what it does to your social anxiety? Like did it happen in a year? Or more?
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:18 PM
1

Does it equip you with social skills for long term?
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:17 PM
3

But maybe you’re even saying: “if you are in your masculine frame”. Or in what type of voice. I am not masculine and strong 24/7. So she liked you in that moment because that is attractive. But what if I have a moment where I am low and I need reassurance and feel like a loser and a kid for moment. If I can’t show that? So is that really being yourself?
/r/seduction29/02/24 05:15 PM
4

That is the unending question, to be real or to play the game
/r/seduction29/02/24 04:44 PM
8

Why does it work so paradoxically?
/r/seduction29/02/24 01:21 PM
3

How did you become more dominant and masculine ?
/r/seduction29/02/24 01:20 PM
3

I also want to ask (as someone who does therapy and doesn’t see improvement) - ok you found your problems, I found them too. But how do change them?
/r/seduction29/02/24 01:18 PM
1

Because I will succeed, we will bang, we will date and then I will get bored and dump her. Worse yet, I will succeed, we will bang, we will date and then she will dump be and I will destroyed. Or, I will be rejected, which is uncomfortable
/r/seduction21/02/24 08:48 PM
1

If you feel others are less important than you, then you do make them unimportant, don’t you?
/r/seduction20/02/24 08:08 AM
0

was it impossible to get along with her? what men does that type of girl end up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:51 PM
3

thank you... I want the same, that is why I am here, because I am heavily conflicted. I want to embody the ideal of mature adulthood and exist with a woman like that and with mutual respect and no games. But then I feel like if I was playing a game and acting all tough, I wouldn't have gotten my heart broken. Most of all, I am trying to understand WHY I got my heart broken, what did I do that was repulsive? I just wanna do the right thing. I hope you are right and that mature relationships witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:50 PM
1

What about the one you didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:09 PM
0

I don’t know how to go on, I am berry disappointed. I feel being honest and raw is doing a disservice to my success.. I feel I should be a little bit cocky (which I hate) and then it’s easier to select partners. Do you have any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:47 PM
2

I don’t want to dominate, if anything maybe I am also guilty of trying to “date up” as well. But I am trying to get rid of this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:45 PM
1

You think women are more intelligent than us? I am not being ironic
/r/seduction17/02/24 02:38 PM
1

Yes, but obviously then it’s not on you is it?
/r/seduction10/02/24 05:23 AM
1

What if they don’t like you visually too much from the beginning or if a better option comes along ?
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:10 PM
2

How
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:36 AM
1

I like this article but why does he say “chances are you did something to lower her attraction” Why must it be always on us? Is it always on us?
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:35 AM
2

To sus out subconsciously or consciously?
/r/seduction30/01/24 03:07 PM
1

Sigh, yeah. I still expect her to come back a third time, but this time she saw I was needy. I need to get over it, thanks
/r/seduction29/01/24 11:42 AM
1

Ok I hear you. But then why wouldn’t she cite the distance as the reason since it’s also the easiest excuse?
/r/seduction29/01/24 11:25 AM
1

We had sex back in May 3-4 times, we were to meet again (we lived in different countries) but she met someone else meanwhile. Then she re-appeared after 3 months and we met in her country again for 3-4 days. Same sex but I take heart meds which lower my blood pressure and I was anxious with this girl this time. I thought we wanted to continue but it somehow fell off and when I asked if it’s all mutual still she gave me “I don’t know where this is going etc” - “l am depressed” - “I don’t want to …
/r/seduction29/01/24 08:58 AM
1

Does your post apply to rejections with a woman even after you have slept together a couple of times? Or just rejections before anything happens?
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:28 AM
1

Thank you, can we talk?
/r/seduction28/01/24 10:26 PM
1

Thank you - do you mean there are other irrelevant factors?
/r/seduction28/01/24 10:26 PM
9

I have harmed myself for this so much. How can we truly know though? If you were a rebound guy, if you were attractive enough, wouldn’t you manage to get her?
/r/seduction28/01/24 03:12 PM
1

Thank you, I need time with what your wrote… Preliminary: Is complete detachment from outcome possible? Or we just want a healthy one? Being nervous - so you think that isn’t a turn off to women? When you say girls like your drive - your drive to do what? Go out there in the world?
/r/seduction27/01/24 12:57 AM
1

“All women”, idk, always there is someone that is an outlier, but it seems that confidence is the most desired trait among what is most possibly called as “all women”, if there is one. Perhaps because it show lack of fear thus inspires safety? I think I am honest. Congruent, I don’t know. Because when I become fearful, I abandon myself and my goal. I don’t know, I am just trying to figure why it didn’t work with the last girl in my life. Perhaps it wasn’t even my fault. How can I know though
/r/seduction26/01/24 11:39 PM
1

Why do women hate lack of confidence? Why don’t I have confidence even though I am good with women?
/r/seduction26/01/24 08:00 PM
5

Or if you are infatuated with them
/r/seduction26/01/24 03:25 PM
5

Connecting you with the best women on earth is the result of where your line is drawn, not where your line is. Anyway, all the best
/r/seduction26/01/24 11:16 AM
8

Perhaps you are right, I am not good at judging them so I can’t answer. But I think objectively, you can’t always know. Also it depends on how simplistic your framework for good is. Is a woman good if she behaves how it is good for you? Is she bad if she has childhood trauma and acts on but she doesn’t intend to actually cause harm? Where’s your line?
/r/seduction26/01/24 10:54 AM
29

It’s not always easy to tell if someone is kind or whatever. Some people live together for years and realize they didn’t know who the other was. Cool post but you are over simplifying it
/r/seduction26/01/24 10:19 AM
1

What is this “something else” that you can have?
/r/seduction14/06/23 08:48 PM
32

Bollocks. I am at 47. All decently attractive. Never filled the vacuum of confidence I fail to build with myself. At best if you are on the roll, yes you act confident around women and you succeed in lays. If a proper thing comes along that you really like, you will still fail if you haven’t done the work in other areas of your life. Sometimes it might have make it hard to bond with someone because you look for the next excitement always
/r/seduction10/06/23 05:31 PM
2

How do I put me there?
/r/seduction08/06/23 02:04 PM
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Yo king, answering here cause I can’t message you, it says receiver is disabled. If you didn’t do it voluntarily for your peace, I think you might be shadowbanned or some crap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:51 PM
1

That is very on point. What can one do if their trauma triggers half way through the beginning of the relationship? Like sometimes it happens to me that I lose control and then the validation or rejection of this person becomes my life or death. No matter how I rationalize, my body betrays me and it distorts my view entirely. Do you have any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:40 PM
2

Scarcity is not valued in itself just like height on its own is nothing. But 80% of CEOs are above a certain height etc Anyway you are right, but that is what I meant, that scarcity enhances value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:40 PM
1

Interesting. But then the being part - How could it ever NOT be your authentic self?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:40 PM
1

I don’t like myself too much, or at least not consistently enough. People do like me. It is me who doesn’t. I am trying to change it. If you have any practical advice on that I would be grateful. I tried to reach you via dm as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:38 PM
2

I read your replies, so you basically advocate for game, but do you have any further tips? As to how to not feel debilitated by game for example and always afraid you made the wrong move?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:30 PM
2

What is your advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:26 PM
1

How can you build a self?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:18 PM
2

Good point, but there is also a timeline to how much of yourself you can show isn’t there? Personal example: I use a lot of well intended profanity with my friends and romantic interests that those that like me find charming and unique in the way that I do it. But I never can do that in a first or second date because it will be creepy or socially bizarre. Once they get to know I am functional and that is simply one cheesy side of me, then they can tolerate it or like it or indeed find it bizarre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:04 PM
2

I agrée with you but there is an obvious counter argument in my mind that holds me back. If I meet you and immediately show myself, you might even be creeped out. You will see my most edgy sides without any proof that those are just that and not my entire being. You will have no proof that I can actually be a functional adult and I simply have some more corny sides. In other words, even if you are to find these sides charming (many people do about many people) - not many will do so immediately, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:00 PM
3

Let’s say you are in the early stage of a flick, you slept with the other person like 3-4 times. Let’s say you can’t meet for the next two weeks because the other is on a trip. Let’s say they mostly initiate texting with you and you like them. Your life is not particularly busy in these two weeks and you want to answer them as much as possible. Should you be “yourself” and just answer them however it goes? Or should you “answer a bit later because I shouldn’t be too available” or “not write too …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:54 PM
1

Why do they love only aloof?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 12:28 PM
3

Thank you, I know there is no mommy except mommy. I learned the hard way. However when I meet someone “ideal” my trauma kicks in and subconsciously it happens - can this be corrected? Does it need therapy?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 11:24 AM
1

If it is “subconsciously seeking a mother to fix problems” how can those of us guilty of this change it? Can we?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 08:27 AM
1

Can you elaborate on the give it up but not take it from her?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 07:40 AM
1

And once it starts going well, let’s say a month into a flick, is it still possible to remain detached from the outcome?
/r/seduction04/05/23 12:53 PM
1

And once it starts going well, let’s say a month into a flick, is it still possible to remain detached from the outcome?
/r/seduction04/05/23 12:50 PM
1

How so?
/r/seduction11/04/23 11:59 PM
1

For sure, he is doing something in there, he is responsible for things, unlike the guests
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 12:07 AM
2

I don’t think that’s it. You can have great social skills but when you walk to a bar club as a nobody, you can’t have présélection work for you as a bartender who might be working there for months and if he is at least decently sociable, he will instantly be treated well by other members of the staff and also by common goes (girls and men) who like to be on his good side as he holds some authority over the place, be it by greeting you and making you feel like a commoner or by giving free shots. …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 11:26 PM
6

Then what do you say about the comment above that gives the example of the bartender banging a girl on the first half hour? Is the idea of value because he will provide drinks and he will be known by everyone in the bar? It makes sense tbh
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 05:06 PM
1

Is there any other good forum now?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/22 01:25 AM
1

What changed between 2010 and 2020?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/22 03:14 PM
1

What do you mean eliminating buffers and what did you do with the headspace app once you finished all the stages it offers?
/r/newTRP29/09/22 08:20 AM
1

How to avoid entering their frame?
/r/newTRP29/09/22 08:19 AM
1

But if Briffaults Law holds, then you are in delusion about determining all the conditions of the “family” - as you simply in your first paragraph. Elaborate if I am missing the point.
/r/newTRP25/09/22 09:30 PM
1

No, there is literally nothing you don’t know that you would if you weren’t one
/r/newTRP25/09/22 09:27 PM
1

Thanks man, much needed post. ON option 1, why a hobby? Why did you say that? Also on option 1, how will my results suddenly be better? I go out often enough with friends and I simply fail much more with girls (the point of the post). I think I need to go for option 2 but I need the balls for it .
/r/newTRP05/09/22 09:16 PM
1

LL is like 100.000. And is it even safe?
/r/newTRP22/06/22 09:49 AM
1

And are you free from this shit now or does it creep back from time to time?
/r/newTRP20/06/22 01:50 AM
1

Are you of similar height like me? Have you had to overcome the same issue? Thanks by the way, I needed to stop coping around
/r/newTRP19/06/22 05:33 PM
1

Average height has increased quite a bit since Alain Delon was scouted. But anyway your main point remains..
/r/newTRP19/06/22 02:43 PM
1

You are right. And I will go this way, because the other way is just a dead end. But I do have the fear that in the end I might be proven right. For example, I know nobody below my height or mine that is better than me at the game (and I am really not that good - as you can probably tell). As soon as the height goes to 5.11 or 6 I can immediately picture many of my guy friends who are much stronger with game and with much less suffering than I put myself through. So while I do agree and thank yo…
/r/newTRP19/06/22 12:12 PM
1

I hear you. Agreed. But when are you next to a tall man how can you not compare yourself? When I notice how the women notice him etc? How do you shut this off?
/r/newTRP19/06/22 12:03 PM
1

Thank you, what do I do once I finish the courses on headspace? Which I did?
/r/newTRP19/06/22 11:28 AM
2

Yeah but don’t forget geographical variation. In the south of Europe 5.10 is average. In the north and in the specific part where I live, 5.10 is short. Statistically. Plus I have friends much shorter than me and we doom circle, never finding a proper inner game solution for this
/r/newTRP19/06/22 11:27 AM
1

ASKTRP had the best advice of any sub or other forum I have been. It had enough noobs and enough hardcore oldschool guys so the advice was a good blend without the autism of the "hardcore" crowd and without the blue pill softness of the new
/r/newTRP17/06/22 05:28 PM
4

the mods kind of made it so with their approach, which was honestly retarded...
/r/newTRP17/06/22 05:27 PM
8

Does US get Ukrainian refugees?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 01:24 AM
4

How many more tinder guides will you jerk off to before realising this isnt 2008 anymore? Your PUA race-height doctrines are nothing in the face of a global political re-alignment. What is the global political re alignment? Why is this post so important?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 01:23 AM
3

where can i find these posts, what was the OG comment saying?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 01:21 AM
0

"That only benefited obese 50-year-old white spinsters and an unmentionable Middle-Eastern country that doesn’t get along with its neighbors." 50 year olds how? and how was israel benefited?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 01:17 AM
1

I see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:55 AM
2

And don't you feel bad doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:26 AM
2

true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:21 AM
5

It is "taming the beast". It is about whether you are agreeable or not, you present a challenge for them. Then it is also the excitement of the "thuggery" it is a cultural thing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:20 AM
10

The community will dwindle
/r/askTRP27/06/21 03:09 PM
1

Because of the optics? You mean the way the couple would look? How tall are you? I agree with you, it’s all what you make it. I am 5.10 and the truth is I like girls that are 5.10 often. I can see I have a disadvantage initially to guys that are taller than these girls but the rest is how well I play. What I have trouble accepting however is not the height, but the body type. Features that cannot be changed. Width of wrists, bone structure and the shoulders. Etc. A girl my height will be ok with…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:27 PM
1

Excellent motivation with this post and frankly, the only mindset worth having or discussing. For the sake of accuracy though, being 5'7 will make you have issues if you want to date a girl that is 5'10. Very few women are willing to date shorter guys than them. Plenty of research about that.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:58 AM
3

Thanks for the reply bro. I do have other options, much less than 8 months ago as I am kind of inactive now, but I can get stuff still I think. Ok I hear you, but so soon? I was already losing interest by 5 months. It’s kinda sad because we get a long really well and she is a lad. I am kind of hating my nature for making me this way :(
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:02 PM
6

Ok I hear you. But since we are also in an LTR and not just dating, it seems harder to avoid the “feeling like friends” thing. She takes care of me and I take care of her. How will I avoid feeling like her friend? You think a change in the bedroom will be enough?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:06 PM
5

How can I fix it?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:47 PM
3

You have a point... so it’s up to me to make her behave the way that would turn me on (?)
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:47 PM
9

She is turned on, I am not...
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:51 PM
1

which is the blog?
/r/RedPillBooks20/05/21 12:02 PM
1

so you paid 50 bucks for that? is it worth?
/r/RedPillBooks20/05/21 12:01 PM
1

/u/wia20xx acceptance of what? Female nature?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:34 AM
1

Doesn’t make much sense, he was naturally handsome. No amount of working on yourself can make you taller or give you a bette jawline. How exactly do you think this will work?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:14 AM
0

They will ask you if you are enrolled
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:09 AM
1

What is the best addict you give to someone in his mid twenties that is in his own way also?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:07 AM
4

Sounds like a cope to me dude. I wish you are right but it sounds like a cope. Plus 1500-7500? This low averages out to 4k per month. Which is double any starter salary in Europe
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:00 AM
1

What is your profile like?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:03 AM
1

Agreed but the men that ride social media well get very rewarded for it (?)
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:03 AM
1

Ah sorry man this was meant to be replied to one of the posters above, my bad.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:02 AM
1

Your profile on ig I mean. You wrote “mog” on your post
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:51 PM
1

What is mog? What is your profile like ?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:25 AM
1

I worry a bit about creatine, it can be linked to hair loss they say
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:20 AM
1

But dude, calves never change for example, I will always have chicken legs... Ok I will try it. How much should I workout?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 09:45 PM
1

There are things we can’t change, like calves and wrist size and height for example. I cannot make my legs not look skinny, or my wrists. How do you accept your body if you simply do not like it?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 11:43 AM
1

even if you are bald or your skin is shit ?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:39 AM
1

So how do you meet them? And how can you be very physically attractive if you bald/get white hair and/or if your skin fucks up ?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:39 AM
1

It’s all mostly genetics. If you get to keep your hair have dope skin, you look 28 until your 40s, you can date anyone. Not everyone is so lucky though. Taking care of yourself helps but it’s only 30% of the game. Rest is genetics.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:35 AM
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