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Work on yourself. https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/1oauz0f/she_already_has_a_new_guy/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1mx7dxs/my_30m_gf_29f_constantly_needs_reassurance_when/ Put the work in where it matters.
/r/RPChristians11/03/26 01:53 PM
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Read the sidebar before posting.
/r/RPChristians20/10/25 12:20 PM
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Put the work in yourself before you ask some random strangers to put in some work for you. How do you think you struggle with self-pity (especially when it comes to dating)? What are some examples? What have you tried to avoid it?
/r/RPChristians25/08/25 08:24 PM
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doesn't want to grow up That's called ego. What I do is good and right. If you tell me I'm acting immature, then I'm ignoring what you say. Ego is the answer.
/r/RPChristians30/07/25 07:47 PM
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Was talking to my son recently about how he has spent his time over the Summer. After we talked a bit, I stressed the takeaway I wanted him to hear and internalize. Just effing "do". He'd do well in the Army. Just go along .. do what you're told. He does super-well with grades in school .. going along, doing what he's told. He needs to work on just fucking Doing. He'll get it wrong. He'll make mistakes. But just fucking Do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/25 11:03 AM
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What was the bitchy part? I ask myself (ie the budget) for things all the time. Doesn't mean I'm bitchy. Maybe I pout a bit if I can't get that bottle of bourbon I want to try, though. Either there's a budget in place for stuff like clothes, or there isn't. My kids ask for shoes; I open the "envelope" system and look at what that kid has in his/her clothing envelope and say "There's $32 in your clothes envelope." Maybe I add something like - "remember, you might need something for your <whatever…
/r/askMRP04/06/25 03:27 PM
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Door-pulls for the win. Fuckarounditis can be dealt with on its own.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:16 PM
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Do you even RP bro? What's the MAP your following say is next? Your entire post is "what should I do?" do get her to fuck me more.
/r/askMRP30/04/25 01:04 PM
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Do you want to discuss why the woman acted the way she acted? Do you want this relationship discussion centered on a particular woman's genuine affection (or lack thereof), her genuine desire (or lack thereof), or her fear/anxiety (or lack thereof)?
/r/askMRP24/04/25 12:54 PM
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We cannot provide a meaningful response unless you post pictures of how beautiful this girl was in 2019.
/r/RPChristians28/02/25 01:45 PM
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Dear Diary....
/r/RPChristians28/02/25 01:22 PM
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Same answer as your other post... read more of the sidebar. You post too much on reddit. Stop spending so much time on reddit for reddit points and go live a life. That's how you learn to lead. The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida The 48 Laws of Power, Robert Greene
/r/askMRP29/01/25 12:46 PM
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Will her weed guy still be coming over? https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/1hee0r9/victim_puke/
/r/askMRP28/01/25 10:39 PM
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my max bench is like 185 with a spotter. WTF dude. You sort of lift 185? Your inability to answer a question is problematic. Either that or your ego protection.
/r/askMRP28/01/25 09:34 PM
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Lifting: weak stats as I’ve just gotten back into lifting more consistently. hence my lifts Just how bad are they, bro? so I wonder if I put in the effort How about putting in some effort instead of asking us to count noses to make a decision for you? On another note: I’m Christian. She’s an atheist. I'm not going to moralize on you, but what do your morals say about this situation? Not sure how much "effort" you put into a version of Christianity that says hitch up with an atheist. What parts o…
/r/askMRP28/01/25 09:21 PM
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If you're seeking to gain respect from somebody you're already losing the game. You do you, man. Be a normal person.... see some of the other sidebar reading material: General Awesome Guy Shit How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie A River Runs Through It and Other Stories, Norman Maclean Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Robert M. Pirsig
/r/askMRP28/01/25 07:59 PM
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"Manipulative" .. define what you mean here. If you're goal is to manipulate a person (woman or otherwise) into fucking you, then you're doing it wrong. Overt dread is a concept that is debated here. It's basically living 100% in another's frame. Keep tailoring what you are doing to the person you are trying to control to control better. Read the sidebar and search the sub for the concept of overt dread.
/r/askMRP28/01/25 07:26 PM
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Same stuff you had from your last post applies: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/1hni4d8/was_this_a_mix_of_shit_and_comfort_tests/
/r/askMRP14/01/25 10:37 PM
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Go back to the beginning and get unplugged?
/r/askMRP14/01/25 09:41 PM
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I define a main event as a last ditch effort by a wife to maintain control up to an event which afterwards, the wife turns into a sweet submissive woman. I have had 2 of these, one of them detailed above. That's called hysterical bonding. Look it up. See if you can determine a difference between a main event and hysterical bonding.
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 01:10 PM
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Why not get a different house to sleep in? Go big or go home, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/24 07:05 PM
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You feel like you need to cheat to be a real man. You feel like you could motivate yourself to do something good for yourself if you had a woman you could cheat on. You feel yada-yada because of a woman... How many ways can you say what you're saying and still sound like a dick?
/r/askMRP06/12/24 05:34 PM
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Have opinions or thoughts, man. Just don't come spouting like a keyboard thunder-puppy and expect anybody to listen to your daydreaming.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 11:42 AM
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You're counting days. You've got a scoreboard, so you're losing the game. Playing the game is losing.
/r/askMRP19/11/24 05:38 PM
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Do you have a lawyer yet? Don't sign junk without a lawyer. Most likely not going to get better from here even if you 'chase her right into therapy.' Just move on, dude. And by all means ... do not get this woman pregnant.
/r/RPChristians14/11/24 01:12 PM
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A year ago you were a 34 year old dude asking if getting laid for the first time without being married was a bad thing. https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/19eq2ax/how_bad_is_it_to_try_and_get_laid_outside_of_the/ Now you want to go national? Weird.
/r/RPChristians07/11/24 04:08 PM
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She/her/she/her/she/her .... holy cow man. Do you ever think about anything other than she/her? Change your pronouns yet?
/r/askMRP21/10/24 03:43 PM
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Your "need" for her to feel or have a taste of whatever ... that is the opposite of dread. Read the sidebar. Don't look for spreadsheets or shortcuts.
/r/askMRP07/10/24 11:58 AM
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A sidebar?
/r/RPChristians26/09/24 04:40 PM
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In what way? RP is about guys swapping notes. That's the function of this place. How does the stuff you post work itself out in your life?
/r/RPChristians26/09/24 03:04 PM
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How do you use this information in your life?
/r/RPChristians26/09/24 01:52 PM
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Navels. Gaze at navels. Usually your own, but if you've got a navel-gazing group you can really go far.
/r/askMRP23/09/24 12:20 AM
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Pretty sure most of the guys here would better spend their time focusing on themselves and making improvements there instead of trying to tell a woman (or women) what to do. Believe what you want, but RP centers around fixing the man. Telling men something about "woman" typically doesn't help most folks who find this RP world.
/r/RPChristians23/09/24 12:19 AM
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Hey ... I'm all for a good time with a woman where she's squirming ... but in a different way than OP is talking.
/r/RPChristians12/09/24 09:07 PM
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Q: What's your favorite verse? A: The one that tells women not to talk. And not even the verse, but how a woman responds to it. That's how OP comes across in the original post. That's anti-RP. I'm not saying the verse or some part of the bible is anti-RP. Whole point of this post, though? Yeah ... not what needs to be going on here IMO. Frame is entirely wrapped up with how a woman responds to something.
/r/RPChristians12/09/24 08:54 PM
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And the part about a woman and what she can or cannot do is your favorite part? Don't you see how effing ANTI-red pill that is? If that verse is the center of what you see in the bible, then you're not working in an RP framework.
/r/RPChristians12/09/24 08:45 PM
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You've got over 7 years of posts about women. You should invest in therapy.
/r/RPChristians12/09/24 08:34 PM
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You define your interaction with women on their reaction to a single verse? I haven't even looked it up, man. But it sounds like your frame is entirely wrapped up in women. Who hurt you, bro?
/r/RPChristians12/09/24 08:31 PM
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As for your question why I don’t post here: because of inactivity You don't contribute activity because of inactivity. You must be great at parties.
/r/RPChristians30/08/24 12:53 PM
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If you have to say that ...... ..... ..........
/r/askMRP29/08/24 08:38 PM
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You post in architecture and other stuff.. Why don't you post here?
/r/RPChristians29/08/24 08:38 PM
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Talking is not your answer. I'd give you 5 words. If it's more than 5 words, it's not worth saying.
/r/askMRP29/08/24 05:40 PM
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What's your goal? What's your measuring stick for success (or lack thereof)?
/r/askMRP28/08/24 02:59 PM
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Do people listen to street preachers where you are?
/r/RPChristians15/08/24 02:21 PM
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Your woman is your entire gauge for how you think the world sees you. You do not have frame. Having a convo about changes your mid-40's woman may or may not be going through and what to expect is different from the way you see things here. What do you want life to look like? How can you get it there?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 12:56 PM
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You ever been to a roller coaster park? I would have killed to have had a wheelchair friend back in the day.
/r/askMRP07/08/24 11:15 AM
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Words (or probably more words in your case) aren't the answer.
/r/RPChristians03/08/24 09:33 PM
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Navel-gazing is no good. And you use too many words. Horns said it great above.
/r/askMRP02/08/24 08:35 PM
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You define frame this way: It's the character and persona we display, which others use to judge us, physically, intellectually, and emotionally. I think that's a bad definition. 'How' does defining your frame as what others do a good thing? When speaking of the concept of frame - 'How' is saying "all of them are fantastic" help the conversation? If they are all fantastic - even your definition - 'What' do you hope to accomplish with a post like this?
/r/askMRP02/08/24 12:05 PM
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But my question is, did you learn the theory of game first before going and trying it, or did you just go out there and make progressively less of an idiot out of yourself each time? Rephrase "game" with "gym" in your question .. in your mindset.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 02:48 PM
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Whoosh
/r/askMRP01/08/24 01:44 PM
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DYEL, bro? There's a reason lifting is the lynch pin for sticking around here.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 01:06 PM
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Your time would have been better spent doing a door pull instead of doing a post. Sounds like you know enough to make progress in the gym. Do a door pull. Start with whatever worked best before you stopped lifting. Then in between sets do some research on programs. Google the same ones you googled years ago (phraks and ss and 531 and ppl and 5 day split). And then do what works for you and your schedule. Stop posting, and act.
/r/askMRP22/07/24 02:53 PM
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Do you have "the move" I can write on my hand, though? I need some crib notes, man!
/r/askMRP19/07/24 03:53 PM
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You scavenge for meaning in dumpsters of despair, Wasting your days with bins that couldn't care. Lost among trash, your purpose unclear, A life squandered, chasing garbage year after year.
/r/askMRP18/07/24 12:04 PM
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Then don't play the game. Make up your own game and play it. Take some notes along the way and share what works for you and what doesn't.
/r/RPChristians11/07/24 12:15 PM
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As a community we should surely suggest not to masturbate in general in the off chance that it is a sin regardless? Meh ... eating too much is a sin for some. Eating meat may be a sin for others. I'm not a fan of an in general on the off chance it might be a sin let's ban something argument. What else should we surely suggest not to do on this basis?
/r/RPChristians27/06/24 11:17 AM
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An unmarried guy's penis can ejaculate without porn or adulterous thoughts in his brain. That's my assumption. Doesn't even require the act of masturbation - "wet dreams." You asked a question about masturbation. I answered a question about masturbation. Small boys often touch their penis - years before they are introduced to the concept of porn ... my assumption is because it feels good. Maybe you should define the term masturbation to help remove confusion. You are adding the concepts of porn/…
/r/RPChristians26/06/24 11:33 AM
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You asked about masturbating. Didn't mention porn in your question. I answered your question about masturbating. I did not speak to porn usage in my answer. Why are you conflating the two?
/r/RPChristians26/06/24 11:22 AM
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Because it feels good? Not a single male here, but I'll answer the question with the obvious. Not sure what answer you're expecting... Have you ever tried it?
/r/RPChristians26/06/24 10:58 AM
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Anybody have a Top 10 list for NoREDDIT for a day? Both Post and Comment retention have measurable benefits. https://www.reddit.com/user/Europa_Teles_BTR/submitted/
/r/RPChristians25/06/24 05:01 PM
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Several large concepts distilled down with few words. Love seeing the "pill" form dispensed.
/r/askMRP24/06/24 01:23 PM
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If you're at a loss, make it an experience. Go do something you want to do that a woman who likes spending time with you would enjoy. Unless you just don't want to spend time with your wife.
/r/askMRP06/06/24 07:27 PM
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Sounds like somebody needs a practice hug.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 03:26 PM
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Sounds like you've got the spreadsheet sorted out. +2 months penalty accepted.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 07:18 PM
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Better advise has been given (Praex).. But I'll ask. Any kids? If not, then just cut ties and move on.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 07:16 PM
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https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/385.On_Bullshit On Bullshit. Decent book.
/r/RPChristians23/05/24 06:43 PM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=when+I+say+no+I+feel+guilty+audiobook
/r/askMRP17/05/24 09:43 PM
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Meh ... I've got friends of different levels. One guy I know is married to my wife's best friend. Turns out this guy tells his wife more than I'd prefer. Good thing I found that out early with something innocuous. Took some shit from my wife one night that seemed to come out of left field. Turns out it came from something I had said to a friend that made its way to his wife and then to my wife. Not a big problem. Guy is still my friend. Good friend at that. But I don't speak my mind on some issu…
/r/askMRP17/05/24 06:37 PM
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Her, her. Stop asking those questions. Doesn't matter. Cut the rope and do you. You'll be better off in 2 years time and as long as you get your head out of a woman's ass you'll have many years ahead of you.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 05:59 PM
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She's already told you she doesn't want you as her rock. Can't chase that. Some things just aren't meant to be.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 05:39 PM
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My wife spent a night in jail for DV. I'm 6'2" and she's 5'1" or so. If you find yourself in fight situations, then removal is probably the best option. But stay clear in your mind and stoic in your responses. If you're at this level, then a USB voice recorder that you turn on when you get home is probably a good idea. Something that just stays in your pocket. And if you're at this point, then divorce is your best bet. Just go that route no matter what happens. Let her know you are recording and…
/r/askMRP10/05/24 05:38 PM
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Stop with all the SHE in your head and your word vomit. Get the lawyer. Do what your lawyer says is best for you and the kids. Don't leave the house until the lawyer says to leave.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 03:35 PM
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Not
/r/askMRP03/05/24 07:24 PM
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You've made one post in you reddit username career. And this is it? Count noses?
/r/askMRP12/04/24 06:45 PM
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You've been posting at MRP for a year. You've been with the same woman for 8.5 years and just got married 6 months ago. Pretty sure your 'fake it til you make it' doesn't matter to her. You see it as all one big act. Dance monkey, dance. And you're asking this question now? You're MRP train seems to be running in reverse buddy.
/r/askMRP02/04/24 12:48 PM
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If you google "managing expectations as a leader" you'll come up with tons of hits. Good leaders manage expectations.
/r/askMRP28/03/24 06:39 PM
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context https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/16awagn/divorcing_a_contentious_wife/ context https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/18lxl96/wife_says_she_wont_meet_my_sexual_needs_until_i/
/r/askRPC28/03/24 04:50 PM
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You - don't have many hobbies. You - honestly don't know what to do with your life. And your plan is - Nothing man, maybe evangelizing. How old are you? Stop posting on reddit if you want to improve your social life. Go join a chess club locally. .. like in person. Meet people and do things. If you honestly don't know what to do with your life, then do your best to set yourself up for success. Hit the gym. Injury or not. Set reasonable goals (with a dr if necessary). Hit the goals. Knock them ou…
/r/RPChristians06/03/24 12:08 PM
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Weird how that was a big flex at camp that just maybe, maybe maybe might have gotten a smile from some girl. The chair carryers - I think I could with a fair amount of accuracy point out future beta husbands just by watching a camp service clean-up effort in a gymnasium.
/r/RPChristians06/03/24 12:02 PM
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Logic applies here .. (or it doesn't). The # of times you've seen a case doesn't help when you straw man your argument. Paul killed a lot of people. "Sowwy" was not in his vocabulary. Yet somehow the church warmed up to him and decided it was OK to get over his past killing of people. Sure, miracles and all. But he was an abusive ex who repented and was forgiven. Caricature/straw man doesn't help your point.
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 02:25 PM
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RP is a lens. If you do the work it will internalize. Your personhood (your catholic ... so your soul) will be changed by the work. It's like any other worldview. It's just a lens. It's how you look at the world. Have you ever done any study on worldviews? Take a worldview class in college if you have the opportunity. Why do you not explain to any passerby (who might be a potential thief) that you don't want to give away your wallet? Serious question. You weren't looking for somebody to give you…
/r/askMRP27/02/24 12:16 PM
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When you caricature the abusive ex, because he said he was “soo sowwy.” you hurt your point. Good theology should be robust enough to handle an abusive ex who has repented and been forgiven (whether the woman leaves or stays). "Sowwy" isn't part of a robust theology. Caricature/straw man doesn't help your point.
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 12:07 PM
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You've posted that ? several places now about what this woman is doing in her time she's not with you. You then delete the posts. https://www.reddit.com/r/Anxiety/comments/1ag9a06/can_anxiety_attack_be_a_sign_of_guilt/ Stop posting and get a lawyer.
/r/askMRP19/02/24 12:06 PM
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Go back to the other subs and keep the arguments going ... https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/1asc8ks/she_swore_on_her_dead_fathers_eternal_soul/ ... and then delete your posts. Or, just STFU. Don't care. Just stop wasting time here.
/r/askMRP19/02/24 12:03 PM
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Sir, this is a Wendy's. Why are you going to a women's group to teach us something? Sure, it's helpful to see life at work sometimes and be able to make connections or be able to describe what's happening. But don't bring a shitsandwhich here and plate it for us hoping we enjoy it. If we want shit we can go dig it up ourselves. Also, for ever living fucks sake ... you're 67 years old. Please for the love of all things holy ... please tell me you have better4 things to do than spend in redditing …
/r/askMRP18/02/24 06:07 PM
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Not to speak for OP ... but if you are/were religious and were brought up in a Christian mindset, then you've got certain things you believe about marriage. Iron Rule #6 flies in the face of what most churches believe these days. White knights abound in the church.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/24 10:20 PM
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Are you 5'7" or 6'7"? https://www.reddit.com/r/AppalachianTrail/comments/18cv8or/question_for_the_tall_hikers/ Enjoyed reading your post .. nice journal entry. But are you 5'7" or 6'7"? Confused here based on your post history.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/24 04:48 PM
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If you're with a woman who has no boundaries, then you are a low-value individual. The only people who are with somebody that has no boundaries is somebody that struggles with that concept themselves.
/r/askMRP09/02/24 05:18 PM
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Stats?
/r/RPChristians09/02/24 04:32 PM
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Stats?
/r/RPChristians09/02/24 04:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/t2e79b/a_word_about_posting_stats/
/r/RPChristians09/02/24 04:28 PM
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Stats?
/r/RPChristians09/02/24 04:27 PM
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Stats?
/r/RPChristians09/02/24 04:24 PM
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Are we going for a new record? How many times in the same post/replies can OP ask "Should I be in this relationship?" Holy fuck, OP ... stop asking the question with such obsession. Make a spreadsheet. Put columns on the spreadsheet like "I like her" and "I don't like her" and see which column wins. We don't give a fuck, dude. You're TWO MONTHS into "commitment" ... and you want an LTR. Get your unicorn hunting license and take a trip.
/r/askMRP08/02/24 12:09 PM
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What's the "mission" being talked about? What "mission" do you have that risks upsetting your marriage?
/r/askRPC08/02/24 12:04 PM
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with not being able to "turn on" attractive behaviors with their wife and kill their unattractive behaviors The Konami Code is what you seek.
/r/askMRP05/02/24 01:40 PM
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Crab in a bucket much? Anything of value in your post? Spend less time on web and karma farming; spend more time in the gym.
/r/RPChristians26/01/24 01:41 PM
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Like I just want to prove this to myself. Just to shed this terrible feeling that I'm an ugly unf---able person. You are uneffable. So? Start making different choices from what you've made if you want to change. Prove to yourself you can go to the gym. Set a goal. Hit the goal. Make a goal to do a body weight bench, 1.5x body weight squat, and 2x body weight deadlift in 6 months. By the end of July you should be able to accomplish this goal. Realistic goal. Definite goal with a time tied to it. …
/r/askRPC25/01/24 12:33 PM
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My thoughts?? You effing posted again? Take your cup of diet Coke and pour it on your keyboard. Take your phone and drop it in a pool. And stop posting. That's what I think.
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 12:26 PM
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Again ... words. You're using words to explain why you don't have a job. You're using words to explain how it might be a good opportunity to work on something. You'd probably benefit from spilling coffee on your keyboard and dropping your phone in a pool. But you won't do it. You'll keep that phone in your salty, cheesy, crusty hands instead of going to the gym to build strength of body, mind, and character.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 07:15 PM
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Pretty sure moaning and groaning about the suck you've made your life the past 34 years isn't smiled upon from a Christian perspective either. If you don't want to hit a prostitute to get it out of your system, then fine, don't. At least stop looking to sex (plus some emotionally-close relationship that you've got no idea how to define or create) to solve the mental hellhole you've created for yourself.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 07:13 PM
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The DO something instead of trying to stop doing something. Go the gym. Get a job.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 07:11 PM
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What sort of response is a "mental hellhole"? How has it been different from your previous 33 years? Stop finding crap to blame your choices on. Own your choices. Only then can you find something akin to the power to make different choices.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:32 PM
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And if you're serious about taking meds ... stop posting, start doing some googles, and find a doc to prescribe the meds. https://forensicnetwork.scot.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/Anti-Libidinal-Guidance-2022.pdf The research is out there. SSRI's and some other meds have been shown to reduce men's libido - antiandrogen medicines.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:30 PM
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There are tons of men who are married and don't get the sex they want. They look to sex for their ultimate fulfillment and validation. Sucks to be them, too. Take some estrogen pills if you want. Cut off your balls if you want. Heck .. go visit some prostitute in Canada that will let you screw her. You've got to figure out what you want in life and actually go for it. So far you've got 34 years of not going for a dang thing. And you're here and there all over REDDIT looking for something quick. …
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:28 PM
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And stop posting on REDDIT about how sucky you feel the life you've made for yourself it. It's not helping you get a better life. You want a pill to take your sex drive away? This is conceptually a Red Pill sub. This sub doesn't exist to help a guy who wants to cut his balls off.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:15 PM
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From your last OYS... Hoping to achieve rapid weight loss, and build muscle. Stop looking for "rapid" anything dude. You took 34 years to get where you are. Took you 9 months to go from OYS #1 to OYS #2. Do you think this is some speed test? If so, then you already lost. From your last OYS... I've started exercising a lot more in the past few days Stop playing around and lift. Make a spreadsheet if you have to. Check the boxes when you go to the gym if you have to. 15 minutes at the gym? That's …
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:12 PM
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NEW? START HERE: Steel's Detailed Guide To Married Red Pill
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/24 08:54 PM
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Sounds like you're trying to decide which path you should take based on getting a certain response out of a woman. Let us know how that works.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 12:00 PM
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What have you read? I recommended my wife read WISNIFG when she saw it and asked a question about it. Do you read much? If you're a regular reader, then you've most likely got books laying around. I've always got 4-5 books on my nightstand. Maybe my wife sees what they are; maybe she doesn't. Does it matter either way?
/r/askMRP19/01/24 06:10 PM
6

I think you should read the comments from your other post ABOUT THE SAME GIRL: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/18tp1xc/can_obligated_compliance_turn_into_genuine/
/r/askMRP18/01/24 02:47 PM
1

Boundary's gonna boundary. Am I right?
/r/RPChristians18/01/24 01:38 PM
4

I am keeping a tally of the shit tests that I am passing Collators gonna collate
/r/askMRP17/01/24 12:18 PM
3

Everybody is waiting for the next spreadsheet guy to come along.
/r/askMRP17/01/24 12:18 PM
2

Based on your recent posts, part of the response might be because of how many words you use and how you use them.
/r/RPChristians16/01/24 12:05 PM
0

Any routine that gets you doing regular door-pulls is a good beginner routine. If you're doing door-pulls regularly, then go back to that post from a few hours before yours and read it again.
/r/askMRP10/01/24 02:36 PM
7

Can't find the post, but here's the contents of a post that resonated with me. Maybe it's a lost cause on your wife, but the ability to hit the reset button day-in/day-out is a skill to work on for your own benefit. This is not my example; I copied this from somewhere on the reddits a few years ago and keep it in my files of helpful stuff. Growing up we had a cat. Really nice cat, but definitely an "only cat" and it was very cat like in that it had times where it completely wanted to be alone an…
/r/askMRP09/01/24 05:30 PM
0

My 14yo son put together our tramp. I'm DEERing. You're asking for validation and a count of noses on the interwebs. Keep it going.
/r/askMRP08/01/24 08:25 PM
1

Have you ever put together a trampoline? It's well within the strength of a woman to do it unless it's some gymnastics professional tramp. The kid is three years old. I'm working off the assumption that she can put the tramp together. If she can't, then sure .. do it with/for the kid when he has custody. Ping her, make sure they can come over together at a certain time to get shit done (put tramp together); then go put it together; then bounce.
/r/askMRP08/01/24 11:57 AM
13

Say you're benching and somebody comes along and tries to sabotage you .. actively try to mess you up. Hits the bar; takes a plate off .. possible real hurt/injury crap. How would you deal with that person? How would your ego react? What if somebody comes along and negs you .. talks shit about your low #'s. How would you deal with that person? How would your ego react? What if somebody came alongside and tried to point out problems with your form with the best, most awesome communication style i…
/r/askMRP05/01/24 05:00 PM
11

Do stuff with/for your kid. Nothing for the wife basically. You're divorcing. Dissolution .. like it's gone. Separating yourself from something .. because it's gone. Trampoline? Yeah .. maybe the kid needs a trampoline, but if it's not at your house, why would you assemble a large toy on somebody else's property? Unless that person is a friend I spend Saturday's with sometime anyway and/or there's beer and a cigar afterwards, I'm out. Do you set trampolines up for people regularly? If so, will y…
/r/askMRP05/01/24 12:19 PM
1

Go the gym. Lift heavy weights. 10 push-ups for a 29 year old is abysmal. You sound like you're starting a sprint with your lists and lists. Hit the gym. Download the Stronglifts 5x5 app and check the boxes; do the door-pulls and check the boxes in the app. Life isn't best done as a sprint like your last 2 weeks. Sure, good to have sprints sometimes. But you're doing 10 push-ups at a time. That is spectacularly underwhelming. Lift.
/r/RPChristians04/01/24 12:36 PM
7

Somebody that's not short.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/24 03:22 PM
2

A diary. A fucking diary is where you write shit and process.
/r/askMRP18/12/23 12:26 PM
2

Where do you want to go out? Are you trying to make her jealous? If you're whole goal is to try and make her jealous, then go to a red-light district and leave your location on. Go to a singles bar or a dance club and leave your location on. Why are you doing what you're doing?
/r/askMRP15/12/23 06:04 PM
17

Don't have kids with this woman. My wife credibly threatened suicide; I called the cops; she spent a week in a mental institution. We've got four kids. Unless your wife is a unicorn and finds some internal fount of therapeutic knowledge, you're wasting your time. Hint, hint .. your wife's not a unicorn. If you see children as part of your plan for your life, then find a different woman.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 01:00 PM
3

Bring Suzy home from the bar Friday night. 22f should get the idea.
/r/askMRP11/12/23 01:54 PM
2

I have so much negativity for past couple of weeks that I want to pack my stuff and go vanish If you're acting in your frame, the outside negativity will not determine your stay/go plans. You will plans things with the resources at your disposal. Ie ... a lawyer.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 10:27 PM
14

But his shoulders are broad.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 01:46 AM
5

It means you swallow more protein. You put it in your mouth, you chew it, and you swallow it. It comes in many forms. Chicken, steak, cottage cheese, almonds ... the list goes on. That is what love looks like for a 6'2" 33-year old.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 01:24 AM
2

Have you read the book called "The Song of Solomon"?
/r/RPChristians27/11/23 02:48 PM
9

Stop trying to patch a ship. Stop writing so much (unless it's in a diary that nobody reads). Do life. What do you want to do today? Go do it. Why are you responding to her questions about "relationship" or "vision"? Do you respond to people who like to pick arguments with you?
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:01 PM
-4

Read less. Do more.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 03:55 PM
2

Holy shit what a throw-back. I laughed at this bro. Randy Travis or John Michael Montgomery anybody?
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:21 PM
44

Maybe you should chase harder. You know ... you already called her office. Just show up at her office with a tux on and a dozen red roses. That'll show her. That'll get her back.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:00 PM
1

Bury the lead much?
/r/askMRP14/11/23 12:45 PM
6

You've been less than half-assing it for five years. Go back to the answers you got on this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8ssxni/deleted_by_user/ Your ego is fragile as a wet sack.
/r/askMRP03/11/23 04:48 PM
11

I red the sidebar. Read it again?
/r/askMRP03/11/23 01:17 PM
1

If you've got nothing better to do than watch Youtube for an hour before bed, why does it matter what she does while you're watching Youtube? She can be in the room or our of the room .. or am I missing something? You do you.
/r/askMRP01/11/23 07:48 PM
6

If she wasn't bitchy earlier, would you have sat next to her and watched TV while she watched TikTok? Why do your normally do that behavior? Is that something you want to do? Or are you hoping to get something in return for doing that behavior? Either put something on the TV you want to watch, and maybe get a pillow or a bourbon and get comfortable if you want to watch something. Or, go do something worthwhile with your time that you want to do. Sounds like every evening in your house is one big…
/r/askMRP01/11/23 06:30 PM
14

She doesn't respect you ... bottom line. No quick fix there. But as far as getting out of the house ... What snacks are being packed, man? Get a man-bag. Put some small containers with Cheerios in it .. maybe some on the go apple-sauce packets. When it's time to leave, get the bag you've packed that stays ready. We called it a diaper bag at our house.
/r/askMRP30/10/23 12:30 PM
3

Phone a friend is not a good idea. It's not going to help you build frame.
/r/askMRP30/10/23 12:09 PM
3

Pussy
/r/askMRP31/08/23 12:35 PM
1

Tanner Guzy does coaching. He is on the style side of things, but it bleeds into all of life. And Tanner knows this based on the things of his I've read. I have not used his coaching. https://masculine-style.com/
/r/askRPC24/08/23 02:17 PM
3

Sounds like you fast-forwaded to the last chapter of Athol Kay's book - "fuck you or fuck me." Pretty sure that chapter lays out the plan and what some possible outcomes are. Let us know how it works.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 01:21 PM
4

I somewhat agree with what you are saying. It's easy to read the book, try the tricks in the book as cheat codes .. and be pissed when people still aren't interested in hanging out with me But it can be much more with the right mindset. It can be a tool for personal growth.
/r/askMRP18/08/23 06:45 PM
5

Do you have a budget for vehicles? Do you have a budget for the category of "kid's activities/gymnastics/sports"? If so, these expenses are the end of the world "yo we are BROKE right now" type of expenses. Your finances need some serious tweaking at best .. possibly some reworking. Just get rid of the credit cards. It's a lot harder to "overspend" if you don't have a credit card in-hand. Example: Everybody that is driving age in my family has a single credit card that is used for gas. Everybody…
/r/askMRP18/08/23 12:03 PM
3

Sounds like an OYS post ... why are you married?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 11:33 AM
1

Why do guys post crap like this and then delete it? Ego. That's the answer. If it weren't for mens' ego, I doubt RP subs would exist.
/r/RPChristians16/08/23 11:13 AM
1

Whose will is making you sin?
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 07:24 PM
1

Who makes you unwillfully sin?
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 06:03 PM
1

Go find a journal and vent. Do you think you've ever "unwillfully" sinned? Who makes your choices for you?
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 05:32 PM
2

You post a dozen or more times a day about how you're a bored, lonely male. Your posts reek of neediness and your inability to take action. You talk because you will not do. This is RP .. one of the main tenants is Acta Non Verba. Read the sidebar. Hit the gym. Stop posting on reddit. .. unless you enjoy being a guy at rock bottom that begs the internet for help.
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 11:47 AM
3

You're the rock bottom .. and begging for help guy. Stop schitzo posting on reddit dude.
/r/RPChristians14/08/23 01:53 PM
8

If I were OP, what ideas and concepts would you try to drill into my head? How is OP messing up and what are the do's/ don'ts? Stop reading reddit so much for relationship advice/examples/etc. Hit the gym. Read the resources found in the sidebar. Build a life.
/r/askMRP10/08/23 12:13 PM
1

I need help Agreed. Stop posting on reddit. Put down your phone. Go to the gym. Read a book. And stop posting on reddit.
/r/RPChristians09/08/23 11:39 AM
12

You post like a manic schizo on reddit. You're ashamed to be a virgin at 23. And you post too much on reddit. Stop posting on reddit. Put down your phone. Go to the gym. Read a book. And stop posting on reddit.
/r/RPChristians08/08/23 01:21 PM
3

My current wife of 20+ years told me "not God's will." I pursued and made it happen. Do I regret it? Meh .. doesn't matter much. I did the whole "let life thing happen to me" for many years after getting married to a good Christian virgin girl. Things went to crap-world after about 15 years. Still married .. by a thread I'd say. If you want to pursue, pursue. If you want to find a girl that actually wants to be with you "for now", then pursue somebody else. Your mindset should be to pursue a lif…
/r/RPChristians31/07/23 06:58 PM
8

My read on OP is that the girls are texting while on a date with OP. Bored out of their minds.
/r/askMRP28/07/23 11:48 AM
2

I think you post too much on reddit. Why do you care what we think?
/r/RPChristians26/07/23 07:24 PM
6

What's OP asking for? Let's say he gets a mentor (who has already done all the work) who gives OP the shortcuts (without doing all the work)... where will that leave OP? Who's frame will he be in?
/r/askMRP26/07/23 01:28 PM
25

The sidebar is free. No short cuts here.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 01:13 PM
20

Ron Swanson: "I once worked with a guy for three years and never learned his name. Best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes." If I can have a bourbon or a cigar or a beer with a guy and there's silence, that's not an indicator of something wrong IMO. You're way to far in your head.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 12:57 PM
-5

Your mom. How many immature insults do we need to hurl to get you to stop posting on a subreddit?
/r/askMRP21/07/23 12:45 PM
1

Inquiring minds need to know ... Did you get submitted on the mat by your opponent? Or did you get submitted at home by your wife's feelings (how you feel your wife feels)?
/r/askMRP20/07/23 01:44 PM
6

Good boi. You need to write in a journal man. You are coming here looking for somebody to make decisions for you. And then you're coming back to explain your decisions and flip-flops to us. You'd do better off writing in a journal for a few weeks instead of talking to your wife about sex or probably most anything else it sounds like.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 04:58 PM
11

Still in her head man. You're not going to mention it to her now because some idiot keyboard jockeys said it's a DLV and that might make her dry up faster the "next time." You lasted 24 minutes before folding and trying to rewrite your contract that she isn't aware of. Just get a piece of paper out and write out the damn contract. Head it the "Rain-check for sex contract" and spell it out. Hell .. show it to her if you want. But it should be a learning experience either way. You need to get to a…
/r/askMRP19/07/23 04:56 PM
24

No such thing as a rain-check for sex.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 04:48 PM
9

That's not a shit test.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 06:59 PM
6

Don't turn to your wife for support on this issue. Unattractive af if mommy has to help you on this one. Hit a local AA meeting. Easy answer. Why don't you want to do that? Go to a regularly scheduled meeting once or twice a week. Make progress. There's already a system in place. Take advantage of it; you don't have to be an inventor here.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 03:46 PM
8

It's not obvious for OP. He needs to be able to spell it out. This is what Funk's method is pushing for. You're kind of short-circuiting here. Jumping to a conclusion based on some input/decision. Sure .. maybe it ends up where you're trying to take it. But individuals have to go through the entire process time and time again to start making the short-cut jumps. OP's got to learn how to use the spoon in order to spoon-feed himself.
/r/askMRP12/07/23 07:18 PM
34

stbx .. no kids? No worries.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 08:21 PM
3

Damnit! Why did I click that; where is my self control today. Those 24/7, workout-anytime mirrors always add 17% body fat to any image.
/r/askMRP12/06/23 01:57 PM
7

Do you have any vehicles? Truck? What's it purpose? What value does it add to your life? What do you have to throw at it to maintain it? Car? What's it purpose? What value does it add to your life? What do you have to throw at it to maintain it? Motorcycle? What's it purpose? What value does it add to your life? What do you have to throw at it to maintain it? What's the point of owning any vehicle? It's just going to get used up and break down eventually. It will need replacement parts and const…
/r/askMRP12/06/23 12:44 PM
–

You're going to delete this post in a few days. What's the point here?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 07:58 PM
–

To be fair (lol) ... this is RP ... this place isn't about evaluating a woman's thoughts. RP is bigger than you think. It's almost always about frame .. the thing that is behind everything. The lens through which everything comes and goes. Your projection onto the world around you and your perception of the world around you. If your frame is on point, then what she thinks just won't matter that much, and that's just more attractive to women in general anyway. Seems like you are wrapped up in her…
/r/askRPC02/06/23 04:45 PM
1

Your description of the date is what you think she thought of you and your behavior. Your question is about how you can best manage how she feels moving forward. Do you see a frame problem here? This is aside from the 6'8" 190lb issue of being skinny as a rail. Eat more and hit the gym more.
/r/askRPC02/06/23 04:14 PM
17

Don't tell her to quit her job. At least some states in the US .. income equality determines things moving forward. Talk to a lawyer.
/r/askMRP26/05/23 07:13 PM
6

I'm not following. What exactly are you trying to say here?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/23 02:12 PM
6

Hey .. 20 bucks is 20 bucks.
/r/askMRP25/05/23 03:18 PM
7

Actually .. let's go a step further. Hey .. Rp_Guar .. will you come do my laundry tonight?
/r/askMRP25/05/23 03:08 PM
10

Do your kids ever ask you to do stuff that isn't a priority for you to do in the moment?
/r/askMRP25/05/23 03:07 PM
1

Are you in a spot to be in a good relationship? Don't care about her. But if you're the type of guy that makes promises and than grifts ... good for her on moving on. Imagine what kind of man you could be if you had control over yourself. Then pursue being that man.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 02:47 PM
12

Make sure you wipe up the mess from front to back.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 06:56 PM
1

What's a mouth created for? What are breasts created for? Do you ever use them for an alternative purpose? Or it is more like 50/50? Or 60/40? What's your percentage of breast usage (in marriage)?
/r/RPChristians22/05/23 04:22 PM
7

The sidebar for this sub (askMRP) has a link near the top... "NEW? START HERE: Steel's Detailed Guide To Married Red Pill" Start there.
/r/askMRP10/05/23 04:30 PM
12

Read the sidebar books. No More Mr Nice Guy When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Maybe it’s my approach to initiating; for example my timing, my lack of STFU, or maybe Nope. It's not that. It's just you. She's rejecting YOU .. not your "approach."
/r/askMRP10/05/23 12:45 PM
20

I had a question about initiating sex and if/ how/ when we do it Initiate if you want. Initiate how you want. Initiate when you want. This is the end goal. As you're new, this won't mean much. But it's the place you want to be. Hit the sidebar. STFU. Do the reading. Do the internal work. Get to the gym and lift. "doing my very best to STFU" ... stop wasting words ... we're not your mommy. You don't have to please us or placate us with "but I'm trying my best .... yada yada yada."
/r/askMRP10/05/23 12:44 PM
0

She's your grandma. Sounds like she's got some pretty hard tendencies built in from a lifetime of experience. If you think you can break that programming ... go for it. But this is the RP world you are asking. Sexual strategy. Wasting time with grandma doesn't belong here.
/r/askRPC09/05/23 05:48 PM
1

Go hit the gym. Go for a walk.
/r/askRPC09/05/23 12:24 PM
1

By marinating in the sidebar. But more to your point .. by not trying to manage your wife's feelings. Sounds like you're competing for her.
/r/askMRP08/05/23 12:00 PM
4

By marinating in the sidebar. But more to your point .. by not trying to manage your wife's feelings. Sounds like you're competing for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/23 05:27 PM
2

Dude ... you fantasize about watching your woman getting railed with desire by another man and melting in his arms after she sucks him dry. Your girl moans another man's name during sex. Maybe it's the head injuries ... if so, I hope all the best for you. But if you've just got a thing for your woman fucking somebody else, stfu and get out of here man. Figure out what you want in your life, and go get it. Stop wasting our time.
/r/askMRP28/04/23 12:20 PM
3

Hang on, man... Is this the same girl that moans her ex's name when you fuck sometimes? https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/126vnpo/i_used_a_cock_extender_last_night_with_my_gf_and/
/r/askMRP28/04/23 12:12 PM
2

If this place is on the ball, then the responses should be to simply point you to the side-bar. All the answers are there. Short answers aren't helpful. Biggums reply above that you poo-pooed is actually laser-specific if you are willing to do the work yourself to dig in. Dig into the side-bar material and dig into your own motivations for why you do what you do. If you can't see the covert contracts abounding from your OP, it's because you haven't marinated in the side-bar material enough to le…
/r/askMRP28/04/23 12:05 PM
3

What do you want? A specific, line-item spreadsheet? That's not what this place is about. I'm sure your woman could give you a great list of things to work on.
/r/askMRP27/04/23 02:35 PM
3

Do you have respect for yourself? We don't care about her (or you for that matter).
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/23 02:32 PM
2

Are you asking what place mouth noises should play in this dance you are doing?
/r/askMRP24/04/23 02:28 PM
2

You write this like you just got rejected for sex and nobody understands how you feel... but if somebody would just understand, then maybe they would fuck you. I guess writing here is better than spewing word vomit on your wife. Hitting the gym instead of vomiting on your keyboard would have been a better step.
/r/askMRP19/04/23 12:02 PM
4

As far as dread goes, make sure to wear the lingerie sometimes so it gets some use and she doesn't feel the need to wear it for someone else. Because it's really for you, right? As far as thinking about "style" around the house as it relates to clothes, look around at the mens' style writers. Most of them will get around to addressing your specific question from their mindset. Ex. Tanner Guzy - https://masculine-style.com/
/r/askMRP04/04/23 12:07 PM
4

You sound like the ultimate dancing monkey. Are you really going to justify and base all your decisions in life on what you think a woman (or women) might want?
/r/askMRP29/03/23 12:42 PM
10

You posted a month ago about how she crossed your boundaries and how you might have should have reacted. You're posting now about how she's manipulating you and how you might should react. What about her are you going to post next? Do you see the lack of frame on your part here?
/r/askMRP23/03/23 09:36 PM
2

tard Why do you type the things you do?
/r/askMRP15/03/23 11:19 PM
1

You find it hard to explain stuff because that is mental work. Most of the work with RP is mental models. The behavior changes when the mental models change. If you can't explain why stuff works for you, then why are you doing what you are doing?
/r/askMRP09/03/23 01:11 PM
3

You are prescribing behaviors. This is not what the RP is. The RP world is guys swapping notes. What works for you will not work for another guy sometimes. Maybe it will. What works for you at one point in your journey will not work for you at another point in your journey. Give us a Field Report. Don't give us a post saying "Do this" or "Do that." Give us an "I did this, and this is how it went, and this is what I'd do differently next time" post.
/r/askMRP08/03/23 01:49 PM
2

Doesn't matter what food. Look in the mirror. That should be your best help. Take your clothes off, and look at yourself in the mirror. Stop overthinking this stuff. Count your calories and hit the gym.
/r/askRPC02/03/23 05:14 PM
4

Dude ... you're making posts about "THE BEST WAY" to do such and such. Just go to the gym. Use the barbell the way it was meant to be used. Quietly .. without words. Stop looking for "THE BEST" anything and start doing. You are using the excuse of analyzing and trying to find the best to keep from doing actual work. Count your calories. And go to the gym 4-5x a week. The plan is very simple. Use the internet to find a problem if you need to. Stronglifts 5x5 is a simple program. Download the app.…
/r/askRPC02/03/23 05:13 PM
3

No.
/r/askMRP01/03/23 03:22 PM
2

You not only use the word SORRY too much. You use all the other words too much. Stop it. This OYS should have read thus: I'm a fatty That's it. No more words are necessary for you at this point. Whenever you meet a female she probably feels like she needs a shower after your word vomit is done. Put the fork down. Do some door-pulls. Then do an OYS when something more than I'm a fatty is of concern.
/r/askRPC01/03/23 03:21 PM
1

You use the word SORRY too much. Stop it.
/r/askRPC01/03/23 03:16 PM
8

Get this shit out of here. You, your small penis, your shitty genetics, your love handles, and your long distance wife. Get out.
/r/askMRP22/02/23 02:56 PM
4

Just because you know a guy with a wife and multiple kids doesn't mean that guy has "access to frequest sex" .. and "a woman who loves him deeply." If you know anything about the RP, you could read your post and bet good $$ that you would have neither (good sex or good loving) within about a year of getting married. Have you read any of the sidebar or books? If it takes a woman in your life to make you happy, then your happiness will be fleeting.
/r/askRPC22/02/23 02:54 PM
10

MRP is fundamentally descriptive ... not prescriptive. If you take the prescriptive approach long-term frame will not happen. Guys swapping notes on what worked FOR THEM and what didn't work FOR THEM. If you come looking for a spreadsheet, sure .. spreadsheet guys can make them up, but that's not what MRP is about.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/23 06:29 PM
3

You sound like you're working off a spreadsheet. You got to the last row and there was nothing left for you to do.
/r/askMRP07/02/23 03:54 PM
5

If you really want to be helpful, maybe you could create a spreadsheet for the group. Triple bonus points if you can calculate how many orgasms a woman will have by combining any 3 of the items. You use the word "pioneer". If the RP sub has taken great strides as you seem to say, then why would we look back at how the pioneers did things and try to keep doing them the same way? That's not the way a person (or a community) grows. We don't limit ourselves to the covered wagons and flint-lock rifle…
/r/askMRP02/02/23 11:25 AM
10

You've obviously heard of crabs in a bucket around here. In your post we have an example of one crab in a bucket. And you're doing a damn fine job of keeping your self down in there.
/r/askMRP01/02/23 12:10 PM
8

How often do you end up talking for 2.5 hours after you've "gone to bed"? Better yet ... why do stay up talking for 2.5 hours after you've "gone to bed"?
/r/askMRP27/01/23 03:17 PM
29

This isn't a diary OP. What are you going to do? Acta non-verba. Either create your slut (look up some posts about how to do that). Or don't. What do you want? We don't care.
/r/askMRP26/01/23 02:38 PM
2

Stats? Are you married? Why are you on the phone for "like an hour" with a girl moaning and groaning about her life? Don't you have better things to do?
/r/askMRP26/01/23 12:56 PM
14

Hooker might be a better investment.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/23 02:00 PM
11

Who approved this shit?
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:16 PM
5

If we actually were to answer your question "How far should I take this...?", we would need a lot more info about HER. This tells you your problem is a frame problem. Frame. You have none. You are conditioning your actions/mindset/behavior entirely on hers. You sound like an eighth grader trying to manipulate other people and their emotions. You should have better things to do with your time than spend it with somebody who does not want to spend time with you. Clearly, you do not. The thirst is …
/r/askMRP17/01/23 11:14 AM
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There is only the endless, unrelenting work for the men who are making something of their lives, and the endless unrelenting sexless misery of the men who aren't. Sounds like that was read from a wall inscription somewhere. Should be, at least. Well put.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 12:33 PM
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Wow ... you have the largest store of fucks I've seen in a while. Like .. your fuckstore is bulging from the amount of fucks you've got stored up. You need to tear down that fuckstore because the walls are about to pop. And you need to build bigger fuckstores ... probably 3x the size of what you have currently. Man .. if you're going to give this many fucks, then just own it and do it all the way. It sounds like you need to drill past the 20 year old stuff and get into the 30 and 40 year old stu…
/r/askMRP12/01/23 08:32 PM
13

Boils down to what do you want? Do you want to live with a woman, pay for some of her living expenses, be married to a woman ... who is banging other dudes? If so, go for it. Most of the posts here on askMRP can be answered with the question "What do you want?"
/r/askMRP04/01/23 06:03 PM
6

So you found something you wanted to spend your time on and people you want to spend it with (ie .. not your wife). Glad you took the advice I gave you on your old post already linked by SBIII... And now wife is angry ... what do you want, man? Same question I asked you a year ago... Is your wife the person you want to spend your time with?
/r/askMRP27/12/22 09:26 PM
7

Schedule with Sarah and Mary at the same restaurant, same time. Problem(s) solved.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 03:26 PM
14

You had me at warm leftovers.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 12:45 PM
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We used to study together: me the ugliest guy in school and she the sex symbol. She was smart, intelligent, polite and had an out of this world ass. I won. Is this is how you define winning in life? If you say back and actually planned things the way you wanted ... like a movie script .... is fucking the girl you've thirsted after for 28 years since high school the high point at the end of the story? You've got some mental models that need to change, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/22 11:52 AM
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She she she she she.... She didn't "try" to make you jealous. She DID make you jealous. Focus on yourself a little more.
/r/askMRP22/11/22 01:01 PM
5

Do what my 16yo did. Delete TikTok and Instagram on your phone. I know that's not positive advice. And the best advice may well be something positive for you. But you know the "delete it" advice is good advice. My son got into gym and golf along with school and work. He replaced his TikTok consumption with something good. Your choice as to what you pursue with the free time.
/r/RPChristians21/11/22 06:54 PM
1

How's that working out for you?
/r/askRPC15/11/22 08:45 PM
1

Why are you thinking about leaving now? So what if everybody else is lazy? Are you upset they get paid the same as you? What bothers you about the place? If it's the driving, then find another field. Could you find employment that doesn't require all the driving you don't like? Who cares what everybody else at the place does. Typically, in my line of work ... if you do good work then you get rewarded. If you're at 11 different places and aren't being rewarded for good work, then what does that s…
/r/askRPC15/11/22 05:49 PM
1

What field are you in?
/r/askRPC15/11/22 04:37 PM
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You just got married 4 months ago, and she is going this route already? Well played wife. https://www.reddit.com/r/wedding/comments/vjzhdo/wedding_venue_grass_is_dead_and_full_of_weeds_3/
/r/askMRP08/11/22 10:33 PM
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Don't leave the house until lawyer says leaving the house is in your benefit.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 05:21 PM
1

For a guy like OP with three kids under 8 married 10 years ... when was the last time he went solo to anything? He's "supposed" to take his wife along; that's why he takes her along. Not because he enjoys her company. If he can't admit that and act by going solo, then there's not much saying "divorce her" or "fuck other women" will do for the guy.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 05:20 PM
1

Boil it down... Do you like spending time with this woman? If not, then don't go to parties or events with her. Fly solo if it's a company event. Hit a concert on your own if she doesn't enhance the event for you. Take the kids on a walk to the park if she's not interested in joining you in a way that fits for you.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 01:52 PM
1

Once he has his life sorted out, he should be able to answer the question how he chooses. All the rules apply like the one given by chuck in his response. Your guy doesn't have a horn sticking out of his forehead, does he?
/r/askRPC02/11/22 03:20 PM
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Sounds like the guy couldn't get a date even if he tried. Where's the worry here? If he ever gets around to getting his stuff in order and owning his crap, maybe he'll be attractive enough to actually date a real, living woman. Maybe then he'll own his past as well and be able to discuss it (or not discuss it) as best he sees fit and own the reasons as well. Not hiding out of shame or overtly showing his past out of shame to fill some void with somebody's acceptance. Until then, who's he going t…
/r/askRPC02/11/22 01:42 PM
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I haven't been feeling confident in my life, especially since I'm away from my long-term girlfriend for work. So you aren't confident because a woman. Shut the fuck up, dude.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 01:37 PM
2

"should" What does "SHOULD" have to do with anything here? It's your story man. Do you want to stay with a woman who enjoys ripping into you or not? There's no SHOULD. There's only what you WANT. And are you going to go for what you want? Or ... is what you have the best you believe you can achieve? So you'll stay with what you have? All depends on what you believe.... does she enjoy ripping into you? Do you want to stay with that knowing there might be better out there? Or maybe it would be bet…
/r/askMRP19/10/22 05:35 PM
0

If you actual believe this, then how would you act?
/r/askMRP19/10/22 03:19 PM
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Guys swapping notes. Here's a guy's notes on this topic you might find beneficial. https://news.lettersofnote.com/p/beware-of-looking-for-goals-look Excerpt: So how does a man find a goal? Not a castle in the stars, but a real and tangible thing. How can a man be sure he’s not after the “big rock candy mountain,” the enticing sugar-candy goal that has little taste and no substance?
/r/askMRP19/10/22 11:00 AM
0

Do you want to stay with someone who loves to rip into you? Even on their bad days?
/r/askMRP19/10/22 10:54 AM
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Wrong. If she threatens his goals, he sets boundaries. If she crosses a boundary, he acts accordingly. Threaten to kill herself? Threaten to take kids? Empty the bank account? This has a bearing on what OP does. He married her.
/r/askMRP19/10/22 10:54 AM
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My wife threatened to kill herself. I told her if she ever made a credible threat to do so I'd call the cops. She did. I called the cops. She spent a week in a mental institution. We have four kids. This was a big deal. She hasn't done it since. Not saying I would stick it out with a woman in that situation like I did back then, but I'd like to think I'm a different guy myself as well. Been about 6 years? You can't NGAF about all things if you're in a relationship with someone like husband/wife.…
/r/askMRP12/10/22 05:21 PM
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Going to start with the gym, because that's where it all starts... "the body i want" What sort of body do you want? Answer that question, and you'll have a huge step forward in your path at the gym. And the gym is just a picture of life. Choose a target. Take aim. Fire your shot. Evaluate and adjust. Sometimes adjust daily, more often the adjustments are weekly/monthly/etc. If you can put into words (or pictures) what body you want, then I'm sure you can find a TikTok or YouTube (or whatever 19 …
/r/askMRP10/10/22 11:22 AM
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Show her this post. Maybe she has some ideas. Or .. get your own therapist. Show therapist this post. Have them write a prescription for your insanity.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/22 12:10 PM
2

Appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 04:29 PM
10

When are you scheduled for the new boobs?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/22 02:23 PM
11

I say we implement a "Benjamin Button" flair. Man does things. Man likes his life. Man turns into a child and stops doing what he wants. What advice do you want? Ask your man-self from "phase 1".
/r/askMRP17/08/22 12:58 PM
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This is RP man. I strive to be in a league of my own. We're not crabs in a bucket. Sure ... I wish I had the best genes in the world or made more bank. But comparison for comparison's sake is a waste of time. Look around ... see what other guys are doing ... implement and try it on if you want ... then go from there.
/r/RPChristians12/08/22 03:56 PM
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adjective: emasculated 1. (of a man) deprived of his male role or identity. "insecure, emasculated men" 2. made weaker or less effective. By calling him short? Pretty sure your friend was emasculated before they called him short.
/r/askRPC12/08/22 12:03 PM
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How the fuck do I handle this?? How many women go to this college? I think there are many answers to your question.
/r/askMRP11/08/22 12:45 PM
2

No more than the "tons of challenges/power struggles/shit tests/bonding moments" that happens about finances or chores or jobs, etc, etc, etc. RP a mindset. Sure ... there are ways to apply "RP ideas" to the challenges of dealing with shared finances. But in the end ... it's never a copy/paste of what someone else did. Same with kids. Don't look for a copy/paste that you can mimic your life after. Yes ... look at people that are doing it well or have done it well BY YOUR STANDARDS. But that mean…
/r/askMRP10/08/22 01:12 PM
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Most MRP material will "gloss over this part of kids" as well as gloss over most everything in specifics for your life. Sure, pick-up skills, lifting, gaming, etc ... those are important skills to hone; there are a lot of important skills to hone. But the entire ethos of MRP is to not copy somebody else's notes/book/method. Make your own way. Read anything/everything regarding raising your children the way you want to raise them. Take in what's good. Discard what's bad. Review/tweak along the wa…
/r/askMRP10/08/22 12:37 PM
0

Open up the relationship a tad. You'll see her do things you only dream of. I'm sure she'd let you watch at least.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 10:43 AM
0

Find a whore that'll do it for you. Whore's negotiate the price up front. You're basically asking "What do I have to do for my wife to get her to let me to cum on her face?" ... you realize this, right? Sounds like you already assume she's a whore and you're just trying to negotiate price now.
/r/askMRP08/08/22 12:23 PM
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when i started really using some of the info i found here on the wife she It sounds like you view the RP as some sort of BJJ-skill you use on your wife to get something from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 02:10 PM
2

First week of really applying RP consisted of lots of communication and validation. What does this mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 01:54 PM
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You come across as just wanting to talk more about what she's doing or what she's done. 1 Stop talking to her about any relationship. 2 Start talking to a lawyer about your options. And lift. Sounds like you're in a Southern US state where 12 months abandonment is required since there's no such thing as a no-fault divorce. If she's cheating there's grounds for a fault-based divorce. This divorce can typically be done in 90 days in those states. Talk to a lawyer and stop wasting our time. And sto…
/r/askMRP02/08/22 11:49 AM
10

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor Frankl in Man's Search for Meaning
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/22 06:12 PM
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At that point, I decided not to talk to her again You use this phrase, but I do not think it means what you think it means.
/r/RPChristians26/07/22 01:46 PM
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OK ... read your post on the divorce sub ... https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/vm0chs/advice_with_wifes_ridiculous_terms/ You're getting great feedback there. Get a lawyer. Stop talking to the woman. It's black and white at this point.
/r/askMRP01/07/22 11:13 AM
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You're divorcing. She thinks. Why confront?
/r/askMRP01/07/22 11:08 AM
2

Now I'm conflicted. I really want to focus on building strength since I'm starting to finally see some progress. And I'm TERRIFIED of losing what little muscle I've built. But 24% is high. I'm skinny-fat. I wasted a solid 1-2 years before deciding on this choice. Don't do that. Pick a number and drop to that weight. Drop 9 or 10 lb. Cut hard. Make it happen in 4-5 weeks. Keep lifting through the suck. Then go back to a surplus and hit some new highs. Or .. go the other way if you really want. Ge…
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 06:40 PM
1

I, too, am curious why your wife won't do what you like. Maybe I should post about it every couple of days .. talk to her about it every 4-7 days .. etc, etc, etc. Might help my situation in life if I could just figure it out.
/r/RPChristians23/06/22 12:45 PM
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Sounds like you're asking him what he needs to trade to get her sexually interested.
/r/RPChristians22/06/22 05:09 PM
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I have some, but not a strong enough support network. Looking back,I think my wife sabotaged a lot of the close relationships I had, and I let them go. Reframe these things in your mind.
/r/RPChristians22/06/22 05:07 PM
1

Everytime that guy on MRP talks about rubbing his butthole ... I get just a little curious. Have you ever tried that?
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 11:46 AM
3

Frame 101
/r/askMRP27/05/22 05:57 PM
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Find a whore that'll do it for you. Whore's negotiate the price up front. You're basically asking "What do I have to do for my wife to get her to let me to cum on her face?" ... you realize this, right? Sounds like you already assume she's a whore and you're just trying to negotiate price now.
/r/askMRP27/05/22 03:35 PM
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One day my brother called my wife and spoke to her angrily. Imagine a story that started like this. What would your next question be?
/r/askMRP27/05/22 12:46 PM
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You are still using the woman who are with or want to be with you as your measuring stick. Until you are your own measuring stick you will not understand this "red pill" thing.
/r/askMRP25/05/22 02:39 PM
3

Did you forget the ritual bath before initiation?
/r/askMRP19/05/22 12:04 PM
1

feedback Your ability to read the sidebar and follow the rules of the sub sucks.
/r/RPChristians18/05/22 06:18 PM
2

So she hasn't done the bath thing in 15 months ... so you haven't touched her in 15 months? Am I reading this correctly? If so ... talk about burying the lead!! You may want to post over on RPChristians ... maybe there are some ortho's there that understand your situation better. From what I'm reading you're supposed to take a bath anytime you ejaculate. ... .. ...... I just don't see you getting much traction here on askMRP with the values you say you and your wife hold.
/r/askMRP18/05/22 12:07 PM
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What's her number? I offer ritual baths. Prices vary.
/r/askMRP17/05/22 08:28 PM
7

If it's important to a person, then maybe it's just important. Or the simple reply would be "Why isn't important to you?" And that answer may or may not matter to the other person anyway.
/r/RPChristians10/05/22 07:11 PM
1

She'd take a canine before she let you take her at this point. You know I'm right.
/r/askMRP05/05/22 08:11 PM
3

"Main Events" never end up with a man in purgatory.
/r/askMRP05/05/22 07:41 PM
4

Your buddy will be there too. This is an awesomely written example ... I had to go back and re-read to find that the buddy was going to be there as well when you asked your question. My mind skimmed right over the buddy.
/r/askMRP02/05/22 01:50 PM
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Jacksonville is a large area. If you can't find what you're looking for there then you're unicorn hunting. Hitting some other congregations (like you are planning with the Reformed Baptist) may be enough of a "change your geography."
/r/askRPC28/04/22 09:33 PM
1

/u/CarelessCup Just stop posting man. You're not going to make progress if your ego can't handle looking at your wordspew from yesterday.
/r/askMRP28/04/22 10:43 AM
1

Deleted his post and all his comments again. Huh ... need to figure out how to just block this useless waste of letters from my feed...
/r/askMRP28/04/22 10:41 AM
4

And for GOD's sake ... don't call Mommy after wifey shoots you down.
/r/askMRP28/04/22 01:31 AM
3

If you believe you "wrangled some decent sex out of her" then just keep doing the same thing. If chasing her around room to room with a hard-on gets you decent sex, then by all means ... keep at it. Sounds like you need to become comfortable owning your own dislike of another person. You don't even have to say "I don't like you" ... you just have to own that dis-attraction. Because it's OK to not like someone (even your wife). If you don't want to fuck, don't pawn it off on her with "you're not …
/r/askMRP28/04/22 01:31 AM
2

If that's the only time you initiate, then just go to bed after. Or .. try earlier in the evening.
/r/askMRP28/04/22 01:25 AM
1

Why do you delete them?
/r/askMRP28/04/22 01:24 AM
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As a second note ... stop deleting your posts. If your ego is so butthurt by people on the internet that you have to go back and delete all your history, then you've got way too many fucks you're handing out.
/r/askMRP27/04/22 10:12 PM
2

just "get up and go do something" Have you tried this? List out the things you have done. What actions have you done? If your life is so empty that there is nothing for you to "get up and go do" ... then that's unattractive. You should have things in your life that you enjoy doing ... go do them. If they are congruent with who you are, then it's not butthurt. If you're the type of guy to go for a motorcycle ride or a bike ride or a run or a session at the gym or tinker with a motorcycle or go fo…
/r/askMRP27/04/22 10:10 PM
5

He's only been minorly involved for three years. You should probably spell it out for him. Maybe draw him a picture.
/r/askMRP27/04/22 01:53 PM
1

Platform shoes If that doesn't work, then go with some Lady Gaga shoes .. and include the bacon/beef dress. Should distract her.
/r/askMRP27/04/22 01:50 PM
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If you don't want to divorce, then figure out why you don't and own it. You're not Hosea; you're not a prophet. However, it does seem like your wife may be a whore ... jury is still out there. If you're going to divorce, then just do it the best way you can. Don't depend on her to do it the best way possible. This means don't wait for her to do it.
/r/RPChristians25/04/22 01:03 PM
1

Then do the RP readings and stop dicking around wondering about what she thinks or feels. That doesn't matter.
/r/RPChristians21/04/22 07:01 PM
1

I dialed things up to 11 on the "You do you" scale. However, my family is not what I want it to be because of the fall-out from the past few years. In my experience, if a man has to dial the "You do you" up to 11, then kids will pick up and follow suit. You end up with a family that sleeps under the same roof, quite possibly a wife that has decent sex with you on the regular ... but not a family where values are similar across the board. When you put five kids in the position of "you do you" and…
/r/RPChristians21/04/22 02:46 PM
1

I am.
/r/RPChristians21/04/22 11:24 AM
1

Then stop looking for a miracle.
/r/RPChristians21/04/22 11:24 AM
1

She's already proven "normal" comes and goes. You just roll with the wind.
/r/RPChristians21/04/22 11:22 AM
3

Just make the best choice you can, man. If you believe it's a sin. Then so be it. Decide that. But what then? Are you going to live with this woman who has shown such poor judgement that endangers her own, yours, and your daughter's livelihood? If it's a sin for you to divorce, then live as a single man. Figure out how to do that in the best way for you. Go from there. Or, it's not a sin. Figure out how to do that in the best way for you. Go from there. But staying and repeating the same cycles …
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 06:36 PM
1

Bad advice to show anything to the kid IMO. Lawyer will best answer any questions obviously. But in my state, trying to actually show the kid(s) anything damaging about the other parent is a 'no-no'. Sure .. the kid will see life happening and make their own judgements .. even at three years old. But taking positive steps to show the kid how back the other parent is may be a strike against.
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 06:34 PM
1

That's up to you and your interpretation on divorce and scripture and such. If you want to put it to a vote on the sub, then go ahead and put it to a vote. Make a thread and ask if it's a sin. Stop asking the internets to make your choices for you.
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 06:32 PM
1

Not to mention I love my wife when she’s herself. Why did you feel the need to include that? Doesn't matter. Make decisions best for you and the kid. I don't care about your wife - whichever person she is in the moment.
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 06:31 PM
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Stop trying to make decisions that are best for her. Make decisions that are best for you and best for your daughter.
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 05:14 PM
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You're past the breaking point IMO. Get a recorder. Let her bust your nose one more time; sounds like it will happen easily enough in the normal flow of your lives. Call the cops. Press charges. File for a fault-based divorce. Get custody. Move on. End of chapter in life. EDIT: FWIW ... my wife spent a week in a mental institution after credible threats of suicide. She was also locked up in jail for a night on DV charges by the state.
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 05:11 PM
3

It took three years to get to the "Verge of Snapping." I admire this man's tenacity.
/r/askMRP19/04/22 02:17 PM
1

You're spamming tons of subs. This isn't a politics sub. Take this crap elsewhere.
/r/RPChristians18/04/22 12:00 PM
5

You got served. Get a lawyer.
/r/askMRP15/04/22 11:33 AM
3

But thank you for the sexie stories. I will always treasure them and see them as a gift especiale from you.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 03:12 PM
2

Your sex stories are more enjoyable than this.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 03:08 PM
4

Meh ... the fact you respond to these sorts of jabs means you still care. Too much. You're fucks are too free. If you don't care about what the wife feels about working out, then you'd work out. If you didn't care about what the keyboard jockeys said, then you wouldn't defend your post.
/r/askMRP14/04/22 11:56 AM
1

But you did end up with a couple of micro peanuts ... maybe you weren't so not affected as you think. Calipers ... it's the only way to really know.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 11:50 AM
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Stop deleting your posts. You've been posting for 2 months about this. I don't know what progress you've made, but deleting all your post/comment history isn't helping. Stop trying to erase/fix the past. If you can't leave a post up on the internet for people to read about yourself yesterday because ego or whtaver, then how do you plan on looking in the mirror and saying "yeah .. I'd hit that"?
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 12:31 PM
8

These guys saying "can't deal with her yourself" or "pick her up and move her" ... Going hands on can lead to significant consequences. You go hands on .. she calls the police .. and then things are entirely out of your hand. Been there, done that. I decided to do the "pick her up and move her" one time. Once the cops are involved, things will go how they say they will go. Maybe a judge or lawyer can help you out after the fact. But if you or your wife goes to jail for even a night ... things ch…
/r/askMRP13/04/22 11:57 AM
4

Since we're just counting noses here ... I'll throw my hat in the ring. No.
/r/askRPC12/04/22 01:41 PM
1

Why did you do a post, then? If you DEER'ed to your wife like you're doing in your post to us randos, then I don't think you know what STFU means.
/r/askMRP11/04/22 11:43 AM
2

How many touches and attentions do you need to live a good life? Go pay somebody for them if it's what you really need.
/r/askMRP05/04/22 11:40 AM
9

Deciding how to act based on someone else's response is still not in your frame. It sounds like you are trying to calibrate your behavior to someone else's response to your behavior. Hand the reigns over if you want... but the RP when fully taken will not care about others' response to your behavior. You should be a man with things to do. Things you want to do. Doing those things should fill your time. If a woman wants your attention, then sometimes you give it ... other times you're too busy wi…
/r/askMRP04/04/22 02:12 PM
8

You're still listening to the words coming out of her mouth. Get a lawyer, and listen to the words coming out of your lawyer's mouth. Nothing else really matters at this point.
/r/askMRP29/03/22 12:03 PM
2

For your "personal high stakes example" there are people who get a good lawyer and there are those that don't.
/r/askMRP29/03/22 12:02 PM
4

Stop trying to RP your way into a good divorce settlement. Stop using the letters "AM" and "AA". Just get a lawyer. Or stay in a Holiday Inn and skip the lawyer.
/r/askMRP28/03/22 12:43 PM
2

IMO a "good" therapist isn't going to drive you towards BP or RP anymore than you are already going to drive yourself that way. If you believe that you are the person in control of your life and want to drive your life, then a "good" therapist will listen and help you align your choices with your values. They will help you spot places where your parenting choices (for example) may be against your own values. They should be able to leave their values at the door in large part. If, however, they a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/22 03:10 PM
6

Do you even sidebar, bro?
/r/askMRP24/03/22 01:29 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/wiki/search
/r/askMRP24/03/22 12:33 PM
7

Fuck off with your responses man. Just read your post from two years ago on TRP. Do you play the guitar or not? If you want a script then the script is to go play the guitar twice a week no matter what comes out of anybody's mouth. I feel like I'm wasting my time here.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 04:24 PM
6

Damnit ... I hate it when I waste my time with my origami instructions. You're right ... two months ago and two years ago
/r/askMRP17/03/22 04:22 PM
10

Recommendation: Take pages from NMMNG book and enroll in origami course online. Learn how to fold pages into sustainable frame that can withstand wife's emotional tendencies. Or .. maybe read the pages.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 03:33 PM
8

Post her insta. We can decide by looking into her eyes.
/r/askMRP15/03/22 06:30 PM
2

Should have punched him in the face.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 02:49 PM
1

Are you married? Typically, people who aren't married are not viewed as having the chops to deal with kids. So when they up and do it ... well or poorly ... it's just not smiled upon most times. But does that really matter? Honestly I felt humiliated What?? What the heck, man. If a 2-year old can give you that feeling in the pit of your stomach, then you need to consider what the RP means to you and where you're headed.
/r/askRPC07/03/22 01:33 PM
1

I like to double up biceps and legs some days. The clean and curl gets it done.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 01:28 PM
2

You're the only guy in the house. You make it sound like women are going to women ... and you're not willing to weigh in when asked for guidance? Because they're women? Or because they're under 10 years old? Why do you refuse to weigh in on what I consider to be normal matters and what are to me normal requests?
/r/askMRP28/02/22 09:18 PM
6

You should spend more time at the gym and less time at the keyboard.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/22 08:11 PM
1

I have been crippled by anxiety since I noticed my internet bean counter was a few beans short.
/r/askMRP28/02/22 01:06 PM
0

Dammit I hate it when people come in here asking us to hold the bar for them. I have advocated for a rule change for this sort of question. How in the hell are we supposed to make an informed decision that will help you live your best life unless you give us pics of the girl in question?! Pics of the girl in question. Or GTFO.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 12:37 PM
-5

Whenever a pussy is dangled in front of you, you should drop everything and follow the pussy.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 12:12 PM
2

I don't see that link. Can you link it for me?
/r/askRPC24/02/22 04:01 PM
1

I, too, have a 15 year old son....
/r/RPChristians24/02/22 02:37 PM
1

How have you felt insulted by what I have said in this thread?
/r/RPChristians24/02/22 02:35 PM
1

Not going to disagree, but I'll dance semantics here and parse since it's a good place to do it IMO. I've got five kids. We used to be a family of seven that went to church anytime the doors were open. Prebyterian. All the kids baptised. Super-Christian names. Homeschooled. Homeschool athletics groups, etc, etc, etc..... But the way we've ended up? Not sure how much building up of the church has happened that will stick around here. My wife will not see most of my friends that I have made throug…
/r/RPChristians24/02/22 02:34 PM
5

Your post is asking for "Advice/Discussion" .. however, it seems like you only want people to advise or discuss if you understand and like what they have to say. Movin' right along. Footloose and fancy free.
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 09:19 PM
2

Have you read anything from this sub on what a mission is or why that might be important?
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 04:17 PM
7

Mission: I want a big family, with a loving wife and children. Not good enough. I've got five kids. All homeschooled for the first few years. Then things hit the rocks when I didn't have a mission other than have five kids. Read up on what a mission is.
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 03:10 PM
1

Get out with the mental masturbation questions. Pretty sure your standards aren't that high. https://www.reddit.com/user/sensorysparrow You want folks to rate your coke, you've got pirated adult videos that are on a bad hard drive that you cant get the warranty for because your a felon, and you like cuckold stories. Stop wasting time your life (and our time).
/r/askRPC23/02/22 03:07 PM
3

Every time you want to post on reddit about this issue, do 20 pushups and 20 sit-ups instead.
/r/askRPC23/02/22 03:03 PM
3

But did the hair grow back?
/r/RPChristians22/02/22 01:48 PM
3

You sound like you want to get power back by letting some girl make you feel like you've got power. And she's just now getting "self-serving since the engagement"??? WTF man. If engagement or relationship with you is not self-serving to her, then why is she there in the first place? Don't you want a girl to be with you because she is trying to serve herself? Your head is so far up your ass that you don't know what you want.
/r/askMRP15/02/22 06:14 PM
1

Don't leave your house before you talk to a lawyer. Find out what custody/support/money will look like from a lawyer. Guy here is basically digesting the books for you and spoon feeding you.
/r/askMRP14/02/22 03:20 PM
1

When I was about 18 I had a dream where I used a slice of bologna as a condom. Kind of weird, that one was... However - Looking at your post/comment history, it seems you spend a decent amount of time on reddit in sex-related subs. If that's what you spend your time and mental cycles on, then I'm not surprised your dreams are wrapped up in those sort of thoughts. The hiding of things is a red-flag IMO - like another commenter said. Not saying confess or whatever to your girl. But talking about L…
/r/askRPC08/02/22 05:53 PM
3

Maybe if we all tried to be nicer, like just, more nice .. maybe then we could get what we wanted in life. If only there was a book in the RP world that could help us all just be more nicer.
/r/askRPC07/02/22 01:06 PM
16

My keyboard is with ya buddy. Post up pics of the coworker so we can decide how smooth things should be.
/r/askMRP02/02/22 10:09 PM
3

Get her an automatic latte machine with batteries. Double-duty those batteries for pleasure. Maybe see what a used old Keurig from craigslist gets you. Condition her a little ... .50 cent k-cup for starfish; it's basically gas station coffee, so it's really only worth starfish IMO. Lattes gotta fetch you a little doggy-style. Save those vanilla lattes with extra whip for steak and bj day.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:39 PM
3

The issue comes when she tries to actively seek me out to initiate conversation just for the sake of talking. It usually ends with me saying “I don’t want to talk to you about this right now.” Not following ... do you ever entertain the concept of "conversation just for the sake of talking"?
/r/askMRP31/01/22 08:57 PM
10

If you're asking for opinions I'll throw mine in the ring. Give your stats (see Rule #2 in the sidebar). ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious). Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP). Any other books? Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature y…
/r/RPChristians25/01/22 12:57 PM
0

Are you married with kids or something as soon as you walked into some restaurant? I think I've only ever heard people that are married with kids give that sort of stupid excuse.
/r/askMRP13/01/22 05:18 PM
2

Yup ... I take her to court every other day. Works wonders, man. YMMV
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:10 PM
21

My wife is on her phone less than she used to be when around me ... sometimes. Depends on her mood. Depends on my mood. Depends on whatever. The MO I've adapted is something like this.... When I initiate with my wife to talk about something, or if she is trying to talk with me about something ... doesn't matter who initiated the convo ... just assume a convo has been initiated .... if she picks up her phone like it's more important than the person she's face to face with (ie. me), then I drop th…
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:56 PM
2

Sidebar --> 8. Thinking of posting a link to a video? Here's what you need to consider before doing so.
/r/RPChristians06/01/22 01:36 PM
3

Watch the video, and give your digested version. Tell what your thoughts are. You'll have a better chance at actually getting a reasoned response to your thoughts as opposed to a blue hyperlink.
/r/RPChristians06/01/22 01:06 PM
9

Clean you house. If you've got standards, then live according to your standards. Your mouth noises will not clean a house. Do you want her to live in a clean house with you? If so, then it sounds like you need to clean the house. And let her live there without some covert contract pointing out how awesome it is that you can clean a fucking house. And for god's sake ... don't have kids with this woman.
/r/askMRP17/12/21 04:45 PM
2

Sounds like you should call her up and talk about things at length again. Maybe hit her up in Jan when she's willing to see you again and get all lovey-duby and love-bomb you some more. Then you'll feel better.
/r/askMRP17/12/21 04:43 PM
2

What do you want to discuss?
/r/askMRP17/12/21 04:09 PM
4

Thanks for the story. What was her present to you? https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/comments/rigagu/christmas_presents/ Anybody want to go in on the over/under on the next breakup? https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/comments/ri16xg/just_broke_up_again/
/r/askMRP17/12/21 03:47 PM
3

She thinks the last one I bought is too large.
/r/askMRP15/12/21 01:45 PM
2

We went the other way ... wife uses ear plugs. I sleep through most anything.
/r/askMRP15/12/21 01:30 PM
3

To quote the great u/SBIII Wear a push up bra, low cut top, short skirt and heels - make all the other wives jealous.
/r/askMRP09/12/21 04:42 PM
1

?? https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/rck4p8/going_to_wives_xmas_do/
/r/askMRP09/12/21 04:42 PM
2

As long as she credits your failures to "God" ... what's the issue? Why does what she says piss you off?
/r/askMRP08/12/21 02:51 PM
0

How many dating websites have you joined? How much money do you give girls on these dating websites for emotional support? https://www.reddit.com/r/BipolarReddit/comments/qft1yp/i_joined_a_dating_website_and_set_my_country_to_a/ Don't waste the forum's time on question like this man.
/r/askRPC03/12/21 02:28 PM
2

want to know if I should feel average, above-average, or below-average compared to This is a red-pilled sub man. Ego has no place here. Your terminology is the exact definition of ego.
/r/askRPC03/12/21 01:54 PM
2

If you use a belt correctly you are still engaging your core. The belt is for bracing .. proper bracing. If you're not bracing properly without the belt then the belt will not be beneficial and may result in injury sooner. As far as grip ... if you just want a forearm pump, then take 6 minutes for this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ej4WzltO1DA That barbell roll .... two minutes of that and your forearms will be so pumped your dick will explode when you touch it with your amazing grip pump.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 08:09 PM
2

Just get some straps is a good idea IMO. But I tried the split grip - one overhand other underhand. And I pulled 315 first time trying it on a day when I decided out of the blue to just try it. And that was the first time I hit 315 in a long time. I just recently bought some knee sleeves and just bought a belt in the last month. Still tinkering with the belt at this point to see if it's something I will actually use. But the knee sleeves will be a definite yes for me anytime I'm 285+ for squats …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/21 05:52 PM
3

I hear you.... I "hear" you... but I almost need a video to confirm that there's a 48yo guy who's 5'10" tall that is benching the bar and a 2.5lb plate. Guy's got 7 kids. Do they spoon feed him?
/r/askMRP17/11/21 06:53 PM
1

At least he didn't let the old ego get the best of him and keep him from posting up the 22g OHP. I call troll simply based on the lifts. 21kg is a 45lb bench. There is a chance .. maybe .. that he means 21kg on each side of the bar - so benching a plate? That would make sense. Because my mind really is trying to make some sense here.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 06:43 PM
3

Do you realize how awkward that would be to ask people in real life that you know personally? Who cares? Your ego is all that cares. Furthermore, how can you trust them to be honest? Sounds like you don't have any real guy friends who can be honest .. or who can be honest with you. Maybe your fragile ego would be hurt by honest feedback if it was said in-person.
/r/askRPC17/11/21 03:43 PM
3

Verbal Intercourse is Optional I love clicking on that post. When your wife gives her 'no' to sex and leaves the bedroom, do you follow her around the house with your raging erection trying to jam it whatever orifice she's left uncovered? I'm betting she wouldn't be fond of that, and if she is then you should have just tried that years ago...
/r/askMRP17/11/21 03:39 PM
10

I laughed out loud when I read the comment ... then I read your response. And I laughed harder. This stuff just makes my day sometimes.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 03:35 PM
3

Your thoughts random strangers? Please provider her #/IG/FB/etc. Do you want thorough answers?
/r/askMRP15/11/21 09:13 PM
12

Please .. lurk more and talk less.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 08:37 PM
21

Do you know how easy it is for a girl to jump ship (ie. attend service at another church) with a guy she's attracted to? If you're going to another church and meet some girl .. invite her to "your" church. Should be easy to gauge which ones are attracted to you.
/r/RPChristians11/11/21 07:56 PM
1

Should I be bothered by this? What do you think?
/r/askRPC10/11/21 12:54 PM
1

Just download the Stronglifts 5x5 and start the app. If you've never followed a program, and if you're a noob - the 5x5 app is already tailor-made for you. After 6-12 months on 5x5 and after you're squatting 1.5x your body weight .. then start reading around and find another routine to push you further.
/r/RPChristians29/10/21 12:03 PM
1

"Boring" ... gotta hand it to them - it is aptly named.
/r/RPChristians29/10/21 12:01 PM
1

Ah ... well then. Either way. Less navel-gazing. More action. Get in the gym more. Lift heavy and put on muscle. You 6'2" at 175lb. You look like a leaf. Make it your main goal to squat 1.5x your body weight and 1x your body weight in the next 3-6 months. Be willing to neglect other things for that goal. It's called priorities. Your navel gazing and "I'm going to do such and such someday" means you don't have priorities in the here and now. This is why lifting is the touch-stone for so much here…
/r/askMRP28/10/21 02:46 PM
2

You need to hit the squat rack and bench.
/r/RPChristians28/10/21 02:02 PM
1

Nailed it
/r/askMRP28/10/21 12:41 PM
2

Fuckin 22!! Wow. I did not see that coming when I read the OP. Damn.
/r/askMRP28/10/21 12:39 PM
2

You're not in a dilemma. You're a guy with urges. You sound weak. Choose your values, and live your life according to the values you choose. Do you want your wife to feel the "need to have extensive practice pleasing" men before she marries you?
/r/RPChristians28/10/21 12:27 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/BipolarReddit/comments/qft1yp/i_joined_a_dating_website_and_set_my_country_to_a/ You spend money for women to talk to you. Hit the side-bar, and stop wasting our time.
/r/askRPC27/10/21 12:25 PM
1

Are you asking a question in your post? What's the Dilemma in your mind?
/r/RPChristians25/10/21 05:40 PM
1

gracias
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 04:57 PM
1

Where's this list of rules? Only rule 11 I can find is "11. Do not share or request personal information (doxx)" on TheRedPill. And I'm on a desktop with decent searching capabilities....
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 01:24 PM
1

Don't post to the community with "Hey! Read this post!" or "Look at this link!" like you've done. Instead, do some value-add. Post up your take on how it influences your life. Unpack the thing you're pointing us to. This unpacking is value-add for you and maybe the individuals of this group. This is swapping notes. Focus on yourself and how you've interacted with the song. Be selfish with your posts. This will be more value-add for both you and the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/21 02:23 PM
1

Stop trying to "help the room" here. You should be here to help yourself. The advice I gave was intended to get you to be selfish with your posts. Those types of posts will most likely be most beneficial to both you and the group.
/r/askMRP18/10/21 12:32 PM
2

I'm not a doctor... but the prescription you need is to suck more dick. So ... pick one and suck it. I would recommend sucking only one at a time in your current condition.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/21 11:30 AM
6

Book Aragorn scoffs at movie aragorn.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 06:35 PM
5

Don't post to the community with "Hey! Read this post!" like you've done with a song. Instead, do some value-add. Post up your take on how it influences your life. Unpack the thing you're pointing us to. This unpacking is value-add for you and maybe the individuals of this group. This is swapping notes. Focus on yourself and how you've interacted with the song.
/r/askMRP14/10/21 01:50 PM
5

You're going circular logic. Sure ... there's a benefit to trying to think things through and dig and mentally masturbate. It's fun sometimes.... But .... Take a look at the MRP post from two days ago.... Doing things is better than not doing things Don't get stuck navel-gazing. Lift, sidebar, and STFU.
/r/askMRP08/10/21 04:27 PM
2

Do you suggest he prints that out on a poster and wears it around his neck to the bedroom when he's in the mood? I don't think anybody will argue with the verse you are posting here. But the question is ... how to apply?
/r/RPChristians07/10/21 04:55 PM
3

Hey! Look at my uber-strong-frame!! said no guy ever that has strong frame. https://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/q2p405/as_a_tall_guy_i_just_wanted_to_let_other_men_know/ You seem to go out of your way to let guys know how much better than women you must be. Are you tripping big on the adderall at the moment?
/r/askRPC06/10/21 06:28 PM
5

Having children takes priority over everything in your world. Okay. Up to you bro. But even over pleasing your wife??!!! Come on man!! You can't let anything take priority over pleasing your wife! How can you let that happen?! If anything takes priority in a man's life it has to be PLEASING A WOMAN. There is nothing more important in a man's life except for PLEASING A WOMAN. (Unless maybe he has children...) Do you see how your answer sounds?
/r/RPChristians05/10/21 06:45 PM
8

I'd appreciate any input from guys that have been in this situation. I've got five kids. First trimester is all over the place in my experience. Pukes sometimes. Frenzied cleaning/homemaking sometimes. Second/Third trimester for us was lots of sex. Sure ... awkward because there's a third in the room and that belly got pretty big towards the end. But the belly didn't get in the way ... that's for sure. For now, if I were you... I'd set some gym goals. Up that body weight to 190 in the next 8 mon…
/r/RPChristians05/10/21 03:15 PM
4

Good luck to you. I look fwd to a field report of some sort.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 06:09 PM
6

You ARE a buddy to chat with. If I had tits and a cunt you'd be up for a 40 min phone call right now when you're super-busy ... just to chat.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 05:51 PM
4

Sounds like you enjoy talking .. a lot. Ex-wife included (root through the garbage much?). Why ruin the good thing you've got going? Sounds like more Insta and more chats are exactly what you want.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 05:15 PM
6

There are no safe people. We worship at the temple of the Iron Gym. Get Stronglifts 5 x 5 on your phone and head to the gym. This is the only path.
/r/askMRP28/09/21 02:23 PM
16

Too much up, up, down, down, left, right in this mindset. You do you, and move forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 01:14 PM
5

She's like a feral cat living in my house, and I treat her accordingly. That's a weird description of a wife. I know what I do to feral cats that try hanging around my place.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 03:34 PM
5

So, what exactly is a woman to do ..... Stopped reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 12:53 PM
4

I had typed out a response, but then I looked at your post history. Earlier comment nailed it.... /u/AlohaMaui808 nailed it. You keep posting here. But then you delete your fucking posts. Ask yourself why you delete your posts before you post here anymore, man. There's an answer there, and it's only you that can really give a true answer. Dig in and do the work on that question.
/r/askMRP15/09/21 12:50 PM
1

From above... Being told to shut the fuck up isn't a thing I'll pull my attention for. It's being met head on with don't ever do that again if you want to stay in this relationship. Let us know when she does it again.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 05:43 PM
2

Up the negative assertions ... tamp down the (OI) a bit... and definitely go "out" more. Oh ... and more talking about what you will and will not tolerate. Double up your dose on talking about boundaries.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 04:53 PM
6

But spreadsheet says I should cuddle with the left joystick and kino with the right. Or do I have that backwards?!?
/r/askMRP31/08/21 01:02 PM
1

Is this post about your EX-wife?
/r/askMRP27/08/21 05:51 PM
2

OK ok ok.... I was a dumbnut and responded without taking a look at your post history. Your ex-wife comes over and tells you all about her flings and fucks after you've divorced her. And it bothers you. You have a lot of internal work to do man. Anywhere before you try and unlock the cheat codes of a particular woman. Please, for the love of all things holy.... Please tell me you're not trying to LTR some unicorn already. You're depressed and lonely now. Stop trying to fill whatever void in your…
/r/askMRP27/08/21 05:15 PM
2

Are you trying to gauge desire before desire is there? Sounds a lot like you are trying to negotiate desire. Sounds like you want to cheat code to get her to desire to be touched ... then you'll touch her when you know the access has been granted. You know what this sounds like. You know.
/r/askMRP27/08/21 05:13 PM
2

Dude posted same thing to redpillwomen... this is funny. I'm surprised some of you read this whole thing
/r/askMRP27/08/21 11:46 AM
4

Advice? Since you're asking ... from looking at your post history, I would say - leave your phone at home. Don't carry it with you when he's proposing.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 06:19 PM
3

I'm sure they won't be allowed in uni in Kabal here in the near future. Sounds like a fine place to head for people that struggle with this stuff, hey?
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 12:14 PM
8

Somebody toss Jane here a burqa.
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 12:12 PM
1

I'd say spend less time watching/posting porn on reddit and reading reddit and spend that time arguing with your wife. You'd probably get better just in time spent practicing. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 12:59 PM
9

If you're talking about the Red Pill, then I think the answer is ... meh ... I was introduced to a shovel around 5 years old. I learned what it was useful for, and sometimes I pull it out and use it. I was introduced to social capital around the age of 21 or so (waaaay to late IMO). Sometimes I read a book relating to the concept or discuss it or spend time thinking about it. I was introduced to this Red Pill after being married for ~15 years and having five kids. Again ... waaaaay to late for t…
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 12:22 PM
10

I'm sure you RedPilled her pants right off. Please .. keep talking about how more words solved your relationship problems.
/r/askMRP23/08/21 03:17 PM
2

Make sure you let her know that, then....
/r/askMRP23/08/21 02:34 PM
9

Looking at your post history up against this comment I consider myself at the time of this phase in the relationship somewhat redpill, redpill enough to exert the traditional alpha-lead style in the relationship ... Something does not compute. You talk to try and solve "relationship problems." Do you even Red Pill, bro? Stop trying to talk to your girl about her being distant as if it will fix anything other than show her that you're a needy bastrd. Yeah. There was one night where I had a bit of…
/r/askMRP23/08/21 02:30 PM
2

Yeah, society said I should get married and have kids pronto when I was a teenager. So I did. Big whup. You do you, man. Figure out what you want in life. That's where the real work is. Don't try the easy button and let other people tell you what's best for your life.
/r/askMRP23/08/21 12:33 PM
2

Sounds like you have been fertilizing your field in which you grow your fucks. And now you have so many that you don't know what to do with them. So you spend mental energy trying to find out how best to give you fucks to the people closest to you. https://memescraps.com/2019/09/21/behold-the-field-in-which-i-grow-my-fucks/
/r/askMRP23/08/21 11:56 AM
1

Or the third option... which is what you did/do: You say nothing and instead get angry and pout about how unfair it is I think part of the RP is the ability to see the covert contracts for what they are and speak this sort of stuff out loud. It is amazing how blatant it is when you just type this shit out.
/r/askMRP23/08/21 11:53 AM
5

I tried. Some people don't know the different between real sugar and splenda. You get splenda in your coffee on a Sat morning and tell me how many times you'd be willing to risk that again. There are some things I can roll with. As a guy, you've got to be able to roll with it most all the time, anytime. Well, turns out there are some things that just matter too damn much. Saturday morning coffee is a thing for me.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 06:53 PM
8

Meh ... depends on you, man. I like my laundry done a certain way. I like to eat a certain way sometimes. If she's offering to cook bacon - 100% of the time "hell yes." If she's offering to make me coffee ... nope. I like my coffee how I like my coffee. Don't tell her "Sure, I'd like you to do such and such for me" and assume she'll do it like you would for yourself. Maybe she 100% wants to please ... not doubting that at all. But criticizing after the fact can kill things if it's your MO. Make …
/r/askMRP18/08/21 04:47 PM
13

I could feel your estrogen rising just from the tone of this post changed as I got further down. Spot on. When I find my voice rising ... dealing with my wife, my kids, or anybody (or anything) ... this is my internal red-flag that my frame is crumbling. Maybe OP's ego takes a hit from you calling him out on this aspect. But my ego took a big hit a while back when my 17 year-old called me out for an octave raise in my voice when dealing with another son for some chore that wasn't done right. Ego…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 02:08 PM
9

I agree with basically everything being said here. However, it is still in the woman's frame. The whole concept of "see?? women really like this (or that)!" so therefore we should do it, or it's okay for a man to do it.... The main point of RP is to get out of HER head (anybody else's head) and do what you want to do. Will a man who is happy with who he is and what he does naturally dominate? Sure ... problem in our current world is that men are trained to be non-dominate. So we have to take che…
/r/RPChristians04/08/21 02:55 PM
9

Take a look at your post history. Your submitted post topics include masturbation, porn use, unwanted erections and sexual dreams, with a small amount of incel, gaming, and crypto investing. It would seem you are at the stage of life that would be best served by working on yourself instead of spending time on the pursuit of a mate with standards such as yours. What sort of woman would look at your post history and thing "That's the man I want to follow through life"?? Basically, it's like the fi…
/r/RPChristians02/08/21 04:44 PM
4

How can I trust another female again? Are there any decent women left worthy of marriage? Nope ... she was a unicorn. Pack it up guys! This guy found and killed the last unicorn. Guess we're all screwed.
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 05:46 PM
3

should I give subtle hints about it to her so as to make her worried? Dread in an LDR is impossible. If you've got to "make her worried" then you're doing dread wrong. That's just making your choices to try and change how she thinks. Stop that.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 02:36 PM
1

We are fully aware that you do not understand. It's been said to never go full retard, but I'm going to take a step closer here... The best predictor of future behavior is .... ??? Can you fill in the blank? I will not fill in the blank for you. I refuse to go full retard.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 02:34 PM
7

Definitely should marry this one. She definitely will not do the same if you put a ring on it. Or maybe get her pregnant. She definitely would not do the same if she had your kid. You have my personal guarantee on this.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 02:32 PM
1

So do you plan on sleeping on a couch whenever she gets fussy (or whatever she is)? Going to sleep on the couch is a beta move IMO. Sure ... if you want to sleep on couches instead of your bed in your bedroom, fine by me. But most guys go sleep on the couch because they "don't want to deal with their wife yakking" or possibly to try and do what she wants them to do in a placating manner to hopefully make her happy. You've got to do the mental work to decide why you are doing what you are doing a…
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:11 PM
3

Why did you move out of your room and sleep on the couch?
/r/askMRP22/07/21 05:37 PM
2

You're missing stoney's point. This isn't a she wins/he loses or he wins/she loses situation. Caring about how she feels reduced the dynamic to exactly that - a win/lose situation. The RP world works towards a win/win. Maybe not for this girl, but maybe for the another girl (or two) instead.
/r/askMRP20/07/21 12:04 PM
2

I am going to put this out there as hopefully an obvious.... DO NOT get your wife pregnant. Get your life sorted in a way you want it to be before you even consider bringing kids on your ship. And an ask for more info... What sort of career? Why were you fired?
/r/askMRP08/07/21 05:19 PM
6

I give you permission to drive a considerable amount of time once per week. 2 hours one way. You can stay on location for a maximum of 6 hours. But you need to be home by 9:30p to help putting the oldest to bed. There...does that help you feel better?
/r/askMRP08/07/21 05:14 PM
1

because I no longer fear not being able to get a good girlfriend This seems like a choice driven by fear. It sounds like some of your life choices are fear-based. This is a sign of a scarcity mentality .. and IMO something you can target for growth. A scarcity mentality is what drives the dancing monkey. If you "lived" red pill for "almost half a year" because fear was driving you to do so, then that's not the red pill. That's just dread being used against you. Stop trying to "fully wrap your br…
/r/askMRP30/06/21 12:07 PM
2

She's not yours. It's just your turn.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 11:11 AM
1

Check it in a few years if you want....
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:51 PM
2

Stop posting and then deleting yours posts. They hang around anyway, man... https://www.removeddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/o76095/can_i_expect_my_wife_to_leave_if_i_suddenly/
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:36 PM
1

From reading your post and responses, I get the sense that you don't sit around and shoot the breeze with buddies over a beer - ever. Do you have any friends that you spend time with in person? Do these people listen to you talk about your concerns as you do here? And if they do, how do they respond?
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:32 PM
21

Just get it in your head man ... this woman is the type of woman that will attack you personally when you don't do what she wants. And stop being surprised by it. And stop taking it personally. It's just who she is. And don't try to "help" her with that issue. It's her issue. If she wants to change, then she'll get the resources to change on her own. Is that the person you want to spend your time with? If it's not, then find something to do with your time that you want to do and people you want …
/r/askMRP21/06/21 07:44 PM
-12

We're more acta non verba ... more practice makes perfect kind of folks. Let us know when you're up for some practice sessions. It may just be your technique needs tweaking.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:52 PM
2

To "deal with her" is optional man. Sexual intercourse is optional. Verbal intercourse is optional. Take your time and attention elsewhere if you don't want to "deal with her." And who gives a fuck about her expectations? Do you want to spend your life trying to live up to everybody else's expectations?
/r/askMRP18/06/21 12:19 PM
-1

That depends on what state you are talking about. Some states don't look at adultery as a fault-based divorce. Alimony is not affected by adultery in some states. IANAL
/r/RPChristians17/06/21 08:02 PM
14

Your wife sounds like a fun person to spend time with.
/r/askMRP17/06/21 07:26 PM
2

Are you in IT? A programmer perhaps? I get the vibe you may be. If that's the case, then this place is for you. Start at this link: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/ Start by downloading the Stronglifts 5x5 app on your smartphone. Think of it like a free spreadsheet that somebody put all the work in on. But there's space for modifications, so it's not too strict. But you can basically copy/paste all the work somebody did on that spreadsheet into y…
/r/RPChristians16/06/21 11:49 AM
4

First trimester ... well, it depends largely on how your wife takes things IMO as far as her physical well-being. All bets are off. Sure, set expectations and push for what you want. But in a sense all bets are off. Second/third trimester?? The freak show was on for us. We didn't have major physical issues to deal with (other than a small human growing in my wife's belly). But the horny was happening. YMMV Also, your stats may well play a big part in what is "in-bounds" as well as "out-of-bounds…
/r/RPChristians09/06/21 02:06 PM
2

You are not understanding the concept of a shit test. You think how you actually respond to the shit test may unlock some secret cache of goodies if you could just make the correct choice. And all you want are the goodies. You are a dancing monkey. Your actions and choices are being determined by how other people will respond to your actions and choices. The is the definition of a wet-paper-bag frame. You are molding your actions and choices to whoever will apply the most uncomfortable pressure …
/r/askMRP09/06/21 12:31 PM
1

she just wants to be taken care of during her pregnancy. Send her my way. I'll take care of her.
/r/askMRP07/06/21 02:18 PM
5

This is what I think.. Welcome to Red Pill Christians We are a subreddit that exists to provide a place for Christians to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles. Can you relate this post to what I'm thinking?
/r/RPChristians26/05/21 04:06 PM
3

I'm typically a fan of "do something you want to do" as opposed to "don't do this or that" when it comes to life. It's an abundance mentality versus a scarcity mentality. In your situation ... you want sex. You can't get sex in the Christian worldview because you're not married. So your mind is filled with what you cannot do. There's continual loss in your mind. That's a mindset that does not serve you well IMO. What mindset would serve you better? IMO it's one that focuses on things within your…
/r/askRPC20/05/21 12:54 PM
2

Or maybe 3-4 rats lashed together with whisker hair make a decent enough raft to float on for a few hours.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 12:45 PM
2

What should the husband do? and he doesn't have any power in the situation. Read what you've typed. I have no power in the situation either.
/r/askMRP19/05/21 05:12 PM
2

I had a teacher in college .. his motto was "I care less than you do." I tried for half the semester to prove him wrong, but in the end ... he was a great teacher.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/21 07:30 PM
7

Pick up hobbies that are within your physical limitations. Looking at your post-history .. you can game with joysticks and take photos and grow weed. Can you do some serious chess or other meetup worthy games? Can you do some book clubs? Can you learn a foreign language and then do meetups around those? What hobbies can you succeed at (NOT "are you good at")? With hard work and determination? And some pain on the side? Get involved in those hobbies.
/r/askRPC13/05/21 07:52 PM
2

Not sure how you down vote, but when I down vote I do it with a lot of sound.
/r/RPChristians13/05/21 02:59 PM
2

When I tell my son that the syrup is in the fridge (because I have seen it in the fridge), and he proceeds to say "I've looked, and it's not in the fridge." I will tell him again to look in the fridge. When it finally comes to the point where he refuses to look with his own eyes I get out of my chair and say something along the lines of "If I find the syrup in the fridge then you are losing your iPad for two days." You know what normally happens? He beats me to the fridge and magically his eyes …
/r/askRPC12/05/21 04:20 PM
1

Doing the legwork here yourself is not a suggestion. Just like lifting is not a suggestion here.
/r/askRPC12/05/21 04:14 PM
1

I am calling you lazy. Look on the sidebar again.
/r/askRPC12/05/21 04:11 PM
2

Read the sidebar and main posts. Refer to the r/RPChristians sidebar for rules and recommended material. Stop wasting the time of the sub trying to justify your personal choices. If your choices get you where you want to be, then great. If not, then change your mind and pursue your path. The sub has clearly defined what it means to "lift heavy." Do your own leg-work and dig a little.
/r/askRPC12/05/21 04:05 PM
2

I'm coming back from a pretty bad tricep injury (mostly better now) and I'm dealing with a problem with my shoulder (overhead pressing is the main problem, front squats and dips also aggravates it). I can't quite pinpoint what's going on, but I'll try some band movements each day, that sounds like a good idea that could help. How about see a PT? Might help more than throwing some band movements each day at it.
/r/RPChristians11/05/21 06:36 PM
-4

Hypergamy at its finest.
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 11:04 AM
3

"Everyone is Now Dumber" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQCU36pkH7c from Billy Madison "Mr. Madison, what you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response, were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."
/r/askRPC04/05/21 12:48 PM
5

Can I get a taste of whatever it is you're drinking or smoking?
/r/askRPC03/05/21 07:10 PM
1

I hope you're clear about his message now that OP replied to you. If you make him type more I hope the mods dig out the banhammer.
/r/askRPC03/05/21 07:09 PM
1

You remember back in eighth grade. There was this guy that treated this one girl different from all the other girls? He treated her "special" in some way ... basically different than all the other girls. And in his mind, hopefully some day she would notice this special treatment and come around to liking him for it. He was interested in her, but he probably didn't know how to make his move. That's an orbiter - doesn't matter the age. Either that, or the guy is just so starved for female attentio…
/r/RPChristians27/04/21 08:33 PM
6

This. Better metrics that OP has control over. He can't control her behavior ... but the graphs .... Excel has some cute as ass graphs for just this purpose.
/r/askMRP21/04/21 11:59 AM
9

You are still making her 2/3 shower/quickie your measuring stick. You are retarded for asking the question and using her behavior as the metrics. I understand the desire to make something external the measuring stick by how swell your relationship is or how happy you/wife are. But when you are making her behavior your measuring stick, then you are doing it wrong.
/r/askMRP21/04/21 11:57 AM
2

Sounds like you're trying to dance around all the possible mines in this woman's head.
/r/askMRP19/04/21 12:31 PM
2

Why are you asking this question? It has been posted about before in this sub. Search for the posts dealing with your questions. If you've got a relationship question dealing with something in your life, then open up and ask away.
/r/askRPC24/03/21 04:59 PM
0

Are you this literal in person?
/r/askRPC24/03/21 04:57 PM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel#.22Red_pill.22_and_.22black_pill.22 The "black pill" generally refers to a set of commonly-held beliefs in incel communities, which include biological determinism, fatalism, and defeatism for unattractive people. Would you describe yourself as "blackpilled"?
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 04:29 PM
5

So you're 25, and she's 28 with a 3-year old kid, and she wanted to have an abortion. Imply what you want or not ... you're making a decision either way. Trust whatever she says or don't. Make a decision. Then move on. Acknowledge the feelings you've got. Guilt or sadness or numbness. Name the feelings .. putting a label on feelings can help at times - as long as you don't cling to the label as part of your identity like a victim. Is this a punishment for having sex out of wedlock? Maybe. Maybe …
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 03:16 PM
2

This guy is either trolling or a kid who's not ready for marriage - and he has the hots for his cousin's sister. https://www.reddit.com/user/Alexjon1978/submitted/ Please stop wasting time here guys.
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 12:47 PM
1

Find a mission. Spend yourself on doing what it is you want to do in life. Having a family is not that mission. Worrying (anxiety) about the past is not going to help with whatever mission you choose to spend yourself on. Currently you are spending yourself on worry and anxiety. Find something better to spend yourself on.
/r/RPChristians19/03/21 01:43 PM
1

I don't think you understand the idea of the 'Sunk Cost Fallacy'.
/r/RPChristians19/03/21 01:40 PM
2

The way you speak of this red pill thing.... I had to use some RP methods to get her back fully into me emotionally I pretty much abused my RP knowledge because I found it to be so effective I mostly used dread game since a lot of girls like me I’m considering running game on her You speak of it as if it is something you pull out of your pocket and use like a magic power-up in a video game world where you have some boss to conquer. This red pill you are pulling out of your pocket from time to ti…
/r/RPChristians19/03/21 01:40 PM
4

Tanner is your guy. You want someone who has thought about style/clothing/personal brand? Tanner has the stuff running around in his mind. He has been a speaker at some RP events as well.
/r/askMRP19/03/21 01:28 PM
1

How is lifting not a part of this post? Lifting... you know, "lifting is not a suggestion" lifting. If you want an arena where "starting where you are" or "doing the next right thing" has already been beat like a dead horse, then lifting is that arena.
/r/RPChristians18/03/21 06:12 PM
5

Take Julia Roberts at 25. Add 15lb and 10 years. I'd still hit it. But I'm with Tyred ... pics or GTFO. If you really want meaningful responses, then pics are required.
/r/askMRP17/03/21 08:27 PM
2

How about work on evangefriending instead. If you don't have the ability to be a friend to a human of the female sex without dating her, then sure ... don't date her.
/r/askRPC17/03/21 01:48 PM
2

Looks to be a spammer post. https://www.reddit.com/user/Pineapple-Firm/comments/
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 05:59 PM
-3

I'm sure some of you remember me and some don't. For those of us that don't, well ... you're just a guy (even that's an assumption on reddit). And you come here saying, "hey, do you need a coach? i'm a coach. i never meant to be a coach, but i'm a good coach. it's what i do. let me if you need my help. if i can fit you in, then maybe i'll help you." What did you expect in response to your post here?
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 01:47 PM
11

You left your house? If you've read much around the RP world, then leaving your own dang house is not much of an option ... until you actually are leaving. If you leave, then you are potentially setting yourself up for an uphill battle in the court system. If you basically abandoned your house and kids, then that typically doesn't look good in front of a judge.
/r/RPChristians11/03/21 07:47 PM
1

I explained that I will no longer be in the same room with her without a witness until I can get legal coverage protecting me from potential abuse claims. Do you intend to follow through with this? You've got 4 kids. I assume you live in the same abode. How will you enforce your stated intention? Will you leave a room if she's in it? Personally, if I were to make that statement it would be because I was getting my own house to live in and she's not welcome. If you're living in a house with her, …
/r/RPChristians11/03/21 06:56 PM
4

Outcome independence. Abundance mentality. These terms are part of regular posts/comments here. If you have outcome independence..if you have an abundance mentality.. .. then your stay plan and go plan will be basically the same with some lawyer logistics thrown in. If you have a scarcity mentality, then your world will crumble without that one piece (that one woman) in place.
/r/askMRP11/03/21 06:51 PM
1

It sounds like the hit to your ego is a good thing. Stop whining. For the love of all things good, stop talking to your wife about how you feel. Stop talking about how your butt hurts than a rib. And then get going again. Give any injury time to heal. And get back on the horse.
/r/askMRP25/02/21 02:14 PM
3

No ... if he wanted an actual cookie it would be better. A cookie might get him to a better place in life. Some enjoyment of a Girl Scout thin mint. Some pleasure to savor in a chewy chips-a-hoy. Something real - something tangible - something to see and taste and relish. But no... hope somehow they see this This is what he wants. This is what he is posting for. Just a crab in a bucket.
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 02:38 PM
6

I could really care less for it. All the while posting about how good it makes you feel. Your post is a prime example of how to not RP life.
/r/RPChristians24/02/21 02:33 PM
6

It sounds like you are jumping from place to place looking for an echo chamber. Work on your frame so that the echo chamber is not necessary for you to be 'ok' with believing what you believe.
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 02:01 PM
3

Why do you think taking a substance makes a person "sub-human"? Which substances (missing or imbalanced or extra) make a person sub-human in your opinion? I have a genetic something or other where my eyes can't focus real well far away. So I wear glasses. Am I "sub-human" because part of my physical body doesn't work up to snuff? People on RP subs talk about taking testosterone ... not something in my wheelhouse ... but that doesn't make a person not human.
/r/askRPC18/02/21 07:16 PM
2

There is something to be said for 'burying the lead.'
/r/RPChristians18/02/21 02:57 PM
1

Look at OP's post history.
/r/RPChristians17/02/21 03:43 PM
6

Who cares if you give her a chance or next her? A chance for what? Three months ago you posting about being thought of as a fukboi by your ex and her friends and how cold it is outside and where you're supposed to take a girl when it's cold outside. Two months ago you are in the r/limerence sub ... doing what? Posting about how to get rid of oneitis I guess? One month ago you're in the r/askTRP sub posting about your unicorn losing interest. Now you're here at RPC. Which girl are you posting abo…
/r/RPChristians17/02/21 12:36 PM
5

Looking at your post history .... You both delved into 'polyamory' a few years ago... https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/380qwj/my_husband_started_seeing_someone_new_and/ Your husband got the hots for someone else and lost the fire for you. This isn't surprising honestly. Will "it" ever come back between you two? Who knows? I don't. And I hope this doesn't come across as judging. I would say that any situation can be redeemed. Christ is The Redeemer. I must believe any situation can be …
/r/RPChristians16/02/21 07:48 PM
2

reddit
/r/askRPC16/02/21 01:39 PM
6

We don't need a report on the words that have come out of her mouth. Acta non verba goes both ways.
/r/askMRP15/02/21 09:13 PM
21

So you feel dread that she might have other options. Weird thing dread can do, huh?
/r/askMRP15/02/21 07:12 PM
3

Now she's not a part of it. Act like she's not a part of it.
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 07:24 PM
3

The way you're replying to everybody here makes it seem that you care too much about what everybody else thinks about you. Which ... as a senior in high-school?? Sure, I get it. I've got a 17yo son at the moment. But "monk mode" for a senior in high-school is about as stupid as a stupid idea can get. If you're so wrapped up with women that you've got to take a break from women (ie monk mode as you call it) to make improvements in your life then you are in for a long, hard, blue-pilled life where…
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 07:24 PM
6

This is even worse. You care about what she is doing so much, and you care about what she thinks of you so much ... that you spend your time creating anon accounts in the fairy tale world of social media to spy on her and her life. Your life is so boring, and you have nothing to immerse yourself into in the world you live in, so you have to try and carve some space out in HER world for you to live and find happiness.
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 06:56 PM
7

Dance, monkey
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 06:55 PM
5

OK... so I just perused your post history... You're a senior in high-school. And you're jealous because a girl. And you wish that you could have taken her virginity. Monk mode ... you don't even know what monk mode is. You're in high school. Get off social media. Get in the gym. Get some good hobbies you enjoy doing. Get a life that doesn't revolve around your anger from not getting some pussy.
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 06:53 PM
6

Wow ... oneitis much? So you lost your unicorn. Either buck up and make a life for yourself, or just keep bwahaha-ing somewhere that people may (or may not) listen.
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 06:49 PM
3

Penis quantification, evaluation, and assessment ... best competition around.
/r/askMRP04/02/21 05:25 PM
6

To preface this, I'm pretty much required to get the shots for my work in the medical field. ...one of the other doctors waiting there ... Just going to shoot from the hip here, but I think he's pretty much required to get the shots for his work in the medical field. And I'd say there's a chance he's a doctor.
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 02:03 PM
6

I miss SBIII (or whatever his handle is).
/r/askMRP03/02/21 01:41 PM
6

Guys guys guys .... I'm talking to the askMRP responders here. I am not talking to the OP here. If you take about 20 seconds and look at OP's post history, you will see a decent amount of time and space taken up by posts to a few subs dedicated to penis measurements. Is there anything else you need to know about the OP?
/r/askMRP03/02/21 01:41 PM
5

I saw the title and then the author and was sharpening my swords even more.
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 12:48 PM
23

How hot is the mom?
/r/askMRP01/02/21 09:08 PM
2

Here's how
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 04:23 PM
6

Guy has posted in many subs and has advertised a PayPal account.. I smell bull. https://www.reddit.com/user/Hotopak
/r/RPChristians29/01/21 03:16 PM
3

It most likely does not piss people off here that OP is "able and willing to find a way" to get the life he wants. This is what RP encourages and hope the guys here find. That path to the life a guy wants for himself. However... OP just posted yesterday that he doesn't want loneliness.. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/l68krm/i_hate_being_married_but_dont_want_the_loneliness/ Then he deletes his post. And today he posts that he misses being alone. OP is most likely going to get called a …
/r/askMRP28/01/21 09:18 PM
3

"I'm just afraid..." This is a red-flag for me that I am living in someone else's frame. If you feel the need to use words to address an issue, then you must be willing to say the words and then move on. Without a care as to how you are perceived. If you are trying to manipulate someone into some action or feeling with your words, then the words are most likely wasted. But be wary of your fear here. You are afraid of how someone may react to something you way based on what you think they might p…
/r/askRPC28/01/21 07:21 PM
1

'You do you' ... it's a staple of an RP mindset. If you stick around you'll get the flavor of 'you do you' that is espoused in an RP world. If you figure out a way to manipulate people to want to be in a relationship, then by all means...let the world know. I'm sure lots of men want to be in a relationship with a woman who is a robot and wants them that way. Otherwise, spend your time working on what you can control (ie. yourself, your time, your attention) and not on what you can't control (oth…
/r/askRPC28/01/21 05:51 PM
5

In the end you cannot control what your friends do. I've got a guy friend. He and I were bs-ing about life and how our marriages were going. Now - my wife and his wife are basically best friends. I ended up having some of what I said to my buddy used as ammo against me by my wife. What I told me buddy ended up going to his wife then to my wife and then hit me in the back. No bueno. I never told my buddy about it. But I also don't tell him stuff anymore that I wouldn't want getting back to my wif…
/r/askRPC28/01/21 05:10 PM
7

For posterity's sake... I got married around a year ago. Had to do long distance because my wife and I were sticking during covid. Now we’re together for about a month... And I’m totally regretting it. I don’t like having another person in my space all the time, It’s not nearly as exciting as when we were courting and half the time I don’t feel attracted to her... I enjoyed playing the field way more. we got married after 5 months of knowing each other. Should I quit? Or just see it out and hope…
/r/askMRP28/01/21 03:39 PM
13

So did you married the foreigner with two kids?? https://www.removeddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/d6doj3/falling_hard_for_girl_with_baggage_how_to_deal/ Or did you "fall" for some other girl with kids? How many kids are in the picture here? Also - stop deleting all your posts if you want real advice. If you're scared of getting doxxed, then change up your posting habits. If your ego doesn't like how it feels when it seems your posts the day after, then learn to kill the ego by leaving the posts up a…
/r/askMRP28/01/21 03:36 PM
6

Enjoy being a man who accomplishes things .. sets goals up and then knocks them out. This is what the gym provides as a first, simple step to becoming that sort of man. The gym works because you can spreadsheet it and chart it and see the progress. And it's almost linear for parts of the path. Set a goal (bench one plate, or bench your body weight, or bench two plates). Make a plan to get there (workout plan, diet plan, sleep habits). Stick to the plan. Once you meet your goal, take a moment and…
/r/askRPC27/01/21 06:53 PM
1

Cloud and Townsend come across as bible-based to people outside of religion most-times. However, they intentionally try to place their stuff to target religious and non-religious audiences. I can't remember specifically how 'religious' Necessary Endings is. A de-converted reader will probably read more religion into any of Cloud's or Townsend's books than a still-religious person or just a non-religious person.
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 04:01 PM
1

Sounds like a good companion read to Henry Cloud's "Necessary Endings." (People may be familiar with Cloud as he did the 'Boundaries' books with Townsend.) Cloud talks about getting stuck in ruts in life b/c we don't walk away when we should. He uses the term pruning a lot. Pruning is a necessary skill in gardening. It's also a necessary skill in life. Cloud's book is targeted more towards business/organizations. But he speaks specifically to intimate relationships at times.
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 01:24 PM
-2

Do you like being spoon-fed? You should stick around at askMRP... https://www.reddit.com/r/redpillfatherhood/ 0 posts in the past year https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillParenting/ 15 posts in the past year
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 07:35 PM
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Do what your lawyer says. If it's 50/50, then I am assuming expenses are basically 50/50. If the courts would get involved and force 50/50 on school expenses, then yeah - have her pay. That's my take. The kid is 5 years old. When the kid is 14 and school is potentially $14k a year, precedent may be a good argument for 50/50 expense sharing.
/r/askMRP20/01/21 02:52 PM
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Then talk to a lawyer.
/r/askMRP19/01/21 08:39 PM
1

Then talk to a lawyer.
/r/askMRP19/01/21 08:39 PM
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Yeah ... I've seen some guys schmooze a little short on info...but this one takes the cake IMO.
/r/askMRP19/01/21 06:41 PM
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For the record, this is the pregnancy OP is talking about.... Does having a kid justify getting married? Help!! I’ve known this girl for 7 weeks. Got her pregnant the 2nd week of knowing her
/r/askMRP19/01/21 05:56 PM
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OP just found out about this red pill thing... "The Way of the Superior Man" is not an into-level book. If you don't understand "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" and jump straight to TWOTSM ... you're going to go full-beta IMO.
/r/askMRP19/01/21 05:55 PM
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chasing girls Have you no knowledge of this thing called the Red Pill? Chase harder. Duh..
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 03:46 PM
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Do you care if your ex brags about the cock she rides? Why do you care if she brags about how she spends her money? I get that she's POTENTIALLY bragging about what she's doing for her kid. And you've got some skin in the game. But damn, man. You're asking us if you should pay to keep some POTENTIAL bragging rights away from a woman. So, to be fair and honest ... you're going to have to post up how much we're talking here. If you want real advice from the sub .. if you want us to weigh in and gi…
/r/askMRP18/01/21 03:25 PM
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This is the way. There is no other. OP posted I love my wife bit I hate her just two days ago but deleted his post. This post will probably go the same way. Guy's got too much of an ego to keep his posts up, so he tries again. It's like the sub is actually wasting too much time on him because he deleted his previous post. Glad /u/arm_candy called him out on it.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 09:13 PM
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Dear diary ... The game I'm playing doesn't like my inputs. So I told it I didn't want to play anymore. But it might make me play. Why won't someone please just tell me the rules. edit: How long have you been married to this gal?
/r/askMRP14/01/21 02:54 PM
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Dude ... if you want the Christian answers, stick around. You're going to get pummeled (and rightly so). It sounds like the Bible is something you pick up from time to time in order to get a Christian girl. If you want more worldly advice, then take this crap-show over to TRP. You'll get beat up with a different 2x4 over there. Your "projected a frame of strength and confidence" is just a projection. You need validation from this girl (or SOME girl) that will 'let' you be her protector. You call…
/r/RPChristians14/01/21 02:19 PM
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You're posting on the internet, so I'll give my take. My bet is that you are missing your girlfriend. You had a "real connection" with this woman - she might have even been your soulmate. Now she's gone. You don't know what to do with your life. You have no plans for your own life now that your girlfriend is out of it. This is the same state a ton of husbands are in when they walk in the doors of this pub. They've found out they have lost their girlfriend of 15 years (ie. their wife). At least t…
/r/askRPC12/01/21 01:25 PM
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I started strong lifts last week but stopped because Im having some mental health issues Uhhhh.... mental issues are many times fixed by hitting the gym. You know when I'm the clearest in the head? After a draining gym session, after a new PR, even after a failure session... Stop with your mental crap. Stop with your whining. Stop caring about BDD. Stop caring about finding a wife/gf. You're just looking for a girl dressed up as a white knight to save your butt. Red pill/black pill ... you throw…
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 02:23 PM
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If that's what you really think, then just wear a mask everywhere. That's under your control. The geometry of your face is not under your control (unless you're making serious bank and willing to go under the knife). Like EVERYTHING else in life. Focus on what's under your control. Let go of the rest. If you're so ugly, just wear a mask everywhere. Problem solved. Now, wear a mask and go talk to women at the grocery store. Stop whining. Stop posting here about how ugly you think you are. And go …
/r/askRPC07/01/21 02:16 PM
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There are women at the grocery store. From this whole train wreck of a post, I think you should simply talk to women at the grocery store. I would consider it a win if you carried a 5 minute conversation with a woman at the grocery store or local coffee shop without thinking about getting in her pants and without thinking if she wanted your dick.
/r/askRPC05/01/21 10:03 PM
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Dude ... stop posting. Stop posting and read the sidebar. Look up some stoicism. Work on the things that are under your control. Forget the things that are out of your control. Burn that into your brain. But step #1 is to stop posting crap like you're doing here today.
/r/askRPC05/01/21 10:01 PM
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You are the second guy around RPC that has offered to message me a pic. People posting on the internets asking if they should date someone because they're so pretty. And then they don't share a pic??? Come on man! How are we supposed to judge without pictures? Pics or GTFO would be a rule for this kind of post if the rules were up to me. My answer is I don't give a care if you private message me a picture of something. Chances are I would post it so the sub can make an educated determination of …
/r/askRPC05/01/21 07:49 PM
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It would definitely help. Not sure if that's the sort of 'help' that would be beneficial to a guy in your mindset. No one should be praised for his goodness if he has not strength enough to be wicked. All other goodness is but too often an idleness or powerlessness of will. It is not so dangerous to do wrong to most men, as to do them too much good. François de La Rochefoucauld
/r/askRPC05/01/21 07:00 PM
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If you're going to say how ugly you are in every post/comment you make, then please edit your OP and put up a pic. If it's going to be your justification for whatever decision you make, then we obviously need pics in order to weigh in. Pic of you. Pic of the unicorn. Both may actually be required to give educated advice.
/r/askRPC05/01/21 06:13 PM
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Your post history screams a need for validation. Your post history screams a need for some woman/women to give you enough gumption to live your life and your faith the way you want. If going out with this girl would give you enough validation to get out of your head and lift right, eat right, and just plain live your own life the way you want (instead of making your entire God-given existence about women), then sure... go out with her. If not ... then find out what will give you the permission t…
/r/askRPC05/01/21 05:49 PM
1

Yada yada... I met a unicorn yada yada... I talk to to attractive girls quite often but I realized I always fail to be cool with the ones that have unique personality and their own value. I talk to lots of girls, but when I talk to unicorns I freeze. I don't talk to unicorns often. Solution? Find more unicorns and talk to them. Then hopefully understand ... there are no unicorns.
/r/RPChristians04/01/21 04:15 PM
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I realize that texting is frowned upon here There's your answer.
/r/askMRP22/12/20 05:31 PM
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If you are afraid your life will end poorly because you do not have a woman along with you, then you are by definition in the wrong frame. Stop it. Just stop it. You sound like the ultimate dancing monkey.
/r/RPChristians21/12/20 06:21 PM
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A woman dying her hair a crayon-like color is intentionally putting herself in the 'danger zone'... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XuI6GTY9eVc ...this is your red-heads, strippers, anyone named Tiffany, hairdressers...
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 02:52 PM
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I see the skills that MMA/boxing/etc provide as similar to any other skill that's pushed around here or that can be learned. If you're a guy that has all the game in the world, then women will be attracted to you. Is game a bad thing? No. However, if you're the type of guy that can't say no to the temptations that will inevitably come with such game and attraction, then bad things will most likely happen. Same with fighting/BJJ/boxing/MMA/etc. Nothing bad in and of itself. But if you're the type…
/r/askRPC17/12/20 04:00 PM
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I know it’s wrong but I am feeling extremely let down and disappointed. I know I can’t have her and feel so numb. I have found the perfect woman (a rare find to say the least) and she’s off limits. How do I cope? I'm just trying to give the OP his best chance at getting real, informed, serious advice to his serious question. How can I stop looking at her photos and feeling sorry for myself? If OP is considering spending several years of his life looking at her photos and feeling sorry for himsel…
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 06:46 PM
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Gift idea: Dick in a box
/r/askMRP15/12/20 06:23 PM
1

WTF is this??!! Who is approving VALENTINES DAY posts in fucking December?!
/r/askMRP15/12/20 06:19 PM
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You figured me out. You got me redhanded.
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 06:17 PM
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Deja vu anone? Muslim, Mormon, what's next? If she's really as beautiful as you say she is, we're going to need pics in order to help you make an informed decision. Mission: Having an incredible woman by my side to form a stable family with has always been the goal. The heck is this crap?! You haven't read anything from MRP if you put that crap in your post. Are you saying that your mission is to have a woman by your side? STFU, and start over with the reading.
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 01:35 PM
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Didn't scan before I posted my answer ... you frickin beat me to it. I can't believe in this RP sub the main answer isn't a book on lifting. I'm disappointed at the overwhelming majority of books that have to do with relationships and communication recommended.
/r/RPChristians14/12/20 03:18 PM
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Book recommendation to help your brother get a girlfriend: https://www.amazon.com/Simplest-Effective-Training-Increase-Strength/dp/0557248299 Wendler's 5/3/1
/r/RPChristians14/12/20 03:14 PM
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Wife and I have a 3 week old infant. Have had sex about 5 times since she got pregnant, last time months ago. Ouch man. Not sure if my experience was typical, but there were some freaky times in the ~2 months before birth for most of my children. Like freak-show man. I'm talking night before birth things were happening that were tiring me out. I am still surprised looking back at what that woman was capable of with a little human inside her. Is it selfish to hit the gym 3-4x /wk with a newborn? …
/r/askMRP14/12/20 03:05 PM
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What can I say ... it's for science.
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 07:01 PM
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Lol going through my comments? Weak Thanks again for that evaluation. And .... And that sounds like a very horny and very healthy good looking young man to me. Kudos to you on a great self-evaluation there. What exactly are you looking for in your posts on reddit today? Are you looking for someone to grant you permission to go against what you have been taught? If so, then permission granted. Go for it. Go forth and make your own choices in your life. Are you looking for validation that you have…
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 06:45 PM
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Lol I’ll pass, I don’t need advice from you, you sound weak Thanks for the evaluation. https://www.reddit.com/r/Christianity/comments/kae3tt/can_i_start_sleeping_with_women_i_am_a_22y_old/ Your post from ~6 hours ago. I was taught sex is after marriage going to church. But my hormones are absolutely raging and at its peak. There have been so many beautiful women that I just had to walk away from because I’m not ready for marriage and have been waiting to get in a relationship after I land a good…
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 06:28 PM
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Defend her all you want to us. But I really, really need to see that pedestal raised up another notch or three to give you my permission. In fact ... sounds like pics are really what this post needs. If you want informed advice, and it sounds like you're asking for advice, then I believe pics are necessary. So, pics or pound sand.
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 06:07 PM
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I really want to date her and see if it can work I know the old saying don’t crap where you work I always planned to marry a Christian, but she is so hot that I’m considering I should change plans Have you read anything on frame in the RP world? It sounds like you are willing to go against all the "rules" here for a girl. Sounds like she's already up on a pretty tall pedestal, bud. Use this as a learning experience, and learn how to get rid of that pedestal around her and other women.
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 05:04 PM
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"this won't work..." Yeah, you may be right. But you may also be underestimating the power of the spreadsheet for some guys. You say - "Bench this much." And you might be met with some "no way, man" type of resistance. But you put numbers on a spreadsheet, and some guys just eat that up. And like I said ... spreadsheet frame is hopefully just a stop on the way to real frame.
/r/RPChristians09/12/20 02:09 PM
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Skip the book. Take him to the gym with you regularly. Spreadsheet the crap out of some squat and bench numbers. Do the same for calories. If he's on the spectrum, he may take to a spreadsheet approach like a duck to water. Sure, spreadsheet frame isn't the best, but if he's in the gym I'd consider that a +1.
/r/RPChristians08/12/20 08:19 PM
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So he's autistic and doesn't know it? I believe the way you are using the term "autistic," and the way that term gets thrown around on RP sites is causing some confusion here. If he's "autistic" - ie has an actual disability, then there's something to be said for how high is SV will go on the market. If he's "autistic" - ie, he eats paint chips before engaging with people of the opposite sex ... well, take him to the gym with you twice a week and go from there. Either way ... take him to the gym…
/r/RPChristians08/12/20 08:17 PM
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What does "give it a go for a while" with this woman mean to you? A second chance for what? What's your purpose for having a woman in your life? This is the big question you must answer. This woman...another woman ... whomever. This is YOUR big question. And for the specific advice.... You don't mention kids. Answer sounds clear-cut from the seat I'm in. Divorce. Fuck who you want. If you want to fuck this one, then fine ... so be it. But why?
/r/askMRP08/12/20 02:56 PM
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Last night she Facetimed me and we broke up. What do those words even mean?
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 01:45 PM
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I, too, stayed in a Holiday Inn Express last night.
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 01:40 PM
1

There. Does that make it all better?
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:56 PM
0

Am I meant to be single? Yes.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:56 PM
1

For science.... I hate science.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 12:33 PM
2

https://lmgtfy.app/?q=list+of+companies+donating+to+planned+parenthood
/r/RPChristians18/11/20 02:17 PM
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https://lmgtfy.app/?q=list+of+companies+donating+to+planned+parenthood
/r/RPChristians18/11/20 02:17 PM
1

But is there a link to the sidebar somewhere? /s
/r/askRPC16/11/20 05:36 PM
2

(For fellow gringos, 13 cm = 5.12 inches.) Good gringo bot.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 03:35 PM
2

I fucking hate science sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 03:34 PM
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This is an RP sub. The answer is 'You do you.' You can't force anybody else to own their crap.
/r/RPChristians11/11/20 07:54 PM
1

Anything actionable here? Thanks for the reminder? She-she-she.
/r/RPChristians11/11/20 04:03 PM
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what the right thing is for the community. Finally. Somebody with the community at heart. We are saved gentlemen. Our white knight has arrived.
/r/askMRP03/11/20 12:56 PM
2

Get a recorder in your pocket ASAP. Get a lawyer - not the internet - for the advice you need.
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 12:54 PM
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When I go to the gym I randomly look for a dumbbell or a machine that just speaks to me that day. I hope that it'll give me the veins in my biceps and the six-pack I know is just around the corner.
/r/askRPC02/11/20 09:11 PM
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Do you want to hate your spouse? That takes some deep level effort to actually hate someone. Sure ... maybe you don't want to spend time around her. Maybe she doesn't give you the 'tingles' anymore. Stop focusing on your wife and find something to do with your life. One of the mantras here is 'be attractive, don't be unattractive.' If your time is best spent hating on people, then take a guess where you land on that mantra. Get some hobbies, make some friends, do things you enjoy doing. Develop …
/r/askRPC02/11/20 01:38 PM
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If you're struggling with reading the Bible regularly, then I'd recommend some sort of strategy in place like this for you... Every time you want to post something on reddit, go read your Bible for 10 minutes. From looking at your post history OP - you could read the entire NT in a day and a half most likely.
/r/askRPC02/11/20 01:32 PM
1

Do you believe OP is "strong" yet?
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 07:51 PM
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Funny thing ... you can be a Protestant just as much as anything else on the list and still say this.
/r/RPChristians26/10/20 11:03 AM
1

Brick wall much? /u/Phoenixston
/r/RPChristians22/10/20 03:46 PM
1

Sure ... a guy should be able to own it and say w/o ego .. "I've used porn seven times in the last 2 days" ... or whatever. But what you're proposing is (at its core) a negative mindset. The lifestyle your question trends toward is a negative outlook on life ... a life of scarcity (as opposed to abundance). I do believe there's some value in your question. But "nowhere near as important as a lot of guys think it is" (like OZ says). Compare to the gym and nutrition and such .... When did you last…
/r/RPChristians20/10/20 12:35 PM
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About damn time.
/r/askMRP19/10/20 08:46 PM
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If you get divorced you've failed. Part of your mission depends on not getting divorced. If a person walks away from the Faith, walks away from God ... do you view God has having failed? I wrestle with your mindset here ... as I've had it as my own for many years. But I do believe my mindset has changed over the past few years at some level. If your mission depends on not getting divorced, then how does that play out with someone walking away from Christ? The parallel/picture between Chris and H…
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 07:30 PM
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the maid will come if the wife will not Wow ... who knew? Martin Luther ... king of medieval dread game?
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 07:12 PM
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TL/DR version.... Been RP for a whole week. My wife and I talked ... End of post. Dude ... if you've read anything here you would know that any post stating "I've been here a whole week and WOW things are changing .... " is basically a version of the SAME THING that's been spewed many times over. You've posted in the past few days about how much she sucks from your mood when you're around her. You've got work to do, and that work is in the sidebar. Stop worrying about what SHE does or SHE says. …
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 06:24 PM
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Many of us in this sub are a group of recovering 'nice-guys' ... of course we're going to feel sorry for him. May 'nice-guys' end up going the route of becoming a therapist to try and help sad cases like this. Not knocking it ... it can be a mission. But, ... Kill that white knight. If he won't walk the path then let him sink. Hell - even if this kid's your damn son, sometimes you've got to let him sink. Mission is priority.
/r/askMRP19/10/20 01:41 PM
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'Bout time. I grow weary. The mods have my utmost sympathy. Now stop the damn science.
/r/askMRP19/10/20 01:37 PM
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Yeah .. I know guys who have taken to the gym and overcome porn. Maybe they're just trading in one "master" for another. I see it as a 12-steps approach in some ways. Not 100% the best, but since we don't live in a "get to 100% by tomorrow" world ... I say gym > porn most days if it works for you.
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 07:20 PM
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Going to the gym 3-4 times a week is just the impetus some guys need in order to overcome something like a porn addiction. The simple act of "doing" something is many times the best way to "stop doing" something else.
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 07:03 PM
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I guess it's my problem to fix if I care about the community enough, but it's a lot of work for one person. White Knight much?
/r/RPChristians15/10/20 06:24 PM
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The ego speaks.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 06:30 PM
1

Not sure what country/state you're in, but if she's leaving marks on you during physical contact as the aggressor then it likely qualifies for Domestic Violence. If you want a divorce, then DV is like hitting the easy button in a lot of locales. IANAL I am not sure what you want based on your post. What do you want? Dig deep and answer this question man... Do you want to control the woman you are married to and make her stop hitting you? If you're going to revolve your life around a woman, then …
/r/askMRP14/10/20 01:00 PM
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They're called carrots .. the magic food is called carrots. When I'm on a serious cut I eat all the carrots I want. Whole carrots - the kind you have to wash and peel. The extra hassle of peeling a carrot puts things into perspective. Am I hungry enough to peel a carrot?
/r/askMRP13/10/20 08:13 PM
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Normally walked for ~70 minutes. Great time to clear my head, or get into my head at times; great time to listen to music or a book or a podcast; great time for the kids to go with me some days. According to the MyFitnessPal app on my phone, walking at 3.5mph for 70 minutes burns ~400 calories. However, weight is lost on diet. If you go back and down a beer or three or toss a bag of chips back, then doesn't matter how much you walk. Count your calories. Walking is an accessory to the diet.
/r/askMRP13/10/20 05:52 PM
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Careful man... he may try breaking both hands if he learns this.
/r/askMRP13/10/20 05:24 PM
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Edit ... seriously bro... I looked at your last OYS from March. You're 6'1" and weigh 225+ with a 38" waist. Do you count calories? Do you track what you're putting in your mouth? You could probably down from a 38" to a 34" waist in 4 months if you simply count calories. You want an SMV boost? Put a target on the map and then shoot for it. 190lb by Feb 2021. This is the simple part of the RP. This is the visible gains part of RP. Count the calories. Body becomes sexier. Easy-peasey. One to 1.5lb…
/r/askMRP13/10/20 05:20 PM
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Rona already has me 15 lbs heavier than I was a year ago. Sorry to break it to you, but Rona didn't do a +15 to you bud. Sounds like if you went /u/red-sfpplus's route and broke your fork hand you might save a few pounds. I had inguinal hernia surgery July 2019. Walking was my main form of exercise for a while. I also figured this was the best time in the world to go on a serious cut. Magically lost weight somehow. Walking and counting calories can work wonders. Then I had a motorcycle accident …
/r/askMRP13/10/20 05:13 PM
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My opinion is a personal therapist is better than a group - unless you feel the need strongly to connect with others in a similar boat as you. Look up a CBT therapist in your area ... look up several. Do a meet and greet .. 30 minutes to spill your story and you'll get a feel for whether or not it's worth your time/$$ on one of them. A decent therapist can be a second pair of eyes on your life basically. He can work with you to develop metrics to help gain traction. A decent one may be able to h…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 07:09 PM
10

Sometimes it helps just to talk about the shit. After a while, it's not helpful to talk about the shit anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 06:40 PM
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I believe your ginormous ego is getting in the way of a decent chuckle right here.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 06:46 PM
2

This is science. I approve.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 04:38 PM
1

I'm trying to find out if my wife was autistic, too.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 04:37 PM
3

she behaves and responds very differently compared to most of the examples that appear in this group Please elaborate.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 02:57 PM
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Didn't engage, told her I This is not STFU. When it's an argument she wants STFU actually means Shut The Fuck Up. Go autistic. Actually Shut The Fuck Up every once in a while. Stop trying to get the last word in. Fuck man...you DEER all over this post to the internet wizards who don't give a fuck who you are or where you are. But you make damn sure to explain why you said what you said to your wife while you weren't engaging and were STFU-ing. STFU and do what needs to be done. Get the shit done…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 01:44 PM
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All of your options are an attempt to determine HER behavior/response - hell you're even shuffling in her ovulation card like it's an upgrade. It sounds like you are trying your best to figure out which card to play in order to manipulate her into doing what you want. Red flag for me ... when I find myself taking an action or saying some word puke just to create a response in another person - I'm most likely pushing in the wrong direction.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 04:03 PM
1

I had COVID late June. Worked from home and skipped the gym four solid weeks. Got back at in in July. I did cancel a vacation with my parents .. they're 75-80. No reason to risk it on their behalf IMO. But they go out to a bar every now and then anyway. How enclosed are your parents? Do they ever go out in public? On the space issue ... personally I'd hate to be cramped up in my own space with a bench and bar if I want to sit down and relax. Options are all over this thread... Get a storage unit…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 12:55 PM
3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ej4WzltO1DA Six Minute grip workout. Barbell twists. Dead hangs. Farmer walks. Your forearms will be screaming.
/r/askMRP05/10/20 01:19 PM
1

Damn. That's a pain. Respect to the mods. I'm going to triple my regular monetary contribution to show my appreciation.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/20 12:44 PM
3

Are the mods shit-testing the members at this point?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 04:31 PM
1

Holy shit man.... do the mods really have to deal with this much shit? I know somebody posted about "approving" basically every post for a while 'for science.' But this is shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 04:30 PM
1

I like this approach. Maybe it's a fake-it-till-you-make-it option to some here. Maybe it doesn't address the underlying religious tenants/beliefs that might 'fix' OP's problematic behaviours if he would just 'believe' the right things. But I'm I a fan. Get with some CBT therapist. Get in a program. Good ones will give OP a roadmap to follow to get away from some of the problematic behaviors while he also learns how to road-map.
/r/RPChristians01/10/20 12:58 PM
1

"anxiety" That's not supposed to be a nebulous word, but in the English language it has turned into that in many cases. What are you experiencing "anxiety" about? What fear the anxiety is related to (FOMO)? Anxiety is somewhat akin to a feeling. It's a bodily response. Can you control your feelings or your bodily responses? Sometimes, sure. But with something like anxiety, your best option is to get behind that feeling of anxiety to the fear that's driving it. Fear of not getting the action you …
/r/askRPC30/09/20 06:28 PM
1

"I will not live the rest of my life without a blowjob." Either say that a mean it, or realize you're stuck in your own head and blowjobs aren't a deal-breaker for you. One way or another - make a decision and move forward. If BJs are a deal-breaker, then keep watching them on your phone, or pay for them, or go out a find someone that wants to do that to you. If BJs are not a deal-breaker, then stop hamstering about them. The world isn't black and white ... sure, but somewhere the rubber meets t…
/r/askRPC30/09/20 02:04 PM
8

I don't want to get a 3-day wrist-slap again for rule-breaking.
/r/askMRP29/09/20 05:56 PM
6

Please ban this guy.
/r/RedPillBooks29/09/20 04:52 PM
8

Please ban this guy.
/r/RedPillParenting29/09/20 04:51 PM
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Insanity is doing the same thing again and again and expecting different results. I typically get different results when I lift heavy stuff.
/r/RPChristians28/09/20 03:36 PM
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Do you have any brothers? My brother was a rock for me during a tough time. He listened mainly while I spilled my guts over the phone. Kept me from doing it to my wife most of the time probably. Do you hang out with any other guys your age? One on one at all? I've got a guy I ride with on our motorcycles. We'll take a ride somewhere 30 mins away .. sometimes up to 2 hours away. We've got the headsets so we can talk while we ride. Makes for a lot of silence sometimes (which neither of us mind muc…
/r/RPChristians28/09/20 01:54 PM
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Also, this has nothing to do with parenting. Get this crap outta here.
/r/RedPillParenting25/09/20 04:40 PM
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'Not' does not equal "no" in the English language.
/r/RedPillParenting25/09/20 04:38 PM
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https://www.removeddit.com/r/relationships/comments/idhr9f/gringo_37m_newly_dating_latina_37f_with_a_pull_to/ Read your post where you are entertaining the idea of leaving your daughter behind to move to Columbia for a woman. Which emotions are you talking about (right now)? The ones where you lose your daughter to the evil ex? Or the ones where your current "committed" girlfriend pulls you to Columbia to be closer to her family? Don't point to an action of another (your ex) and tell me how pain…
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 12:43 PM
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I know I should hope for her success... but most of the time I just don't. Wow man. 2.5 years ago and you're still angry? Sure ... different people express their anger different ways...process life events like a divorce different ways... but dang man. You're like the poster child for every guy on this sub that's scared of divorce in a bad way. And you're stuck in it. And you post to the relationships sub to get advice. You still frame your world entirely as it relates to your ex and maybe some n…
/r/RPChristians22/09/20 04:25 PM
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I have had a rough go in youth ministry. You're 5'10" at 222lb. I'd be surprised if any 35% BF guy had a good time as a youth minister! "Yeah kids ... you run on ahead, I'll catch up after I finish this DQ." "Yeah guys ... you play a few games of bball, I'll watch from the sidelines while I finish this DQ." "Sorry girls, you go ahead and finish up this round of volleyball ... I've got a DQ over here that needs my attention." "Anybody got a cooler tube with a cup-holder on it for the tubing trip …
/r/RPChristians21/09/20 01:35 PM
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Forgive me Father, for I have sinned.
/r/RPChristians21/09/20 01:24 PM
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There was a month where I brought it up almost every other night Please tell me you are committed to this path. Please tell me you didin't bail, bro!! Push that up to every fucking night. Bring it up twice a night ... once before dinner and once after. Walk this path and she'll soon get to a point where somebody wants her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 02:56 PM
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1 .. This stuff... More words. Definitely more words. Get it up into the "talk about it every night" level... I need her to get back in shape and lose the weight More of that. Keep that shit up. But up the dose. More words and more needy. 2 .. and this stuff.. Do more of this shit: I also put on a few pounds and worked out less I also cut back my gym time a decent amount Focus on these two areas; push hard on these two areas, and I think she'll be right where somebody wants her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 02:42 PM
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How do you deal with the influences of low sex marriage from [whatever] ...... Short answer??? Get rid of this mindset: Obviously I am looking to improve individually and improve my marriage. And adopt this mindset: Obviously I am looking to improve individually. As a side note since it seemed to be a main part of your question - Who cares if your friends are sex-poor or cash-poor?
/r/askMRP17/09/20 11:25 AM
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I don't give a fuck about your reply plus the only fuck I give is to brush his narrow-minded shit off the table You're moving the goal-posts. Either give a fuck or don't. Somebody is using your keyboard to spread the fucks here. Your keyboard isn't giving any fucks. You, on the other hand... the dissonance is clear.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 03:32 PM
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It seems your keyboard (or maybe your phone) has a few to give.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 03:06 PM
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I get the same sense as you from the post. I see it as one of two possibles: 1) OP is nailing his shit and has understanding on the meta - think David Deida level. or 2) OP is full-on, fake-it-till-you-make-it. Either way ... if OP thinks getting up before a woman and going to bed after a woman makes him more of a man ... well, based on his reply to your comment OP doesn't care what you think, but he does care what his woman thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 03:06 PM
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Passive my big-fat-behind. If somebody comes on this same dang sub and says "I've got a problem with being FAT." What does this forum recommend??? Does this forum say "well, get your mind changed and then you'll stop drinking the beers." NO! This forum says "Stop bringing beer into the house FATTY-mc-FAT-pants." Hey fatty .... "actively seek God's intervention in order to be actively changed." - said no-one ever
/r/RPChristians01/09/20 05:19 PM
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The biggest issue is his wife. If this is your frame, then there isn't much help you can provide him in the RP world.
/r/askRPC31/08/20 04:51 PM
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Bwahahaha!!!!!!! Are you the OP??? How many fucks are you giving here?
/r/askMRP28/08/20 03:45 PM
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Dude ... I read the last post. Here's your sign bud. I'll spell it out here.... What were we talking about? This would be my reaction to the shitty, entitled, cry-baby BIL.
/r/askMRP28/08/20 01:49 PM
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What were we talking about?
/r/askMRP28/08/20 01:28 PM
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"Goals" according to Dave Ramsey: Specific Measurable Time limit Write it down "My" goals https://www.daveramsey.com/blog/the-keys-to-achieving-your-goals https://www.daveramsey.com/blog/smart-goal-setting
/r/askMRP27/08/20 07:59 PM
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Why would it magically help me figure out who my future wife will be though (assuming I'll ever marry) ? Look at the title of your post OP... When can you tell a girlfriend is a future wife? You're the one asking for magic. I waved my wand. If you don't like my wand, go find another one to wave around and give it a try.
/r/RPChristians27/08/20 07:56 PM
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Wife or not ... the second best piece of advice you'll find here in the RP world is plain and simple.. You do you. That advice is second only to this... Lift, bro. You're 30 years old. And you weigh as much as my 14 year old who is hitting the gym 5-6 days a week. You weigh less than my 17 year old who could bench your skinny bum for reps. She brought up the fact that she's considering breaking up some time ago, because she wanted/wants to feel more attracted to me or something or other. She's b…
/r/RPChristians27/08/20 04:03 PM
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OP ... you are the perfect example of someone with no frame. It's like you're walking around with a deck of cards or a playbook in your hand. You've got to shuffle through the cards as soon as MIL walks in the room. You get caught with your pants down if you don't have the right card on the top of the deck. It's like you're George on Seinfeld, and you're asking for "The Move" that Jerry does in bed with women. You would like to write it down on your hand, so that you can refer to it as soon as M…
/r/askMRP27/08/20 02:43 PM
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Best answer I've got is to take him to the gym with you. My oldest is now 17, and one of the biggest self-confidence boosts he experienced was making progress in the gym. My second son is 14 now, and he has been asking me to take him to the gym for a while. When he hit 14 I bought him a membership, and he's been going 5-6 days a week ... biking to get there. And it shows in his self-confidence. At 15, what does a guy really have that he can "accomplish" these days? If a team sport is present, th…
/r/RPChristians27/08/20 12:48 PM
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Pretty sure the house is not the only thing she's got a backup of.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 05:47 PM
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Spot on. It's worse that getting angry. Penance is the "nice guy" way to deal with not OYS really really really nicely but hoping you've done enough to make a change.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 05:47 PM
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I've been seriously considering doing BJJ for a while. This is the mindset I'm telling you to try and break away from. Stop considering. Stop "seriously considering" something for a while. Instead - do. I signed up for boxing classes with my 16yo. I took a break from some other things, and we went to a boxing gym twice a week and sparred and did burpees and shadow boxed and hit bags. Boxing was a great decision for me and my son. We did boxing classes for maybe 6-8 months? I'll probably do the s…
/r/askRPC21/08/20 01:52 PM
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Read Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" - it's on the sidebar for a reason. When you comprehend what's in Deida's book you will become the book for your woman to read.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 01:41 PM
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Practically, the best way for you to "work" on this is to keep doing what you're already doing. Get out with women. Go out and spend time doing stuff you want to do and invite women to come along. If you go about this with a mindset towards "working on my frame" then I think you'll take a longer time getting there. Frame is something that you don't "work on" in the moment. The more you "work" on frame, the less you have it. When you find yourself thinking about frame ... those are the times you …
/r/askRPC20/08/20 08:04 PM
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I'd put $$ on she has a brother - an older brother. My 15yo daughter can agree-amplify with the best of them. Sometimes it's all fun and good ... sometimes it's full-on disrespectful. I think it's great. You sound scared of this girl. Why is that?
/r/askRPC20/08/20 06:50 PM
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How do you define dating? If you mean don't spend any time around a woman and don't talk to them, then that's nonsense IMO. You do you. Get things "in order", and start building a successful, enjoyable life. People will want to spend time with you as you do that hopefully. If you mean "dating" as a step towards marriage in the next 6-12 months? Well, up to you, but I think you would do a lot better in the long run by upping your game and place in life in order to pull a better mate for potential…
/r/RPChristians19/08/20 05:18 PM
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3) what advice in general would you give to me? I have read Most of the sidebar as suggested and it’s somewhat depressing how far off a quality man I am by those standards, and will continue to be until my mid-30s in all likelihood. Sounds like you already have a place in view of where you want to go. And it sounds like you want some shortcuts to get to where you want to go. Sorry bud ... sidebar (as suggested) is the answer.
/r/RPChristians19/08/20 04:38 PM
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You've been RP-ing, TRP-ing, and MRP-ing for a year or so now. Here ... here's your diploma. It's written on the dimploma... "Go forth and make your own decisions."
/r/askMRP18/08/20 01:16 PM
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25 days ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hu57s4/smv_is_near_its_peak_leave_ltr_or_stay/ 1 month ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hq04ib/for_those_who_are_in_ltrs_have_kids_do_you_cheat/ 1 month ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hq1j1m/hooking_up_with_porn_stars/ 1 month ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hjzj09/does_anyone_actually_enjoy_spending_time_with/ 1 month ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hem4jw/do_you_cheat_on_your_ltrwife/ 2 mon…
/r/askMRP14/08/20 02:19 PM
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It feels like I’m a father to children I never created trying to keep the ship afloat. I wish there was more time in the day so I can catch up. Why do you have three cars? Why do you fix your sisters' cars and your Mom's car? Not saying don't do it. But if you're going to kvetch about wishing some pie in the sky way to add hours to your 24 hour allotment that EVERYONE gets, then maybe you should evaluate how many cars you want to spend time fixing. Do you live with your parents? If the answer to…
/r/askRPC12/08/20 07:37 PM
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I get this gut feel when I read your posts that your main goal in life is to find a good LTR and upgrade her to wife status someday in your dream-world. And you really really really really hope that goes well for you and your dream family. And you really really really really really really hope that once you've got that goal met that nothing happens to burn it all to the ground someday - like she cheats on you are something of that nature. You say "secular women smell the virginity off you" ... o…
/r/askRPC12/08/20 12:43 PM
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You must be in the deep South. Bwahahaha!!!!! You think those women from the South don't know what's going on and who's seeing who? No way this guy is describing "the South" here man!
/r/RPChristians11/08/20 05:18 PM
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Bring a few of the hotties you're interested in banging back to your house. If she beefs you tell her you'll only do it on Tuesdays and Fridays and Saturdays (for starters).
/r/askMRP11/08/20 05:15 PM
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Pastor "Abraham understood the principle of sowing, you get what you sow. Because you sow a son you get many sons" I sowed that check in the offering plate one time, and I even folded it as a paper airplane trying to shake things up a bit. I think most of your questions have to deal with trying to push more into each passage being topical than anything else. If you're looking to create a "sermon" on giving, then you can look anywhere in a bunch of verses and push the topic of giving into the ver…
/r/askRPC10/08/20 03:04 PM
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Anytime I find myself taking a certain action or saying a certain thing in order to produce an effect in someone else - that's a red flag for me mentally. I see that red flag and realize I can't control someone else. I don't want to be in a relationship where I can control the other person.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/20 01:18 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5 Get the app on your phone and use it.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:20 PM
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You're like Herman Pewee stumbling across MRP. Hey .. watch it buster. What I do in the privacy of my own chair at the theater is none of your concern!
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:21 PM
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If you don't want to go, then don't go. I went to a therapist on my own for a while. My wife has her own therapist she sees. Each individually. If you guys work on any problems you each have .. with or without help from somebody else .. then the ethereal 'relationship' will most likely benefit. If one of you makes progress, then the relationship will most likely make progress. If one of you makes progress and realizes the other person is just toxic, then the relationship may end if the person ma…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 05:13 PM
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Guys ... come on!!! Don't be so hard on the bloke! He only wants comments that are answering his question! All I wanted was a simple answer. Do I show emotional side or no? Do I pull back? Yes or no?? It’s simple. If u can’t answer that. Then don’t comment Come on RP buds. Have you ever felt the rush of a good power trip? Black-hammer20 dude is asking us to drive his life. Hell ... some days my wife won't let me drive my own damn life, so I enjoy sitting in the driver's seat like this on occasio…
/r/askMRP29/07/20 12:21 PM
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I understand that finding a good wife is a good thing. But if you're going to make woman or women the mission of your life, then yeah ... maybe abundance will be hard for you to find. If, however, you are willing to spend yourself doing something you believe in - then I think you can find abundance ... and mysteriously, accord to this RP thing ... it seems women are drawn to this sort of man who has a drive like this.
/r/RPChristians29/07/20 12:13 PM
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Watching TV is not a good option for "something to go do" when spending time with your wife isn't high on your list. Get a life, man. Build a life for yourself. The best thing you can do when the wife is not interested in sex (with you) is to have something better to do. Pushups, situps, pullups is a decent option. Working on your body is good. Cycling is decent. Find something you can do where you're building something that is important to you or that you enjoy. If other people are involved tha…
/r/askMRP28/07/20 01:55 PM
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Marry her; have a kid or three. Then all the attraction will come back and everything will be better.
/r/askMRP27/07/20 07:15 PM
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So should I rant about your inability to comprehend 5th grade English? I don't have the time. Thanks for taking the time to respond. If your son responds in a similar way to getting dunked in a pool I'd recommend a steady diet of pushups, sit-ups, and pull-ups. For metrics ... I'd draw up a spreadsheet charting dunks-per-visit-to-the-pool. It's the perfect home school math project along with a little scientific method thrown on top. I hypothesize that the dunks-per-visit should directly correlat…
/r/askRPC27/07/20 01:02 PM
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Along with the 'you do you' advice I've throw out ... I'll throw this out ... You're 6'1" at 19% body fat and weigh 169. You believe weights and stats related to weights are myopic and anemic; these benchmark stats which the mods here have stated are required for most threads asking for advice - and you believe this request is anemic and myopic. I think this belief of yours is reflected in how you look in-person; I think your kids have adopted this belief that a focus on physical size is anemic …
/r/askRPC27/07/20 12:25 PM
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Kids are going to be kids in many senses. If you force this apha/beta construct on them, then I think you're doing them a disservice. What is RP? It's a sexual strategy. Does it help you get along at your place of business? Sure. Probably does. Does is help you be a better parent. Yup. Frame is the name of the game in parenting. Can it help you sort out playground squabbles between the 12 year olds in your life??? Well ... it may help. But you might be asking too much there. That said .... if yo…
/r/askRPC24/07/20 07:35 PM
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I'm assuming you're not referencing verse 3 "don't spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings" or verse 10, "A wife of noble character who can find?" ... I see those verses along a similar vein as finding a rich guy who's going to (or already has) entered into the kingdom. Do you know a rich guy who has entered the kingdom? If you do, then I'm assuming you also know a woman with noble character.
/r/RPChristians23/07/20 01:54 PM
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Stats are for people asking for help. Not 100% accurate there. Stats also give us a concept of where you're coming from. You're a new user with a single post. Most of your comments involve running women through the gauntlet of sexual promiscuity and bringing up the Chads they've decided to hop around on in their younger years. Most of your comments revolve around the what proverbial "she" did that RP frowns upon. Your stats may help (at least me) understand why it sounds like you've got such an …
/r/RPChristians23/07/20 01:54 PM
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Yeah ... every time I see a church try to reach out to somebody whose past is smeared in sin I think ... sham. Got a church with a Tuesday night group that does weight watchers or "cardio" for weight loss? Sham. Sinners, the lot of them. Everybody knows you shouldn't cater to gluttons. Got a church where people get angry? Maybe want to put a flier up on the community board about how we're going to read some book on dealing with anger in a biblical way and maybe we call it angerholics recovery or…
/r/RPChristians23/07/20 12:34 PM
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You can always put a steak back on the grill if it needs more cooking, but once it is overcooked there is no going back. Done bun can't be undone.
/r/askMRP21/07/20 08:19 PM
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I should have picked out a new church a couple years back, no wait ... maybe should have never gone to that one church anyway considering where it's left me and my family.
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 07:33 PM
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I should have started watching my diet when I was 25 ... no 30, maybe 35?
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 07:32 PM
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I should have lost weight when I was 25, no 30, no 35....
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 07:32 PM
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I should have started out in the gym when I was 16. That was the "right time"...
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 07:32 PM
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When do you know the time is right to make the move and initiate change in your life? Most guys come into RP subs because they want to find the "right" woman or maybe have already found the "right" woman. And they don't want to loose her. You've got the same problem with how you view this thing called the "right time" to do something. I'll make it easy on you. You've already missed the "right time" to do it. There ... monkey's off your back ... weight of the world is off your shoulders. Now you …
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 07:22 PM
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Its never really been a priority for me so it isnt something i've really looked into, and i just assumed i would meet women naturally when i became an adult. Excuse. Stop with the excuses language. If it's not something that's a priority for you, then don't care about it. You care enough to make an excuse at this point for somebody on the internet. Cut that DEER-crap out of your talk. If developing an abundance mindset is important to you, then it's something you will look into. If you want to m…
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 07:17 PM
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It sounds like you're trying hard to put this girl on a pedestal already. My advice is to only do anything with this girl twice in a row. If you want to continue doing stuff with her, then find another girl to put into the rotation. Kind of a black and white rule to get away from the oneitis. See girl A (at your house or at her parents' house or out hiking or at the ice cream shop) on Monday. See girl A again Friday evening for dinner or a sports event or to hang at the mall. Don't see girl A ag…
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 05:05 PM
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read that book to help them find their strength and voice to help them shut down their wives getting close to men I put a muzzle and chastity belt on my wife. That way if she gets close to other men at least she can't do oral or PIV.
/r/askMRP17/07/20 12:57 PM
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$10 says the next post from this guy isn't about boundaries with an ex or a girl friend ... but about the family dog.
/r/askMRP15/07/20 07:06 PM
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For posterity's sake... Hello So 9 months ago I met a wonderful girl. Early in the dating stages we set our boundaries : be exclusive and no exes in the relationship. The next week she invited her last ex (they were together 3 months) to eat because he was sad. I told her that I dislike that. And that she shouldn’t do to me what she don’t want me to do to her. She said ok. 1 months later she called him for an hour because she was lost in her job ( they have the same job ) : she lied to me tellin…
/r/askMRP15/07/20 04:43 PM
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From 2 months ago... https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/gjobx2/what_to_do_with_my_girlfriend/ Did you go and wife up this gal you called your girlfriend in that past 2 months ago? If I were you, I'd stop talking about boundaries. Words mean nothing.
/r/askMRP15/07/20 04:42 PM
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Like the other guys, post up some stats like the rules state. Next steps ... Does your next step depend on what a woman does? This is the big question for you. If you feel like telling her "fine then, I'm done with you too" because of how you think she might respond, then that's your frame holding up like a wet paper bag. Sure, if you actually mean the words and your actions will be congruent with those words, then maybe it'll be helpful to say them. But I'm 100% on this -- you wouldn't mean tho…
/r/askRPC14/07/20 05:43 PM
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Props for being up-front and transparent. But how are you going to get from "i wish I had done X because she did Y" to something more like "I do X because I want to"? The way you describe your wishes is entirely wound up in your wife's frame. Sounds like a bad place to be, man.
/r/askMRP10/07/20 02:08 PM
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Better marry that to burn is a great thing to hear ... but make sure you're not looking to a woman to make your life bearable. The "problem" OP is dealing with is the same problem many beta guys here have to deal with while a warm body (that they're not allowed to touch) is sleeping in bed next to them. And to OP ... 25 with no prospects? Well, if you're not looking then just learn to live to deal with this "problem." And be happy it's a "problem" for you. On the "blow 30k for a wedding" bit ...…
/r/askRPC07/07/20 09:06 PM
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Implementing the books in the sidebar reading would go along way to getting you where it sounds like you want to be. No More Mr Nice Guy When I Saw No I Feel Guilty How to Win Friends and Influence People
/r/askRPC07/07/20 02:31 PM
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Everyday when I sit down at my desk, I take a deep breath and admire my pecs before I write my first lines of C#.
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 02:27 PM
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I got a vasectomy after five kids; I was 33 or 34 at the time. We bumped up against the quiverful concepts in our 20's; took some of that very seriously. Honestly ... there were two decisions I never thought I'd be able to make: 1) I'm ready to have kids. 2) I'm ready to be done having kids. Well, nature has a way to handle the first. Kids happen when a man and a woman sleep together w/o taking birth control seriously. That second question?? Yeah ... after five I knew. No doubt. Looking back, I …
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 02:25 PM
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This sort of request is exactly the type of thing that will work itself out on its own without any real focus on your part if you stick to the reading and work on yourself. You do you. If I want to grab a drink for my woman (if she asks or not), then I'll do it. Her response is less important that my mindset. He acceptance or rejection of my time/attention is less important than my mindset in the doing of what I am doing. If you spend your time spinning your wheels (your hamster) on whether or n…
/r/askMRP24/06/20 07:10 PM
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Next time I get a girl, I’d pretty much just desire her sexually and to create some babies and start a family. I don’t think I’d love her emotionally if that makes sense. Yeah ... when I look at my 40yo wife who's had my five babies I pretty much smirk at her and say "hey babe, it was good while it lasted (now that we're done having babies)." Heck .. every time she comes up behind me to rub my back, or anytime she tells me her tits are feeling good (code for come touch them) ... I just look at h…
/r/askRPC24/06/20 06:46 PM
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Define love; maybe your question will mean something. If by "love", you define it as bringing flowers every month ... then sure. Kill that flower-loving-puppy with some RP and get a life. If by "love", you define it as wrapping up your happiness in someone else's? ... then yeah ... kill that co-dependant puppy with some RP, too. Define your terms, bro. If you're still "healing" like you describe in your post a month ago ... https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/gkzzg0/how_to_heal_from_previou…
/r/askRPC24/06/20 06:39 PM
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You should post a link to a particular episode instead of a general spam-post like this. If you've got a particular episode that's RP-related, then post a link to it. Also, include some TL/DR info on how it touches on the subject of this sub. Otherwise, you're just advertising your postcast hoping someone listens and subscribes ... which, by definition, is a spam post.
/r/RPChristians15/06/20 05:22 PM
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So, this is a post to a podcast? What's the gist of the podcast? Do you like the podcast? Do you generally agree with what's said on this podcast? Are you the author of this podcast? Is this podcast RP related in some way?
/r/RPChristians15/06/20 04:02 PM
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would be interested in everyone's thoughts on it You had me at Coconut.
/r/RPChristians11/06/20 12:23 PM
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I, for one, was edified.
/r/RPChristians11/06/20 12:20 PM
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Has a certain Deida flair to it ... Possibly this book: The Way of the Superior Man. This book is recommended on the MRP sidebar.
/r/RedPillBooks10/06/20 07:55 PM
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---> sidebar https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/ You're 21. You're asking for an easy button in your post. Put in the work; read the sidebar and apply. I got married coming out of college at 21 years old. I would have benefited from learning this stuff before marriage.
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 08:10 PM
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DYEL bro?
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 07:20 PM
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You're still bitter life didn't deal you an easy button.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 06:48 PM
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I am 5'7", 125lbs (I'm a runner and have a stupid high metabalism, sue me) I hate crap like this. Stop trying to cushion your fragile ego.
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 06:47 PM
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My advice .. since you asked... Don't "go out" or "hang out" with this girl on more than 2 occasions in a row. You've already given this girl unicorn status. Sounds like you've goofed by doing so, and you know it. Make a spreadsheet if you have to. Go out with girl (22). Check the box. Go out with a different girl (there are many out there). Check the box. Then you can go out with girl (22) again. Easy-peasy. If she's into you, you'll know. If she's not into you, fine. Pursue what you want to pu…
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 05:11 PM
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Still can't find that ENTER key? Hit it twice in between each paragraph. TL/DR
/r/askRPC08/06/20 12:07 PM
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On a related note, how the heck did you get banned on /r/MensRights? From a quick look at recent topics that sub is filled with crabs in a bucket. Women did this, woman said that, ... Looks like a reaction bucket to make sure we men get at least as much as the women get. And if we can't get that, then we'll make sure they don't get preferential treatment, either. No bueno spending time there man. To many she said/she did in that bucket.
/r/askRPC05/06/20 11:56 AM
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To answer the question at the end of your sentence... how shall we lead them to it? Simple answers are the best IMO. You do you. Women will naturally follow. If you understand and believe RP ideologies, then you will understand that women will naturally follow. (And if they don't follow?? What are you going to do about it? Legislate "FOLLOW ME" into law?). You do you, man. This is the RP. Anytime I see a sentiment lean towards going back in time to the good old days, yada, yada... it's as if we …
/r/askRPC05/06/20 11:50 AM
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Most any red pill book out there (see sidebar) is a book that focuses on an abundance mindset. Don't spend your life afraid you're going to loose what you have. Don't spend your life grasping in fear and trying to hold onto what you have. Spend your life going for what you want. No More Mr Nice Guy (NMMNG) is a great starter in the RP world. Nice Guys live in fear of losing what they think they have. They don't want to make people unhaaappy. If a Nice Guy makes his wife unhaaappy, he thinks she'…
/r/RedPillBooks04/06/20 03:31 PM
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using those principles found in the book don't apply well if you're looking to build a romantic relationship. Agree 100%. What I've seen in the STEM world is that most 23yo STEM guys need more foundational basics of how to engage in ANY sort of sustained conversation before they work on the romantic side of things.
/r/askRPC03/06/20 03:17 PM
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last several girls I've dated What number are we talking about here? How many girls? You're 23. You're STEM. I'd bet you ask mostly yes/no questions after a certain point and chart her answers. Do you make sexual references at all in your conversation? Any "That's what she said!" jokes come out naturally? Jokes are helpful in getting sexuality into a conversation. But don't lean on jokes exclusively all the time to express your sexuality. It's not a joking matter at its core. If you're not creat…
/r/askRPC02/06/20 08:22 PM
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My honest kneejerk reaction Fully understand that reaction. it would get emotional for me Well, that's on you. Frame much? I think I need to go through with the separation. I need to practice endings. Pick what your priority is for your life. If you want to get better at endings, then maybe your marriage is the perfect practice field. If you want to practice engaging with women without letting your emotions take control, then get on the Meetup website and go on some hiking or kayaking or bird-wa…
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 01:54 PM
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I go with the tactical yell. Yelling at someone can often force their fight/flight response, but sometimes (with practice) you can hit that sweet spot and activate their FREEZE response. Once you get them frozen with the tactical yell, you can then commence with the tactical screaming. This also can take practice, but advanced techniques include adding hysterics into the tactical scream. If you apply these methods of tactical yell followed by hysterical tactical scream, then I guarantee an 82% s…
/r/RedPillBooks01/06/20 01:40 PM
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I need to decide what the heck I'm doing with my marriage at this point and do it. Why is this so hard? You seem like you're really good at punting. You know, don't go all-in. Don't go big or go home. But punt. Not sure what to do with your marriage, with the relationship with your wife? ... you punt. And I'm not knocking you, man. I'm one of the best punters out there. How about this ... is this an option for you? Just unplug from the wife; push that pendulum too far past what's good for the re…
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 01:31 PM
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Bhagvad gita Arise, slay thy enemies, enjoy a prosperous kingdom
/r/RedPillBooks29/05/20 05:15 PM
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It sounds like you don't have a plan yet for this "first date." Is that the case? My recommendation is to invite her to come along in something you want to do. If that's lunch at some place you love/enjoy or some place you've never tried, then so be it. My recommendation is to be doing things, and then happen to be on a date as well if she comes along. You like hiking? Got a new place? Hike. You like kayaking? Got a sweet spot that you feel like is yours? Take her along. You like Mediterranean f…
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 01:03 PM
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Dude ... you're a brand new account just created an hour ago, so I have no idea what you've read or where you stand. But if you're telling me that your valuation of things in this world only go so far as other people value the same things, then that's a sad place to be. If you're putting your wife in a spot where she feels like she is required to show perpetual remorse over her past behaviors, then I would put hard money on you running her away and on her giving her affections to somebody else w…
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 08:10 PM
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Are you saying you wish you could go back and have sex before marriage just because your wife doesn't show the grief you think she should?
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 07:39 PM
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Look man ... you're either going to have to figure this out as a single guy, or you'll have to figure it out as a married guy. In that world, what would a normal Sunday look like for you? What would a normal week/month/year look like for you? What would you be doing? Figure this out and then do it. Trust me ... it's easier as a single guy. If you get married, and you haven't figured this out, then you're asking for trouble. Men come in here all the time without real goals in life. They are aimle…
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 07:37 PM
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Sounds like you're entire purpose is to save your marriage. You were on a good track (because she said so). You were going places (because she behaved a certain way). She owns your frame. Sounds like you need to stop dancing and up your dose of the red pill sidebar. Internalize what you read. Stop looking to your wife and her actions/words/feelings/behavior for validation. Build a frame of your own.
/r/askMRP28/05/20 05:37 PM
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What are on this earth to do? Sounds like you're main purpose on this earth is to NOT be celibate your entire life. Sounds like you're main self-perceived purpose on this earth is wrapped up with women. Sounds like your version of the RP is almost entirely blue with a bit of MGTOW sprinkled on top. I'll put it this way... What if you were banging all the chicks you wanted. Or what if you had your dream wife. Let's just say you were getting all the sex you wanted...... dream about that world a bi…
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 01:11 PM
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BUT HE SAYS NUMEROUS TIMES HE IS!!!
/r/askMRP26/05/20 03:53 PM
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It seems weak that the emphasis is on poverty, self-examination of sin, and meekness. If you make the emphasis on poverty, you're doing it wrong. The emphasis is on the mission. You should be willing to spend YOURSELF to get the mission accomplished. If you happen to go broke doing it ... then so be it. If you're emphasis is on a self-examination of sin, then I believe you're doing it wrong there, too. As you aim to accomplish the goal the Lord has set forth, then you will see how you regularly …
/r/RPChristians26/05/20 01:12 PM
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Say this to yourself: I do not receive the feeling of being close to a woman through sex (right now). There have been times when the most lonely I felt during my day was was while having sex with my wife. Sure ... I want to "feel" close to my wife; more apt (like most guys I assume) I want her to want to "feel" close to me. But that feeling train gets you nowhere ... because most of the time we're talking about giving control of our feelings to our wives - hitching my feelings up to hers and hop…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 01:37 PM
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Now ... what are the actual potty training tips? I didn't have much problem with my first three, but my 4th and final child (daughter) is 2.5 and seriously struggling with consistency. Same happened here with our fifth. You want some actual advice to get the potty training done pronto? Have another kid. Worked for your first three didn't it?
/r/RPChristians22/05/20 12:49 PM
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We've got five kids. We used that book as well; we have a well-worn copy somewhere on the shelf. Worked fine for some ... not so for others. Life. When my third (a boy) was starting up early in the day, we had the little toilet out like we had for the first two (boy, girl). Little guy went to sit on it for the first time. First time man! And that little toilet had the raised cup thing to basically catch the pee if the boy's not aiming down. And he sat on his balls. First time. Wouldn't sit on th…
/r/RPChristians22/05/20 12:45 PM
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I actually feel a lot better about it now that I’ve typed it out. Journaling can be therapeutic. If you need to say so many words (as you did above) to feel better about your day, then you should get into a habit of journaling before you get into another relationship. I'd wager you spew words like a fire hose when you have a bad day - and it makes you feel better. And if you're up on anything redpill, you know that will kill the feelz in a male/female relationship. Look into journaling. Being ab…
/r/askRPC19/05/20 11:54 AM
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Be thankful you didn't marry and have a few kids. You need to be in a place where you can captain a ship that's heading somewhere before you think about marrying. My wife told me it was a negative thing that I was at the birth of our children. We've had five children - all at home - so she was really digging deep for some good chit when she said those words. And yup, you can bet they stung. She told me this at what was maybe the low point of our relationship ~2 years ago. It was also at the low …
/r/askRPC18/05/20 02:19 PM
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Are you and engineer of some sort? Computer oriented, IT, something dealing with computers at least? Do you troubleshoot things a lot in your field? Reason I ask is because this is you first described what you want in a wife... Ideally, I just want a future wife that doesn’t take life too serious. Doesn’t enjoy being lazy, doesn’t enjoy sitting around all day and just eating junk, and that doesn’t have addiction to social media. Notice the negative descriptions there. You do go on in your next s…
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 01:27 PM
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I started working out when it dawned on me that my wife was hotter than I was. This begs the question ... how did you come to realize your wife was hotter than you?
/r/askRPC13/05/20 02:55 PM
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I agree 100% with u/SkimTheDross here: Short answer is you can’t. Anytime a guy comes into an RP sub with a question similar to yours: "How do I get my wife to work out?" "How do I get my wife to swallow?" "How do I get my wife to clean house, lose weight, cook, dress better, wear makeup, wear lingerie, etc, etc, etc?" Anytime a guy comes in with a controlling question he gets slaughtered ... and hopefully he walks away with 'YOU DO YOU' tattooed across his forehead from the 2x4 with which he go…
/r/askRPC12/05/20 05:00 PM
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You've got to frame this differently. Don't frame this in your mind as "how to deal with a certain type of mother"... Frame this as "how to take control of my own life." The Boundaries books recommended by another comment would be a great eye-opener for you. Don't read it with an eye towards helping/changing your mother, though. Read it with an eye towards taking control of your own life.
/r/askRPC12/05/20 12:30 PM
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If he's moving fwd with a divorce ... then the best thing for him as far as this woman is concerned is for her to shack up with another guy. Best thing other guy could do for OP legally is to shack up with the wife. Not arguing morality here. Not hoping this woman goes off and sleeps with another guy who's not her husband. Definite thin ice for sure... But ... the world gets a lot more black and white (and legally in favor of OP) if she goes ahead and makes up her mind to bang other guys.
/r/RPChristians11/05/20 05:26 PM
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Have you ever read the Boundaries book(s) by Cloud and Townsend? Beyond Boundaries by Townsend. https://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Boundaries-Learning-Trust-Relationships/dp/0310330769 Might be a decent book to help clarify in your own mind what repentance/restoration looks like and when it may (or may not be) appropriate to "take her back". Another book from the Cloud. https://www.amazon.com/Necessary-Endings-Henry-Cloud/dp/0061777129 Maybe it's just a necessary ending. This book's more for business…
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 06:33 PM
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If your goal in keeping your wife at home is to prevent her from becoming attracted to another man (more than she's attracted to you), then I believe your standards are low. Keeping a woman away from other men in hopes she stays attracted to you or stays married to you is textbook mate-guarding.
/r/askRPC08/05/20 06:29 PM
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Everybody here knows she'll nix the boyfriend at some point in this process before things are "final". We're all also wondering how you'll respond.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 06:25 PM
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You're in your early 20's. I don't believe you've read much of the sidebar about what it means to be emotionally available. Do you want to be an emotional tampon? Do you want to be an emotional geiser? Which one are you shooting for in your mid to late 50's here?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 05:42 PM
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I'd say even if it's not forbidden by scripture either prescriptively or descriptively ... you're still going to dry up a woman's panties faster than a bug splattered on a motorcycle helmet at 90mph with that approach. Have you read any of the sidebar either here or at marriedredpill? Do you understand any of the fundamental concepts about attraction and masculine/feminine differences in a relational context? Maybe I'm reading this entirely wrong ... but it sounds like you want to be Al Bundy at…
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 05:35 PM
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I wish the deer would just pull the trigger for me sometimes. Is that really so bad?
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 04:04 PM
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Just seeking some clarification here... You want to make the money and maybe carry a pistol to protect your family? And you want your wife to initiate and lead in physical contact and plan and lead for all the romantic dates or whatever other romantic stuff you do? Does that about sum it up?
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 03:57 PM
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My oldest (16yo) bites his nails. I express that I believe it's unattractive. He agrees. But he doesn't stop. He asked for help a few years ago, and we went down the road of putting the stuff on his nails to make them taste spicy or something unpleasant. He stopped biting his nails. Then he started again. He's got to get to a point where he owns this sort of stuff ... especially over his own body. If he asked for help again, I'd do the nail painting stuff again for/with him. I am willing to help…
/r/askRPC08/05/20 01:48 PM
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My recommendation is that you never "date" the same girl twice in a row. Have several girls you go out and do things with. Don't fall into a trap of making one girl your thing for now. Go ahead and "date" girls now. Lots of them. Ask them to go out with you on whatever it is you're going out to do. Just don't ask the same one twice in a row.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 10:33 AM
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Looking to a wife to provide things like a well-kept home or well-educated/moralized children as a perk of providing enough money is BP at the core. If your main reasoning behind keeping your wife at home is so she doesn't find a nice boyfriend at her job, then is she really attracted to you that much while she's at home?
/r/askRPC08/05/20 10:25 AM
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Why do you want to have a kid? Multiple kids? From the sound of your post, it seems like you want to have them just to hang on the mantel. Going that route, you're probably going to pick some low value woman to put your seed into. She's going to pop out some kid(s), and they're stuck. Fucking stuck. With a mom who's clearly low-value and with a Dad who doesn't want to see them. If that's your thing, then by all means ... go for it. BUT ... my advice?? Wait to see what late 20's male has to say.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 12:04 PM
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If you're working out for somebody else, then ... no, don't do it. If you're going to work out, then do it for yourself.
/r/RPChristians30/04/20 01:03 PM
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Why do you want to get people to be emotionally attached to you?
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/20 12:11 PM
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In order to be able to give advice and/or 'be there' for someone, you've got to be whole yourself. The 'Codependant No More' option is a great read. The 'Boundaries' books by Cloud and Townsend are in a similar vein with a Christian slant. If you're looking to 'be there' for someone, then that could be treading on the White Knight territory. Don't go there out of neediness or validation seeking.
/r/RedPillBooks29/04/20 12:52 PM
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Since gyms are closed, I guess books could fit the bill. Stack up as many books as you can in two 5gal buckets. Put some rebar in between them. And lift, you lazy ass. Pick some numbers, and go for them. Then pick some more, and go for them. As you set goals and knock them out you will find abundance. However, if you CHOOSE to remain indel (just coined that term! ... means "involuntarily delicate/weak") ... then your mindset will never change.
/r/RedPillBooks23/04/20 01:18 PM
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If you reduce the Red Pill down to only sexual appeal, then you're not looking at the full picture of the Red Pill.
/r/RPChristians22/04/20 06:07 PM
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To start with .... not sure why you say RP says "be emotionally unavailable" and "not-empathetic" as a blanket statement. Maybe you'll need to define your terms in order to get a good answer. Next ... Does God give you every gift you could ever want? I mean ... you like giving gifts. Why? You like cooking or helping people move. Why do you like doing those things? Do you do it partly because of how it makes you feel? Do you think God takes actions because of how it makes him feel in a similar wa…
/r/RPChristians22/04/20 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you should ask her if letting the past go is a beta move or a mentally strong move.
/r/askMRP21/04/20 12:28 PM
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He UNDERSTANDS guys. Wrap it up. Problem solved. We're done here!
/r/askMRP21/04/20 12:24 PM
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You're not the only one.
/r/askMRP21/04/20 12:23 PM
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I know there's no "done" like an end of the line where I can say "I'm a perfect husband!" and stop working on myself. I get that. You took the red pill. No. No you don't. If your lens is "be the perfect husband" then you have NOT taken the red pill. If you qualify your progress on how it makes you a better husband, then you have NOT taken the red pill.
/r/askMRP20/04/20 12:20 PM
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Yeah ... take a look at all the fatties out there attracted to the wrong types of food, or the drunkards, or the guys attracted to porno. God's clearly not happy with people in those categories, too ... for reasons.
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 02:49 PM
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Michael Scott has your answer How many red flags do you want to deal with for the REST OF YOUR FREAKING LIFE, bro?! Do you value your time and attention so little that any pretty woman can grab it? Who's in control of your investment here? Or are you the kind of person that says "Well, I just can't help myself?" You sound like the type that will double-down on your investment. So ... I can't convince you it's a bad investment. I don't think this forum can. You're not looking to be convinced it's…
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 12:45 PM
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Wow. Way to advertise your ago, bro. That is hilarious. I just took a walk down memory lane sitting on the edge of my bed at my parents' house playing Contra on the old Nintendo. Thanks for the chuckle.
/r/askMRP17/04/20 12:37 PM
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By week 3, any OYSing Noob has figured out how to decrease fighting to 10-20% of what it was prior. Some fights can't be avoided, but most are just a waste of your time. If you feel the need to argue back constantly, you missed something. Top comment right there. That time frame and those percentages are spot on for any guy that waltzes in wanting a checklist.
/r/askMRP17/04/20 12:35 PM
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That's funny bro. You want to take this "project" of pregnancy up and take the reigns. Do you know how something like this comes across? How much skin do you have in the game? How much pain can you share in this "project" you are taking the reigns on?! If you've effed it up all along, and if you're going to magically "take the reigns" on this project ... the project where you have the LEAST skin in the game of ALL the projects ... then you can expect some epic push back. I'd love to have some po…
/r/askRPC15/04/20 01:20 PM
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We've had five kids. All at home. Went to the hospital after the birth for two - one for some stitching for a small tear (midwives can't legally stitch in my locale; we were in and out for that one) and one for retained placenta membranes that required a DNC on the third kid (we were overnight for that one; great night that was, really). All in all, good experiences for us. Same midwife for all. Wonderful woman. My wife decided homebirth. I let her know I was on board with homebirth. But I was f…
/r/askRPC15/04/20 01:18 PM
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I see. The perspective you are bringing to the table is still your perspective. And you are asking for my perspective. It'll probably take a few million more words to change my perspective. Keep trying kid.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 06:13 PM
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I understand. I think you'll need a few million more words to convince me she's got enough going for her to change my advice.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 06:12 PM
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Lets see.... Run hard run fast. Next her as fast as you can! This post has more red flags than a communist parade. You need to end things. Run away from her Take her word for it, You deserve much better. There's the advice you previously received.. Top 6 comments. Try reading those again.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 02:46 PM
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In case anyone needs to revisit advice given on the previous [deleted] post... https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/g0lgdq/18_m_no_father_girl_problems/
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 02:45 PM
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Glad you got rid of all the red flags that were pointed out. My advice is still the same... My advice would be to date around. DO NOT spend time with this girl until you have spent the same amount of time with another girl. Then you're free to spend time with this girl. Pragmatic advice, but advice nonetheless.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 02:44 PM
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My advice would be to date around. DO NOT spend time with this girl until you have spent the same amount of time with another girl. Then you're free to spend time with this girl. Pragmatic advice, but advice nonetheless.
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 04:29 PM
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No. DEERing is not the absence of something in particular. STFU is the easiest way to prevent DEERing from taking place. As a step towards not DEERing ... trying saying everything you want to say with as few words as possible. Take emails as an example. Open up your last few emails and read them out loud. See if you can say the same thing in fewer words; actually type it out in fewer words; be ruthless with your words. If this is a new concept to you, you will most likely be able to cut out over…
/r/askRPC09/04/20 07:02 PM
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If lets say, you want to build a family and have kids in the future, maybe 8-13 years down the road, what's the purpose of your question? What are you hoping to find out that will benefit you in the here and now?
/r/askMRP09/04/20 06:13 PM
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"Do what you want to do, not what you think God wants you to do" This makes 100% great sense in the world of parenting. As my kids get older I want them to do what they want to do. Sure, I want them to do the "right" thing; I hope they do the "right" thing (as if there's only ONE right thing they could possibly do). But really .. I want them to do what they want to do.
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 01:24 PM
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Be the cat. I emailed myself this selection years ago to look back on from time to time.... can't remember who I copped it from. Sorry that I can't give a nod to the right guy. Was probably stone or bpp. Growing up we had a cat. Really nice cat, but definitely an "only cat" and it was very cat like in that it had times where it completely wanted to be alone and would get annoyed at you if you tried to pick it up or pet it. Now... we ended up finding this other little kitten and wanted to give it…
/r/askMRP08/04/20 01:19 PM
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Sounds like you need a mission that's difficult to accomplish. When my children come to me and ask me what to do. I'll typically give them two options (since they're my children). I'll let them know that if they need help finding something to do ... I can come up with something that they have to get done. I'll also let them know that they can figure out what they want to do for themselves with their own time. As they get older, that first option is to be more dreaded. What do you want to do in l…
/r/askRPC08/04/20 12:37 PM
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You should tell your woman all this shit. She'll def want to bang. Maybe you can chart how many words you spread across all these different topics from your past. Keep it short on your lack of height genes. But putting on muscle? Yeah ... tell her you have an issue with that one. Eating disorders, porn, gaming addictions??? Yeah ... tell her you have issues because your parents. Standing up for yourself?? Yeah ... tell her you're conditioned to not stand up for yourself. No fulfilling social sup…
/r/askMRP07/04/20 03:23 PM
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Continue discussing your unfed sex drive with your partner and watch the frequency/quality of sex with your partner go down with high correlation given to the number of words you use when discussing said topic. Assume an exponential factor associated to the number of times you bring up said topic in a week. If you stick around much, you will hear this phrase: You cannot negotiate desire. Think about that phrase. Spend some time chewing on it. Figure out if you want a woman to have sex with you j…
/r/askMRP07/04/20 01:02 PM
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I agree with you. However, if you'll see my other post on this thread ... maybe you'll hear why I push for some "find the grey." I've been through some interesting times with my wife. I sat in a Session meeting at my church a couple years ago and had my Session tell me "We aren't her Session." It was a very black and white statement. And sure ... I think I agree with it. But I don't think it's helpful in the here and the now. I found that statement to be very hurtful in the moment. Even now ... …
/r/RPChristians03/04/20 04:10 PM
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While I love living in a black and white world like any other programming dude ... I gotta differ with you here. Find some grey man. My kids are my kids. If one of them up and goes awol ... what am I going to do? Tell them they're not my kid anymore? Disown them? Sure ... I'll let consequences have they're way with my kids. I even bring artificial consequences to bear while they are under my roof. BUT ... there's more to it then "You're in or you're out." Sure ... I believe in a final "get out" …
/r/RPChristians03/04/20 03:30 PM
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My wife "took a break from Christianity" a few years ago ... now she's full-on atheist or some other term .. maybe agnostic is what she calls herself. It varies. Dude ... next. Be glad this happened now and not later after you had a few kids and life's hardships increase. I have no clue what hardships have come into your LTR's life to make her rethink things in her life like Christianity. But I would say that getting married and having kids and hitching up to do life with her moving forward will…
/r/RPChristians03/04/20 01:42 PM
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She's worth it, yo.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 06:37 PM
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I always tactfully press with my trigger finger.
/r/askRPC01/04/20 02:09 PM
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Dude ... you care too much. And you're patting yourself on the back for caring exactly the correct amount ... like your pile of caring is worth something. Don't you understand? She doesn't want your pile of caring. She doesn't want you. She doesn't want what you want to give her. So stop trying. You do you ... there's this little dial, this knob. And sometimes, you've got to turn it up to 11 to get where YOU need to go. You're not going to find your own frame and run your own life unless you pus…
/r/askMRP01/04/20 12:44 PM
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Yeah man .... I just don't know how you can not feel this way at a time like this! edit: Do you feel comforted now?
/r/askMRP30/03/20 02:41 PM
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I have already taken proactive steps once I move shortly (already have a gym membership purchased in new state). This is currently your frame bud. The more you DEER and justify your lack of action thus-far simply solidifies your frame more and more as someone who kicks the can and doesn't display ownership in the moment. We all struggle with this in some way or another. I've got a bathroom floor I'm tiling right now. Well ... it's on my task list to tile. I've bought the tile. I just bought a ne…
/r/RPChristians26/03/20 05:44 PM
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You're 33 years old. You're fat. You don't do the things you say you want to do (like lift), and your excuses are full of suck. You hope to retire by the time you're 45 ... yet you have a car payment. I honestly don't care if you text your ex back ... but your non-existent frame will fall right in line with whatever her plans are when you start texting her. Since you're asking us if you "should" do one thing or another... If I were you, I'd block her number and never look back. I'd diet and lift…
/r/RPChristians26/03/20 04:23 PM
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Everyone knows that having two eyes can lead you to seeing things that may tempt you to lust. Why have two eyes? Why have that risk? Why not just pluck them out?
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 04:34 PM
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Hypergamy = all women are whores? Negatory bro. I can see a line of thinking that will end up here. But this isn't the way a leader should think IMO. If you have kids it will make things more plain. My kids lie to me sometimes. They've stolen from me or from someone else in our home. That does not mean I call them liars and thieves all the time. Sure ... Jesus didn't shy away from calling people out based on their actions. But you won't get the best from people if you're calling them a liar or a…
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 04:32 PM
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Next pill requirement ... The paragraph pill. Pretty sure we've got one of those around here somewhere.
/r/RPChristians23/03/20 06:49 PM
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YMMV ... but my wife was crazy into sex last 2-3 months of pregnancy - all five times.
/r/askMRP23/03/20 02:26 PM
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If we tell you that you are alone, does that mean you will forsake the path you want to walk?
/r/askRPC23/03/20 12:50 PM
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Do you think it's weird? Are you taking votes and then going to decide if it's weird? Are you taking votes and then going to decide what your standard is? If you want to know my vote, I'd say go with the french press. Pour over is too much hassle at the office.
/r/askRPC23/03/20 12:09 PM
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I didn't lift in high-school, or college, or my early 30's.
/r/askRPC10/03/20 04:27 PM
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Get a purse. Next time she asks you where your balls are ... go find your purse. Tell her you keep them in your purse.
/r/askMRP10/03/20 12:11 PM
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I got to go to the gym as I had planned. I'm going to hone in on something else ... this mindset here. You got to go to the gym? Why do you word it that way? I'd rather hear a man say "I went to the gym" versus what I hear as "mommy let me go to the gym" ... huge difference in frame. You make the frame transition from "mommy let me go to the gym" -> "I went to the gym" and it'll eventually translate over to "I fucked a woman who was into me last night" as opposed to "somebody let me have sex wit…
/r/askMRP10/03/20 12:09 PM
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A selection from the book "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"... His early failure had released him from any felt obligation to think along institutional lines and his thoughts were already independent to a degree few people are familiar with. He felt that institutions such as schools, churches, governments and political organizations of every sort all tended to direct thought for ends other than truth, for the perpetuation of their own functions, and for the control of individuals in th…
/r/RPChristians26/02/20 08:38 PM
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Yep.. 6'1", 158lbs, visible abs. Oooohhh baby baby. Keep going! Tell me more!
/r/askMRP24/02/20 01:24 PM
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Hysterical Bonding Nothing more. It's a bump in your road. What do you want? You do you. (and try doing some sidebar)
/r/askMRP21/02/20 09:43 PM
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Dude ... I'm laughing here. Just taking the chance to poke some fun. I had a convo with a friend recently about drums on stage at a church. There was a time in my life where drums on the stage was a big deal to me ... and not knocking anybody here. But in one way I wish for the time when DRUMS or NO DRUMS (or which translation of the Bible) was a BIG deal in my life and eclipsed any other problems. I'm glad you take your responsibility seriously. No need to defend to me. Press on man.
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 05:55 PM
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Maybe you should try removing the balaclava first?
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 02:21 PM
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So it sounds like you like long walks by the water and listening to other people's problems. Then she gets to goes home with her man and leaves you to stew about her problems for her. How very white-knight of you, bro! I reached a boiling point, and went against the advice of everyone, who said to ghost her. Isn't there something in the rules of this sub somewhere about this??? Thou shalt NOT text the emotionally driven creature. Thou shalt NOT count to 3 and text her. Thou shalt NOT count to 4 …
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 12:00 PM
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This is how it goes. We get started talking about red pill and sex. and it eventually ends up in the weeds with what translation is best. Happens every time. It's times like this I wonder if unity will ever come to fruition!!
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 11:47 AM
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What sort of covert contract did you have this girl sign before you determined what actions you would take?
/r/RPChristians17/02/20 07:40 PM
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I'm saying work on the long game. If you defend from a simple statement like 33 yrs old, 5’4”, 178lbs, 25% BF Bro... ... then I can only imagine how you DEER with your wife. So you're fat, and your frame is like a wet paper bag. Maybe your wife stays your wife for decades. I hope this is the case for you just like I hope it is the case for me. But ... if you've read anything here or at MRP, then you've heard 'the stay plan is the same as the go plan.' So stop defending your fat-butt by saying ..…
/r/RPChristians13/02/20 09:08 PM
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Didn’t come here to be shamed. Shame/crap here is better than your wife going elsewhere. And I'm talking to myself as much as you, man. I lost 40lb and started gaining weight when crap hit the fan at my place ~3 years ago. Take the lumps here ... unless you like them at home.
/r/RPChristians13/02/20 08:54 PM
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May you inherit the largest, shiniest castle.
/r/RPChristians13/02/20 08:02 PM
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Welcome to Red Pill Christians We are a subreddit that exists to provide a place for Christians to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles. Evangelism is great. Great thing to do. This sub doesn't exist primarily for evangelistic purposes. To use this sub as a tool for evangelism would subvert the stated purpose for the sub's existence. There's a reason Rule #1 exists.
/r/RPChristians13/02/20 05:40 PM
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Rule #1: Don't talk about fight club.
/r/RPChristians13/02/20 05:24 PM
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My wife was a stay-at-home, homeschooling mother of our five children for about 12 years. Then she started working at the music teacher at a small private school. She developed an emotional attachment to the principal. Things we south. That man goes to the same church we used to go to as a family. The board of directors of the school were all deacons at our church. Real cluster potential. The way things went down at that church/school has really influenced my view of institutions. I read a book …
/r/RPChristians13/02/20 02:38 PM
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This part of the group (ie. me, myself, and I) still thinks you're wasting your time. MGTOW ... either go or don't go. Don't care one way or another.
/r/RPChristians12/02/20 06:51 PM
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You what to know what I think? I think you're wasting your time. Welcome to Red Pill Christians We are a subreddit that exists to provide a place for Christians to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles. Did you want to have sex or enter into a relationship with some woman in either of these categories? I also think you should post this in askRPC instead of RPChristians.
/r/RPChristians12/02/20 06:42 PM
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Welcome to Red Pill Christians We are a subreddit that exists to provide a place for Christians to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles. Maybe you're confused as to what happens in this here subreddit???
/r/RPChristians12/02/20 02:12 PM
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Does your wife ever vent on you or attack you for something you did in the past? If so, is that ever fruitful? Does it get you where you want to go? Does her venting or ranting or attacking take you further down the path you are walking (you do have a path, right?)? Do you have some time machine that can change the past? If so, then you should start your own sub and lease that puppy out. When my wife chooses to focus on the past in an unhealthy, unhelpful way - my pat answer is "I'm still workin…
/r/askRPC12/02/20 02:06 PM
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It sounds like you're getting everything you want. What more do you want? You're asking questions about "worth." What are you looking to get? What are you gaining? You've got to be able to articulate what you're shooting for in order to determine if it's "worth it." It sounds like you're getting everything you want. What more do you want?
/r/askMRP10/02/20 05:15 PM
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It sounds like you're getting everything you want. What more do you want?
/r/askMRP10/02/20 04:29 PM
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Wait ... hol' up a minute. You've got a wife at home who I presume you're fucking. Maybe, just maybe that presumption is wrong, though. Please fill me in there. You've got a wife at home who arranged a kids' play date with some woman who happens to go to the same gym as you. And you used to go to the same church? And you're worried about how some woman will perceive you? Am I understanding this shit? This is meta-second-level oneitis dude!!! You're not even oneitised over your wife like most fuc…
/r/askMRP06/02/20 09:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/askMRP06/02/20 08:56 PM
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I'd suggest going on the coffee date ... with a girl that's actually interested. This is good advice. But I'll throw my hat in the "free advice" ring, too. I say go out with the girl for coffee. Practice getting to know a person. OP ... Do you have any sisters? I would guess the answer is 'no' and that you're not well versed interacting with a person who happens to be a girl. If that assumption is correct, I'd say get out there and interact. With no expectation of anything further than spending …
/r/RPChristians06/02/20 08:12 PM
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The past three nights she has also refused to cook saying she does not like the smell of food cooking and if I want to eat I need to make it. About this ... definitely have heard that before. And I will NOT knock this coming from a pregnant woman. We've got five kids. Maybe your wife is bowing out of work she doesn't feel like doing like ... you are alleging she is. Who knows? Either way ... make what you want to make. The kids and I had bacon and eggs so many times while my wife was pregnant. A…
/r/askRPC06/02/20 06:44 PM
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You "voiced this"? Voiced what? Your actions scream louder than anything you voice with mouth noises. Just don't get up and cook at 4a. No need for an announcement of some sort. I get the sense you need your wife's assurance she's going to back your actions before you take your actions.
/r/askRPC06/02/20 06:38 PM
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You got up at 4a and made waffles and steak. I mean ... I like a good waffle. And I love a good steak. But bro ... you set the expectation. Do you regularly get up at 4a and cook? If so, then cook on my brother. If you don't, then why are you doing it now? As for the money... did you have a good budget before this happened? As for the text (about an hour ago) ... have you not read anything around here? Text is for logistics only. What the heck are you doing trying to institute some new budget th…
/r/askRPC06/02/20 06:21 PM
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So where do I stick it? Is that for me or for my wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 02:58 PM
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You're going to have to publish this suavecito-meter. You can't be making up rules like this on the fly. I need a graph.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 02:52 PM
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you're hellbent on accepting nothing less than dutiful virgin housewives... you're a hypocrite. Not necessarily. Doesn't matter why a guy may want a dutiful virgin housewife or what his past is. If that's what he wants, then he can set the bar wherever he wants. Sure ... don't blame society if nobody meets your bar. But having a high bar doesn't make a person a hypocrite.
/r/askRPC31/01/20 05:29 PM
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Yeah ... but he never had a fellow to play Contra with. Easy to spot the lone Contra players.
/r/askMRP31/01/20 05:24 PM
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I don't know, just gets to be so much at times. Ehhh ... shut up, dude. Or ... take the easy way out and stop caring about custody. Serioiusly ... go out with some guy friend for a beer and a cigar and let this out. Please ... do this. We can't help you as much as a real person in the flesh on this side of things. Now ... back to the real world of interwebz advice .... Keep leading by example. And I'd say ask the girls questions. At 10 ... there's some stuff rolling around in their heads. Making…
/r/RedPillParenting29/01/20 08:26 PM
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Big question to ask yourself from time to time ... What if there's no way to combat her crazy and its effect on the kids? Asking yourself that question may help keep you from trying to control things that are not in your control. If a girl's going to have an "NDP girl" stage ... is that a big deal? Would it be better for her to have an "NDP girl" stage while you're still in the picture 50% of the time? Or do you want her to keep it from you entirely? Tough spot man. We've got a 15yo daughter. An…
/r/RedPillParenting29/01/20 06:05 PM
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Well, this is awkward....
/r/askRPC29/01/20 02:34 PM
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Brand new user; account 1 day old; no history; no stats. Comes in here whining like a 14yo fangirl. And you guys are actually answering this crap?! Come on RPC.
/r/RPChristians27/01/20 08:03 PM
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I had inguinal hernia surgery last July. I followed the surgeon's orders. No lifting at all for a month or whatever he said. Then I started with the bar again like I was new; adding 5-10lb each visit to the squat rack. I am back in the gym and making progress just fine now. I have not pushed for anything close to a PR yet. But I have goals set, and I'm doing a 5,5,AMRAP while I'm heading towards them. The 5,5,AMRAP lets me stay far away from my max at the moment. Honestly ... a little fear there…
/r/askMRP27/01/20 02:34 PM
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I remember when I first learned this about my beloved child-hood game 'War'. The cards are dealt to each player's pile at the beginning of the game. Everybody plays one card at a time from the top of their pile. Winning card takes all the played cards. The game is decided once the cards are dealt. No strategy. Damn good life analogy of how NOT to view the world. Similar to your view of snakes and ladders.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 02:24 PM
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Be honest man. You have seen the number of guys who come through here that want to make it their life's mission to help other guys. They want to be a therapist or a coach; they want to talk things out or communicate advice or create a space for guys to be heard. I think we all go through that phase. We see a tool ... pick it up ... use it a little ... and then it's the best thing ever. What does a guy want to do with the tool then? Show somebody else!! But the real work comes in using the tool. …
/r/askMRP21/01/20 03:01 PM
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Maybe we all think that. How does that help OP?
/r/askMRP17/01/20 01:45 PM
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Get some chickens. Chickens will shit anywhere; they make great free toilet teachers. Make sure they're free range, though - gotta keep that shit antibiotic-free.
/r/RedPillParenting14/01/20 04:28 PM
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Towel or life raft ... whew. Tough choice, bro. I found RP at 38. So ... maybe give yourself another 10 years ... then you'll have progressed to making decisions on your own.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 02:42 PM
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Which God do you listen to? Who decides that for you? What do you believe God has said or told you to do? Who gets to decide that for you? Who decides if your actions are "right" or "wrong", "good" or "bad"? Does a book decide? Some other being? Or do you make a decision and then hopefully remain consistent with your own values? I am not pushing for some world where there is no absolute Truth. However, I am pushing for a world where you can own your decisions without handing off the reigns to so…
/r/askRPC10/01/20 06:06 PM
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video games, working on writing a story, try to get outside and do things but not a lot to be in this town. "Video games." Lots of masculine energy there, hey? "Working on writing a story." This is great! Writing is swell if you're actually ... writing. Putting words out on the page can help you see your own mind sometimes. When you say "working" on writing ... what do you actually mean? How much time video gaming and how much time writing? What are you producing with your writing. Be less ... v…
/r/RPChristians10/01/20 05:11 PM
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40yo married here. When my diet goes to crap or I'm not in the gym, my sexual energy dwindles. I had hernia surgery middle of last year. Longest spell out of the gym for me in 3+ years since I started. Morning wood was very infrequent. When I'm on point and squatting heavy (and eating well in order to enjoy squatting heavy) my sexual energy ramps up. I see this as a normal and good thing. I'm a man. I want to increase my sexual energy ... even if there are possible temptations that come along wi…
/r/RPChristians10/01/20 04:53 PM
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"Headed towards failure" "bound to fail sooner or later" You've got to define your terms if you want to get a meaningful answer to whatever your question happens to be. BUT ... either way ... What path are you on? If you're not on the path headed to where you want to go, then figure out where it is you want to go, change course, and get a move on.
/r/askRPC10/01/20 03:07 PM
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Concur. In this example you're 100% spot-on.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 07:42 PM
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Women are the problem submitted 2 days ago by lolomotif12 Yesterday me and 3 of my childhood friends met up for some sushi. We started talking about life and what's been going on lately. Two of us recently single, one cant find a decent woman and the other married with a kid and a lazy wife. Everything was positive until we started talking about women. Women are the problem and if it wasnt for them we would have no issues in our lives. GYOW guys!! Fuck the ever living hell off, guy. "Women are t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 07:41 PM
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Read this last night. Hearty thank you for the recommendation! Talk about dropping baggage like it's the past and you can't do anything about it! There is only one thing stopping any of us from having a light-switch moment like Macomber where his frame becomes ultimate - and that's ourselves.
/r/askMRP09/01/20 01:36 PM
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Wish this sub didn't filter possibly offensive words. Sometimes a certain word communicates better than any other ... You ever been eye-ef'd by a woman? It's got the word in it. Does that mean it would be considered ef-ng?
/r/askRPC09/01/20 01:29 PM
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If the only reason I'm not out banging other women is because I might lose my wife, then that's a scarcity mindset IMO. That's a red-flag to me that I've got work to do in my own head as to how I'm living my life. I want to live my life in such a way that I'm not making choices to keep from loosing something. I don't want to spend my life trying to keep a grasp on what I've got - fearful I may lose it at any moment. I want to spend my life reaching for what I want because it's important to me. I…
/r/askRPC08/01/20 07:45 PM
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Fun illustrative suggestion - Get a sharpie and draw a cookie around a hidden freckle or two. Not sure why freckles would make you struggle to keep an erection other than maybe you wish you didn't have freckles? But there I go trying to get into your mind. Who gives a crap about freckles? If you really give a crap about freckles, then go see a doc and have them removed. Or ... maybe realize you're just being vain by giving a crap about freckles. Up to you to decide.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:34 PM
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Young padawan ... If an illustrated guide is what you seek, then you seek the wrong thing. An illustrated guide may help you get to where you want to be, but by then you will have already realized you are already there. Get a copy of the Kama Sutra. Try out different positions. Just lead. Have both of you pick out 2-3 different "professions" you find sexy encounters might be risque or a turn-on. Maybe you'll have some overlaps and you end up doing a pegged-by-pirate-roberts night in your bedroom…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:01 PM
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Maybe I wasn't clear with my response... I'll flip it. If my wife found me getting sucked off by some gal (or some guy), or if she found me eating out some other woman, then she'd probably pursue divorcing me on grounds of adultery. And the state would agree.
/r/askRPC08/01/20 06:02 PM
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I'm not a fan of what I see as a scarcity mindset which this sort of question typically comes from. But as far as answering your question, I'll throw this out as my response. If I found my wife sucking some dude off or if I found my wife getting eaten out by some dude (or lady), I'd pursue a divorce based on grounds of adultery. And the law would agree and therefore eliminate alimony payments (in my state).
/r/askRPC08/01/20 05:59 PM
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You actually believe this girl can't suck cock or kiss properly? Send her this way. Definitive testing would conclude it's OP she's not sucking or kissing.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 05:25 PM
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Read this recent post ... How do you remind yourself not to engage? You're engaging to much. You need to learn to engage on your terms based on what you want and can control. You sound like you're engaging with a terrorist. Do you really want to be stuck with a woman who yells/screams to get what she wants? Develop some frame that will allow you to stop engaging at that level.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 02:51 PM
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Who cares if it looks like you pulled a 180? EGO cares. There is nothing else. This is HUGE in any area of life. WISNIFG contains this concept. You can change your mind anytime you want.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 02:37 PM
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If you have to tell the guy this, then this advice towards active dread is not useful. If he has to actually plan pics and do logistics to get girls in them just to dread his wife, then he's not there where this advice is useful. If girls are in some pics, great. I enjoy time around girls. Dread happens, or it doesn't. Doesn't really matter. I enjoy my time.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 02:32 PM
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Good to know. Hey OP ... Your godson can possibly keep saying PleezSitOnMyFace to the 14yo with impunity according to the law! Learn something new everyday.
/r/RPChristians31/12/19 05:05 PM
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He's on his parents family plan. My oldest is 16. My 15yo daughter doesn't have a phone yet. I told my kids they'll get a phone when they start driving. She's chosen not to pursue driving as of yet. But I did get my oldest a phone when he was able to drive legally on his own. However, it's something I pay for on the family plan. So it's an item up for topic when consequences are in play. He's lost his phone several times over the past year or so. He actually lost the phone over our trip to visit…
/r/RPChristians31/12/19 04:43 PM
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He does have a job, his mom and dad are handling room and board, but he's on his own for other items since he got the job. His game consoles were sold off to cover the fine he got. Does he have a vehicle? Is it his vehicle? Does he pay for insurance/gas/maintenance/etc? Does he have a cellphone? Does he pay for the device/the plan/etc? Does he do anything extracurricular? Movies, sports, hobbies, etc? Does he pay for all of that? (This one can be an odd one ... I don't want to take my son out of…
/r/RPChristians31/12/19 03:30 PM
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Alright ... All you guys responding with anything more than one word to this classic case of OP ... I mean dang ... don't you guys have anything better to do??? I lose my faith in this sub sometimes. Sidebar bro --> And MRP sidebar: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/index
/r/RPChristians31/12/19 02:31 PM
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The poor vetting is only a problem because he doesn't own it. If mixed finances was a big deal to him, then he should have made that clear up front. He made the decision it wasn't a big deal, and now he wants it both ways. It a fucking huge deal that he's willing to divorce or die over??!! If her debt was possibly such a big deal, then he should have vetted ... either that or be willing to work out a plan moving forward - assuming she even wants help with her debt plan moving forward. Great oppo…
/r/askMRP31/12/19 02:24 PM
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You decided NOT to join finances. Why are you frustrated that she's NOT joining finances now? And maybe she'll use the money she earns to pay her bills? You sound like you want to be a white knight. You offered her a card to your account. Did you offer it without strings? Or were you trying to buy something with that card of yours? Trust? Honestly? Fuck that bro. Stop trying to buy that shit. Either your wife is trustworthy and honest ... or she's not. Make your own choices according to your own…
/r/askMRP31/12/19 01:38 PM
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How much decision making clout do you have in this situation? I'll admit ... I'm not from the camp where god-parents were even a thing. But it sounds like consequences are the only language this guy will hear. Does he have a job? Who pays for the parts of his life? Stop paying for stuff that aren't necessities. Life has built in consequences the older kids get. Sadly ... sometimes it takes adult consequences to get things to stick. What would happen when the guy skips out of the military academy…
/r/RPChristians31/12/19 01:28 PM
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Sounds like I have no balls, I know, but I'm just genuinely asking a question about trust here. There's your problem. Stop worrying about her, and find your balls.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 05:24 PM
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Do you want to be in a place with a woman where you worry about this happening anytime/all the time? God I hope not. If you're woman is really that LV, then hopefully divorced old guy friend rails her in the car after their coffee 'date'. Right? Easy-peasy. Or do you to believe you are really with a woman that's this LV ... and hopefully you can keep her chained up long enough ... so that maybe she likes you more? If that's the case, then just put a ring on it already, bro! Rings solve everythin…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:22 PM
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Post up the spreadsheet dude. We can't give you the full analysis results without the spreadsheet you've been compiling.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:02 PM
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You sound like the kind of guy that might say "Hey wife, suck this thing ... because the Bible tells you to do it."
/r/RPChristians30/12/19 04:00 PM
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I don't ever recall telling my father I was in love with him. Or my brother. Love them both to death. Would give my left nut for either. But yeah ... get this crap outta your head.
/r/RPChristians30/12/19 03:36 PM
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As you soak in the material here ... and by that I mean as you develop frame and your view of reality becomes more intentional and known to you ... then that internal conversation will become something like a part of your internal programming. It'll eventually go from software that you're tweaking to hardware that's built in. This is most of us guys' problem now ... we've got hardwiring to DEER. It takes some guts rebuilding to rip that out ... mental work to stop engaging that way ... mental wo…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 02:39 PM
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Like most noobs ... I think he wants you to ask his question for him and then give him the answer. I am not sure about adding weight to lifts versus increasing hypertrophy via reps. So ... just tell him the goal he should shoot for. Then tell him how to meet that goal. Same story any noob has here. My advice? Do SL5x5 until you've plateaued a time or three and then look into switching it up to 5/3/1 or something else you can read about on /r/Fitness.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 05:48 PM
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If I’m on top of my game... I turn on that little voice in my head. And it says...... DON'T FIGHT. And normally that works well enough for me. But like mentioned above ... there's an internal conversation you've got to have with yourself before you open your mouth.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 01:47 PM
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Add a summary of whatever it is you're posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/19 07:04 PM
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Most of your comments are about what she thinks or what she wants or what she is doing. What do you think got you here in the first place, man? Stop giving so many fucks about what anybody else thinks. You do you.
/r/askMRP16/12/19 05:58 PM
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All of your comments are about what she thinks or what she wants. Stop giving so many fucks.
/r/askMRP16/12/19 05:56 PM
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In the beginning ... as a newb to RP ... I found "Plan B Thinking" to be a major factor in moving towards an abundance mentality. When I found the RP, there was a fear of losing what I had (shitty as it was). That fear is a scarcity mindset. There's a major fear that a lot of newbs have. It's like this is THE defining question for many newbs here: What if we split up? What if my wife leaves me? What if my family falls apart? That was a big question for me. The pat RP answer is "the Stay plan = t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 07:15 PM
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It is tiring dealing w the same issues over and over. Here's the one statement that's about you. You posted lifts. What you read ... yeah ... that's you. Well done. Keep going. But that one statement .... It is tiring dealing w the same issues over and over. That is the you in the here and now. Well that and the - I feel bad about the dread she’s dealing with Stop trying to fix her feels. No wonder you're God damn tired. You're trying to fix a woman's feels. It's like you're trapped in some Disn…
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:35 PM
2

Simple answer - you don't. There is no spoon.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 03:03 PM
1

I think no. 3 is underrated. Deserves a post alone. It got a whole freaking book.
/r/RPChristians11/12/19 03:00 PM
1

That alone will likely save several hundred calories. Hundred??? Pffft ... Feather-weight. I was in charge of drinks at Thanksgiving. Couple bottles of wine for the meal. Irish coffees afterwards with dessert. Apple pie on the rocks for later. Beer and hard ciders before the meal. Boozy hot chocolate to try out. Apple cider and hot chocolate for the kids. Yeah ... "several hundred calories" ... yeah ... "hundred" ... some of the best calories I've put on the past 365 days. I'm in the "let's make…
/r/RPChristians10/12/19 07:45 PM
5

I take five kids and go spend it with my family around Christmastime. My wife will not spend time around my brother for reasons (invalid reasons IMO). I am very close to my brother. So six of us travel. And the wife stays home. If you've read much here, then you know these basics: You do you. Stay plan = go plan. Flesh those basics out in your life as you see fit ... travel around the holidays included.
/r/RPChristians09/12/19 08:13 PM
2

You're asking us for advice on how to better handle this situation so that your wife doesn't feel bad. There is no spoon.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 05:00 PM
11

If you stop having sex with your wife in order to produce some sort of reaction in her, then you've probably got some work to do in your own head-space. If you stop having sex with your wife because you've got better things to do with your time, then who cares what anybody else thinks?
/r/askMRP05/12/19 06:30 PM
2

Does AWALT hold for Christian women? Yes.
/r/RPChristians05/12/19 05:58 PM
2

You stud you.
/r/RPChristians05/12/19 05:26 PM
1

My wife doesn't fall over into her mate guarding every time we see a horse thats JRHNBR. Need to apply more dread there, bud.
/r/RPChristians05/12/19 03:05 PM
1

MORE WORDS MAN!!! Throw more words at this guy. This guy needs a temp ban to keep him from asking for more words from the group. You are spot on about the DEER responses. They don't stop.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 12:54 PM
3

wife You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 09:31 PM
13

So, I was driving on the Parkway over the holidays. And my wife said "Hey honey ... did you see that DEER on the side of the road?" Was that you OP?
/r/askMRP04/12/19 08:25 PM
4

I have been reading red pill info for a couple of years now. and I have asked her to stop over and over again. Whatever, dude. Read the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians02/12/19 07:41 PM
10

Find an LTR that has no ambition in life other than to stay by your side.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 04:42 PM
25

Grow to be 6'7". All your LTR problems will magically melt away.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 04:41 PM
7

Ask 6'7" guy how you should treat your LTR. Take notes. Maybe he'll show you how to bend her over the desk.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 04:41 PM
1

What do you want to fix? Wife up one of your hot side-chicks. Cycle will continue.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 04:08 PM
2

As part of my "I'm gonna fix my marriage come hell or high water" campaign You're calling this a covert contract from the beginning dude. No bueno. You want to go out at night once a week? Then go (if you want). Ask her if she wants to go (if you want). Call it a "date night" (if you want). Go have fun (if you want).
/r/askRPC02/12/19 04:05 PM
6

IMO ~5 guys is better for sharing/digesting information than 12. Sounds to me like you've fixed your problem already. Host at your place or at a local pub.
/r/askRPC27/11/19 12:28 PM
8

There's a cliff ahead. From the optics and the heat waves, I can't tell precisely how far ahead the cliff is located. You're question ... ... ... Are you asking if you should hit the gas pedal and hope you fly when you go over the edge?
/r/askMRP27/11/19 12:25 PM
1

Compliance tests are a bitch.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 04:50 PM
1

HUGE troll account here from looking at the post history.
/r/RPChristians25/11/19 07:45 PM
2

Yeah ... the physical response from your woman is exactly that IMO. A response ... to you. If you're trying to draw it out of her, then it's not exactly there like you want it to be. I think the best thing to draw it out of her is when you look in the mirror yourself and like what you see.
/r/askRPC25/11/19 07:43 PM
1

That's a great question!
/r/askRPC25/11/19 04:14 PM
2

I look at these subreddits as the locker room. Sure ... we can high-five each other when there are successes. And we can beat each other up over stupid steps. But we're swapping notes. We're using words. We're men. We'll be happiest when we're out there doing. In here we're talking. I don't care if I exude happiness in the locker room. I want to own the playing field.
/r/RPChristians25/11/19 04:12 PM
1

Hey ... awesome for you man. Sounds like you found what my wife was back when we met. She's still a woman. You're still a man. No way around it. You do you. That's the only thing that matters. You want to cliche and all? You want to oneitis hard? Go for it. You can make your choices and own them and own the consequences. But you're asking for advice..... 1) ... how to get her to initiate physically. Here's my advice... If she wants dick (or a kiss or a hand to hold), I'm pretty sure she knows wh…
/r/askRPC25/11/19 03:55 PM
0

Hey man ... I just wanna fight. And it better be a big fucking fight!
/r/askMRP22/11/19 05:40 PM
4

The best way to not look butthurt is to have something better to do that look butthurt.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 04:36 PM
2

and then it starts a big fucking fight. How do I encourage her to eat healthier and workout when I do truly care about her and am looking out for the long term health of our relationship? Easy ... fight more. She's your fucking enemy bro. Size that bitch up and figure out how to fight better and fight more.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 03:59 PM
5

There were two questions in life I thought I'd never be able to answer. 1) Am I ready to have kids? 2) Am I ready to be done having kids? Number 1 gets answered by nature unless you're really on the top of your frame game (which no 21yo is IMO). And five kids later ... I was ready to answer number 2. Weirdest thing ... never thought I'd be able to answer it, but the answer was staring me in the face :: 5. TL;DR - 2 more to go bro. Magic number's 5.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 02:24 PM
6

Pretty much all family traditions seem contrived when they first start. If a man can commit to this and get buy-in, then it could be a great thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/19 07:38 PM
5

Exactly ... the whole forum just failed a compliance test. Funny to watch.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 01:46 PM
2

Is this covered in a book in the side bar? Nope. Not covered here. Pretty sure deadbedrooms has a sidebar that covers this specifically. I think they say to put on the apron and pick up the duster you lazy fucktard.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 01:45 PM
2

but then I wouldn't be making a post about this would I. You called yourself out on this one. Well done. Should knowing my wife may "react" negatively to discussion of a girl who is a "threat" cause me to avoid that person in conversation? It certainly has in the past. And you called yourself out on this one. Well done. You're still not over some sketch in your wife's past. And you're wondering if you can drop some dread her way? All she's got to do is say one name and the dread there would melt…
/r/askRPC21/11/19 01:43 PM
2

You win some; you lose some. Red Fucking Commando no caro, right? I've benefited from the words you throw into the ring. Keep trucking man.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 08:30 PM
3

A friend told me about “red pill” and told me to post here. May the offender come forth ... that justice may be done up him!
/r/askMRP20/11/19 02:26 PM
5

OP's a new account. With the same story as thousands before him. Research is basically optional at this point.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 02:24 PM
3

I made a thought out decision to stop wearing my ring about two years ago. There are words on the inside of my ring ... one is the word "forever". Given certain behaviors ... and mistakes have been made on all sides ... I don't believe it's forever anymore. So a ring that says it is a lie IMO. My wife asked me about it about two weeks after I stopped wearing it, and I told her the words on the inside of my ring were a lie, so I don't wear it. I've been asked the same thing maybe two more times s…
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:50 PM
4

She doesn't even realise that the war has begun. Don't tell him that. You're going to give him another goal post that's shit-all to aim for. Ramboville is defined as trying to make sure she realizes the war has begun.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 01:34 PM
7

Second reply ... looked at your OYS https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/dlex0g/own_your_shit_weekly_october_22_2019/f5l1lme/ I'm going to amend my initial comment. STEP #1. You don't lift. You can't keep track of your own weight. You make your wife's eating habits your excuse for gaining weight. Shut the actual hell up, man. Lose the weight. Get in the gym. Step #2. Get out of the freaking house. You've identified that's a problem. You work with your wife. You're in the house all da…
/r/askRPC12/11/19 04:01 PM
3

My wife would call herself an unbeliever now. We were married and went to church together for 15 years; then crap hit the fan in several ways, and she deconverted. We talk often these days about the toxicity of Christianity as we knew it growing up. Honestly ... she can say whatever she wants to say. Some days she feels "safe" talking about things with me; some days she doesn't. That's on her. I try often to communicate to her that I want her to be free to choose her own path in life. I have cer…
/r/askRPC12/11/19 03:56 PM
1

Get a motorcycle; less change of collateral damage.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 02:25 PM
5

Guys ... you're all missing the main question here.... Who's paying for the boob job?
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 02:20 PM
2

Well it's up to you. Yeah ... I know. I've tried to type it up on more than one occasion. The only time I've pushed through all the way was for my lawyer after I'd been served. I figured he needed all the info, and it was in my best interest to show everything to him. But it's not something I'm going to dig into and post. The work is too great, honestly. Writing the story of the past 3 years up ... even as a statistic/logic presentation for the group ... nope ... no-can-do. I'll share over a bot…
/r/askRPC07/11/19 08:19 PM
1

Pretty sure most things in life like this require both praying and cussing. It'd probably get shot down...
/r/askRPC07/11/19 07:14 PM
2

My wife split bank accounts, filed for separation, moved in with a friend for a couple weeks, and told the kids we were getting a divorce. And she left the church. I never left our bed in our bedroom. She was always welcome. I never left our house. She was always welcome. Stay plan/Go plan. Same plan, man. If you want to leave the church, then fine. Find another church or small group or whatever. I don't call what my wife did a massive S-test. I call it she was effed up for a while after being m…
/r/askRPC07/11/19 03:34 PM
2

Boil it down, man. Do you want her to be happy? Who's in charge of her happiness? If YOU are in charge of her happiness, then own it. Tell her what to do in order for her to be happy, and fucking make her be happy. Because you're in charge. IF, on the other hand, she's in charge of her own happiness, then wtf man! Let her make her own damn decisions. Seems like you're letting her be in charge of her own happiness, but you're also putting her in charge of YOUR feelz.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 03:07 PM
3

Checking your post history ... maybe you should try: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskOuija/
/r/askMRP05/11/19 02:14 PM
2

Either her behavior is acceptable or not. She had actually said to me on several occasions something to the effect of “I don’t care if I ever have sex again.” Blah, blah, blah. Shame to say that I've heard the same mouth noises in my house, too. Several occasions even. Actions, bro! I don't care what she's said. If she's never wanted to fuck ... like think back to the pre-marriage life ... then yeah ... maybe she's what you call 'asexual'. If that's the case, then test those hormones. Make your …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:12 PM
1

Thanks for wording a reply.
/r/RPChristians01/11/19 08:00 PM
1

disappointed Going to zoom in micro-level here... I'd like to get your take on what word might be best to use in this situation. Specifically, I'll speak to a parenting context. I use the word "disappointed" when I talk to my kids about a foolish choice they've made. I don't say "I'm angry you hit your brother." I don't say "I'm frustrated you hit your brother." I say "I'm disappointed you hit your brother." I'm trying to make sure I own my emotions (anger, frustration). The kids aren't in charg…
/r/RPChristians01/11/19 04:14 PM
1

Either troll ... or 6 year old. I'm curious: What exactly is nofap ?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/19 12:37 PM
1

Would it be better if she didn't get wet from kissing you? EXPERIMENT TIME!!!! Let her know you've got a boner, and ask her what you're supposed to do with this penis God gave you. Let her decide how to handle that thing since you're so unclear how. Let us know how it works out!
/r/RPChristians30/10/19 06:41 PM
0

Meh ... your parents probably talked to you about all sorts of natural things. But they didn't talk about sex. I'd figure out why you feel the need to hide something that's natural for a guy with a penis.
/r/RPChristians30/10/19 03:19 PM
1

Your parents didn't talk about sex in your house growing up, did they?
/r/RPChristians30/10/19 01:11 PM
26

On another note ... you're 5'8", and you weight 225. I'd say stop worrying about women and put the fork down.
/r/RPChristians29/10/19 07:48 PM
8

I'm going to repeat the same advice I gave you on your previous post.... How to win her back? Who cares. Here's my advice. Never go on a "date" with the same girl more twice in a row. Have multiple girls you are interested in and who you are offering your time and attention to if they'll come along for whatever ride you've got planned for the day or the evening.
/r/RPChristians29/10/19 07:47 PM
16

That's an interesting way to put it. I think I'm tracking with you there.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 08:31 PM
20

That's a great question man. What does it mean to you?
/r/askMRP28/10/19 08:25 PM
5

Your wife sounds like she's got fogging down pat.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 07:57 PM
2

a drama-filled, high emotion car ride back to the hotel Sounds like a good time if you're with somebody you want to be with.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 06:24 PM
2

Maybe that wouldn't be a problem if the sex things were napping https://giffiles.alphacoders.com/816/81606.gif Becoming a favorite of mine...
/r/RPChristians28/10/19 01:21 PM
2

I thought the world had moved on from this archaic fucked up way of thinking. Some still walk that path. Why judge, man? I say get the OP to ask himself the questions. Hopefully he'll make a path for himself instead of asking internet randos how to live his life. If he's religious, then he can make an internal reality that works and own it; it can include or not include sex sometimes. If he's not religious, then wtf is he doing not banging both? Fuck if I know. Hasn't read enough sidebar would b…
/r/askMRP18/10/19 12:43 PM
3

Dude ... you're LTR'ed in an LDR. Those don't really exist in a way that's beneficial to the both of you. I mean, hey ... if you want to stay LTR'ed to home girl, then fine ... stay that way and own your choices. It's great to talk/text/flirt/kino/whatever women. It's a blast. Guys do it because it's fun. Women enjoy it, too - as long as the basic elements of attraction are there. And there's nothing wrong about it. This is MRP here. We're dealing with guys who live and sleep with their wife of …
/r/askMRP18/10/19 12:39 PM
4

Do you (or does your wife) have a birth plan? You in the US? Or elsewhere? Homebirth, birth center, hospital? Midwife, doula, doctors? There's a lot you can learn. But hopefully your wife is owning the choices about the birth plan. If she is, then all you've got to do is be invested and show your investment by evidencing interest and concern in the crap she's going through. Natural curiosity and interest is abundantly helpful here. She's the one with the changes; you can't tell her what she's fe…
/r/askRPC17/10/19 05:56 PM
2

My local church.
/r/RPChristians16/10/19 04:50 PM
2

https://stronglifts.com/squat/#Head The place I squat has a mirror in front of the rack. It was hard in the beginning to not look at the mirror and check my form. There's basically a spot on the mirror I watch for reference when I squat. Makes squatting without the mirror different in a way that I am aware of. If you're changing your head/neck during your sets, then you're probably trying to compensate and thereby loosening up on your form. Typically not dangerous in small amounts as a one-off, …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 04:50 PM
9

You're 19, and you lack charm. You could be saying that at 39. Good on you for wanting it. My advice? Looks like you're a frequent flyer her on the reddits. Stop that. You're not going to learn charm here on the reddit. Get out and do something you enjoy doing. If it's fun, then people will want to join you. Or find someone doing something fun. Join them. Meetup for example. Spend more time being outgoing, and you'll become outgoing. Look at the awkwardness you'll experience as a potential for p…
/r/RPChristians14/10/19 04:31 PM
1

Holy mother of deer that can't make up your mind. You already know ... you deer all over the place. You need mommy's help to keep you from playing video games. And you can't make up your mind, state what you want, and then do it. You sound like my kids. They want something, then they don't want it, then somebody else wants it, and then they want it again and whine because they can't have what they wanted/didn't want in the first place. Do you know how hard it is to deal with kids that are 10-16 …
/r/RPChristians14/10/19 02:37 PM
6

10 day vacation? Don't sweat it. Roughly stay away from the biscuits and pancakes and cookies and pastries. Real thoughts? Start tracking what you eat as soon as you get back from vacation. Stop wasting your time on hunches.
/r/askRPC11/10/19 06:26 PM
2

Read this thread. I think it would apply to your situation. https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/dg1fxj/im_torn_between_two_women/
/r/askRPC11/10/19 11:27 AM
1

My bad ... I meant to say Girl #2. All better now, pumpkin?
/r/askRPC10/10/19 07:13 PM
3

Christian advice ... ok. Here goes... Turn the other cheek? Does that fit here? Don't sell yourself short. She got you back with only 7 penises this time. Make sure she understands that next time you're not taking her back unless she does at least twice that many penises. Boundaries and standards, yo.
/r/askRPC10/10/19 07:08 PM
1

Girl 1 will definitely better your life. She lies. She lacks communication skills. She Tindervenges with 7 penises. She's a sex addict. And she's almost done with her Master's degree. Marry Girl #1 before she gets her Master's. Then once she gets a job in her field and is making the big buck$, get her pregnant. Don't get her pregnant before she's making the big buck$. After she's making the big buck$ and you've got a kid maybe she'll divorce your sorry bum. That way you'll get some serious alimo…
/r/askRPC10/10/19 06:58 PM
1

A typical conversation over dinner sometimes feels like I’m talking to a polite teenager. Huh... When my wife feels like she's talking to a teenage I sure hope she's not talking to me. But again ... her feelings, not mine. If you feel like you're momma-ing him, then stop doing that. Maybe you are; maybe you aren't. If you're not momma-ing him, then no big deal - realize your feelings don't matter much about his work. But if you're momma-ing him, then stop that part. Have you told him you feel li…
/r/askRPC10/10/19 06:48 PM
1

9's don't have to lift. It's in their genes. I look fwd to getting to a 9 someday when I get drop to lifting maybe once or twice a month.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 06:30 PM
4

Hey ... he's a Christian. He just doesn't want to have sex with more than one woman at a time. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/derhvj/what_would_you_choose/ I was dealt a sh**** hand when it comes to the moralistic lottery: It upsets me to have sex with multiple girls at once. Why are you bringing Biblical reasoning into this at all, bro!? He's not asking for that sort of response. He just wants you to choose which girl he should have sex with. Girl 1 or Girl 2
/r/askRPC10/10/19 06:28 PM
9

I would (being as objective as possible) say that my SMV is about an 8.5-9 Had a post about BS bodyfat %'s reports recently. Maybe we need one on SMV reports, too. SMV 9's don't waste time dealing with depressed women.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 06:13 PM
1

Just stare man. If she went that over the top, then she wants the stare. Best thing you can give her is the stare... Pertinent "The Office" deleted scene... https://www.reddit.com/r/DunderMifflin/comments/dcybuv/jans_naked_breasts_deleted_scene/
/r/askRPC10/10/19 06:00 PM
3

Kudos to you for thinking about how to be supportive of your husband. Best thing I can say would be do not manage his emotions. He's got emotions. Maybe he's just realizing that ... not sure. But he's got to figure out how to manage his emotions himself. No need for you to pretend that he's right about every issue under the sun. Not sure if NMMNG is highly recommended ready for women ... but hey ... his emotions aren't yours to manage. Just like yours aren't for him to manage. If "how was work?"…
/r/askRPC10/10/19 05:58 PM
4

Also, I'll give you the same advice you got on one of your recent posts... https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dbhvvb/my_girlfriend_cheated_i_stayed_how_much_of_a/f21tako/ Just think in a few years you’ll get to ask your wife’s boyfriend for advice!
/r/askRPC10/10/19 05:54 PM
1

Also ... stats dude. Post 'em up. You sound like you're 17 years old.
/r/askRPC10/10/19 05:53 PM
0

I know this is askRPC ... but I think we should bend the rules every now and then and allow a simple -uc*off here. Words are like tools, every tool has a time and a place somewhere, right? That said. -uc*off, dude. And in case I'm not seen as giving the OP any real advice... here's my advice OP. Get a life where is doesn't matter much one way or another how many men some woman sexes up on her Tindervenge of you. What a crappy way to win a guy back. If I went a swallowed 7 penises, would you buy …
/r/askRPC10/10/19 05:51 PM
6

Dude... just wash the towels, bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 05:00 PM
3

OP needs a more visual teaching approach. Your missing, if you choose to accept it ... find his SO, commence visual teaching. If you schedule around her ovulating, it's a +.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 12:23 PM
1

Why confront other than to show her you are tolerating dishonesty this time, but not next time?
/r/askRPC09/10/19 07:31 PM
1

she most likely lied to save my feelings Hamster much?
/r/askRPC09/10/19 06:50 PM
2

There is a college close by me that has a Bod Pod ($45) and a DEXA machine ($125) in their athletics or health sciences dept. I was in and out in under an hour (and the guy was having problems with one of his machines at the time). Time commitment is minimal if you've got a location close by. Here's a search tool for Bod Pod locations: https://www.cosmed.com/en/contact-us/test-site-locator The college by me is not listed on this search tool. YMMV
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 05:03 PM
-3

You've responded to every single reply to your original post so far. Do you do this with your wife? God I hope not.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 03:19 PM
3

This stuff's only comedy for most of us here if you can look into your own past and see the pile of shit we left in our wakes as we danced these same shitty dances with the same shitty motives and the same shitty results. There's a reason LIFT is the first step for everybody.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:41 PM
1

Buy a cheap car is a great idea. I bought a cheap car for the family when my oldest was able to drive. He loves the freedom. I love not needing to drive him around. We do coordinate when there's a car in the shop. So coordination can happen. But $1k for a cheap, get-around-town car is a no-brainer IMO.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:38 PM
3

At those fat levels, you should be losing at least 1lb per week. 2.3lb per week is a 1% drop in body fat. So you should be dropping 2% body fat each month. You're in the easy stages for fat loss, man. Raise your goals. Aim higher. Shoot for 1-1.5lb per week in weight loss. Count the calories in an app. Set the goal in an app. And put the fork down.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:36 PM
4

Wow. 5'9" and 229lb. Yeah ... Up-vote this one here. Are you the boulder in this bouldering excursion OP?
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:33 PM
1

I've seen the suggestion thrown around with that sort of phrasing. I think it's better said with that internal voice. It's one of those things a guy has to be able to say to himself in order to realize certain things about the nature of his current relationship and in order to own his life. If he can say it to himself and then act accordingly, then there's no reason to say it out loud. Problem is ... most guys come here needing to be able to say lots of things with that internal voice, but inste…
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:29 PM
1

FYI monkdude .... This is not the OYS thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 06:43 PM
3

As a side note ... read "The Way of the Superior Man" by Dieda next. Might help you decide to figure out what you want in life instead of spending your time being angry about something you have no control over.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:58 PM
1

It’s all about them This is your problem.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:57 PM
2

Do you think that if you handled this conversation "correctly" (whatever that means to you or your wife) that she would want to have sex with you "correctly" (whatever that means to you)? If you're recounting of her phrases are accurate, then she was talking with a lot of "I" and "we" statements. Classic comfort seeking statements. If she was throwing around a lot of "you" statements, then they'd be the classic fitness testing statements. Comfort seeking from your wife is great. Hopefully a wife…
/r/RPChristians08/10/19 03:17 PM
8

Check boxes!!! We love check boxes!!! What's my path to the good life? I thought the box to check was a happy wife. What's the next box I have to check? Hell if I know, weakandsensitive hasn't posted it yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 03:07 PM
1

I think you're in the spot where you know that you should be driving life instead of letting life drive you. Great place to be if you really want to make your own choices and reap the benefits. You've worked hard to make sure life isn't driving you anymore. You're not a lardbutt anymore. What drove you to not be a lardbutt anymore? Was it simply the fear of being a lardbutt? If so, then that's a fear-based action. Not the best source of actions IMO. Like any other goals ... what do you want? Fig…
/r/RPChristians07/10/19 06:35 PM
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Saw this one and thought of you bro. https://www.reddit.com/r/RoastMe/comments/dejbrl/my_wife_is_gone_visiting_her_family_for_two_weeks/
/r/askMRP07/10/19 05:45 PM
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You're not married and you're irked by the money already? WTF dude? What are you paying for? Either you want the house, or you don't. Wait ... are you buying sex? If so, let us know what it costs and whether it's worth it.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 04:35 PM
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And quit being the faggot who worries about his woman every time she goes on a night out. The SBIII OP's post highlights have been lacking of late. Glad to see they are back.
/r/askMRP03/10/19 12:07 PM
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Press behind your balls, the "gouch" as I believe it's known. Careful ... you're going to get him hard with talk like that.
/r/askMRP02/10/19 05:50 PM
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How to win her back? Who cares. Here's my advice. Never go on a "date" with the same girl more twice in a row. Have multiple girls you are interested in and who you are offering your time and attention to if they'll come along for whatever ride you've got planned for the day or the evening.
/r/RPChristians02/10/19 01:22 PM
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Wrong wrong wrong. It's already the past. If he brings this past interaction into each future initiation he attempts, he's doomed to failure.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 02:36 PM
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Initiate when it can't happen. Second only to the "Do you want a hug?" when kids are around.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 11:33 AM
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I think where a lot of my dread is coming from is the divorce rape. I call bullshit on that. I say you'd give your left nut if she'd just tell you she's live a Disney fairytale life with you and be happy with you forever. You already told us your problem. You've got oneitis in a bad way. You'd let your wife rape your ass with a judge's gavel if you thought it would make her stay with you and be haaaaapy.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 08:33 PM
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Yeah ... all talk and no action is unattractive. But all action with no communication is not a good captain stance either. A good captain can communicate his mission in a way that enlivens the crew and gets them on board. Hey babe! Hey kids! We're going to take a trip to NYC during Spring Break next year! It's going to be great. See the Empire State building. See 5th Ave. See all sorts of cool stuff and ride the subway and travel the Big Apple! Going to be awesome!!! It's going to take some give…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 07:17 PM
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Simple search on askMRP and MRP... https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/search?q=fight+club&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance&t=all https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/search?q=fight+club&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance&t=all
/r/askMRP26/09/19 04:49 PM
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Does your wife have as much access to your phone and this reddit account as you have to her phone and her fb messenger account? If so, you're asking for a shit ton of bricks to hit you in the face. Ideally ... that shouldn't matter. Shit tons of bricks fly around all day long in this world, and a good man can handle what needs to be handled. But as a new guy ... this particular shit ton of bricks won't help you.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 04:39 PM
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Even girls fuck you up. I felt like a cat's toy for a few rounds of sparing. Girl had a fast jab, and I thought my jab was my strong point.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 12:33 PM
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Posting useless questions to reddit. Over and over again. In multiple subreddits.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 07:21 PM
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You want advice? Here's my take... This is a GEM she's handing you. Do you want to be stuck with a woman that wants to keep you roped down, tied down, stuck in the mud? If so ... then you've found your woman. Stay with her, and she exactly as she says. Otherwise, she is setting you up for success no matter what. You do you, man. You don't cancel anything. She divorces you. Bingo. You win. Move on with life, and stop worrying about what this woman things or says about you. You've got an awesome l…
/r/askMRP23/09/19 08:05 PM
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I must be honest, the reason I deleted the post was because I am ashamed of struggling with this. I feel less masculine and even less human because of it. Feelz. You don't like how you feel when you think about your own behavior. Bummer. Welcome to life. We all have parts of ourselves we want to hide. I believe much of the pain in our lives comes from trying to close our own eyes to our behavior ... from lying to ourselves. No worries if you want to hide from some randos on the internet. You're …
/r/RPChristians20/09/19 01:29 PM
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Going to ask some fact-finding questions here... Do you lift? I know my sex drive (as a 40yo) definitely goes up when I'm lifting heavy. Just coming off surgery two months ago, and just getting back into lifting heavy, I am enjoying the sex drive boost. When you went to the dr, did you tell him you have zero sex drive? How open and frank were you with the dr? When you were hitting your time of puberty, did you masturbate then? Did you have wet dreams? What was your parents' take on sex when you …
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 07:18 PM
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However I will say that my wife and I are going through the same thing with her lebido being non existent. I'm okay with that Not sure if you're serious...
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 02:02 PM
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laser The laser ... yeah ... That'll do it. Sure did it for her. We need to add "laser" to the sidebar, guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 01:58 PM
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Hard to be motivated for her right now though. Going to hone in on that one statement here. Because ... in the end ... you can't focus on changing her. Seems like that's all you want, though. If she'd just change into a sexual minx, then all would be good. Well, listen up buttercup. She's not going to change into a sexual minx for you. Good thing here? You can change you. What are your plans for the next 3 months, 3 years? Are you going to be the same chump that runs a church without knowing how…
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 01:27 PM
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TL/DR: Please help. My balls are too big to handle. I don't know what to do with them. Will somebody take them for me?
/r/askMRP19/09/19 01:19 PM
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Troll post
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 12:42 PM
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It's a good practice to lift your head up from the grind and consider what you actually enjoy.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 12:34 PM
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Only to a woman like that. You mean only to a woman like that right then. You sound like a woman.
/r/RPChristians19/09/19 12:19 PM
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Dear diary ... My wife told me about this guy who waved at her today. My blankie doesn't provide me enough comfort as I lay upon my bed tonight trembling in fear that my wife might actually be attractive. What should I do? I can't sleep! ... hours later ... Dear diary ... I think I'm going to drive the route my wife took yesterday and tell every random guy I see to lay the fuck off my wife. She's mine.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 03:05 PM
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