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If you go to Instagram and go to the discover people area—> contacts. you can find her IG handle. It’ll have her name most likely.
/r/seduction06/11/18 08:12 PM
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I don't think evaluating whether a girl has the similar interests, values, career goals, or sexual tendencies is immature or dis-considerate. I think all of those are vital to a strong relationship. And everyone is determining whether they want to be in a relationship with someone. Sometimes it is a person vs. being alone or sometimes its a person vs. another person. It's not uncommon. I just simply asked the internet because I needed advice. Would not give two fucks if I were on the opposite en…
/r/seduction31/12/17 02:50 PM
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Ha yeah not worst problem to have but yeah I agree it does seem to happen like this. I was considering the coin flip so maybe will go with that eventually. But I guess you're right I don't need to figure it out exactly this second. I am afraid of making the wrong choice when the time comes though so figured I would see if there were answers on here.
/r/seduction27/12/17 08:57 PM
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100 Percent Agreed. I've been off seduction for a while but back when I was really into it, it was always get the number and then wait for the first date where it's one on one. I find I am so much better in a date scenario for some reason.
/r/seduction29/10/14 09:13 PM
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Yes, my arms were touching her arms, and I actually put my palm on her arm a few times to make an emphasize on somethings I said. At one point we did lock eyes and it looked like we were going to kiss, but it just didn't happen, and I got really nervous — butterflies in my stomach, lol. Also, does holding a girls hand when you're walking in public mean anything? You should have kissed her. The only reason it didn't happen is because you didn't go for it. It's always going to be nervewracking the…
/r/seduction27/06/14 01:06 PM
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I'm kind of fucked up right now but bear with me. I hugged her and I decided to sit across from her on the booth because I wanted to see her body language, and if I sat next to her I felt that it would be more awkward and I wouldn't see her body language On any first date I always hug and then give them a kiss on the cheek. I've been told in the past that it was a sign of confidence or some shit like that. Also, if you're going to move the date to a second, more intimate location after dinner (i…
/r/seduction27/06/14 05:12 AM
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On the day of the date or maybe the day before I usually just go with, "Still on for tonight/tomorrow?". If you've played it right then they should have no reason to flake and if they do flake (without mentioning a rescheduled date) then they're probably not interested/worth your time.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:46 AM
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Didn't really think of it like that but looking back there were times of her trying to validate herself to me. Look forward to more of your FR's.
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:08 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction25/06/14 03:25 PM
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I'm usually very low energy. Very casual and relaxed in my approaches. It works well for me. I'm a big fan of jon matrix. If you haven't checked out his videos I recommend them. This one in particular. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SeXChGNEQHA&noredirect=1 As for looks, I'm not the most attractive guy either. I take care of my self tho through working out and follow r/malefashionadvice. It seems to help.
/r/seduction25/06/14 01:12 PM
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I don't keep count but I'd say half the time they're responsive, half the time they ignore me. Have you worked on how you look and your tonality when you open? I'm usually smiling or have a smirk on my face and keep an even tone.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:51 PM
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Yeah of course. To be honest I wasn't worried about closing. Not to sound like an ass, but I'm seeing a girl tonight that I closed last week so it wasn't the most important thing in the world. If it happened it happened. What I really didn't want was a girl who was super tense while it was happening. That is no fun for anybody involved. Especially considering she was stone cold sober. So we're laying there and I brought up something from earlier in the night (she mentioned vacationing a lot with…
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:36 PM
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Yeah you're right. Different strokes for different folks. As for fun activities after date three I was a little lost once I first started getting to that point with girls but I find bringing them into the things I personally like doing works best. Seeing a live show, going rock climbing, museums, exploring the city. Also, going for a run and then just hanging out by the water is actually also really fun, oddly enough. I also like taking random classes in my spare time when I can so I'll invite t…
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:32 PM
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I like to position myself seated next to them at either the bar or park after the dinner. Ensure that your leg is touching their leg or your arms are touching. If they don't move their leg or arm away from yours its a pretty good indicator they'll be open to kiss you. Of the last 20 or so dates I've been on this has worked maybe 95% of the time. And the one or two times it didn't I eventually did kiss them at the end.
/r/seduction19/06/14 02:16 PM
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See I always hear that on here and from everyone I talk to but I've been on maybe 20-30 first dates in the last few months with most of them being dinner and never once had a bad date. The way I see it, if things become awkward on the date that's your fault and not a result of the setting of the date. I personally love going out to eat and trying new restaurants so I prefer dinner. Plus, it shows a lot about the girl if she offers/doesnt offer/ or insists to split the check at the end.
/r/seduction19/06/14 02:06 PM
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Decent guide but personally I always follow this with girls I take out. Every first date I go on with the exception of one or two has been dinner and a either a bar after/ or ice cream in the park (if they don't really drink). I think as long as you're both able to have a conversation it's a good date. In addition, I always give them a hug and quick peck on the cheek on the first date when I first meet them. I 've had girls specifically tell me later on in our relationship that they remember thi…
/r/seduction18/06/14 02:02 PM
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I met her walking on the sidewalk to the bus station. I was kind of zoned out and in my own world when I look to my left and see her looking at me. I hold eye contact for a second and just say "Hi". She says hi and I ask her how her day is going. We chit chat about a bunch of small talk, what we do, where she's headed, honestly nothing out of the ordinary. When I have to turn left I stop and move in front of her and say hey I have to get going but give me your number I would love to take you out…
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:31 PM
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My GF of 3 and half years broke up with me to get back with her ex around 7 months ago. I was SO FUCKING DEPRESSED for two to three weeks before I decided that to stop feeling sorry for myself and become awesome. Starting lifting and running more (had always done it casually), picked up rock climbing, took a woodworking class, and I decided to go back to grad school. Read models, really starting applying stuff from this sub and got a whole new wardrobe (props to r/malefashionadvice). Since then …
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:21 PM
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Didn't even think about it like that. She was a little taken aback when I asked when the last time was but I just replied with you brought it up and then I waited. But I will keep that in mind next time.
/r/seduction17/06/14 02:51 PM
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Ha maybe a comma would have helped. Yes that's correct, met her last week walking on the sidewalk and set the date up for Monday (last night)
/r/seduction17/06/14 02:49 PM
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There's always at least one.
/r/seduction17/06/14 01:47 PM
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Pull back. Say "I'm busy Tuesday and most of next week, I'll reach out later next week when I figure out my schedule". Btw general rule of thumb that I follow at least, always schedule the first few dates during the week. No Fridays or Saturdays. You should give the impression that (and actually have) better things to do on weekends.
/r/seduction12/06/14 06:51 PM
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Phrasing is important. Did you say "Do you want to have dinner" or did you say "Let's have dinner"? Also, don't bring it up again too soon btw just stop texting her and text her on sunday or monday for mid-week date. If she can't again and doesn't offer a different day she probably isn't interested.
/r/seduction12/06/14 06:30 PM
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Stop texting. Schedule a meet up as soon as possible. Say "Let's have dinner/grab drinks on X night. Choose the place, don't ask her where she wants to go. Seriously, you can't win a girl over via text and at worst you can make her lose interest and then you're shot.
/r/seduction12/06/14 06:13 PM
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Yeah of course. Happy to help. Last thing, promise. Once you get the number use texting to set up a date. Don't try and be funny or witty via text. It rarely works. Direct and forward. I usually start with a "hey it's boredrightnowx99 from x". She responds with something. I say "how's your day, week, whatever going" She responds. I say "Cool, Let's have dinner/get drinks on this day" That's it. If she says shes busy and doesn't offer another day I say "That's fine I'll reach out next week". I'll…
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:06 PM
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No problem. A few more things. Strong body language helps, shoulders back and stand tall. Don't nod your head to everything they say. Second, if there is even a little bit of rapport go for the number. I usually go with " You're pretty cool. Give me your number I would love to take you out" Emphasis on the give and not "can I have". Good luck out there bud.
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:25 PM
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I usually just do three things. Leg to leg touching is by far the easiest and simplest. Always sit at the bar if possible and just leave your leg/ pressed against hers. Also, I always notice something on their hand at some point too(jewelery/painted nails) and grab their hand and inspect it play with it for 30 seconds. Also, if she's wearing a sleeveless shirt or dress I usually mention something about her "guns" and then touch her arms and tell her to make a muscle. Really though, the leg to le…
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:14 PM
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Yeah it's important to consistently be conscious of making eye contact. A good way to do this without getting too much in your head is pick one eye and just focus on that. I wouldn't say super intense but I usually just try to hold it or be looking in their general direction. It makes it easier because you're not thinking about it too much.
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:37 PM
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Most of the girls I talk to nowadays are working so I ask them what they do (you can probably ask them what their major is). They tell me and then I always follow up with. "Are you good at it?" It's kind of an unusual question and I've found it piques girls interest. It gets them talking about why they're good at it, what they like it and such. You can build of off there. Another good one I use on dates is "What's your favorite thing in the world" You can learn a lot by their response". The girl…
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:28 PM
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Agreed, more importantly this girl chose to end things with you. At a fundamental level she is saying she thinks she can do better. Why would you ever want to get back with someone who thinks they can do better than you?
/r/seduction16/05/14 04:32 AM
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Don't. Meet someone else. There are millions of girls out there and you want to message some girl you used to go to school with two years ago? That doesn't make much sense.
/r/seduction14/05/14 04:48 PM
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Sorry to hear that bud. I went through the same thing about 5 months ago with my GF of 3 1/2 years. To be honest what helped a lot for me was cutting off all contact. Delete phone number, block on FB, instagram basically all social media. I got rid of all the love notes and pictures too. Bottom line is she thought she would be better off without you so don't keep her around. Some people can be friends with their exes. I don't really think its a great idea, at least definitely not at first. Start…
/r/seduction14/04/14 08:45 PM
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Thanks this makes a lot of sense.
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:33 PM
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The last two I went on a few dates with afterwards looking for something but they weren't as interesting to me as the first date so that was that. I had another first date last night (with same ending) and I'm worried it's becoming a trend. Maybe I'm overthinking things too much.
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:02 PM
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Well I don't really ask them out on a date unless I think they're interesting. And the last few dates I went on were girls I met in the real world. I'm wondering really if it's a good idea to wait even though I know I can close on the first date. Does that make any difference at all? or should I just keep doing this and hoping that I'll find one who keeps my interest?
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:29 PM
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Yes, that makes sense. I guess I was just wondering if it't dumb to wait going for the close even though you know you can, in order to build a better emotional connection.
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:13 PM
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hahaha laughed out loud at work as well
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:28 PM
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Thanks man. Great breakdown.
/r/seduction13/12/13 07:19 AM
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Haha no worries. Thanks bud.
/r/seduction12/12/13 08:52 PM
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I know not necessary but I personally wanted to go out to dinner. I actually enjoy going out to dinner, getting out of my apt and trying new food. If she had cancelled beforehand for some reason I would have invited a friend and gone anyways. As I said in my inital post I went in with zero expectations and simply moved from there based on the vibe I was getting.
/r/seduction12/12/13 08:43 PM
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Thanks I look at it like a supplement approaching women in /daygame. If you look at like an extra way to meet women as opposed to the only way then I think there is nothing wrong with using it. If you get laid just once through Tinder that's one time you wouldn't have otherwise.
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:37 PM
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Talk on tinder then transition to cell phone after a few (10- 20) messages back and forth. Say something short and brief. Lets talk off this app, what's your number? (although I like what you say too) Once I get number I keep it at a few texts on my end then eventually drop something like I'm free this wednesday let's get dinner. I try to keep it light over text to ensure a meetup which is always the main goal.
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:15 PM
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So I just got this text saying "I think my strep is back. So I may have to bail tonight. I'm so sorry :(" Not sure how to respond. Is it a test because of the "may" have to bail or am I just reading into this way too much?
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:33 PM
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Thanks man. I will do just that.
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:05 AM
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I responded before you responded. "I said I respect that. Friend dinner it is. I'm going to move the dinner to some place less intimate in any case. Probably this restaurant. " She said "you're the best. Thanks for understanding. I love that other restaurant." I guess we're still on for dinner for now unless you still think i should scrape it. But I'll definitely back off verbally. This shit is confusing though. I have no idea what I'm doing sometimes.
/r/seduction21/10/13 06:15 PM
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Thanks man good advice. She responded she can't come to dinner then. Doesn't want to ruin friendship. Should I just try to go out back or scrap the dinner completely?
/r/seduction21/10/13 12:45 PM
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