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Ooh I like that. Thanks. Will do :)
/r/seduction19/05/16 08:17 AM
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Mate I'm just over 2 years into this. I'm 27. The trick to me is to access that state of mind of not caring what's going on. It took me a while (a year) to figure it out- but now I find my self (most of the time) able to switch into this 'mindset' when I'm out. I'll be just as brazen as the actual drunks. Except with an awesome trick up my sleeve- sobriety
/r/seduction19/05/16 05:17 AM
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Need to improve my text game. Can I get feedback on this I'm about to send? Met her, she was sitting on the street eating a pie on Saturday night. Haven't had much luck with my text game lately- normally I wouldn't ask (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4bhbcn) "Sup X. It's X. I met you eating pie's curb-side in [suburb1] Saturday. Cool new spot opened in [suburb1] . Free at 8pm?"
/r/seduction23/03/16 06:11 AM
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"Tis better to be thought a fool, then to open one's mouth and remove all doubt"
/r/seduction23/03/16 06:01 AM
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Im curious- if the game/rapport was good- when is it best to start with a text with OIC ? Eg "Sup X, [insert brief personal comment]. Lets meet at [x] for coffee at 8pm Wednesday?"
/r/seduction23/03/16 01:01 AM
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Normally I'd agree- but I did have super good rapport with her, and she showed a lot of interest at the bar. I think I'll just set a time/place to meet, with a small reminder of who I am. If I get no response- I wont care. Nothing lost. I guess my game is all wrong. My mentality is- I don't want one-night stands (tried that, didn't like it)- I want to get to know girls. I read/viewed a lot of paul janka's stuff
/r/seduction22/03/16 10:17 PM
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Hmm interesting. This is quite against what I've seen in other dating video's. I'm not convinced tho- I've picked up girls in a supermarket or on the street. Those environments are extremely hard to turn romantic- and often I won't have the time either. I'm also not into one night stands. I want to get to know girls. I don't drink alcohol which makes one-night stands particularly hard. I had a girl take me home last weekend, and just couldnt get myself to sleep with her.
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:12 PM
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Hmm 2 hours is a little soon- but I do think I should remind girls who I am. For this one, I am tempted to message her again, as I she was drunk so probably doesn't remember who I am. Any suggestion for a follow up message I'll send later tonight? Initial message: "X it's Brtjj. Manage to sneak x out of the bar in your handbag?"
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:10 PM
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Yes thinking about the feet is about shifting the self-defeating thoughts out (like "she'll reject you/has a boyfriend/is too attractive" etc). It also makes getting rejected easier as you never 'built' it up in the first place. With my 'dates' (drinks after 8pm at a bar I'm familiar with) I always put myself in the position of the 'interviewer' and make it clear to them they need to 'sell' themselves to me to be worthy of my time (somewhat jokingly- it's a fine line). I ask personal questions a…
/r/seduction04/03/14 07:53 AM
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The icing on the cake was one of the girls didn't even want to kiss. Just wanted to fuck. A relationship isn't what I want, because I've gotta sort out my own life first (ie job, travel, startup or what). When I'm in a relationship I tend to 'bend' toward their wants/needs/ideas and forget about ME. I made a promise to myself to be more selfish. FWB would be ideal. I just don't want this jealously/obsession thing to develop. I need to be able to accept I might not be the only one sleeping with t…
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:45 AM
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Well I'm on the fence about it (95 days of No Fap). It does help boost the confidence and makes me 'feel' more sexually aggressive toward women (eye contact in particular). But at the same time, when I finally did get laid it wasn't a good time. I had nowhere near the amount of self control I did when I did Fap. I'm going to reach 100 days then I'm going to consider stopping.
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:29 AM
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Thanks for the insightful response. It's kind of like I want a relationship but I really don't. Reason is I don't want to develop this co-dependency with somebody else for my happiness. I needa figure out how to make me happy/content first. I see this as a weakness of mine. I'll drop all priorities in my life over a girl. I hate this mentality. It's like I'm too easy to please. As much as I hate conforming to the societal belief that men should sleep with as many women as possible, I see why. I …
/r/seduction03/03/14 12:47 PM
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So one so far coverted to a close. My game was pretty good, but the whole night I didn't think it would happen. Got no real signals, and couldn't get that close to her. My tips-kino (touch gradually more & more) & talk about sex (her first time, thoughts on group sex etc. ) All it wasn't great. First time I've been with a non girlfriend and I didn't feel much of an emotional connection. Un attached sex... Should add, it's been 91 days of NoFap/maturation (or sex). It wasn't good. I didn't psyche…
/r/seduction27/02/14 09:15 AM
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Cheers for that. No my only goal isn't just to kiss them. I'm attracted to all these girls on a physical level and I'm wanting to get to know them more. I just get freaked out-probably because I talk about it too much amongst friends. I kinda get the impression you have to get a kiss on the first or second date, or you're friend zoned. Is it possible to let them talk too much? When a girl gets in a rant I let them rip. I found a talk on sexual escalation (jared psych) petty useful
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:00 PM
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Yeah I like this approach- pointing out the obvious and confronting the social dynamic at play. Walking around today I'd say that the majority of women I want to approach are walking along with one or more gay friends. so I've really got to work on this. I'll report back
/r/seduction19/01/14 02:04 AM
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What are people's thoughts on the "I'm not your boyfriend" line when a girl asks you favours (like a lift home etc)...? Does it plant the idea/seed in their head that you might be later or something?
/r/seduction18/01/14 12:27 AM
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Just a quick one on text game. Sometimes I take ages to respond because I'm a bit lazy with it. Is this a good thing- ie seeming more busy than I am? Also, I've used this line: Her: We should go to that club together next week Me: Maybe, if I don't lose your number first. No response from her (yet- but she's a slow responder) Is that too much of a neg/obvious?
/r/seduction17/01/14 07:30 AM
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I've changed my settings so that non-friends can only see my display picture, and where I'm from. Now, I'm unsure how to treat this- do I keep it short and cheeky with the messages (treat it like texting) or do I want to find out more about the girls (well, one in particular I met in the fruit store the other night). Is it too forward on first message to ask her out for a coffee/drink? My vibe is that she's a more conservative/reserved girl...
/r/seduction08/01/14 07:05 AM
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