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🥰 everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:09 PM
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You said men are intimidated by u
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:57 PM
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Oh yes you do have the idea, women always know. So how hot are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:49 PM
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How hot are you exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:43 PM
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I hope we lived in an ideal world made of chocolate. But we don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:57 PM
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Yeah sure, let's also solve climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:44 PM
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That depends, how would you look in a leather skirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:42 PM
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U hitting on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:34 PM
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Nutty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:30 PM
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I have a switch that needs to be "on" before I can poop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:19 PM
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There is no such thing as enough internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:10 PM
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I shit real gold. So I don't mind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:56 PM
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I shit real gold. So I don't mind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:56 PM
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Yup, if man is not getting laid, that means he is not near enough women who are ovulating. It's not like women even try to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:32 PM
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Everything is a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:29 PM
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I do post on reddit when I am on pooping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:29 PM
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Nah, that's because men suck at maintaining a social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:22 PM
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It's a game, everyone is playing it. You can't complain when other side is playing to their advantage when you are doing the same thing. It's okay to feel sympathy but we should also acknowledge that women who got played are not innocent angels
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:21 PM
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I disagree to a certain extent. Men do need to stop complaining because they don't really have anything to complain about. Men have upward mobility, and men have time. If they put enough effort they can become successful or die trying. As a man age, women his age will become below his league so if he invest in himself he can get younger women that are in his league. Women on the other hand may be punching above their league when they are in their 20s, but they will never be able to catch up to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:49 AM
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Women are more intimidated by the husband material guy. Because she can get all the sex she needs from plethora of chads who are looking for easy lay. But the husband material guy is not a sure thing. Men don't appreciate how much power they have when women are the one wanting something from them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:44 AM
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Received feedback last OYS to soft next her due to me fucking up because of inexperience That was stupid advice, good thing you ignored it. You can't soft next a woman you haven't fucked yet. That's like quite quitting a job that you were never hired for in the first place lmao.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 02:29 PM
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I read your OYS, you seem to be riding the high of validation from the progress you made. Nothing wrong with it. You have your optimism goggles on. I guess we can all use a little optimism in our lives. Problem comes when that optimism is result of a comfort seeking mechanism. That if you just do self improvement enough then your problems will be solved.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 02:13 PM
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Living within my frame What is your frame?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 01:27 PM
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Nothing I say can change her feelz but I still find myself appealing to a logical side of her that doesn't exist. So why are you trying to use logic? My marriage will likely not last, the changes I've been making needed to happen 6 months ago. Hold your horses, you cant even shut your mouth and you expect changes I constantly need to remind myself the changes are for me, not my wife anyway. Cool, so you have not internalized the basics and you expect change? Last night wife has stated she wants …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 01:17 PM
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He is definitely not focussed on himself evident from the fact that he has no goals, no direction, nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 12:56 PM
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Do yourself a favor and prioritise your social life, which should include somewhat fuckable women.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 12:53 PM
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You my friend need to learn to shut the fuck up. Yeah, it's not just about keeping your mouth shut like an idiot, it means being able to handle the discomfort when your wife pesters you about not saying much. If you can't handle your wife's emotions, then question becomes why exactly? If enthusiastic sex is your problem, then all you need to do to fix that is get attractive and find a woman(that may or may not be your wife). But that would have to wait till you get attractive. Now for the meat, …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 12:49 PM

Whats life without risk. Vasectomy is for pussies, but if one is so inclined, it's an option. Freezing sperm is cheaper than CS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:05 PM

Oki
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:18 AM
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I just miss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:12 AM

Breakups are foolish. It's better to have ambiguity in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:12 AM

I also have an orange cat that my neighbour gave to me for cat sitting. It's me who is primary parent for him now after my ex wife's mental breakdown, and he is thriving. I can multitask between being a sleezebag and being a father and a cat entertainer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:08 AM

For me cheating is natural order of things, it's what man is supposed to do, have sex with lot of women. There is no reason marriage can't be a part of that reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:06 AM

Nothing wrong with being a sleeze
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:02 AM

What is your problem with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:57 AM
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Now we are just running in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:40 AM
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That's like saying men who lift weights to get attractive do it at their own expense. Being a good partner is important. Trick is to be a good partner to a woman who deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:26 AM
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Oh yes absolutely, I take my dates to a farm to count sheep. One sheep, two sheep, three sheep...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:13 AM
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It's more nuanced that you make it out to be here. Should men put their needs and wants before anyone else. Yes, of course. Would women respect a man who don't put himself first, Yes, of course. The devil lies in the detail though, you have to ask what putting himself means. It doesn't mean playing videogames while the wifey is in hospital with upset stomach. Putting yourself first means investing in yourself in such a way that it benefits you and those around you. Take lifting weights for examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:12 AM
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Well I am not your typical redpill guy. This notion that you shouldn't give a shit about what women think or what your partner think or feel is ass backwards. It's my job as a man to provide an environment where my partner feels safe enough to experience her emotions, good or bad without judgement. Actual advice is for men to not let what their wife is feeling affect their mental state. Since redpill is filled with emotionally stunted men who can't handle the discomfort of their own wife feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:37 AM
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Yes, that's why men have bad relationships, they can't handle the discomfort of conflicts and have to fix everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:55 AM
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It is healthy if a man does it when his wife is neglecting him. It's not otherwise. If she is a good wife, then it's foolish to punish her by cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:54 AM
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I am saying that conflicts are easiest way to create emotions in a romantic relationship. We should let them fester and should not hurry up and try to logic our way out of them. Life gets busy, it's difficult to keep spark in marriage. We should use conflicts because they are free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:52 PM

Yes, but they were very mean about it especially when I invalidated their opinions as wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:58 PM
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Look at you, giving orders. You are adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:28 PM
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Don't act cute. Time for that will come later. I promise we will talk about your girly dreams when we are warm and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:18 PM
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Don't worry so much. I will try to be a gentleman. I do like to break things but I can't help it. I find it very enchanting when order gives way to chaos. Not to mention, gathering all up in my arms afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:05 PM
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I am very demanding, just hope u can keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:45 PM
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On front page?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:36 PM
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I am a rebel, you need to tame me before I follow ur orders. It involves a Latex bodysuit and a whip. You can even call me Alexa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:35 PM
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What? Popular page is based on popular posts, not my personalized feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:18 PM
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You were my sun You were my earth But you didn't know all the ways I loved you, no So you took a chance And made other plans But I bet you didn't think that they would come crashing down, no You don't have to say, what you did I already know, I found out from him Now there's just no chance For you and me There'll never be And don't it make you sad about it? You told me you love me Why did you leave me all alone? Now you tell me you need me When you call me on the phone Girl, I refuse You must ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:13 PM
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Well "sis", I made a post about toupees, and whether women be okay with it. I got so much hate that one would have thought I wanted to give Americans clean and efficient public transportation. It's like women were offended by me merely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:11 PM
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I am getting dejavu
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:06 PM
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I don't see the right wing misogyny on front page. I am sure there are misogynist subs, I just don't think they do anything that is more bad than twox does
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:05 PM
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Algorithm be crazy Lots of AITAH posts on front page
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:03 PM
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Men prohibiting their wives from aboriton is same as women forcing husband to get vasectomy. Both wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:03 PM
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That's fine, but you won't be called selfish for defying your husband. But if a man dares to not get a vasectomy, OMG, he would be painted as a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:35 PM
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Go on, what exact opposite do u see?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:32 PM
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Yes, But people on reddit takes great offense if a man dares to say no to vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:32 PM
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Atleast we are allowed to debate them on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:31 PM
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Oh, really now? You gonna deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:26 PM
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No, it's not. But if women don't like when their husbands tell them what they wear, they should shut their mouths about vasectomy. Bodily autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:21 PM
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Oh yes we encounter it, while gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:29 PM
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I see myself as a trophy worth fighting for. Lots of men who love their wives are miserable because their wives have let themselves go in many aspects of marriage. Their wives could use a little competition. My love is a gift that comes without strings attached. My commitment on the other hand, is definitely not unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:26 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:22 PM
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But then we can't reward a woman for being better than others. Then all the fun stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:20 PM
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Let's see, Younger, fitter, nicer, more sexual, move loving etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:14 PM
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Long term relationships because it's mutually beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:13 PM
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YES It is circular logic. Not because it's not accurate but because that's how reality is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:12 PM
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I meant to say, He can get better than his wife. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:10 PM
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Congratulations, you stumbled on to something that I have been trying to teach men for months now. It's a fucking circle. That how preselection works. You need to have sex to increase your sexual value as a man but to have sex you need a high sexual value. That's the big secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:08 PM
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Exactly right. Without sexual value there is no sex. But you can't really stop people from having expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:03 PM
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That's where I take exception. Take example of a woman who put her husband in deadbedroom. Husband learn about redpill, becomes attractive and wife fucks him again. All is good. But all is not good, husband surpassed his wife's attractiveness. Deal was that he was an average dude and his wife who was also average would fuck him. But she didn't and he was forced to become above average. He shouldnt be trapped with an average wife when he can do better. That is like punishing him for being better.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:02 PM
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Wanting to be loved for who you are is fine but it's not very smart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:54 PM
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Hypergamy is not about $$, it's about sexual value. Ted, the tech bro, lack the social skills to demonstrate his sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:53 PM
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Yes, but that is what we need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:51 PM
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That's awfully accepting of you. Thanks🤨?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:50 PM
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Wait you are not supposed to get silent treatment?. I just thought it was by product of her using her mouth for better things. Huhh... Learn new things everyday.
/r/askMRP21/11/24 08:38 AM

Nope. A functional woman is worth staying for because even if she neglects u, u don't have to clean her vomit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:01 PM

It doesn't matter why he stayed. A neglectful wife is not entitled to support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:50 PM
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Okidoke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:48 PM

But a neglectful wife was not entitled to support in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:47 PM
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Actually I may life to rile up people here but I am actually a very good partner. I let women feel their emotions without judgement and they tend to want to hang around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:45 PM
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I am sure women get married in their 40s.. Why do u think u can't do it? Even a divorced guy, or single father can be a match even if fresh guys are short in supply
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 02:43 PM
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I feel no obligation towards a woman who wants to leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:36 PM
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That is something I cannot change. Yes it was my fault that she wanted to leave but once she decided to do it, I was not gonna fight for her like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:32 PM
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One thing I have realised is that our parents decide our future. I was lucky enough that my ex wife decided that she was done with my loser self and planned to divorce me and that lead me to redpill. Otherwise I would be same man I was 5 years ago. With women I think there is a time limit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 02:27 PM

I believe his ex lied about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:09 PM

But he didn't. Him staying doesn't entitle neglectful wife of his care and support. Only a good wife is entitled to his support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:01 PM
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It's not men that are against it. National organization of women on the other hand keep lobbying against default custody. Wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:23 PM
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I believe him. He is the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:15 PM

I don't give a shit if this term hurt anyone's feelings. It's what we use and if you don't like it, you are welcome to take your feelings and shove it up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:01 PM
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It is enough. Woman who wanna fuck will fuck. Rest are just excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:43 PM
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Actually you can, you gotta be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:37 PM

Nah,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:22 PM

Yes but what other choice does a man have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:08 PM

Exactly, men don't get sympathy, no one is gonna care what they want. Except they themselves. So men should not be too concerned that society hates them, society was never on their side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:07 PM

Eh look if a woman just wants to be a good mother. Good for her. She can't really not be a good wife but still feel entitled to support from a good husband. Kids will probably hate you for leaving their cancer ridden mother. But it's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 PM
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Fine, off you think him losing all hope and killing himself if putting himself above his kids. Then I don't have much to say to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:02 PM
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I get it, u don't like if a mentally unstable man kills himself. You take personal offence to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:00 PM

He shouldn't be if wife is neglectful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:56 AM

What do you want me to do then? Be a good husband to a woman planning to leave me. No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:56 AM
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But by then choice will be to clean vomit of a wife who is neglectful all the mariage or pay some money to not have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:55 AM

Then I don't think making custody default 50 50 won't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:54 AM
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Yes, but not as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:53 AM

How was he supposed to support them If you mean by $$, then he had done it already. If you mean by being present father, they took his kids away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:53 AM

No one has sympathy for lack of sex even if wife is not sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:52 AM

Well I may not be a good husband but I never treated her like shit. I was always cool about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:51 AM

Yeah, women wanted vows to mean nothing. They succeeded
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:49 AM

Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:49 AM
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Yeah fine, but he has my sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:48 AM
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Exactly... If she was neglectful, she didn't establish a good relationship she could rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:47 AM

If a woman can't make her husband a priority, then get a sperm donor and leave the poor man alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:45 AM

No that is because I have exceptionally small pe-pe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:44 AM

Well then, She is not a child as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:44 AM

That is fair. A man is not a good partner so wife neglects him. Fair But by neglecting her husband she becomes a bad partner herself. Just like a bad husband can't expect wife to fuck him, a bad wife can't expect her husband to support her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:43 AM

If wife is neglectful, she should know that husband is not with her because he is gonna stick around. She is currently not a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:42 AM

I cheated on my ex wife two years after she planned to divorce me and two days after she asked me for a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 AM

Because leaving can be costly and Custody can be unpredictable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:40 AM

Yes but you would support them as neighbour not as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:39 AM
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So why are you up his ass for killing himself. He is a bad man who don't deserve his kids, but you dont even want him to kill himself? A man has his kids taken away and he can't even kill himself. How the fuck he is gonna take care of his kids when you take them away from him? If by taking care of kids you mean cough up money, just get it from his social security.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:38 AM

I don't think men should fear deadbedrooms. I say cheat the moment she starts being neglectful. But some men have moral qualms against cheating or worse they want their wives to desire them (yuck).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:35 AM
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Asia,.more specifically South Korea and Japan has toxic work culture because they had to climb up from ruins of war and that's the only way they could was by working HARD. China's problem is the one child policy which has basically destroyed the concept of big families. Also whenever there is rapid industrialization, birth rates drop because when you are a rural farmer, more kids mean more free labor. But when you are a city dweller with a job then more kids mean more time away from job, so cost…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:33 AM

Neglectful wife is still not that big of a deal. You can live with that. But the same neglectful wife needing support when she neglected him for years is just asking too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:29 AM

But u shouldn't have judged. If bf was not good to her, he is not entitled to her support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:27 AM

Fine, so the society decided that he is not stable enough for his kids but society will also blame him for leaving his kids. He didn't leave his kids, they took his kids away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:26 AM

She will add more stress to man's life. Unless she has earned her place as a wife, she doesn't get to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:24 AM
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USA has a falling birth rate so do Europe. It's just that USA imports lot of immigrants. Don't get me started on gender relations in USA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:22 AM
1

Asia doesn't have an epidemic of single mothers. I think..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:19 AM

Women were the one to fight for no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:19 AM

So he can divorce her right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:18 AM

She was neglectful when she wasn't sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:17 AM

So? Women also leave their husbands. Women were the one to fight for no fault divorces so that they can break their vows
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:17 AM

Freedom to lose custody and pay child support? As long as there is no default equal custody, I don't blame men for staying for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:16 AM

If him being a present father was so important, then he should have gotten equal custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:14 AM

I mean she can also leave instead of neglecting husband. But choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:03 AM

Well yeah, action of wife-> being neglectful result in consequence-> husband leaving her because of cancer. If wife was not neglectful, she wouldn't be abandoned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:59 AM

We can debate whether it's a thing or not. I believe it is. But make another thread for it. Regarding discussion here, I will assume that divorce r@pe is real and is a reason why many men stay with a neglectful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:57 AM

Kids, divorce many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:55 AM

It is about me, a man. A man should not be expected to support a wife who has been neglectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:55 AM

Yes, she should be supported as a fellow human being but man should be allowed to leave a neglectful wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:54 AM

So a woman puts a husband in deadbedroom for 10 years and he stays because of kids. It's not like she loves him and make him a priority. So when it's time for her to need him, he is under no obligation to make him a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:52 AM
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No one is forcing anyone to eat a donut instead of a salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:49 AM

Marriage is not just a signature of a paper. If the woman has not behaved like a wife, she is not really married and can't expect support from husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:49 AM

I had to say it because it's the truth. The woman I replied is offended that a troubled man burned himself instead of earning money. What else can that man do now? He is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:47 AM

I never stopped anyone from extrapolating it to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:45 AM

No, I know that women will never have sympathy for a man who was probably stressed and mentally not right. Yeah he burned himself alive but he was not able to give his ex money she was entitled to. Don't worry, his children will get his social security benefits. So even in his death, he is providing for his children. If you are offended by him not being able to cope with unfairness, I apologize sincerely on behalf of him. I understand that a man should not dare to expect more that an ATM for his…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:38 AM

I never said women should be judged for leaving.. Pin point to where I said that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:32 AM

There are many reasons to not leave. Fact is, if wife is neglectful she is not entitled to support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:31 AM

Yeah yeah yeah. Look I am not debating divorce laws with you. All I am saying is, there are reasons for a man to stay with a neglectful wife. That doesn't entitle neglectful wife of his support if she gets cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:29 AM

He is not entitled to a "head" and she is not entitled to his support. See how that works? It's give and take, you can't not "give" and expect to "take" when it's your turn. So it doesn't matter why she wasnt giving him a head. Fact is that she wasn't. Was it his fault that she wasn't giving him head, probably. But it doesn't matter, at the end of the day, she was neglectful of him and he should not be judged for not supporting a neglectful wife. So this logic of blaming your neglectfulness on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:25 AM

Oh fuck off, There was a guy who burned himself in front of court because they asked for so much child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:21 AM
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They represent a society created by women which is accepting of single mothers and fat women. Don't marry before you carry AND get on a treadmill fatty. It's not that hard. But society is too tolerant of women and it's just sad to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:19 AM
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I agree and disagree. It's okay for a man to hate single mothers, and fat women for what they represent. A general decrease in quality of women. It's not okay if a man has to say it out loud over and over again. That's just demeaning women to feel good about himself. I have been seeing flurry of posts on twox about women who are planning to not date men. They have to say it over and over again because they can't get a man to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:07 AM
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Nah bro, it's not misandry to tell men that they are fucking around in gym and need to take shit seriously. Men are not entitled to sex so they have to put in the work or stay celibate. I don't give a shit if it's misandry or misogyny. If a man is not getting the sex life he wants, then he needs to get to work and become attractive. Period. Because unlike bluepillers we dont want men to just accept their fate. That's why i tell men to cheat on their wives. It's not because I don't think cheating…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:51 AM
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Regarding treating women with respect, you won't get laid it u treat them with respect. U need to be attractive. U can treat women with as much disrespect and it u are attractive you will still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:31 AM
1

Here is the thing man, usually I love to have fun with arguing against people who have not read a thing about redpill. Problem is that those people are generally women and it comes easy for me to treat it as shit test. I have a lot of practice. But with men, it just doesn't sit right with me. I am used to dealing with men who are held to a high standard. But I will answer your question. Only redpillers harp on and on about going to gym and lifting weights. Not for health purpose or other BS. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:29 AM
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Go to gym is most basic advice? Then why isn't given to every 18 yo? All we see is respect women or treat her right rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:54 AM
2

Do u even know what solipsism is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:34 PM
1

Well then society should not bear the burden let the woman bear the burden of HER choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:21 AM
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How about this, allow women to abort till 24 weeks, no questions asked. In those 24 weeks, women should get consent from the father for his involvement in child's life. If she fails to get the consent for whatever, she should not be able to sue for child support. So she can make decision based on that. If the father do give consent, he should be responsible for the kids(with exception of paternity test showing that he is not the father). Father should get default equal custody except for extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:07 AM
1

I am tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:50 AM
0

It's fucking simple, when men bitch and moan about not having any say in whether baby is born, they are told to shut the fuck up. They are told, that they should have kept their dick in their pants, and other vulgar things. Even when men are r@ped they are forced to pay child support. So I can say the same thing to women, keep your legs closed, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 AM
1

Look lady, I have a memory of a dyslexic goldfish. Help me out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:43 AM
1

Ah well, if a man tells woman his weakness like it's NBD, she will not care much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:28 AM
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That's very woman centered approach to living life. Being emotional is stupid, yes. But being vulnerable is essential to grow, it one doens't expose himself to his weakness, he won't change for better. Does a sight of man struggling make a woman lose attraction, yes. But women can be replaced. No one improved without struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:16 AM
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When I went through puberty my whole psychology changed. My emotions got toned down by quite a bit, my spacial awareness improved drastically, my reasoning skills improved, I became calmer and more stoic by default. So holding frame and being stoic is just logical conclusion to what I was meant to be. Regarding not being socially dominant, i guess you don't have to do it, but why wouldn't you do it? Why wouldn't you wanna lead and influence people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:08 AM
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Link me that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:06 AM
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Redpill use "beta", "simp" as a descriptive term rather than an insult. So when men ask, why is the chick whose college homework I am doing, don't date me but date the basketball player? Women's answer is, "you fucking InCel, you are not entitled to sex, holy shit, the entitlement. Fuck you, just because you do her homework doesnt mean you OWN her body, you gonna die alone" Redpill answer is, "you are a simp, you are giving her your attention and effort without anything in return. She is just us…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:58 AM
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You need to explain it a little further..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:51 AM
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Oh yes they do, Women don't like being held responsible for their actions. Only children get that privilege. Women can't force us to treat them as adults if they are not willing to take responsibility for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:40 AM
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Pretty please? I am on my knees, on a bed of nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:41 PM
1

Even if I say pretty please?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:36 PM
1

And u are being very stubborn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:12 PM
1

Well then hello Ms. Dictionary Explain it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:10 PM
1

I am in a mood to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:05 PM
1

Alright how average are you in terms of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:31 PM
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Isn't that the slogan of feminism, not all men but always a man? I get it, you don't like to be painted with a broad brush, I don't like it too. But unless u want to go on a date with me, I don't really care what you like or don't like. People act selfish, everyone does, even a mother who throws herself at a truck to save his kids life is acting on her evolutionary instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:29 PM
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All I am saying is, people act selfish. It's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:20 PM
-1

Ah well, I walked into that one. Although how average are you exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:11 PM
0

It's not sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:04 PM
1

All people think like that. You tell me one time u acted to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:03 PM
2

They gonna break his little heart. Being a boytoy is fine and hagmaxxing can be good. But this dude is in search of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:01 PM
2

THANK U.. Like they don't even listen to what they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:59 PM
1

Don't be too cocky. U can hardly role up chicks in this sub like I do Red, purple, blue, blue haired all are offended in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah yeah, we in patriarchy weekly make fun of those threads where women strategies how to circumvent this question. It's not a shit test, men who ask you this question want to know the answer. You lie and they find out in the future, you gonna lose your relationship. You may call those men misogynist, insecure or whatever, it doesn't matter. They won't want you without an honest answer. So stop being so entitled and accept tbe fact that some men won't commit to a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:46 PM
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Ofcourse I offer commitment, just not to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:42 PM
2

Dating market being efficient means that people are getting partners matching their value. Feminists have made me optional for women so society has lost interest in making men good partners. It's not the fault of dating market that there is a deficit of quality men. It's the fault of women who can't raise quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:41 PM
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It doesn't matter if you are happy with situation, what's important is u accept the truth. If you want thin partner, go right ahead. But fat men can't expect fat women to want them just because women themselves are fat. That's like old women wanting older men to want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:59 PM
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All I am saying is, you can't blame people when they look for their self interest. That's what humans are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:45 AM
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Your problem is that you care too much about women wanting you..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:41 AM
1

U are rich? You can have a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:32 AM
1

I mean your time is better invested lifting weights and working on career. When they will perceive you as a viable beta, they will be more inclined to try to trap you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:12 AM
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My point was, that behaviours are part of men's RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:10 AM
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Yes that is fine. But what are men supposed to do about it, other then look for their own interests. Women wanted power, they got it. I don't think men need to babysit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:09 AM
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Nah I don't believe in regulation of dating market. Let it be free market, some will be losers, some will be winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:07 AM
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Don't, These women are not innocent, they are using the Billy Beta for commitment. They don't really love him or are attracted to him..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:30 AM
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What choice do 30 something women have? It's not like they are virgins who can withhold sex till marriage because even man is serious about them, he won't wait till marriage. I mean they can do the 3 months before sex thing. But if man is not getting laid, he will wait 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:29 AM
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Social norms, lmao. Women scream patriarchy and then want to be dominated in bed. You take their words too literally. It's a shit test, you are supposed to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:26 AM
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Don't be so offended. Its a part of life, like women lying about their body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:19 AM
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I let women complain as much as they want. Cry as much as they want, feel as much as they want. No judgement, I don't really care. They tend to wanna fuck me afterwards. I don't have that incentive towards men complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:16 AM
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Yes women complain, you can too. Not gonna change anything. It's what it is, we can debate it all we want but it does not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:05 AM
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Why are women so offended by this? It's the truth, women want something from men and open themselves up to be used. I mean how many men have been a victim of "foody calls". It's a part of life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:00 AM
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They are not, if they were mediocre women would be dating them.. Don't complain that rules are unfair. We all know that the game is rigged. Either you can play the game or go home. Is it unfair that a fat woman won't date a fat man. Who cares? Man just need to accept it as a fact and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:57 AM
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Yeah, they are on husband hunt. But I am sure if you pose yourself as wanting relationship, then some will bite the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:52 AM
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You used "you" as in pointing towards me. I don't need to do it. But if I was a Billy beta with only my beta traits like career and stability, I would have strung women along and never lost my sleep over it. Women are also using men in this scenario, it's not like they love him, they just want him for what he can provide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:43 AM
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I am not gonna do that because I don't need to lie. I am upfront about my non commitment, and women have a thing with me and get the good feelz. Then they can go on a hunt to trap a beta. But if only thing a man offers is his stability and commitment, there is no shame in using that to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:35 AM
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RPers don't have incentive to police betas, because betas are willing to marry a post wall women, women are happy to fuck with so called alpha in their 20s, otherwise all have to marry a woman to have sex. No one wants that. Women in their 30s do have incentive to police young women dating choices, so that they won't have to compete with younger women for men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:32 AM
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I am not telling men to do this. I am just saying it's an option. I also don't feel much sympathy for a woman. It's not like she is not using the Billy beta for his $$, stability and commitment. We all know how that works, women marry Billy beta by fucking him in early stages then put him on once a week sex (if he is lucky) and couples therapy. It's important to bounce the moment sex drops. If he strings woman along, he can have her best effort and then leave when she starts becoming neglectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:27 AM
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That is a part of male RMV. An abuser is not a good long term partner. But women stay because they don't have RMV to make a decent man commit to them especially if they want someone close to their SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:23 AM
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First make male friends, find a common hobby and show up and put in effort. It's not that difficult. Then make female friends, mostly just letting them speak about their emotions without judgement. They will lap it up. When you have male friends and especially female friends, then you have social proof. Without social proof, it's very hard. Starting and maintaining a conversation is not that difficult, download a copy of juggler method. Then when you create a nice social circle around you, appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:10 AM
1

Why would I wanna look for someone like myself? I look for woman who makes my life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:29 AM
1

What exactly have you done to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:21 AM
1

I am not traditionally masculine by any means. I mean I am muscular and lean and I have a very deep voice. I paint my nails, I wear makeup and lots of accessories. My demeanor has always been masculine though, something like Al Pacino from godfather. I don't feel emotions that much since I was what 18. I am definitely a man, sorry to disappoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:11 PM
1

I feel like I said the wrong thing? I just can't pin point what exactly is it. As much as I like to boast about myself, I sometimes can be very clueless. I feel this is one of those times..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:56 PM
1

Did I offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:49 PM
1

Just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:48 PM
0

If you were not a good partner to them then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:47 PM
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I am saying it in terms of appearance. I have fine features, high cheekbones, big eyes, sharp jawline, smallish chin.. My problem is that I am prettier than most women. Like not handsome but pretty. So I need a very feminine woman to get me going because I look at myself in the mirror everyday and I need a woman who can be polarizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:44 PM
1

You are no fun. Just loosen up a little, polarize. Add some spice to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 03:12 PM
1

I like feminine looking women. Thin waist, curvy figure, smaller frame, thin wrists, long hair(longer the better), fine facial features. I have fine facial features, thin wrists, long fingers, big eyes so need more feminine polarity in a woman to be attracted to her. I can't fuck women who are more masculine than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:07 PM
1

Why do u ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:35 PM
1

Something is bugging me about you. I can't put my finger on what exactly. It's like you are making progress and are stagnant at the same time. Its like you are too much into your frame and not in your frame at all. Pieces are not fitting together. Maybe I am losing my touch.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:32 PM
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If she was a nagging harpy who got fat and didn't make her husband a priority, then she doesn't deserve a husband. Why do women feel so entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:52 AM
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If she is not a good wife, then husband should not be forced to take care of her. If she is a good wife and earned her place then yeah she should get support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:50 AM
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All I am saying is that if you can't neglect your spouse for years and then be surprised that they bounce when things gets tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:40 AM
1

Well, start with Mystery Method, Then read a copy of bang and day bang. Then go practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:39 AM
1

What exactly do you know about game?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:32 AM
1

How willing are you to learn game?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:29 AM
1

Umm no.. Women need emotional stimulation, if they are getting it from you, they won't go looking elsewhere. Stronger the emotions you can give her, more she will become attached to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:20 AM
2

Do you wanna know how you stop a woman from cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:10 AM
3

Well then, live in fear I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:09 AM
1

Well then, live in fear I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:09 AM
3

Women are plentiful,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:05 AM
3

Any women can cheat, question remains whether you have options after you leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:03 AM
2

I was your normal Joe, skinny fat, a little nerdy. Didn't have much of a social life except close friends, introvert, liked to take lot of walks alone in nature. Didn't have any game, clueless in terms of seduction and dating. Didn't know how to lead or plan, failed a lot of shit tests. Took things too personally, cared too much about small things. Let myself dragged in lot of arguments and stuff. Let her take the wheel and she slowly drove us in a pit. It was normal stuff that degrades your mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:47 AM
1

Oh yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:23 AM
1

Everyone gets to have standards, even bad husbands. "Don't plan to leave me" is my standard. It's not like I didn't become a better man, she just wasnt good enough for the better me because she failed to meet my standard of " don't plan to leave me". I failed to meet her standard so she wanted to divorce me. I am not taking it personally. She failed to meet my standard so I cheated and left her, why the fuck are you taking it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:22 AM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:18 AM
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I think it depends on how good a wife she was before. If she was a woman who had neglected her husband sexually and otherwise then yeah. Husband is realising that life is short and he missed out on a lot of things and it makes sense that he will want to have those experiences. If she became just a mom, and failed to invest in the relationship, then she can't be surprised that relationship failed when things got tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:18 AM
0

No it's not, it's the truth. That's how secrets work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:15 AM
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No u misunderstood me. I don't have to hide my views from women. I have to keep it on the low that they are fucking me. Not good for their reputation if their husband find out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:13 AM
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I cheat on her when she was 2 years postpartum. She was planning to leave me when she was 3 months postpartum. I did plan to cheat on her when I found out she was planning to leave me but thats because I wanted to find someone else. Look I was a bad husband, I am not denying it. I just don't think a woman gets to make a plan to leave me and then later change her mind. I have standards. "Don't plan to leave me" is on the to of importance ladder
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:10 AM
-2

If no one knows, it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:07 AM
1

Well yes, I do have a high standard for women's fitness. By having dad bod I will only attract women who "are not that into exercise".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:06 AM
2

Love comes before unconditional love. If you don't wanna be your best self for people you love then what is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:04 AM
0

I am not a user. Even in my bluepill loser days, I had standards. Once I found out she was planning to leave me, it was over. I really had no interest in winning any one woman over. So I didn't win her over. Does that mean I used her? She stopped meeting my standard of "women who are not planning to leave me" so I found another woman. What did you even want me to do here, beg her to not leave me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:03 AM
-1

I don't wear shorts, But I would look good in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:56 AM
0

You won't believe how raunchy wives of average overweight men are, just not with their husbands. Women love to be treated like disposable sex objects, as long as I keep it quite and I am happy to oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:56 AM
0

Fine,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:51 AM
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Oh yes, I am pretty aware that I was not a good husband. I cheated because I didn't really care at that point. I may have been a loser and deserved her leaving me but I was not gonna pretend like there was any future when my wife was planning on divorcing me. Once I found out she was thinking of leaving me, I was basically done with her despite it being my fault. That is a breach of loyalty no one really comes back from. I am fit, not single, not married though..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:48 AM
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If I have to choose between abs and dad bod, I will choose abs. It's not like women who want dad bods will reject a guy with a six pack abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:46 AM
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Oh no I am not talking about women. But I do need a competition and conflict to feel alive and improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:44 AM
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Yes it was the reason for divorce happening. Basically what happened was that I was a loser when I was married, she got pregnant and I guess she got tired of me being a loser. So she started planning a divorce when my son was just 3 months old. I found that out after snooping. That led me to finding redpill. After that I stopped caring about my marriage because i had something that would have given me definite results instead of my marriage that was most likely gonna end. Next year was me improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:42 AM
-1

Wouldnt life become boring if we don't have something to compete for? Comfort is fine but there is no reason we can't be our best selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:33 AM
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Of course I am not exercising just for myself lol. I like it and all but primary purpose is to be attractive. Nothing wrong with it. Why wouldnt I want to maintain my attractiveness long term? Just because I married someone doesn't mean I can take them for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:30 AM
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Hypergamy is man's friend not foe. A woman you already fucked, who is getting older and less valuable day by day is gonna leave you and you are free to pursue younger hotter women. That supposed to be a threat ? Lol. I mean, I can understand a woman leaving me if she finds someone better. If she is being pursued by Brad Pitt, I will be like, you go girl and put my effort into pursuing a younger woman. It's a win win. There is no way I will be able to compete with Brad Pitt, nor do I think a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:25 AM
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I wear sweatpants and Tshirt all the time when home but I look good in them. I am a good dresser, I like to wear accessories that reflect me. I paint my nails. I am also in shape because I lift weights. I meal prep every week. My hair are messy because I like them that way, so I shave my face almost everyday. Its not like I don't relax, lifting takes 4 hours a week, dressing good takes like 3 hours a week in total, washing clothes and organizing them and you can cook your food and while machine …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:22 AM
2

No you don't need to calibrate, you need to pass shit tests. If I read between the lines, you just failed a bunch of shit tests and then she got more irritated and things escalated. If my woman tried being a bitch in public, I would put her over my shoulders and March out of there. Witty remarks is fine and all, but they don't really get you results when she just wants to be dominated
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 08:04 AM
1

Hold frame, She is feeling the dread and trying to get you in your frame. Frame is the basis of reality, everyone's reality is different. Look at it this way, if you project a reality where her not having a job doesnt really makes sense, then she will stop resisting it. You are not trying to negotiate or convince her, it's a foregone conclusion and you are just telling her what reality is.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 07:51 AM
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I don't think withholding sex as a punishment is abuse. I have done it myself. Women can be very stubborn especially when they have been put on pedestal by every men they dated. Then comes me who hold them to a high standard and they get pissed. Although me withholding sex also involves me fucking other women and dread that comes with it. It's a valid strategy, it works good but not when you are not having sex with those men anyways. Stick without a carrot does not work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:43 AM
1

I am proud to say that I dont known what pringle can and sponge method means..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:29 AM
1

And how exactly are you planning to create adventure and beauty through love? You planing to take this seriously or not?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 05:09 PM
1

Problem with this sort of question answer format is that there is a layer of logic before one gets to emotions. That's because people generally don't like being vulnerable about their feelings because someone will judge them for it. So there is always the logical mind sitting at the back trying to police what we can or cannot say. When the question answer type thing happen, we are by default guarded. So even if you produce an emotional response by asking questions it won't be that strong. Now if…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 04:47 PM
1

Your wife's friend, what exactly did you chat about how did you try to feed her emotions?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 03:56 PM
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I never said anything about divorce because divorce involves your wife and I don't give a shit if you leave your wife. It's not about your wife, it was never about her. But you decide to make what I wrote, about your deadbedroom and a divorce. Because you can't just get your head out of your wife's ass. Jesus fucking Christ man, get your shit together. Stop trying to fix your relationship, focus on fixing yourself. Do yourself a favor and figure out a vision for a life that is not centred around…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 03:46 PM
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No, when you have a clearly defined mission, you are too focussed and busy on that to care about anything else and getting angry. You are angry because you care too much about things that don't matter. You care about things that don't matter because you don't really have clear vision of what is important. What is your mission?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 03:13 PM
2

When your mission is about your wife then there is no real hope for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 03:10 PM
3

Best way to deal with anger is to have a clearly defined mission that keeps you focussed. And I don't see it here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 02:57 PM
1

If you don't wanna do it don't. But dry fasting is a legitimate. I am sure you can find peer reviewed medical information about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:52 PM
1

Motivation is useless, it comes and goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:50 PM
1

Do your own research if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:49 PM
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It is actually beneficial. It's anti cancer It's anti aging It's flush out toxins etc. It's also healing. Like if you get injured, you do a dry fast, you get healed very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:43 PM
1

I admit that I am wrong on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:42 PM
1

I am not saying there are not other good options Eggs just contain a lot of things for a low price
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:38 PM
1

20lb a month is easy. I am gonna blow your mind Our body fat is not put fat, it had lots of water and other nutrients in it. Like between 10 to 35 percent water is in a fat cell. So 10lb of weight is actually around 8lb of pure fat. Trick is to NOT drink water. Once your water reserves are depleted, Then your body will burn fat to produce water it needs. If your body needs 1 ltr of water, it will burn 2.2lb of pure body fat. But that's not it, some of that water will be lost by your breath so yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:35 PM
1

Lots of kefir lol. But to be serious, you don't stop producing waste because you didn't eat anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:25 PM
0

I don't eat and drink water for a whole week. That's how I lose it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:23 PM
1

Insulin resistance happens when the receptors in your cells becomes resistant to insulin. Best way to resolve it is to not produce insulin that much Then your cells become sensitive to insulin again. You produce insulin when you eat carbs or protein. Trick is to not eat that frequently and not eat too much carbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:16 PM
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Yes, but eggs have vitamin A and D along with vitamin K2 and healthy fats to help you absorb them. Not to mention B vitamins and other minerals. Chicken breasts are basically protein and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:13 PM
1

Losing weight is never supposed to be sustainable. Trick is to lose weight fast and not gain it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:10 PM
1

Stevia is definitely better than sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:05 PM
0

People do rolling 72s where they eat once very 3 days. World of fasting is very fascinating if u are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:01 PM
1

Nah take my advice. Eggs and nutritional yeast (unfortified) Insulin resistance is easily solvable, don't produce insulin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:48 PM
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No no, WHOLE eggs. Most Protein drinks have maltodextrin, as long as you are drinking them, you won't lose fat Eggs for protein, that it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:45 PM
1

I prefer a hair system
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:43 PM
0

You are just not fat adapted. Try one meal a day dry fast for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:42 PM
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Every year I go on a bulk and a cut. Gaining muscle is hard, you have to push yourself everyday, and suffer through the pain everyday. Losing weight is a cakewalk in comparison. Don't eat food, shed weight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:35 PM
1

Eggs, are the secret weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:33 PM
1

No fear, no distractions, the ability to let what doens't matter truly slide. Yes you may be depressed or something because your mother never loved you. Just let it go, and pursue your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:32 PM
1

Marriage is a legal contract. It has stopped meaning anything decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:29 PM
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I lose like 10lb of fat in a week. It's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:28 PM
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I do 5 day dry fasts. I basically don't eat or drink for 5 days straight. Body burns your fat to produce CO2 and water if you don't drink. On top of that it throws your body into autophagy and kills cancer cells. Win win
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:28 PM
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No corporation forcefully shoved fruit loops down anyone's throat. I mean come on, yes produce is expensive, so what? Buy it in bulk, at Costco or something. Eat eggs for breakfast instead of cereal. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:24 PM
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Eh, I never said they need to lose weight next day. Take your time heal, breastfeed and all. Then get your head right and shed the weight. I got sick, I gained weight 20lbs and I lost that in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:21 PM
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Do women take any responsibility? society told me I should have perfect body so I got fat instead. Yeah that checks out. All excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:20 PM
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Equivalent to ED would be women suffering from vaginal atrophy after menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:16 PM
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Most people lack focus. Willpower doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:13 PM
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People make their lives more complicated that it needs to be. I was skinny fat, you know what I did? I started shoving food in my mouth and lifting weights. There was a time I was eating 5000 kcal a day. You want to lose weight, don't eat food. It's not a big deal. Fuck the underlying issues, they are distractions. No one achieves a goal while harping on distractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:11 PM
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Well yes, but men don't make excuses for being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:04 PM

Feminist movement always had misandry. It's by design There were lot of lesbians in early feminist movement for obvious reasons. Moderate feminists have publically said it that much, that they were uncomfortable with on the face nature of that group. But now feminism has transformed into money making Machine, and they won't stop until money keep flowing. From academia to media to NGOs, this whole system is too big, it has too much inertia to change. With Trump they are gonna make more money, rad…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:31 AM
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Asa sleezebag myself, I concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:14 AM
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Don’t be reactive, be congruent These are what we call, rules of thumb. Training wheels to get you started. But they don't provide you with real improvement. Why? Because by not reacting to her, you are still reacting to her. We told you that it is the right thing to do, and it is, so when she rejects you, or whatever you don't react because it's the right things to do. But you are still in her frame. Difference appears subtle but it's not. It's very glaring. If you are being "non reactive" beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/24 05:17 PM
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Look at you, asking the right questions. I will fire up my laptop.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/24 04:44 PM
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I edited it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:49 PM
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I will reply to your comment later. I pinky promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:44 PM
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I am trying, you keep interrupting me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:38 PM
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Edit: wrong sub..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:35 PM

I forgot about this thread. Ignore my comments, I was solving a crossword with someone. I will get back to you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:31 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:24 PM
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Edit: wrong sub..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:19 PM

It's not like he was fucking models, he was fucking average looking bored housewives. Dude is in shape and probably had a bit of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:12 PM
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He is a civil servant, apparently does porn as a hobby lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:03 PM

Best healthcare system is of Singapore. Medisave- they made it mandatory for people to save money for health issues. Medishield- they made it mandatory for their citizens to have insurance for catastrophic illnesses like cancer and dialysis etc. It's like $150 a year. Medifund- they subsidize healthcare for people who can't afford anything if they can prove it. On top of that they have strict drug pricing. They made it mandatory for hospitals to tell price and average prices of nearby hospitals.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:33 PM

American healthcare system is based on insurance alone. Which makes hospitals charge a lot of money from insurance company and insurance companies in turn spread that cost to everyone. It's a scam. Hospitals and insurance companies win, consumer lose. If we limit insurance to extreme cases like cancer or dialysis and stuff and make everyone pay for their medical bills with their own money(with subsidies and reimbursement for extremely poor) and ensure price transparency, we will have more compet…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:44 AM

China is in a very precarious position. It has created an export oriented economy and it tried to turn to a consumption based economy after 2008 and was making gains when covid happened and US govt decided to give the people stimulus checks and Americans decided to shop their sorrows away. So Chinese factories started churning goods and all the progress was lost. Tariffs are not meant to decrease price, they are meant to make US manufactured products more competitive in US markets which will in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:34 AM
1

No, but it could have went full Taliban route.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:21 AM

Women: I am gonna lose my reproductive rights ... Men: first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:30 PM
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Fine!! women have right to vote because men decided that it's the right thing to do. Women can work because men thought it was right thing to do. It was men who passed the 19th amendment. All Democrats had to do was to tell men, vote for us and this is what we are gonna to do for you. End conscription, criminalize paternity fraud, make custody default equal, give you reproductive rights like financial abortion. In return men would have voted for your abortion rights and other reproductive rights…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:24 AM
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Yeah so your plan is to insult men and then demand they vote for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:16 AM
2

Yeah so your plan is to insult men and then demand they vote for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:16 AM

It's the entitlement that comes from a perceived moral superiority. They are blatantly refusing to face the reality that men actually matter. But they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:21 AM
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All I am saying is you don't get to insult men and then throw a tantrum that they didn't vote for people who insulted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:20 AM
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Nah, You are not entitled to men's vote. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:08 AM
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U want men to vote for you, least you could do is ask nicely. Insulting men and then throwing a tantrums when the same men who you insulted didn't vote for you is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:47 AM
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No one told you to bow down to conservatives. Just dont alienate those who will vote for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:46 AM
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Then democrats did a very poor job for fighting for interests of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:44 AM
4

You think only conservative men voted for Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:43 AM
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44 percent men voted for Harris. You are free to alienate them too. Conservatives are coming and if you think there is a way out of this mess that doesn't involve men then you are out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:42 AM
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You don't really have a choice. Conservatives are coming for your rights, only way you can stop them in 2 or 4 years is if you can get non conservative men to vote alongside you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:26 AM
5

And how is that gonna help you guys in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:21 AM
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Don't believe me if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:17 AM
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If I wanted maga I would have voted for Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:07 AM
2

I think women should give the same respect to men that they keep demanding men give to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:20 AM
1

Yeah, but it negates any, "I have it worse " argument
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:17 AM
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Yeah yeah I know how Harris campaign tried to court men. "Vote for us, no one will know". Or that stupid fucking advertisement Where instead of focussing on men's issues they spent time telling men that "real men" care for women's issues and support women in their lives. And how Waltz is supporting Harris and he doesnt feel insecure. It's like the whole agenda of democratic party was prepared by a tonedeaf tumbler feminist. Like they never asked men what they want, they made shit in their minds …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:39 PM
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Let's see, end affirmative action, criminalize paternity fraud, make divorce laws fair, make equal custody default, end conscription or make it gender neutral. Pass the equal rights amendment. End any sort of govt funding to gender studies and feminist academia. Actively oppose man haters women Start giving men the respect women demand from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:35 PM
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You can't demand something unless you give something in return. What did men ask any ways. Equal rights. Instead of telling men to do the right thing, why didn't democrats bring men to the table and tell them, that they will support both men and women. So fucking simple. It would have benefitted everyone. Basic human rights my ass, men are conscripted in this country. You are lecturing about human rights? How about this, you support financial abortion and equal custody rights , we will support a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:27 PM
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I get what you are saying but the audacity for women to demand men vote for women's interests is just not palpable to me. They won't even let men discuss their issues. They come up with garbage ideas like air conditioning is sexist. Their feminist overlords bragged that their purses are made of men's foreskin, they still actively support Amber heard. They made fun of men's loneliness crisis, they even made fun of men's suicide rates. So why should men vote for interests of women??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:58 PM
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Oval office has enough couches to distract him for 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:39 PM
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Hey look, you want something from men, vote for your rights, you need to give something in return. Support for their rights. Protection against paternity fraud, equal custody rights, humane child support laws, better college enrolment for men, better schooling for men so that they don't drop out, ending conscription. But you guys don't even want these issues to be discussed, when men's rights activists dare to have a conference you guys illegally pull fire alarm. You censor us, belittle us, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:36 PM
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What I am saying is, if you don't reward men for voting blue, you can't punish men for voting red by not dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:50 PM
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Okay? But it's not like you are not gonna reject people who voted for Kamala Harris, like yours truly. So it's not that big of a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:40 PM
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JD problem can be solved once he enters the oval office. lots of couches there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:17 PM
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I just meant that they are not like KKK. Hispanic community can be very racist, like Asians. But that's because they are very community oriented. Not because they think black people are inferior to them like white people, but because they just want to be left alone. They bring their own culture with them, and it's makes sense that when they come to a foreign land, they will stick together. They are not gonna go around fighting a race war or anything. They are religious, they are conservative and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:52 PM
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Punish him? Dude should get a BJ lol. But Hispanics are not to blame here, they have always been socially conservative. It's not like they are hateful or anything, they just dont care for trans gender issues and stuff imposed upon them Obama won Florida, he was the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:57 PM
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I am not happy about it. But it was my party who betrayed me, they refused to acknowledge the pain and suffering and tried to coast on Identity politics. When Obama defeated Romney, republicans had one focus, get Hispanic votes. It's not like they were secretive about it. But Dems didn't care, they knew Hispanics are socially conservative, but they kept increasing lunacy of identity politics. Trump win because of Hispanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:48 PM
1

I believe you as much as I can believe a stranger. That's the best you gonna get from me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:41 PM
1

Lol,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:08 PM
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I said it won't change how men vote. But if a woman can't even earn enough to get an abortion then she should not be having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:07 PM

I was and still am a Bernie bro. He cared about working class men. Democrats need to go full blown FDR on USA's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:05 PM

Go to the police, get the criminal convicted. I would never assume she was asking for it, I would assume that there is a chance that she is lying and I would reserve my judgement until the courts examine the evidence. Asking for a concrete evidence before believing a stranger is not a bad thing. I have the right to say " I dont know what happened"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:03 PM

Men die in military so it balance out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:53 PM

"I will not give you cake" - Marie Antoinette
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:22 PM
1

If you want men to pay, give them a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:02 PM

I am not, she brought it up here in this thread to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:01 PM
1

Their choice their responsibility. If you give choice to men then they should pay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:00 PM

It's on women to pay for abortion. Their body their choice their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:51 AM

Buying stocks for snakemaster9
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:44 AM

Average man is capable of earning an honest living
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:43 AM

No, Dems knew it for a year. There were articles about it circulating for a year. They didnt give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:42 AM

Deal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:41 AM

Well here is the things, most people who are actually r@ped don't go around using that fact to get attention or win internet argument,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:40 AM

All i am saying is you can't threaten to take away sex when you haven't given it in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:24 AM

Yes, just stop whining. You don't deserve to have sex if you can't even afford to get an abortion. Get your shit together first, I don't wanna hear excuses like I didn't have the money to go to another state.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:46 AM

Of course it will... I am not a republican. Democrats knew that they were losing men's support and didn't do anything substantial about it. Everyone's gonna pay for DNC's inactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:07 AM

Ah well, feminists movement always had an undertone of racism, anti semitism and misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:04 AM

The "believe women" thing is not good for anyone. Can I empathize with her, sure. But I also have to factor in " the mattress girl" and how she lied about being analy r@ped and destroyed an innocent mans life. It's not hatred for women, it's me acknowledging that women like the mattress girl exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:35 AM

If a woman doesn't even have a car to drive herself or can't even buy a bus ticket, then instead of having sex she should be working two jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:25 AM

Avoiding divorce, getting a beta to raise her kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:21 AM

Just because I listen to them doens't mean I agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:20 AM

Let's not gets our hopes up. This is what Harris did to get male voters. Drank beer at a pub and a campaign ad where they told men that real men support women to succeed. No talk about male suicide, loneliness, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:19 AM

Lol no. Harris even underperformed in New York.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:17 AM

Right? It's like men are not entitled to sex no matter how nice they are. So they won't lose on sex by not being nice. It shows that women only have sex to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:15 AM

I mean they were trying to take away the meager benefits men get from getting forcefully conscripted (the same benefits WOMEN can get if they enlist in military) They were bound to lose, even if they "decenter men" or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:13 AM

I am so sorry you went through that( if you actually went through that.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:10 AM

Male loneliness epidemic is men's fault. All men can hit the gym from time to time and string post wall women along.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:39 AM

Well yes, but they didn't even show up to vote. If women wanted their rights so much, they should have voted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:34 AM

Well yes, But women will not be able to do it for too long. Divorces, breakups and many things can happen Not to mention women wanting a nice beta to settle down with. Sex is kinda essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:31 AM

Women didn't even show up to vote for Harris. Let that sink in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:25 AM

Yup, I luv listening to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:24 AM

South Korea still elected an antifeminist to the blue house
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:23 AM
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If she wont shit test you, why dont you make her shit test you. Be illogical and fill her up with emotions. Stir up non sensical arguments, and don't back down. Make them seem very important and make her doubt her own frame. She will shit test you and then you gonna get the sex life you want. Actually it's the most important thing. Women are not gonna love you like you want them to, they are slaves of their emotions and you are not special to her forever. It's just those emotions u give her. If …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 03:17 AM
1

Meaning comes from me, just because I can doens't mean I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:22 PM
0

Gifts come with no string attached, that works from both sides. I don't expect anything in return for the gift but with that I reserve the right to not keep giving that gift. Commitment is my choice, no one is entitled to it. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:16 PM
-1

I am the one giving it a meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:38 PM
2

I didn't say it's disgusting when women test men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:38 AM
2

I see commitment as a gift that I give to others. It comes without strong attached but it's still a gift I can take away for any reason and no reason at all. That's my frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:06 AM
1

Women are better at coping
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:04 AM
-2

I have never really read redpillwomen sidebar, What is the most important lesson u learned from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:31 PM
-3

Hey look if being metrosexual gets you result then go right ahead. It's a competitive world out there. If men don't get their physique and looks in order, they will have to make do with post wall single mothers. No one wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:27 PM
-5

No one has the right to allow or disallow you to do anything. What you can't demand is for society to change its ways to make your choices easier or beneficial for you. That's where my problem lies, when feminists what men to change or want men to do better for the benefit of women. That's not how things should work. You want to chase your ideals, go ahead. But this habit of saying men are insecure or misogynist if they don't fall in line and marry a post wall woman instead of a younger woman is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:23 PM
-10

Well you read the sidebar, most women read Jezebel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:19 PM
-3

Yes, and settling for a rusty, balding patchy dude is not necessarily having it all, it's making most of a situation. Although women have made that more difficult. Men are getting hair treatments, skin treatments, trt, etc along with gym culture to increase their odds. So future is gonna be more competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:16 PM
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Yes and that's a whole trick. Finding a right partner. They are getting rarer and with age women will become less desirable to the right partner
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:13 PM
-5

Men will never give birth to a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:07 PM
-5

Men and women lead different lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:04 PM
-5

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:03 PM
1

I have dated a woman taller than me. I can game my way out of the height barrier. I am just saying that if all women decided that no, we don't want anyone less than 6 feet tall. Then I am out of luck. I will just retire someplace and leech off of taxpayers. It's a win win either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:22 AM
1

Damn, people do have very strong feelings about this topic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:28 PM
2

There was a time I used to fantasize about living alone in wilderness. My marriage was failing and I was blue pill so I saw no way out. Now I can't fathom not being in a city, easy access to easy women is not something I can get on an isolated island
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:25 PM
2

Eh.. what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:22 PM
1

I see it in terms of standards. If man is desirable he can have standards for quality of sex life and can replace his wife if she can't meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:21 PM
-1

I said that in the post. Men will have high standards if they improve. Women can't really meet those standards because they are gonna age with time. But if a man is desirable he can replace a woman who doesnt meet his standards very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:20 PM
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Women with unrealistic standards are not gonna make good partners anyways. So it's better they self select themselves out of the market. Problem comes when those same women reduce their standards once they become single mothers. If men are forced to work on themselves, they will have high standards and will never go so low as to marry a single mother. But men have no incentive to improve themselves so low quality women get a partner. It's just bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:16 PM
1

Happiness is overrated or I just get bored very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:13 PM
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Yes? It's a dating market, everyone is like a commodity. Difference is that you can't own men, so they can leave anytime they want. It's more like a subscription model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:12 PM
-1

I was skinny fat and still manages to cheat on my ex wife. I just learned some game. If you want to get laid, you need to ask yourself, are you willing to change sides and become redpilled. If yes, then I have just the right place for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:10 PM
-1

If by treats you mean BJs, then yeah. A lot of men are out their being a good partners for 2x a year BJs. Atleast I am not that pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:07 PM
0

I mean, do u really want to procreate with a fatty who need ozempic to lose weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:06 PM
0

Well then, let's just hope all women don't decide to have 6 feet height as a cut off. I am 5'11, it would be a sad day for me. Then next day I will retire and live a nice life in the wilderness with Starlink connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:04 PM
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Yeah, but social skills can be learned. Men can improve. All I am saying is if they consciously improve themselves they will be putting in effort and would have high standards themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:02 PM
-3

Do you really want a woman who only likes 6 feet tall men but is settling with u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:01 PM
-1

Slaves dont have the right to choose their masters. I would consider myself more like a private contractor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:59 PM
-1

I mean, we sit back and choose between samsung galaxy and iphone 16. They spend millions in advertisement to convince us. That doesn't mean they are not the one raking billions in profit and flying in private jets. Just because others has the power to choose doesn't mean that we are not valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:57 PM

Basically you are allowed to do anything within the bounds of law. No one can stop u. Only choice people have is to leave you and if you add value to their lives, they won't or atleast they would find it difficult. If you don't add value to their lives, they will leave you no matter how moral you have been in your conduct. The real world is not run based on morality, it's based on value. So when you say, cheating is wrong, you may be right but if a man is not rewarded for not cheating, he is fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:35 AM
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Oh she definitely cheated. Even a blind person could see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:14 PM
1

I am curious, how would you rate youself in terms of your social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:03 PM
2

Women cheat on good looking rich men all the time. Just ask Tom Brady. It's the emotions that keep them addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:51 PM
1

Can't you see it? You wrote that comment in a very specific comment chain. Your comment was completely out of context. So only reason I can think of, for you to write that comment was because it was a force of habit. So it means you tend to do it in real life too. Especially in group settings. When another man is getting attention in the group, you probably do some sort of cheesy insult to gain attention to yourself. We call it AMoGing. It's a learned bahavior. It signifies very low self esteem.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:48 PM
1

This comment seems out of place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:38 PM
1

You want the link or not? Yes or no. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:29 PM
1

You want the link or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:27 PM
2

Paternity fraud is not ok or not okay. It is what it is, it exist. It's neither right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:25 PM
2

What do I offer her? Emotions. Very intense emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:24 PM
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All I am saying is that what you are asking has an answer but there is no way to answer it in this subreddit. It requires a seperate post and that post has been made. I offered you the link but u decided to be snarky. I asked you whether you are genuinely interested, you didn't say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:22 PM
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In an amoral world, it doesnt matter if she is right or wrong. Only thing that matters is incentive. If a man's commitment is not enough for her to not cheat then there is nothing a man can do to stop it. So only thing a man really has is his value and ability to take that value away from a woman. U are trying to being morality here. Paternity fraud may be wrong but that's not something a man can control. So it's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:20 PM
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Debate is entertainment. You don't learn anything from it If you want real answers, it will take a whole post to answer them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:15 PM
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Let's just say, I don't care about chump change. If my leaving the relationship is not enough deterrent, then there is nothing I can do about it. I am here to make lives of people around me better. If they can find some one who makes their life better than me, then I really have no way to stop them. But I do get to choose people around me. That's the way to live life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:10 PM
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I mean ppd is an entertainment sub. If u want real answers, its not the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:06 PM
2

All I am saying is I will be stupid if I don't do a dna test.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:01 PM
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It doens't make sense to give one woman more than others unless she is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:58 PM
2

I just feel that if they want serious relationship with me they need to set themselves apart from an FWB in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:57 PM
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People have different needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:56 PM
2

I mean it's like blaming a woman for wearing skimpy clothes in a dark alley. She may be victim but she has herself to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:55 PM
2

If you are actually interested there is a post on MRP about identity and morality and how we actually develop a moral framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:53 PM
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Because I don't negotiate with my partners about relationship dynamics. I engineer my life and interactions in such a way that they fall in their respective places around me. So if I am dating multiple women and a woman wants more, she will naturally become monogamous to me to set herself apart from others. I didnt demand it from her, she chose to do it herself. So there are no rules, she can change her mind anytime. It's more organic this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:52 PM
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Exactly!! I have been trying to explain this to good folks at mrp for months. It's not enough to be attractive or have options. If you are not willing to exercise those options you are not congruent. Abundance is not about having options alone. it's much much more than that. It's a simple question to ask but most men don't ask it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:46 PM
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I have a moral framework. I was raised a good boy. It's there in my head, it wont ever go away. I have carefully created a facade of amorality to dictate my life. It doens't come natural to me, it takes practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:42 PM
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I am never exclusive to anyone. It's just that I expect my partner to be exclusive to me. If they don't like it, they are free to leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:36 PM
2

Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:33 PM
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Let me explain it to you. I believe morality does not exist. That doesn't mean I don't feel right or wrong. I just think that my feelings are not real but chemicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:32 PM
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A man who doens't do dna test has himself to blame You said something about enthusiasm. I only said I am for enthusiastic consent related to sex. Not anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:30 PM
1

I don't think the man enthusiastically consented to be father of an affair child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:23 PM
2

That supposed to mean something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:20 PM
2

Then we are wasting each other's time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:19 PM
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Of course you will find it. I am not a psychopath. I just play one. It's all theatre. I feel that things are right and wrong. I have emotions. I just know that emotions are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:19 PM
1

First answer, are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:16 PM
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We never had talks of being exclusive. She just assumed I will be because she was from the get go. Now she knows that I don't plan to be exclusive, she is not a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:16 PM
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I will tell you if you answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:14 PM
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Doubt away
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:09 PM
2

I trust you guys to not be hysterical in this subreddit. This subreddit acts as a diversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:09 PM
2

I am curious, are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:08 PM
2

You don't know what mrp is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:06 PM
2

Now I am curious who is my ally here that he is replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:05 PM
2

You new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:04 PM
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I don't wanna waste my time on you. I have written a lot in MRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:03 PM
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That's how it has worked for centuries. Paternity fraud is part of being human. So is men abandoning their own children, so is abuse and neglect. It's the society that decides morality. I have no interest in morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:01 PM
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That I agree, there is no reason to justify cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:57 PM
2

She knows, I never hid it from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:56 PM
2

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:55 PM
-4

A standard female sexual strategy. Alpha fux beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:55 PM
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Are you actually interested or are being sarcastic with me? If it's the former then I can explain things but I need to know I am not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:53 PM
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Good question, I donno. If she wants to cheat, she can. She doens't even have to hide it. I won't mind. Obviously she will become less valuable than a woman who is not cheating. But it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:52 PM
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It's to do with congruency. I just don't see a man having abundance and not acting on it as congruent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:49 PM
-2

That's rather complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:45 PM
2

I have no reason to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:40 PM
-1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:38 PM
-14

Not right now. But I have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:36 PM
0

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:35 PM
-8

Good question. I donno. I can never feel how a woman would feel. But if I have an option to be a SAHD with woman as a primary earner, I would love to do it. Now I think about it, after my divorce women I dated did spend a lot on me. So I guess I kinda like being pampered. I am hot though, and I plan to remain hot for as long as I can. I don't have to go through childbirth so I will always have leverage. I can even divorce the wife and replace her with younger woman and make my ex pay me alimony.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:50 PM
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One second you waste on your wife is one second you are stealing from your future. If you are planning to waste your time, this place is not for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 03:38 PM
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Worst thing you can do when a woman is feeling emotions is to stop her from feeling emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 01:33 PM
2

There is atleast some small component of adrenal fatigue that is contributing to your improvement. Basically your body is too exhausted to give a fuck. But still, you have been improving on that front and time will test you. Some people are never taught properly to cope with stress. Over caring mothers can be a little obsessive and you as a child depend on them so when they stress over small things, you learn to do it too. Since your mother is not able to express things in a healthy way, you wer…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 01:18 PM
1

Taking a break might fix things temporarily but you need to learn to become parasympathetic nervous system dominant. Easier said than done. I have to ask, how would you describe your mother?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 12:23 PM
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Try magnesium glycinate, MgO has absorption rate of 5 percent. There is this one thing, it's a little obscure and not as simple as just taking supplements. People who are sympathetic nervous system dominant, basically overload their endocrine system till they have nothing left and it leads to their adrenal glands tapping out of exhaustion. So when you are in the "freak out" stage, unable to stop your mind from racing, your body is getting filled with heavy ass dose of cortisol and adrenaline unt…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 12:16 PM
2

That's not a mission. Those are guidelines, very good guidelines but I can't help but feel like they are more like affirmations. One generally resort to affirmations when things are not going right. With mission you need to think about the future. But it's difficult to think of the future when things are not working like you want them to be and it's easier to just focus on the present. It's a comfort mechanism, and as you may know by now it's not good for you. Regarding your energy levels, there…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 10:40 AM
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You have a classic case of "dog caught up to the car, what now?" It happens when you seek comfort in self improvement. Self improvement signifies hope that things will get better if you just follow these few simple steps. So when you actually begin to see results, you self sabotage because if you reach your goal, you won't have self improvement as a comfort source. That's the pitfall many men here fall into. Unfortunately only real way to fix this is to immerse yourself to experience the discomf…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 09:52 AM
2

Feminist invalidating men's experience. I am surprised I tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:26 AM
2

Nah I just don't think it's good for a man to put himself in harms way and potentially subject himself to litigation to save a woman. That woman may not be a false accuser, but she may divorce r@pe a man in the future or alienate her kids from their own father so that she can get more money. Again not all women but always a woman. It would have been one thing if the woman you save is a good person but you can never know. It's just makes more sense to live your own life and not go looking for tro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:09 AM
2

Well they do, ask any black dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:59 AM
-1

Sexual assault, like the Australian woman did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:47 AM
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But if a man did that, you could falsely accuse him and he will be arrested like that poor sod. Why should men help women when women falsely accuse men? Don't you give me #notallwomen garbage, I get that it's not all women but it is always a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:57 AM
0

You seriously expect men to offer to drive you. You know what happens to men who do that https://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/woman-who-accused-man-of-assault-after-he-fixed-her-car-admits-making-it-up/ICUS5UJMOCGFC664ROSQXIFZZ4/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:59 AM
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Nah, most women are not marrying men who earn significantly less than them. They still want beta who can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:55 AM
1

Yes, you can do that. As I said, it needs to be a competition of ideas. If your idea is better, women who follow it will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:33 AM
1

That is probably true, men do provide less security than a job. Even if a man is good, he may die suddenly. But a working woman can be a trad wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:58 AM
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Good, you got your data point. Here is another one. A woman froze her eggs to work on her career and even wrote a book about it. Then when she couldn't find a man in her 40s, she went to a sperm donor route but all her frozen eggs were useless. That's how things work, people learn from others mistakes and experiences. I am sure there is a trad wife out there who has 3 kids and is happy. Happier than a 40 year old childless career woman. My son's pediatrician is a very accomplished woman. More th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:51 AM
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So you made a choice based on data. Nothing wrong with it. But you shouldnt stop other women from doing the same. Consider it like an experiment of ideas, at the end of your natural life, some women will have it better. I am sure you will be happy with your PhD and a liberal husband but some women will be happy being housewives with a husband that leads the household. Idea is to let the women make a choice and share notes with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:29 AM
-4

Men are leaving Mormonism too. I don't see men joining Mormonism in droves. What I do know is that there have been a lot of born again Christian women but not so much men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:55 AM
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I am not saying that it's the right thing to do. All I am saying is that it's a valid alternative to feminist dogma and women should be allowed to explore it and share notes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:17 AM
-9

Women are leaving organized religion? Churches are filled with women, it's men who are leaving religion and not coming back. That's why church has suddenly became so accepting of single mothers. Maybe I am too old but I remember the time from my childhood where single mothers were marginalized by the church. Although church has always been a match maker for single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:12 AM
-4

Yeah, the monetization of trad wife stuff has made it essentially meaningless. But I would like to add that just because a woman make her own money does not mean she can't be a trad wjfe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:06 AM
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No, women are raised to not like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:05 AM
3

That actually I agree. Monetization of trad wife stuff has essentially made this whole movement into a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:05 AM
1

Are you saying that no court has ever been biased towards a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:35 PM
1

We are not talking about money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
1

Of course it's not woman's job to make men step up.. They should do it themselves but only if woman is with them. If she divorce the man or get herself divorced by being a bad wife, then man should be under no obligation to treat her children and children of his new wife the same. He should put more effort for woman who is staying with him to reward her for kt. It's not about controlling women, it's about influencing them. It's simple, if you are with me, you and your kids will get the benefit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
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Courts are biased against men. Even good men. So men should not feel any obligation to be good. There is no reward for being a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:25 PM
1

It is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:18 PM
1

Yes, but what's important is that the one he chose is a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:18 PM
0

They are not because it would require control over man's body. That's a big no no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:58 PM
4

Nah, it's just your entitlement talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:40 PM
0

Of course they are entitled to food, housing, education healthcare and that's why govt provide it all for them. You are asking them to be treated by their father equally. They are not entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:39 PM
0

Their mother's decisions will dictate their fate. Women should do better for the welfare of kids, they should not feel entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:23 PM
1

Sexual partner does not mean life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:10 PM
1

I am not saying men are like that. I am saying men SHOULD be like that. It will create some order in the chaotic society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:10 PM
2

Yes, them are the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:57 PM
0

Yeah they found the cats
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:56 PM
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You are seeing it from a sense of entitlement. That every child should be entitled to same things. They are not, it's for the man to decide who is more worthy. He is not obligated to do it, it's a gift from him If he gives everyone equal effort, he is denying the children of his current wife more effort. A man should be allowed to choose winners and losers among kids. It's foolish to be a commie in this regard. Dating market should be completely free of morals and completely based on doing the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:55 PM
0

Yes and no. Betas are in shortage thats why there is so much abundance of cat ladies. Beta do have standards. The more they earn the higher the standards. They are definitely not in abundance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:48 PM
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Men are dime a dozen for sex. Just because betas are fungible does not mean they are abundant. It takes resources to build a good beta provider. Education, job training, nurturing the career etc. All it takes is one setback and you have a man working for minimum wage in his 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:35 PM
2

Why did u marry her?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 06:14 AM
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You passed the shit test. She was most likely actually sick. You unknowingly passed a shit test, that's what progress looks like, it starts to come naturally to you. It translates into your mannerism and behaviour which generates attraction. The underlying frame should be of abundance and outcome independence. Which you were able to demonstrate when she preemptively rejected sex from you. But a man with abundance won't care, because he can get sex elsewhere very easily. I find it easy to underst…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 05:50 AM
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Was your wifey always fat, greasy and unwiped? If no then what changed?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 05:26 AM
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Then why I just got notification of 10 upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:24 AM
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Yes and my judgement of American public transit system is based on facts, but I am not getting a Tram line near me anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:09 PM
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Anyone can judge anyone. I can judge taylor swift for being a post wall crazy chick who can't keep a man. But she is too busy counting piles of cash in her private jet to give a shit. Judgement is worth nothing. We have freedom of thought because our thoughts are worthless. When they get worth something, we get a patent or a copyright and make them not free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:05 PM
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I had a high pitch voice, I started meditation and it got deep. It's something to do with being parasympathetic nervous system dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:58 PM
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That's a bad argument, you can be a fat slob and judge all you want. Relationships are completely voluntary, if an obese chick things Ryan Gosling is plain looking, she is welcome to not date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:54 PM
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Women get ick from men because alpha fucks beta bucks equation is mismatched. It has nothing to do with housework or shower. If your wife is getting the ick from you, you have fallen into beta bucks role. Icks happens because she does not want to have sex with you and unconsciously making up reasons to make you unattractive to her. What actually happening in the background is also interesting. She has created a spectre in her mind, an ideal man, and she is comparing her man to that ideal man. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:51 PM
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Use more words
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:09 PM
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Excuse me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:58 PM
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Yup, it's like people are so blinded Prenups saves a lot of money from going to lawyers, and DNA tests can only have positive outcomes, if you do it right. Instead of digging heals, just accept that bad people exist and it's okay to protect yourself.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/24 05:06 AM
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Prenups are not just for protecting assets they can also save you a lot of money on litigation. You can add a arbitration clause in it, you can sort out premarital assets in it so that later on you are not stuck with deposition after deposition to determine your assets ownership. Regarding DNA tests, just do it in secret or tell her before you are getting married, so she can make an informed decision. If she agrees, then she is less likely to commit paternity fraud because she knows you are gonn…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 04:05 PM
1

I have as much proof as feminists have that r@pe is not prosecuted at the rate it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:28 AM
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Perjury is hardly prosecuted. What should happen is 20 years mandatory sentence for perjury. Plus Men should be able to petition the court to prosecute their accuser is probable cause exist. Prosecutorial discretion should be limited here. They along with police should be forced to investigate if probable cause exist for perjury. That's when I will accept this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:27 AM
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Guilty as charged. But I am really hot and I make no effort to remain unavailable to other women. So my gf becomes really insecure and anxious at times. Because of that she do things like cook and clean for me to relieve her anxiety. Nesting instinct is a very interesting thing in women. I am actually very independent person. I have organized my life to such a degree that she barely had anything she could have done for me so I have to create extra work for her. I do game her a lot which is what …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:55 AM
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Men can be victims but I still won't support defamation of woman perpetrator without evidence. I would prefer a govt program for counseling and possible financial assistance for victims. But I would still ask for definite evidence before punishing a woman perpetrator. You just don't understand that it's not okay to accuse people without evidence. There are ways to help the victim without baselessly defaming someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:33 AM
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Well if they are impossible to prove then so be it. Just dont try to reduce the burden of proof and throw away the doctrine of innocent until proven guilty. There is no reason you can't give support to alleged victim without resorting to extra judicial justice or defamation of alleged perpetrator. What is more dangerous is you trying to punish men for something without proof. You don't want to support women you just want to demonize men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:24 AM
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We can always teach women not to falsely accuse. But I prefer very harsh punishment for false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:10 AM
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I would love to fuck you sideways, well mostly, depends on how you know.. conditions apply. Men who do the study, spread their knowledge for free. They dont get money. You can't study without being open and free that's how it works. We dint have millions of budgets like gender study majors have. We are just dudes who share notes and test each other's theories in real world and share results. If someone is monetising it, they are not doing the study. Redpill is more like Wikipedia, in a way. Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:28 PM
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Red pillers have to dehumanize women. But they also dehumanize men. At its core redpill is a study of intersexual dynamics. Redpill see men and women like a war strategist would see soldiers. Not like humans but more like agents at react to certsin things in certain way. Feminism on the other hand is something more sinister. Because they only dehumanize men, not women. So for them, men's suicide is not a big deal and mostly fault of men themselves for being toxic masculine. But manspreading is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:56 PM
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They allowed other women when case was not about them. You can read the judgement. Regarding bill cosby, you can read the judgement of supreme court. It's free to download.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:33 PM
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They didnt get due process. That's why their convictions were overturned. Why are you being so dense? They may have committed those crimes but they didn't get a fair trial. That's not an opinion, that's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:30 PM
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Johnny depp gave testimony and it stood against cross examination. As feminists like to say, verbal testimony is evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:27 PM
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A link would suffice. Thank you in advance :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:25 PM
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You are welcome to go live in north korea if you dont like due process. I like due process, I like that govt is not supreme. I like that a black man who was convicted, learned law in prison, and then approached the supreme court arguing that because he couldn't afford a lawyer, he was not given a fair trial and fucking win. Now all people have right to be provided a court appointed attorney. I am very protective of my rights, I am always weary of government overreach. I believe the people who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:23 PM
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So you do not believe in believe women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:15 PM
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Nah, it was Obama era guidelines that started it all and court cases that smacked down the arrogance of universities. Then trump reversed it The title ix guidelines requiring due process are because of Betsy devos. Feminists are pulling the strings in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:15 PM
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Very influential ones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:11 PM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:10 PM
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Influential ones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:10 PM
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Feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:09 PM
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Well they tried to exempt cross examination. So i can't really understand what you are getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:07 PM
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Nah they were just irritated that men have rights. If cross examination is harassment then you are welcome to not go through with it. But without it your testimony is as useless as a used toilet paper
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:05 PM
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If it's false, it's false. Evidence is essential Murder is serious, so we require evidence for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:02 PM
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He didn't poop in her bed and chop her finger. I call that not being an abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:01 PM
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Feminists are also gender studies experts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:00 PM
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So you are okay with women not getting their 5th amendment rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:59 PM
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Feminist lobbied Obama administration to exempt women from cross examination in college campuses and succeeded until trump reversed it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:58 PM
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Weinstein is in jail in California. He shouldnt have been convicted in New York in the first place. Judge fucked up. California is special case where they have specifically allowed irrelevant testimonies in such cases. I don't know why that law has not been challenged in courts but it seems to go against the principle of natural justice. Cosby shouldn't have been in jail in the first place. The judge was corrupt or incompetent or whatever. 5th amendment rights are bedrock of this country's legal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:55 PM
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No feminists want to be able to do it without letting their accused be able to face them. They don't like when women are cross examined
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:46 PM
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I said victims should come forward on the stand under oath with cross examination. Like Johnny depp did. Not the bullshit defamation that Amber heard did with her article.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:43 PM
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Do you agree with people who tell women that they are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:41 PM
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Where is the fun in that? I like overconfident feminists claim moral high ground then being smacked down by actions of their own sisterhood
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:37 PM
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Now you are just being dense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:34 PM

Judges went to law school and passed the bar you dumbo. They are by definition not average. Experts are expert in specific subject, not specific situation. Juries are very heavily regulated in a trial by the judge and they are decider of facts. Not experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:33 PM
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No, I whole heartedly supported when Johnny depp a victim spoke on the stand and told us his story and faced cross examination like a truthful man. I don't support baseless defamation in a tabloid. You want to tell your story, fine. Get on the stand, take the oath under threat of perjury, then tell your story and face the cross examination. Then I will support you speaking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:29 PM
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I just think that accused and accuser should be subjected to same standard of proof. In courts it's beyond reasonable doubt for both. Feminists should not say that they don't need proof to accuse men but then demand proof if woman is accused of lying. If you don't need evidence in court of public opinion, then we should be allowed to treat women who accused the same as man who was accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:25 PM
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Fortunately no, universities are not that powerful. They are bound by contract since students are technically customers and they can't kick you out just because they feel like it. They need evidence. It was Obama administration that under pressure of feminists tried to take away due process rights of men. But it backfired and men are winning cases left and right against universities. Trump reversed the guidelines, and Biden has not reinstated them, wonder why? Because it just opens the universit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:21 PM
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I can guess why you don't have a problem. You are a feminist, you dehumanize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:16 PM
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Weinstein was acquitted in new york on appeal because they brought in other women who were not related to his case. Cosby's case was so severe violation of 5th amendment that he was acquitted with 6-1 majority in supreme court. Why do you think presecutors and judges violated their fundamental rights? Because feminists told them to, pressured them to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:13 PM
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The jury agreed that Amber Heard was lying. I watched the trial. I would consider Popping on the bed and finger chopping that almost lead to his death as abuse. But you do you. Experts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:12 PM
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I got you www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna56629
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:09 PM
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www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna56629
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:06 PM
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Women != Feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:05 PM
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Nah, it's most. Go to Twox, and other feminist subreddit like askfeminists and feminism and you would find outpouring support for Amber heard. How many feminist organizations wrote open letter to support Amber Heard again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:03 PM
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Do you agree with them doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:01 PM
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Presumption of innocence, extends beyond the court of law. I gotta ask, if a woman comes forward with an allegation, should she be presumed to be not lying by general public or is the general public allowed to boycott her, fire her etc without any evidence that she is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:00 PM
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My way of dealing with my ex was to game her. Until I got sick and started ignoring her and she had a mental breakdown in front of me. It was like watching a junkie. Now she is hooked on medication and everyone is miserable especially my son. It's all about emotions to them, they just feel very strongly for their children and become addicted to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/24 08:02 AM
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For however long I can remember, the feeling of surety made me very uncomfortable. Now I realize that what my mind was telling me is that I was suffering from intellectual laziness. I always believed that other people were like me in that regard, but as it turns out most of them are not. My belief was just another case of my intellectual laziness.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 05:41 PM
1

The essence of MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 05:37 PM
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It's actually my MO, I say some of the most gayest shit to women and they pounce on it like they have seen blood and shit test begins almost instantly. It saves a lot of time. Game is about controlling the narrative anyways, having control of when shit tests will come, just makes life easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 05:31 PM
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I hardly think a woman will go through that thought process after passing her shit test. Even If she does, she will just give another shit test which one can always pass. It's the frame that matters,
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 03:33 PM
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There is a decent chance that your erections are improving due to your improved mental models. Alright let's do an exercise, what do you think is the relationship between comfort and vulnerability?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 01:22 PM
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I may be wrong, but if I was judging my progress, I wont be butthurt, but rather excited when I fail because failure is how you know where your weak points are. But you didn't fail, you didn't even see it through.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 01:11 PM
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My wife said “ok, let’s get the kids down and let me have a shower first”. If you did redl YaReally stuff you would know that this was her very transparent attempt to break the state. Women do that a lot when they are feeling horny-ish but man is acting like a loser. Because emotional stimulation can make them horny but attraction is something different. You can't really blame them, they risk being pregnant when they have sex and they would just prefer not to fuck if the man in vicinity is not h…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 11:58 AM
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He is just 23, he is practically a child who has found himself with knowledge that has the potential to give him so much power that he can even comprehend the whole scope of it. He is gonna be a little delusional. But reality will find a way to smack him down. Question then remains is whether he can get up. If he can, then he has very bright future.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 10:27 AM
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She didn’t come or come anywhere close, but she clearly enjoyed the experience. Afterwards she was cuddled into me a like a child and I could tell she wanted to feel me all around her like a protector, which is new. "She comes first" is a commie-feminist propaganda to turn men into losers or it is just men seeking validation of their self worth from making a woman orgasm, don't know for sure. I initiated in bed, but got a hard no. The plot thickens. The state broke and it can be re-established a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 09:31 AM
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you should stop your cut, I want your arms to look bigger Don't worry babe, something more important will look bigger. feel that it’s critical that I come up with unique and interesting date ideas to win the approval of my LTR so that she’ll love me and so that she’ll help me meet my needs. If I don’t come up with good date ideas she’ll lose interest, leave me, and I’ll be abandoned Lack of abundance, lack of prize mentality, lack of non loser mentality, you get the gist. Good thing it's all fix…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 09:13 AM
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Yes, sue Amber Heard if you are so offended
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:08 PM
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Finally you are asking the right questions. When you accept the pain, when you stop hiding away from pain, it stops having power on you. If you are hiding from pain then you jump to your bad mental models, drinking, porn, etc. We ask ourselves a question, how exactly do we hide from pain, by distractions, by defense mechanisms etc. Accepting your reality is the first step, it's not giving up. Giving up would be doing nothing to change. By refusing to accept your reality how would you figure out …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/24 05:38 AM
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Don't hide from the truth, don't hide from the pain.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 01:54 PM
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Let me do it for you since you are not capable of doing it for yourself. You are a man who is married to a woman who doesnt desire you, who plays games with your head and like a loser you are, you get played every fucking time. You are a man who can't look himself in the mirror and can be honest with himself because you don't like the man you see in the mirror. You are a man who is afraid of showing true vulnerability even with an anonymous account on a subreddit where no one knows and will ever…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 01:44 PM
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Good question. Why only older men have to answer that question and not poor sinple mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:10 AM
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No child ever volunteers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:07 AM
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They just need to look after their health, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:01 AM
1

Yeah well, you can't win it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:52 AM
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All young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:51 AM
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No it's not a valid argument. Do you stop those people in Africa from reproducing. You can't legally, it's violation of Genocide convention. Stopping a group from reproducing is sufficient condition for genocide. All I am saying is before stopping a 50 yo dude with million dollar assets from reproducing, stop the people in Africa who can't feed their own kids. I am not gonna judge anyone, you want to do the judging There is no way older man in America can't give better life to his child than som…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:50 AM
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Birthing mother volunteered for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:46 AM
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Dick is more on the lines of cardiovascular health. So he needs to be able to run for 5 miles without losing breath. He needs to have potassium rich diet, potatoes are king of potassium. He needs to eat nitrate rich foods. They increase blood flow. That how viagra works. Turns out testosterone levels are not much correlated to ED issues. It's the deficiency of nitric oxide that leads to erection issues. But testosterone replacement is gaining steam if you still want it. My neighbour is doing ket…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:45 AM
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What does adjusting for maternal age even means? Child spends 9 months in the womb, even medication can affect the child
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:41 AM
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that why men need to lift weights. No one likes saggy skin, that's why I don't date women who.have given birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:39 AM
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Dude, or girl whatever. There are children being born in poverty in Asia and Africa who can't eat 2 times a day. A child born to an older father with million dollar in savings is way ahead in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:30 AM
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Obviously not, but it doens't have to compete with younger dude sperm. A 20 year old with good sperm is broke man and will probably leave his preggo gf to fend for herself. A 50 year old dude who is retired with money can support kid better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:28 AM
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No one who have kids has non selfish reasons to have kids. So people in their 50s are not special. Do you know PETA once sponsored an Indian vegetarian dude who had a kid when he was 92. Their slogan was, he still got it That dude died when he was 104, but not from old age but from a fire. So how do we even define selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:17 AM
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Women are is many cases naturally sterlized I read somewhere that in like 1970s or 80s India did forced sterlisation of men. India's first woman prime minister lost the next election time. Then got reelected again and never reconstituted forced sterlization. Wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:14 AM
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Are those studies taking into account the age of mother?? I would like to see the studies conducted with old fathers and young mothers to actually believe that fathers age is culprit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:10 AM
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Feminists are the one who are shaming men though So you can limit this discussion to them I can't touch grass by going outside, it's all pavement and concrete. I have to drive to the park for some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:38 AM
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You need consistency in shaming though. As long as women are not shamed for having kids late, men shouldn't be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:34 AM
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I told you to NOT write what you need to do. Delete the last line and we are getting somewhere. I want you to be comfortable with not knowing the answer, I like you to be comfortable with not knowing the steps you need to take. Accept your reality without judgement and stop chasing the solution. Have you watched fight club? When Tyler durden poured lye on the hand of Edward Norton and told him to stop running away from pain. Stop going to happy place, stop and feel the pain in its full glory. It…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 05:09 AM
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Your bad relationship with sex lead to you dick malfunctioning on you. Something something validation something. You know the theory, no need to waste our time with it. I would like to point out that if you want sex, you can just get it by fucking other women. It's not that you are not getting sex, you are choosing not to. So that means you want sex from your wife specifically. So it's not about sex. It's about your wife and you judging your self worth by how much she is willing to fuck you. . R…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 06:23 PM
3

The North Wind and The Sun The North Wind boasted of great strength. The Sun argued that there was great power in gentleness. "We shall have a contest," said the Sun. Far below, a man traveled a winding road. He was wearing a warm winter coat. "As a test of strength," said the Sun, "Let us see which of us can take the coat off of that man." "It will be quite simple for me to force him to remove his coat," bragged the Wind. The Wind blew so hard, the birds clung to the trees. The world was filled…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 03:34 PM
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I notice trouble with my cardiovascular system. for example during hikes I'm quite fast out of breath, become light headed or have pressure on my ears A cardio stress test at hospital is an option. They hook you to a treadmill and measure your heart activity, oxygen and stuff and make you stress your heart to see if there is a problem. If you find your cardio is not improving with time, then stress test is good idea. Also get a heart rate monitor, when you do cardio and try to keep your heart ra…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 01:14 PM
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Let me help you change the last one. I lost my job because my boss's wife flirted with me in front of his face. Then it was like someone was always watching me at the work, I thought I was being paranoid, no biggy. Then I heard the chime on my phone and the email, which said, "my services are no longer required". I slept for days, it's like dark shadow was looming over me. But I crawled out of that space and now I have a job that I like, helpful colleagues, very good internet speed for porn and …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 12:54 PM
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They sucks ass. Logic per sentence ratio is too much, emotion per sentence ratio is too low. Remember we are not giving information here, we are giving emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 12:33 PM
1

Let's hear those stories. Also point out the emotions in those stories.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 10:33 AM
1

How the fuck did you get to 420lb in the first place?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 10:08 AM
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Never be in a position where I feel I lack abundance with regards to women and set myself up for success with any current or potential future long term relationship. Here is what you are gonna do on Thursday or whenever your next date is. Instead of taking her to dinner, take her to a social place especially somewhere where women are but not somewhere loud or disconnected. So no loud pubs or bars. Feed her emotions, shove emotions down her throat and keep shoving them until you think she has eno…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 10:03 AM
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This "stuff" is not simple. It looks simple but when you try to apply this knowledge you gonna struggle. Because any loser can lift weights and get shredded. Monkey pick weight, money eat chicken and rice. It's not complicated Leadership, abundance, outcome independence, frame control. These are not things you are born with, they are the things you learn and it's not like learning maths. It's waging war against your own mind and delve into discomfort like you never felt before till you come out …
/r/askMRP22/09/24 04:55 AM
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A stable marriage is good for kids. No argument here. But I don't think men should do what's best for kids if that means being unhappy Women can fuck their husbands and create stable relationship but they feel no such obligation. So men should not burden themselves with the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:38 PM
1

Instability is not a bad thing for relationship, it's bad for kids. Instability is actually very good for a healthy sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:28 PM
1

And there in lies the problem. Incentive structure of marriage is such that it stops marriage from becoming stable. When a woman can make you legally raise another man's child then marriage becomes too one sided legally and has to be counterbalanced by infidelity from husband. Because if men can't win, they can make you lose with them Marriage is either win win or lose lose. No in.between.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:17 PM
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No, no one gets to tell you whether u can have sex or not regardless of monogamy. Its your body and no one had right over your body. They only have right over their body. They can refuse to have sex they can't stop you from having sex with other people. I never said cheating makes marriage stable. A stable relationship is one where husband is sexually satisfied by his wife because deadbedrooms make inherently unstable relationship. Cheating in a dead bedroom is just replacing one cause of instab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:08 PM
1

Hey look if a woman rejects me once, I don't care, twice I don't care. For a week, big deal. For a month, you bet your ass I am fucking other women. If my own partner doens't want to have sex with me then I dont really take it personally. She doesn't so she doens't I am not gonna beg for sex or romance. But I want it and nothing is gonna change that. So I will get what I want, I am not gonna jerk off to porno like a loser. I wanna get laid so I will get laid. I don't think any one has the right …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:28 PM
1

For men? It just limit their options. Trade off is that it provides stability to kids and family. And easy access to sex with one woman. But men are being lied about it. Only way to have guaranteed access to have high quality sex is to keep your options open. Relying on one woman even if it's your wife is losing strategy because she can just refuse to have sex and then you are left with jerking off in garage like a loser. So if a woman provides yoh with healthy sex life then you don't need to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:09 PM
1

You are not completely wrong. I was not attractive when I was married to my ex. So obviously sex wasn't that great. I went from skinny fat loser to ripped chad and sex still wasn't that great just that it was easier to game women. What worked was understanding that a woman get horny when they feel emotions. I am currently fucking my therapist (long story short I am an idiot) and it's like my gf can sense it and is being extra horny . It's not attractiveness that leads to good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:25 PM
1

Short window is the key. You need to do test very fast after child is born
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:57 PM
0

I do cheat a lot. I cheated on my ex wife although we were seperated but not really. She then decided to divorce and is now 5 years later trying to wiggle into my life. I cheated on my ex gf when she was being a bitch and made sure she knew about it. She fucked my brains out when she found out. My gf got extra horny when she found out my ex wife made food for me when I was sick. Cheating works, dread works. Men who don't cheat are just not capable of cheating. Those men are just not attractive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:56 PM
1

Men are victim of paternity fraud and feminists want men to raise those children or pay child support Until that is reality of this situation, men have to cheat. Otherwise it will be difficult for them to leave their wives and they won't suspect paternity fraud until it's too late. I don't understand how one person cheating has to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:55 AM
1

Well then, all that is left to do is make sure to destroy everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:18 AM
1

That how world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:09 AM
2

I don't give a shit what normal people do. Women send men in jail for dv, men can send women jail of paternity fraud. And yes, I do think paternity fraud is worse than domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:03 AM
2

Oh no, in France you can get test through courts with consent of wife Best way to do it is to ask for her consent when she is pregnant. If she refuses, then get a mistress and spend all your savings on the said mistress(important because ugliest man can get a mistress if he is willing to spend money) On top of that, fuck the said mistress in front of your wife on your marital bed. The mere threat of it will make a woman consent to DNA test if she is innocent. If she is not, She will lose hope an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:49 AM
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So are you ok with prison sentence for women who commit paternity fraud? If you are not, men have to cheat on their wives, because if she is committing paternity fraud, he needs to have another option. If she is faithful and he still do test, he hurt his relationship so he needs other option because his wife can't get over her childish feelings to empathize with her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:09 AM
2

Then he will get divorced. And wife will not have to pay child support for the affair child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:39 AM
1

Wife is not made to pay child support for hsuband's bastard child. She can divorce him and remove herself from the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:38 AM
0

Isn't that what women say, if man want paternity test they are projecting and they are the ones who are cheating. If that's true then we got to make as many men as we can to cheat on their wives so that they project it on their wives and get paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:36 AM
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Women having sex with other men while in relationship is necessary for paternity fraud. Women having sex with their husband does not lead to paternity fraud. So yes, it is advisable to women to not fuck other men while being in relationship so that they could avoid committing paternity fraud. Losing a child is a risk people are willing to take when having a child. So govt provide free vaccination, child safety car seats laws, strict laws for crime against children, laws against negligence that l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:34 AM
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Just because you kinda know doens't mean you will take preventive actions evident by the fact that paternity tests are not that common. Cheating helps men believe their wives could cheat so they do paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:49 AM
5

So what? Makeup is woman's strategy, doesn't mean I don't wear makeup. Monkey branching gives you better outcomes, that why women do it. Men are fools to not learn from women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:47 AM
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Of course there is a logical reason. He cheats so he knows that others are capable of cheating. If he doens't cheat, then he kinda knows that his wife could cheat but he won't believe it enough to get a dna test
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:43 AM
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People cheat for stupid reasons like feelings. But men who trust their wives are not cheaters Trust is necessary condition for paternity Fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:34 AM
0

That may be the blue pill solution. But I say you need a replacement ready before u divorce. It's just a smart move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:28 AM
0

Except in France you do,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:35 AM
1

Stay here my man, We want to be wrong, so that we can learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 06:47 PM
1

I will give you fair warning. You have put Christianity on pedestal which I can understand. It's not my place to tell you what to believe but as soon as you actually start absorbing this material you will face the incongruency between your faith and redpill. When you see the truth being played out in front of you, you won't have a choice but to face it. Then you will have a decision to make, go where truth leads you or turn a blind eye. And you WILL turn a blind eye until you get frustrated enou…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 04:26 PM
1

Weight loss is calorie in<calorie out. But if you want fast results check r/dryfasting You can pay bills directly from the bank account, doesnt your bank provide online banking or a debit card? I don't even know what to say about that mission but you don't need redpill for that. Why are you here exactly?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 03:54 PM
1

You want quick fix? Learn game, it will have the best ROI
/r/askMRP19/09/24 02:09 PM
1

Do you think this dude has congruency to pull it off?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 12:11 PM
2

Screw your wife. You have bigger fish to fry. Your weight and your credit card use. Don't use credit cards, cut them up throw them away(or cancel them if you are civilized) Now if you are busy with a mission that you believe in, you will find easier to say no to your wifey. But what I don't see a mission, what I see is a losely formed patchwork of bullshit. Lose the weight and learn some game.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 08:41 AM
2

There is a difference between a gunslinger and a leader. You can dominate anyone you want if you hold the cards but that doesn't mean they are gonna like you. I have been getting into lots of international relations and one thing I realised is that there is always a cost to pay when you impose.your will on others, whether that is a loss of goodwill, or whether that is the direct loss of money or troops. It's always better to negotiate a win win no matter how unfair you think that is. Because the…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/24 04:37 AM
1

Everyone needs to be high on something to feel alive. Whether that's some hormone, feeling or belief. Because however much we say that we are our point of origin, there is in reality no such thing. We always react to something, always. That's how our brain work, neurons fire because of something else. The best we can do is create a core belief system, and train our brain to use it as a default. We call it our frame. So we see and react to world according to our point of origin. But it does not p…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 03:59 AM
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I see what horns sees in you. You just never stop moving forward. Sometimes frustratingly slow, making stupid mistakes but still moving forward. Lots of fun is yet to come. Life is like that, focus on the good and it's a life well lived.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 03:38 PM
-1

You cheat on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:44 PM
3

I think it's their true nature. I don't judge them for it because by knowing that, I can get better success
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:44 PM
5

Women fuck a lot just not their husbands. Husbands are the one who are complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:42 PM
5

Oh no, women are more horny than men. They just don't have libido for their hubby
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:34 PM
2

Why instead, he can do all that along with becoming man women are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:33 PM
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Well I said that women have choices and we should respect those choices by being the guy they want rather than judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:32 PM
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This post is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:39 PM
2

Is manipulation and abuse get her juices flowing then it's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:17 PM
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I am not disparaging you. I have been an asshole to women and they too fuck me a lot. You are not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:15 PM
4

So what was the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:11 PM
1

It won't work, at best men will get shitty once a week sex. Women get low libido in marriages with betas. Only solution is to become alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:07 PM
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I dont go out of my way to disrespect people, what more do they want, worship women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:02 PM
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So you fucked an awful man 3 time a day. Alrighty I don't doubt your oral skills though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:59 PM
2

Good guy, has a decent job, doesnt cheat, goes home everyday, call before leaving office, buys flowers everyday , buys iphone as anniversary gift etc etc Bad boy, has a decent job or not whatever, cheats, is womanizer, doesn't call when leaving office, is manipulative, gaslights when caught balls deep in the neighbour, gives a packet of skittles as a gift on anniversary. Your deflection tells me that you are not as rich as you made yourself out to be. Ah well, I do hang out with broke people, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:53 PM
5

We have to cherry pick unless you have the money to burn on a big study. If you have that much money to burn then all I can say is. How you doin? Name is Cast, I don't have any pets because one died because of a cursed ottoman(furniture) but I do love animals. I like dancing and I hate outdoorsy activities like climbing everest or even hiking or camping because of severe lack of women in backless dresses on a hiking trail. I am free on Saturday, you gonna have to pay for drinks from that money u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:41 PM
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Who women like and who women fuck are very different. Women like their husbands and average sex life is like 4 times a month. That's not the case for fuckboys. They hate them but still fuck them.. This post is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:31 PM
3

No, you win by playing by the rules. Those rules are not necessarily the ones you are told about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:28 PM
1

We can get a good man and compare his sex life with a bad boy. So tell me, how many good guys you know that have better sex life that a bad dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:26 PM
0

Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:21 PM
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Let's just say sources are my experience and many other peoples experiences. Now you can say I pulled it out of my ass, so source you NEED is my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:20 PM
2

I guess we both have different definitions of oneitis. Oneitis to me is a prison of your own making. It makes you want a specific woman to want you because for whatever reason however good those reasons are. She is hot, she is good mother, she is good wife or just feelings like jealousy, love etc. Having good feelings and valuing a woman who makes your life better, is not what I would call oneitis. Oneitis to me is a need for that woman to want you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 12:16 PM
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I respect women as much as I respect men, on individual basis. No one get respect by default. I don't resent women, but many men do because they don't want to be manipulative or abusive. I am saying they need to get over that resentment and do what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:01 PM
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But women will still won't fuck their husbands They want bad boys, it's in their DNA. So if we arrest bad boys, we will have low libido women on our hands or women who would use vibrators instead. If men want sex, then it's in their best interests to out least amount of restrictions on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:53 AM
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If it works it works. During the age of sail, lot of piracy happened. Now we can say that piracy is bad but it's a choice between that or poverty, people chose piracy. We are but the sum of forces acting upon us, we can resist them or go with the flow. Only later give your what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:51 AM
2

There is a difference between validation seeking and genuine attraction. Bigger question is how exactly do you differentiate between the two. One comes from the place of oneitis and scarcity and other comes from the place of abundance and outcome independence. One cause erectile dysfunction and freakouts and other makes you hard and in control of yourself. Game is simple, go to a random girl you find interesting, demonstrate value and qualify her and get her in your frame. When she is in your fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 11:46 AM
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You my friend need to learn to differentiate between what is important and what is not. You care too much, too much about what your friends beliefs are, too much that your wife delayed dinner. The caring signifies your investment in her. When you understand that your investment need to be earned, then she will feel the change happening and her commands will turn into requests, given that you reward good behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 11:36 AM
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Men don't need rewards they need a bigger picture to stay motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:49 AM
2

Your are the person who is actually making decent progress, this oys, it seems too good. Which is annoying part of my brain which knows that there is no such thing as too good. I don't have time to go deep into why I feel that, but just stay alert. Things have a way of creeping up on you from the sides when you are looking straight ahead.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/24 03:21 PM
0

Brilliant. I get my son half the time and I would gladly take him full time even with out CS. Although it won't stop my dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:36 PM
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That's very woman centric way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:50 AM
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Ah well, if you are a beta bux woman your age as well as younger is in for the money, it's better to have a younger woman. If you are actually attractive then it's a different story altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:45 AM
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Men don't tread water. I read stories of women wanting for their manchild husband's to grow up and be adult. But men don't work like that, they need big goals to stay motivated. So it's not about exercise, it's about getting six pack, it's not about going to job in time, it's about gunning for promotion. Men thrive in competition and don't do well just maintaining the status quo. That's why so many are addicted to videogames life is monotonous to them They need lofty goals to be better men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:03 AM
1

So you will pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:59 AM
1

Men shouldn't be mad if that happens. They will have a perfect excuse to trade older for younger. It's not like young virile men gonna wife up the older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:58 AM
0

But that's the reality. Women leave men because of feelings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:53 AM
2

Bankruptcy does not mean broke. My friend filed for one and they gave him a credit next week and he was able to build his wealth in 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:39 AM
1

And if a man thinks that he will be happy leaving his wife for younger woman so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:11 AM
-1

If they are trash then they will have to become non trash to attract other women. Men always have upward mobility in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:50 AM
-1

Yeah but we are talking about married men leaving their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:47 AM
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Fortunately those are changing. Child support is lessening as more women enter workplace. College tution burden is down as mother also contribute half Fat can be fixed, Balding can be fixed. Consumer debt can be fixed by filing bankruptcy, and u won't believe how easy it is to file for bankruptcy. Or you can just not pay it and it goes away most of the time. Prostate problems are fixable, and if they are not, women their age would reject men. So it's a moot point anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:46 AM
2

I know I know. People have right to do what they want if it doesn't violate the law. You wanted easy divorce you got easy divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:42 AM
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So you want that option for yourself but don't want it to be exercised against you? How naive would you have to be to believe such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:35 AM
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No you can't complaint about black people or gay people, you will be cancelled faster than you can say 1st amendment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:32 AM
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You will be surprised, if husband was a homeless bum not one would have married him.in the first place. That fact that he is married means he is not completely useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:31 AM
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But women wanted that right they fought for that right. Least they can do is be a good sport about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:30 AM
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I only said that they shouldn't get mad if their husband leave them for younger woman. They wanted the right of leave their husband, they can't be mad when husband exercise the same right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:21 AM
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Exactly.. But women have better standards now. So men are not getting sex, or on demand childcare or maid service. They are told they are not entitled to sex and they are told they are to contribute 50 50 Women woman "equal partners" so men are being forced to be one, which is making women replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:13 AM
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Yes, it is Men had one achellis heel, baldness. That is fixable now with hair piece. They are actually impressive, better than normal hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:07 AM
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Yes, men like him don't change unless they have reality slapped on their face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:30 AM
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That can be fixed. My cousin was fat, balding man in his 40s with probably no stamina. Then his wife asked for divorce and he came to me for advice. In one year he got ripped, started wearing a hair piece and looks like in his 20s. His skin also got better. Men need to use retinol, it's a game Changer Not sure if he has ed, though, but I don't think women his age would want him if his dick don't work so that's a moot point anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:38 AM
1

Since you are pleasantly welcome to criticism today so have at it. I still won't bet on you. Do you know why? Because you still don't get it. It's not about making you lose frame, people don't care about being your training wheel. You learn to build a frame old fashioned way, gaming women and getting your ass handed to you and learning from it. You lack game, you lack frame, you lack abundance, you lack outcome independence. But most importantly you lack the guts to be uncomfortable. People here…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 03:14 PM
1

Don't worry about causing anxiety in your wife. Just dont blueball her by failing her shit tests
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 02:50 PM

So nitrate rich foods stopped working?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 02:39 PM
1

That some chaotic, incoherent shit you wrote What is the guiding principle that guide you in your everyday decisions? Let's call it, I donno.. your vission. When you figure that out, see how your experience would be in light of that vision. Go through every line of your OYS and figure out where your action deviated from that vision and why. If you believe in your vision and live congruent to your vision, then stressors won't stress you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:02 AM

Sorry man, let me dial down my autism for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:50 PM
1

Backpedaling is actually a very nice sex position.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:49 PM

Facts are facts. That's it. Using facts to derive conclusions requires context. Otherwise you can present any evidence in court as fact and derive wild conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:48 PM

What I am saying is that women can't use morality to dictate men's actions. Because morality is society's pathetic way to influence people. Women need to incentivise those actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:46 PM

Nasty shit is not a negative term. Men want their wives to do nasty things to them. Their wives won't do it because that is reserved for the fuckboy. Husband will get cuddles though, if he cleans the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:44 PM

What the fuck is up with women this argument. "Well men do it too". I swear to god. My sister uses the same argument, my friend uses the same argument, and it's just frustrating. It's like they are blind to context
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:41 PM

You have to start with binary to get to nuance. So tell me what is your nuance here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:39 PM

I had an affair with good women. She was engaged and she picked a nice dude, a machinist I think, sweet caring etc. She actually loved him, her and I talked a lot about him. He just didn't give her the sex she got from me and I am a selfish asshole in bed. Not that I dont know how to please a woman, I don't care to please a woman who is cheating on her fiance with me and yet she still kept coming back. She treated him very well, if you ignore adultery. She is extreme example but. Everything is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:37 PM

We are talking about men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:29 PM

You are welcome to do what you want. A criminal gets laid more than a virgin nice guy. It's that simple. Quality of chicks is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:29 PM

Bluepillers have been very clear, a man can be the nicest, law abiding citizen he can be. He is not entitled to sex, or relationship. There is no implied goal for men. He is not entitled to anything, so he is under no obligation to be a good man, when being a bad man gets him better outcome. It's the results that matter and women decide which men to reward with sex, or relationships. Is it the fuckboy or the nice guy. If it's former, it's just better to be a fuckboy. What works is all that matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:26 PM

Ex cons get laid a lot. They are chick magnets
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:19 PM

Society is not entitled to good men if it incentivises bad men. I don't give a shit if we should be good without reward. Good or bad is defined by society. Mongols had very different rules for what's good or bad and they slaughtered people by millions. Were they bad? Yeah. Were they the best military force of their time? Yeah. So they did what they did and society could do jack shit about it. Mass shooters could use a little redpill. That boy who shot trump, he could use gym, game, hairstyle upg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:17 PM

Thats not how it works. You can't declare moral goals and expect others to listen to what you want. You need to create a system where it's incentives to behave like u want men to behave. Without incentives social engineering doens't work, no matter how right you are. You dont make people ride bicycles instead of SUV if you don't have good cycling infrastructure no matter how good it is to bike. You want a better world for women? Fine, but if you want men's coorporation, then you need to them wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:10 PM

Your answer is a more softer way of saying men need to cope with it by going to smell the rain? Do you know who doesn't remember Isaac Newton, Isaac Newton, because he is dead. When you die it doesn't matter if you are Newton or nobody. Death is the most fair thing there is, rich, poor, black, white, everyone dies. What matters is the few years between birth and death, you can either tread water or medicate yourself with drugs or music or social media or books or whatever like a loser OR go all …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:04 PM

Not good enough, These rule of thumb things sound good but fail when rubber meets the road. You need a deeper understanding of things to make any real progress. You can slam hammer on a hot rod but never make a pipe out of it if you don't know what you are doing or why you are doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:57 PM
2

Yes, she kinda dug her own grave by taking the child away. Given that OP act fast, the child will be returned to home and he will get custody
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 07:03 PM
5

When I saw her posting on r/breakingmom about planning to leave me and getting applause from other miserable women. Next year of my marriage I spent in gym bulking and planning for life after divorce. One week after our sons 2ns bday, she asked for divorce. I started fucking someone else. Then one month later she asks for therapy and I told her I am already dating someone else. She didn't speak to me till I moved out. So she left me, but I was the one who came out on top. Because I could see tha…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 06:58 PM
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Problem is, she is probably fucking other men already. I don't think you are wise to take a woman back who has fucked other man. Not that I will judge you for it. I have taken such woman back but only as a casual partner. So it's over. Look forward to the future
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 06:50 PM
12

Yeah dude, simple answer is prenup is not gonna protect you if she doesn't work especially when you have kids. Don't get married, it's the smart thing to do
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 06:47 PM
1

No progress on game?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:55 AM
1

Start learning game my friend it will do you good
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:53 AM
2

Focus on losing weight first. May I suggest dry fasting and snake juice fasting. You can get to hundred in one month or so if you have the guts to see them through and not binge eat. DOMs is a different issues and if it persists for too long then you have some kind of deficiency in your diet. Possibly vitamin A(retinol) and D. Eat a lot of eggs, like a lot of eggs 20 a day. You will recover faster
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:51 AM
3

Look up myo reps if you have a time crunch at the gym. She is feeling dread, and she is giving you shitty comfort tests. Pass the shitty part until it turns into comfort test and then fuck her good to pass the comfort test. That's how you turn anxiety into attraction. That's how you train her mind to seek sex from you when she is feeling anxiety. All you have to do then is to be attractive and let the dread work it's magic
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:42 AM
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So what I said in my deleted comment is what others have pointed out to you. You are obsessed with game because you want your wife to be attracted to you. You do not want to come across as insecure loser by putting up such a boundary. Attraction is important in marriage, otherwise you won't be here. But the fact that you care if your wife is attracted to you makes you unattractive because you are in her frame. It's not what you do it's how you do it that makes a difference.. Marriage is not just…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:31 AM
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Do you know why women get mom_oholic? Because they don't have to care for the father because what is he gonna do about it. Complaint about her being a good mom.. So they can neglect you all they want.. but it's deeper than that. Pregnancy and childbirth rewires their mind. They get addicted to the oxytocin released when they do something for their kids. Only real antidote to this addiction is emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:18 AM
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past I thought about setting a hard boundary with my wife about how her communication with him needs to be strictly work-related but after reading some MRP stuff that makes me look threatened by an inferior man It's not what you do, it's how you do it. So answer me this, are you willing to enforce this boundary by dumping her on the spot if she violates it? If answer is no, then dont bother. If answer is yes, then ask yourself this, do you have a plan for life after divorce? If answer is no, the…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 03:23 PM
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. I understand why you'd guess that, but I actually think it was a compliment even if there is also manipulation mixed in. This is your lucky day, because I was not the one who commented "Her thanking you for initiating wasn’t a compliment". It was someone else. I actually agree with you in the comment I wrote as a response of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 03:04 PM
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She reminds me of a post by Jacktenofhearts. 3 dysfunction captians. "The captain and her husband" dynamic. Read the post of you haven't Now passing a shit test like "no sex Unless" is easy, just agree and amplify. Trick is to see shit test for what it is, not a big deal. But he wouldn't be able to do that, do you know why? Because he in his heart knows that the dynamic between them is not good for him. She thinks she is better than him, she doesnt really respect him. "No sex Unless" shit test i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 03:01 PM
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He didn't pass the shit test because he gave the exasperated look, which means he reacted to her frame. He failed the shit test. STFU is does not guarantee success if your body language betrays you. when you "diffused the situation" you passed the shit test meant for him which made her attracted to you, which she already was somewhat? evident from the fact that she shit tested your friend in front of you and brought sex into the conversation. When you passed her shit test, she again brought sex …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 01:30 PM
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I don’t have the relaxed frame to keep up the banter, Don't banter with your friend's wife in front of him, when he just failed a shit test. Best course of action here is to put social pressure on his wife to back down but it's easier to just not get involved. A friend is more valuable and you would rather he not be against you and gaming his wife in front of him is as good as making fool out of him. Especially if he is blue pilled. Calibration is a key and decreasing your social capital for som…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 12:34 PM
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If I were him, I would take it as a compliment She is feeling disturbance and that was a frame grab not by force of bitch shield but by manipulation. That fact that she had to resort to manipulation means that she is feeling dread because OP here is actually making progress although at a frustrating, snails pace. All he needs to do is see his marriage for what it actually is and his wife will see it reflected in his eyes and realize how replaceable she has made herself. All he has to do is not l…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 12:17 PM
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I recognised how pathetic I looked and how unattractive Here is a thing you need to understand, only one whose opinions matter on your attraction is you, given that you don't lie to yourself. You feel it so she feels it. Would coming to you first and asking if you need anything would have made her a good wife, yes. She didn't, so she is not a good wife. Why she is not a good wife is a good question to ask yourself but that does not change the fact that she is not a good wife in that instant. Fai…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 12:01 PM
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over homeopathic remedies where she essentially threatened divorce. However, this fight was also the final evidence I needed to finally accept a crucial truth: my wife is not a rational person, and trying to argue her into becoming one is destructive. For fuck's sake, when I pointed out that the dilution for homeopathic remedies is so extreme that there isn't a single molecule of anything in them, she very confidently concluded that chemistry itself must be wrong. In a way this epiphany feels fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 11:45 AM

Hair systems are very cool actually. You wear them for 3 weeks straight, you sleep in them, shower in them etc etc. It takes 20 minutes to remove them, shave your head again and reapply them. So total time he is without hair system is 20 minutes every 3 weeks when he is taking a shit. She won't see him without it like ever, unless he specifically wants her to or he gets into a car crash or something. Most women his age don't really care, just be relatively upfront about it. He is also jacked tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:11 AM
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Older women are gonna leave a manchild too. It's not a matter of age gap, more of the quality of man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:21 AM
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That's actually a good point. Men age bad because they let themselves age bad. If men hit the gym, do half of skincare women do and maintain their hormone levels, they can easily age like wine. Maybe except hair loss, but my cousin started using a hair system and those things have become criminally good. Also men need to start shaving to look younger, but some men don't have jawline for it, maybe beard coloring is a thing, idk. Maintaining a 6 pack abs in your 70s is a challenge, but if a man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:40 PM
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(。ŏ﹏ŏ), ಥ_ಥ, ಥ╭╮ಥ
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:33 PM
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Oh yes, he will. He is what you call a low value man. There is a price to pay when you procreate as a low value man. If he had taken the traditional route of beta bux, he would have to let his wife be sahm to compensate for his value. So he would have to pay alimony till he died along with cs . Some men are just low value, nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:02 PM
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Men are not hypergamous, women are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:55 PM
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Eh I like my insulin and glucose level low for majority of my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:52 PM
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Men are attracted to youth, women are too. But women also have other standards that young men can't meet. Men don't have those standards, like good job etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:48 PM
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No lies have been spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:33 PM
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There was a time I used to sleep on a dirty mattress because I couldn't afford anything else. That racecar bed would have been an upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:33 PM
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New here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:28 PM
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I used to just drink shots of extra virgin olive oil to gain weight, then I realised incan just make salad dressing out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:25 PM
-1

Why you have that opinion in the first place..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:19 PM
-1

Alright but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:14 PM
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Thing with sugaring is, once you get in, you can't get out. Same with cam business, Women become transactional, money > man. And when things go tough they choose money and man leaves for greener pastures
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:13 PM
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Men in 60s can get women in her 40s or 50s. Women in her 60s can't get man in his 60s because he is either married or chasing woman in her 40s or 50s. She can't go younger because 50s men are chasing women in 30s and 40s and 40s men are chasing women in their 20s ans 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:09 PM
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Try collagen(glycine) supplements and heavy dose of vitamin C and by heavy dose I mean like 3 times RDA. Bell pepper will do the trick Body just stop processing amino acids that well and vitamin c absorption slows down. Thats why joint issues are so prevalent. Also do intermittent fasting, or dry fasting with one meal a day, your body will be healed in no time(especially on a dry fast. Your joints will be healed in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:02 PM
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Oh no..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:56 PM
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Because if they do, then they are gonna be in their 60s with men in their 40s and there is high chance that the man leaves them for 30 year old That could happen to men too, but men in 60s but men seem to not care about their age especially when they have money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:55 PM
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My old boss was a 5'4" indian dude, balding with protruding belly. Nice man but he was not good looking. He never married, but had a string of young sugar babies one of which he got pregnant when he was 49 and now he is actually a happy father in "relationship" with the mother, they actually looks very cute, his gf is very tacky and he is very goofy guy. Young partners are just better for people who want children or better sex life or other things in general. Woman his age would have wanted him …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:41 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:33 PM
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That may be true, but that's not a point of this post. This post criticize the narrative that men who date younger women can't get women their age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:17 PM
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Flair checks out.. But is there even an alternative.. Churches have lost control over women and are safe haven for single mothers. So religion is out of question. Atleast in Christian country. Govt has washed it's hand from any responsibility, if u ignore project 2025. Feminists are failing their sorry attempt of social engineering by trying to educate men about how scary is patriarchy and how all men are potential abusers and should pay for it by marrying older women. It's anarchy and in anarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:15 PM
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Looks like you are divorce rape proof, u are a lucky man as long as you keep earning less than her. I had to pay my ex 500 dollars in cs, despite equal custody, because I got a fucking promotion. Ah well, the price of knocking up a wrong woman. To my defense I was bluepilled as fuck, when I married her and as soon as I unplugged I took action and build a way better life for myself. That action included divorcing her, along with getting ripped and learning game. So can your wife be the woman you …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 06:11 AM
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Because we are the one debating it. Weare not judges who can order anyone, our words arenot binding. But we can debate and there should be consistency in the way we think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:47 PM
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Look, hormones do not immune u from responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:40 PM
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It has bearing to us as a third party observer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:29 PM
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I am talking in context of other people's judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:33 PM
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How do u know reasons are true or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:29 PM
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Nah, she accused him of cheating reasons are not important. Just like women don't listen to men's reason for asking q dna test
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:18 PM
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So you disagree with redditors who are telling him he is wrong??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:13 PM
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Good thing, u are consistent in your views I can respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:10 PM
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All I am saying is, if woman are so Insulted by dna test request and reason they give is that if man does not trust them and accuse them of cheating, that's very bad and then they will divorce him. You can't then complain when shoe is on other foot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:09 PM
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Women cheat, it's not end of the world. Women making u raise affair baby without your consent, that is something unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:04 PM
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So you disagree with redditors who are telling him he is wrong??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:02 PM
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People cheat, not a good thing to do but whatever, making man raise affair baby is way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:58 PM
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Men should be made to pay for it. Men complaining about 400 bucks are like women who couldn't have abortion because they didn't have money. I don't care, get money, beg borrow steal. Alternate is millions times more costly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:00 AM
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Ivy League educations, multiple vacations a year, or a substantial safety net. Her waist line can't cash the cheque she wants you to write, You tell me is she worth you working so hard and spend your hard earned money on her vacations?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 09:57 AM
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Congratulations, you are a beta bux, you are a means to an end for her children which is fine until kids are out of the house but after that you are gonna be divorced with hefty alimony payments as a reward for all your hard work or in a dead marriage. I like you to understand this point. The more you earn, the more you pay in divorce. Since you are here you want something different. So I am gonna ask you again what are your standards? Not bullshit you spilled to your wife, but the real standard…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 09:55 AM
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Child support is away costly than test
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:08 AM
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I don't understand how trusting a woman stops her from cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:56 AM
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Yes, I will fight tooth and nail. But my prefered way is mutual destruction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:56 AM

Are you saying that trusting a woman stops her from committing paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:44 PM

Where do you wanna get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:31 PM

It can be prevented by assuming all women are lying whores who should not be trusted. That's not a minor sacrifice Only thing that is being sacrificed is irrational feelings of women. We both know there is a lot where they come from. If you got nothing to hide, let your husband do the test. If you don't do anything, you won't have to worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:24 PM

Well as I told you my insecurity stems from my exceptionally small penis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:21 PM

And that's how world peace was achieved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:15 PM

Glad you believe me, like it's really really important to me.(◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:13 PM

Divorce goes without saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:11 PM

Dna test
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:10 PM

Actually yes, govt employees are stickler for rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:07 PM

Most men are not experiencing Paternity Fraud One is too many if it's easily preventable. Like small pox, one is too many
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:06 PM

No, you are the one who is looser
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:04 PM

1 is too many
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:02 PM
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Men will happily pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:01 PM

Women rape too, let's have everyones dna
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:57 PM

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:57 PM

Mine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:57 PM

Funny thing is, you can make a law that will destroy all DNA samples and data after the test and can make strict regulations around its collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:42 PM

She didn't ask for proof and I don't send unsolicited dickpics. If she asks however....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:40 PM
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You have a lack of morals Do you know what redpill is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:39 PM

Eh.. behave. I got banned by reddit admins recently for something like this. They don't care if it's sarcasm and people here are very happy to report you, snitches
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:38 PM

Too late, married, divorced and have a kid too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:37 PM

Men let love cloud their judgement when they should be busy finding a younger replacement. Men are romantics,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:36 PM

Not just small, exceptionally small
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah, is that a news to you. I am a vocal advocate of men cheating, if rewards are worth the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:33 PM

I can respect that. It's kinda like abortion women have right to do it but they are not immune to consequences, so if my wife or gf got pregnant and want to keep the child but I want abortion then I have no choice but to agree but I am gonna divorce over it. I won't come to doctors appointment or support her in labor, I won't have any obligation other than what courts tell me to. I am within my full right to abandon her. I will fight for half custody though which is my right. Same in opposite ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:30 PM

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:18 PM

What can I say, I speak the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:18 PM

Women accuse men of adultery all the time, especially when they are preggo. Even My ex wife accused me of cheating, when she was pregnant when I was a loser who couldn't cheat on her even if I wanted. I did cheat on her but that was 2 years later, after i discovered redpill. If everyone leaves because their partner accused them of cheating divorce rate will climb to 100 percent It's not about cheating, it's about paternity. My theory is that women have this innate fear that men will leave their …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:17 PM

Why are you so insecure? Because of my exceptionally small penis. What a load of shit I am but a messanger of truth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:10 PM
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Just out of curiosity, What are her standard? What are yours? Where do you guys lack?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 04:25 PM
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Dude you have been here for how long now? "You were right, let me tell you what you already know" is not the kind of response I am expecting from you. Go deeper, analyse what I told you Go to my previous comment line by line and think about why I wrote what I wrote and write down what you understand. It's time for u to start thinking for urself. To see how the rabit hole goes, you need to enter it first
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 04:04 PM
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Still chasing validation from wifey eh.. Chasing one woman is futile because thats opposite of abundance. No one is here gonna judge you for cheating. What we are gonna judge you for was failing to fuck a chick who was at your place. Question you need to ask yourself is whether you wanna have sex or do you just want validation that comes from your wife wanting to fuck u Get your head right,
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 01:04 PM
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Level 2 cleared congratulations. Now tell me is your time better used fixing those issues or thinking about how your wife showed some resistance. Since you have limited time on your hand choose wisely
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:37 PM
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In my case two things are true at once: my wife’s past behavior toward me is unacceptable AND I need to own my shit for how I enabled and amplified the behavior via dancing monkey, pedestalization, and getting butthurt. What am I seeing here,? it seems like.....progress. I guess we will find out soon
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:08 PM
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when I was busy making changes after first discovering MRP Get busy again. How simple life is really.. Next thing you know you have a six pack and you haven't watched porn for 6 months
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:02 PM
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felt i strong urge to escalate beyond casual flirting and pursue it. 😃 However Lame 😒 I want to root this out for good, but how? Today is your lucky day. You want your wife to do all those things for you then change the wife. It's that simple. My wife immediately became super sweet, and proceded to make me breakfast Yeah, she wanted to fuck for the whole week but you kept failing the shit tests or weren't gaming her properly lol. Poor wife, got blueballed.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:00 PM
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Good guess, you have passed level 1. Now tell me, "what is the cause of lack of attraction?"
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 11:51 AM
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Sure why not. But I think people underestimate how much of "emotion junkie" women actually are. All other pale in comparison
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 11:47 AM
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game might be my main focus but in future if it’s not working, I need to express myself before it gets to the point of frustration. Not so soon my friend. You said she wasn't receptive of your game, and you got frustrated. These are two seperate issues. You got frustrated because of some deficit of inner game. Possibly seeking validation of your attractiveness from your wife fucking you or something else like lack of abundance. I am sure you will take time to think about it. Your wife not respon…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 11:44 AM
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If I ask or tell her to do something different or change positions I get either resistance or unenthusiastic compliance. I will give you three guesses as to why that is the case for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 11:20 AM
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We are just gonna have to agree.to disagree
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 08:58 AM
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Well my background is from pua. I have seen women do crazy things for skinny fat homeless looking dorks just because they knew a bit of game and could play the right emotional chords. That whole improving smv thing is very "redpill thing" which makes sense because redpill is more than getting laid. But it's still a sexual strategy. It helps to look at it from "getting laid" perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 07:30 AM
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Shit tests comes from emotions rather than logic. Yes there is some logic mixed into it but there is always good degree of emotions. Which is good thing because if she is logical then you aren't getting laid. So when you try to logic your way out of them, DEERing etc you are literally blowing dry desert air in her vagina. Women want to feel emotions even the bad ones, so when you mr logical try to "communicate" to her logically she either doubles down like a junkie, "give me emotions, give me em…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 05:34 AM

So you are okay to imprisoni nnocent men just so you could increase chances of imprisoning guilty men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:43 AM

I always find women who deny false accusations are a problem have done some bad shit and don't want it to come back
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:47 AM

But what if she is lying In ideal world no harm is done. But world is not made of spherical cows, and feminist would destroy a man without second thought. They did to Johnny depp. You can't demand believe women and at the same time do not give equal protection to accused
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:31 PM

"feel" ? There is no such thing as feel, either it happened or it didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:21 PM

I think u are someone who could rise up to the challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:20 PM

Nobody knows
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:47 PM

I am gonna need detailed instructions from you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:47 PM

Ofcourse they are okay, but you don't have to take my word for it, you can just come to me and check them for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:30 PM

She is just attracted to me so she has to demonize me as to not feel guilty because I am a bad bad man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:27 PM

I am gripping, what do I do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:26 PM

He said she said is difficult to prove beyond reasonable doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:24 PM

Yeah yeah, They were able to publish nazi manifesto in name of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:21 PM

MRAs should be outraged about this, too; Why? That what feminists should do. bringing more rape cases to court would mean unearthing these false reports That's not how it works, first of all prosecutors are bound to not being cases which they are not able to win. Second prosecutors are always unlikely to presecute for perjury. What will uncover.false reports is making it obligatory for prosecutors to prosecute perjury, as soon as man is found not guilty, they should be duty bound to investigate …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:19 PM

It's not about imbalance, it's about giving an individual man basic courtesy of presumption of innocence. I don't give a shit what statistics are, when it comes to an individual case, we should be obligated to give enough respect to a person.to wait for convinckng evidence before crucifying him You can't just destroy a man's life for shits and giggles then pat yourself on the back that you are not disproportionately doing it to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:13 PM

Just because they are not here for real discussion doesn't mean I have to actually care. I am the guy who can talk to a wall, I don't mind talking to at post-wall chubby chick. That how much I like sound of my voice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:08 PM

ALL with IVF actually, even when he was young We both have breeding kink. His is in literal sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:02 PM

I don't give a shit if they change anything, they can shout and you can't do anything to stop them, unless you falsely accuse them ofcourse. Question is whether you lack enough character to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:00 PM

My bitchyness comes from fighting crime in a rubber suit. It's sweaty and hot in it, you understand right. Don't worry, I will shower when you come to "check my hormones", unless of course you don't want me to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:58 PM

So by that logic, a woman who is Sterile has no grounds to fight for abortion rights or fight for improving mortality rate during childbirth. Its not like she gona ever get pregnant. Thing is, men don't need to earn the right to see the unfairness that is taking place in front of their eyes. You can shame men all you want for wanting a fair world, but you still can't stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:54 PM

Thing is though, my 50 percent and your 2 percent are kinda the same. No one of us can prove it beyond reasonable doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:50 PM

there is no evidence for this being the case. So you do require evidence when accused of something. Why feminists don't give same courtesy to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:48 PM

My hormones are fine, I will let you test them in person if u don't believe me Edit:since you blocked me. I will reply here. I am not gay but I will let you check my hormones if you change into a femboy costume.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:47 PM

Believe women' is just sound probability when false reporting accounts for 2% of sexual assault and rape. I thinks it's more on the line of 50 percent. 2% is something feminists say to downplay the actual number.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:46 PM

And that may be relevant if a woman in Australia didn't falsely accuse a man who was just helping her because her car broke down He spent a week in jail because of it until cctv showed what was what. Thankfully she was prosecuted but what if cctv camera was not there? You don't have to go on dates to be falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:43 PM

Balance what exactly? Guilty beyond reasonable doubt is there for a reason. That burden of proof should never be lowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:40 PM

This goes beyond criminal trials They want carte Blanc to defame any men of their chosing. They want immunity against a defamation case. Only reason they want that much power is to profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:25 PM
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We can do this all day long, I am not gonna say it, you keep asking. You need to buy me drinks first though, I don't put out without you first winning me over. I am a gentleman you see, not like them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:23 PM
3

You think thugs of warlords gonna give women flowers? No police no one to stop them from doing whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:13 PM
1

Did you just used words like misogyny to make your point? That work on twox not here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:16 PM
0

You don't really understand it. Humans are sustainable, we just waste a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:12 PM
2

Yes they are taking it away form me to give to boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:11 PM
1

And most women don't want to see what happens when an invading force of all men enslaves rhem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:11 PM
0

Emotional cost is cost
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:10 PM
-1

I am not telling women what to do Just pointing out the truth, do what you want with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:08 PM
1

So why you have problems with reserving equal number of spots for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:46 PM
1

I don't give a shit what your reasons are for not giving equality to men or discrimination against men. Equality is simple, equal number of shelters for men and women PERIOD How about this, accounting for women shelters, spot should be reserved for men in "general shelters" So if there are 1000 spots in women's shelter and 1000 spots in general shelter then all those spots should be reserved for men. Fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:12 PM
-2

Fine women pay more indirect tax, but with whose money? If it's their then fine. If they are sahm or something then no. Men are still paying the taxes. If they are married (childfree can be married) and have joint finances then they are taking away the share of men. If they are completely financially independent then sure, but most women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:05 PM
1

For equality. Men and women shoudl have equal number of homeless shelters only way to ensure that is to have men only shelters as well. If there are women only shelter and general shelters men lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:02 PM
-2

Yes, but you also need men to actually produce. They will only do it if there is something in it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:58 AM
1

No they are not at fault, they just take more than they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:56 AM
-2

To give men the same number of shelters as women. You know equality since they also pay taxes By allowing women in general shelters you take those spot away from men. So just make shelters for men and women and be done with this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:54 AM
0

There are enough resources in the world to keep human population going to trillions. It's just the we don't utilise them that well. If you put billion people in a same city then the cost per person decreases drastically. You can just power the whole city with one nuclear power plant, with central heating and cooling (which is the most energy intensive use). You can get away with no transport because whatever you need is 2 minutes walk away. With that dense population, recycling becomes viable an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:22 AM
0

Women have better incentive to keep warlords at bay than men. Otherwise the real patriarchy will come after them in all its glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:12 AM
3

I don't wanna but govt won't stop taking social security from me Govt is forcing me to rely on them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:08 AM
-4

Semantics, If you want women only shelters make men only shelters in equal numbers. If not men will have defacto less number of shelters becausr women will take up half or more of the "general" shelters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:05 AM
-7

But you think that you are not able to pay the cost associated with the "blessed responsibility" of another kid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:04 AM
2

And cry about paying taxes on tampons. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:39 AM
-2

Women still take up more of the tax benefit they live more so they get more retirement benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:38 AM
-4

You are misinformed, there are women only shelters but not men only shelter in equal numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:37 AM
4

That's just stupid, don't confuse antinatalism with misanthropy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:49 AM
4

Everything except maybe food or monster truck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:47 AM
-21

They're not for women only. In name, not reality. Women are given preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:46 AM
-1

Yes, it's not enough, that's why fertility rates are dropping. Fertility rates are dropping not because of betas but because of womenbeing more educated and employed. They need to pay the opportunity cost and betas only cover it for few kids because women entering market has decreased bargaining power of men. So it's a lose lose. Women and men both get less money, women lose money by having children bit beta can't cover it because he does not have that much money due to some entering the job mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:41 AM
4

Consume more than single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:34 AM
-6

Okay, so opportunity cost for another kid was too.much to handle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:33 AM
0

Eh.. cat ladies exist because cats give birth If you are anti natalist then why make cats have more kittens, just to cure your loneliness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:31 AM
-10

I you lose your job and become homeless, you will get a homeless shelter. Men in your same position will be sent to rot on the streets You both are paying same taxes. If you are a mother you are paying less taxes so if you go homeless you will even get money for your kids Sweet fucking deal if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:30 AM
4

First of all it's not my fault that women are so succeptible to beardfishing. Second, my retirement depends on social security scam that requires young people working jobs and paying taxes. They can do that if they don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:28 AM
-1

Yes but they also consume more by virtue of being a woman. Which put inflationary pressure on products meant for women since they increase demand. Don't get me wrong they contribute a lot for other women just not as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:10 AM
2

You need stronger incentives than that. Well at some point incentives are not worth the cost. Not because it's not worth to pay but cost is just beyond your means. Like people who choose to just give up and die instead of having that expensive surgery and go bankrupt and burden their family. We are nowhere near that point and govt can do a lot of incentivise women to have kids but it won't work because they need to incentivize men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:46 AM
3

No you don't have to prove intend in civil court.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:18 AM
3

Consent given under dubious circumstances is not valid. Have no one read contract law here, contracts are invalid if fraud is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:16 AM
1

Ambivalence, is the secret weapon. It seems to amplify their emotions if you play it right. They are addicted to emotions, you feed them emotions and then just take it away they go beserk. Like a junkie desperate for a new high. They want to be gamed, they feel good when they are gamed.
/r/askMRP25/08/24 05:39 AM
16

I will actually give you the answer you are looking for. You don't deal with it. At the end of the day your only real power is to walk away to someone hotter younger tighter better. If you are not capable of doing it or are not willing to do it then your boundaries don't really matter. So what do you do if your boundaries are violated, see if they are divorce worthy, if not tell her that she violated your boundary and let it go Because boundaries are not for her they are for you. Lift and learn …
/r/askMRP25/08/24 05:31 AM
1

Jesus fucking Christ You and your emotions. Why didn't you seperate money before you left you dumb fuck
/r/askMRP25/08/24 05:26 AM
1

I just remembered your other oys where you called.yourself ugly. So I looked back. Looks like you are planning to looksmax. Not something you see much in this subreddit except maybe lifting. I am very curious to see your progress on that front
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/24 10:25 AM

They are already calling him that. He lost his reputation long ago. You can't threaten to take something you already have taken. He got nothing, so he is free to do anything because you can't take away any more But he can and she will be Lucky that he just takes his money because he can take much much more. Revenge is acceptable if justice is not served. There is no proportionality in revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:59 AM

Thing is, unlike that guy, Yale guy ajs nothing to lose.. His future is gone, all he has left in his life is to punish people who wronged him They are lucky, he is just going for defamation and they will be Lucky if they lose. Because he may decide to get justice other way and it may cost them more than money There is no carrot in front of him, he has been beaten with stick so much already He can't be tried again because jury acquited him. You tell me, what has he got to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:59 AM
2

Now I get it. He never really stopped losing weight. He fucked up yes, but he never stopped when he could easily have. Addicts are afraid to go climb that extra floor because stakes are higher, they would rather fall from second floor than 100th. He climbed, slowly, slipped sometimes but he still climbed and didn't stop. He has it in him. The groundwork of a solid frame. You perceived it very early which is not surprising. I didn't which is also not surprising because I never gave much importanc…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 08:03 PM
1

Well here is the thing, if I dont believe it, I cant make women believe it and if they dont believe it then it doesnt matter if I am Chad or not. Life is about living, there is never a reason to sell yourself short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:47 PM
2

good thing that I am a chad then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:33 PM
-1

i dont care what your reasons are for being shitty to me, if you cross a line and harm me, you will have to answer for it in full. If a woman lies and that lead to a man being castrated, then she should be castrated too. if it leads to man spending 20 years in prison, she should serve 20 years too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:32 PM

So let me get this straight, you are making baseless claims about men who are in manosphere. Fair enough, women make up false claims a lot if it serve their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:09 PM
-2

An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind. Big fucking deal. You dont turn the other cheek when someone slaps you, you sue them in civil and criminal courts so that they are not even left with hope for a good life. There are lines you do not cross. Once you cross then you dont get to demand mercy, you can ask for it, but you cant demand it. How can we punish hasty and unethical decisions with equally hasty and unethical solutions? It wont be hasty this time, unethical? sure. Who gives a shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:07 PM

My take is that manosphere men are the ones who would have only gotten a woman in the past because she couldn't have her own income. Thats a very strong statement, and bullshit because even if one man in manoshpere has a woman who has her own income, your theory falls flat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:49 PM
1

Marriage is a legal contract. Nothing more. Rest is bells and whistles. Men will always have the advantage of age and sometimes women cant keep up. So instead of matching value of their partner, marriage helps women make leaving them expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:45 PM
0

Yes, he should be compensated. There is no compensating castration. Unless the false accuser is also castrated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:43 PM
13

Bear himself (the expert) said that the women would have been more successful Bear grylls bent over backwards for women, he is not an unbaised expert. As it's reality TV, it was scripted for the women to fail Nah, bear grylls himself sent pigs on the island to help women which they decided to pet rather than eat, while men had to hunt a croc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:40 PM
0

The more women the better, reduces women's value if there are lot of slimmer younger women suddenly in the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:38 PM
2

Congratz, u are starting to get it now. The prize mentality. Self improvement is masterbation, its for yourself. Women dont care how much you lift or read or whatever, they just want to feel the results. The game has always been antithesis of self improvement. If you have to work for it, you dont have it. You need preselection for being attractive but you need to be attractive to have preselection in the first place. You are the one who choose because you are by default desirable. Because truth …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 08:14 AM
2

Energy levels thing, just stick to the basics. Vitamin B1 deficiency Vitamin D deficiency. Potassium deficiency
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 08:00 AM
1

She is not obligated to perform. You are not getting it, resistance means she is not in your frame. She is not in your frame because your never made her enter your frame. Which means your game sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 05:42 PM
2

You stalking me or something? Well you are the third person actually
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:07 PM
1

Soon those days will feel like a different life altogether.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:00 PM
1

Just curious
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 03:59 PM
1

Is life better than your r/deadbedroom days?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 03:33 PM
1

I have to ask though, why the special treatment for him? You are not the one to hold your punches but for him you do for some reason. I have been observing for weeks and only thing I could come up with was that you see something in him that I don't. However much I try, I dont see it. His "journey" here has been more like a slow motion derailment, nothing catastrophic and definitely salvageable, but definitely nothing to brag about either.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 12:57 PM
1

She likes sex, she is just not in your frame so she resists you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 05:39 AM
1

Did you fuck or not? How is your deadbedroom going on mr dbthrowaway3145
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 05:32 AM
1

If you joke about you being a serial killer then you need to be smooth. If you joke about her being a serial killer then you can pull it off
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:50 AM
2

He is not very different from his wife. You told him to get angry and he did but instead of using that anger to improve himself, he decided to run his mouth in front of his wife, with unsurprising result. His wife being a woman she is, doubled down which either scared him or confused him or something and he did what he always had done. Run away from discomfort. There is a reason he ballooned to 400lb in the first place. What he has always lacked is a proper vision so he can't really articulate w…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:48 AM
1

Alright then he was very clear about why he married his wife. Why did you marry your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 06:02 PM
3

Improve my sex life. shitty ass mission if u ask me ("you will only get sex from me under these conditions") There is a lot of stupid shit I read today but this one takes a cake
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 05:54 PM
2

Thats good to hear but what problems did you cause in your life? Your words not mine There used to be a guy here, he deleted his account I think his username was 2gunsgetsome. You can find his post on redpillarchive. He was one of the biggest success here, because he was very clear on why he ended up where he ended up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 05:05 PM
2

I’m here because I caused the problems in my life, I didn’t know how to fix them alright, what problems did u cause that u dont know how to fix?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:42 PM
3

"Every unhappy wife [with an unattractive, validation-seeking husband] is a rape victim [purely in terms of her feelz]." There are some people who put blame on others for their own mistakes. Then there are people who take the blame for others because they dont have courage to hold other people accountable. Fair enough, I never judged someone for having a weakness, IF they are willing to recognize it. What I like you to understand is, that even if you cant nuke your family, least you could do is …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:38 PM
1

Finally got the hysterical bonding. It was sad to see her crying, looking up at me and pleading for me not to leave. Your wife reminds me of my ex-wife. Egoistic enough to be stubborn and harm herself but not courageous enough to face her issues head on. Not a great combination in a person. But that kind of ego is mostly defense mechanism to make up for the lack of courage to fix own issues in the first place. The setup was kind of messed up from the start, A win is a win.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:26 PM
1

I’m not consciously bullshitting you. Maybe not So correct question to ask is, why you didn't game a woman you say you are attracted to? Correct question to ask is, why do you think your oneitis is getting stronger with a woman with whom sex is cold?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:11 PM
3

You ask a lot of good questions And yet you don't wanna answer them. You gonna have to answer though, sooner or later. Until then answer this, why exactly are you here
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 04:05 PM
1

I will get banned if I keep interacting with you. Feel free to politely fuck off
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 03:23 PM
1

We can guess that you have to get your shit together because everyone has to get their shit together. What value do you think your mere presence add here?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:38 PM
1

I don't believe you. You put a decent (although bullshit) explanation for it, "The more I lean into my masculinity, the more my wife leans into her femininity. That makes me more attracted than ever before" So you tell me, why would you go into so much trouble into hiding something that u anticipated to get called out on Then, you just tailored your response for what you think I wanted to hear. What is your problem exactly? Why are you bullshitting me?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:34 PM
2

No no, of course not, keep digging your own grave. this is not purplepilldebate, this is serious business, if you cant be bothered to read the rules, then you dont belong here.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:16 PM
3

I want to be a role model and an inspiration to those around me in fitness, work, and relationship. No need, just become a person who is proud of himself, role models are overrated. Chasing external validation is not good idea rest of OYS is devoid of juicy details, which means you are either not putting yourself outside your comfort zone or bullshitting us
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:13 PM
3

I am still not passing all shit tests. Better start passing them Every time I mention sex or wanting sex, or initiate, I am shit tested with ‘I wish you wouldn’t say that, I was just about to…’ or some other bullshit about ‘I did want to have sex with you, but now it doesn’t feel like a choice, so blah blah blah.’ lol Right now I’m trying to AA and AM, but I am very bad at it, and it often falls flat. Thats your problem, you care that it falls flat The other shit test I am failing is that any ti…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:08 PM
1

Divorce her, its one month you wont have to pay that much or even at all. Not big deal man, if you seriously are willing to put in the work, then delete your comment, and write a proper OYS, given that you arent banned before that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:01 PM
2

most problematic for me was to find a good balance when to initiate again after a rejection in terms of not appearing needy but also acting on my desire. desire for what? appearing needy to whom? yourself, this sub, or her? in this scenario, tension is in the air from the moment my initiations are rejected, a shift in energy and from there my success rate is pretty low. Rejections are for sex, not for game. Game is mostly verbal, you have 1st amendment rights to free speech if it makes you feel …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 01:55 PM
2

The only thing that tells me that you are butthurt that your wife does not respond to your game so you chase other women for comfort. But thing is, main reason your wife does not respond to you is because you are still in her frame and react to her. So the question is, why are you trying to sugarcoat things, by saying lame ass shit like, oneitis is getting stronger?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 01:34 PM
1

So weird I noticed that on days when Im feeling confident and happy she gets kinda shy and avoidant, IOI but on days when I feel depressed/moody she approaches me alot and trying to make conversation. She is shit testing you. Women do that when you are weak. They are interested but not when it can actually lead to something, so they get their emotional swings without any cost
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:24 AM
1

if you curious nope because of my age gap Dont bring it up and it wont be a problem. age gap is like an elephant in the room, women dont want to look at it unless you force them to look. They know its there they also want to ignoreit
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:22 AM
1

lol. No, girls are not turned off by awkwardness. just strike a conversation next time, tell her that she was giving serial killer vibes
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:19 AM
2

dont bring it up, if she does, brush it off or say something funny.
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:15 AM
7

Gurus have left, all that left are lame ass bros.
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:12 AM
2

I will tell them about the time when I was robbed at gun point by a midget(its actually a true story btw)
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:10 AM
5

into contact with an attractive woman and get IOI’s, I get slightly obsessed afterwards well women are addicted to emotions they will attract to you like flies if you stroke the right one That makes me more attracted than ever before. Is the oneitis getting stronger? Probably. That .... Things have gone cold on the sex front but honestly there’s some parts of my game I’ve let slip ....Does not match with this. if you are more attracted to her because of her behavior, why arnt you gaming her and …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 09:57 AM
1

Well even if she wasn't personally involved, 12 police officers were corrupt and city had to pay 13million in damages. She also hid evidence until forced by judge to reveal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:58 AM
1

Jamal truelove
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:36 AM
1

She did put an innocent man in jail as a prosecutor and then laughed at his face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:45 AM
1

But there is nothing stopping state from going after innocent person with all that power. Case in point, Kamala Harris
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:23 AM
1

State has immense resources, unlimited money, a police and detective force with a force of law behind them, well paid prosecutors etc etc. What a defendant has his own lawyer that he pays whatever he could. The financial disadvantage is always on the side of the defendant. He is the only one not paid to be on the trial, judge police prosecutor, stenographer all are paid. You dont know how powerful state actually is,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:15 AM
1

It's judges jon to make sure the reasoning of questions is good. And presecutor can object if questions are badgering or irrelevant. You just want innocent man to not have a representation for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:56 AM
1

Look man, we are going on a tangent here. You think it's okay to take away a man's fundamental right to face his accuser and potentially send innocent man in jail just so you could stop woman's feelings from getting hurt. I just think women's feelings are not that important cmpared to sending an innocent man in jail and taking away his right to a fair trial. When your son or brother is falsely accused and your neutral thrid party do a shitty job finding the truth, the. You have no one to blame f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:21 AM
1

Why does it matter, if innocent get 25, neutral third party should get 25, if innocent get 2 years neutral third party get 2 years. Also neutral third party should not be allowed to cross examine either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:16 AM
1

First amendment rights There is a reason defamation is only civil here not criminal. In Germany defamation is.criminal offense so there you can get prison sentence. I don't mind going to prison if you are okay with women who falsely accuse going to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:13 AM
1

Alright sentence equivalent to the sentence the victim got. So if life sentence for murder then they should get life sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:10 AM
1

Fine then life sentence for third party if they were not able to do their job properly. Let's see how many people are willing to be the nuetral third party
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:05 AM
1

If I am lying about the false accusation thentake me to court on defamation, I will pay the damages. If they are lynched, then those who lynched them should be in for 2nd degree murder, and take me to civil court, I will pay for my part in that. Black men have been lynched because white women lied about them to protect their reputation. So its not a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:02 AM
1

If they do leave stones unturned are you okay with prison sentence for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:59 AM
1

Will they go extra mile to get the whole truth? Will they go and check if her story tally with other evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:15 AM
1

Yes, I am not a fan, but I can live with it. he committed a crime, he should keep his head down and do the time and take responsibility like a man. But he didn't. So he paid for it with his life. I am okay with reverse too. If you are falsely accused and don't get justice from courts then you have to go to another options. Not as drastic or even illegal. But justice needs to be served otherwise it's create an imbalance in the social contract. It's your civic duty to get justice ideally by courts…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:09 AM
1

You are the one who is saying a neutral third party is second coming of jesus and is incorruptible. So why aren't you okay with life sentence for the neutral thrid party if he made a mistake? Atleast a lawyer is incentived to advocate for you, prosecutor is incentived to advocate for victim so it balances out and jury is the one who decide the truth. If you want neutral third party to find the truth then you need to give safeguards against them making a mistake or not doing their job properly. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:01 AM
1

No the job of legal system is not to seek truth, its for people to get a chance to advocate for themselves. That's why you have "your day in court" Are you okay with life sentence to the thrid party if they make a mistake or were neglectful in doing their job? I mean that's the only way to make sure that they are doing their job..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:46 AM
1

Suppose you are framed by police for murder are you okay with not being able to cross examine?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:32 AM
1

Murder trial too? Are you okay with not being able to cross examine police, coroner, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:24 AM
1

So are you okay with women who are on trial for lying about being assaulted not given a chance to cross examine the accuser?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:10 AM
9

peacocking works(yeah I know, cringe) if you can handle shit tests.
/r/seduction17/08/24 04:17 PM
1

I read your post history, you are 6'3" muscular man who do kickboxing. When I started learning game I was 5'10" skinny fat dude. going through divorce. I still got laid a ton just by being a "street clown" as you put it. So you have it, the height the muscles, the cool hobby. Me, I am ripped after years of work but that it. for years only thing that was working for me was good game. I didnt have it, I got laid anyways.
/r/seduction17/08/24 01:51 PM
1

Well then, why are you here? If you think men cant learn, either they are or they are not, then why the fuck are you even here?
/r/seduction17/08/24 01:43 PM
1

Why you are here exactly? To shit on men who are trying to learn? Why not do something better with your time?
/r/seduction17/08/24 01:39 PM
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It's not about being corruptable Prosecutor and police are corrupt, they are incentivised to send you to jail and get promotion. Judges are paid by the State and are incentivised to work for the state not justice. Don't believe me? Karen Reed Case, judge scolded her in front of jury for non issue, to make her look bad, she tried to tamper with jury instructions. No, verbal testimony should never be admitted as evidence without defendent or his representative being able to cross examine the witne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:01 AM
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Defense lawyer can be pieces.of shit, they have to be to protect their client from the state which is hellbent on taking away his clients freedom so that prosecutor can progress her career and state can fill prison industrial complex. Look man, those cases of coroner's misconduct, evidence tempering are well documented. Vice president of usa is a crook who hid evidence to send innocent man in jail. You need a defense lawyer to cross examine the victim because only he is incentived to protect his…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:43 AM
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Ah well, I guess you are here to stroke your ego. Find somewhere else people are here to learn.
/r/seduction17/08/24 05:30 AM
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No third party just want to go home, they are not interested in anything. Coroner's collude with cops a lot. A woman was stabbed 27 times and coroner wrote that as Suicide. Judges collude with prosecutors a lot. Young thug criminal trial is an example Karen reed case, judge did her best to send her to jail, tried to remove not guilty option from jury instructions , only thing that stopped it was her fucking lawyer advocating for her. So no, third party is not immune to influence by the State. Pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:28 AM
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But sake I recognize bullshit Then why cant your recognize yours? Its not good enough to say words, you didnt read those books, you didnt go out and test whether the advice works, but you have opinion on it because you feel like it. To answer your question, a start is when you have base assumptions about something and an actionable way to test those assumptions. Thats what those books give you, actionable way to test the advice, something else you lack
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:20 PM
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Most of you view girls as some computer code thar calculates your game and appereance and desides logically to sleep with you or not. Well you have to start somewhere
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:57 PM
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It means that texas is very reasonable when you are the high income earner but that means that you wont get much if you are low income earner. That does not mean that you cant get a bigger piece of the pie but its not guaranteed. Your best bet is to settle things outside the court, and get a "settlement premium" i.e. by not going to court you save both of you some money and there is no reason you cant get a piece of that. She does not need to hire a PI, she can just get you deposed and if you ar…
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:45 PM
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TLDR?
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:37 PM
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Good news you are in texas, Bad news you are in texas
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:17 PM
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This, you need to call for action, for them to show their cards. They are not just delaying, they are biding their time, the more time you give them, the more time they have to screw you. Unless you are also planning to screw them. Once matter is in the court, then uncertainty stops, and things start to progress. Which is better than months of waiting game.. Best thing to do is have your attorney set a hard deadline for filing the final papers in court. There is another way, than setting a hard …
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:08 PM
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Actually I do have advice for you. There is nothing wrong with loving her, love is different from commitment, dont confuse the two. Love her and leave her at the same time. She is making false claims against you, she is just not good for you. One moment you spend on her more than necessary for your daughter is a moment that is wasted. so time to love yourself, even if you dont like yourself, because if you wont even love yourself, why would anyone else
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 02:58 PM
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Look, you have a right to get your accuser cross examined by your representative,.not a third party or a judge. Third party has no incentive to prove your innocence but a prosecutor has all the incentive to prove your guilt. Given that state has police and forensic teams that are professional, you as an accused are already outgunned and outscienced. Only your representative will make absolute sure that every word coming out of the accusers mouth is true and factual. You don't wanna give testimon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:46 AM
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It doesn’t get any simpler than that. Simple doesnt mean easy. People makes their life complicated because they dont have guts to face their issues head on. They will buy expensive diet plans and weight loss machines because they dont have courage to go hungry, they dont have the courage to run one extra mile when they are exhausted. Very few men have the ability to look themselves in the mirror and take an honest look at their weakness, let alone fix their weakness. Life is fucking simple, if i…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/24 06:55 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:08 PM
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Failed a lot of shit tests which was probably a combination of Florida heat, us spending a lot of time in close proximity, and the stress that comes with dragging two small children across multiple theme-parks. Nope it is the result of lack of frame. If you can't handle a little discomfort of heat, why should your wife rely on you to lead
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/24 03:02 AM
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Alright you seem to be hellbent on resisting any advice given to you. I can guess why. You got 5 kids, you are scared of divorce. As I said you have been warned, ignore at your own peril. Do yourself a favour and start preparing for the worst case or pay the price. Boundaries are not for her, they are for you. If you are not willing to walk, you can't enforce anything, so your boundaries are just words, they are useless. So forget boundaries, forget sex, get ripped, learn game and cultivate some…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/24 02:57 AM
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You made a false accusation that I am an abuser. I guess you relate to false accusers too much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:05 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:16 PM
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Spines are overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:15 PM
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People have role to play and people fit in places they have to.. Nothing wrong with it. Everyone is always squabbling to find a place for themselves, and when they think they have found it they start to get doubts. Thing is, it's the doubts that keep you feeling alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:17 PM
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Lol don't be curious about my genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:08 PM
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tell that to feminists and their "believe all women" nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:01 PM
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I am cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:01 PM
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Trump is the only one who listened, Dems dont listen to us
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:53 PM
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so I am doing what feminists are doing, correct. First make feminists stop then I will stop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:50 PM
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lol I am not a man of conviction, I am a man of self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:50 PM
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nope they allow cross exxamination
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:46 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:45 PM
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depends, if the accuser is unwilling to take the stand, then its matter of guessing game but you have to figure out the inference indirectly. If she is willing to take the stand then her mental state can be ascertained by judging her testimony
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:45 PM
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some things are just hard to prove beyond reasonable doubt. If it comes down to he said she said, defendant has the advantage because he had presumption of innocence. Its not like murder where there is lot of physical evidence. Unless you plan to take away presumption of innocence, you cant really change that much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:59 PM
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Depends on the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:56 PM
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the same way you know if accusation is true. Evidence. and testimony and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:55 PM
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It was incompetence on part of prosecutor and police. Law is all about technicalities, those technicalities are there to ensure that police does its job properly and prosecutor check all the boxes before you take away freedom of a person. Only one who is not being paid to be in the court is the defendant, police is paid, prosecutor is paid stenographer is paid etc etc. Its prosecutors fucking job to prove beyond reasonable doubt that a person is guilty, they are literally being paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:32 PM
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Yes, state was not able to prove beyond reasonable doubt that he was guilty so he should be freed. Just because police messed up does not mean he should be jailed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:22 PM
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No they lost because they decided to plant evidence and detective took the fifth when he was asked whether he planted evidence. They tried to frame a guilty man, It muddied all the evidence prosecution presented, there was no choice but to acquit him not because he was innocent, but because the state failed to prove anything without reasonable doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:12 PM
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And you re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:02 PM
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;
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:02 PM
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Feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:58 PM
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he performs well doesn’t mean he’s telling the truth. congratz, now u understand preponderance of evidence. You dont need to prove it beyond doubt, just more likely to be true in civil court they’re trying to protect these victims. By taking away fundamental rights of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:56 PM
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due process and cross examination is a right afforded to the court system actually it is mandated under trump administration guidelines, which biden is trying to replace
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:54 PM
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so dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:52 PM
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