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Julian from Trailer Park Boys comes to mind when I think of a "Permascowl." *spelling
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:07 PM
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Serenity Now, Insanity Later.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:38 PM
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I'm not a fan of a lot of the terminolgy we use here. I prefer to think of dread as Setting Firm Boundaries. A lost art amongst many people these days.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 11:26 PM
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Men can hit the wall at any age if they choose to stagnate in their lives. By this I mean neglecting to improve themselves, mentally, physically, financially or talent wise. Constant improvement is key to maxing yourself out as a man. If you ain't going forward, you're going backwards.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:59 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Plenty of greats didn't get action in High School and made it out just fine. Charles Bukowski and Hugh Heffner lost it later than most folks and they did just fine. Many of the pioneers of 'game' were the same way. I do see what your saying in the fact that your HS years are your best years to get your first initial experiences with women. Folks make life a lot easier for themselves by getting the monkey of their back earlier rather than later, but dudes are by no means …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:55 PM
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Traditionally masculine fields like that showcase value because they show that a man possesses panty-wetting traits like ruggedness, courage, manliness and the ability to protect woman in a shit hits the fan scenario. Just my opinion. *spelling
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 02:21 AM
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I see what you're saying, but I disagree. Anyone who has read or skimmed the book "The Art of Seduction" knows that there are different types of confident men that succeed with women. To understand it further, think of the Black Phillip show. Patrice has more a comedic, ball busting, righteous anger persona. Dante seems a bit more in the middle and Jeffery has more of a romantic, 'sensitive' tantric vibe. All of them have no problems pulling. Folks just gotta pick the style that is congruent wit…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:41 PM
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"Women don't want to win, they want a winner." -Patrice O'Neal
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:46 AM
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Agreed. I've got nothing against video games per se. I still play them every so often and playing shooters with my friends is always fun. It only gets bad when people neglect to develop other marketable hobbies besides gaming. Being one dimensional won't do folks any favors in life.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:25 AM
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If you're worried about dishonesty, then read/listen to this. It's kind of amazing as far as pickup artist books go. It all boils down to Lack of neediness Dominance / Leadership Charisma / Game / Humor Muscles / Low Body Fat / Clothing Style / Grooming Social status / Friends Having hobbies that you passionately enjoy that are also worth a damn (video games and web surfing don't count, hiking, shooting guns, ect... do)
/r/askTRP05/08/14 11:43 PM
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Take a alumni fundraising job in your university. Something like that is bound to build you up socially because you're going to have to be personable and confident to get donations from alumni. Just a suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 10:21 PM
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I don't agree with every aspect of the redpill. There are folks that make plenty of legitimate arguments against believing this stuff too deeply. T. AKA Rick Raw teaches guys how to get their shit together psychologically and advises men to work through their co-dependency and narcissism. (if they have those issues) His material breaks folks down to eventually build them back up. Tucker Max is just throwing the seduction community down the river for his own gain (while flipping off the folks who…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 05:25 PM
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Agreed. I'm not trying to white knight, but social ineptness and extreme thirst raises bitch shields and kills it for all the non-socially inept folks out there. This guy had to have been pretty off and tone deaf for it to escalate to this. Some folks don't know how to take their ball and go home after being given many hints. Guys like this deserve what's coming to them.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:13 PM
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Work on your intangibles, i.e take up interesting and marketable hobbies (things you would be passionate about even in the absence of pussy) Having great hobbies will give you more to talk about and 'sell' to women. Early game was focused on faking high status behaviors. But at the end of the day, it's better to actually become a high status man. I can't think of no better way than to do this.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:03 PM
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While I don't consider myself an MRA, I can't say I agree with the whole 'watch the world burn' type of mentality. I know mine and my own will make it through this fine, but my tax dollars go towards perpetuating the feminine imperative and a dysfunctional society. I'm game for doing any small thing I can to not line the pockets of Manginas and White Knights, but that's just me. No man is an island.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:53 PM
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I'm indifferent to them personally, but I have heard people complain about the Daily Mail's material sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:09 PM
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This is off the top of my head. Others can feel free to chime in: Jezebel.com (and all of Gawker Network's Blogs) Daily mail uk Slate.com (Ms. Hanna Rosin's brain child) Salon.com HuffPo Buzzfeed.com Thought Catalog This isn't a comprehensive list, but it's just ones on the top of my head that are BP as fuck. *Edit: I noticed I got flack some of my links. I don't wanna make the RP some censored circlejerk. I'll just leave it these few sites as opposed to my initial post. Others can add more if t…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:28 PM
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I know this is outdated, but here's a link on Vox Day's blog that estimates that traffic that major manosphere sites get in comparison to Jezebel. The long and short of it is that the traffic of the heavy hitters on all the major manoshpere sites combined pale in comparison to Jezebel's 46+ million views a quarter. Further proof on why we shouldn't give BP/mangina/White Knight websites more traffic. They get plenty as it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:54 PM
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You can never get rich working for the man, so it's often great to work for yourself. (i.e freelancing, owning a buisness, consluting...) If you do work for the man, try to save abundantly, and have 'fuck you' money to live off of ISHTF. This money can help you in those situations or to take mini-retirements. I may not be fully there yet, but it's something I'm working towards. *spelling
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:38 PM
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And the Black Phillip Show. Even if you don't agree with all of O'Neal's ideas and presentation, there is something to be said about his confidence and his ability to call people out.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 05:04 PM
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Most of the women in my circles aren't feminists or anything like the women on reddit, but liberal feminism does control a lot of discourse and policy in many parts of the US. I think that's what many people here are responding to.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:35 PM
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Naturals (some of them) want to protect their own self interest most importantly. It's not in their reality to be beta, (because of having a good upbringing, good role models, natural talents, ect...) so learning this stuff seems 'weird' and 'manipulative.' I remember seeing this on the Black Philip show. (I think it was within episodes 11-13 if I recall correctly) Patrice brought his 'natural' friend Jeffery over for a couple of episodes. Jeffery in one episode started calling Patrice O'Neal's …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:03 PM
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I'm not anti-women. I'd take a bullet for any of the women in my family. I'm 'antipretty lies.'
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 10:27 AM
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Mangina of the highest order. Probably has wicked low t-levels, but that's the least of his problems.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:56 PM
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Things ended with my ex last year. Although I'm not where I want to be financially, I'm trying my hand at building a business and base. I've been lifting and working on my art (my writing) more than ever. I couldn't be happier. *spelling
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 04:48 PM
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I'm 5'10 myself, so I don't despair. I exercise regularly and have good posture, so I seem a bit taller at times too. I might be at a disadvantage if I were in somewhere like the Netherlands. Most of the people who I've met with the tightest game have been shorter guys who are 5'6-5'7. It also helped that one of them did wrestling and competive MMA for sometime. Eisenhower was 5'10, and I don't think that it affected his success.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:21 AM
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I'm a huge fan of his videos. I plan on showing my nephew his channel as well as the black phillip show. (He's turning 14 this year) That's as much RP resources as he needs at this point. Hulse has done a video with RSD Tyler, but I don't think he wants too much of an association with pickup and TRP.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:07 AM
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I hear chicks go crazy for firefighters and other guys in manly blue-collar professions. That's just what I heard. But go after a job because you're passionate about it above all else, imo.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 01:13 AM
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I've posted this comment before, but it bares repeating. Maybe I'm just saying this because I'm long over my bitterness phase, but white-knights like this guy are the worst. Him and the Chris Gethards the world who are spewing this 'women are unique snowflakes' and 'don't try to improve your lot' nonsense are much more destructive than radical feminism, or the left's gynocentrism. They disgust me more on a visceral level than anything these days. I've been keen to game for almost 5 years. This s…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 01:37 AM
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I've always been a 'I could learn from everyone' type guy, but I did have a time when I briefly put that principle aside and envied folks that had better game than me. I quickly got over that phase and learned from naturals that would have me under their wing. It was a great experience once I reopened myself up to that. *I'm a little buzzed right now, so keep that in mind.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 08:40 PM
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I can see why some people may say these things, but I don't think Disney is in on some grand conspiracy to betafy kids. Plenty of 'naturals' watched these movies growing up and ended up just fine. It's all nature and nurture and places like this help guys who need to get it together. All of this is a tough pill to swallow, I know it was for me. I can't really personally blame the media for my issues, but that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:32 PM
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I sure as hell don't want that currently at 25 years old, as I want to be open for moving or taking whatever great opportunities that I can. I don't want to be tied down right now in my life. But I know I'll want a house, a yard and a dog ten years down the road. I didn't grow up in the burbs or a rural area, but I'm totally leaning towards moving to the latter later in life.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:49 PM
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I've been a redditor for 5+ years. This isn't my first account and it won't be my last. I have passions and ambitions outside 'the redpill' and the manosphere, so I don't want those being threatened. I will likely flip this account a couple of months as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:38 PM
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But who can see that end of it? All you see is the shameful bits, the admitting failure, the breaking down of things you were taught at a young age by good family and friends. If you are a normal person in a home and school that nurtured you into a confident dude, OF COURSE you think we are a bunch of introverted neckbeard faggots circlejerking about how shitty everything is. I wish people who hated this subreddit if they are reading along can see this line. Some folks saw a lot of chaos for one…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:10 PM
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I saw a relevant comment about this in Washington Post. Why folks need game #3210....
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 12:55 AM
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I get this too dude...you can never ever cry on your wife's shoulder. That is the price we pay to be men. It doesn't mean you can't be sad or that you should repress emotions but women and children cannot see that the "ground under their feet" is wobbly...because in reality all the ground under our feet is wobbly, men make it not so while they are around! Best way to describe it. In my first LTR, I went against my better judgement and opened up more than I should have. (She kept nagging me about…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 01:39 AM
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Because the system is working just 'fine' for them. And by fine, I mean most people get the occasional partner from their circle every so often and don't question things beyond that. Lifting yourself beyond your station is seen as manipulative and weird. Not my views, but what I see from a lot of BP folks.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 01:34 AM
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I'd recommend the 'Blueprint Decoded' if you can buy it. I found that to be a good roadmap for making myself into the man I wanted to be. I second everyone else's thoughts on hitting the gym and taking up MMA. (or get proficient in firearms if you live where you can get them) Here's a really good article written about this not too long ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 09:35 PM
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Cosigned. I personally consider myself left of center, but I don't let my views become a circle jerk. I look at left wing sources like NPR and TYT and I also look at sources like the Daily Caller, PJ media and Zerohedge. I like to give all sides a fair shake.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 01:56 AM
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The Real Christian McQueen Show? I also recommend this one as well. The latter is a youtube channel but it's worth checking out.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 11:27 PM
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Another famous person toeing the feminist line to keep his job. Nothing to see here. He probably does all the things we talk about here, but doesn't label it as such. What an out of touch hypocrite. *spelling & grammar
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 12:59 AM
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Does muscle matter? Well that depends, imo. Skinnyfat Kevin McRockband who plays 3 instruments and has a band doesn't need to hit the gym and get ripped. He already has enough value and status to not need to do that. Though almost everyone can benefit from some sort of exercise, this is dually so for the average guy or the former nerd with few marketable talents.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:12 PM
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All of my sisters have mace/tasers to use if needed. They know it's a dangerous world out there and they always keep that in mind in case they encounter creepy scumbags.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:11 PM
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I've said this before, and I will say this again. Do looks and hitting the gym matter? No, but if you don't have the rest of your shit together (confidence, interesting hobbies, status), it fucking does. Maybe it may not matter as much for you as you have a lot of other stuff going on. But one shouldn't let the perfect be the enemy of the good. I mean, why not both? Plus. Jack Lanane was like 5'6, 5'7, and that didn't stop him from being healthy and living 90+ years.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 02:01 PM
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Happy wife, happy life, you know? A happy king is a happy kingdom. If you fix the king, the whole kingdom is happy. -Patrice O'Neal If these whipped guys want to continue life that way, that's on them, lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:25 PM
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Think of this way OP. Tyler made the exact same comment I'm about to make in the video you watched. Do looks and hitting the gym matter? No, but if you don't have the rest of your shit together (confidence, interesting hobbies, status), it fucking does. Tyler has his shit together, so he can get away with alot more than most people.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:46 PM
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Great thread OP. This is a lot like one of the last black philip episodes where Patrice O'Neal brings up frame on a date. I've gotta short hand this example as I'm away from my PC. For example, it shouldn't even occur to your girlfriend/casual partner to ask for a correction on an order at a restaurant. (If a waiter messes up your order) Your girl has to know you have the confidence to fight your own battles and handle confrontations. You should have the stones to do that yourself in that situat…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:48 PM
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AKA Sport Fishing. Rest easy Patrice!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:34 AM
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Personally, I've been extremely succesful with girls in my life since as far back as I can remember, perhaps this is why I feel like the constant need to be perceived as the alpha can sometimes make you come off as a beta. Easy for you to say as a natural. Not everybody is you. I get what you're saying, I do. How you got there is neither here or there, but not everyone got the foundation they initially needed to do well in life. This subreddit pushes many people that want improve themselves in t…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 11:03 PM
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That reminds so much of this Heartiste post.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:39 AM
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Hell, I was even considered short in my High School (I was 5'8) years. I still had girls checking me out and was cool with all the popular kids. But I was blue pill as fuck back then, so those opportunities were wasted. I thankfully learned about game halfway into college and grew 2 inches, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 02:27 AM
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Although I'm just average height in my country, blaming height your woes with women is a load of bullshit. Most of the best naturals that I know are under 5'9. These are guys that play multiple instruments, fly planes, are skilled in MMA and are otherwise high value men in a lot of ways. If you're high value enough, height doesn't matter. You can say the same about a lot of other things too.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 08:05 PM
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I disagree with Manson's models being for beginners. IMO, its for people that already have a black belt in inner game. Although its main point is that men should not be a afraid to take a loss, (being vulnerable to women) I do think that men have to build enough value (cultivate interesting hobbies) and inner game to fully pull it off. But that just me. *spelling
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:26 PM
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Nice Guys are useful idiots.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:30 PM
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Agreed. It's just a way for a lot of women to save face. Gotta just take your ball and play elsewhere.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 12:41 AM
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Funny story: On Mother's Day I took my wife and kids to the aquarium. At one point I was standing alone waiting for them. I felt someone give my ass a good squeeze and when I looked over my shoulder and was surprised to see a little old lady, probably in her 80's, accompanied by her daughter, who was none the wiser. My first response wasn't, "OMG... I feel so violated. How dare you!" I smiled and thought to myself, "Holy shit that's awesome. You go granny! Have a great Mother's Day." I don't kno…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 11:33 PM
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Check out No More Mr. Nice Guy and learn to start setting boundaries with people. This book was also a game changer for me when I first started seriously getting into self-improvement. There's no harm in seeing a shrink to unload some of this baggage too. Inner game struggles will stifle you with women. Good luck OP, welcome to your journey.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:16 PM
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I can't say I'm a fan of his at all. I gave his material a fair shake. I even bought 1-2 of his e-books. I cannot stand his snarky, holier than thou tone. Although I don't agree with a lot of what the left in America does as a left of center person myself, it seems that every other post of his is bashing liberals and calling folks parasites. He does have some entertaining rants making fun of corporate culture and HR drones in America. I will at least give him that. He's also spot on with his ide…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 05:51 AM
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I agree. I listened to some of the audio version of the book, and it seems that he put the cart before the horse. Instead of genuinely making himself a confident and well-adjusted man, he just copied the behaviors of one. He threw his passions and mission beside women by the wayside. Women can't be your mission. You have to have passions and purpose outside of them. Basing your self-esteem on women is weak. *spelling
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 02:11 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Although I've had potential and a pretty solid circle of friends, I've never been much of a natural with women. I respect people like Roosh and others who have found ways to turn their lives around and become attractive to women and live the lives they want. I rather learn from men who have elevated themselves from their struggles and can empathize with me, rather than someone who's never failed or walked the path. And folks are free to look through my history, and think…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 11:54 PM
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You might wanna check out the book Way of Men by Jack Donovan. His book might be a good jumping point towards improving yourself as a man. Lifting also raises T-levels, confidence and helps you look and feel awesome. This subreddit may help too.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 11:15 PM
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I think it's unfair to paint this subreddit under one brush. They're are plenty of naturals (I'm far from that myself) who are looking to further their success. This subreddit is likely very valuable for the types of people mentioned. Some folks here are married and looking to maintain their marriages. We get all types here.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:53 PM
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This book was a game changer for me. Although I read it 3 years ago, and have eliminated most, if not all of these traits, this is still something I need to look over now and again. Thanks OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:18 PM
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Check out the blog The Rawness. The sites creator writes about psychology and human relationships. He has a lot of good info on deal with toxic people in life. It can do worlds to further improve your inner game.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 04:43 AM
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Your definition of whining is fighting unfair laws for men? And your solution is just ignore the problem, and hire less feminized teachers? They're free to do what they want to fight laws that screw over men. But society as a whole does not care about men. No matter how much awareness they spread. We tell men to suck up their problems (or tell them sparingly to close bros and siblings), lift, and become high value men. Look at the situation in Nigeria with the 200 missing girls. Did you know the…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 12:38 AM
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Although I'd never personally identify as an MRA, I did used to be sympathetic towards their cause. But now, I accept that males are disposable, and see such a concern as a negative waste of time and energy. MRA's come across as whiners. They would be much more productive if they focused on improving schools environments in the US and hiring more male teachers to help and guide young boys in the feminized schools. Even most BP folks wouldn't get up in arms about that. Helping grown men over 18 i…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 08:26 PM
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No biggie. This subreddit and what we talk about here already gets flack from the rest of reddit and in real life. I don't think it's worth harming our own. But that's just what I think though.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:30 AM
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Nailed it. The TL:DR version of this book from what I know about it is: 'Never be afraid to take the L' -Patrice O'Neal. Not everyone is going to like you. It's better to take the 'L' as your real, confident, and interesting self (this book IMO assumes you have a black belt in inner game and have already become an interesting and confident guy.) than to memorize a bunch of routines, and play down who you are, or worse, faking a frame that isn't you. I'm still personally a work in progress in a l…
/r/askTRP10/05/14 01:24 AM
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Cut the OP slack for trying to come here and get help. He's already above most people on this site by recognizing that a lot of what we talk about here is legit and useful in life. No need to kick people when they're down. I have much more respect for someone who has a problem and tries to make improvements instead of being like the rest of reddit and bitching about their station without doing any work and deriding helpful communities like this one.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 12:51 AM
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I'm working on this now. I'm in a similar fix myself. Luckly, I'm also naturally broad too. You'd be surprised at how much eating clean and subbing out juicy drinks for water will do. It's helping me a bit so far. Keep lifting, and eating clean should do the trick. Green tea also helps with anti-oxidents and suppressing appetite. Or at least it does for me.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 10:28 PM
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Probably why they largely spearheaded the game movement.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:58 PM
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Militantly. Look up his interviews. Famous people do toe a certain line for PR reasons. There is a good RoK article about it. I'm away from my PC, so I can't link it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 11:01 PM
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I'm fat and don't date fat girls and never had a problem. that's the only part of your post I disagree with All the men in my family are fat and most of them have wives/girlfriend that are skinny and attractive. Everyone else isn't you. My guess is that you probably had good inner game and confidence for quite a while. Not everyone has that. This subreddit tells people to lift and dress better because those are the these easiest things things to control. Doing those consistently leads to improve…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:52 PM
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Acquire the book 'Conquer Your Campus'. College game a lot of the time is mostly social circle and reputation. It's more nuanced than real world PUA game.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:47 AM
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'Acquire' the book Conquer your Campus. Getting laid in college is primarily social circle game a lot of the time. This book hones in on that.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:08 PM
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'I'm busy' is a hint and a rejection a lot of the time that she's not interested, and that you should take your ball and play elsewhere. *spelling
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:45 PM
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No one is entitled to anything OP. Entitlement is a crappy mentality to have. I know because I've been in your shoes. Nothing drives women away faster than desperation. You mentioned having pets, and other passions. Women should be competing for at least 4-5th place as a priority in your life. You should checkout the Patrice O'Neal show. He gives a lot of good RP advice. Before every show he usually says "I tell my girl she's the fourth most important thing in my life. It's me, my mom, my career…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 07:48 PM
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No, she's looking out for her and her sons self interest. She saw how misandry was affecting her school age sons and wanted to do something about that If I recall correctly. I have seen her post on this subreddit from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:44 AM
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I don't ever recall feeling like that myself though. I do recall reacting with "Sure glad that ain't me" Same here! I guess it's just another take on the whole 'let you and him fight' trope. Women love status battles and the guys that win them.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:14 PM
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I don't know why, but I thought of the original Bioshock and the reaction the Little Sister has when you're often about to fight a Big Daddy. I think it's something along the lines of her saying "Get him Mr. B!!!" Very similar to your anecdote OP.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 06:53 PM
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Add Vladmir Putin to that list. He's like 5'5, but still has a commanding presence. He's a former KGB guy, and skilled in many martial arts.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 08:11 PM
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