Hi,

In the last 5 days I've had 5 'dates' with very attractive women. I'd met these girls at supermarkets, on the street, through a friend etc. With all I kept it direct/confident- inviting them out for a casual 'drink'. All were all one-on-one.

All failed (not even a kiss), and ended with the 'let's do this again'.

About the dates- my style is I keep it cheeky. I let them speak a lot 80% of the time. When they ask me things I keep it a little ambiguous. I ask about sexual things, relationships, social interaction, their family etc. I invent a scenario where we are sexually involved (like it's the end of the world and we have to repopulate). I touch whenever possible.

I'm never confident I'm getting the right 'signal' from them I should lean in...

I just feel generally 'uncomfortable' about what I'm doing like I am betraying them or something. I hate this mentality and I need to block it out.

Anyone else on this boat? Any suggestions?