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Conversationbobyd/r/seduction23/08/22 06:46 PM
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Inner Game bobyd/r/seduction31/10/22 10:29 PM
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Fundamentals bobyd/r/seduction13/09/22 09:28 AM
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bobyd/r/seduction13/08/19 10:33 PM
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Inner Game bobyd/r/seduction17/08/22 11:05 PM
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bobyd/r/seduction03/10/16 05:13 PM
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Conversationbobyd/r/seduction07/08/22 01:53 PM
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Lifestylebobyd/r/seduction28/04/24 01:44 PM
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bobyd/r/seduction10/07/18 01:35 AM
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bobyd/r/seduction23/01/19 06:48 AM
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Escalation & Calibrationbobyd/r/seduction14/10/22 09:09 AM
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bobyd/r/seduction16/09/18 11:27 AM
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Conversationbobyd/r/seduction14/11/21 05:24 PM
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Fundamentals bobyd/r/seduction26/08/22 07:49 PM
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bobyd/r/seduction04/10/18 07:51 AM
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Field Reportbobyd/r/seduction12/08/22 09:36 PM
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aim for someone that attends a hobby same as you: dancing class of some sort, gym etc
/r/seduction18/07/26 02:31 PM
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im not reading your post, too much text that I know how it goes, girl invites you to come but doesnt want anything more than being friends the problerm? you want to ahngout and be friendly, go on, want to bang her, it's not happening on her side, dont go. easy as that
/r/seduction30/06/26 11:18 AM
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why dont just space out your dates, it's not an examen, you can skip one week a date with your 5
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:58 PM
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Look at social animal on YouTube. I think the best way to go "low pressure" is to talk like you would with anyone.
/r/seduction19/10/25 02:30 AM
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You don't take a car from 0 to 100 instantly, you have to go at 50 first Therefore why try doing cold approach on the street without doing a middle thing in between. Like a hobby or classes and "approach" and meet people there
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:16 PM
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I took it as I'm meeting people. Not flirting. Flirting is part of my way of doing things, but not why I approach It made it low pressure and more forgiving for me
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:07 PM
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I would just keep her on the back, dont put too much pressure and give some space, early october suggest again smth and if no clear answer just take it as no
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:40 PM
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idk man not sure, my girl is cute, maybe not super model hot, but very vute imo, she works towards the public and she gets hit on pretty often
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:10 AM
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I would say mimick your partner, of she is going slow gentle. Do the same. Of she is going all tongue, go for it. Try and "feel" the other partner and imitate
/r/seduction21/07/25 03:08 PM
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nope, europe
/r/seduction18/07/25 07:08 PM
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my gf is 22, im 32, I know her parents and they are super nice and everything is going fine, so its not that weird
/r/seduction18/07/25 04:26 PM
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Not necessarily. There are people who are always on "attack" mode and it gets tiring from the outside. You have two options, 1 meet girls doing game at nightclubs or day game 2 meet people with a hobby and meet girls from there For 1 I can't help you For 2: Just meet people, pick hobbies that make you talk with people: Dancing clases CrossFit Going always to the gym at the same time (same people) Cooking clases Volleyball Language or game meet up groups... Whatever you like, some people make fri…
/r/seduction03/07/25 11:28 AM
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you "feel" like you fumbled, bc you feel entitled to be with her bc you like her, but some things are out of your control, that's why I am saying like in 4. You fumble=you feel you are worthless bc=your value depends on others (third party) response, and it should be: you value=comes frome yourself and people that care about you bc you havent met enough people, she probably gave you attention, thats why you crushed on her, move on, there are thousands of girls everywhere but thats not what you s…
/r/seduction03/07/25 10:34 AM
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then you are mentally immature my dude you should go to therapy bc its not normal to be "very depressed" bc of one rejection you put the girl on a pedestal and idealized her you are not very depresed you should value your worth/mood/feeling depresed on the feeling if a girl rejects you bc you never know if the other party has the same feeling as you, and you shouldn't care
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:48 AM
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You are very young and inexperienced You have a crush bc you are not meeting new people Meet more people and you won't care if you get rejected
/r/seduction03/07/25 06:48 AM
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if you are getting called good loking by random ppl, and you are not sure if you are good looking, mate...
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:04 PM
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day to day ata daytime like once every two weeks
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:55 PM
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For approaching idk but my friend had luck being friendly with everyone (so the girls see they are social and not creeps) and keep talking every now and new saying hi every day. I guess it dependends on the gym, mine sucks everyone is quite unfriendly but at my friend's, everyone was very welcoming About the club's, either someone that is into the scene and already knows and asking friends of friends or Instagram
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:34 AM
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gym, hostels and traveling and hostels parties are your best best imo clubs or parties where college (uni depending where you live) go party, suaully cheaper clubs or on the otuskirts of the cities (chea p alcohol and so) be prepared to look a little bit like predator tho haha also bachata social dance
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:48 PM
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Keep it chill and casual dont push too much or you will make it awkward and unconforatble
/r/seduction08/02/25 11:36 AM
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nobody is saying ditch the app entirely bnut maybe fo 50-50
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:24 PM
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swingers club
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:23 PM
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Isn't there an inside hobby to do that involves men and women?
/r/seduction03/02/25 11:33 AM
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depends on t the hour and class
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:33 PM
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sometimes the girl is just not interested enough you know? or they try to play it cool too since they probably have couple dudes on the backburner so I would only send them likea reel or a meme about something that you guys talked or joked about and if the dates are very far apart, maybe 2 weeks, just send them a text about how they doing, i went to X place and though about what we were talking (somethin relatable) also if its just a fuck buddy you can just not talk for 2 weeks and be alright
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:58 AM
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bc it takes no effort, and shows you are not butthurt, maybe he will run into her, or she will talk to a friend and maybe they run into each other, idk or just bc you are an ok human being
/r/seduction20/01/25 08:49 PM
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you wrote 5 paragraphs to say double text if you think she was interested
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:11 PM
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yes, but didnmt seduced it happened on the xmas dinner party, she is my current gf, 10y younger (didnt know when we hooked up), the thing is, I actually have worked with a lot of women (nursing) and never did a thing with a coworker before
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:15 PM
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you are not being passive aggresive you are being cringe agresive and insecure vibes with that comment
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:15 PM
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It's not love in 3 months
/r/seduction24/12/24 08:12 PM
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i remember some years ago, this friend of mine quite cute, but her pics were horrible blurry heavy filter and mirror selfies with bad angles on 3 days capped at +99 likes already, I gave up on dating apps that day lmao
/r/seduction10/11/24 11:57 AM
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I have gone partying so much in my life, maybe it's an American thing, but on Europe I have never seen women on their own when out
/r/seduction01/09/24 10:01 AM
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you are setting expectations, you saw each other a few times and now maybe she is just friendly no sex stuff invovled bc she might like your company or bc you both going to the same thing
/r/seduction24/08/24 06:01 PM
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depends, maybe if you go to anormal club and talk to anime they will be put off, but if you do manga conventions and stuff liek that you will coneect
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:13 AM
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most likely south america somewhere
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:22 PM
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maybe watch social animal on youtube to see if you do mistakes amybe you would benefit from joining aclubo r hobby and making contacts there
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:22 PM
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cuz they are confident and loud and that attracts
/r/seduction13/05/24 01:14 PM
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I dont think so, one of them just yesterday was well tired and doesnt like going out so he had a tired upset face the whole night and he got away with it
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:28 PM
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i dont go out with this people, it was a special celebration
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:27 PM
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yeah tbh, they have a good way with words as well, but it helps that they dont even need to aproach anyone (irl or open or make an effort over online dating)
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:25 PM
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you case is so specific, I cant start just taking meds for being envious
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:24 PM
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they werent doing anything different from me yesterday, so what do you think is
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:24 PM
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True, I'm just jealous tbh🤣 it's like easy mode
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:26 PM
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Their face is attractive
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:25 PM
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I feel like beat deodorant is one that doesn't smell and then use some perfume
/r/seduction10/04/24 04:51 PM
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If both said casual what do you expect?
/r/seduction10/04/24 04:45 PM
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oh, when i read it i understood that the girl followed back like later, say 15 minutes or whatever after meeting not in person anymore
/r/seduction05/04/24 01:15 PM
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why did they follow back then
/r/seduction04/04/24 07:46 PM
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if you keep contact you risk getting ghosted again, you ahve that little self respect? or is she worth it? only you know
/r/seduction26/03/24 10:41 AM
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I wish I read this like 10y ago, this is one of the best posts I ever read, no incel or pua shit, but concrete and actually helpful besides the generic shit you always read around most advice seduction websites I dont quite get the why/mirror thing, the mirror part, is it just giving a (true) positive feedback about what they say?
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:38 PM
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from starting conversations, maintaining them, escalating, etc. like it’s textbook to teach me master
/r/seduction09/03/24 02:41 PM
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I feel attacked about the example convo, that's me :') how can I improve that? I understand about what all you said, but it feels very... unspecific? I can't imagine what could I say that is "non linear", I do get it where you are coming from, but I just dont know how to do it
/r/seduction26/02/24 06:27 PM
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Women don’t respond to linear conversations. You have to get out of logic mode. Tap into having fun and triggering positive emotions during your interactions. Again, it’s not a linear logical conversation. what do you mean by that? can you provide any examples of this?
/r/seduction26/02/24 02:19 PM
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fucking reddit, just below this message they literally say "Evaluate each text to see why it's good or bad. Spend more time thinking about what to text and brainstorm maybe 3-4 different messages before sending the best one" totally oposite haha
/r/seduction21/02/24 02:49 PM
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some cultures you must text a bit, people are reticent of meeting with only talking logistics it sounds cold and too methodical
/r/seduction11/02/24 10:16 AM
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at the end of the day it works both ways, if the other side isnt as interested, why would you do all the work?
/r/seduction31/01/24 09:09 PM
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you are mean
/r/seduction28/01/24 08:22 PM
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thing arent black or white just date whoever you want not that difficult
/r/seduction01/11/23 06:32 PM
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So what you feel dude
/r/seduction21/08/23 02:29 PM
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I really like this answer because it's not a straight no, so it avoids confrontation, is playful and gives the chance for the convo to progress
/r/seduction10/07/23 03:36 PM
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I definitely enjoy the "I have won" feeling
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:31 AM
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30 a week? that sounds insane, arent you socially drained all the time?
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:14 PM
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reliying on one self is extremly difficult and not every in their life can pull it off. We are social animals and rely on connections and relationships (family friends, lover) and external input work or hobbies to validate one self. For you to seek validation from within by "thinking" it's jsut not realistic most of the times
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:28 AM
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delete this nonsense, here everyone is an alpha male with no feelings and no vulnerabilities
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:21 PM
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I havea lot of girl friends atm but rarely one girl has introduced me to a friend (like, lets meet the 3 of us, or doing a party they never bring friends from outside the normal social circle), it has always been running into eachother by chance at an event or something Trying to holla at a girl in your social circle is quite risky. Yes that's why I was asking, I have expanded my social circle, but not my romantic life haha. When it happened it was bc it was very clear from the start that the gi…
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:04 AM
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well I guess it doesnt come natural to everyone then
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:00 AM
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nah that doesnt work, this is how to make friends, not how to seduce
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:10 AM
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you are smooth, would you use this on your social circle or just with girls outside
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:03 AM
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teach me something mate bc, I think I tease way too much, idk how to flirt otherwise
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:29 PM
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Is it weird if I ask to see the conversation? I also struggle with what you mention a d thought it might help
/r/seduction12/10/22 10:09 AM
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I misread so many ioi and didn't or acted on no ioi girls, I kind of think they are bs
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:07 PM
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But sometimes you are in the situation where you can escalate you don't have to invite her to something if you and her are right there
/r/seduction06/10/22 10:04 PM
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do you touch? like hand holding, arm or something?
/r/seduction06/10/22 05:55 PM
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how do you find girls to add is qthe questuion, bxc if the profile is private how do u even know what she looks like
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:40 PM
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any other open questions like that¿
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:38 PM
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but would you say that to someone you jsut met or someone you have a bit of rapport already?
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:07 PM
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for example yeah
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:45 PM
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challenge her and disqualify her to where she desires your qualification when is that
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:37 PM
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i mean it's not like I never been with a girl, but improving is always welcome, I'd like to hear your tips
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:36 PM
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True 🤦🏻‍♂️. Sorry, that has happened indeed. It is true that instead of living the moment I plan things too far ahead. I usually go social dancing (salsa) and people don't make out there, I just don't know how to handle it very well. It feels more like a sports event than a night out.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:56 PM
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What are you talking about? This is not about texting
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:52 PM
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Of course they prefer something natural. I wont get the money, I'm a nurse and the amount of money you can get is "limited". I dont care about women who value money tho.
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:32 AM
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you can downvote me if you want, doesnt make your idea more valid
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:26 PM
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you can be exclusive but not be in a relationship, like intimate fwb, you can see every other week or something, but dont really chat in between
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:14 PM
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so you want something serious and yoiu have to wait until she wants aswell so you havwe to wait and be contempt with something you dont want until then? And wait how long 1 month 2, 3 one year?
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:13 PM
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Such bullshit advice. If you want a serious relationship why wait for the girl to ask. Don't need to wait months. It really depends on the situation and how you feel with the girl
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:49 PM
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It's not a group it's the place where you go to dance. The only place
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:36 PM
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hey dude, I'm at the same spot as you are. Dancing for about 4y and around intermediate level. If you dont mind... Would you give me some tips or something? The truth is, after I broke up with the girl (from bachata class) Iwas with 2 y, everything seems very diffiucult Like you are talking with a girl and she will just say "im going dacing" and leave to dance with that one pro or friend or whatever, or a guy will come and steal the girl to dance even if you are on the back line or even sitting!
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:10 PM
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the thing: guys already ask the girl to dance while I'm talking to her, laso people go there to dance, sometimes they just cut the convo and say Im going dancing, idk if that's bc they are not interested or just want to dance sorry I dont quite undertand what you mean by asking a girl, you mean like ask her to practice with me?
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:52 PM
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I see. I want to ask an additional question. I dance bachata, so I have a hobby where I can meet lots of girls, but there is lots of guys as well. I dance quite alright now When I see the girls laughing and talking with other guys I just feel like I cant be at their level or cant reach that level of "intimacy". There is basically 1 second between guys talking with a girl sometimes. Basically how do you deal with other dudes you dont know doing that?
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:36 PM
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any tips on talking, on conversation? specially people you just met? I am ok at convo with people I know barely, but simetimes people i dont know, if I initiate conversation, they dont even look at me or answer with little interest
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:03 PM
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im not saying talking everyday before the date, but I usually seen just text her the next day or the other and set the date for in 2-5 days what do oyu think
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:22 AM
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a week? isnt that like too much?
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:43 PM
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whats an example of what you suggest?
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:28 PM
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what if she doesnt pick up the phone, call again, leave like 5 missing phone calls or text
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:27 PM
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in spain getting ghosted usually, people are usually flaky, girls even more
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:26 PM
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so what you suggest
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:26 PM
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Praise wiki
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:24 AM
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Sorry not English what does footsie mean?
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:04 AM
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lmao you the man with the youtube link library
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:21 AM
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no you did not
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:08 AM
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I see, damn it is hard. Any tips or something you can give me?
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:13 PM
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I see. The thing is sometimes I get the ig and then dont know what to do with it, like I have them, but dont interact that much, and I dont post ig things that much anyway any tips on that?
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:12 PM
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aditional question, do you ask for socials in this context? ig, number or something? i jsut dont know what to do with the ig, and number would be only to arrange dates? or mayuybe invite to something?
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:03 PM
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I just need some guidance cuz I'm a bit of a disaster I come off too strong and when I'm "friends" I just find it awkward to ask someone out
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:53 AM
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I'm "afraid" of not taking acting and losing the cute girl to another person, but also of coming off too strong
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:36 AM
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Yes the thing I worry about is being too friendly with no attraction, or just feel like I validate girls by flirting without going nowhere. For example after a while of being friendly and kind of flirty, if the girl is not reciprocating, or barely, it feels like I wasted the initial "momentum" where I,could make her laugh with a silly sentence
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:08 AM
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Is there anything I can read on that or some specific tips for someone that doesn't manage well? Direct game is a no, but how do I ask out a girl without being direct?
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:05 AM
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How long in between meeting the girl and asking out is too much? Sometimes.I feel you can only be flirty for so long before it becoming cliche, boring or obvious that the other person is not reciprocating
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:04 AM
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askseddit is dead tho
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:58 PM
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ok ty your approach sounds the most reasonable and natural to me
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:44 AM
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So what do you suggest doing? BC if I have to ask where she is going Thursday I have to double text
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:10 AM
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lol salsa dancing is not that kind of scene the club closes at 2
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:38 PM
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I always go dancing thursday it's the best time of the week Like, Im gonna go regardless, just wanted to know what to do with her
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:08 PM
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yep your advice sounds good to me, maybe for the next time :/
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:26 PM
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you know I keep seeing the advice of place and time suggested, but no one in spain talks like that, it seems too "intense" maybe?
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:24 PM
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cant go back in time mate, I already be left on seen
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:12 PM
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I read it a while ago so i dont remember most of it, but it just seemed atificial, outdated and a bit fake. Also that the book as I remember is more of a biography or an ad than a teching book
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:11 PM
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i been trying to be genuine and it's not working that much
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:08 PM
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what happened one week ago the convo left on seen yesterday morning asking would mean double texting where she is going, if I do it i'd say "hey X, I'm going to this club toiday, where you guys going?" that seems good?
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:01 PM
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she was not a random girl from the club, but I get your idea
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:43 PM
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I read mystery method, I didnt like it at all
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:42 PM
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I'm not 100% sure if she is going to the same as me,as there are two the same day that do the same event. In case I see her I might try to buiuld some tension but I'm not that good at that. ANd I dont think they will want to "chill" after, it's a thursday people work on friday
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:38 PM
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I can do nothing wring but then you telling emso many things I should have done different. I bet so many men get along without thinking and making the perfect action every single time. But I do agree that your action would have been better
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:36 PM
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so what now? just say nothing even if I see her?
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:25 PM
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aight thanks for the tips still, I feel like there is so many ways to fuck it up... doesnt feel natural to me
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:20 PM
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so jsut dont say anything? I had a bad couplee of ghosting so ? feeel a bit down tbh
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:09 PM
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I couldnt escalate there we were with a group of friends but I get your point it just seems like I have to say the perfect sentence otherwise she gets uninterested, it's getting abit on my nerves I was ina relationshiip before, but it all started very naturally I dint have to plan anything like that or overtythink my words 5000 times
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:08 PM
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my self steem has always been kinda low I wish I could imrpove that
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:43 AM
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it wont lighten my modo honestly if she doesnt take some action to fix something, I know myself and I create false expectation (she will say she meissed me or say she is sorry and we will be back togeter) since none of those things are going to happen, I just rather not be near her and avoid letting her know I still feel like shit. Bc if she says I have to move on it will hurt a lot, so I rather let it rest for myself until I heal on my own. We broke up in january, came back togeter on may after…
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:43 PM
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I laready go to therapy, I dont care to upset her. i just dont feel like its a good course of action sorry. I know I still have feelings, I just want to get over it. I already told her all that, iit would be saying the same things again, to what end? If she already knows most of it and saying it doesnt change anything, venting without an action to her part doesnt seem like a good effort
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:15 PM
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I blocked her everywhere, so I don't have her number but I could get it from someone. The thing is it doesn't sound like a Good idea tbh. I can ask her to meet me, but there is not guarantee she will want to see me. And even if she does, I don't want to know anything about her, if she is seein someone or has a new bf or whatever,.I rather not know. And she will just accept it and not be upset, she will go "ok,.is that everything you feel better?"
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:27 AM
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I have hobbies, I got to the gym and i am fit and I go to therapy already. Honestly I don't want to pay for sex, seems.kinda low value to me.
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:26 AM
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I have blocker her from everything. And even changed dancing classes to not see her. I even muted common friends on IG to not see her in stories. When I blocked her on WhatsApp she slipped a DM on IG saying "that's how it's going to go, really?", I didn't reply. I'm losing my mind totally, and I don't want to. I'm sock of thinking of her everyday when I know she doesn't. She might have felt sad but I'm sure has gotten over it and accepted it. And I'm here, lamenting her and crying every other da…
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:24 AM
1

I love in a huge city and I'm feeling good in my current flat. It's not that easy to find a job over here so I rather not move. I might but it's just too much
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:20 AM
2

Yep
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:18 AM
6

stop with the fucking spam
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:58 PM
1

Cool. Yeah I try to picture what covnersation we would have i nperson, but overthinkling gets the best of me, should I ahve said, or the other thing, maybe a bit more convo before asking out, this kind of thing. I just hate texting lol, and almost nobody does phone calls here. Thanks for the answrs
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:22 PM
1

alright cool, just wanted to know bc as I said, I'm awkward on text
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:19 PM
1

Thank you! I tend to overthink a lot. I had instances in the past where I did talking for like 3 days and then it died down to nothing. I wanted to try and be straighforward without being cringy or needy. But since I just dont know how to flirt over text I though I might as well get to the point since I already did some talking in person. I might shoot them a mesage nextt week jsut saying I'm going to this event to dance you coming? or something like that, but nothing else.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:12 PM
2

I just start overthinking and my head goes blank
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:58 AM
0

-are you ahving fun? yes -... what to even say after?
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:50 PM
7

damn this is on almost every fucking post, I report all the posts this guy does but the original psot is still up
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:38 PM
1

Why would you wait 3 days. Just the next day is fine. Either you think a girl net from cold approach will remember how she felt 3 days after... I don't remember what I ate yesterday
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:32 PM
1

why wait to text the first time, strike while the iron is hot, such dumb shit
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:21 AM
2

then do what the other guy is suggesting and take a hobby or clases on something you like and there is young ppl as well
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:56 AM
2

I ha this situation, meeting her 3 times a week, some weekennd trips. It eneded bad becuase I got attached and she still wasnt feeling like a full comited relationship even tho she was inviting me to sleep over many days. Just keep that in mind She broek uop with me bc she said she felt me having abad time, then she said she missed me if we could be togheter like before. I had to say no, but I wish I could have said yes.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:13 AM
1

texting tips and convos or something? I really suck at texting Like explain as much as you can, i really really suck at texting
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:33 PM
1

good stuff, i dont agree with the high energy tho
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:18 PM
1

Maybe message once more, with something like hey o saw this place looked cool we should check it out. If no answer or ambiguous answer (busy, not now etc)... Well move on
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:37 AM
4

Sometimes I do that and it falls flat. Doest it men she not interested?
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:19 AM
2

What if she is working or busy at the moment and doesn't take the call? You just leave it there?
/r/seduction01/08/22 09:34 AM
4

dafuq is wrong with you guys
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:45 PM
2

Craig ferguson what kind of videos? i dont know that man, he is an american tv presenter or soemthin?
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:40 PM
2

cool, i'm so bad at teasing new people I meet I always go way too much or have a boring and bland convo and she looks so uninterested
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:26 PM
1

would you compliment her after?
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:16 PM
3

what is a low key push pull that wont be too much just metting
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:05 PM
3

sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. I have been told that guys that are seen with a lot of girls or othjer girls are seen as "players" and untrustworthy
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:31 AM
2

i'd say looks amtter for the intiial imrpesion, but nota all girls have the same type of look thye like
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:28 PM
1

what about hinge? i dont think it's very popular here either. It is heard that latinas use badoo over here
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:59 PM
3

i had like 7 matches on bumble not one messaged tinder I had like 50. IDK if it's the region (europe), you had to fill so many things on bumble i dont even know if girls read any of that
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:34 PM
1

what if she asks why she sould come if no sex, know what I mean?
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:22 AM
13

What colds reads did you do
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:00 PM
2

you seem pretty chill, whats you aprroach strategy, or most concrete, like, any tips when first meeting a women at a bar or something? i dont like apps and when meeting someone face2face, first time round, aproaching is ok, bbut I just dont know how to beahve or keep her attention at all
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:37 PM
5

so how do you do on tinder, ig or girls you only briefly meet? You just ask them out straigh away on ig? otherwise what do you do?
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:05 PM
10

lmao, just by reading it you can tell they are pretty young
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:45 PM
1

also happens to me, doggy makes me go softer but bottom or top misionary is fine
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:06 AM
1

either way saying barça for one special character is wrong, as barça is the football club not the city you didnt even get my point n_n'
/r/seduction06/07/22 08:50 AM
26

barca doesnt exist, its either barça (football club) or barna (short for barcelona)
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:03 AM
5

body count is such an idiotic thing
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:11 PM
2

know what you want, like if you want az gf a the girl is like, i dont want anything serious dont date her wiuth your mind thinking it may turn into a gf, bc most probably you or her will get hurt
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:30 AM
1

and whats your tactic to connect again with them? just asking because my text game specially on ig if I havent met before is sooo dry
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:16 PM
3

how do you even search for girls on ig? like how you screen, only open profiles or like any profile?
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:07 PM
1

i went out last night with a group anbd there was an attratctiv guy, he just pulledgirls by standing there dam haha
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:07 AM
5

how are you thisstraigh forward and not too blunt? like whats the line?
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:34 PM
1

You don't ask for her number?
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:52 AM
3

I dont like this manipulative pua shit, but if it works for you guys... If you want to break up just do it, if you want to keep seeng her just date her a few more times, but this dating but with second itnentions, idk man, its just weird and comes off as manipulative in a abd way
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:25 PM
6

lmao you got picked up.,, she liked you, she did all the work
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:24 PM
1

so muich contradictory advise niowadays, be nmysteriou, be straighforward, dont beat around the bush and be a man, let your intentions let know, dont let her know what you want? now it's 100% your responsability if she likes you or not, like it doesnt depend on her at all. idk dude according to this sub you have to be percet in every way, physically and well greomed, aslo decentt hobbies itnerests and so on, but also be yourself. you ahve to be natural but at the same time you ahve to have so ma…
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:38 PM
3

you cannot just think you are the shit and feel like that, that takes a very long time of working therapy and decissions
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:29 PM
1

I wouldn't, just don't mention it
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:25 PM
4

Ask her. If no answer move on. Text something short and low investment, like something you would say to a friend you met hundred times
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:55 PM
1

That is very romantic approach of you, but you still got to text of using tinder
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:58 AM
3

Your bots always be spamming that ebook
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:54 AM
1

we did the deed
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:21 PM
1

but she let go my hand and avoied it after
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:17 PM
2

we had sex tho
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:46 PM
1

some girls dont liek to be lead, liek I did that once and she kind of squezzed my hand a bit harder smiled and let it go
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:51 AM
1

wtf that hits too close
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:47 PM
2

I feel like things sare not black or white, you may happen to arrive at this topics as conversationss arent linear and can branch anywhere
/r/seduction15/05/22 12:08 PM
2

one strike and yopu are out, they are not busy, they arent interested, next time before asking them out you need to create more conecction
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:46 PM
1

Do what
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:14 PM
1

Thanks. What if it's someone you just met
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:45 AM
7

What if the innuendos fall flat with no reaction?
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:29 AM
2

Thanks for the tips!!
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:48 PM
3

Thanks dude, I do need better full body pics. I just dont know how to pose, I look fuxking awkward, need some pics like yours (natural looking)
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:00 PM
1

Ok I rethought my thought, I would appreciate an example if you don't mind. You can cover your face, anyway hope it's not too weird, just getting a bit lost BC guys have such bad pics
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:53 PM
2

I trhink i will try the profile trick to see other men's pics. I feel like I should "pose" more, you know, play it cool dude in the pics, kiind of fake it. will try ty
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:34 PM
1

This is a bit cheeky, but, could I get an example of good tinder photos?
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:43 AM
1

That just depends on the individual
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:39 AM
9

one thing is being indiferent and another is being non-needy
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:04 PM
1

depends on the school or area really
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:21 AM
1

you dont "cope"m you grief then rebuild and carry on or go to therapy because there is mmore in there that this thread can cover
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:59 AM
10

why do you want to be with a person that doesnt respect you as much as you respect her. Maybe it's not about mind games, or mindset issues. Maaybe the problem is that you dont respect yourself enough to say that what she is putting you through is not fair and healthy for your mental health
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:45 AM
1

oh i see
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:35 AM
10

meaning most men dont go through her bullshit
/r/seduction18/03/22 08:09 PM
11

What's your way to open?
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:41 AM
1

Nice man good luck. I really struggle with online chatting😔
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:15 AM
3

what did you message with, but just consider that one experience doesnt represnt a colective
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:02 PM
3

there is no fundamentals section
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:15 PM
1

you dont need to exhaust to build muscle
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:14 PM
4

teach me
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:04 AM
1

how do you manage approaching at the gym, how do you do it wand when?
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:28 PM
1

How did you learn about body language that is my most lacking skill
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:10 PM
28

nice shoes i tihkn my sister would like them u wanna fuck?
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:17 PM
3

You should get leather ones like Stan Smith or something similar, not cloth ones
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:07 PM
1

more like officefucker
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:27 PM
1

we were talking about cooking and she knew i cooked well, so I said you should come I cook for you she went haha and cold after that. kind of like this dont remmember the exact words because it awas a while ago
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:11 AM
4

I had a situation like OP, told the girl to do something after work and after that she went cold, why do you think that was?
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:41 PM
7

the conclusion to the fires article is (women) assimilation of negative feedback involves doubts about one’s competences and lowers confidence, it can discourage women to take on new challenges. dont know how that relates to being single
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:46 PM
2

Why should i
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:39 PM
3

It's a good message, but clearly it's spam since you don't need a website article to say the same thing you could say on a text post
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:38 PM
2

It's not about the world owning me anything. Sometimes you are just tired of being single. Like sometimes you are tired of maybe working at the same place for so many years and changing makes you happy. Does that mean that you were unhappy before? Maybe or yes or not doesn't matter. What matters is that you want a new experience that might make you happier or fuller Having a partner is an experience, same as going on a hike is an experience,. But the two of them fill you in a different way.
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:37 PM
5

Not true
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:34 PM
52

this article is bullshit, yes you can be happy single, but one thing is being single by choice and the other because you cant find a partner. We can see how much happy you feel when everyone around you starts dissapearing bc they spend more time with another person, the feeeling of being left behind is ugh.
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:50 PM
-3

This works only if the girl has a "weak" personality, of you are with a girl who likes to takes charge. Lead and has a strong character doing this will only conflict and cause trouble
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:34 PM
1

I don't like dancing and talking at the same time haha
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:52 AM
1

If I had any idea I wouldn't post this
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:51 AM
1

Oh ok ok gotcha
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:00 AM
1

Ok thank you. If I post here is to get advice I do take everything in consideration. Maybe the problem is mine because in IG I don't know how to follow up.
/r/seduction14/11/21 08:59 PM
1

I actually go there for dancing and as I said, don't do much else there besides talking with the people I already know. I been told I dance good, but I know I'm just ok atm One of my friends was hitting on almost every girl and now he has kind of s bad reputation even tho he dsnces real good. But girls still speak and laugh with him, which I don't understand. I don't want bad reputation. To be honest I hesitste to ask for girls ig nowadays. They mean so little I rather ask for s phone number, bu…
/r/seduction14/11/21 08:46 PM
1

Sorry but when I say club I refer to dsncing clubs. As in, only salsa and bachata music and only dsncing. Not the kind of "normal" clubs. I don't go there anymore, I just don't have fun. So I decided to stop goin haha
/r/seduction14/11/21 08:43 PM
1

I dont remmember at all T_T
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:28 PM
2

I have a canned questtion I use often and never gets old, "what interesting things have you done this week/weekend?" gets the pother person talking about them and stuff they like and is not the tipical, what do you do
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:10 PM
2

This is inspiring honestly one of the things that I always wanted to try but always find excuses, and now with the pandemic and everyone wearing masks it's even harder haha
/r/seduction21/06/20 10:25 PM
2

Good stuff
/r/seduction16/06/20 11:25 PM
5

How do you approach?
/r/seduction16/06/20 06:09 PM
-1

No way
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:29 AM
1

Where are you from?
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:29 AM
6

what does that mean in practical terms? i dont understand it
/r/seduction27/05/20 07:21 PM
6

you start by saying that she looks fun and extrovert girl when you dont even know her yet? arent you giving value to her when she has not given anything to yoiu yet? you are complimenting her on something she hasnt proven
/r/seduction27/05/20 07:20 PM
4

There is plenty of girls why you have to hit on the one who is engaged To me it seems.lile she sees you as just a friend Also I think you are a troll
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:12 PM
1

sounds like good advice my dude! thanks you
/r/seduction06/05/20 11:30 AM
1

I see thank you, would you check just before the date? like, see you at this time in one hour, or see you tonigh, or just go silent? I usually, after setting a date, dont check the same day if we are stillm etting, I assume we are. But just want to know what you think
/r/seduction06/05/20 10:56 AM
1

When she says maybe, would you answe "ok let me know when you are free" or "when are you free?" It's quite a different question you know what I mean? The first lets her have time to answer. While the second intends for the answer to come right away
/r/seduction06/05/20 09:04 AM
1

I see, thanks.
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:19 AM
1

I see, that basically what I have been doing then, I don't understand the extra tip, you mean that if she says, she is not available, ask her to tell you right away when she will be available?
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:17 AM
1

I see!
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:13 AM
2

not always this simple
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:47 PM
2

the thing is, sometimes you cannot meet, for example now in quaratine, or you or her are busy so you can meet and you have to keep things "hot" for a while Another situation, is for when you get a number, it feels too cold to say, hi lets go for a drink, couple messages help "warmp up" I feel, but idk, im shit at this so nvm xd feel free to correct me
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:46 PM
3

how do you win at Call of duty? just click the heads bro
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:44 PM
1

and made STATEMENTS what do you mean by that?
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:44 PM
-9

isnt that what he is doing? doing stuff to keep himself busy and have a life?
/r/seduction04/05/20 07:51 PM
2

dont we always say assume atraction?
/r/seduction26/04/20 05:15 PM
7

Look I had a girl recently tell me she thought I wasn't interested in her because I was ignoring her. How do you address that?
/r/seduction18/04/20 08:12 PM
2

You aren't?
/r/seduction18/04/20 07:38 PM
4

do you ignore your friends so they "desire" you more?
/r/seduction18/04/20 06:49 PM
4

Insulting doesn't make my argument invalid
/r/seduction18/04/20 06:39 PM
12

Or get forgotten by every girl you had some interaction before the quarantine while some other dude talks to her...
/r/seduction18/04/20 03:52 PM
1

What about your date ideas
/r/seduction08/04/20 12:29 PM
12

too much reading into pua stuff made me a good first date but awful at anything longer than one month /facepalm
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:58 PM
4

Everyone on the South of Spain dress up door going out
/r/seduction02/03/20 11:26 PM
23

Yeah , if the girl was looking at him from the beginning he "only" needed to not fuck up
/r/seduction02/03/20 11:24 PM
1

could you find that pos for me please?
/r/seduction15/02/20 06:23 PM
1

That sounds like some good advice Thanks. What about when it’s too loud for concersation with all the group ?
/r/seduction15/08/19 10:48 AM
1

How do you do that? Just become friends? What I struggle is grabbing the atention of the group of the person I want to talk to in a loud envrioment
/r/seduction14/08/19 03:07 PM
1

The thing is, in loud envrioment like A bar with loud music, I find it very difficult to get the attention of Someone, more even difficult, more than one person. Also those topics seem too “serious” for casual conversation
/r/seduction14/08/19 03:06 PM
1

Whats your guide
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:47 PM
2

Lookout point, or however you name a place where you see the whole city, afternoon sunset and drinks after or before is now my go-to
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:26 PM
6

Is that daygame? And where are you from?
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:07 PM
1

What was thetinder concersation like?
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:35 AM
1

Good stuff actually thank you
/r/seduction17/07/19 10:16 AM
1

You ahould have asked for her number before
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:42 PM
2

Tldw?
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:50 PM
2

Wondering since Ihave never done it:)
/r/seduction16/07/19 08:47 AM
1

Had any results?
/r/seduction16/07/19 08:21 AM
18

the problem with this, is I find it no different than talking to a random stranger, how do you make it "speacial", or sexual, like, do you just flirt a bit, or more on the body language and way you say things?
/r/seduction14/07/19 04:40 PM
1

i was making out with her the first time, she was on my sofa kissing her neck and down her cleavage , touching her butt, and she would allow me to touch her breasts, or go any further, idk if maybe I was scalating wrong??
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:28 PM
2

might as well send it to me
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:26 PM
1

Totally agree
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:06 PM
1

I was at her car, she told me she had to leave and couldnt stay. I was joking on the date about kidnapping her and taking her to a desert island , and I made the joke while we were making out “i really want to kidnapp you right now” she said that wasnt happening, idk obvsiouslt fucked up at some momemnt, maybe thats the one like you say
/r/seduction09/07/19 05:48 PM
1

Some stuff I like in here, could you do a night game club/bar guide?
/r/seduction02/07/19 12:45 PM
1

Dm me
/r/seduction30/06/19 12:43 PM
5

Where do you go from after saying hi? Like qhat topic do you being up and how
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:36 AM
1

Man, i do salsa and I cant Push past the sexual point how do you do it
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:53 PM
2

Share a gif my man
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:41 PM
1

Well im 27 and she is 23. The thing is things do get sexual, last time she eas grinding while on top of me. But she didnt want to go further
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:54 AM
1

Yeah maybe she just needs more time
/r/seduction02/06/19 04:22 PM
2

I do like her. I dont mind waiting another date for I dont want it to feel too forced if we go on a 3rd date. I mean, I dont want to say lets go to my house and nothing to hapennaagain or her to feel forced something has to happen just be cuz
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:26 PM
1

She had sex before
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:24 PM
1

Yeah I guess so
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:23 PM
1

I never lied to her. What do you mean? I do get your other point tho
/r/seduction02/06/19 11:05 AM
7

She didnt want to. I tried to go up the shirt, and down the pants and she wouldnt let me
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:49 PM
5

Im pretty bad at creating sexual tension over chat, any tips?
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:54 AM
4

Yeah sorry, we did not have sex, we made out. Then she came to my place and we kissed and cuddled while talking for a while
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:53 AM
1

Maybe one second chance, whenare you free? Otherwise next girl
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:21 AM
6

try backing up for as an ass-to-ass dance. It'll get her horny too. L What does that mean
/r/seduction07/04/19 11:10 AM
1

what's your tips on texting and flirting on text
/r/seduction31/03/19 02:29 PM
1

About 1 you will VERY rarely find any person that denies you a dance in a social dance
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:56 AM
32

Come on be more obvious, this is a spam account
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:53 PM
2

How do you draw the line between desinterst and being rude?
/r/seduction12/03/19 11:41 PM
3

If I come here is to get help, not to have a random guy say “search google”
/r/seduction10/03/19 08:48 PM
1

Yeah, I dont take it very serously tbh. I try to have fun. I’m no expert at dancing I’m just atsrting to be ok at it. As I saod tho. When I’m in the setting. At the local dsncing club for example, tere is lots of people, what I do is get a girl to dsnce and then, after, try to strike just friendly conversation, but I just can’t. I struggle sooooo much it’s phisicslly painful. And it’s not getting better woth the time, so I dont know what to do
/r/seduction10/03/19 07:00 PM
2

Why do you talk in such broad terms? How am I suposed to find something worthwhile in the middle of all the pile of shit that random people qortenon the internet
/r/seduction10/03/19 06:56 PM
1

I have tried them. But I think the depper problem of mine, doesnt relatento building atraction (which im bad at) but at creating any kind of engament when I speak
/r/seduction10/03/19 06:17 PM
1

I get what you say. At the moment of truth I guess I am s bad story teller. I forget all the cool stuff I have done. And if the conversation stops. I can never tell if I should let it go or Ishould push it forward. I kind of hate, when I go out dancing, it seems that people make connections fast. While I struggle so much. It really frustrastes me. I dont even mesn in a sexual way, but in a friendly manner you know?
/r/seduction10/03/19 06:14 PM
1

I feel like whatever I am reading doesnt translate well into my personality I guess? Or I dont know how to apply it properly. I have noticed I am not good at this for a long time now. And I feel like I am not improving at all. It’s llke I’m missing something important, something crucial but idk what it is
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:39 PM
1

When having a conversation, I feel like my mind goes blank. I really have to push it through to make any dialoge happen. While my mind is working this hard it’s already diffixult enough to try and be sharp to put banter into the conversation. I feel like my concersations go downhill straigh away and they just die down without anything ever happening. They dont make any impact whatsoever (i feel). They even seem bland to me, even if I put a lot of effort. For example: yesterday I went to a party …
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:37 PM
2

Im not a great conversationalist (or however you spell that). I envy when I see a guy and a gorl talking and he is making her laugh. I just dont understand how to make engaging conversations I guess
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:14 PM
1

I dont know how to do that
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:01 PM
1

How to?
/r/seduction10/03/19 03:46 PM
2

Totally agree. Any tips on how to improve at that?
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:21 PM
3

Maybe yes, what would you do? Any tips or something that can help me?
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:13 PM
6

Your tinder elo is kept low if you reuse your fbook acount or mobile phone
/r/seduction05/03/19 04:20 PM
1

Go to another place?
/r/seduction23/02/19 11:11 AM
1

I do have anxiety thats true
/r/seduction03/02/19 10:46 PM
1

That is quite specific tho isnt it? How can I use this in other situations?
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:14 PM
1

how do you show vulnerability
/r/seduction27/01/19 04:09 PM
1

Not made any diference really
/r/seduction23/01/19 07:25 PM
0

I already know kickboxing you pancakeface
/r/seduction23/01/19 07:24 PM
1

You have a point
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:56 PM
4

Yeaaaahh that doesnt tell me much
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:55 PM
1

I really struggle with being sexual and flirty. Could you share any tips? I feel like or either push it too much and make it too obvious or just not make it clear enough.
/r/seduction23/01/19 09:55 AM
4

I’m 26y old. I do lift, and I am not very buff but people do notice I gym becuase I get coments sometimes. My dressing style is aight, mostly dress from zara and mango with sneakers like nike cortez and stuff like that. Jeans and polain color shirts with slim fit. I am sarcastic, maybe too much, that is true... Any tips on how to improve in being sexual? Anything is welcome
/r/seduction23/01/19 08:36 AM
2

Thank you I appreacite it. On tinder and stuff you jave to text a bit, girls here want to have some level of being confortable before meeting
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:22 AM
1

Im bad at the flirty joke thing over text man, do you have any tips?
/r/seduction08/12/18 12:07 AM
3

Maybe the problem is mine, I feel like I come off too dry if I just suggest a meeting
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:12 PM
2

Everyone in seddit days the same thing, but all my friends tell me to do some banter over text, and that works far better
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:08 PM
1

good stuff thank you
/r/seduction23/11/18 08:20 PM
8

hangover is a combination of dehydratation and byproducts of alcohol metabolism (or something like that). To avoid hangover: drink less, drink better quality booze and drink more water before going to bed and between drinks. Or get some IV saline, pills dont work, well, maybe paracetamol for the headache lol
/r/seduction15/11/18 08:06 PM
3

I would say, women will appear in your life, but to go further than saying hello with no more advances with them you need something more
/r/seduction12/11/18 10:02 PM
3

It doesnt give you resoirces in mu opinion, only tells you a wwy of living you life
/r/seduction12/11/18 12:54 PM
15

Something I struggle with is how much to tease, where to draw the line between teasing and being rude
/r/seduction12/11/18 06:31 AM
2

But in class you gotta dance with everyone that’s what I ment. At social dancing I do avoid her
/r/seduction01/11/18 09:19 AM
2

So just be friendly but nothing more, yeah? Basically friendzone her
/r/seduction31/10/18 10:45 PM
8

go to a proper barber and say, do wahtever you want
/r/seduction12/10/18 08:16 PM
2

nobody uses bumble here
/r/seduction12/10/18 08:14 PM
9

Tldw?
/r/seduction28/09/18 06:39 AM
2

So you like being choked?
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:08 PM
1

I dont care if the girl is a hoe and just wants sex, but they all say they are with someone on vacation then whas the point
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:50 AM
1

Do a nightgame for bars and clubs! Please
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:09 AM
1

I receltly moved to barcelona, I'm spanish tho. I truly hate p. Catalunya and ramblas all full of tourists😅
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:41 AM
1

Yeah man go on please
/r/seduction17/09/18 05:08 AM
1

Hey you
/r/seduction16/09/18 03:45 PM
2

Side bar is fuxking outdated and full of broken links
/r/seduction15/09/18 06:04 PM
1

Inspirational read thanks
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:23 PM
-14

I didnt mean the whole paragraph you dumb pancake, I ment what he says.
/r/seduction25/08/18 08:44 PM
-4

What do you base your statements on?
/r/seduction25/08/18 05:08 PM
2

Do you see girls and say this ine is hideous and this one is beatiful or sometimes say, this one is normal? There you go. I wild say you are normal. One pf the bunch like most of us.
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:18 AM
2

I wouldnt say you are a model, but neither am I
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:10 AM
6

You are fucking insecure, but not necesarily ugly
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:03 AM
3

I only need someone to take pics of me now
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:53 AM
1

It's not deleted ehat are you talking about
/r/seduction29/07/18 07:31 PM
3

I understand your point of view, as daygame may feel more natural maybe? The thing is do you open on the street or cafes and stuff? I just get a bit weird boarding girls on the street, kind of like a vendor feeling. I also have trouble carrying the conversation over to something "meaningful" and not just small talk. I feel that if the interaction is not notable, the girl is going to forget or not give attention.
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:12 PM
6

sorry if this doesnt answer your question, isntead I want to ask you one haha what has helped you the most at being succesful at daygame? like any recomendations on what to do or watch or read?
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:24 PM
2

Bro job no homo
/r/seduction10/07/18 05:17 AM
1

Hey whats your pepsi
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:31 AM
1

I casually found your daygame posts, was it a girl you met doing daygame or diferent?
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:04 AM
6

Thanks, you fixed my problem
/r/seduction10/07/18 01:42 AM
3

How did it go
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:32 PM
1

this is deleted, whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:08 AM
6

Idk if the class is like 1h, you will be with her for like 15 minutes or less? I do bachata and I wouldnt, take her to a social maybe?
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:31 PM
33

If a girl opens me and says "i just saw you and I though you were cute" you dont need any push pull or anything hienstly
/r/seduction31/01/18 08:53 PM
5

I find it extremly difficult to sepparate not looking for aproval and being a jerk :/
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:10 PM
1

Maybe?
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:15 AM
1

Cool ty
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:25 PM
4

Can I ask where are you from and what time do the clubs close?
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:22 PM
24

Fact: bears eat beets
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:28 PM
1

It seems thats the best solution!
/r/seduction01/08/17 08:32 AM
2

not well haha that's why I need some help
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:25 PM
6

Who is upvoting this rubbish?
/r/seduction31/07/17 06:33 PM
3

Hahaha yeaaaaah, thats why I was asking
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:08 AM
5

What country are you from?
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:24 AM
9

hello my name is EKSEKSEKSEKS
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:21 PM
1

You cant just say european because spanish are so much different from uk ones
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:55 PM
1

Museum
/r/seduction30/04/17 08:31 PM
6

You can save posts...
/r/seduction19/04/17 05:09 PM
2

What does sperglord mean in this context, never seen this word before
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:31 AM
3

Link? I care❤️
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:27 AM
1

how different is it in the uk then? what do you do?
/r/seduction23/12/16 12:54 PM
-1

nice, I hope your sarcasm takes you far instead of saying like, uni club, gumtree or whatever
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:19 PM
2

how did you find her?
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:00 PM
3

Who says meaningless sex is not good? Sometimes that is what you want
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:42 AM
13

we did it reddit, we killed another website with our love!
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:17 PM
1

Op deleted everything why was it autistic I though it was alright?
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:16 PM
21

Neat
/r/seduction13/11/16 02:43 PM
1

Yes her friends sorry about that
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:25 AM
2

until the next day stand?
/r/seduction23/10/16 06:49 PM
10

that is not "friends"
/r/seduction23/10/16 06:48 PM
1

Link is broken
/r/seduction09/10/16 12:50 AM
1

I understand your point. I did read a bit of Models ages ago and he said to do things that are within your interest to meet new people. I feel that that all my interest dont really promote meeting people, and because of that, I dont want to pursue them. I feel like I need to meet more people, but dont have the means.
/r/seduction04/10/16 12:03 AM
1

Yeah i went to uni, I like it quite a lot, but it is exhausting at the same time and Im working abroad, I been here for one year ang go back home every 3 to 4 months or so. Pay is ok,nothing extraordinary.
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:54 PM
1

I'm 24M I sent you a pm
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:22 PM
2

Thanks for your answer, I knew this topic was well beyond seduction, and more on the inner self when I was writing my op. I guess finding things that make you "interesting" is just a game of trying stuff until you find something that fills you? I wouldnt even know where to start, how do you go around that?
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:09 PM
2

sorry if the question is stupid, but how do you make yourself valuable, if that makes sense?
/r/seduction03/10/16 10:24 PM
2

so how do you avoid trying to validate yourself? because when we meet a new person, we try to do so we are likeable, isnt it? what should you do instead?
/r/seduction03/10/16 09:41 PM
2

You are totally right, but when I am on a conversation I seem to go on autopilot, and the inner needines comes out, I feel like a social inept sometimes. How do you overcome that?
/r/seduction03/10/16 06:00 PM
4

So basically questions that you would ask to anyone if you were interested in them, uou could be asking this to your friend or to your father and it qouldnt make any difference
/r/seduction23/08/16 11:20 PM
2

Good man!
/r/seduction23/08/16 09:15 AM
1

When you talk about agree or disagree and tell the truth what do you mean by that
/r/seduction22/08/16 12:08 PM
1

Oh btw do you approach single girls o groups?
/r/seduction21/08/16 05:42 PM
1

Hopefully someday I overcome this anxiety, I really hate myself for not pushing me harder sometimes
/r/seduction21/08/16 04:20 PM
0

Sounds like very solid advice I wish I wasnt so scared of approaching
/r/seduction21/08/16 03:59 PM
2

You seem really good, what are yourtips or topics to talk about just after opening?
/r/seduction20/08/16 08:18 PM
0

depends were you are, spain south america, is two kisses, everywhere else I would hug, but then again, not too sure
/r/seduction03/08/16 07:40 PM
1

PUAs hate him, you won't believe what comes next!!!1!!1!1!!!!!!!11111111111!11
/r/seduction01/08/16 10:10 AM
-5

Have tou msg thw girl already? Good story btw me me chuckle
/r/seduction19/06/16 02:38 AM
1

You are not more relaxed when you smoke, you are nervius when you dont smoke because you are addicted to nicotine
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:30 PM
5

me too, thanks
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:29 AM
112

maybe you are a dick and you don't realize it
/r/seduction17/04/16 05:38 PM
1

is the girl called robyn and is she from canada?
/r/seduction28/01/16 11:04 PM
2

I'm curious I feel like I m an introvert but I like meeting new people and talking to them, the thing is I don't feel like I am myself when opening a lot of people. How do you meet girls then?
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:41 PM
5

what about the daygame then
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:20 AM
87

maybe its a stupid question but, how do you lead the conversation after saying hello, for example: me: Hello i just saw you and etc girl: Hi, nice to meet you my name is whatever me: ... I just don't know yet how to carry on the conversation after, any tips?
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:44 PM
1

Just pulling your leg man
/r/seduction24/11/15 04:03 PM
4

It's endovenous as in endovenous medication, of course.
/r/seduction23/11/15 11:43 PM
2

I gave trouble going on after that, she may give me the eyes and laugh but if she doesn't say anything I find it difficult to carry on the conversation, I just don't know what to say
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:05 PM
3

In all my life I haven't considered ever outsourcing laundry hahaha. Different thinking I guess.
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:37 PM
2

Time is too short to do your own laundry. Huh?
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:26 PM
1

What I wanted was practical use, not more of this theory on paper.
/r/seduction24/08/13 10:15 PM
3

Well yeah I am scared to do it myself. And since I have no clue I wanted some insipiration.
/r/seduction24/08/13 10:11 PM
3

well, yeah, you are right
/r/seduction01/11/11 04:59 PM
5

doesnt matter, self posts dont generate karma
/r/seduction01/11/11 04:06 PM
1

I hnestly don't know waht I'm searching, I like th way she is, and I reall enjoy being with her but I dont want a serius relation because of the distance, also she texted me the same day that she really liked me, just additional info :P
/r/seduction15/05/11 12:53 PM
4

read man, it's obvious...
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:45 AM
1

so it's fine
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:03 PM
1

maybe it's for my bad english but what do you mean with the last setence? :S Also I think it's importatn that if you are going alone not to creep, last night I saw a 50 year old man in a night club full with 20 and 25 so yeah, creepy and disturbing lol
/r/seduction02/04/11 01:51 PM
8

there is a book Intimate Collections, by David Burn that talks about being alone, and he says exactly that when you think you are a weirdo for beeing alone at a night club you are overthinking it, for example, do you really think about other people being, or not, alone in a night club? BTW I'm also from spain :)
/r/seduction02/04/11 01:32 PM
2

i think my problem is what can I say after aking the basic questions, since I'm 100% confident i have to appear to be confident so I need some kind of path to follow so I don't get too nervous, would you mind giving some clues? :P
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:21 PM
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