So I've been a long time lurker on reddit and seddit especially. Have been focusing on inner game mostly but have been reading a lot of posts and trying to internalize them in the way I carry myself. Anyways I went on a date with a chick I met through Tinder tonight and it went awesome. It was the first time we had met in person. I came into the date with absolutely zero expectations honestly just wanting to have a good time and get to know someone. We met up for dinner and throughout dinner I made sure to keep strong eye contact (focus on one eye is the best advice I may have gotten from this sub). That and project strong body language. Conversation is flowing throughout and I began thinking there may be a chance for something more. I tell her at the end of the meal that we're going to another bar after. She accepts with little hesitation. We get to the bar and I begin escalating. Leg on leg contact, casual arm grabs during convo, hand on back etc... I then begin leaning shoulder to shoulder and put myself very close face to face to hear her above the crowd. At some point she's talking and I decide I want to kiss her. I'm in my head for about 20 seconds contemplating how to do it and then say fuck it. I just go in while she's mid sentence and make my move and she's all about it. We make out for a little then I pull back and continue the convo as if nothing happened. Every once in a while I look her dead in the eye and go in again. Every time I get a little more aggressive (hands on ass, hold her harder, pull her a real close etc) After about an hr I suggest we go back to my place around the corner. We get back and get after it immediately. We bang twice before she has to leave to get back to her place. Overall it was an incredibly great night and exactly what I needed.

A few things:

Don't go in expecting anything. Main goal should always be to have fun and see what happens from there.

If you want to kiss her then do it. There is NO reason not try.

Even after K close there's no need to end it there. If she's into it keep escalating again and again and it makes it that much easier to f close that night.

This sub has changed everything about the way I carry myself and interact with women in the best way possible. I just want to say thanks to all who post and provide insight.