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You have basically all of this shit wrong man. His big fat ego in the way isn't helping either...
/r/askMRP31/05/26 07:23 PM
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Come back to the real world. Stop the fluffy BS. Sidebar, lift, and STFU. The basics are needed for you.
/r/askMRP21/05/26 11:20 PM
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Business I do consulting/advising in my area of speciality. What you are missing is that people (clients, accounts, projects etc.) want consistency more than anything. Relationship development is a major part of bus-dev.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/26 02:20 AM
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wife is 36 LTR 5 years What does this mean exactly? You are married or is this an LTR?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/26 08:21 PM
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I know she can't cum from the dick, which doesn't bother me Sure... In comparison, the 19yo would cum like a machine gun, but giving a 5-second scratch, even she suggested it herself. Who cares? Honestly. It doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/26 05:02 PM
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To quote HOA from a few years back on the livestreams with WNS: "Your girl should be mate-guarding herself for you."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/26 02:50 AM
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Focus on you. Stay on your MAP. You are early on in your journey.
/r/askMRP22/04/26 04:58 PM
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That's almost identical to how my rundown goes for dating. I have a lot of experience over the years so it's pretty much a mental clockwork action at this point. Over a decade back, when I used to follow some of the old school PUA/seduction blogs, one of the key takeaways I took was zero kind of intimacy from a woman after the first two hang outs was an automatic next. I'm at the point now where if a woman isn't interested in me (physically) from the first hang out, I will soft next her and put …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/26 08:14 PM
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Dating/social You should consider approaching women that you are attracted to out in the wild. You are 35 years old, not 25 years old. If you want to get a better sample of women to add to the dating rotation, you need to start engaging with women the more you are out, living your life. I'm sensing an over investment in this 42 y/o (new?) plate. Who cares about her photos or what her profile is about. That's my issue with guys that only use OLD. You end up creating narratives in your head. This …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/26 07:12 PM
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/r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/26 08:20 PM
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You. Let's start with you. You are, if you are being honest with yourself, are 6 months into your MAP. You are still in the early stages of unfucking yourself. Women talk, a lot. You should understand this at this point into your MAP if you have gone through the entire sidebar, right? Mouth noises do not equal actions. Focus on getting a new job. This should be your main priority along with taking care of yourself, helping out with your kids, running your household, and (finally) worrying about …
/r/askMRP11/04/26 07:40 PM
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Start working on your 'social' area immediately. Guys with nice guy behaviours tend to lack in this area because of their ego investment and zero OI. Get out in the field and start practicing.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/26 03:55 AM
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Why are you still in this relationship? I commented on one of your OYS posts a couple of months back asking you what value are you getting from this relationship. I will ask you again. What value are you getting out of this relationship? You are in your LTRs frame constantly.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 10:50 PM
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Rule 13
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/26 10:45 PM
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STFU, MAP, OYS, sidebar, and 'Don't Eat Paint!' will all help you, not your wife.
/r/askMRP25/03/26 04:18 AM
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Christ, this is not /r/asktrp.
/r/askMRP22/03/26 12:42 AM
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All this messaging girls I know or downloading dating apps is just a way for me to avoid that confrontation and avoid problems. Ding, ding, ding!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/26 02:22 AM
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If people don't add value, then what motivation do I have to help them? Half of the guys that come here (maybe even over half) think this place should be a locker-room, where we all whip towels and hang out drinking together. It's not. It's fucking not. It's never been that way.
/r/askMRP11/03/26 09:59 PM
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The guys working on their MAP are encouraged to come and post in /r/askmrp. Retards, larpers, and drive-by retards get the simple advice as they are doomed to fail and fuck off into the darkness. It's always been that way for over the past decade. UEMcGill said it best about this sub years back. It's not an "advice" sub, it's place for guys to share who they are, what they have been working on, in order to see what other guys have dealt with in [X] situation - feedback loop.
/r/askMRP07/03/26 02:15 AM
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Married 3 year (31F) Recently my wife’s career has skyrocketed I’m hoping the market will get better, but between AI and outsourcing I will admit I am not particularly optimistic. Your wife is entering her early 30s. The prime time for most corporate women in the space as their "top" shelf life usually lasts until the mid to late 30s, which is when they usually burn out and slide down the henpecking order. Frankly? You are in a world of shit at the moment. Your wife is working and you are not. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 07:14 AM
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First, simple. Approach to dating life. Keep in mind, the first approach to the general "idea" around dating is being fun and attractive. That's it. You are not looking at locking yourself into a relationship with the first piece of ass that has been around for 3 months. You are playing the long game. Once you get more comfortable with yourself and being in new social situations, everything should click for you. All the digested sidebar materials and tried experiences will come together in order…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/26 07:02 AM
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I'm curious here... Do you actually enjoy being around your GF/LTR? Do you get any value from this relationship? I ask as 14 OYS posts in, you seem to constantly be thinking about every interaction you have with her before interacting with her. You are very much in your head and still have a scoreboard that you are ticking off for everything (i.e. sex, bj, no-argument, etc.).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/26 05:20 AM
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Rule 9 all over the place.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/26 05:18 AM
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I have talked about it in numerous posts (askmrp/MRP/TRP subs) over the last number of years and even brought it up on some Substack posts. The point being is that anyone who lives in the real world and has dealt with a woman in their life for over a year (whatever capacity) will understand that mindset of; "You should have a woman that wants to blow you every morning you wake up", is not realistic to the world. So many variables in life happen, whether it's job loss, health issues, god forbid a…
/r/askMRP19/02/26 10:41 PM
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Can we stop giving newbs and drive-by retards the ability to tag "Field Report" on their shit posts? Fuck.
/r/askMRP19/02/26 10:38 PM
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"I have never seen this before!"
/r/askMRP17/02/26 08:27 PM
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This is not a field report. No idea why you thought it was when putting it together and tagging it. Furthermore, it sounds like you spend too much time online watching retard TRP content creators on social media and YouTube. Have you thought about actually doing something for yourself and coming back to the real world? Actions taken? Work done? Your wife thinks you are a sack of shit? but it won't be a genuine desire I debunked this Rich Cooper line over five years ago now. Anyone that lives in …
/r/askMRP16/02/26 07:48 PM
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Get into the squat rack and start reading the sidebar. Oh, keep your mouth quiet too.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/26 04:50 AM
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The comments to my askmrp post gave me a ton to think about. I'm going to add on to my comment on your /r/askmrp post. If you are in a relationship with this kind of a woman, you will be in a constant battle with the fact that she is truly never 100% on board with you and the relationship which is her job, not yours. It will constantly go between times of nothing at all to times of something all the time; no in-between.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/26 06:06 AM
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Every Un-Happy Wife is a Rape Victim Do the work. Lift, sidebar, make a MAP, stop larping, and put things together on your end. No one owes you anything in the world; least of all, that post wall cunt you put on the pedestal.
/r/askMRP12/02/26 01:27 AM
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You talk too much. No wonder you never decided to do the work.
/r/askMRP12/02/26 01:24 AM
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Stop Fighting Dirty Fixed that one for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/26 07:57 AM
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STFU, OYS, MAP, LIFT HEAVY + WORK.
/r/askMRP08/02/26 11:48 PM
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I'm with you on this. I'm late to the post but this echo's my stance. It turns into a dancing monkey routine long term and falls right into her frame. No-Air still has work to do on his inner game to actually be inside his head, not hers.
/r/askMRP08/02/26 03:34 AM
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I'm late to your post, but I want to give you some outside context. I have read your OYS posts as well. Something you need to realize is that this behaviour isn't unique with your wife, but it's with all women in different sections (i.e. ONS, dating rotation, LTRs, etc.). That "bratty behaviour" you are referring to you stems from a woman being in the "so-so" area, or middle of the row of interest. For example, it is no different from meeting a woman out that you click with, asking for her numbe…
/r/askMRP08/02/26 03:33 AM
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They want to fuck when they are horny, and 99% of them have roughly the same path to getting there. Let's add this quote into the archive for good reference here.
/r/askMRP08/02/26 02:45 AM
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Intent matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/26 01:47 AM
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Sex Even though you are in the early stages of your map, there is way too much scoreboard and excel spreadsheet acting going on in this section. Stop the recording, stop the covert contracts, stop the external validation seeking, and stop overthinking every move you make. It's all unattractive behaviour. Mental: A lot is missing in my approach for MRP Yes, clearly.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/26 05:16 PM
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All of the above. Be an attractive man that other people want to be around and get to know. Do the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/26 03:59 PM
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1st “rejection” in a while Prescription from BT: You need to get out and interact with more women in the wild.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/26 04:15 AM
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... describe your boyfriend in one word: 'reliable', she said. That punched me then and was a warning sign, the truth is, I hadn't been near close to being reliable for 30 years before that. You have to get over yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/26 12:00 AM
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Dating You are focusing way, way too much on your internal struggle on "self" and "authentic you", which shows that you are too much in your head. You still need to develop your framework on the mental side which will take a lot of time. Your goal when going out with these women is simple. Stop overthinking the interactions; "What does she think?", "Will I look good?", or "Is this a good answer?" -- fuck that noise. You should always aim to have a good time, have zero expectations, and start pra…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/26 06:02 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/26 05:00 PM
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Shut. The. Fuck. Up.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/26 01:42 AM
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Social Stop overthinking all of what you wrote. Start acting. Take action. Open your mouth and speak with someone regardless of what you feel or what is in your head (RE: WISNIFG). You should be keeping all interactions with people as open ended as possible, instead of asking specific questions which might only get you a one word answer. For example, try something along the lines of; "I can't believe we got a massive dump of snow last night!" instead of; "What's up?" - this follows old man game …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 04:41 PM
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(my dick is clean and pubes are nice btw--before you start telling me to wash my balls) Weird comment to point out, in my view. Are you trying to prove something? TL;DR: For future reference, all TL;DR's tell the reader is that nothing in the post is worth reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 04:55 AM
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Honestly? I thought this was a troll... As a couple of others have brought up, you have been around this space for years. Why on earth did you not internalized the sidebar and build out your map? Genuine question. I'm not going to end my marriage just because she "probably" has feelings and that she "might" sleep with him in the future. If she ever does cheat, I'll leave, but for me the early stages of an emotional affair isn't enough to divorce. I counted 35 she statements and 15 her statements…
/r/askMRP15/01/26 03:09 AM
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The basis of a guys success at MRP stems from owning his shit and developing a MAP.
/r/askMRP12/01/26 06:12 PM
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When are you going to start focusing on you?
/r/askMRP11/01/26 11:14 PM
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The emoji's are garbage. Don't ever do that again.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 11:24 PM
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Frame is built over time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 11:22 PM
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Please ban these drive-by retards.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 12:47 AM
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Everyone has pointed out many of the errors of your judgment here, but I want to focus on this: Stop bitching about my job - I don’t even know what to say. A job or a career is a means for you to make money. That's it. You don't have an identity with your job/career no matter how much you like it, don't like, or happen to be indifferent for it. No one wants to hear an adult, let alone a grown ass man bitch and cry about his job. I can't stand it with all people. If you absolutely hate your job, …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/26 12:38 AM
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You have made a lot of posts here looking for quick fixes, while you are still early on in your MAP. This was my comment to you 25 days ago: You just completed your 2nd OYS post. STFU, keep the hammer down, and focus on you. You didn't listen then and you won't listen now. No work = No outside perspectives
/r/askMRP05/01/26 12:45 AM
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Two plates are still in an unclear status. A few points to touch on.... Getting a number isn't a "plate" at all... Your goal is to get every woman in the dating rotation. Do you not know the difference between dating and relationships? You are 10 OYS posts in. You should have understood this concept through some of the books and content on the sidebar. You need to date these women for at least a year (12 months) at the bare minimum before promoting them to relationship/LTR status. Relationships …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/26 02:13 AM
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Way, way too early on in your MAP to worry about this garbage.
/r/askMRP01/01/26 08:39 PM
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Stills feels we are on the edge of separating (read my last week post). There is loss of attraction on my end. That is because you are coming to the realization that you have to start from step 0. You are way too young and too retarded to be in a relationship/LTR at this age. This woman is nothing more than a trail run for future you over the next decade. If you are making your way through the sidebar, you should know that a man being in a relationship in his 20s is generally frond upon. Why? Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/25 05:35 AM
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Sex You are rowing your boat into scoreboard territory here... Focus on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/25 10:41 PM
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Honestly, five OYS posts in and I don't think he has a clue on what's going on. He isn't taking his MAP seriously. I think he should fuck off. The "27/live-in girlfriend" is already an eye roll on my side with the amount of autistic mental masturbating going on...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/25 10:39 PM
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STFU, lift heavy, make a MAP, and OYS.
/r/askMRP19/12/25 08:16 PM
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lol Drive by retards are something else.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 08:01 PM
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Fuck off.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:56 PM
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Half the guys on this thread need to be banned.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:56 PM
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What do you want? The only question that matters. Discovered MRP about a month ago Internalize the sidebar, lift heavy, and get focused on your life, fatty.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 06:40 PM
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lol
/r/askMRP13/12/25 12:20 AM
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You just completed your 2nd OYS post. STFU, keep the hammer down, and focus on you.
/r/askMRP11/12/25 01:27 AM
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I hate it when I read this complete bullshit. As if you're not capable of "connecting" with her outside of a "date"? Yeah, I always find this super faggy. It's the mindset of 90% of men.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/25 12:35 AM
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You have done zero work.
/r/askMRP03/12/25 09:54 PM
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unexpected Grab her by the pussy.
/r/askMRP03/12/25 09:52 PM
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I have read through your OYS posts (all 11) up to this point and I wanted to come back to re-read this post. You are still delusional and too inexperienced to consider anything "long term" in this relationship. Have you read internalized the sidebar up to this point? I doubt it. Reading isn't the same as internalizing it. You are 25 years old... She is not a unicorn. I would strongly consider using this LTR as a "practice" relationship. Nothing lasts forever. Get it through your head. The mental…
/r/askMRP15/11/25 05:09 AM
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This reads like a bunch of positive fluff, I'm not sure I understand why you're here... I'm glad someone mentioned it. That was my first thought. Most guys need to put in a substantial amount of work before even considering reporting in. As HOA mentioned in his /r/askmrp post, he is still too young, too in-experienced and too retarded to be overthinking this "LTR" - it's practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/25 05:01 AM
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Exactly. They are even worse..
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 06:50 AM
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Where are you on your social life? Anything here... Do you have a new friends? Do you go out in the world "by yourself" and live new experiences? You are 23 OYS posts in. Real world progress is the most important here and most of you fail to see that point.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 01:51 AM
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It's the new bread of retards who spent too much time watching 99.9% of all the "Wannabe TRP" content creators on YouTube, along with the rest of retards that have socials. They realized after a few years of constant failure and sprinkling alfa flakes on the shitty life they built for themselves nothing positive transpired. Now? It's time to actually do the work on their shit life and the BS they consumed for years.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 01:48 AM
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lol
/r/askMRP26/10/25 12:58 AM
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(yes i lift, smell good, is not fat an so on) No stats = no one gives a fuck and you are lying... The others said it best. You are an unattractive schlub. Lift like your life depends on it (PS: it does). Read the fucking the sidebar. Also, for fuck sakes, stay away from your wife. She doesn't want you touching her or doing anything remotely "sexual" while being in your presence. If you are serious about improving your life, you will be making a MAP and getting your head down over the course of t…
/r/askMRP24/10/25 07:05 PM
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Social events with moderate drinking also throws things off. I’ll analyze and refocus the diet. Balance is everything in life. If you are actively struggling with your diet, drinking, or extra circulars, then you haven't found what works best for you. Unless you have former addiction or addictive personality issues, I never recommend people going cold turkey or completely all in the other way. Learn to pace yourself over a period of time so you know what is your preferred limit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/25 02:50 AM
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Lift, sidebar, shut your mouth, and get to work. You are not the victim here.
/r/askMRP15/10/25 10:42 PM
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You know what you have to do... The majority of the guys here gave you the road map. Focus 100% of your energy on you.
/r/askMRP05/10/25 04:18 AM
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Yes, this guy has tried to post on multiple accounts...
/r/askMRP27/09/25 07:54 PM
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This guy sucks. Send him to Siberia.
/r/askMRP27/09/25 07:49 PM
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Mods, please ban this motherfucker.
/r/askMRP27/09/25 07:48 PM
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This isn't asktrp...
/r/askMRP21/09/25 10:20 PM
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I'm going to pin this right here... Link
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/25 01:06 AM
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Stay away from you fiancé for the entirety of the long weekend. Lift heavy for the next four straight days, get out of the house and do something fun on your own, and reflect on the importance of shutting your mouth. The way you are acting will lead this woman to leave you by the end of the year.
/r/askMRP29/08/25 07:52 PM
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Rian has never been the kind of guy to champion his books for the MRP sidebar. He said so after his first book (FUCCFILES) came out and a bunch of people asked why it wasn't on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP26/08/25 09:02 PM
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Sidebar.
/r/askMRP20/08/25 05:08 PM
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You LARPed for over four years and you are returning to 'actually' do the work. You are completely restarting from ground zero. Start the sidebar over (again) and work on your MAP. This is not anything new... Get lifting again while you are at it. Build up your mental and physical frame at the same time.
/r/askMRP14/08/25 10:28 PM
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Not a field report... Read the sidebar and learn about this space. You seem lost and new here.
/r/askMRP11/07/25 03:28 AM
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STFU isn't just about your pie hole, but it also includes any technology babbling BS that you feel the urge to type out. You have to accept the fact that you will always be the bad guy. Where are you on your MAP?
/r/askMRP11/06/25 02:43 PM
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Stop fucking around and focus on you. MRP Sidebar, MAP, OYS, lifting heavy, and ignoring the BS feelings you posted above.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 09:55 PM
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As always, AWALT. Women will always be women (RE: sidebar). As the others have mentioned, you have to change for yourself. Do you want to see better results? Look at the man in the mirror. Unicorns don't exist and the stagnant man makes his own life unbearable to live. Where are you on the sidebar?
/r/askMRP13/05/25 12:13 AM
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Social I don’t have much of this in my life and this was pointed out in my last OYS. Despite doing more social things this past week (sweat lodge with a group of men, sauna with a buddy, music event w/ dancing, tea ceremony with another buddy). They feel like “checkmarks” to complete. Part of taking action with your social life is to not only spend time with individuals you have relationships with, but use it as an opportunity to get uncomfortable by meeting new people and going out into new are…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/25 05:01 AM
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Social Try to actually intergrade yourself amongst strangers and be a part of society. It's fine to do activities on your own, but put in the effort to meet people if you want to expand your circle and improve these social areas of your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/25 04:59 AM
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Cum on her face.
/r/askMRP09/05/25 11:06 PM
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you just acted like getting a blowjob was a pivotal moment in your career. I laughed too hard at this... The truth in that statement is palpable.
/r/askMRP08/05/25 05:07 AM
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Start by stepping foot in the gym first instead of talking about it. Get going. Lift.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 05:21 PM
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Social Skied with friends/kids, had friends over for a dinner. Fun week, but I feel hollow so I'm going through the motions. Activity is better than withdrawal right now. Why are you so up your ass when you get out to socialize with people? You are at OYS 42. Get the fuck over it at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 05:19 PM
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Social With regards to your attempts to work on being social out in the wild. You need to mentally work on yourself being comfortable around basic conversation with strangers first. Based on the bartender comment about her being a "cutie" and "possibly into you" - it doesn't matter. You should be at a point in your MAP where your frame is already centred around you. Want to escalate? Don't want to escalate? It doesn't matter. so took the L. Get this wording and vocab out of your mental framework…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 02:16 AM
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Terrible... Covert contracts galore.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 02:11 AM
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Social: going for a stag this weekend, weekly meetings with my friends at various occasions Don't just get bombed. Engage with everyone there one on one at some point during the event. Hear what is going on in their life and how you can be a value add. Use these opportunities to actually build on the relationships you have in your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 01:25 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP11/02/25 12:48 AM
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No celebration from my side. You talk too much. You clearly learned nothing from the first day you set foot in MRP.
/r/askMRP09/02/25 07:34 AM
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Terrible.
/r/askMRP02/02/25 05:06 AM
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You are assuming everyone keeps up with your OYS... Give more background info on your post if you want some user friendly feedback from veterans around here. However... Have you touched the Divorce section on the main MRP sub at all yet? Doubt it...
/r/askMRP30/01/25 10:24 PM
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Your post proves you have done zero work on the sidebar... PS: Unicorns don't exist...
/r/askMRP28/01/25 08:58 PM
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Dude, stop being a major douche and get to work. You actually have to do the work; this sub won't do it for you. Between the amount of times you have posted here and in OYS, you should already know what you need to do... Right? Sidebar work, making a MAP, financials sorted out, getting things in order on your side? Shut your mouth and do what you need to do.
/r/askMRP22/01/25 11:04 PM
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The others are right. You have a two year plate in the dating rotation.
/r/askMRP11/01/25 04:24 AM
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I'm glad I just saw this post three days later as I have been too busy with other activities during my holidays.
/r/askMRP29/12/24 10:15 AM
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Shut your mouth, lawyer up, start your MAP, stop LARPing, lift like a motherfucker, and quietly get your affairs in order when you are unfucked and ready to go... You are responsible for all of this BS.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 07:24 AM
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You need to be doing 24 hour fasting sessions at least 3 times a week if you want to make any progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/24 04:20 AM
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"ponytail..."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:56 AM
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The guy posts all day in "more plates, more dates", of course he is a retard...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:55 AM
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I’ve been super successful at work to this point, high achiever, but following that road has not fulfilled me. If you want to increase some money in the short term to allow yourself to be more flexible in the future, then figure out a way to go to the GCC and work your ass off there for a few years. Bank some cash, keep investing your money, and make some contacts. After you do that, you can get yourself in a position where you can truly do what want down the road. If money is the sole focus at …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:53 AM
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lol
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:50 AM
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You are one of the dumbest fucks that have come to the sub in 2024 and that's saying something...
/r/askMRP07/12/24 08:59 AM
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No stats on you = No effort in response Lift, sidebar, and STFU.
/r/askMRP03/12/24 09:46 PM
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Where are you on your MAP? You sound like a retard, validation whore.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 12:46 AM
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I remember he posted a few times about his wife's affair story - lol.
/r/askMRP30/11/24 08:41 AM
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I think the commenter was referring to you running with another woman and things with your wife escalating negatively since then. No. I am referring to the work done on the sidebar and his lifts. You must be new here...
/r/askMRP29/11/24 01:13 AM
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Lean, Gym 4 days a week. Regularly run. If you are going to say this, then give us some more stats on you. I have a feeling something is off here; especially, with the "regular runner" added.
/r/askMRP28/11/24 08:21 PM
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Spoon-Fed For OP
/r/askMRP28/11/24 06:50 AM
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Good lord... now dating a 29yo since one year and it's been good. She is a plate, dude. A woman in the dating rotation. Do you not know the difference between dating and a relationship? Get your head out of your ass and do some work on your MAP...
/r/askMRP25/11/24 10:09 PM
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Best comment on the thread.
/r/askMRP20/11/24 02:23 AM
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Here
/r/askMRP20/11/24 02:22 AM
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Went for drinks with a 39 YO girl from Tinder. Flirting, trying out the Cube from fuccfiles to engange emotions. Made out immediately after. Took her to my hotel, escalated but met rejection. Not able to take ASD down. She left at midnight. Asked her to go and buy me a beer before leaving, she did. Went on a second date with the same woman 2 days later, escalated again but only getting to dry humping with me taking her pants halfway off. Shit tests me after rejecting me, asking me if i'm fine wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 11:05 PM
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Been texting old ONS for practice. Texting is for logistics, though.. Fuck her or don't. Need to get back to generating emotions/feels so this is an opportunity to practice. No, you need to open your mouth and talk to more people.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 11:03 PM
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I don’t see this going anywhere long term but was fun weekend together with a girl 12+ years younger then me with a banging body. She can just be one of the girls you are dating, in the rotation. No pressure here.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 12:18 AM
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lol Sidebar, lift, and shut your yapp, fatty.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 12:38 AM
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I'm not responding to the vomit above... I lift 3x a week, she’s respectful, I forgot the dread scale but it’s high. This is a victim puke. Just because you 'lift 3x a week' means nothing in grand scheme. Where is your work done? What are you reading? What actions are you taking? Where is the focus on you? You haven't touched the sidebar.
/r/askMRP14/11/24 09:45 PM
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Columbiana Colombian*
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 01:46 AM
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Game Nice work! Keep grinding out the opportunities here. As you have experienced, when you become attractive and have your eyes wide open, you will see that there are openings all the time. I guess I’ve been talking to women like dudes up to now. That was an old school seduction/PUA mental block that was suggested for guys that struggled having direct, open conversations with women. A lot of guys that would get stunned and think about "boobs", "pussy", "fuck her", had to learn to bring it down …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 01:43 AM
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Cue some youtube redpill retard Funny you mention this... The other night, Prax and I were talking about how both of us have backed away from guys in the "space" from the TRP YouTube and Discord scene that we have gotten to know a bit. A lot of these guys (98%) are fucking retards. It's either a mix of content dictators, tricks and tips guy(s), or larping dudes who are addicts (i.e. drugs, alcohol, gambling) and moralizing police when it comes to the "content" in the space. Prax brought up a goo…
/r/askMRP11/11/24 07:11 AM
4

I'm glad you still add these to your community notes.
/r/askMRP11/11/24 02:42 AM
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Why do you care that she wears ugly pants to work? Best comment in this thread.
/r/askMRP10/11/24 12:39 AM
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Yoro is exposing himself for being a fraud, larper here...
/r/askMRP10/11/24 12:38 AM
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time to address this properly was before you even seriously dated, let alone got married. You mean when he was dating her... When you say "seriously dated", you are talking about a relationship. Dating and relationships are not the same thing. Most guys, such as OP, have no clue how to run the dating rotation with a woman.
/r/askMRP10/11/24 12:37 AM
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At my Toastmasters meeting the 23 year old grad student that I’ve talked about/fantasized about like a horny high school student went out of her way to talk to me afterward. I can’t tell if she’s just being friendly or flirting, but I’ve been keeping mindful of not falling into lusting over a girl I haven’t done anything with yet like I did before. I’m probably overthinking it, hell I know I’m overthinking it. You have to get to a point where you mentally just move on with what you want. If you …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 09:15 PM
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Make a move ya dumbfuck. Was about to type the same. Get on with it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 09:13 PM
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Game As I have told you before, you have to chat with everyone to get over any of the "fear" that is still lingering. It doesn't matter who it's with, it's about getting over that internal issue you have. Work on your inner game by actively putting in the reps to get over the rejection thoughts and insecurities you have when talking with people.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 09:12 PM
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This is a prime example of, I did enough work to fix my dead bedroom, then I got comfortable and didn’t do the hard stuff. This ^... He is a lazy Panda 🐼..
/r/askMRP31/10/24 07:59 PM
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This is not /r/asktrp... Close to breaking the rules with this post.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 08:23 PM
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You are a retard, we get it.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 02:06 AM
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It's because Desi women love getting fucked by Western men and they (the men) always feel like they are the victim. Desi women are great to have in the dating rotation - highly recommend.
/r/askMRP28/10/24 09:42 PM
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Mass retardation in this thread. Are you surprised some East Asian guy, who is a fat fuck and got an arranged marriage with a wife doesn't want to fuck him, gave the worst advice on this thread?
/r/askMRP28/10/24 07:56 PM
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"She picked out my clothes."
/r/askMRP26/10/24 11:31 PM
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lol - love it.
/r/askMRP24/10/24 01:00 AM
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Naw, I just think you're cute!
/r/RPChristians24/10/24 12:09 AM
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I do that with you, though..
/r/RPChristians24/10/24 12:08 AM
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Game You have got to get to a point where you are interactive with people where ever you go, followed by escalating interactions with women you find attractive. Even all women you see, just to step up your 'game' in general. Attractive men interact with women out in the wild; married or not. No excuses. Fuck your feelings and start doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 02:57 AM
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I don’t really know how to game my wife Then you can't/don't know how to game other women - simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 02:54 AM
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Not a FR..
/r/askMRP19/10/24 08:55 PM
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Where are you on your MAP? OYS? Work done? A post full of "she's" and "her's", but nothing about you.
/r/askMRP16/10/24 08:22 AM
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You are too new to be making these kinds of posts... STFU, lift, read the sidebar, and start implementing action into your life.
/r/askMRP14/10/24 07:44 PM
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Last thing I'll say is this - you're 35 now man. Sex is only "really important" when you aren't getting any. So true... I think this starts even earlier for men once they "leave" the college environment days and get out into the world. Nice comment.
/r/askMRP13/10/24 10:05 PM
1

I love your stuff. Thanks for the link. I enjoy reading your work.
/r/askMRP13/10/24 06:46 AM
1

So many gold comments from you, amigo.
/r/askMRP13/10/24 05:18 AM
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I want another update from you around day/night game.
/r/askMRP13/10/24 05:12 AM
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This should be posted in OYS on the main sub.
/r/askMRP11/10/24 04:46 AM
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Very rusty, but I can come to play in a competitive foreign dating market. This is meaningless - AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/24 04:08 AM
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You had a plate in the dating rotation two years, not a relationship... You say you read the sidebar, yet you wouldn't need to post here asking for advice if you made a MAP and OYS'd. Get to work, 'amigo'...
/r/askMRP10/10/24 10:01 PM
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Your post history is a red flag, even for /r/askmrp...
/r/askMRP10/10/24 02:38 AM
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Currently been in a LTR and we have been exclusive for about a year now. I think we started being exclusive at about month 4 into dating. Red flags galore here... Too many "thinks" from you. Not to mention, you never, ever promote a woman you are dating to the relationship phase until you have at least dated her for a year (12 months - min). Do you not know there is a difference in the phases - dating, relationship, marriage? Did you even bother to read the sidebar? You aren't taking this very s…
/r/askMRP01/10/24 04:24 AM
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Sidebar.
/r/askMRP25/09/24 05:55 AM
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All that blubber and you failed to answer my question. You have zero frame, still. Go back to the sidebar and start working on your mental models. Everything you wrote is all external.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 09:27 PM
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Lol well, i’m still having sex about once a week You realize attraction isn't just physical, right? Clearly, you haven't touched the sidebar...
/r/askMRP24/09/24 02:43 AM
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So basically just keep with the AM broken record until someone's had enough and is leaving the interaction? Sounds fun. Where are you on your MAP?
/r/askMRP24/09/24 01:48 AM
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I'm 32 and feel i've wasted so much time. You probably have... You are a drive-by retard who doesn't understand the basics. How much work have you done on your MAP? OYS?
/r/askMRP22/09/24 05:21 PM
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Also cuddling does not equal kino. Acts such as cuddles, holding hands, and kissing, are all considered 'comfort traits', all of which are earned, never given.
/r/askMRP20/09/24 01:51 AM
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Most women never learned how to handle a guy like this (HVM). ^ There is a reason why if you look back at this sub and the history of FRs since as far back as 2014, that either the guy "checks out" 6 to 9 months into his MAP or the woman can't handle the changes and takes an early exit. I can't list the amount of guys who "came back" to this sub re-hashing at least one or the other.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 05:08 AM
1

What happened to blarg? Why did he delete out? He deleted out early this year if I recall.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 05:04 AM
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Great read. Thank yourself, not the sub or anyone else. You did the work. Keep up the grind and never get that foot off the pedal.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 04:52 AM
1

You are a drive-by user, clearly...
/r/askMRP19/09/24 04:48 AM
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Stop lurking, stop commenting, and stop the BS. Get to work - ASAP. Post in OYS.
/r/askMRP09/09/24 07:54 PM
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This sub isn't for guys like you. It's for guys actually doing the work on themselves, not to vent and be a whiny cunt.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 05:39 AM
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Check out Coach Corey Wayne - 3% Man Not recommended on the sidebar... Also, you need to be ok with not draining your nut. Listen to Bliss of the Celibate audiobook on YouTube. You are probably going to get banned from MRP spewing this garbage. You should start a MAP and get going on your own shit, semen retention nerd.
/r/askMRP04/09/24 11:20 PM
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That was my victim puke. Nice to meet ya. Let 'er rip! Cool. Shut your mouth and get to work. You have to build a MAP and start owning your shit.
/r/askMRP04/09/24 07:02 PM
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The only contradiction I see is in optional MRP practice of spinning plates, obviously I can't do that although I'm not here to judge the non-Christians who do. Spinning plates is literally dating; not a relationship. Whether you choose to date while you are in a relationship or married is entirely up to you. Red Pill =/= Amoral
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 02:02 AM
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Zero frame.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 06:39 PM
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First off, spend time through the 'search' bar on this sub. There have been multiple posts like this one in the past. Second off, read through the sidebar. Read all of it. Internalize everything. Put things together. Make a MAP and start executing. Stick with it until the day you die. Third off, lift heavy and get your diet in control - now. It gets harder the older you get. Focus on your health, fitness, and mental game. Fourth off, develop frame. This one is a must. It ties everything together…
/r/askMRP31/08/24 04:51 AM
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You are a fat fuck Pretty much sums up OPs experience... Guys get what they deserve.
/r/askMRP29/08/24 10:03 PM
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A lot of retarded comments in this thread; hence, it's askmrp. First off, where are you on your MAP? Have you started a MAP? OYS? Sidebar work? Lifting? STFU and start working on you. Forget your wife. Secondly, accept the fact your relationship is over. This is the old MRP slogan that most guys that come here in the present day seem to forget. Whatever your wife does isn't your problem. You control you; not her. Finally, you are an unattractive fuck... Why are you surprised in this situation? A…
/r/askMRP29/08/24 10:02 PM
1

Game I have said this for years... Game is the escalation of a social situation with a woman you are interested in - that's it. No need to make a big deal out of it. This takes time to build up your mental framework to truly understand this concept. Being present in the moment and looking at it for what it is are the small wins you take with you moving forward. If you can internalize this concept, you can take this with you around any woman that you meet out and about. Whether it leads to reject…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 06:41 AM
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Exactly. You can't ask the question; "What do you want?", until you actually get some work done on you.
/r/askMRP28/08/24 05:37 PM
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Met her on a Dating app, had sex on second date at my place. She declared we were together now and In the beginning I was just Rolling with it because I didn't want to hurt her feels. But she grew on me. Sex was okay If I initiated. If. 6 Months in we had a pregnancy scare and brought a House. What the fuck? Sidebar - NOW.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 10:49 PM
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There are tools here for just about everything, but you need to decide what YOU want. He needs to starting putting together a MAP before he can answer any questions about what HE wants. OP hasn't even touched the sidebar...
/r/askMRP27/08/24 10:43 PM
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Keeping that mouth shut [STFU] works wonders.
/r/askMRP23/08/24 10:11 PM
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Women / dating When it comes to meeting women out and about, don't go straight into "asking for her number", unless these encounters are super quick (i.e. on the subway). Ideally, let the conversation wind and move organically to see how things transpire. If you haven't already, you need to read "Bang" and "Day Bang" to learn a few techniques to add into the arsenal. If I remember correctly, the ideal time slot of chatting with a new woman that: 1. gains interest from you & her, 2. lets her out …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 08:53 AM
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hey everyone it's another fucking loser of a man diagnosing his wife with personality disorders. More than likely, he is one of those new batch of guys from the last few years who have been balls deep in "larping RP" territory on YouTube and is now trying his hand here...
/r/askMRP23/08/24 08:15 AM
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STFU; I talk like a parrot and am outright annoying. No you didn't... STFU includes additional talking areas, such as texting, emailing, or whatever the fuck thing you are doing to share your "feels" or mouth noises. I'm done on my end as the other regulars around here have given you a ton of info to get going on already.
/r/askMRP23/08/24 08:14 AM
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OLD continues to be mostly broken woman, scammers and flakes. Where are you at with your social life and interacting with women when you are out and about? Are you escalating with women you meet out that you are attracted to? You have been here a while; therefore, your social game should be much tighter than it was when you were starting out on your MAP.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:04 AM
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That sounds about right for Reddit. The dude also comments in r\marriage and r\MGTOW = exposed.
/r/askMRP21/08/24 03:59 AM
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That's what I mean when I say this. No you didn't... Based on your history, you are new around this sub. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP12/08/24 07:39 PM
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The way I see it, in order to have an MRP success story your wife needs to be able to view you as her best option. This is where you are wrong. An MRP "success story" is a man living life on his on terms, living in his frame, and building the life he wants; whether or not, his "wife/girlfriend/plate" is along his side. Your woman is not your mission. End of story.
/r/askMRP11/08/24 06:53 AM
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It's so funny to me how much of you idiots allow a bitchy woman to say mean things to you and you actually take it to heart. I have noticed a split in comments in here between TRP/MRP veterans and drive by commenters. I will leave it at that...
/r/askMRP11/08/24 06:51 AM
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First off, we are not your friends. Second off, everything you need is located in the sidebar. Third off, get to work or fuck off.
/r/askMRP07/08/24 08:32 PM
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Don't punish people, especially your wife, for being interested in your life. Some of these gents have the autism dial'd up to x50.
/r/askMRP02/08/24 12:29 AM
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You are way, way too early on in your MAP to be focusing on this woman. I literally commented about this on your last post eight days ago... She count = 11 Her count = 17 Wife count = 5 Keep your mouth shut and focus on the work you need to do.
/r/askMRP29/07/24 02:59 AM
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Follow through Steel's Guide; RE: end thread. He literally spoon-feeds guys like you. I have completed Unplugged Alpha by Rich Cooper. Not on the required reading list and most veterans here would not recognize that book as a "value" add compared to the others on the sidebar. On top of that book you read, it is highly recommended that you stay away from the garbage on social media and YouTube. Everything you need is located in the sidebar, which will keep you busy for a few months - easy.
/r/askMRP20/07/24 11:18 PM
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You have posted on this sub for over the past two years. Each time, whether it's a post or a comment on a thread, it's a similar whiny puke story. What's the goal here for you? This place isn't for you to vent or just to publish your 'Dear Diary' segment. I sense myself having oneitis and think it’s best to stop, stfu and lift. You haven't even been doing any of this, in addition with any of the sidebar work, for the last two years. What makes you think you are going to start now? Get to work or…
/r/askMRP18/07/24 05:05 AM
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I'm a younger guy (31) who's discovered the Red Pill 10 years ago. You didn't internalize shit since there are red flags in your post, such as terms like "the one" and "lay count" - barff... You need a dating rotation... It's just that simple. You realize there is a difference between dating and relationships, right? Sidebar. It takes a year or two of dating a woman (sometimes longer) before you can even consider a relationship. You sound boring and lack any sort of interest in living a great li…
/r/askMRP07/07/24 08:59 PM
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Until 2 weeks ago I snapped and set my boundaries You set these boundaries before you promote a woman that you are dating to a relationship... Where is the sidebar work been done on your end? So many mistakes made here for five years of... Work?
/r/askMRP30/05/24 02:35 AM
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Some men ruin their wives and lose the energy to fix them. Keep that in mind. Gold. Right here, that's gold.
/r/askMRP11/05/24 12:35 AM
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Sidebar complete. I call BS on that.
/r/askMRP01/05/24 09:09 AM
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more wondering if my current approach is net-positive or negative in terms of being attractive as I know I have an attractive personality and am proactively stifling it Shut. The. Fuck. Up.
/r/askMRP23/04/24 08:38 PM
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Starting over the whole MRP side bar too. What else can I read? The entire sidebar of books, posts, and links will keep you busy for a while.
/r/askMRP23/04/24 04:26 AM
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Promoted from plate. You promoted a plate within two months of dating her? What the fuck? You clearly haven't read the sidebar. Bare, bare minimum of one year of dating before you even promote a woman you are dating to a relationship. Not only have you not read the sidebar, but you have no clue when it comes to dating and relationships.
/r/askMRP22/04/24 09:42 PM
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How to tell someone didn't read the sidebar without telling someone they didn't read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 05:00 AM
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I'm glad someone came out and said it... Posts like these are why a lot of these "posters" are banned at MRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/24 07:47 AM
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How much brain damage did you get when your mom dropped you as a baby?
/r/askMRP13/04/24 03:49 AM
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This was also a recurring theme in a lot of the infield videos I watched. Most of those videos are shit, unless you are watching early-2000s template ones that have some value. So essentially a Day Bang script Wrong. No script. You are learning to be social with women - that's it. You claimed in one of your previous OYS that you are social with people all the time, but I mentioned you were no where close as you have to get over your fear of... Interaction. I have said this time in and time again…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 09:27 PM
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22 Still a virgin. Never made-out or had sex before. Last relationship was in high school. You are late to the party. You weren't in a relationship, you weren't even dating, you had a friend. Get lifting and start approaching.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 09:58 AM
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Game Well, you started going out and talking with women out in the wild - congrats. Of course it's going to be shit in the beginning; it's supposed to be. Now that you have reflected back a bit, you should have learned that keeping things social will be the best way forward to continue the progression of the conversation. Most direct compliments are usually washed in the wind and many in-direct openers don't always stick, but this also comes down to gaining knowledge to develop a palette of info…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 09:53 AM
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I married a beautiful woman and can get sex nearly every time I initiate. Look at your wording here.
/r/askMRP09/04/24 05:17 AM
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Why the fuck are you fasting? And why on earth for 3 days?? If he is a practicing muslim, he will be currently Ramadaning it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/24 04:04 AM
2

However, an abrupt shift in mood led me to tell everyone to go home, and it may have been from my underlying anger. You let your ego get in the way here... This is low bar. Keep in mind, people tend to only remember the most recent interactions they have with you. You were more than likely a "negative nelly" to some of these folks you kicked out. This is not a great look for you on the social domain. Go read through all of the TRP & MRP posts on 'Social Life' over in the theredarchive's - immedi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/24 04:02 AM
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Career: I'm going to think on it for one more week, but I am leaning towards taking a shot with selling my business. I have no idea around the background of your business, other than the limited info you have shared in your previous OYS. If you sell your business while it's in it's ascendancy or a solid long term projection that looks good on you professionally, make sure you track and keep a record of all the stats of your business from start to sell date. You can then contract side services wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/24 03:56 AM
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Women don’t care if they go bankrupt because there will aways be someone to bail them out in the end. Too much MGTOW in this comment.
/r/askMRP04/04/24 12:22 AM
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In the Western countries? No, those days are long gone. Even if you live in a 'fault state' when it comes to divorce, most adultery cases are thrown into the bin.
/r/askMRP03/04/24 07:41 PM
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Wrong. You still need to get over your fear of approaching; therefore, you need to learn to approach more people, more often. This was talked about a ton in old school PUA and seduction forums. You have to get to a point where it's just another person you are talking too.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 07:16 AM
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I continued reading “Heariste on game”. I approached 0 women this week. What is clear to me is that I cannot just expect to bump into attractive women in my everyday life. Hamster. I would bet that you fail to have basic social human interactions on a day-to-day basis, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 11:50 PM
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Relationship: Divorce prep. Honestly, the fact you chatted to your wife about wanting a divorce before talking to a lawyer and sorting things out on your end is not considered proper divorce preparation. What's the first rule? STFU. You failed the first step. Have you read through that entire section? Have you looked through the previous FRs around guys who properly divorced and separated with their wives? The talking came after the serving of papers or the announcement that you are leaving, as …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 11:48 PM
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If you are as "awesome" as you say you are in your post, then why don't you go out and get a couple of plates right now? Do it. Go out and see how you perform in the field. I find a lot of you guys that want to leave your relationship or marriage delusional; especially, if you have no frame, no game, and no direction. If you want to leave your marriage, then go out and date. Go fuck some strange. Then you can decide if you want to leave the marriage.
/r/askMRP02/04/24 11:44 PM
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Not sure why you are getting the downvotes, as you are spot on. The level of retards posting here the past few days has spiked because of their extra time to twiddle their thumbs during the Easter long weekend. OP will more than likely not make it, along with that 25 year old retard who has made 8 posts in over a year here.
/r/askMRP02/04/24 02:32 PM
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You sound even more retarded with every post and comment you make here. Stop fucking around and get to work, or fuck off and continue to fail.
/r/askMRP02/04/24 03:46 AM
1

I want to break down this sentence you put here: I've dated her for 6 months of vetting alongside other plates before those 2 years. There are some issues that I see here. I've dated her for 6 months... Yeah, so what? Six months is absolutely nothing. Most women can keep up their 'good actions' for upwards of 9 months (RE: sidebar). A solid year (12 months) as a minimum, as per what Aloha mentioned, is absolutely key. You jumped the gun way too earlier. I bet you were the one that "asked her" fo…
/r/askMRP01/04/24 11:20 AM
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You can only set boundaries with women you have been dating for an extended period of time (i.e. 6 to 12 months of knowing them) to see how they react before you consider getting into a relationship with them. It takes a lot of time and investment from the woman before you can set the boundaries on your end. Truthfully, this comes from how you act in your life and what you are willing to put up with. This is where a lot of guys fuck themselves when they promote a women they are dating into a rel…
/r/askMRP29/03/24 12:12 AM
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I'm a recovering retard I love the honesty from the start. Don't give in and be OI. You are learning to do you - congrats. Keep working on the mental framework.
/r/askMRP28/03/24 10:30 PM
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I'm also traveling next week for the day job. It's not the best timing but I'm looking at it as a last hoorah with my team. I've not told them I'm leaving yet, I need to plan out a transition, especially since my job provides us health insurance. You better get this sorted out with your team for delegation purposes to learn. Believe it or not, you will more than likely be a travel rat as everything takes off. Whether you are dealing directly with clients as a contractor (like myself) or you have…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/24 07:57 AM
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We don't fuck with losers. A 26 year old in a "on & off" again 5 year "relationship" = check Lurked this sub casually over the last 5 years without any work = check Massive financial issues and woes = check Lack of action taking in his life = check
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/24 06:06 AM
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Point being, I’m not getting divorce raped thanks to this country’s laws, my own research and lawyers assistance, no matter how my marriage plays out. Ask if there is a 15% VAT tax on top of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 09:51 PM
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Is the answer as simple as: I never should have started this relationship? If you were reading through the sidebar, you would learn that there is a massive difference between dating & a relationship. It takes months to years of dating a woman before a relationship can even happen. I'm not giving you the cheat codes on this either... If you read through Pook, Roissy Year 1, RM 1 & 2, Tactical Guide, and many of the old archived posts on the main MRP sub, you would have your answer. You are three …
/r/askMRP17/03/24 01:59 AM
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but 3-year relationship. I'm genuinely curious how long you dated her before you get into a relationship with her. You have been on "breaks" and have dealt with issues from the start. Where were the boundaries early on? Seems like you jumped into a relationship.
/r/askMRP16/03/24 02:12 AM
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OP: OYS #9 TKOL: Can't force a woman to actually want to be intimate with you. Posted here for the ninth time, supposedly read the first few books on the sidebar, but cannot compute this situation...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/24 02:22 AM
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My suspicion is an emotional affair. BF is 23% You haven't read the sidebar yet I'm thinking...
/r/askMRP15/03/24 02:20 AM
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Your comment is the most useless and provides zero value amongst everyone who posted here; including, the old guard satire comments. You are a MGTOW supporter, which usually gets banned here at MRP.
/r/askMRP15/03/24 02:09 AM
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What more info do you need? Just listen to your feelings. He is a fat fuck; therefore, the choices are limited...
/r/askMRP14/03/24 10:38 PM
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OR She will just divorce you tomorrow without a word and your marriage will end in a whimper, rather than an explosion. Women vote with their feet; specifically, when they are leaving a man from a relationship and/or marriage. It doesn't mean there won't be fireworks on her end though - AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 05:15 AM
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Like I mentioned there I'm not looking for a relationship with this chick. Based on your actions, you sound like the kind of guy to promote a woman to a relationship after a month or two = unattractive. Sidebar, lift, OYS, and shut your mouth.
/r/askMRP13/03/24 04:20 AM
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I'm going to think more seriously about future career moves outside of what's comfortable. If that's the case, then you better start putting together a game plan on where you want your career to go next. Do you have any ideas, or is this blue sky thinking? This can easily be achieved by dumping the old, shitty resume and putting together a new resume, a portfolio of your work & achievements, and figuring out new ways to up your skillset in the area of your profession. There is no reason you can'…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 04:03 AM
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You are a fucking retard.
/r/askMRP08/02/24 08:28 PM
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find job which enables career advancement prospects I have 2 more courses in the next semester these will be finished in the same time with a real job. Career advancement with the position is BS in my opinion. That starts with you learning and developing the skills in your niche area of expertise. Don't expect companies to do this for you or apply for a position with a company to do the 30 year round with a gold watch. There are always opportunities out there to make $$$. The skills are up to yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/24 06:44 PM
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Divorce prep: No updates this week. I thought about the next steps and I know what needs to get done. I will report once I actually take some action. Sounds like to me and a lot of others that you are dragging your feet in this process - still...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/24 04:55 PM
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Wow... A lot of words just to tell us you are butthurt.
/r/askMRP03/02/24 11:08 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 08:14 PM
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Why does a MGTOW troll keep coming here to post?
/r/askMRP03/02/24 07:57 PM
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OYS22 Dating / Sex: A few months ago I hooked up with a girl and we agreed to be FWB's. She went quiet for a very long time. You have posted here 22 times and presumably read everything in the sidebar, right? Wrong. That, or you didn't even internalize anything. What's the first rule? The first fucking rule? SHUT THE FUCK UP! Stop explaining and agreeing to terms with women you just start dating. Guys like you are a walking alarm for me. Why? You have been here 22 weeks and still don't understan…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/24 07:51 AM
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This is the pinned post for the sub in 2024. I can't wait to see all of the drive-by retards that subscribe here all flock in to get banned and argue with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 03:28 AM
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My ego is huge Why? You make average money, you're physically substandard, bitter, entitled, and you think she owes you sex. Roflmao! The truth hurts, for most...
/r/askMRP09/01/24 10:19 PM
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That's good additional info for a guy that's already lifting and looking for suggestions to add into his routine. Problem being... OP has been here for 4 months and hasn't even touched a weight.
/r/askMRP08/01/24 02:04 AM
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Ha! Deleted another post again.
/r/askMRP07/01/24 07:10 AM
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You are the same guy from the last month or two that keeps making posts and deleting posts on this sub looking for cheat codes... Do the fucking work or fuck off.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 12:35 AM
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Yeah, but 911 posts are for urgent matters, not to tag because of an instant emotion you have.
/r/askMRP03/01/24 02:39 AM
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I did send around 30 resumes in the past 2 months got rejected with all of them. I'll be back sending resume 100x more aggressively in March, I'll also use connections I've got; family & friends. Don't just fire off shitty LinkedIn resumes. Go and take the time to build a resume through Word Docs, shortening up all of the garbage/extra wording, and get to the meat of it - experience & skillset. One of the biggest hiring times of every calendar year is between February and May. Spend the next wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 02:07 AM
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Figure out what the fuck I want to do with my career. My corporate job pays well but is a bit shit. Keep in mind that your career/job is a way for you to make money to do the things you want to do; not a passion. Uncle Vaz has tons of posts on this one. Don't just nuke your career because the passion, love, or lust isn't there for it. Build something or work on an outside passion you have between your 5pm to 10pm life during the week. If it takes off down the road, so be it. I find way too many …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 02:04 AM
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So back to the title. No idea why this is a 911 post.. If I tell my wife about the affair will it free my guilt and projection so I can enjoy life again and will it get me respect back? Get to work on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 09:56 PM
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Yeah, but you are missing something = the work. The fucking work. I mean, /u/vitrael2 said it best. You will be back here in another two years after fucking around and accomplishing nothing at all.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 09:39 PM
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I'm almost 2 years into my MRP journey. How? You have only posted four OYS and the most recent one was two months ago.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 08:14 PM
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LTR 1 year plus together What does this even mean now? You have been saying the same "LTR 1 year plus" for the past 11 months in your posts...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/24 08:12 PM
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Ive know rp for almost a year now, mrp for a couple of months yet all I do is mental masturbation. You are a lazy cunt. Cool. I only talk about my issues here. This place isn't here for you to journal... Get your ass in gear and post in OYS if you are serious about improving your life, or not, you can continue to be a loser. Because she is already banging another dude and Im sitting here lonely with no options. Simple as that. Cool. Good for that guy.
/r/askMRP01/01/24 05:20 AM
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blackpill/purplepill for awhile now. What the fuck? Wrong sub. Current issue: lacking purpose in life. No MAP. No mission. No nothing. Open to harsh advice and eye opening criticism. Im really struggling with meaning at this stage of life. Look dude. You have posted a lot at MRP lately. Not sure why you keep coming here, along with posting the same BS on other subs. Clearly you didn't take any of the previous advice from your other posts; make a MAP, develop a routine, lift, OYS, and go out and …
/r/askMRP31/12/23 05:03 AM
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When you say “she is a reflection of you” do you mean she as a person is a reflection of me? Yes. Have you read through the sidebar yet? MMSLP? RM 1 & 2? Pook? There is a reason it's called the 1000 foot rope when you start working on your MAP. The areas in your life that you made shitty for the longest time in turn show your wife what the basic standards are and that what you are willing to put up with. You had no standards for your own life and your wife saw this overtime; therefore, this lead…
/r/askMRP30/12/23 02:05 AM
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You have gotten a lot of good feedback on what you are doing wrong, but this stood out to me... I had a conversation with my girlfriend about not being ready to propose... I asked her to make. Get into shape Put the effort into our relationship Try to be in her feminine Better sex life What's baffling to me is that this is the kind of conversation that comes up directly before you promote a woman you are dating to a relationship. The only weight you hold in this kind of conversation is if you ar…
/r/askMRP29/12/23 11:02 PM
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Set up a hinge and tinder for fun helps me clear my head, some big interest coming through in my local city already, has me kind of excited for the plate rotation i can set up here. Booked in for my first festival at 32 with a few mates for New years. This is the easiest time of year to practice day/night/social game. Do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 11:49 PM
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A lot of words about a woman who had you in her dating rotation that you had oneitis for... Lift, sidebar, OYS, STFU, next.
/r/askMRP27/12/23 11:45 PM
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"Why field reports are important." - Rian Stone
/r/askMRP27/12/23 11:02 PM
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One in a million.
/r/askMRP19/12/23 05:33 AM
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Dude, your relationship is over...
/r/askMRP18/12/23 09:25 PM
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Because you are an unattractive schlub who looks for validation from a woman.
/r/askMRP18/12/23 07:37 PM
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Interesting that you combined PUA and RP like that. If you know the history of TRP, then you would know that it was a branch from the early days of the seduction & PUA community, where the focus became "bigger" than just learning game.
/r/askMRP17/12/23 09:23 PM
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I wasn’t asking for a definition Sounds like you were. One of the old guards /u/BobbyPeru gave the best response to your post, yet he was the only one you didn't reply too.
/r/askMRP17/12/23 07:09 AM
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You still have a lot of work to do to become attractive physically and mentally. That post of yours on the main MRP sub was a shit show to say the least. I know a divorced guy around your age (43) who has two sons and has no issue spinning plates of child free women between the ages of 24 to 34. If you can't pull one of those broads; especially, the single "corporate" women between 30 & 40, then it shows you where you are at on your level of attractiveness. Believe it or not, SMV is everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/23 02:08 AM
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Sex has dwindled to like once a month and she doesn’t deserve it anymore. Are you a man worth respecting? Are you a man that is attractive? You referenced your wife a whopping six times in this four sentence post. Sounds like you got some work to do on the sidebar and in the weight-room.
/r/askMRP15/12/23 04:49 AM
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Look, dude. You are 35 years old, single, and should be striding into your prime years in your personal and professional journey. Keep the foot down and start taking action on the experiences you want to live.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 10:00 AM
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Oh, fuck off. You went on 15 dates to try to tame your anxiety around women. You’re banging hookers. You’re literally posting in a forum for guys who want to get laid more. The time is now. I'm glad someone made this comment before I had too. The therapist situation threw me for a loop... Wait until he learns some basic seduction/PUA to improve out on the marketplace, it will be too much for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 07:44 AM
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I still fear rejection and being alone This is what you need to get over and it comes with time when you realize that you have value for yourself, no one else holds that for you. Keep in mind, there are many guys before you that have come here, put in the work, unfucked their situation, and walked away from a woman they had prior oneitis for or whatever issue they had. The mental work is the hardest to get through and you will continually have to check yourself for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 05:36 AM
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If you are working out of an office (i.e. not remote or hybrid), I recommend bringing a personal laptop that you have for your note taking. Keeping personal or professional documentation stored in your work laptop is a tough one at that, as if something happens and your IT department needs to get ahold of it, all of your information becomes company property. If you don't have an extra laptop with you to bring to your office, I suggest buying your own notepad and using that. Keep in mind, as the …
/r/askMRP14/12/23 02:09 AM
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HOWEVER, I am really struggling to know how to handle my wife’s depression and anxiety. As some of the good comments amongst the landfill of shit comments in your /r/askmrp touched on, this isn't your problem. You are two months in on this journey and you are already worry and focusing about what "she" wants. Forget it. Read through the sidebar between your lifting sets over the next four weeks. Use the extra time you have off from work during the holidays to map out and actively work on your me…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 02:06 AM
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Have you ever talked about the expectations/parameters of the relationship? Including nonexclusivity. No. That's the woman's job to come to you and discuss anything around that. Even then, I have my boundaries. I will never, ever get into a relationship with a woman I haven't dated for at least 1 to 2 years (min). Do you text beyond logistics? If yes, what about and how much? No. Everything is logistics with all the women I date (through WhatsApp). What are some examples of the rewards? Day trip…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 10:03 PM
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But ultimately, her lawyer is a divorce lawyer and will do what makes money. Technically, by law, her lawyer will do what she instructs from her. Spend some of your time one evening to go through the archives on this sub and search "divorces" and "attorneys" to get a better idea, along with the Divorce Prep section on the sidebar. Your wife controls the overall process with her lawyer; specifically, if she is the one that is stalling or is nit-picking.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 03:07 AM
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I had my preferred plate stay over 2 weekends ago. Fun date, really good sex, then we went on a day trip the next day. You fucked up. You are treating a woman that you are dating like a woman you are in a relationship with. Do you not know the difference between dating and a relationship? Stop over-investing. You see these women once a week (max) for a late afternoon or evening. No sleepover until she has been around for at least a year. I don't think you understand what it means to have a woman…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 10:52 PM
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just weird to post in this sub when you don't even know anything about the sub. It's because most of these lazy cunts are grasping at straws to feed their ego and have people tell them "they are good boys", while patting their head and jerking them off. That's exactly why he deleted out.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 06:43 PM
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Here we go again with some BPD bullshit. Not only that all the BPD comments are a massive eye roll, but most of the comments in this thread are shitty. The majority of the guys here are too busy focusing on "his wife" and and that OP is "doing a great job", even though he has been here for like, what? Three or four months now? He still has another six to nine months of serious work on himself, but clearly doesn't want to take responsibility for anything on his end.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 05:53 PM
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Edit: also you posted about this in /r/relationship_advice 26 days ago. Exactly my thoughts. OPs credibility to "work on himself" went out the fucking window with that post.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 03:32 AM
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so want to brainstorm ideas about how to tread forward. Uhh, that is done between a lawyer and you. A part from that, you know there is the divorce section on the sidebar, right? I also recommend reading through Caleb Jone's (Black Dragon) divorce prep section and walkthrough. It might still be on his website, but he also made a few videos on YouTube giving a solid breakdown. Keep in mind, that you have to make all of the planning in the dark without her noticing before you serve her the papers.…
/r/askMRP29/11/23 10:33 PM
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You have come along way - impressive.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 10:31 PM
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Me (34) Been with my first serious gf (31) for almost two years I hate to break it to you, but two years is nothing... If that was the total time of you dating and being in a relationship with her, it's absolutely nothing... You have a shit ton of work to do, which is highlighted by everyone here. Get a lawyer while you are at it, as you could be on the hook for child support for the next number of years. Hit the sidebar and make a fucking plan.
/r/askMRP25/11/23 01:17 AM
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I'm in a mood; therefore, I'm walking through your post for the guys that want to do the work... I make decent money now, nearing US$350K/year after tax (not US-based, but similar COL to NY/SF etc.), but have to work hard, 70-hour weeks. You have no time and energy to spend on you, let alone the people in your life you "supposedly" love. Yeah, I have worked with guys like you. The problem is, you are so invested with your "job" that your covert contract of going above and beyond is going to pay …
/r/askMRP21/11/23 10:00 AM
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/r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/23 03:50 AM
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Shoes Are A Giveaway I recommend having a cleaning set for your shoes. The shoes you wear weekly should be cleaned one/two times a week, while other sets of shoes you were once in a while should be cleaned at least once a month. The longer you leave your shoes dirty; especially, white or light coloured shoes, the harder and longer it takes to clean them perfectly. I recommend using something like this, that, or something similar that is multi-purpose for all textures. Dirty shoes of all types ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 05:17 AM
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I'm getting the feeling she just wants me to kill the puppy. So I've started researching divorce attorneys, coming up with an exit plan, talking to my accountant, looking at apartments, etc.. If you actually nut up and do it, I recommend researching and reading through Black Dragon's/Caleb Jones 'Divorce Rundown' for guys exiting out of their marriage. You might have to do some searching around since he has changed he brand name I believe. His step-by-step guide, along with the 'Divorce Section'…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 04:29 AM
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Plate 1 is pushing for more, keeping being evasive and keep penetrating shit tests. Funny to see that this shit works, until it won’t and she’ll have to be replaced This is why you keep women in your dating rotation at seeing them once a week (max.) and keep everything logistics for the foreseeable future.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 06:31 PM
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Why would you offer that kindness to a woman who has gone out of her way to be publicly disrespectful to you? It's amazing how many guys miss basic boundaries and respect in their own life.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:30 PM
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You were never in a relationship...
/r/askMRP15/11/23 05:46 PM
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I have talked about this over the years in posts and on my Substack not too long ago. The whole term 'Genuine Desire' was coined by retards in the TRP YouTube and social media space to help men become better, or some BS. The problem being is that it doesn't exist... Any man that has spent a decent amount of time with a woman, whether it's when dating, in a relationship, or a marriage will know this to be false. Why? Because the real world comes into play. The whole schtick around the guys that s…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 01:07 AM
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I've read so much PUA content I know what to do. I've been on enough dates that I've had plenty of opportunities to do it. The entire point of the PUA/seduction material is for you to get comfortable with what you want and lead it to where you want it to go. I don't understand you guys that go out on multiple "dates" with women without bouncing her back to your places after the first meet up or inviting her straight over to your place for meet up number two. Women that are interested in you and …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/23 01:40 AM
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So any pointers on that is welcome 😀 Half of the commenters told you what you need to do: Hit the sidebar. You are still focusing way, way too much on your wife's POV instead of yours.
/r/askMRP04/11/23 01:31 AM
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Currently in process of reading through side bar, watched all BPP stuff and reading No More Mr. Nice Guy now. And I’m currently lifting as well. Been doing this for about 3 weeks to a month now. Okay... After a bit the wife and I got into a fight after she asked me to post photos of our family and I said no. No "fights" or "fighting" - ever. I thought you were reading through the sidebar? I asked where she was going and she said “out” and I just said did my best to NGAF and say okay. Any advice …
/r/askMRP01/11/23 08:36 PM
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I saw her in a 2-set and went completely direct and asked for her number. Right time, right place, she's short term travelling and probably wants some exotic dick. Hopefully logistics work. I travel a lot for work & pleasure and this works in both cases. One of the things I've noticed over the years; especially, from my old PUA/seduction days is that women "break rules" for guys they know won't be around for a longer(ish) period of time. For example, if you meet a woman who is travelling on busi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 08:22 PM
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My advice would be to focus on women below 30. The single women between 31 and 38 are interesting creatures to say the least. From my experience, women under 30 always tend to follow the lead, while the over 30 crowd tend to follow many of the concepts discussed in the TRP/MRP sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 05:42 AM
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What do we do when a spouse just packs a night bag and goes back to their parent's place after an argument? Shut the fuck up. Why are you arguing? Sidebar.
/r/askMRP04/10/23 07:59 AM
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Now a year and a half into it I don't even bother initiating. Initiate = your job. In addition, MRP is and has never been about 'saving' the relationship. It's about you. Keep the hammer down on your MAP for another 4 to 6 months, while initiating with your wife. After that, you can re-evaluate your progress and the situation you are in.
/r/askMRP18/09/23 03:11 AM
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Second dates, game seemed pretty solid. Just a typical "go for what I want" with physical contact/kissing. No real issues that I could tell, I just couldn't get them back to mine or theirs at the end. Stop calling these "dates", you are hanging out with these women. Also, you should be inviting these women over to your place the second time - full stop. Once you get good with your logistics, you should be bringing women back to your place on the first meet. It's not about fucking them the first …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/23 05:21 AM
1

I'm not American.
/r/askMRP12/09/23 01:40 PM
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Not sure what some of you in the Scandinavian countries are smoking, but when I last checked, Midsummer is over.
/r/askMRP12/09/23 12:32 PM
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He has been asked this question by four different guys and still can't give an answer..
/r/askMRP12/09/23 05:51 AM
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You are a freshly divorced 40 year old. Start reading your way through the entire sidebar, put together a MAP/OYS for yourself, lift regularly, and move forward with your life. If you put in the work on yourself; a year from now, you can be in a better position in every aspect of your life. You will come back to this post, shake your head, and be glad that you have improved. Get to work.
/r/askMRP12/09/23 04:29 AM
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What have you worked through on the sidebar?
/r/askMRP12/09/23 04:25 AM
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but an RP perspective seemed like it'd be the most accurate. You "drive-by" guys don't really seem to get it, do you?
/r/askMRP11/09/23 10:36 PM
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AWALT RE: Sidebar
/r/askMRP11/09/23 10:34 PM
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Rule 11
/r/askMRP09/09/23 03:52 AM
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So much going on here I won't even touch, but... im in the gym 5x a week.. sometimes 2x a day.. You can't outwork a bad diet. Sort your diet out first (no sugar, no pop/soda, cut out alcohol, no fast food, etc.) and start tracking your daily caloric intake (i.e. MyFitnessPal) along with your macros. Sidebar is on the right side on your desktop, retard. If you are on mobile, click the three dots on the main MRP sub.
/r/askMRP08/09/23 05:34 PM
1

One thing I’d say with OLD is start light Kino early on This goes for any women you go out with; regardless of if it's online or on the streets...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 12:17 AM
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Game You are kind of getting ahead of yourself (to a degree) when it comes to the LTR/relationship talk. You ideally need to get these women into your dating rotation and date them for a year (12 months) or two to get an idea if they are relationship worthy. Newsflash: the majority of women will not be LTR/relationship worthy. This is an opportunity for you to focus on yourself and see what women over the course of a year or so will either jump onboard your boat or jump off 6 or 8 months in. Ide…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 12:16 AM
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You follow MRP and you don't know what a MAP is...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 08:07 AM
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News Flash: You’re the plate. She is doing everything right, I give her credit tbh.
/r/askMRP04/09/23 02:32 AM
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You're a weird dude. It's nice to see you around, amigo.
/r/askMRP03/09/23 11:44 PM
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You are already asking questions about what to do with a post-wall plate of 4 months who happens to be a single mom... Yeah, get back to work on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP03/09/23 08:11 PM
1

Sounds like you haven't internalized the any of the info from the course prereq's on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP01/09/23 11:57 PM
7

You had 41 statements in this post about your wife. What do you think she wants?
/r/askMRP27/08/23 01:26 AM
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Lazy post = Lazy answers
/r/askMRP25/08/23 09:47 PM
2

You might need to get some professional help around the escort/hooker addiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 06:38 AM
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Get a higher paying job To get a higher "paying job", your focus needs to be on a position that has either a.) higher/more responsibility, b.) your value add to the company is what they are looking for, and c.) willing to take risk. These three points here are the main reason why most people only make lateral moves in their career field, instead of moves that genuinely move you up the chain of command.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 07:18 PM
1

I have never had any issues making new friends. This is coming from a guy that has lived on five different continents over the last 5/6 years. It's really simple... Are you an attractive person to be around? Do you make plans? To you go out and do the things you want to do; therefore, meeting people at these activities/events/socials? It all comes down to you. Also, there is so much work on the sidebar around building a better 'social' life. Have you bothered to look there?
/r/askMRP18/08/23 06:41 AM
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He was an orbiter the entire time. I soon grew a crush on her because she was so cool to talk to and be around... A 30 year old man that speaks like a 12 year old.
/r/askMRP09/08/23 09:51 PM
1

Ever stop to consider that the issue is the fact that the things people are posting is stupid, poorly thought out, and not grounded in experience or reality? All that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 07:06 AM
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This is not TRP. I'm not reading all of this dribble. You were dating this girl for 7 months. That's not a relationship... Shut your mouth, hit the sidebar, lift heavy, and go get some life experience over the next 5 to 7 years before posting here again.
/r/askMRP07/08/23 10:01 PM
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Mid 20's, in a LTR of 1.5y If you didn't date this woman for at least a year before getting into a relationship, there is no way you properly stated your boundaries. Your "LTR" smells of just being around a woman for a year and a bit...
/r/askMRP01/08/23 08:56 PM
3

You don't even know the difference between dating someone and being in a relationship...
/r/askMRP28/07/23 07:41 PM
3

I've been dating this girl for about 5 months. Plate.
/r/askMRP28/07/23 07:41 PM
6

This isn't /r/asktrp...
/r/askMRP28/07/23 03:33 AM
1

I set a firm boundary with my LTR-- she was taking me for granted on some things and I called her out about it. I started to introduce more overt dread, and she has been responding to it. Keep in mind since you set the firm boundary, this is her only gimme... If she crosses the boundary again, you have to be prepared to demote her back down to the dating rotation [once again] while you sample other pussy in the dating rotation. Firm/no-go boundaries mean shit if you aren't willing to act on them…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 03:31 AM
4

However, another thing that draws me in ltr is the desire to have a family, that is a part of my goals for the next decade. First off, that's not a goal. A goal(s) have to do with you, not other people (family included). If you have that as a goal, you will gloss over multiple red flags with women you are in a relationship with that you are planning on marrying/having kids with, as your ego will be running the show. Secondly, all of that is entirely up to the women you are involved with as they …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 05:28 PM
1

This is my next challenge: to condition myself not to cling in a relationship You are like a lot of new guys that come here where you need to learn the difference between dating and relationship/LTR. If you are being honest with yourself, you will not be in a relationship for at least a couple of years. Slow down and date these women for a long period of time before you even consider a relationship. The old rule of thumb is 12 months (minimum) before even considering a relationship. Needy behavi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 01:07 AM
1

You need fixing, not her. Underrated comment in this entire thread. A lot of the responses are very blue.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 01:02 AM
0

We get it, you are a new guy around here.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 10:31 PM
1

I mean, I'm not surprised with your response as you are a 20 year old giving marriage advice to guys on MRP with your ample experience in the world and with women - lol.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 09:49 PM
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A lot of jargon in your response here. It could easily be summed up as become attractive, do the things you want to do, and let people earn a place in your life.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 07:18 PM
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Then it wasn't evidence or you are an idiot. Your diagnosis' are way too smart for some of these retards. This guy couldn't even read the basics before deciding to react right away...
/r/askMRP26/07/23 04:08 AM
1

She was giving you a vibe check and you failed it. Lol. Off to her next option.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 04:07 AM
1

Country still offers Marraige 1.0 Saudi Arabia Not anymore... The whole of the Middle East (KSA, UAE, Qatar, etc.) has changed rapidly over the last decade with divorce rates through the roof, marriage rates falling, and the increase of feminism across the entirety in the GCC .
/r/askMRP26/07/23 04:06 AM
3

Sidebar is where you do the work, retard.
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:05 AM
3

Since it looks like you haven’t touched the side bar whatsoever, I’ll give you a freebie and explain why: Too kind of you. He is a lost cause...
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:00 AM
2

No mention of any work done on the sidebar...
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:59 AM
3

You are better off posting in /r/relationships. You need to put in a fuck-ton of work on yourself and I don't think you want too.
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:57 AM
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Your post reeks of oneitis, unattractive behaviour, and not working through the sidebar...
/r/askMRP27/06/23 03:44 PM
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LTR 1 year plus together Relationship & sex: We had a very nice week together. I don't know if it is because I am getting more relaxed about our relationship or if it is other factors, but I can feel the dynamic changing. I have read a lot about this "1 year LTR" of yours and honestly, I call a lot of bull shit on it. Based on how you have written about it in the past, it seems like you got into a "relationship" as soon as you started seeing this woman, followed by trying to attach RP concepts t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 12:02 PM
5

With the banning of AskTRP and the main TRP sub not allowing question posts, this is where we are at...
/r/askMRP26/06/23 02:43 AM
3

Sums it up..
/r/askMRP18/06/23 07:11 PM
4

Attached This book was recommended in the seduction/PUA community back in the day to understand basic fundamentals on how people react in situations. It's great to see that it's brought up in this post. The book itself is an interesting read.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 05:59 PM
1

I love you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 08:07 AM
5

Fuck him, I hope he fails.
/r/askMRP08/06/23 08:01 AM
15

Step 1: Hire a lawyer. Step 2: Listen to said lawyers advice. Step 3: Sidebar + Lift = Profit
/r/askMRP08/06/23 01:46 AM
2

Guy that sucks looking for encouragement and gets into a relationship with a woman right away (PS: dating & relationship are two separate things) = internalize the sidebar material, retard.
/r/askMRP08/06/23 01:45 AM
5

I know this isn't the best move, and that I should act with an abundance mentality and brush off failed initiations without being butthurt, and reset the next day. You can't "fake" abundance, it has to be real... Do you have three women in your dating rotation that you are setting up times to meet with every week? Huh? There is your answer.
/r/askMRP31/05/23 07:38 PM
2

Very little encouragement. TRP/MRP has never been some gentleman's club where we whip towels and laugh shit off. It's for you to fix you and figure out your plan moving forward. The majority of the commenters on this post still don't understand that it's not about the group, the wife, the anyone - only you. Risk-taking and healthy discussion would disappear. That's what /r/AskMRP is for. In fact, that's why that sub was made originally, to keep the main sub for OYS, FRs, and other quality, value…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 08:41 AM
2

This post, along with the majority of the commenters here, still don't seem to get what this place is for - value.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 08:35 AM
1

lol
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/23 10:03 PM
2

Time to get to work.
/r/askMRP26/05/23 10:02 PM
1

Providing being in a desireable marriage is one of your goals. In this time period, most guys take their foot off the gas after getting one plate into the dating rotation three months in...
/r/askMRP16/05/23 02:43 AM
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This is all in the sidebar > and you have left us zero info on you and your relationship. That said, when women in long-term relationships have "random, crazy sex acts", it's usually a sign that the relationship is near the end. These are signs that happen when your woman is about to branch swing. She is testing the waters to see if a potential branch will fit her standards, needs, and desires, while keeping you on a semi-drip sex line to keep you interested. If you have just discovered this inf…
/r/askMRP16/05/23 12:20 AM
3

We had agreed to date each other exclusively after about a month So, you promoted a girl you were dating to a relationship within a month!? That's a red flag, buddy... The old school rule of thumb in TRP/MRP is date a girl for a (min) 12 months before promotion. No offence, but you get what you deserve... Stop being so needy. You need a lot of time to date a woman before you consider a relationship.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 08:11 PM
2

But were you exclusive? That's the only part that matters. This is exactly what myself and a couple of others called him out on. From how he described everything, it was him over investing a woman he was dating for a year, not a woman he was in a relationship with. This has plate written all over it, while he was over investing because of his fantasy, ego, and lack of options.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 04:45 PM
3

Almost thirty comments and no one even touched the first point... My gf (26) and I (34M) have been in a relationship for just over a year. Dude, your girl is a plate... That's it. Unless you decided to be in a relationship with her after at least a year of dating, she isn't an "LTR" or a "relationship", this is just some girl you are dating. Do you not know the difference between dating and relationship? This is all in the sidebar > for your info. Speaking of the sidebar, get to work on it. You …
/r/askMRP05/05/23 07:57 AM
1

Been together just over 3.5 years. Crazy, my main plate has been around for that long. Not sure where things went so badly. You know what to do, you have been here before. As the others mentioned, go back to the sidebar and get back to basics. This is why it's important to always check yourself every once in a while and not completely run-a-way once you catch a unicorn.
/r/askMRP02/05/23 02:19 AM
1

This is own your shit. The only requirement is that you own the shit that you're doing. He missed the point a long time ago..
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/23 10:19 AM
1

I love your comments.
/r/askMRP29/04/23 10:07 AM
6

Late 20s M, LTR for 4 years, no kids. Why are you living with this woman... There are so many contradictions in this post that I don't care to even go through all of the problems. Thank god for the others that pointed all of them out. Fix yourself and figure out what your plan is going to be.
/r/askMRP10/04/23 06:51 PM
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