Feminism has given feminists a kind of moral authority where they can say or do whatever they want and if you say anything against them, you are a problem.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/mar/13/feminists-do-not-hate-men

As Jessica Valenti here say, even if feminists hate men it wouldn't matter.

No it would matter. Because men vote and you can alienate, demonize, insult men so much before they would rather make it a lose lose situation than support you.

Feminists mock men by saying that misogyny kills women and misandry hurt men's feelings. Even if that's true, you can't keep on hurting men's feelings and expect them to vote for you. Which in turn hurts women

I am sure hurting men's feelings to stroke your ego was worth the lives of women who can't get abortions anymore.

Instead of demanding that men vote for women's interests, if feminists had shown humility and worked together, then things would be different.