I have a philosophy when it comes to dating that has changed my life. It's called "two or none."

This means the only negative configuration possible is frequently dating and sleeping with one woman.

Three, four, five. That's fine. But at least two. Or none at all.

It's such a simple rule. You could say, "Of course, that's what spinning plates means." But you'd be missing out on the subtlety of this rule.

With "two or none" implanted in your brain, seeing one girl brings anxiety. You're swiping on Tinder like a madman to get another on deck. You're flirting with chicks left and right. That second girl will give you a sense of balance, of stability. It's like going from a unicycle to a bike.

It's the ultimate cure against one-itis. In fact, it's the most direct cure. Banish "one."

My dating life now is either a period of none, which is fine (I've done this for over a year before), or a period of two or more (my current state).

You won't believe the crazy levels of deep communication this has on women. The women I see actually assume I'm seeing other women and are fine with it, even though we never talk about it and they have no evidence! It's incredible. It's like they just sniff it out somehow, because it's so ingrained.

  • You won't get hung up about her texts or when she's flaky.
  • You can have full on "sex days" where you see one girl, another right after, and then either the first or a third after that.
  • You're actually HAPPY when you're single.
  • You're motivated to date and flirt and get out there.

If you internalize this, it gives you almost all of the RP alignment you need.