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Be dangerous.. But not in a "watch out, he's gonna rape ya" kind of way.
/r/seduction22/04/17 03:17 PM
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depends. If it's a daytime friendly thing I'll bring a bottle of wine or a really fruity lambic beer for them to try and bring some food to cook together. I'm a pretty damn good chef so it works out. Get them to help cook and it's like a fun activity that brings down barriers, and in the end you get an awesome meal and an impressed girl. If it's after going to clubs or successfully picking up a girl at night then I'll just start kissing her immediately, it's pretty obvious what she wants if she …
/r/seduction15/11/14 07:02 PM
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Maybe guys are intimidated by you, or maybe you're not quite as hot as you believe. Sorry to be blunt but is it possible you're over-valuing yourself a little bit?
/r/seduction14/09/14 09:25 PM
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Once you develop an attitude that has no fear of rejection it'll be much easier. The reason guys get wishy washy and sound like a pushover is because they'd rather hear a maybe then a no, and want to try to fit to the women's schedule (beta thing to do).
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:41 AM
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This article makes a lot of sense, I went through something similar. I've been involved with pickup for a few years now, and id consider myself pretty good with ladies in general. About a year ago I started dating this one girl, got pretty strong feelings, but eventually we broke up. I was devastated, I didn't give a shit about pickup, how I was coming off, she could sense how desperate I was and this just pushed her further. After 2 months of misery I said fuck this, I'm done feeling sorry for …
/r/seduction28/02/14 04:20 AM
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If she wants you to know she'll tell you.
/r/seduction10/12/13 10:11 PM
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It works, but not as well as if it was a new fresh person. Kino done right should make you come off as a person who just likes to touch people, and in a completely normal way. Subconsciously it builds trust and a bit of connection with girls. If you already know a girl though and suddenly you start touching her way more she won't just think "oh this guy likes to touch people" she'll wonder why you're suddenly out of nowhere touching her so much. Not to say it can't work but I would say it has a …
/r/seduction09/12/13 09:35 PM
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Listening is a great skill, don't be ashamed of it. I've learned over time that women especially respond better to talking less but with more meaning in my words vs. Talking a lot and not giving them a chance to speak. Let them talk and talk, most people love to do that, and think about crafting a good response instead of trying to focus on speaking a ton. I've gotten a lot better responses from a single witty comment than I ever have with a paragraph, and on top of that it adds to the mysteriou…
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:00 PM
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Ok man, ok.
/r/seduction09/12/13 03:37 PM
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Did you even read what I said? I'm not so great, I'm not so special and I think I made that clear but it seems pretty pointless arguing with you at this point. Why come to this sub if you're so convinced it won't work? Give it a try at least.
/r/seduction09/12/13 03:07 PM
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Jesus Christ, with that attitude I can promise you you will be a virgin forever. You make Classifications and call us "normals". You're putting yourself down more than any girl or guy ever could. You can make all the excuses you want, be it that you have a disease, you're ugly, whatever man, but what it comes down to is what's in your mind. I promise a lot of these people you classify as "unfuckable" are gonna lose it, and so can you if you stop making excuse after excuse and throwing your hands…
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:06 AM
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That's a really good way to put it. Just last night I caught myself talking too much but for the rest of the night I was able to remind myself to chill out. No one likes getting barraged with words or interrupted.
/r/seduction09/12/13 06:16 AM
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I did exaggerate, but in my experience it's pretty useful to keep it in a sock. If I know I'm going to class or store I'll just keep it in a jacket or something like that, or not even bring one. I know everything thinks "always be prepared" but where I'm at I haven't get gone from studying to fucking in a few minutes. Going to a club or party though? Sock every time.
/r/seduction02/05/13 05:52 PM
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Best place is always in your sock. Think about the process of having sex with someone. Rolling around in bed, taking your clothes off, most likely throwing them to the floor. Eventually you're about to actually have sex but wait? Where's the condom? "One second" you say as you get up and search through your jacket or pants, while she just lays there alone in bed waiting for you. That's the problem with the wallet, or jacket, or anything like that. What's the last thing you take off? Socks, exact…
/r/seduction02/05/13 03:57 PM
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I would try boyfriending her. Think Kino, hand on her back/around shoulder, try to listen to her, etc. As douchey as it sounds, if she's crying, she's emotionally vulnerable, and will cling onto anyone willing to try to comfort her.
/r/seduction13/12/12 05:32 AM
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Take it however you want, I have better things to do then fight with you over some help I wanted to give you. Good luck with that girl.
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:28 AM
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Wow. I just read over the whole thing and realized that I must have been thinking about another post with the whole boyfriend thing, I'm on my phone. About the rest of that, if you don't want my advice, don't take it, that's all I came here to give you. Next time please don't try and start fights on reddit, I'm someone you've never met, so don't let a few comments I make turn you into some pissed off child. I don't want that reputation on reddit as a highschooler, and your only furthering it.
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:26 AM
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Wow man, there's really no need for that. I just read it over and realized I must be thinkin about a different post with the boyfriend shit. I messed up with the boyfriend thing, that's my bad. Everything else, just some advice, what you asked for. In the future quit trying to start fights on reddit, it makes everyone in highschool look like we're 12 again.
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:20 AM
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Ok. What to do. Well, I don't think there's much I can tell you that will change the outcome of this event with this girl. The one thing that would help the most is stop thinking of her as this amazing special beautiful 10/10, and just as a person. Just talk to her like you would anyone else. This may not always apply in pickup, as I wouldn't talk to a girl I'm approaching as I would my good friends. In your situation, I just don't want you to choke up and sound dumb because you're putting this …
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:11 AM
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Hey man, just for background, I'm in highschool too, a junior to be exact. I'm pretty successful with girls, and currently have a perfect girlfriend. Aside from me, there's a couple of problems I want to address. 1. You said about 1 sentence to her. There was no gaming, it was nothing seductive, as far as I know you don't talk to her regularly or have her number. She said ok. All of this means nothing. You haven't done anything to put yourself out there as a potential mate, you're just some kid …
/r/seduction31/10/12 02:52 AM
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I wasn't looking for monogamy until I found someone special, and didn't even want to be with other girls anymore.
/r/seduction06/10/12 04:33 PM
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I was just about to say that. No one is as cocky-funny as a frat man, and you'll have sororities full of the hottest girls on campus around all the time. Pledge.
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:39 AM
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How old are you/are you in highschool, college, neither? I ask this because the routes could be totally different depending on the age group you're looking at. Also, stop making excuses, if you want sex, than don't tell yourself you haven't had it because of (insert reason here). There are many ways, find one, man up, and do it. Another thing, live your life in the meantime and don't put everything else on hold because you really want your dick wet.
/r/seduction23/09/12 05:40 PM
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Kino is touching, and I recommend if you want advice from seddit, learn more and practice more. Pickup is not about reading something, then being able to get that one special girl, it's a long process of learning and approaching many girls. You will not be able to perform what we say if you have no practice. And if you know each other well, you are in the friendzone.
/r/seduction05/09/12 02:27 PM
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Well, that might be a problem. If you're in the friendzone already it's going to be a lot more difficult. If I were you I would recommend escalating with some kino and seeing how she responds. If she is responsive, give her something obvious, like your hand on her leg, or just touch her leg with yours and look her in the eyes without saying anything. If she holds that look for a few seconds without saying anything go in for the kiss. Don't put off the k-close forever, chances are if you do k-clo…
/r/seduction05/09/12 05:50 AM
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Exactly. Had myself a case of oneitis not too Long ago. Focused on getting laid instead, and whatdyaknow- cured.
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:47 AM
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Have some sex
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:06 AM
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I know it's worked for me a few times, they get a bit uncomfortable and wonder why your not trying to seduce them still. Puts you at a very high value. The coolest way I've seen this done is with parakeets. I believe Neil Strauss did it, but I literally saw my roommate tell a girl in his bed "I'm gonna go play with my parakeets" and walk out. 15 minutes later, you guessed it.
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:05 AM
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I want to point out that I think asking her if she got your messages was a mistake. Just message her again the next day or two and act like the first one didn't even happen. Second off, don't chase her. If a time comes up, great, go for it. Don't ask her if she's free every day. It's like a kid in the car saying are we there yet.
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:02 AM
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You could have tried a freeze out. Do something completely unrelated to her for maybe 10 minutes, then say something like "fuck it, come here" and I think you can figure out the rest. Some suggestions would be if y'all are on the bed, go check/write some emails at your desk, not really engaged with her at all. It will tell her that if she doesn't act soon, shell lose her chance for any action.
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:56 AM
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She might just not be into you, simple as that. Go approach some other girls.
/r/seduction24/03/12 03:57 AM
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Send her a picture if you want, maybe of you think youre a relatively handsome guy. If you're not than don't. And you can always just send a picture not of yourself, but some cool shit you found on reddit or something. I used a nice picture of a sloth I had for a while, wasn't half bad.
/r/seduction22/03/12 09:16 PM
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Remember that she probably gets texts from a ton of guys just like you, so you have to be different, as well as accept the fact that she wont always have the time of day for you. Send a txt in a few days, but it can't be "hey", "whatsup" or anything like that. Send a picture if you want.
/r/seduction22/03/12 05:27 AM
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If you haven't texted her other than this I would recommend something a little more interesting to get her going. The first text I usually send girls after seeing them is "knock knock...". Don't immediately invite her in the first text, save it for the next one when she's already let you know she acknowledged your text before. Shell feel worse about not replying after a few texts rather than the first one if that's what she wants to do.
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:31 AM
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I like to work out a little while before I go out, leave just enough time to shower. Especially upper body, arms. Makes me feel on top of the world, confident as ever and ready to chat up anyone I want to.
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:14 AM
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I think at times peacocking doesn't have to be over the top, but can be just a bit different, and remember the golden rule-never care. I went out today in a track and field tank top (nothing underneath, I like to show off my body), sunglasses, some shorts, and black socks with moccasins. It sounds ugly at first right? When paired with the right amount of cocky funny, and uncaring attitude, it just shows that I'm comfortable with myself whatever I'm wearing, definite DHV that people notice, consc…
/r/seduction16/03/12 05:05 AM
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Here's a quick grab bag of text openers I like. -"knock knock.." -"made you look at your phone, looks like I've got you in check" -I'm luring women into my house with candy, m&ms or skittles? "I just saw something that reminded me of you" -"surprise!" Remember to use nicknames (cutie, brat, missy, etc), it helps. It's your call whether or not to use smileys, just don't go overboard, remember you're a man. Try not to have long and drawn out conversations in text. Never use "hey whatsup". They get…
/r/seduction12/03/12 06:30 AM
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