honest question

castironskilletset · 2024-09-22T04:55:36+00:00

This "stuff" is not simple.

It looks simple but when you try to apply this knowledge you gonna struggle.

Because any loser can lift weights and get shredded. Monkey pick weight, money eat chicken and rice. It's not complicated

Leadership, abundance, outcome independence, frame control. These are not things you are born with, they are the things you learn and it's not like learning maths. It's waging war against your own mind and delve into discomfort like you never felt before till you come out other side a changed man.

Any skinny fat loser can get laid with the right game. But marriage is like swimming with your hands tied behind your back. You need to be very good at what you do or you will drown.

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2024-09-22T02:57:08+00:00

If you have to ask, then yes, yes you are.

mrpwtf · 2024-09-22T05:29:10+00:00

Most good things in life are simple but not easy.

Suspicious-Ad7109 · 2024-09-22T06:13:40+00:00

No.

There are actually parallels though. High level autists tend to be very reality based. So if a woman asks "does my bum look big in this ?" they'll answer "yes" if they think so, they don't understand the underlying question, or the social consequences.

So you end up cutting through the crap. In answer to the endless question "Why won't my wife have sex with me ?", you get an honest answer. Once you've excluded actual reasons such as medical ones, then you are left with two sets ; one is "excuses" - she's too tired or busy, being difficult or "reality" - she doesn't want to. You can always tell. The tired wife has the energy to watch Love Island or use Social Media for hours.

The latter splits into "found someone else" and/or "not attracted any more". Both have the same solution ; be a better man for yourself not for someone else, whether a real person or hypothetical.

The results are something Athol Kay wrote, forget where ; (para.) if you become more desirable to women, you will get a partner who wants you. No guarantee it's your current partner.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2024-09-22T03:06:17+00:00

A good portion of us, I'd assume. Aspergers here.

DanubianDelusion · 2024-09-22T06:33:50+00:00

Theory is always simple, but applying this theory in the real world will be hard because 1. Reality is always dynamic. 2. Thus you need to fail, repeat, fail, repeat, fail, repeat… and one day succeed. 3. Our ego will always hinder this exact thing out of fear.

businessstravel · 2024-09-22T17:21:35+00:00

I'm 32 and feel i've wasted so much time.

You probably have...

You are a drive-by retard who doesn't understand the basics. How much work have you done on your MAP? OYS?

BigBoiTFB · 2024-09-26T12:05:57+00:00

What's good for "me" is the only good in this world.

Once you apply this principle meticulously you'll understand all this theory is just based off this one basic principle.

NoHardFeeliings · 2024-09-22T19:10:48+00:00

Just a matter of being aware of some things or not. Has nothing to do with intelligence IMO

Praexology · 2024-09-24T16:19:42+00:00

Yes. However there are a number of sociological and interpersonal failures most of the guys here make.

1) They can't differentiate between another person's opinion of them, and their own opinion of themselves.

2) They can't handle the negative emotion associated with someone having a bad opinion of them, so they twist themselves into knots trying to justify (DEER) in order to appease others.

3) They've been mentally fucked into believing that lacking trust for their partner is somehow a moral failure.

4) Men have been convinced they need beyond a reasonable doubt (>99% certainty) to levy a grievance with a woman. When in reality all you need is probable cause (>51%).

5) Mind virus "I dont care what other people think" was applied to a lot of men. And most of them applied it autistically. It went from "I'm going to do what I think is good/meaningful/important and fuck what other people think" to "I'm not going to do anything and be a slobby piece of shit because fuck what other people think."

The list goes on.

Templeharuspex · 2024-09-26T00:21:40+00:00

This stuff is absolutely not simple or natural. The amount of hoops a man must jump through to have a harmonious relationship with a woman spits in the face of man’s highest virtue, his intellect and reason. Science comes natural to man, how to verbally coerce a disorderly woman into behaving on the other hand does not. Man expresses his highest self when he is engaged in work of the intellect, but then must turn his gaze downward to deal with woman, akin to working with an animal.

Available-Tap157 · 2024-09-28T03:01:44+00:00

For me, whilst I'm certainly retarded, I don't have an issue understanding the context of something and the underlying motivation for a question. I'm not 'autistic' in that sense.

The big surprises for me were that I don't have to be anything other than me. No, not the me that wants to watch porn and play videogames. The part of me in tune with my strength, agression, domiannce etc. That's what women want. They want a man who basically does what he wants. Who knows what he wants and can get what he wants. In this sense 'just be yourself' is true.

Some of us are 'nice guys' and some of us ARE actually nice guys. I personally was also raised by a single mum who absolutely demonised my father who I essentially never had a relationship with. Any Aggression or natural feelings of dominance I would start to feel guilt. I would make myself lower, sometimes out of a genuine concern.

My big problem was not realising that she WANTS me to be 'above' her because attention from someone you, on some level, think is cooler than you, feels good.

And to be honest, I am fucking cooler than her, so by just getting out of my own way and essentially just doing what I want, I am more attractive.

She Wants to suck the dick of the man who is the head of the tribe. And as men we aspire to be the head of the tribe. Blowjobs are amazing when you let a little sex kitten serve you and let her get the pleasure of being useful and desirable to the strongest man which should be you. By being self conscious or feeling guilty I am WEAK and robbing her of joy.

It's fucking taboo but it's true. Masculine dominance is hot to women. They want to be 'under' us. They're not our 'friends', 'partners'. As patrice o neal said 'men are the shit'. We just gotta let ourselves realise it and stop giving a fuck.

Where it gets bizzare is women themselves are frustrated with this. Theyre attracted to whats above them but dont want to be inferior. Like, what the fuck. Can you imagine the level of neurotic torture? I'd be pissy half the time too. Especially when you thought someone was above you, then you see that maybe your more competent, so now you are 'equal'... but then you're deeply unsatisfied. AND you can't consciously admit that you want someone to be better than you because after all feminism has made huge strides and blah blah blah.

Anyway, who fucking cares.

Enjoy yourselves guys.

badgermonkeyIII · 2024-10-06T21:50:18+00:00

Because:

In THEORY the practice and the theory are the same. But in PRACTICE they are not.

Title	honest question
Author	Available-Tap157
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Date	September 22, 2024 2:37 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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