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bringforththeg/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 10:57 PM
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bringforththeg/r/Divorce_Men23/01/26 07:27 AM
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I'm so sorry your girls are going through this.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 06:59 PM
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Welcome to life buddy!
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 01:43 PM
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Work on you. Get over her. Remain friends, you'll probably find she'll come back to you.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 04:14 PM
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This is really true. Everyone who knows me, knows I haven't changed one bit since I was a kid (always been a legend! My wife asked for a divorce as she outgrew me, we managed to fight to save the marriage, but she said something to me recently "I love you so much just the way you are". It was never me, I haven't changed one bit!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 12:18 AM
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Focus on you. What will be will be. But fixing yourself is the goal.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 07:52 PM
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I'd suggest working on yourself. Get used to not being beholding to her. She's not going to change her mind overnight, but maybe sometime in the near future, she might realise how much growth you've gone through, and potentially grow close again.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 01:47 PM
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Man, this is deep. My worst fear.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/26 08:57 AM
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Wow.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 06:36 AM
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This is what I'm currently experiencing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/26 01:35 PM
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Did you ever stopped to think you were the reason he didn't show you emotion?
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/26 04:06 PM
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I got a super king, but I'm tall. And still married at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/26 03:56 PM
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So it's the men's fault?
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/26 10:15 AM
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Been with my wife 19 years. We have absolutely nothing in common now. We go out for lunch & barely talk. I wonder sometimes what we used to enjoy about each other for so long. I remember us having great times as recently as 6 months ago.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/26 08:39 PM
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How old are you thinking?
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/26 09:40 AM
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Can you explain this please? I don't understand this. Accepting a divorce she doesn't want? Are you saying, she doesn't know what she wants & could be divorcing in haste?
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/26 09:36 AM
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I'm not sure about your situation, but you know, I felt like that when I thought my marriage was over (I'm still in the relationship, but realistically it's only going one way currently). I was asked to leave for a week. I was in a shitty hotel room in Dundee. Wife's the breadwinner with 6 figure salary, I live in another country away from family or friends, no support network, can't get a job. I thought my life is over if this happens. Not many days I haven't cried over the prospect that I know…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 09:48 AM
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You say you love your wife, but be honest, have you been happy? Are you happy?
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 07:25 AM
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Damn, that hit me hard. "The woman you loved is dead".
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 07:24 AM
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Hey man, I'm almost in the same phase. Throughout our entire relationship, she's threatened to kick me out or end the marriage, so for me, I've had to prepare myself for the eventuality. I've cried so many tears, I don't think I've got any left. My wife too is the breadwinner. It's gonna be tough, there will be tears, feelings of being useless, helplessness, but tough times don't last. I'm totally here if you ever want to talk.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 07:23 AM
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I've not drank or smoked weed for 3 weeks. I feel absolutely the same.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/26 02:56 PM
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And I'm healthy, I work out 3 times a week. I haven't weighed myself in a while, I could actually be 14.5 stone. I'm slim. Maybe I over calculated. Re: the weed, it literally doesnt affect me as it would others. I used to smoke 8 times as much. And I only smoke 7g while im not working. I normally smoke 3.5g a month when working. The equivalent of a qtr of a joint a day. Some days I don't even smoke, when I'm working. But I'm a responsible smoker, always have been. I don't smoke enough to ever ge…
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/26 12:07 PM
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You've read wrong. I don't drink much!
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/26 11:59 AM
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Yeah, I feel she does resent me, I resent her too. Not ideal. It's so fucked, if someone would have asked me 6 months ago, I'd honestly told you we have the perfect marriage. But there always seems to be some issue that she feels she needs to resolve that ends up disturbing that peace.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/26 11:47 AM
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Force yourself to buy non alcoholic beers. I had some in back of my fridge, only thing left after the normal beer ran out. Ain't so bad!!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 07:53 PM
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Wow this sounds quite similar to my situation. Only we've never seperated & I have no job whatsoever. She has a 6 figure job, friends, family close, lives in her country of birth. I literally have nothing. We have sorted out now & giving another go (for now). But it was a wake up call for me, to get my own shit together as I dont have an exit strategy. Not be completely reliant on my relationships for my own confidence etc. Build yourself up. Work on yourself. You are strong, you're worthy, you …
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 01:56 PM
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Thanks man. It's so scary. I've kept in contact with my wife. We are going to fight for the marriage with individual counselling (we had couple counselling & not huge amount changed). I just want to see my babies again.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 08:16 AM
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Man, i feel for you. I feel like my marriage is coming to an end & I'm shitting myself. I moved to a different country, no support network, no friends or family. I been a house husband essentially (she has a £100kpa job, so decided I'd take care of kids/house etc) so no job, the house is in her name despite it being both our money that bought house (i actually put in a further £50k). If we do break up I really don't know what I'll do. I'm currently at my parents as i was asked to leave & refle t…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 07:18 AM
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Man you're a hero.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 05:09 AM
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Sorry about that man.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 05:09 AM
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Sounds very similar to my situation. Not a toxic relationship & argue few & far between, but when we do, it kicks off & the kids see it. We tried counselling & put some mechanisms in place to stop these flashpoints, she hasnt respected those mechanisms, but because I blew up (because the mechanism was not respected by her, I'm the problem. Anything less than perfect is a bad marriage? Wow, I felt that!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 05:06 AM
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How do you cope with not seeing the kids everyday?
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 10:59 PM
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