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I usually don’t go older than 23. I have a picture that my friend took when we were at a park, im wearing a pink crochet crop top that in made, high rise mom-like shorts and a white dress shirt. A mirror picture of me at the gym, but it’s a .5 and im leaning both my arms up on the barbell that i was using for squats. And i was wearing an oversized sweatshirt in that picture, shorts and my crocs. The other on is another picture my friend took, but im wearing a black crop top, mid rise jeans, and …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 04:17 PM
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I said thank you and that i maybe should give up the apps…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 03:37 PM
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I dont know, i tried asking him but then he started being immature. By that I mean, I asked if i could ask him a question about it and what he meant, he said yes and then when I asked, he left me on seen. When i asked why he was doing that, he said that he only said yes to me asking and he didnt have to answer. So, he’s not someone who i trust to give me honest feedback anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 04:40 PM
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Ive done that. Ive dated a few guys who was probably a 5 at best, they were short (5’6) and not that attractive in the face. It wasnt any different. I know im not unattractive, if i lower my standards any more for looks im risking just not being attracted to them at all. Which means no sex and no physical touch. That doesn’t sound like a satisfying relationship for either party.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 04:28 PM
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Yeah I’m sorry, i misunderstood when you said flirting and I thought you meant verbal flirting. Like saying cute, witty things which i do from time to time just when the moment calls. I didn’t know those others things counted as flirting too so thats my bad. Anyways that you for the feedback anyways!
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 05:29 PM
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I didnt mean that indefinitely… i am just not the type of person who randomly touches people i just met and i dont like when people do it to me, i like to respect peoples personal space and i would like for people to respect mine. Once again, i smile and i laugh and mess with my hair. Thats not flirty to me, thats just how i act around a guy that I like. All of this is being shown on date one and date two. So im not worried about the friend zone and ive never been put in the friend zone. Guys pu…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 05:24 PM
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I havent even met a guy who actually wants to take me on dates, at least not consistently. And i dont consider most of those things flirty so I have done those before. Although im not very touchy, and i dont like to be touched. I dont really worry about the friend zone, they have to know im interested considering i most likely met them on a dating app and if i am complimenting how they look. Plus i know they find me physically attractive…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 05:13 PM
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I feel that i am the only one who’s trying to keep things fun without just making it about sex. I dont interview them or anything, ive always hated when talking to a guy feels that way and when it does then i dont want to pursue things tbh. I tell jokes, funny stories, i try to keep it fun. I flirt, not a lot & in a non sexual way. So idk…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 04:55 PM
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I am trying my best to keep pushing and not let this discourage me, i little hard but still. It’s just getting harder to understand why I haven’t met a guy who would appreciate me but again it may just be the apps. Either way thank you for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 04:25 PM
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I’m not sure if I understand what youre saying so I’ll try my best to understand but im not sure if youre trying to say its wrong for me to expect a real date or that i am expecting too much from someone i meet on dating apps, cause my issue that these guys dont ask to do anything close to a coffee date, they just invite me over or invite themselves over to watch a movie and “chill”. And if there was a date, it was like once or twice and then they go into asking to do the same thing. But i also …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 04:12 PM
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I mean I’m not expecting elaborate dates at this age, i know that a lot of guys my age aren’t even remotely financially successful cause im not either lol. But I do expect to do some sort of activity like riding the electric scooters in the city, getting boba, seeing views in the city, etc,. A lot of my friends are actually in relationships and their boyfriends did start by taking them out on dates for dinner and things similar to what I mentioned. I just know now that when a guy is only invitin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 03:57 PM
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I wouldnt say I am trying to force them, but im trying my best to max out what I can is the best way I can put it. Just sort of upset by getting the same result every time. But i probably do need to expand my social circle, i dont really make many friends and especially close friends. It’s actually one of my goals when i move soon.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:05 PM
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Im 20
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:04 PM
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I dont know how to edit on here but basically here’s the TLDR: Basically I've tried hard. But none of it seems to work and im not meeting guys who just naturally want to take me on real dates or commit. And i dont have issue with getting a second, third, fourth "date" and so on. Just real dates. And cant tell if thats because they want sex or not. So i cant discern if its just that i am meet the wrong guys or if i am just not doing enough or if im just not enough in general. And in addition to t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 10:42 AM
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Yes, the oldest I’ve dated is 23. Normally, they dont end up in a relationship with others. I think thats happened like three times out of like 10 (I’ve only slept with 5, to clarify so theres no confusion lol)
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 01:12 AM
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Well what i mean by im confused, its not by the information on the sidebar. It’s how it relates to me. I mentioned in my original post, but I’ve looked at the RMV list posts and there isnt much on there that im not doing already and yet still no commitment. So then looking at the category of men post, i would be dealing with category 2 men (only sex, no relationship). But i have a hard time viewing a lot of the men I’ve dealt with as better than me, most likely average, so most (or all) men must…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 01:07 AM
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I also want t mention that I originally came here because i was so tired of being told to just wait for the right person to come along. And when i came here it seemed like i could get practical advice on how i can speed up the process of getting a boyfriend rather than just waiting around and hoping, I’ve always felt that theres been something that im doing wrong. But sometimes as reading the wiki/sidebar, i feel more confused than ever.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 11:58 PM
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You’re absolutely right, this gave me a lot to think about and i had some new realizations because of it. Thank you so much !!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 07:39 PM
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Thank you. I think in the moment i get too concerned with how i make them feel like if ill make them feel creepy or uncomfortable by expressing this than how i feel if things were to keep going. I most definitely need to speak up for myself more and probably work my insecurities and people pleasing cause that’s probably what theyre picking up on. Thanks again !
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 07:38 PM
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Thank you for the advice! I think i do need to be more prepared to hear not so favorable or ideal responses from them and to not perceive it as a loss or a sign that im doing something wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 07:36 PM
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Also thank you to anyone who commented on my last post, sorry I didn’t to say thank you to everyone there but there was a lot of good advice which is exactly why im back so thank you for all your help!! And more about my femininity, I’ve always heard from men that I’ve been with how nice it feels when i like hold (so having their head in my lap or giving them light scalp massages, etc) and they also seem to enjoy hugging me and I’ve always heard that a feminine woman is soft and pleasant to be a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 07:35 PM
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Honestly, im gonna put you on but I am new to this sub and not entirely familiar with red pill ideologies but the podcast nice & neat talks a lot about what i see as red pill ideologies in a healthier way than just pearly things and f + f do. They talk about a woman subjecting to a mans leadership, being submissive, etc. i would suggest checking them out and seeing what they have to say.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 05:39 PM
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By pushy i mean they either pushing my head to start giving them head before i can even say more or there was some miscommunication where i thought they were checking in, asking if things were okay when they really meant if it was okay for them to be inside me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:07 AM
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They usually always compliment how i look and how they think im attractive, unless guys will say that even when they dont mean it then im sure im batting within my league. Plus i feel like i have a good sense of who would be attracted to me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:03 AM
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Thank you so much, this was so helpful. I really appreciate all the time that you took to make this response for me!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 07:38 PM
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How should i go about expressing boundaries in a feminine way? I read this https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/pq6lz0/back_to_basics_september_doormat_vs_deference/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 i read this post about submission and deference but I havent found much else. Im really trying my best to do my own search for info but sometimes its hard to find, im sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:45 PM
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Never mind , i believe i found some info that im gonna look through
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:20 PM
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I read the post, but the things that stuck out to me is well one what is girl game and how do I improve it? Also there havent been many men that I’ve slept with that are ready to kick my to the curb after sex, so i guess it makes me wonder where im going wrong then. Is there any posts on this Reddit that have like a summarized but detailed answer for my question about what is girl gam and how to improve it, since I’ve searched it and the most ive seen is about being fit (which I am), having a ni…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:17 PM
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Thank you, I’ve started to look at them now
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 05:33 PM
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Okay than you !
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 05:30 PM
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Im going to reply to both comments and my intention isnt to discredit what youre saying but to make it clear that i have at least attempted to do the right things and put in the right input. I wouldnt dress promiscuously for any ”dates”. At most i were a crop top that shows no cleavage and jeans that are mid rise since they were often casual, but I dont know if this counts as not dressing appropriately. Also I would try to keep their hands in appropriate places or if i felt things were moving to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 05:28 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:09 PM
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Thanks i guess but i dont appreciate being called easy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:08 PM
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I mean this is my experience with every man that i have met. It’s also the experience that a lot of my friends have had. This seems to be how men work and how they want things to go, so i did things their way. It starts to look like the only way i can get into a relationship is to have sex with them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:06 PM
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I didnt suddenly decide, I’ve been telling the men that i talk to that i dont want to have sex with them unless they care about me or wanted a relationship since the guy i lost my virginity to.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:56 AM
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How much does my value go down (I’ve had sex with 5 guys) and how badly does this affect my chances of being relationship material? Also how do i retain the value that i have left if a guy i saying we have to have sex before the relationship? Cause the only guy that seemed to want relationship was upset when he found out that i wanted to wait until a relationship or until i knew that was going to happen when i had sex before (even though I told them the same thing)
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:35 AM
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Ill proabably make a lot of posts in the next few days cause I have a ton of questions
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:20 AM
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