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So happily ever after aint really an issue if I can keep the moolah?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 03:55 AM
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Speaking from prior experience?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:52 AM
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Graduated with 30k in debt 4 years ago. Tried being a teacher fresh out of college while having a live in girlfriend while sharing a house with 3 other dudes. The red pill gave me the frame to leave the toxic relationship behind and to to get my own place and switch to a completely different career than what I graduated with. 4 years and 12k paid off later my best advice to you is to view loans as just another hurdle between you and the day to day life that you want. Once I realized that my vice…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:13 PM
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These past two days have been weird... Like I lost thousands of family members. A moment of silence for theredpill redditors who didnt know to reach AskTrp for clarification and info...
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:56 PM
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Adding a controlled emotional expression to your toolset seems more efficient than actively molding women into your frame and likely yields the same, if not better, results because you stay that much closer to your center. Looking forward to the rest of your series.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 04:31 PM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 10:46 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:57 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:49 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:49 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:49 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:49 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:48 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:46 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:46 AM
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I can agree with women telling us to see things from a feminine perspective and that they are constantly striving to condition us to speak the way they do. I'd even go so far as to say that after a failed attempt of suicide in middle school due to low self-esteem, high school lunches spent in the library because social skills were beyond me at the time that I likely wasnt as well adjusted to a redpill frame before college (and even knowing about TRP community) as you were. As someone who shifted…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:46 AM
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Im glad vernacular matters more than content keyboard warrior
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 04:47 AM
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Back in my college days before TRP I ran into this in my first week of college, saw it as a challenge, and spent four years going steady with the "christian virgin". Lost my virginity to her two years in and she was a 7.5 so it wasnt that bad of an L initially. But the way she broke it off with me in senior year (just before graduation) and was down to be fwb while monkey branching to her hometown Chad made me realize one thing: The celibate/virgin types embrace hypergamy almost more than the av…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:41 AM
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I had the luck of having the same type of woman but she liked to ramble. I would just mute my headset, let her ramble, and play video games simultaneously. If she's willing to talk to you about anything I'd straight up multitask her. Its what I did and yea I'm in there now with the girl but we both have the understanding that I get sex and she gets the one guy that will hear her out on the weekdays. The real question is are you willing to do that? This is all moot if she doesn't ramble when she …
/r/askTRP16/11/17 06:17 AM
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Its was like that since day one. Attraction is not negotiable. This is the type of girl you can always drink beers with, explore different sexual kinks and positions with, and do the domestic life with. You're better off putting in time to set up a threesome with her. She's set in her ways
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:51 AM
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Try missionary and see if she either closses her eyes or makes eye contact. If her eyes are closed more times then not she just wants your dick and no amount of bedroom theatrics will make her miss you versus just being fucked. Thats where Im coming from when I say to be outcome independent - a lot of women have had so much dick they cant differentiate anymore.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:40 AM
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"She says yes and I tell her hmu when she goes" She assumed by your physique that you were alpha but by putting the conditions of you two hanging out in her court she viewed you as a beta. You made yourself a beta in her eyes by not proposing something concrete and definitive. I would ghost and use more concrete logistics next time.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:21 AM
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From my experience, women are more interested in you showing enthusiam versus recieving an orgasm. Maybe try being less outcome dependent with sex. Women like novelty and passion more than forced, mechanical intimacy.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:18 AM
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Such a fucking win.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:51 AM
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I was exactly where you were as a high schooler. Looking back the best advice I can give you is to focus on the resistance to rejection that comes from the Red Pill meta. Like you, I wanted to be able to aproach attractive women in college. I was the virgin VP of the chess club during senior year. No cred. I spent the whole of senior year cold approaching women way out of my league - to become numb to rejection. Within the first week of college I found a petite, Hooters-physique chick that I was…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:25 AM
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Tl;dr: You happen to have a shooters touch in your relationship, reap the benefits before you go cold again. You are better than me. The first 6 months of the relationship she was merely my "main plate". After that I tried monogamy for a year and my girlfriend went from being where your girlfriend is to resentment. During that year of resentment I became emotionaly recluse because of the passing of my stepfather and fell back from 60 hour work weeks to 40 hour work weeks. You'd better beleive me…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:15 AM
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CB is still commercially viable whereas CK lost all of his media power. Im coming from the perspective of power and status in terms of coming back
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:26 AM
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SMV... Great observation.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:24 AM
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If you compromise your happiness to placate others thats on you and you alone at your deathbed. I hope it doesnt get to that point friend
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:13 AM
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Also - I hate to say it but Ive had to step out of the relationship when she went too far. "Dread". Depending on your integrity you may have to resort to that but that fact that she is positively responding to distance saves you that trouble. Happy for you
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:01 AM
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Good luck man. I almost lost out on a "good woman" because of that. We're moving on to deep throating next haha... She just challenging you to be the most alpha version of self.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:58 AM
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My girlfriend pulls this. Long story short she really wanted to frame her last experience as lack luster so that I would think I was the best person she had had anal sex with. That speaks more to her no longer being emotionally attached to her ex. Id focus more on how her body responds than what she says. Just went through this phase with the GF.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:21 AM
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Okay, glad to hear. His comedy was very good for making the reprogramming of Redpill accessible.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:15 AM
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Women tend to rephrase past sexual experiences from the perspective of 'victim of circumstance' so that you can be the 'savior' as they try to do things right with you. It takes months, years, to get a woman to be transparent about actually enjoying slutty acts from her past. It takes a second to read the actions.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:12 PM
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That's what my gut was pulling at. I guess I'm more-so trying to make sure that I'm not some ammoral asshole and instead have some point of validation from the RedPill community: Beyond physical assault, it is the kino and cold-approach that a lot of women are claiming as MeToo but that it is only claimed as a MeToo experience because BetaBuck Jim had the bold male ego instead of the Chad she wanted to take home For the sake of trusting myself I suppose this particular component of MeToo is the …
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:41 PM
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Yea... Hit a wall, became depressed, then realized I can be redpill in his honor and have him live through me. Profit.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:24 AM
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Oh my god he sees everything. I wonder if he even knows of us.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:35 PM
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Aren't they all whores on some level? Show me where the remaining unicorns are with all of thine secret knowledge. Kek.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:58 PM
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"Faithfulness is scarcity mentality renamed for the masses". I wasn't expecting to run into such a concise, summative anti Beta Buck quote in the original post. Thank you for your wisdom and reference to your own experience.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:55 PM
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Open eyes... Check. Frame? Gotta work on that. Self improvement will me with her other future plates. Thank you for reminding me of what's important.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:44 PM
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It's the best time to start looking for other options to spin - cuffing season. Thank for all of that advice and clarification.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:38 PM
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What's your stance on the fact that in all other regards this is someone who my family likes, has willingly offered to pay for airplane tickets for both of us to go to Houston over the holidays to be with her family, and has been actively looking for new dishes and drinks to make for me? I'm not interested in marriage and honestly I'm considering the idea of a vasectomy. I'm not really worried about the ideas of "faithfulness" and "loyalty" because redpill has more or less tapped me out of these…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:36 PM
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Her being more sneaky next time Definitely starting to notice this more - her laptop used to not have a password on it and now it does. Guess I was better off holding those cards.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:27 PM
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9 times out of 10 they say that it wasn't Scooby Doo but some type of cat. That's when I escalate and ask "And do you still do that thing with your tongue?" If they call bs on the whole thing I say that I digress and leave it alone. None of them negate the 15 kids part explicitly. They just focus on the pet not being Scooby Doo lol
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:23 AM
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I bit her back and she smiled...That was the best thing I could think of
/r/askTRP06/08/17 03:01 PM
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She wants to hang out again so I'll try that. Uninhibited women outside the bedroom are rare
/r/askTRP05/08/17 04:07 PM
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Most of the sluts I'm used to have a lifelong pattern of frequent flings and never aspire for LTRs. What would you make of a high n-count gained during high school/college (16-21) that shifted to serial monogamish? I ask because I'm currently mindfucked to all hell right now by a particular plate. Like 12 dudes from high school through college and then a year and a half LTR followed by a two year casual FWB by one guy she wanted but could never get to LTR. The last four years show a shift in her…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:06 PM
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Haha, Alright. Diving the side bar.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:05 AM
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Reach with your hands and move her legs toward you. If she puts up any resistance she isn't yours.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:18 AM
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Let the plate bring up the idea of a relationship and even then, don't allow that shift for about six months if possible so that you can throughly vet
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:56 PM
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Break out some new moves. I think in her mind dancing is a form of physical intimacy akin to sex and she feels. I would either save certain moves for her exclusively. I think this comes down to her wanting other women to know your chemistry with her is incomparable to what you'd reach with a random woman. She'll probably give you less slack when you go out solo to dance too.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:07 PM
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You make your expectations known by holding and maintaining a frame that forces her to align with your energy. Plates should be self spinning. If you are putting in effort that should be dropped.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:31 PM
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You need to have abundance and have a hobby you prioritize over women that is active before you can attempt to hold the frame necessary for a red pill led LTR. In spite of that - please for the love of God don't be the first to mention being exclusive.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:27 PM
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FWB. ONS is free for all Edit: Cringe. Both.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:20 PM
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FWB. ONS is free for all
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:18 PM
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HIV/AIDS Kids "My best friend is a guy..." Has had an abusive ex Has had a multi-year fwb
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:59 PM
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Be neutral. In the future phrase it differently. "I'm going to X event" Let that person communicate a desire to tag along before offering.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:51 PM
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Women can teach men a lot about hypergamy. She's really just making sure she has the best possible chance to have the widest range of quality guys to interact with. So she keeps you around to compare to other guys. I wouldn't hold her monkeybranching against her - all women are like that. Hopefully you'll learn to look past that and enjoy that fact that sometimes it's just your turn on her CC.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:48 PM
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/r/purplepilldebate Is more up your alley. These red pill responses will frustrate you
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:18 PM
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It's dramaless to just live with your parents. This doesn't belong on a red pill themed subreddit.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 08:53 PM
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Agree and Amplify. Suggest that she hants out with her girlfriends more often and see where that goes. It might be better to see where her mind is.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 08:37 PM
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She'll have leverage against you of you being helpless without her and there is no red pill response to that. Are you prepared for that shut down every time you don't accommodate her? Things are good now but with cohabiting expect the worst.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 08:13 PM
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You don't care about girls nights out because when guys nights out happen you're going to do what you want with the guys and go. Her going isn't a red flag. You'd rather her have girls to hang with once in a blue moon. A woman in an LTR and no girl friends pays more attention to orbiters. You are in a good place.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:34 PM
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You don't control or use frame. You become frame. You have to value yourself and be able to walk away from anything that does not agree with your expectations. That takes time. The prequalifiers we talked about are something to do while developing your frame. You have to feel comfortable with where you are in life before you can even attempt to project frame to a woman.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:44 PM
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Prequalifying doesn't always take the form of a question. There's a lot of work out there in the manosphere about that. Corey Wayne was where I first found out about them. An example would be walking up to a woman and saying "Hi, my name is ------". This allows a woman to either reply with her name or just say hello back. The woman that responds with a name is comfortable with you. The woman that responds with a name and asks how you are doing is interested. This is an example of harmless day ga…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:06 PM
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That's a shit test. She's hamstering and doesn't like to hamster. Instead of using words to tell her what you want use kino and a well planned night out to convey that. She'll thank you later for passing her shit test.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:59 PM
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You don't use words to reassure her. You date her and fuck her good. Then you cite the fact that you are still dating her and giving her wild sex as proof that you aren't going anywhere. Maintain dread by never explicitly saying you won't leave. Just remind her of what you've done within the past week to remind her you are interested in her. Found red pill a year into an LTR and it is definitely possible to maintain frame while incorporating dread as long as you are sharp and still date her.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:57 PM
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You aren't getting rejected more - you are finally realizing that AWALT. Instead of taking the rejection personally learn and practice the ability to predict how a woman will react to you by how the conversation is going. Eventually you will learn how to use prequalifying questions and will be able to read interest sooner with less investment. Each rejection today is fine tuning your radar and encyclopedia on shit tests to pass them with tomorrow's HB10. You want the pain fam.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:53 PM
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For the remainder of your time at this job you should focus on brief conversations at work in passing. If I were you I'd want to reset your interaction with her so that once you leave the job you can have a clean slate. You begin applying red pill seduction after you leave this job and you only hang out with her around evening time. Lunch time pushes you into Oblivion. You don't balance your emotions, you listen to them and act on them in such a way that you look out for yourself first. I mentio…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:44 PM
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Redpill doesn't look the same for everyone. The man I used to be was a people pleaser, maintained social circles by compromising my own interests, and had low self esteem and wouldn't pick up in authentic interest from women. Looks, money, and status are all worldy evidence of "success". Spiritual success via the mastery of your mind and the ability to be resolute in who you are as a person is a form of Market Value that is intangible. I got into Rumi, a religious scholar and poet and started ta…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:23 PM
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Red Pill also doesn't leave any room for regretting blatant communication of interest or desire - you feeling awkward. I'm just suggesting that you focus on all of your interaction being more sexual and less 'comfortable'.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:54 PM
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Networking is the worst skill you could neglect.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:50 PM
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With out of town plates your primary objective should be to meet in person and NOT convey serial killer vibes. Now that you have accomplished that I would do everything BUT meet up in a neutral location. Her keeping location neutral, knowing you aren't crazy, means she has you pegged as an emotional tampon. Even meeting near her place is better than neutral. I would Skype her before I would meet her in a neutral location again. This is time that you are wasting when you could be cold approaching…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:36 PM
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You need to feel awkward more. Telling that woman how attractive she looked shifted her perception of you. Try to be more awkward from now on if awkward is synonymous with conveying explicitly direct sexual desire. My only tweak would be to incorporate humor.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:33 PM
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All I have is my own life to give you advice. I was viewed as beta buck the most when I had a salaried career fresh out of college. But the career and the status that came with it didn't resonate with me as a person. Three years later in a less glamorous career that gives me the free time to develop hobbies I'm now able to 'game' because I do things for myself and enjoy my life as I've laid it out for myself. My only advice would be to do what you love and follow your internal compass. Women can…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:27 PM
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You're getting to that part of life where your career and SMV, or how you fake it, matters as much if not more than the 'game' you mastered when you were younger and the playing field among other men was more even. This is where Monk Mode comes in.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:32 PM
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Being in bed doesn't mean you get to smash. It means you get the chance to smash. She'd rather be with someone who knows how to escalate.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:30 PM
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Women vote with their feet (proximity). Spin those plates NOW.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:17 PM
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That's a shit test. You've set the frame of not talking about work or problems with her and she's challenging that. If you tell her about work shell realize she can challenge your resolve on things you used to be adamant about. Unless this 11 month plate is someone you plan to LTR you have to keep her in the dark with work. Shit tests incoming if you start accommodating things you used to be adamant about.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:10 PM
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To be honest I became numb to rejection but employed shotgun mentality. Saved a year subscription to a gym and whey but got just as much pussy. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:01 PM
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A woman with that much experience with men, especially abuse, should be spun for a year. There's a lot of learned unhealthy communication and perception of self that she is hiding by learning the traits you value and then embodying them. If she has ever had a casual fuck buddy for longer than three months then I would remove sex as a sign of "commitment". That's moreso a sign of her being lonely and knowing how to accommodate a man. Listen to the way she articulates and communicates conflict. Do…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:57 PM
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You might not want to hear this but you should consider spinning one or two low quality plates in the background. Doing this always helped me to "pretend" I was talking to a woman of low quality woman while I was interacting with a woman of quality. Use mastered, RECENT interactions with low quality women to create and maintain a frame that high quality women are receptive to since at their core - AWALT.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:44 PM
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You've gotta have an open mind - but it'll help you to remove pedestals completely.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:34 PM
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What worked for me was setting the tone for completely transparent, safe-space conversation about past sexual encounters and craziest things we've done before with others. When you start to think of the picket fence shit remember that hoe-shit she did with Chad and it should help to keep her in plate status in your mind. Tl;DR - Learn more about her so that she becomes more AWALT and less unicorn.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:02 PM
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(How many 'n' millions she is worth) / (Age - N Count) * 100% Oprah Winfrey - Buy me a Ferrari Young woman low n - let's fuck Old woman high n - cougar city let's fuck Young woman high n - I won't be the father Old woman low n - prob a Bruce Jenner This is a 9am pre coffee approximation of course. Use this for your personal life with discretion. Thank me later.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:53 PM
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1 - I would place more faith on using silence to filter out the women worth your time. You probably loose more women than you gain for that second date by failing the "Let's text after the first date platonically" shit test. In my experience you can only small talk once you've had the type of sex that makes her respect you as an alpha. Until then, texting should be purely logistical. 2 - My response is a sideways approach to solving this. A women who doesn't give a definitive yes/no might be "un…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:46 PM
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I had the most success with Tinder back when I found Coach Corey Wayne - about a year before Red Pill. Tinder burns out really fast once you find the conversation dialogue that works for you for seduction. Similarly, once I reached that point and was able to set up sub48 hour lays the hook up aspect lost novelty. Wit, charm, and Dark Triad get you further on Tinder than looks. One concise suggestive bio will more than make up for a year in the gym (coming from a 5'5" manlet that never went to th…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:29 PM
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If she knows what your intentions are but keeps agreeing to hang out with you she wants you to lead the interaction in that direction with more kino and less blunt verbal wordplay. You're about one hour of perfect "two steps forward one step back" away from smashing that.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:24 PM
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Back in senior year of high school the "coolest" thing about me was being Vice President of the chess club. I was determined to step outside of my shell and be able to talk to any woman when I got to college. I spent the whole year walking up to women way out of my league and saying "I want to put you in check mate". Did I get numbers senior year? No. Did I make a few women smile? Sometimes. Did I become numb to rejection? Yes. It's an uphill climb from where you are. You have to become outcome …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:21 PM
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Shit test guide
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:53 AM
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You have a good read based on your interaction with her so far. The reason you aren't the boyfriend up her sleeve is because you communicate verbally instead of physically with her (probably). If you ever wanted to be more than an orbiter with a woman like this it's best to spontaneously hang out one on one for drinks and escalate. If you were never gonna smash from the jump better to know sooner than later. But if you are risk adverse, just next.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:05 AM
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Without context... Learn the pet peeves of the person in question and then become those pet peeves.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:00 AM
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Not life changing insights but the ability to befriend women for future SMV inflation is valuable. Back when I was a teacher there were women everywhere that I had no interest in fucking but that we're attractive enough to enhance my SMV whenever I would go out clubbing and to kick backs. More insights available upon request but the idea is that being platonic with women can enhance your goals in more ways than immediate gratification.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 03:50 AM
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The woman I'm spinning that has tattoos (about six) is hooked by aesthetics very easily can detach from sex in terms of intimacy and let it be a purely lustful experience with no sentiment afterwards. Tattoos are kind of like a signaling tool for others to show off physical features. The location of said tattoos says a lot about the body parts that person likes to reveal as "platonic conversation". Still no fucks given as long as I'm wrapped up.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:27 AM
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Aw fuq
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:19 AM
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What helped me to make that last jump and score was emulating Jack Sparrow. He had an exteme swagger, enjoyment of the present moment, and a smooth tongue that leaked of suggestive innuendo. In a nut shell he was polarizing. Now that you know how to interact with women it's time to become polarizing. Pull on emotions by being bolder with kino in person. Texting you want to lay low unless you are coordinating. The pull on emotions is what wakes up the feminine libido so take more risk in person.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:53 AM
1

They fucking killed Cesar. The guys at work hyped it up so I was like why not check it out?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:42 AM
7

For low value men only 1% are good for more than sex. The higher your value the more skills a woman will spontaneously develop or aquire to keep your attention and become closer to wife material. But I doubt that even a Chad sees more than 5% mariable.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:10 AM
1

Conversations where you are being criticized should be shifted to a tone that is more favorable to the outcome you want. I think there are just shit tests you have to learn how to pass.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:01 AM
2

Best thing to do is study the language​ she used when texting. With the proper prequalifying questions you can avoid this type of vain woman.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:46 AM
1

Control the terms of engagement more. Your availability is not 24/7 for her. Do not see her unless you are in optimal condition for seduction. Also, now that she has met you once she's likely to make it even harder for you to score. Two steps forward one step back with texting once she reaches out and agree and amplify when she calls bullshit on you not being as accommodating/available as you were before. Her bf is fucking up or else she wouldn't have met you. All you have to do is have a strong…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:20 AM
4

I would remove the restriction for both of you. LTRs are horrible if there isn't even mutual trust. Trust in her being unfaithful at the core if not given proper "attention" and be the best version of yourself. You shouldn't be worried about what she does away from you. You should be focused on not compromising your freedom.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:15 AM
9

You're wasting time with an emotionally unavailable woman who's draining your freedom. Hard next.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:56 PM
1

Engage and let it go as far as not meeting in person. Your LTR has no leverage against you if you haven't met in person.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:48 PM
3

I spent all four years of college in an LTR with a HB10 that I wanted to deflower. I succeeded only for her to next me as soon as we graduated with an old flame from her hometown. Life is too short to pedestal these women man. If they want it they'll make it easy. I missed a lot of experiences during those blue pill days and I wouldn't wish that kind of regret on anyone.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:29 PM
3

Follow her lead. She wants to be a victim of circumstance and "cheat". The core of red pill is that female sexuality is amoral. You're about to be her Chad. If it's not you it'll be someone else.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:23 PM
1

Don't drop orbiters especially if you aren't hanging out in person but just communicating via apps/texts. The mere threat of that keeps an LTR aware that you can produce validation of your SMV in the event that she gets lax. If you two are cohabiting though this goes out the window.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:18 PM
1

Ignore every text that doesn't convey her having anxiety about why you aren't setting up another date. The gift of silence is what should be used to make her hamster. Until you've laid that sack at least three times small texts are counterproductive and even then... She has to be an amazing lay to justify texting her when you could doing something else with your time.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:12 PM
2

The main way women sap a man's energy is by the threat of divorce, raising another man's kids, hamstring, etc. I might get slack for this but when a woman is interacting with a man that doesn't put her on a pedestal, has his own positive energy in so much surplus that she doesn't have to emotionally support him, and that can fuck her prioritizing lust over intimacy you can get about as close as possible to a non bs conversation with a woman as possible. I say this because gender aside you're mis…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:06 PM
2

You have interest already. You should find her availability, set up date, then go silent till the meet. I'd recommend drinks to completely remove the blind date Aura and just focus on rapport. And have a second spot to escalate if you feel like kino is worthwhile with her.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:55 PM
3

You lost your best plate but gained a higher standard for yourself. This is a net win if you can try to search for a higher standard and believe you will find it. The law of attraction is powerful
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:42 PM
1

Either someone more interesting came along or she is one of those broken women that emotionally plays with men to make up for a guy that did that to her a long time ago. AWALT. Grow and move on friend
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:35 PM
2

You know a 9-10 because your feels are likely to mess up your frame. 5-8 you'd probably accidentally impregnate and feel like it wasn't a complete fuck up
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:23 PM
3

You should have no guilt. From what you said she hasn't pushed for an LTR. A woman like that is looking for a Chad to string her along because she doesn't want to love. If it isn't you it'll be someone else. This is a self spinning plate man
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:17 PM
1

He's still in there. She wants to be a plate for him. If wants LTR he isn't red pill because she isn't that type of woman. She wants Dark Triad from your friend. He must cross over or next.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:13 PM
23

Strongly thinking it was expectation vs. reality when she met you. Sometimes the vibes don't align but you gotta kick her out next time
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:34 PM
1

AIDS
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:17 PM
4

With all of the red flags being spot on... "former hoes" and women with family problems are extenuating circumstances that should be viewed on a case by case basis. I think it means more in these circumstances to just spend more time spinning her than you normally would. Assuming a hoe is a woman with high n count. Fuck infidelity.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:15 AM
1

1 = Attraction from women generated via authentic projection of true self. 2 = Attraction based largely on aesthetics, materialistic measures of success. The only reason why they are blurred is because if the rare few who use 1 to accomplish 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 04:05 AM
1

I'm speaking from personal success stories on this one fam. If you are positivity and solid frame you can become a rock for a woman as such. I'm not saying to be an emotional tampon but even with this type of person if you can say you will walk away and mean it you'd be suprised how much the BPD can be minimized. Not to be attempted if you don't have solid frame however.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 03:50 AM
1

BPD can be trained and conditioned through manipulation and control. This is the most predictable of them all.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 11:16 PM
3

Small tits more loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 09:04 PM
1

HB7 with N count 17. It's 2017. I slut shame at 30 now because women go to college and shit now. Inexperienced women get bored once they realize they haven't played the field.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:00 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:16 PM
2

I'm exactly where you are at at 25 as of last month. I love it. My weekends are free now to play bass guitar and make music and my girlfriend is supportive of me taking time to work on my passion. My plan is to put music online and go to music venue to find musicians who vibe with my sound and form friendships with them. My advice would be to grind your hobbies and form friendships with like minded people who have similar interests as you. Those friendships are more likely to be authentic and li…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:59 PM
-11

Y'all have never met hot gamer chicks with their consoles. Such butt hurt
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 07:55 PM
1

Indeed.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:00 PM
5

I like how you were able to see that women at BSC but that the relationship between a father and his children is sacred. Strong wisdom - inspired.
/r/MGTOW27/07/17 04:13 AM
1

Try to imagine that you don't have ten years to get this right. You don't have a year. You don't even have six months. All it takes is one of the plates you are spinning hooking you TODAY by the feels when you were vulnerable and unprepared. That's where the urgency for the gym, reading, and texting/dating protocol should come from. Your mind is your last haven and you must fortify your defenses before you slay. TL;DR - monkmode
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:22 AM
15

Think about it from the perspective of time. Red Pill is a reaction to a society that favors women and tends to cripple men that are blind to the deception of it all. The amoral components of Red Pill that you are talking about are actually moral behaviors. Instead of viewing that a woman is innocent until proven guilty invert the moral perspective. This is easy to do when you have experience with women and have seen how close all women are at their core. By having a guilty until proven innocent…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:14 AM
1

As a lactose intolerant person what would you recommend as a substitute for milk in this shake?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:14 AM
2

What about the premade supplemental shakes? Like whey and such... Any idea of which of those is a good starting point?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:40 AM
1

Will look into the 300 push ups a day advice. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:09 AM
2

Long term planning is nice but when you fully grasp how infinite the potential of every second is you start to optimize your life on a second by second basis and channel your true self. It's an unintended consequence of optimizing every second that you end up becoming a centered person that never looses frame.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 01:51 PM
12

College girlfriend dropped this one on me back in senior year of college. You say you're cool with it and you seem like don't care about her anymore and you loose her "respect". You say she can't go and you become controlling and loose her "respect". You lost her respect somewhere. Best thing you can do is what I did - when she comes back become fuck buddies and end the monogamy.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 01:00 PM
2

Gold
/r/askTRP19/07/17 11:07 PM
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