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Most people I know are under an n-count of 25. N-count was never something I discussed with anyone but I recently "counted" my girl friends n-count from what I knew of them, they're all under 15-20. Maybe 25 for one. The lowest n-count I know is my best friend (2) who married his college girlfriend. I know one person who could possibly have an n-count in the triple digits and it's a man. I don't know how someone has the time, energy, to sleep with 100 people. I don't think there are enough tripl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:17 AM
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....So you want a virgin with low standards who will never have sex with you ? This is so confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:56 AM
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It was a product to be sold, or agreed to. Nobody sat around a table and discussed what men would gain from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:49 AM
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Because I love him. There will always be someone better, taller, richer, funnier but there won't be another him. He is amazing, we shared beautiful memories and he makes my life all around better. I have no reason to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:31 PM
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F. Emotional: anything that goes beyond the boundaries of friendship. Physical : I guess it starts at heavy petting, kissing. I would feel uncomfortable with things done in secret but I wouldn't consider it cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:44 PM
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Not really worth it in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:04 AM
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No. What's in it for me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:10 AM
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Pretty bad, and I think I'm not that great about it either. I did that around my boyfriend for months, tried my best to show my interest and he never noticed. His friend noticed though and he kinda...told him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:08 AM
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I guess so. I wouldn't be opposed to dating a single dad but he has to have his life together. No more romantic stuff with the mother, no fights, no ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:04 AM
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Was this post made to attract the 1890s nostalgic weirdos ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:03 AM
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Satisfying and effective for the violent rapists. Don't pretend the kids or the wife were better off to justify your wife beating and raping dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:00 AM
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I have this account and a main reddit account. This sub is....special. A while ago, some troll studied my post history extensively and then created an alt to imitate me, and post here as "me". If I used my main account, it would have given him too much info.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:32 AM
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I like the men in my life, that I know and interact positively. As for random men, or men as a society group, I can't say I like them. I don't have any feeling towards them at all. They simply exist and I'm aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:09 AM
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I never talked about my "conquests" like that, that seems so alien to me. When my friends and I talk about relationships, it's basically catching up. I have a few single friends and they'll either share stories about dates they went on, if they're seeing someone, how they feel about it. It's not a bragging contest. And n-count doesn't come up, I have never talked about someone's n-count with anyone before this sub. The only example of a "high ncount" men topic coming up I can think of are very h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:51 AM
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I found it through feminist subs and spent too much time procrastinating work and sleep during quarantine. I like debating and I like having new perspectives. It's been interesting and somehow an interesting shitshow too. I've spent less time here now since I got back to a normal work schedule and I'm not home all the time anymore. I also adopted a dog and she's my procrastination now. I also showed this sub and TRP to my boyfriend and since, if I spot an interesting topic here, I just directly …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:31 PM
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It's reflective of redditors' social skills!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:55 PM
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It counts it's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:47 PM
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Yeah, I agree. It boils down to a matter of character. Love makes it more evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:14 AM
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So not a positive nor a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:39 AM
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Q4M : Does this seem like a description of a woman that would be attractive to you ? strong independent educated woman with financial independence Edit : nevermind, I wanted to use it to make a point but the user deleted his account mid-argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:31 AM
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Thank you. At the end of the day, I'm convinced it's a matter of character. The world is split into people who cheat and those who don't. I don't know which one is the bigger group but I hold myself to high standards, I will make sure I stay in the group of those who don't. It also helps to understand that a partner cheating doesn't say a lot about you. They didn't cheat because you weren't enough/a bad partner/whatever, they cheated because they're cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:07 AM
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I've asked out a few men in the past. Only one resulted in a date and I don't remember what we did nor who paid. I remember "asking out" my first boyfriend in high school by jokingly suggesting we go on an actual date after spending days and days of time one on one. He still planned the date and I think he paid. In dating in general, I always slit the bill, but some, actually most men didn't let me pay at. I had to fight them almost and they often paid anyway. After a date or two, I always made …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:01 AM
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Of course he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 06:10 AM
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Morals and love. It's not in my character to cheat or lie and I love him. He's the most important person in my life, cheating would hurt him and I can't live with myself knowing I hurt him that badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:50 AM
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I don't know but I've only ever been with introverted guys. It seems like they can balance me out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:27 PM
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All my boyfriends have been tall dark haired introverts with beautiful eyes. I really like the dark hair light color eyes combo in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 09:03 PM
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Not particularly, unless again they only go to class and have no life. If they sign up for any introvert friendly club, any sport, any extra activity, they increase their chances to get a 1:1 ratio or more depending on the activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 09:45 PM
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That only becomes an important factor if they never do anything other than going to class and studying. When I was in college, women were a small minority in class but as soon as you do other stuff (partying, clubs, sports, event planning, whatever college kids do now) the ratio was in favour of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:35 PM
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Fixing their mental issues will serve them for life. Living a life of depression and self hatred is a sad faith. Plastic surgery won't fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:32 PM
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Best advice : having good standards and vetting accordingly. Not putting up with bad treatment. Worst : exclusively going for financially non-egalitarian relationships and never paying for any date. I believe it doesn't select for the right men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:29 PM
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Same and that's impressive for a website like Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:16 PM
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...What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:15 PM
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Never been cheated on as far as I know. And never cheated either. I know cheaters of both genders and people who have been cheated on of both genders. It didn't particularly change my opinion and interactions with the other members of that gender. It changed my opinion of the cheaters I know. I broke off friendships with people who have cheated on their so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:16 AM
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I never introduced a boyfriend to my friends or family before at least a little while until I knew it's serious. But I still tell them about him ? It seems shady that they keep it so secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:48 PM
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I'm 5'6 and I was considered tall in Montreal. It was very surprising for me to be average in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:40 PM
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Montreal is a very short people friendly city. I've rarely met a remarkably tall person there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:35 PM
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Oh, maybe that's why one of my exes dumped me. I've never experienced SRS, but I've had the opposite happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 08:22 PM
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It's mandatory for a relationship with me. There is something important and special about waking up next to your partner and morning snuggles are still my favourite part of my relationship. I have a fucked up sleep schedule and wake up extremely early, or fall asleep really late but I join my boyfriend every morning for cuddles right before his alarm. I would just break up if that wasn't on the table at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 08:11 PM
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Is it? I don't see it in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:13 PM
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I've only seen my boyfriend cry in 4 situations: When we watch sad stuff, I think it's cute. It happens rarely though, he only cries at the terribly sad stuff. When his dog died, I cried with him and comforted him. When he almost died and realised it, I cried with him. When got the happy news that his spine was okay and that he was NOT paralyzed from the waist down. I cried with him, and we cried for hours. That probably was one of the most intense bonding moments of our relationship. Scenarios …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:39 AM
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No, I never resented the fact that I earn more. No, it never impacted how feminine I felt, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:10 AM
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I'd take this progressive new system with its downsides and slave away for a job I adore over the old system with its downsides and slave away for a man and kids I wouldn't have wanted, and probably regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:05 AM
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I don't know how to reason with people like you, I don't think I should ever try. I will however call you out on your blatantly false history rewriting that is a huge insult to the great country that France is, to their resilient Resistance and to many many women who went through things you and I could never imagine and who, without a shadow of doubt, were much braver than you and I could ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:07 PM
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I can understand that. Plus it's always good to have a healthy level of distrust and question our culture norms, from time to time. Thanks for sharing your perspective, it was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:49 PM
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That came back often in this thread, it's an interesting perspective. Did unplugging from TRP lessen that distrust?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:14 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with him. I'm just asking for the perspective of that minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:00 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story, I'm sorry you grew up in that kind of environment, but I'm glad you're overcoming it and good luck with it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:57 PM
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If "hated" is not the right word, what word would you use to replace it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:52 PM
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I don't think it's minuscule, especially not on reddit, a website that allows you a lot of anonymity and space to express the thoughts you wouldn't share without said anonymity. I am not labelling anything hate though, not TRP or FDS rage, I am asking the people who recognized in themselves hate, and labelled it themselves hate, to talk about their experiences. I disagree that hate creates disengagement, it can very much do the opposite and create an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:48 PM
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Agreed, nobody should be hating anyone. However, understanding the hate and anger people used to harbour and how they changed would be interesting, hence this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:45 PM
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He can't stop himself from these crazy stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:55 PM
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Good luck! It's a lot less intimidating than it looks like, and you learn to navigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:51 PM
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No, not incel rage. I don't know why you don't think it's possible for non incel men to loathe women to the point of hate ? In this thread itself, men are talking about it. This isn't a "blaming thread", or "you shouldn't hate women thread", this is a "what calmed or changed your hate" thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:48 PM
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What pushed you to hate women in the first place ? How did you snap out of the hate to move into more of fear based disdain ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:39 PM
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Men are more distant than women. They're harder to befriend, it takes more effort than with women. In a male dominated environment, it's also a lot easier to befriend the other women. You kinda bond together instinctively. When I was in college, I was good friends with every girl in my major and it was pretty nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:37 PM
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Oh, okay, I can understand that. I had similar feelings towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:31 PM
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Yeah, I can relate to that. It takes maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:23 PM
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Unfortunately, not everyone does and we apparently have a healthy population of misanthropes and I have in mind at least 3-5 people who hate the opposite gender, by their own admissions and not my interpretation. You still seem idealistic and optimistic, it's not too late to avoid being exposed to this sub. We're not great people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:22 PM
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All of this to come back to the exact same comment you first responded to: Then, this question is not for you if you do not hate the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:38 AM
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It is, I agree. It's what happens when you let your feelings dictate your life and when you give in to your preconceptions. As for what makes it happen, a lot of different things depending on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:35 AM
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Ah, I can understand how bullies can push you in that mental space. Did you ever get rid of the fear/mistrust/etc ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:40 AM
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You said I don't understand because all feminists don't understand. My post is about hate for the opposite gender. And I use hate as the strong word it is because this is exactly what I mean. Not "socially acceptable hate" or mean tweets. Actual hatred you felt. Do you fit the definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:21 AM
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That's good. A lot of them do actually hate women, and I am quoting them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:17 AM
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And that made you question your hate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:12 AM
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You're accusing me of something I've never said.....because someone else said it? I have repeated multiple times throughout this thread hatred. Should I include a definition in the OP for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:11 AM
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Cool, these are not the men my question is directed to. My question is directed to the men who did feel hatred for women. Did you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:10 AM
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Did you forget that I'm not a dude again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:09 AM
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No, I think there exists a genuine hate of women. I've seen men admit here before and in other settings. A genuine anger fueled hate that seeks to destroy the enemy. It's interesting to see how people snap themselves out of it or rationalise it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:07 AM
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I feel similar. I actually did hate men as a gender and closed off the men in my life in a special category, but seeing the worst of men and comparing them to the best of men in my own personal life made me snap out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:02 AM
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Please tell me where I said that. I mean actual hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:00 AM
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Oh, yeah. I think I understand where you're coming from. Although, I feel sad for and pity them more than resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:05 PM
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I am so confused. Is system of things code for casual sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:02 PM
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How are people degenerate? Does hating women balance your hate of men, in the sense that now you feel a neutral hate towards humans in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:54 PM
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I don't know man, my question was for people who did hate the opposite assigned at birth sex at some point in their lives, so I assumed you were one. You know, very surprisingly, I agree with you more often than I'd like to admit on more things than I would have imagined. I still read your comments for enjoyment mostly though, but sometimes they do surprise me. Do you hate the dynamics of relationships with women then ? Or did you before, if you want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:52 PM
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It makes no sense at all for someone to want to bang someone they hate. It's a very conflicting position to be in, and it works like quicksand. The longer you stay in that position, the harder it gets to move on. Which is why it's important to start questioning yourself when you feel like you're getting close to it. It's not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:47 PM
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I mean actual hatred, not mean tweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:43 PM
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Oh my, I've never thought you out of all people would get hung up on gender lmao. So you never hated women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:43 PM
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This has been exactly my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:41 PM
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This is also a valid position too I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:40 PM
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Then the question isn't for you, if you've never hated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:27 PM
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So here's my list of dealbreakers: kids wants kids wants marriage has no drive (no passion, no job, nothing going on) uncompromising and these are the must haves : I must be attracted to him enough to want to sleep with him. (this hasn't happened a lot) has physical traits i like is an fun, interesting person to talk to, has similar values to me a kind person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:43 PM
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I do not agree with either positions. But to claim that it's never expressed on this sub and that the women, including OP, are just misreading and misinterpreting is clear bad faith on your parts. The OP is clearly very literally quoting numerous posters that claim it's their position and also the default male position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:43 PM
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I am. If a man wants kids, he is not compatible with me on what the basics of our relationship should be. If he wants to get married, we're disagreeing again on the very basics of what our relationship is going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:27 PM
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That's the one thing you want your daughter to know for her dating life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:36 AM
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This doesn't answer any of my questions. What's your advice here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:33 AM
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I'm not saying you did! But that was the logic in one of the other replies, that still doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:36 AM
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That is sound logic that I can get behind. "Tall women should date tall men so short women date short men" is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:33 AM
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I'm not a wife, nor do I plan to be, but I outearn my boyfriend. I supported us financially entirely for about half a year a while ago. It was a complicated period in our lives where we both went through a lot of things and him a lot if trauma, and I don't think me paying our bills was on his mind at all. But he did feel "emasculated" and very lost that whole time, so maybe me paying our bills was just another factor in it. In day to day life though, it barely comes up. Our finances are relative…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:18 AM
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I am in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:57 AM
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I just do not understand the logic. If a small percent of the population is tall, then regardless of the height of the woman, "tall" becomes a high standard anyway. I do not understand the logic of "short women stealing tall men from tall women".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:57 AM
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I'm not sure I would be bothered by that "natural" consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:54 AM
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No, one is doing pretty well. Yeah, it very much is detrimental to me. A man who doesn't meet them is a man who's not compatible with me on the basics of what a relationship should be. It will breed resentment from me or him, and be detrimental to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:37 AM
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Most of my previous relationships met those harsh rigid standards so I doubt those men are that rare. And yes, I'd rather be alone than in a relationship that is detrimental to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 08:36 PM
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Absolutely, a LTR where you do not feel appreciated for your being isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 07:40 PM
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In that case, would tall women wanting tall men be the high standard ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:44 PM
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Short women aren't "starving" is my point. The filet mignon is gladly coming to feed them. Why accept a McDonald's burger when the filet mignon is right there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:44 PM
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That's how...distributions work. A majority of women are average height, a smaller percentage is above and below that average and an even smaller percentage is very short or very tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:42 PM
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No, short women are by definition shorter than average. They obviously make up for way less than 50% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:31 PM
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You're assuming short women should think about tall women and "let them" have the tall men for "fairness". It doesn't work like that and is not greedy nor entitled nor unreasonable. A lot, a lot of tall men specifically seek short women. Are they stealing short women from short men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah, it was disturbing like that though. It had advice like "if your relationship is not going well, it's your fault" and "you should love your man even when he messes up", imagine this combo with a sheltered girl in a relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:22 PM
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So you can see how they get slightly impressed when you speak another language. My partner speaks 4 languages & me 2 and learning a 3rd, it makes anyone in the US, men or women, go "wow!".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:19 PM
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Should tall women only date tall men ? Should blondes only date blondes ? I don't have dark hair, yet I exclusively only dated dark haired men, why is that a high standard? How is that a "high" unreasonable standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:15 PM
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Yeah, that's the impression I get too. But it doesn't make any sense because people don't care about "everyone having someone". Lots of really tall men like really short women specifically and vice versa, and there is nothing wrong or outrageous about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:07 PM
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Why short women specifically though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 06:05 PM
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Choosing well and better is something a lot of men should start doing, it would be much better for their hearts and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:58 PM
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Truly my favourite shitposter, I lose interest in the sub when the mods ban you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:56 PM
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I have and always had high rigid standards. I consider that A VERY GOOD thing, I look back fondly on most of previous relationships as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:54 PM
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I, too, enjoy your long crazy rants yelling at us. Absolutely hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:49 PM
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Why is 3 high/wrong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:47 PM
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Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:45 PM
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No, seriously, you people have never seen any comment in the type of : the only value women bring is sex the only reason to get in a LTR is a good stream of sex men don't care about (insert here anything), they're after you for sex only women are of no more value than sex dolls Never ? At all ? I mean...do we read the same sub ? This is legit the first time I've seen someone have a list for what they want in a woman and have more than "be submissive" in describing her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:37 PM
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And no spoken advice from you or her mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:29 PM
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This is the first time I've agreed with you twice in a thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:28 PM
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Yeah, anglophones aren't generally multilingual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:20 PM
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What are her "mother's mistakes" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:05 PM
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It was the main question, but I added a few extra questions in the post, if you would like to answer them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:05 PM
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Better to be single than settle with a bad person that can ruin your life. Do not rely on men financially. Don't make men the center of your life. Have some sort of creative or constructive passion in your life. Focus on education. Very very good advice, for anyone tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:04 PM
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This is very good advice, a lot of it would benefit many grown men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:00 PM
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I agree with the sex education part, it's very VERY important to know how your own body works. Unleash the advice monster here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:57 AM
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Didn't expect less from you! No interest in answering the other questions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:55 AM
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What do you mean by parental issues ? Things like a bad relationship with a parent or another or more serious things ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:54 AM
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The part about choosing your friends well is very important and something that didn't come up at all in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:52 AM
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Did you give them any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:36 PM
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I think I agree with that. Could you answer my other questions please?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:34 PM
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Not necessarily little. Think teenage daughter who has her first few crushes. Jiu Jitsu is very good parenting tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:13 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:55 PM
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No, it was an actual post, not the cuck copy pasta. It was pretty much "how i plan to mold my daughter into an abusive men magnet", it wasn't from too long ago, you can still find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:36 PM
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I agree with the sentiment, I guess. Could you please answer the rest of my questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:33 PM
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You would just not give advice to your daughters??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:31 PM
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You didn't answer most of my questions, but I got so much secondhand embarrassment from imagining a talk about anal sex with my dad. My god.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:20 PM
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If I get bored, I'll read more about it. I wonder if it's simply the change and fluctuations of hormones or the ratios of hormones, because it would be kind of distressing if things like pregnancy can alter it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:19 PM
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That is an interesting way to approach it. I wonder if the opposite would be possible, losing attraction after marrying someone off the pill and then using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:12 PM
2

You always crack me up with your soyboys talk. Surprisingly, I agree with a lot of your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:10 PM
2

What advice do you give your son to avoid it ? Also, we already talked about the utility view you have but I'm curious about what kind of "being" values you would want for your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:06 PM
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I was making sure I didn't confuse you with someone else, before asking my question. Do you ever worry that someone could use your children to get to that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:40 PM
3

The pill one is interesting. I haven't been on the pill in a decade and probably will never do it again, but I do wonder how one could navigate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:38 PM
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Very good advice imo! Especially the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:35 PM
3

What would be those differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:35 PM
3

Interesting. Weren't you a very influential rich man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:29 PM
1

Yeah, that's my main deterrent. I kind of vaguely remember you're not american, did you do it in Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 04:32 PM
1

Awesome! What would you say was the hardest part about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 03:36 PM
1

That's pretty awesome. What field are you in if that's not too private?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 03:33 PM
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My god, I'm defending goddamn Tomi Lahren. Look dude, the 2 pics in your links are different. The forehead has a different size in both your links. Her hairline is wacky in different ways in both of your links and there is a clear hue difference and a line between where her forehead has been extended and her actual forehead. Need I remind you that forehead reduction of that extent are not medically possible. But if you're that gullible, I'm not surprised by your next paragraph. If an unattractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 01:55 PM
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So 2 points : 1) I'd believe that if it wasn't so obviously photoshopped and if forehead reduction of that extent were actual viable plastic surgeries. 2) Even if she did get work done, it doesn't matter, she has way above average looks now. It's irreversible and quite honestly irrelevant. Physical attractiveness isn't about genes, it's about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:03 PM
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Yeah, it's very bad creative writing. AITA used to have a shitpost tag, they should bring it back, it had some hilarious gems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 10:57 AM
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Insane! The second one is just Dang, so I expect the crazy but in what world are her features average in Sweden ?! No wonder they feel robbed with that amount of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 08:31 PM
2

Tomi Lahren ?! a 6 or a 7?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 06:07 PM
2

This is so true! And sadly, it doesn't always mean old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:40 PM
1

This is so weird to me too. When I see women in those situations, I wonder if I had some sociopathic tendencies. I never had an issue as big as an abusive boyfriend though, so maybe that kind of dynamic has a lot more emotional dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:33 PM
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All those situations feel weird and artificial to me, so I'll answer the boarder question. Does my morality affect my "dating strategy" ? Yes, very much so. How ? "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you" I wouldn't lead anyone on, or sleep with a taken person, or throw away loyalty because I wouldn't want to be in the ""victim"""'s position.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:54 PM
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Yeah, that seems very unnatural. That story was too fake, even for AITA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:03 PM
1

Are you really saying being a nurse is an easy job?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:44 PM
2

Absolutely, my own mother included haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:15 PM
2

That's your standard. Do you see the benefit of an art degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:46 PM
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Why are you avoiding my question? We can talk about that when you answer it. My question is : why is it not an education?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:43 PM
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It doesn't matter what worthy to society is, by your standard or mine. Why isn't it an education?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:37 PM
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Why isn't a liberal art degree an education? Because you don't like it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:36 PM
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Why are you so bothered by attention whoring? Don't look at it if it disgusts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:01 PM
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The one OP had, being under the responsibility of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:58 PM
1

Why are you asking me when I'm the one who actively wants to split financial responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:55 PM
1

Why what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:53 PM
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I would hate an arrangement like that, but if you're both happy with it, then don't listen to angry people on social media. Do your thing, people will always find something to criticise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:15 AM
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Thank you! I might PM you in a few days haha. Her previous owners couldn't keep her too, but I think they took care of her very well, she's so sweet, cuddly and full of energy. I'm falling in love so fast! I don't remember much from my family dogs first years, my dad took care of them mostly on his own at first, I just remember the fun moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:57 PM
1

Parental love, maternal and paternal, isn't unconditional either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:28 PM
1

Thank you! I might struggle a bit with consistency but I guess this is my chance at getting better at it. Got it, only reward good behaviour, I think we'd have that under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:37 PM
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We got a dog, and she's wonderful. I've never owned a dog so young (she's 1.5-2) before, do you dog people here have any tips etc ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:53 PM
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This hits really close to home. My world got shaken to an extent I could never have imagined when I thought I was losing my boyfriend after he got in a car accident. He recovered very well but I think I'll never be able to shake away that fear that I could lose him at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:44 PM
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All women do not consistently have sexual leverage over consistently all men. Furthermore, nobody "forces" anybody to do anything anymore. You people look at the past with rose coloured glasses but you forget that the freedom to chose who you fuck and who you commit to is something men greatly enjoy too. If we're framing being a beta as being weak in front of the opposite sex, there are plenty of beta women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:09 AM
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That confirms it then! He's trolling all of us with his weird aristocratic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 03:29 PM
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Right ? He sounds like that guy from "Men should order for women" post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:03 AM
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Day after day, this sub gets dumber and dumber. It will never cease to amaze me how you people equate the freedom of choice when it comes to your sexual partners to actual human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:58 AM
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It is! Some traditional minded people still gasp at the idea but there's not a lot of pressure. I have understanding parents though, my boyfriend's mother had a much harder time with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:47 PM
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No, not really. I had cellulite at 18, after being underweight all my life. It's the thinning of the skin that makes it show. If you gain weight, your skin gets thinner and fat resurfaces. If your hips get wider because puberty, your skin gets thinner too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:14 PM
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Mine were in Europe too, but in a less religious country it seems. I'm also waiting until past 30, it makes it less expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:07 PM
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Go to a female gyno who already had kids! This is a baseless assumption on my limited experience but the only 2 who accepted to do mine where older women who already had kids. Alternatively, google can be pretty helpful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:56 PM
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A lot of men also do not want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:42 PM
2

Your timelines are not that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 05:36 AM
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Wasn't it you who got engaged on a 3rd date or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:59 AM
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Ah, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:49 PM
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It is more of a measure of what is harmful to me or not, these limits are not "pre set. However I know that if I were to put my parents in an extremely distressing situation for a prolonged time, whatever that situation is, I would doubt they'd still love me. I have seen a mother turn cold and lose all love for her junkie son after he attacked her other child. Parental love has limits. If I were in your place, I would very probably resent your mother too much to love or respect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:46 PM
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No, not at all. In the same way you love anyone: you love who they are as long as who they are doesn't infringe on certain limits. Why do you call that utility? If said limits are crossed, love diminishes with every limit crossed until you don't love them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:35 PM
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Not at all, we love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:30 PM
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I do not, and even my very loving amazing parents' love for me isn't unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:26 PM
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How old are you to have grown up with a women are perfect vision ? Isn't "Happy wife, happy life" itself saying unconditional love is nonexistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:25 PM
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I am really curious where you people got the idea that love is unconditional. Did you all watch Disney movies religiously where nobody ever breaks up? Unconditional love doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:15 PM
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You have your answer already though. Insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:16 PM
2

Yes, exactly. It makes you look more elegant instantly. A red lip saves a white tshirt and jeans instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:44 AM
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I love the smell, it brings me back to when I was little and my mother would put a little bit of it on my cheeks. Oh no, that's unfortunate. What exactly are you allergic to, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:42 AM
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I enjoy make up a lot, it's a very nice activity and I really love my own personal collection. My mother always had very expensive taste in makeup so the Chanel and Dior lipsticks she owned were the epitome of femininity to me, growing up. I wear minimal make up to look presentable at work, mostly conceal dark under eyes, and look more awake. I wear heavier, more sophisticated make up when I want to feel beautiful and when it's socially expected. Sometimes I wear make up when it's just my boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:18 PM
1

Tbf there isn't much to compromise about when it comes to moving to a country. One of us would have to make a huge sacrifice. I'm glad too, my plans for life changed dramatically since 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:10 PM
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A mix of the latter and the incertitude that he can't maintain a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:37 PM
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I wouldn't, it's his standard. As long as he isn't saying it in the "but it's different for me!!!" rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:05 AM
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I would have married the man I lost my virginity to at 22 if he went about it with an open mind. He wanted me to permanently move to his country and I really didn't want that. He also wanted a more traditional life and a traditional life is close to my worst nightmare. It showed me how incompatible we really were. If I married him, I would have had a very different life and made different choices that I wouldn't make today. Maybe I would have regretted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:51 AM
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I don't want a man who's a virgin at my age. Fight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:43 AM
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I don't really care, and never really cared. I've dated a virgin before, and besides my current partner, I never knew the n count of my other boyfriends. I still don't care and would only care if the guy can't maintain a long term relationship. That's what I always cared about, how many LTRs he had, how they ended, why and how he speaks of his exes. At my age (close to 30), if a man never had a 2-3 years long relationship but plenty of sexual experiences, I'd be wary of him. I don't think I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:10 PM
1

Weaker would be very surprising, but that wouldn't matter. Smaller would be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:17 PM
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Oooh copy cat is great! If I need an alt, I'm going with that. Yeah, epigenetics are as fascinating too. God, I love science. Yes, we cant keep drowning the fields in it. Sustainable agriculture and development is really interesting, I've met really great people that worked in it. I've only heard about nutrient enrichment, apparently it is very hard to achieve because of how plants metabolism are regulated and how hard it is to "hack" it. It sounds really interesting, I'd read a little about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 09:28 AM
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No, I'd feel a lot worse if it was a woman. If he cheats with a guy, it means he wanted something I just wasn't capable of offering but if he cheats with a woman, what I was offering was simply not good enough. A bigger blow to my self esteem, while with a man, it just means I wasn't the problem. I think the opposite take is closeted homophobia and/or feeling like the relationship was a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:19 PM
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Hungary too, but latest I read was this, about Bulgaria.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 09:50 AM
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Where is our local vegetable and his copy pasting gang to stop these men from sharing misinformation? The data and studies are being denied!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:38 AM
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When I heard about CRISPR, I just couldn't believe it. But my god, it makes my head spin when I think about it. We really did come so fucking far! I did a deep dive in mammals cloning right before the lockdown and it became my new obsession, hence my username lmao, and I literally couldn't get enough of it and read everything I could get my hands on. Absolutely fascinating. Yeah, people who don't know what they're talking about have the loudest voices. So many people out there think GMOs are poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 08:17 PM
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I agree, it's easier to walk away from shitty people. It becomes harmful when you want to apply so bad you internalise it as "Nobody will love me if I don't love myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:38 PM
1

Give me examples and specifics !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:04 PM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:56 PM
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But don't you have an idea from what you yourself observe?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:11 PM
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I personally believe love is conditional for everyone. The only exception I can think of are parents and newborns/babies, but once you grow into adulthood, I don't think parental love is unconditional. I have a hard time believing that most men love women unconditionally, or even for who they are. Nor that most women do for men, for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:10 PM
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Affection really is important, I couldn't be with someone who didn't match how physically affectionate I like to be. I just hate washing my hair so that's limiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:07 PM
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Me neither, dating was never something I discussed with adults, and never in a million years, my parents. I leaned what I learned from my peers and observation, a bit older than 14 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:56 PM
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"You just need to learn to love yourself first" This one is one I believed and wanted to follow to a T. Interesting comparison to college, that's also something that leaves me perplexed on how someone could seriously follow that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:42 PM
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I have a deep deep fascination with plant genetic engineering, I lack the molecular biology background but it's absolutely fascinating. Agricultural sustainability is also a good choice, sure going to be needed in the next years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:38 PM
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But what exactly is the bp nonsense? I'm asking for details.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:12 PM
3

Awesome! Good luck! What field do you plan on getting into ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:21 PM
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Are you an agronomist or biologist? You make very good points, and this isn't the first time one of your comments reminded me of what some agronomists I know say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:14 PM
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I could be confusing them with another country, but I'm pretty sure its Bulgaria, since they have one of the lowest birth rates. To counter it they put in place policies to incentivise families and a higher birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:16 PM
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Thank you for your insight. My ex wife could not stand me caressing her hair because it would get greasy I do that to my boyfriend lmao, thank you for the reminder to be nicer! What frustrates me in all of this is that, among all the bullshit, the men in my life (dad, uncles, friends) were never 100% upfront about the realities of women, just not to lose face among their own women. But secrety, they all knew. It seems to me that your own experiences broke you out of your rose coloured world, do …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:49 PM
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You'll see governments panicking about the birth rate and the replacement rate, and you'll see policies like the ones in Bulgaria. The overall population will get older, and it will put some strain on the younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:40 PM
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Same, sometimes what I read on here confirms my worst opinions and it becomes counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:41 PM
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I was going to say no but then I remember I call my boyfriend very weird stuff and I like when he calls me by the weird stuff that goes through his mind. But none of that, or your post, is objectification though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:42 PM
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Proud of you, this post seems a lot less heartless than the others. Call her and tell her you can't trust her so it won't work. Then block her and don't talk to her. She'll be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:31 PM
1

You don't think you can be lonely in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:27 PM
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It is a choice, you won't die if you're alone. You might die or lose everything for an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:39 AM
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They shouldn't. Nobody should, but if you decide that being in a relationship where you endure abuse is better than being alone, that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:14 AM
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To whole human body*. Yeah, that's my point. You can't compare what men masturbate to what they consider as "standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:20 AM
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Show me a purely visual NSFW sub directed at women. Men masturbate to visuals and fixate on body parts. No woman is going to masturbate to say abs alone while plenty of men rub one out for feet and only feet. It's not a good proxy for sexual attraction to whole humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:58 AM
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I only like standup in french, they're great. For some reason, it's so cringy and kind of forced in english, I can't stand it apart from 2-3 people. Maybe they base their sense of humor on them ? And by criticising standup, they feel attacked in their sense of humor? It's the same logic Kpop fans have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:43 AM
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I'm not saying they don't exist at all. I'm saying that people like you exist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:52 AM
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If short is 5'2, yes. If short is 5'6, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:49 AM
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Oh I know, but I'm playing by their rules. I think I can count the non ridiculous people on my hands, so indeed, I laugh a lot on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:46 AM
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I can't believe I proved myself to you as a real real life woman, do I get a trophy or do I have to master to the gold digging before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:42 AM
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I'm NOT attracted to fat women whatsoever, but I've fucked more than my fair share of them. You made my point ? What your dick gets hard for isn't necessarily what you are attracted to. It's not a good proxy because you had sex with them for another reason. And they could very well masturbate to obese women for another reason too. I think women don't chase fat men very specifically, but I know a lot of women who would take a fat dude over a skinny one. Especially if he's tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:39 AM
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Yeah hyperbolic because this sub sets old at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:30 AM
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No, my boyfriend told me about being very disgusted by some of the porn he watched when he's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:29 AM
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And as you know, a majority of women aren't 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:24 AM
3

Got it, I'm halfway through my journey to be a real woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:22 AM
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Again, porn isn't a good proxy for reality. The number of men attracted to old obese women is as small as the number of women attracted to short fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:21 AM
3

I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:20 AM
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This is what happens when you think NSFW subs/porn are a good proxy for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:14 AM
1

Oh, that's a lot more than I would have thought. Why does she do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:17 PM
1

Where are you now ? 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:32 PM
1

So there is no way for you to trust her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:24 PM
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Like I told you last time, you're both a bunch of walking red flags to each other yet it seems both of you have defective alarm bells. Would looking through her phone bring more trust to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:18 PM
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70% ?!?! Man, that is sad. I am lucky. I thought dislike would be 30% and "content"/"neutral" would be a huge majority. I was already aware that passion-loving your job wasn't that common but like 20%. Double lucky since mine pays really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:53 PM
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Everybody is a bunch of deranged strangers on the internet, including me. At the end of the day, we know nothing about you and our opinions are pretty much worthless. If you love her and want to stay, you'll have to think about how fixated you are on her being a rape victim. You pretty much define her by that. You want to fix her so bad, but you also feel zero empathy. You also have to look out for yourself. You don't trust her, maybe for good reason. Figure out a way to either find out if she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:46 PM
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I really don't think it's "impress" them in the same way I'd want to impress my dad. My desire to impress my dad is to ignite a sense of pride and relief, like "I raised her well". While the sense of pride I'd want in a partner is more about love and admiration. I don't actively consciously try to impress my partner, but if he is, I will appreciate it. Yeah, I've always been very independent and I have really great parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:41 PM
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3% only ? I would have thought more. I thought more people loved their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:31 PM
1

It sounds to me that you don't want to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:25 PM
1

I thought you were leaving her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:13 PM
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I am of the opinion that tradconery is a bit of a prison for both genders, also for men. Couple that with vetting for looks and it sounds like a straight up nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:57 PM
1

Those beautiful long ferns. They're called eagle ferns I think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:27 PM
0

It really depends on character, it's not a clear cut correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:01 PM
2

OP clearly disagrees. He also doesn't think you should be interesting... My point is, I don't do "impressive" things to specifically impress men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:47 PM
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Like I said in another comments, what I require is support. Being proud of me is something I greatly appreciate, but being impressed seems like another step that I appreciate but don't specifically seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:39 PM
2

A partner ? Or someone who is impressed by me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:27 PM
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No, most functional adults are not slaves to their parents approval but having it is still good. My dad is a wonderful father, he is indeed proud of my job but I did a lot of things that go against his personal views. Because we disagree on a lot of things, but I still value his opinion and approval. An example that has nothing to do with being a slut or other men : my job gives me the opportunity to work in 3rd world countries for short periods of time (1-2 months at a time). My dad thinks this…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:06 PM
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Because impressing my dad is a huge bonus. Even if my dad didn't approve of it or wasn't impressed, I'd still do it. Same with men. My boyfriend being impressed or not by my job doesn't really matter, it's a bonus if he is but not in a significant way. It doesn't factor into how I see my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:06 PM
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He sounds like a really great man. Yeah, I want mine to be proud too and more importantly taken care of too. I don't want him to worry about his old days, he's retiring soon and I want him to have the best life. I want the same for my mom. They both raised me to be successful and to want to be successful, and I know it makes them feel proud. The least I can do is give back some of what they gave up for me. Edit : You are so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:33 PM
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Either 5-5, or 4-6. Looks are important but if he's insufferable, I can't deal with it. Then again, looks and personality are not a zero sum game. You can certainly be a 7 in both. Attractive people do not necessarily have a bad personality, and unattractive people aren't good people just because they're ugly. This is a lie to make it feel "fair" but it's still a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:03 PM
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Are you kidding me ? Nobody on PPD is saying that....? Do....you... not read this sub ? I'll tag you in a few if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:48 AM
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I think that bringing children to the world without much thought because of a biological drive is not a good idea. That is my personal belief and my personal advice. So weight the pros and cons. Are you fit to be a mother, are you capable of handling children and complete dependency, etc etc Maybe not 6 years, but don't get married a year after you met, especially if she wants children. You need time to figure out the potential red flags. Date him, live with him, and only marry him when you're s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:59 AM
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Every functioning adult owns clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:02 AM
5

Do you..not wear clothes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:50 AM
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Never did I say give up. But by all means, if this doesn't seem doable, learn to be alone. I actually agree that the pursuit of the opposite gender should not be your priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:45 AM
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That's why I said to vet. To weed out the abusive, manipulative, bad behaviour. You put words into my mouth thinking I said look for the best man. I even wrote : be realistic. What are you disagreeing with exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:36 AM
5

So should she be with an abusive man because she is ugly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:30 AM
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I never want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:18 AM
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Yeah, impressed by my job isn't something I'd look for in a partner. Supportive is more of the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:31 AM
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It's not about you. My career is my passion, it's for myself, and the only man I want to impress with my success is my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:03 AM
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I agree to a certain extent, but if he might start for the wrong reasons but find a purpose along the way. I read men here saying they have no reason to get out of bed if they don't have at least some hope of getting laid, keeping that same hope but putting in the back of their minds could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:09 AM
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Weight the pros and cons for marriage, decide for yourself and be realistic. Marriage isn't everything, it shouldn't be the focus and the goal of your life. Make an informed decision. Don't settle too early or without a job and keep a realistic level of independence, don't lose who you are in motherhood or in marriage. Dont get married at 22, date and vet well and if he's good, marry him at 28. Think long and hard before marrying a 35 years old at 22, really think about it. And stay very very fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:54 AM
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I don't have a solution, besides looking for/vetting for someone who shares your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:31 PM
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Yes and that you can't impose any of the 3 views on society as a whole because there will always be 2 opponents to the status quo that will grow when the issues arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:54 PM
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It sounds like you built a great life for yourself, congrats man. I don't think you're what OP calls a loser though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:46 AM
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I think, and this is just my reasoning and line of thinking, that the main issue for both is gender roles. Gender roles views manifests in 3 ways : Wanting to conform to pre-specified gender roles and wanting the opposite gender to do the same Rejecting and not conforming to pre-specified gender roles, while still wanting the opposite gender to do so. Rejecting gender roles for themselves and the opposite gender. Everyone across both genders falls into one of these. All 3 of them have issues if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:26 AM
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Yeah, the stuck up aristocrat lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:17 AM
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It's really the best when I agree with your rants!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:51 AM
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I agree with the search before the wall. But the rest doesn't fit into P&P, nobody is a feels ony hot guy and every male love interest for the girl there is a hot relationship prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:13 AM
1

How is Pride and Prejudice about red pill issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:58 PM
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As the original soulless ginger engineer, her face is FINE. Move on poop pee butt mcnuggets, she is not THAT ugly. Also, you dream of me pegging you, and you need to stop, it's not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:01 PM
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It's literally what you wrote. I have no horse in this race, you do and you just rewrote my first comment again. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:55 PM
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Oh, it was probably you, great example, this rhetoric is exactly what I'm talking about. When you agree with the research, it must be the truth and when you don't, it's bias. Just own it at this point, you've spelled it out for all of us to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:53 PM
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It doesn't really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:49 PM
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I just want to know why do you people like to shit on Daniel Radcliffe like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:43 PM
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I guess so ?Something like a 3.5 to a 4, apart from the fact that she's fat, and doesn't wear her hair in a flattering way, she doesn't look like she has down syndrome or anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:41 PM
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If you deem the possible female bias enough to discredit the research when it doesn't agree with you, you cannot use it as a source and support when it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:21 PM
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That is an entirely good line of reasoning if it stays consistent. Which it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:16 PM
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I knew it was you buddy! I know you so well already, isn't it crazy? You're the sister I've never had, it's beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:15 PM
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Oh right, only him can get so butthurt over things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:03 PM
1

That dude who was obsessed with my ncount ??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:02 PM
1

What post ? Anyway pretty sure his numerous alts are seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:43 PM
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Omg, u/pooppeebuttmcnuggets, it's you. There is no way it's not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:26 PM
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.....What? Who but the stuck up aristocrats think like this : She pronounces the food and wine on the menu correctly. She also knows what a gentleman is. A man who cannot order for his date or make a suggestion is no gentleman. I would also like to say that conversations about the economy and the news are very distasteful topics for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:18 PM
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So you and I agree, and the nonsense OP wrote is indeed nowhere to be found in the sidebar. OP is literally describing any relationship that ? didn't last a decade ? didn't lead to marriage ? wasn't a relationship with him ? who knows what his logic is? as riding the carousel. It doesn't make sense, not even to reds apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:50 AM
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You wouldn't be lying, you don't trust her. Don't mention her trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:53 AM
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One thing though, find a dumb excuse to break up. Don't tell her you're breaking up because she was raped, that's a very cruel inhumane thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:41 AM
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You want to fix her, but you're unempathetic to her baggage, and you think about it so much you posted about it 3 times in this sub alone, so it definitely translates itself in how you talk and deal with her. You broke up with her once already and took her back, for the sake of loneliness. That should have been her first alarm bell but it seems like she's one of those who do not have alarm bells. You refer to her feelings for you multiple times, but you're very much in denial about your feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:34 AM
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Yeah, it's going to be hard, you have feelings for her and you're lonely. But you're a ton of red flags for her and she is a whole parade of red flags for you. It's doomed for both of you. The longer you stay, the harder it will be, and the more you'll get attached. You'll get sex elsewhere, but you're getting yourself into a situation you will very probably regret. It's time to build your support group and your bros to hang out with, it will be useful in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:23 AM
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Get it together and break up with her. Cold turkey, and never see her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:14 AM
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Is this the same girl you called a savage a while ago here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:08 AM
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Blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:11 AM
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Well, no but my rule of thumb in my relationship is making your partner's life easier? I'm really not keeping tabs. There are things that I do more of and I don't want to do more of, so I...say it. Usually neither of us is keeping tabs, he isn't saying things like "you made me a sandwich now so I'll make you the next one", to come back to a similar thread we had a day or two ago. He just...does something else but with the same kind of care, like heat up the shower for me because I asked. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:44 PM
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It drives me insane. They claim studies and "truth" but spit and discredit everything that doesn't follow their narrative. An example I saw the other was someone saying that psychology was a female dominated field, therefore any psychology study can't be taken seriously. Yet that same guy copy pastes studies for his points. Studies from the same field.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:25 PM
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This was a great take to read, I disagree with a few points but interesting read nonetheless. How is it problematic for society that a small subset doesn't pair up, in both genders? Sex and relationships are a two way street and enthusiastic sex even more. The sad reality, the true red pill that a lot of people, in both genders, do not seem to have swallowed here, is that some people will end up alone, unpaired and without knowing a relationship or love in their entire lives. It doesn't mean you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:14 PM
1

No, not do everything, but be responsible for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:04 PM
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50/50 is fair. It's just not 50/50 on every single thing all the time. A relationship is not a competition for who does more or who does less. I love cooking, I cook a majority of our meals. I'm forgetful and he is a neat freak, he does a lot of the cleaning. Some things matter to him a lot, he takes care of them and I do the same with the things that matter to me a lot, but we take care of each other by being mindful of that. As for pregnancy, I do believe that the man should pick up more of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:03 PM
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Traditionalism is a man's prison too. Men would be responsible for everything, everything. No slip up or outliers allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:50 PM
2

(it's a troll) (a great one but a troll still)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:42 AM
1

gets in and out of relationships every year or two The OP states this is the CC. So you're against the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:01 AM
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So dating for a year or 2 with no intent to keep the relationship forever, much less get married = CC ? Or sport fucking if you want to call it that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:50 AM
1

Je crois ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:02 PM
1

...Was this meant for me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:09 PM
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The husband is also dependent on the business. Better to cut the middle man and deal with the business myself. It also has a clear bonus that if the business ups and leaves, I have more tools to find another business to pay the bills. If the husband ups and leaves, who knows when I'll find the next good husband ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:59 PM
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Right ? I'd sell my soul to keep doing my job let alone hypothetical family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:53 PM
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That's a first step, at least you're not wrapped around your ego and your sense of self. But when you see people going through misery, and fight their way through it, I feel like it's hard to not want to lend them a hand when you can. Even if said hand is simply saying "I'm sorry, it sucks, good luck". I think just interacting with healthy people might help you, simply to give you a guide on what healthy interactions should look like. I'm not talking about romantic interactions, just normal frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:02 PM
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How do you learn empathy? Encounter a lot of misery, it humbles you. Do you feel like being with them pushes you further in your depression? Or do they help you by understanding you? Do you think you might be consciously or unconsciously avoiding healthier people, for a reason or another ? It doesn't have to be an instant healing and it probably won't be. It will be an uphill battle for years, but I'm confident it will be worth the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:53 PM
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I understand that, tbh. It's harder to take your own advice. But I do think remodeling it might give you more focus, and perspective when you come to the source. If you made your own sidebar, and still browse TRP, you could focus more easily on the parts that matter the most and more easily disregard what inflates your insecurities. I know, life is a lot more comfortable in an extreme. You don't need to question yourself or doubt your beliefs, it is so much easier. But it has a cost, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:44 PM
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It doesn't sound like the best environment to grow up in. There are very few things that could do more damage to a person than an abusive parent. I can imagine how distressing as a child to have the only person who seemed to love you be so cruel to you, on the simple basis of looks. How are you doing socially now, in terms of friends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:38 PM
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Why not remodel the reminders TRP give you in a healthier way for you? Get rid of what plays on your insecurities and copy paste the rest in like a google doc that you read when you feel lost. I am not a misandrist haha I used to be, that is true but I also used to be a misogynist and now I'm a feminist. I still harbour a level of resentment towards the male gender that I deem unhealthy, but I try to work on it. I feel like this sub is part of working on it, interacting with men that have views …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:27 PM
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Your mother, and grandmother, sound like very cruel people. The abuse your dad went through is and would never be justified. What would bullying achieve anyway ? Shaming and pain never made anyone taller. Do you protect your insecurities because of a fear of being hurt more ? As in you'd rather be insecure and hate yourself than trust someone to love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:17 PM
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Do you think you'd be healthier if you took a break from that media ? You don't have to change your mind, just take a breather and focus on yourself and on how you feel about it all ? You don't have to believe me, or even listen to me, I am just giving you my perspective and what you do with it is your decision. I do feel like I understand where you are coming from, though. I think so, yes. Maybe it wouldn't have saved the relationship, but it's always good for you, and your own mental health to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:14 PM
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So most of your insecurities are based on your looks alone. This is honestly much better than having them based on who you are as a person. Maybe if you begin with seeing the good in who you are regardless of your looks, you'll be in a better place, better armed to tackle your looks. One thing that I feel black pillers and lookists often miss is while looks do matter, looks I find attractive might not be looks another woman finds attractive. Like I've already debated mercilessly on this sub to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:09 PM
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I don't think everything in TRP is unfounded or even wrong. There are a few things that are TRP ideas that I in fact do agree with, but there are enough core tenants that are plain wrong and damaging in my opinion. One of them is this notion that women cannot love you, what kind of relationships can you build on this belief but one where you are trapped in one sided loneliness? If you both connected on the basis of your sadness and trauma, and shared a similar sense of insecurity in the relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:52 PM
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What do you mean dishonest ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:34 PM
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It does sound like a parallel in how you connect with each other. Maybe they sensed it in you, and had the same emotional connection. Well, I'm insufferably blue and in my perspective, if my opinion means anything to you, healthy relationships do exist, they're not a lie and they're really great. They need work though, and self reflection, a lot, all throughout the relationship. As someone who almost married an insecure person, because I was similarly insecure myself, it's a whole lot better whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:29 PM
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Yeah, just like those 40yos believe their dicks give guidance and life advice to the uterus in the form of sperm. It's gross to everybody who sees through it. And only defended by other creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:11 PM
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They probably weren't responsive to your reassurance, either. I'm willing to bet the non monogamy things weren't the only mind games you had to deal with in these relationships. It's not too late to find out why, and more importantly how to make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:08 PM
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I don't understand. You need them to be insecure to connect with them but you don't want insecure women....? Or are you just trying to understand why ? It's very interesting that there is such a clear pattern though. Did both relationships start in the same way, setting or context?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:01 PM
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Hope you find a way to work on them. But in the meantime, being aware of them seems like your best bet. Next step is to be able to vet for women who are not like that. Who knows what goes into the mind of a cheater. But insecurity gives you a questionable moral compass, and insecure people are just going to do their best to appease their insecurities. If you're routinely telling yourself that there's no way your partner actually loves and cares about you, why would you feel bad when the opportun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:40 PM
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If you attract insecure women, tried to yourself work on your insecurity and still attract insecure women, you need to start vetting for secure women and not trap yourself in relationships with insecure women. Insecure people are terrible to deal with in relationships, in both genders and infidelity is only the tip of the iceberg. Even if they stay loyal, they won't be good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:27 PM
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You should try to identify inflammatory memes better, it will save you some time. Define "large", if it's 3...then you're describing modern dating. What else can you do if you don't want to hop on a different man's lap every weekend and don't want to date for marriage? Or is "not dating for marriage" the very definition of the CC ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:17 PM
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Ah non non je veux bien faire ça pour l'intern terrorisé mais sinon je peux pas gérer les smileys en excès
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:17 PM
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Oups haha tu t'en sors bien so far mais ohlala j'ai un intern, 20, cute et naïf et je suis vraiment vraiment nice avec lui mais si je mets pas de "🙂" ou des !!! dans mes mails il pense je suis énervée Je m'énerve littéralement jamais for fucks sake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:10 PM
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I'm not infuriated, I'm as chill as one can be. Are you one of those gen z cuties who can't read tone if there is no emojis ? Sometimes you have very literal people in this sub to whom you need to explain everything in detail, since you either didn't read the OP and fell right into my inflammatory meme, or read the OP and didn't understand and fell right into my inflammatory meme, I assume you're one of them. I'm still ELI5ing you all of this because it does seem like you're one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:27 AM
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OP wrote in clear, very clear, readable, english : every couple of years. You know, couple of years means 1 or 2 years, between 12 and 24 months, or 52-110 weeks, between 365 and 730 days. Can you see how it's very different from every weekend? You know that every weekend means every 7 days ? Yes, so every 7 days is a bit different from every 400 days, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:22 AM
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Probably just make it for him, if I'm not busy doing anything. And tease him/ask him about eating a meal in the middle of the afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:16 AM
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I'll replace the sandwich by a random snack, because to me a sandwich is a whole meal replacement and it would weird me out to make my SO a whole meal and not eat with him. If it's a snack, like sliced fruits, or stuff like that, I'll just bring him his snack and his drink. You're doing your SO a favor and making his sunday afternoon better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:59 AM
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It would crash and burn. We are not even that honest, clear and robotic with ourselves, let alone with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:02 AM
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It's all sarcasm. Backpacks can be and are feminine: look at designers backpacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:53 AM
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I adore the men in my lives. Even the shitty guys at work, what would be my fb trash talking group without them. As for men as a whole, I swing between resentment, acceptance and appreciation. It's always a mix of these 3 sentiments, with different ratios. I do "love"/care for humanity as a whole, and that includes the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:47 AM
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This is really cute. I love it when it's written so clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:01 AM
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"rEaD tHE sIdEbAR!!!" "no....not like that"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:56 AM
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I have my own privacy, and so does my partner. I have his phone password and he has mine, but it stops there, I always ask him before using it. I'd view it as a red flag if someone wanted access to everything I own 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:48 PM
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Uhm sorry what ? Backpacks are the definition of emasculation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:07 PM
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I don't know if it's tone that is not passing through my text or if you didn't notice it but...I do not care either lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:37 PM
1

Is this really what freaking out looks like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:33 PM
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No but imagine it, imagine handing your purse, your baby, your cherished carefully picked studied and chosen baby to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:20 PM
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Oh god, I'd be devastated if it happened to me. My most expensive ones are gifts from my mom, she would be so sad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:59 PM
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What woman trusts a man with her purse anyway? I'm not about to trust my boyfriend to walk around carefully with hundreds of dollars in his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:51 PM
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So it's not just covid ! No, it's a good example of what happens when you overthink every little thing. If alpha is the confident guy who has self-respect, he won't be his gf's obedient puppy and hold all her 32 bags and walk around behind her. He would however hold it if she asked, or it's heavy or if he just wants to help. There's a fine line but apparently not everybody can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:47 PM
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What the fuck is this lmao Is this covid or do you guys really have questions like that going through your head and overthink them like that all the time ? No, don't go out of your way to hold a woman's purse. If you want to for whatever reason, do it. If you don't, don't do it. If she needs her hands or something and asks you to hold it for a second, be polite and do it. Nothing more to overthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:30 PM
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It's not stupid though, I distinctly remember that they both gave an interview or something about their open marriage like years ago. If you follow celebrity gossip, you know Will isn't guilt free either. There's no open but only my way marriage, that's stupid. You can't fuck around for years then sit there with teary puppy eyes and pressed lips so we feel bad that your wife also did the open my way thing. Plus the important part is, in Will's words : "I was done with your ass", they were separa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:08 PM
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I don't think so. This is not the first person to have sex with their kid's friends, and while people feel grossed out, if said kid is an adult, it dies out. This is certainly not the first time a celebrity cheated with a much younger partner. People are still not outraged about the right thing, all they're crying about is how she cheated. Like duh, if there's no faithfulness in the relationship, why wouldn't she cheat ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:19 PM
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Who knows. Moral of the story is do not fuck your kid's friends. And he was by her own words, in a bad place, the whole thing is gross. It's like those guys in their 40s talking about "giving guidance" and "wisdom" to broke lost 20 years old, stop bullshitting and own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:16 PM
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Yeah, I'm not about to defend fucking your kid's friends. Go find other 20 somethings to have sex with, but fucking who your kids hang out with must be at least a little traumatizing for your kids. She's crucified left and right though, but for the wrong thing. She didn't technically cheat since 1) it's an open marriage 2) they were separated, but Will's puppy eyes and tears hidden behind giggles and jokes are making people focus on the wrong thing. Then again, I'm not on Twitter so maybe the Tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:12 AM
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....Do we all collectively have amnesia? Weren't they in an open relationship for like...the last 5 years? Did I hallucinate it ? I remember reading about it and being so profoundly shocked, was it a fever dream ? Wasn't it Will who opened it ? Did we live in different realities? The fact that it was her son's friend is what we should be outraged about, it's plain gross. All the sad addicts out there and yet she chose the son's friend, imagine your mom with your friend, this is the shocking part…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:52 AM
1

He showed me that I'm clearly too tamed, he's angering everyone wherever he goes, it's incredible haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:04 AM
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Tbh I like them, they're cute. All that angst and hate, it's a little endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:56 AM
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It's a troll imitating me, pushing everybody's buttons, it's okay he is not serious lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:42 AM
2

My god, it would suck. If he was my only friend, I'd annoy him and over burden him so much, he'd hate me a little, for sure. If I was his only friend, I could handle it a little better because he is more of a loner than me but I'd be irritated too. An overall strain on the relationship, but if we manage it well (alone time + still living our lives individually) we would survive it, but at least one of us would be unsatisfied (probably him). I'd chose having all my close friends rather than lose …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:10 PM
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it's a troll imitating me, do not take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:15 PM
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The pseudoscience. The goddamn pseudoscience drives me crazy. The data cherry picking. The lethal confirmation bias. The unwillingness to learn and adapt but rather reject and sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:39 PM
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What an idiot, how stupid can you be. I get angry insults, angry PMs that turned into cool discussions and weirdly a lot of very nice PMs from users who were super nasty to me in the public comments. All very fun. But this one is really special I actually love it : u/D_dolly is out there taking time to study a lot of things about me to pose as me, and post top comedy comments calling me fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:27 PM
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He's doing it so well, I'm a huge fan at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:53 PM
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Read his other comments, they're hilarious. I figured it wasn't you, but I thought you'd appreciate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:50 PM
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Tag him in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:12 PM
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u/GhostTheEternal another one. Notice how he lumped 14 &15 in it, if 16 is good enough for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:02 PM
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u/GhostTheEternal Here is one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:02 PM
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......What. Do you want me to tag you in one or two ? Edit : I take it back, look at the other comments right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:54 PM
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Lmao what kind of reality do you live in where teen boys are going to flirt and talk to teen girls....and not fuck them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:42 PM
1

Okay, so the 16 year old girl that 18 year olds sharpen their skills on (what does that mean ? Flirt? Have sex with ?) is she worthy of marriage to a 30 something BB at 23 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:23 PM
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Thanks for saying it so clearly, I appreciate honesty and no BS answers. So if we have a 10 years difference between man and woman, the 22 year old man is going to date the 12 year old? Then marry her...when ? 16, 18, 20 ? Let's stick to the age of consent, 16-18. Here you have the 22 year old guy courting the 12yo...what does the 18 year old guy do ? When should men start looking for their teens brides ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:17 PM
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Do you want a time limit set on marriage? I don't understand your point or what it has to do with the post. Are you saying there is no other way for men and women to have a family than women going for BB ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:08 PM
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Yes, and child brides and marital rape also happened all throughout history. What's your point? Besides...this is about the 18-24 year old men being left out. Should they be sexless and alone all their 20s ? Or marry teens ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:04 PM
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ça me tue, dead, morte de rire idk j'ai envie de voir ce qu'il va faire de plus et jusqu'où aller + qui s'est surtout ! grave curieuse de qui pense à moi autant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:08 PM
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Journalists are really never a good hard science source. You shouldn't read a journalist take on an engineering advancement, you should read the direct publication. And even then, take it with a grain of salt and wait for peer reviews and more discussion. Alright, stop editing your comments after I replied. It is written in black and white in clear words that if we keep doing what we're doing now (not reducing anything significantly) we are going towards 3°C. The biggest polluter, China and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:58 AM
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Yes, it is. And it's what I'm telling you. We are going towards 3°C and we need to work at reducing it. Yes, I agree, journalists are very bad, terrible, at science but some things in life just straight up suck. It's always a good reflex to look at the source and study directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:53 AM
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Okay. But compete for who ? The teens or the older unmarried women ? Because the young women will be with the 30 year old, he makes a much better BB. Especially if he spent his 20s competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:29 AM
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No, the most probable temperature is 3°C and it would be catastrophic. And it does not come with 30 cm of sea level rise. If your numbers are from 2010, they're too old. I'll send you the report, it's based on thousands of studies made globally. It's not journalism, it's science. It's the scientific consensus. Here is the link to the latest emergency report made by the IPCC, for governments. Its goal is to convince lawmakers to try to limit it at 1.5°C because 1.5°C is already high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:20 AM
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You need to memorize the parameters that go with it, it's not enough by itself. I'll look it up for you when I have some time to make sure but if I remember well, it's indeed around 1m if the increase is under 1°C globally before 2100. Yet it is very clear that we will never limit the temperature increase at 1°C, since the current situation/legislation/system is pushing us towards 3°C and we are now trying to work towards 1.5°C because 2°C has terrible consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:03 AM
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It's really not sensationalism, I still have the PDF of the IPCC 2018 report of a thousand studies, if you want to read it. It's environmental science, it's all predictable. If the current trend of the temperature rise persists, X amount of ice will melt at Y rate and the ocean level will rise by Z meters/x years. How many cities are under Z meters in 2070? This many. It's no BS, straight up science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:48 AM
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From an environmental point of view, we're gone by 2100 if nothing changes. By 2070, a lot of places are uninhabitable. In the last report from 2018, I read that most of the coastal cities will be underwater by then. Venice disappearing way before that. And that's not even taking into account the social problems that will rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:30 AM
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I'm confused by all these men who want institutionalized monogamy and marriage early. What 23 year old man is thinking "Oh man, I wish I had a wife right now" ? Or are you thinking the 23 year old woman marries the 30 year old man? What does the 23 year old guy do in that situation? Go for teens ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:27 AM
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Indeed, indeed, it was mostly sarcasm. We're already tearing everything down, we're at the edge of our civilisation. Not too get into this too much, but if a groundbreaking science and technology breakthrough in terms of environmental management doesn't happen sometimes soon, we will all drown and burn pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:19 AM
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Brought a tear to my eye, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:05 AM
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I can relate, never been this bored too. Will serve you a lot more than ppd when society collapses because incls burned it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:01 AM
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What percentage of men you’ve asked out have said yes? 25%. •What percentage of men said yes and just used you for sex? 0%. •What percentage of men said yes and it led to a genuine relationship? 0%. •What percentage of men said yes to use you for sex, but then it turned into a relationship? 0%. It never went anywhere, he wasn't that into me. The rest of the time, if the guy I wanted wasn't clearly interested, I did women's version of "asking out" that men don't consider asking out but it's basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:56 AM
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Never underestimate boredom though, even from the reasonable people, so you're not completely disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:43 AM
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You're a reasonable person tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:39 AM
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Knowing that you take every opportunity to insult me, I might not be surprised. But that level of dedication is too much simping for you, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:39 AM
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En plus c'est accurate un peu j'aurais vraiment dit ça lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:28 AM
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ça m'a bien fait rire lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:27 AM
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it's not a real person look at their comments/username. + il parle comme moi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:21 AM
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Right ? So it must be a gigasimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:59 PM
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Mommy boys, mostly and soapy sitcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:00 PM
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Which one of you simps made a whole goddamn account to send me one comment ? edit : this guy is hilarious lmao, I take the simp back, you're great, I hope you never stop
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:06 PM
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Oh my god. Did you make an account just for me ? Thank you so much for giving me so much thought. Is it you u/pooppeebuttmcnuggets? I knew you were my biggest fan, I'll DM you my onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I can totally understand. Hope you'll find that someone!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:02 AM
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Tbf to him, he has an easier time compartmentalising sex that's not sex for love while I do not have that capacity at all. He describes it as mutual masturbation, while sex with passion and enthusiasm is a whole experience . It did kinda bother me at first but tbh in the grand scheme of things, the fact that he once had a few mutual masturbation buddies (fwbs) doesn't matter to how he sees sex with me. It's very clear that I'm not "just another notch in his post".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:59 AM
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Not necessarily, I think. If half of that 15 has been ONS, you're not that much experienced at relationships than someone who had 7 relationships. Even if you consider sex entirely differently, compatibility is still possible. Anything sexual feels very wrong to me if I'm not at least a little in love/strongly infatuated with a man, while my boyfriend doesn't see it that way at all. Yet I honestly think I'll never be as compatible with someone as I am with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:48 AM
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Not sure I agree. I don't think we can or should police who dates who, if some low n men want to marry sluts or if some manwhores want to marry low n women, they...kind of have every right to if they can. It's not wrong per se, we're all responsible for our actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:39 AM
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Bf is from a culture that cares about it a lot, but as he aged it just wasn't that important anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:26 AM
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None of them deemed it enough to break up with me then, except maybe the one I talked about for whom an ncount of 0 was not a good deal. Current bf explained it to me a lot more clearly than this sub that goes into laundry lists of arbitrary tells and rationalisation, I like his 1-10 scale analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:20 AM
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The only time I cared was when I was a virgin and was very very intimidated by the fact that he had a lot more experience. I think its probably a reason why he broke up with me, since I felt so insecure I didn't sleep with him. After that, I never cared. I was always more interested in history of cheating/relationships, as in what went wrong and how they spoke of their exes. I can't say for sure if any of my past boyfriend ever cared, none of them asked, directly or indirectly. I asked my curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:25 AM
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2&4. More important things are happening and you can't help them, there is no tangible societal solution. They have to figure out why and how to make themselves attractive enough. Since 20% of women in that age bracket are also sexless, I think it's a wider younger generation problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:09 AM
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Hello, hi, could you please ELI5 how it will solve the problem? Step by step, literally like I'm a 5yo. I'm kinda confused, do 18-24yo men look for marriage at that age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:02 AM
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It is about defending what is right, for sure, I agree. I didn't word it correctly but it's more about defending the men who post here with the opposite point of view ("AF or nothing", the other extreme), rather than men as a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:46 PM
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My boyfriend has a bunch of fish that I know nothing about. And we're adopting a puppy soon too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:33 PM
2

Interesting. I definitely do not think of it that way, and see more "effort" as a concrete way to show appreciation. I never consider spending money on me as showing appreciation, it could be that way but I never interpret it like that. Frankly, I don't think I could. My love language is definitely physical touch and I cannot have a relationship with someone who doesn't show his love that way too. I need the physical affection part to feel loved, and money or other love languages cannot replace …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:16 PM
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This is so strange to me. I feel so uncomfortable with money spent on me, I always let a guy pay the first date or the first few dates if he was the insistent type but after that, it makes me uncomfortable enough to like, force him to let me pay. I like the occasional gift, or the occasional surprise get away but I always reciprocate and both things are never about money to me, but about the thoughtfulness of the gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:02 PM
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But...are you turned on by him buying it for you or him wanting you to wear it for him ? Manipulators and users do exist though, I don't think they're that rare in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:51 PM
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I've met all my boyfriends through my social circle. The friends of friends of friends kind of things. I've been in a relationship for a few years now, so I don't know if the impact of dating apps significantly changed today but I think it's definitely possible to date through your circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:45 PM
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Is she though ? I don't personally get more aroused by a man if he is financially stable or buying me stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:39 PM
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I'll rephrase it then : a lack of sexual attraction big enough to dead bedroom them/only have duty sex with them. Probably, but being valued for your RMV on top of your SMV seems worlds away from being BB, which to me is only being valued for your RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:31 PM
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I think it's a bit...extreme at best to frame it like that. It's not "hookup with him right this minute" vs "0 sexual attraction". It's desiring him, wanting him as a sexual being AND valuing his RMV vs keeping him around as a tool whether it's financial provider (only valuing his rmv) or something else. I don't think it's unreasonable to want to be sexually desired and wanted by your wife, just like it's not unreasonable to want to be loved and valued for more than sex by your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:17 PM
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I don't know. If I were a man, I'd chose sexlessnes and no kids rather than being used, it would hurt my pride and sense of self too much and sex/genes are simply not worth it. To me, being in love inherently includes lust. I'd never marry a man I'm not attracted to, nor sleep with a man I don't love and respect. So if she doesn't desire him, she's not fully in love with him. It's equivalent to me to a man who would only be with me because he needs sex, with 0 appreciation of who I am. I'd much …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:58 PM
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From what I understand, what hurts in being BB is that you're not desired by said wife/gf. She's not lusting for you. It's not a sexual relationship per se, you're seen as an object to be used and deadbedroomed when done. A mean to an end, a tool. Understandable to not want that, nor be grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:48 PM
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BB, from what I've seen, is not what you describe. It's in simple non rp words being used, and never desired nor respected. I can't believe I'm defending the perspective of men here but nobody should aspire to be used and disrespected out of desperation, much less being grateful for it. There are ways to be in a relationship, as a "provider", father if that's your thing, while still being with someone who respects and loves and wants to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:28 PM
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He does look young. But in pics where he is more adult dressed, I think he looks hot. But angsty teen that smokes with an irritating face was exactly my type as a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:15 AM
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Right? Shocked every day by this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:07 AM
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Cheating, 100%. I can't imagine seeing a significant other as an option, a respectable human being instead of the piece of trash he really would be if he hit me. I would lose all respect and love for him, I would feel 0 remorse in tearing his life apart, ruining it and treating him like the piece of shit he would be. I can't imagine loving someone like that. I'd never stay with a cheater either, I'd be repulsed too but nowhere near as much as the other one, I would understand trying to work on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:51 AM
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I just made a thread on that and a lot of men in this sub do crave a family and kids. Especially kids. A lot of women do not want kids either, most people are not driven by their lizard brain biology as much as this sub would like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:43 AM
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If it makes your ego feel better, sure thing bud. He was at his hottest in 2013 though, I'm sure his movies from then are still giving tingles to teens today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:08 PM
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Yeah, his eyes are amazing. They're a part of why he looks so good with glasses. In every movie he acted in, I always got a little obsessed with his forearms and hands. I can't believe these people think he's not particularly attractive!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:00 PM
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I am a white female in my lafe 20s, does that make me more susceptible to be attracted to him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:57 PM
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Good for DR, he is both!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:19 PM
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I don't think so, the nerdy artsy hipster look is kinda popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:15 PM
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You and I already talked about Daniel Radcliffe in lengths. He's definitely my type, and very much a 9, purely based on looks, checks all the boxes of hot artsy dude. Hot dark haired artsy guy is my exact type. The other you cited are really not my type, they're good looking but nowhere as close as Radcliffe is to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:13 PM
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If he doesn't have wide shoulders....who does ? Besides, his wide shoulders are not the only attractive thing about him, his face is almost flawless. If he was taller, he'd be a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:58 PM
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He's exactly my height, so that's no big deal. But he has a beautiful face : perfect jawline, out of this world eyes, and the kind of build I love in men, wide shoulders, perfect forearms, wide hands. With longer dark hair and no beard, he is the definition of my 9. If he is "not particularly attractive" literally all men but a handful are straight up ugly to me, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:50 PM
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Him in that white turtleneck, a cigarette in his hand and wet hair with those glasses in that movie is the definition of tingles for me. I remember Kill your darlings had other hotties but none close to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:46 PM
1

You don't want marriage, as in legal marriage, but you want a long term committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:39 PM
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Dude ? Have you seen him in Kill your darlings ? A real hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:34 PM
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How about we do not ruin this victory by comparing our minds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:33 PM
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Wow look at this, poop pee butt mcnuggets, I agree with you! Both good examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:31 PM
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She is not lying, with a consistent comment history to back it up. You just want your view confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:49 PM
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Why are you so invested in this ? She consistently said for months that she in fact does. You've read one of her comments and went on your own theory because....it does not fit your view of the world ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:47 PM
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Well if she says she likes feminine features, and feminine mannerism, and a bunch of them came out as trans, it is safe to assume she likes feminine looking men. People have different standards and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:43 PM
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No, not at all. I remember her talking about the guys she liked coming out as trans. That's her type and she's been true to it, believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:38 PM
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Daniel Radcliffe is legit a 9 in my book, literal chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:32 PM
1

I mean let's say one of the reasons you divorced your ex was he or she called out their sibling's name during sex more than once. This is hilariously specific, but I can so imagine someone disclosing that on a first coffee date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:18 AM
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Yes, yes I already read your why not. I was asking in what situation would the reward overcome the risks. I'm trying to be a listener in this thread and not let my opinion on marriage intrude with that, it is all very interesting. Interesting. Would you live well never having kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:23 AM
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Same in my experience. When the topic of sexual past came up, my boyfriend and I mostly talked about previous relationships, how they ended, why etc. Never did he sit me down and ask how many people I've slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:05 AM
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Stability for a family. The male and female point of view are not that different in the end. Now we can get into your long list of why you're not doing it : in what situation, would you get married then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:44 AM
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You want to marry for the symbolical aspect of it and kids ? Ive been reconsidering how I want my marriage to be designed Can I ask you to elaborate on this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:33 AM
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What do you define as "married but not legaly" ? A committed LTR ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:31 AM
1

You did not answer my questions : why did you want to get married to your ex wife in the first place ? Why do you want to marry your gf ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:29 AM
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7!!! 5 c'est manageable, mon frère en veut 5, le 4ème arrive et ils en ont toujours pas marre donc ça doit pas être si horrible que ça
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:27 AM
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I promise you, these were americans and canadians who registered "husband". Or maybe they first thought I was a radlib, saw that I'm obviously not and then remembered husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:23 AM
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No, it doesn't imply husband but most people still register husband, partner calls for more seriousness than boyfriend. I've had multiple people tell me that they were surprised we weren't married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 09:31 PM
1

Interesting, thanks for your answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:24 PM
1

Oooh i thought you meant a woman who dated Elon Musk likes is a jealous person. Thanks for answering my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:23 PM
1

I don't understand, why should she date a man with less options?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:58 PM
1

Alright, seems pretty consistent with the other posters. Companionship and stability as the main reasons. Do you want kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:55 PM
1

You just listed me all the reasons you are not looking for marriage. I know. What I am asking is why do you want marriage/a working relationship if you want, in the first place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:38 PM
2

Combien lmao hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:29 PM
1

Would you do it again if you could go back in time ? Kids, marriage everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:26 PM
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Well since I'm a woman talking about a man and a "he" when I use it, most people register "husband" and not boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:24 PM
1

Yes, money is a very necessary component to happiness no matter what sayings might say. To you, your pursuit of monogamy is an internal struggle ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:22 PM
1

I am interested in why they want a working marriage in the first place. We hear from those who do not want it all the time, I'm curious about those who do. So you do not want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:21 PM
1

Compréhensible tbh, surtout si tu veux des enfants
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:19 PM
1

Could you elaborate more on your ownership point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:18 PM
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I guess in a way, yes. The first one was a high school boyfriend, we both moved away for college before I was ready. I dated the second one for 6 months, and I still wasn't ready so he broke up with me. The third one waited and we dated for years, and I was truly in love with him as opposed to the other 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:58 PM
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The second date ??! Way too early, 2 dates is a few hours together, so not enough. For me the "not ready part" was about: 1) Feeling physically safe (is he going to assault me ?) 2) Having my attraction confirmed: is he really as attractive as I first thought? These two can be settled in 2-3 dates. 3) Would he be a good fit in bed ? Is he a good listener? Does he treat me with care and affection? That will translate in sex and I need that. 4) Do I like him enough to sleep with him ? Do we have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:16 PM
10

One of them told me not so long ago in all seriousness as a true argument: we are helpless in front of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:06 PM
1

So you feel and look like a chad, but don't have the status or money to fall back on ? You're successful like a chad, but you want monogamy, did I get it right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:00 PM
1

En vrai, j'ai le même mindset ?! Ça me perturbe que le but du mariage c'est de rendre le divorce le plus compliqué possible, si tu tiens à ton couple assez tu t'y applique à fond, papier legal ou pas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:54 PM
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Right ?!?! On va pas s'amuser à prévoir le futur Hm...Je pense jamais au côté légal etc mais ça fait sens. Si je meurs demain, mes parents hérite de tout ce que je possède et ça me va for now. Quand the bf & moi on achètera un condo/etc ensemble, je voudrais que ça change mais d'ici la...on est bien comme ça.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:52 PM
3

2 parents households ? Or 2 married parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:25 AM
2

Tu projete un vibe similaire tbh, bienveillant et chill, rien qu'ici. J'imagine que ça doit être renforcé irl. J'aime bien ta façon de faire, ça se passe toujours bcp plus calmement quand c'est organique et chill. 100% d'accord qu'un papier ça change pas ton attitude ni ta relation, si c'est pas dans le bon mindset ça changera pas avec un contrat. Dating, c'est un elimination game, je dois éliminer le plus de fille possible dans mon radar pour augmenter mes chances de trouvé mon match, donc je s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:20 AM
1

Mais du coup, pour toi, c'est quand tu passes de gf/bf à married couple ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:04 AM
2

I like this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 10:59 AM
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Lmao nobody is saying birth control is never taken for sex but it's literally the only treatment available for endometriosis and the best one for hormonal imbalances in transitional periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 10:57 AM
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Where do you live where LTRs are as respected as marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 09:16 AM
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God. I wonder what kind of parents produced such faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 09:13 AM
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Because they do not believe in marriage in itself? This is not the discussion I want though, I want the male point of view of why they want it. Not the pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 09:06 AM
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Yeah, they do look like aliens. Emotionless scary faces, did they have surgery or something? They always have that frowned eyebrows, squinted eyes, open mouth expressions it's....well scary. Yeah haha happened a few times in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 09:05 AM
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Yeah but you're on the fence and you're waiting for a woman to sway you one way or another. Vasectomies are super safe and painless, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:59 AM
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O'Pry is robotic and scary looking, so i would definitely pick a Hemsworth brother over him, but Lachowski & Gandy are hot af. The Barrett dude freaks me out a little too, tbh but his hair is a big plus. A Hemsworth with that hair is much better. In terms of looks purely, my 10 would be Hozier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:57 AM
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Interesting. So you may or may not want kids and you need someone to convince you. What health complications?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:46 AM
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High IQ people plan their kids, and know beforehand if they want to have them or not. Just get snipped if you don't want them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:42 AM
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But you don't want kids, why are you preoccupied with child custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:39 AM
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So in your case, your view on marriage is completely dependent on your partner? But you, for yourself, do not believe in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:31 AM
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I did remember you didn't want kids! Look at how well I know you. So do you personally want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:30 AM
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Yes, sure but that is not what I am asking. I want to know the why he wants to get married in the first place. It is in bold in the OP, I am not interested in the "why I am not getting married".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:29 AM
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You want kids ? Interesting answer from you, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:27 AM
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I had no idea who the first people were, but that Lachowski dude is 1000% my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:25 AM
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You gave me an example of what you appreciated as opposed to what your wife did. Not complaints, I think. You never witnessed one of them complain about his wife at all ? If you did, do you remember what it was about? Could you give an example of utility these wives are complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:58 AM
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Was it the disney unconditional love type of romantic ideal ? Or something closer to the sitcom family of 2.5 children and 2 golden retrievers? Blue pill is a very vast description, especially since trp does not support marriage. You said the possibility of not getting married is very real, does not getting married = not having a family for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:52 AM
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Oh, interesting! Why was it a given ? The possibility of marriage only or all the things that you're looking for in marriage (family & companionship) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:21 AM
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Can you give me a difference in the complaints that strengthen your view ? I'm not questioning you, or trying to change your mind nor have my mind changed, I'm trying to understand where you are coming from and your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:18 AM
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That's great but why did you get married in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:07 AM
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Why did you get married in the first place? That is my primary question and I added another for already married men. Did you want to get married independently of your partner's opinion on marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:05 AM
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Besides the divorce initiation rate, what else strengthens your view ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:03 AM
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Picking wisely is a must when you have a lot on the line. Knowing what to look for and what to abandon is a strategy in itself. I have a very hard time imagining you simping, which is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:36 AM
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Are you red ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:05 AM
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That's good for you. I can list a few things that would not be out of the realm of possibilities that my parents could do enough times to harm our relationship enough to make me question both my love and respect for them. Same things vice versa. Yet people and circumstances change, people's character change and under enough pressure, values could crack. I'm not even thinking in such extremes. But I'm a bit pessimistic, it would explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:05 AM
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Interesting. Are you positive men think like you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:01 AM
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So at the end, stability is still something you want and look for. In both cases. So something you shouldn't be comprising, because it's what you want. It's okay to not be rational, I'm just interested in your views. Are you a sultan or a chad of our times?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:00 AM
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Did trp ever made you reconsider, as in contemplate the idea of not getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:57 AM
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Elaborate more? Do you want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:55 AM
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What do you vet for and how does trp play into it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 10:17 PM
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Which stability do you specifically seek in marriage then ? Which one do you want and value? I'm kinda confused now. can you imagine how hard it is to an "alpha" male compromise himself only to one woman? Am I supposed to...feel bad for him ? That's very much the concept of monogamy and that's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:57 PM
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I'm all ears! What is your story ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:54 PM
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I do, and I did. I worked in a nursing home back in my teenage years, all of those who had kids weren't particularly cared for or less lonely. There was one impressive childless woman that is ultimately who I want to be when I'm 80, she was a legend. Can't wait to terrorize the old men too. Dude you abandoned 2 of your kids, what guiding in the future are you even doing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:50 PM
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Smart men do it when they don't want kids lmao I don't want kids too, so this dating fwb thing with him is a win win for me in all aspects. Why would I be lonely? I'll probably make friends with the other old ladies and we'll harass and terrorize the old men in the nursing home. It will be a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:40 PM
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You forgot 2 of yours lmao how do you have the nerve to call out childless people Although I adore kids and spending time with kids, they're a lot more interesting than adults. *A smart man, one that wouldn't be trying to remember his own kid's age 23 years later
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:32 PM
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I do not even think I would love my own children unconditionally. I don't think my parents love me unconditionally, they love me and adore me, and probably will for the rest of their lives but I absolutely don't believe it's unconditional. I have loved all my dogs with all my heart, yet it is absolutely not unconditional. Have you felt unconditional love before ? Either as a giver or receiver?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:30 PM
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But you just told me in your first comment that you do seek marriage for stability, stability for yourself. How is she making you compromise on something you wanted before ? I have seen it both from men and women, admittedly a lot more in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:26 PM
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How old are the other two ? No, bf got snipped and it's much calmer this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:24 PM
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I personally don't believe unconditional love exists or is possible. Romantic love that lasts for a lifetime is though. Do you think you are capable of unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:19 PM
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All of them lmao and your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:16 PM
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I believe in you though, always room for improvement. How old is your kiddo ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:14 PM
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Do you believe that unconditional love is possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:13 PM
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You do not come close to my favourite shitposters here, you still have a lot to learn. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:12 PM
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Could you give me a bit more specificity for "harvesting" ? What is your wife harvesting out of you ? How do you implement it in raising your daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:08 PM
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Do you agree that marriage provides more stability than a LTR ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:04 PM
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My question is why do you want to get married though, not what would you need to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:03 PM
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True. People understand married = family and families are much more valued socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:54 PM
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Did trp change your reasoning on it or your plan or did you hold this view before and kept it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:53 PM
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Do you think your wife is doing or did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:48 PM
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So what you value in marriage is the promise of stability?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:45 PM
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Oh, well that's pretty unexpected. What is a lot of divorces ? Her parents, or more ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:42 PM
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Feelings as in being in love ? What exactly is the goal you follow, kids or a marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:41 PM
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Why is a non legal marriage required for kids to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:40 PM
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That's why you married her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:39 PM
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So for kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:38 PM
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What kind of surprises did disqualify someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:28 PM
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So you are essentially getting married for stability?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:26 PM
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I have observed that to be very true. As a woman, I solve this by saying "my partner" if I'm talking in english.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:19 PM
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So why wouldn't you have married ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:07 PM
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You did not answer my question : why do you want to get married? Is pre-marital money not considered pre-marital where you live ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:03 PM
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Could you elaborate on the ethical part of raising kids ? Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:02 PM
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What you know didn't change how you view men and women as two halves of a whole being ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:01 PM
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You did not answer any of my questions though. In this day and age, do you want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:57 PM
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Not really, I find that marriage has no utility for people like me, as in childfree pessimists. My boyfriend and I talked about a third option : doing the whole societal recognition part with a wedding, rings and everything but never getting married on paper. But then again, neither of us needs or wants the legal recognition, only the social one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:32 PM
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I'm very interested in the why it's better to raise kids that way for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:26 PM
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I completely understand your point of view. It makes perfect sense on paper, but very little in life. People change in unexpected ways and I would definitely never marry if it was like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:25 PM
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Why is it good for children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:23 PM
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Could you elaborate on traditional values? So you think marriage is something that your kids should pursue later in life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:14 PM
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I totally understand this point of view, as it represents ultimate stability. The way it is sold. I guess I would myself consider it more, if it was actually as stable. But what if you married the wrong person for X or Y reason ? That would give me enough anxiety to never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:11 PM
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A lot are incapable of distinguishing the individual from the group. They do not see women as individuals but they do not see men as individuals either. It explains a lot of the opinions and reactions you'd see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:42 PM
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Like, you’re talking and not thinking about perfumes or colognes, he steps in for whatever reason, and your brain immediately short circuits from how good he smells When I first started dating my boyfriend, he used this shampoo that smelled like HEAVEN. Every time I got close to his hair and smelled it, mixed with his natural scent, I wanted to rip his clothes off him right then and there. Barely could think straight. Then a few months later he stopped using it and I've been mourning that smell …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:23 AM
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do not bother, they think sex trafficking is gender equality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:14 AM
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In the OP : Men know cheating is wrong while women hamster it and avoid personal accountability. ITT : Men hamstering cheating as a biological need that makes sense and if he cheats, she drove him to it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:33 AM
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See! My point is that you tried, while tons of incels admit themselves they don't. They frame it as "not worth it" or shift the blame on chad or women, or something else but in the end, they do not pursue any courtship. What would you change if you could ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:22 AM
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We should do an askmen post about how many girls unsuccessful dudes approached when they were 18-19. Or even a post here. Do you not remember your teens ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:38 AM
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Disney love isn't real, unconditional love is rare at best, a myth probably. It would be better for everyone to leave the fairytale love in fairy tales. Human realistic love is just as good and beautiful. It's not unconditional, but it can be unbiased to a certain degree. You can still love someone despite flaws, as long as those flaws do not come into "dealbreakers" territory. It's a trade on a superficial level, but ultimately it's you enjoying who the other person is. A relationship and love …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:30 AM
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I dated a guy for a few years in college, I was so deeply in love with him and I definitely thought he was "the one". He proposed when I graduated and I said no and broke up with him. I was still very deeply in love and who he was didn't change, but I absolutely did not want to get married at that young, right out of college and settle down with him in his country, a country I did not want to live in longterm when he wanted to stay there.He was just not the right fit nor the right person for me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:07 AM
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It makes up for great jokes between my bf and I. I made him read TRP, and it was an interesting discussion between the two of us, but overall...it never really influenced my relationship because what I read over here seems very different from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:41 AM
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I do the same lmao, I rate every song and I have very specific playlists. For every genre,activity and stuff like that. I also make "memory" playlists because I get obsessive with songs for a little while and when I listen to them again it takes me back to when I was obsessed with it. So I have a ton of playlists like "July 2018" or "Vacation in X". And it's a lot easier to manage with mp3s rather than spotify. I never delete anything, I can't, it would ruin the chronology of that specific disco…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:02 PM
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I do! I use an old small phone as an "mp3 player", I only use it for that so the battery holds pretty well and I can synch it with my car. It's the best tbh, I get a tad weird and obsessive when I discover new music and my thing is downloading the artist's whole discography and listening to it in a chronological order. I "hoard" those discographies and never delete them, so I end up with a great mix of music.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:48 PM
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Here is a summary of our discussion so far : Me : Young men are less sexually active than young women, and old women are less sexually active than old men. You : Old women have high standards and are lazy. Me : What about young men ? You : They're have very low standards and are thirsty. Me : They can be lazy too. You : This is man hating and women are wonderful effect. Men bad, women good. I'm so confused where you are coming from. Are you saying that young people, especially young men are neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:56 AM
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In this week's edition of "why can't I be a creep too".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:53 AM
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You and I see things wildly differently. I do not "belong" to anyone and nobody "belongs" to me. My partner doesn't own me and I do not own him, I do not have to prove my ownership of him and he doesn't have to prove his ownership of me. Whatever history he has with other people doesn't prove his ownership of them. So there's that, but my comment wasn't really about anal or sex at all, it was more about the reasoning I see in this sub a lot. Notice how I said "a woman does something and another …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:47 AM
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Where were you last week when all the radfem subs got banned ? Neither the black pill or the pink pill feminism subs are around anymore. Same goes for the debate subs attached. Stop living in your bubble. I already agreed with you that most people want a relationship, I am only pointing to you that NOT ALL OF THEM do. There is a sizeable portion that do not and actively avoid relationships. I don't know why you're so invested in trying to convince us that all men want a relationship and no man e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:40 AM
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Absolutely mental. They draw a clear line of comparison and equality between anti-discrimination policies and government mandated sex trafficking. So yes, this is the kind of people talking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:16 AM
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If it were any other sub, I would be surprised and confused too but this sub has discussions about sex trafficking as a form of gender equality, so I absolutely don't take what it says at heart. It's projection I think, though. "If I don't like it, the only reason they might like it is [insert here insult]".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:05 AM
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Meh, I can understand not liking travel. For some people it's just a big hassle with no reward and they like their little home bubble more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:56 AM
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Right ? I mean, if you're only going from big us city to big us city, then yes it will be the same and even then, LA and NYC are diametrically opposite experiences. Or if your travelling is a 7 days all in vacation in a hotel on a beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:41 AM
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In what world do feminists rule reddit as a whole ? Is it the same reddit as mine because I'd be thrilled to see the reddit you're talking about? Look at reddit as a whole : plenty of people invested in their relationship/search for a relationship and only a subset of them are looking after sex only. But there is still a part that only want sex, it's absolutely undeniable, they write it upfront. Same thing in real life, a lot of people want relationship while there are also those wo do not. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:33 AM
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Yeah, tbh I think that's how I met all my previous bfs too. It makes it easier to spend time together without getting into formal dating and you know early on if you're on the same page. Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:09 AM
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I am genuinely confused. Where did the women are wonderful effect intervene in this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:58 AM
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lmao haha I was lucky to be friends with the gf of one of his 2 close friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:52 AM
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Well, it is not the 80s anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:18 PM
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We have different experiences but in general, it is very well a male narrative. Men are the ones to tell women that other men are only after sex. Whether it's their fathers, brothers, friends or men on this sub. I hear women telling each others "tells" of such men, as well as board negative generalizations but the men only want one thing is not perpetuated by women. Even in TV, and movies, it's not a narrative women like to perpetuate. Examples: romantic comedies and sentimental shows targeted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:02 PM
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No, it's fathers mostly, warning their daughters about it. It's fathers who overly guard their girls from other men and keep it going. I do agree that most people want a relationship, but enough people/men only want NSA sex to be aware of it and act accordingly if it's something you do not want. Pop culture phrases are not exactly a reflection of reality either. And no, the average male is not sex starved or on a 2 years dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:37 PM
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The average male is not sex starved or an incel. Besides that, my comment is that your post paints it as a narrative women perpetuate, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:26 PM
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Where do you go that places look 90% the same ? Do you only go to big urban cities? You get the most of travelling when you research where you are going thoroughly, and you go there with an open mind and a willingness to learn. It's only boring if all you do is go to a hotel, hop on a tourist bus, eat, pics and then go back to get drunk at your hotel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:16 PM
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Most people want relationships and want to get married at some point so its disingenuous to act like men just want sex for sexes sake. I'd agree, but most men on this sub would not. The "men only want sex" narrative on this sub is perpetuated by men, not women. Edit : right here under this comment, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:54 PM
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Kids are annoying and great in the same way until they're like 6, then you start to see differences between boys and girls. Both are great and annoying in different ways after that, but not in a different intensity. If I were to have kids, their dating life would not compute in how I raise them until way later in life, and even then I wouldn't get too involved in there beyond making sure they're safe and conscious of their choices. So I wouldn't care, boy or girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:38 PM
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I'd rate him at above average, mainly because he's tall and pretty but I'm obviously biased, but objectively he hates any social event that involves more than 5 people he doesn't know. But he is not an exception or an outlier by any means, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:00 PM
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So it only counts and is only noble and not entitled when it's a man on the street helping a woman ? This is your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:54 PM
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Pretty common I think ? Incels and the unsuccessful just like to gather, stroke each others ego and make us all think the average man can't get casual sex with one woman unless he splits the earth in 2 and summons jesus himself. Most people don't get to 20, but usually pass 10 unless they were in a LTR for a long time. My boyfriend while being very attractive in my opinion, is introverted af and hates huge social situations, he had one or 2 friends and didn't meddle with other people. So he didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:11 PM
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I mean, picture the women you like in your life. Now picture the government forcing them into sex work, and them then talking about how traumatizing it is to be raped by incels. Like, thoroughly picture it. Now tell me sane people wouldn't think there is something wrong with that world. Tell me a father who loves his daughter would not bat an eye when the government takes her to be raped by a random disgusting frustrated man, who now has no reason to take care of himself since daddy government b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:42 AM
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What are you talking about ? This is a comment thread that started with you saying that old women are lazy and have high standards. And I raised the point that young men are lazy too. There is no male trait to be spun by womenfolk in this. Are you just looking for an opportunity to rant ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:26 AM
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Every time you and I have a conversation, I end up convinced that you skim through what I say and hold on to one or two sentences and rant about them. Anyway. I'm optimistic and think that a majority of men born in this world rn would have a serious issue with a minority of frustrated men demanding the sexual enslavement of women. Not from the kindness of their hearts, but because the enslavement of women means the enslavement of their sisters, mothers, daughters. I know it's hard to picture it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:48 PM
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And not lazy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:10 AM
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Ah, yes the good old give up the pussy or we'll enslave you/destroy society/burn shit down. Waiting for that one. I'm optimistic about men who do not think like you, or the pussy enslavement crazies. We do not have equality of outcome, we have equality of opportunity for everyone, including men who aren't white. We had equality of opportunity on paper, non enforced that nobody cared about other the feminists and the civil rights activists in the 60s. If you think equality of opportunity happened…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:09 AM
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Man, I'd leave a dude like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:55 AM
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No, I don't think it's appropriate to have a close friendship with an ex. Being on good terms, and cordial, sure but never a friendship. I ask the same of my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:52 AM
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My god, I was truly hoping you were a zoomer. How on earth do you get to the conclusion that equality of opportunity is equivalent to sex trafficking. Rhetoric question btw, as you explained before you see no difference between work and sex work. Do you happen to hate your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:04 AM
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I'm not one of those people. I believe some basic quality of life and human rights issues are society's duties to be fixed. That includes starving children, homelessness, reducing the costs of medical care, and education, among other things. Frankly, prolonged loneliness and sexlessnes simply isn't one. The empathy I have for homeless people and starving kids is worlds apart from the one I feel for lonely 24yo virgins. It's nonexistent for 24 yo virgins who equate government mandated sex traffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:47 AM
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Do you know any firefighters? You do not "move things out of the way" or carry people alone. It's always team work. Nobody is arguing with you that men are more physically adapted than women. It does not mean that female firefighters are incompetent and endangering lives ? They work around the physical disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:32 AM
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Can I ask how old are you ? Out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:20 AM
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I think we are approaching this from different point of views. I'm approaching this as : why would society/the government as a whole do something ? What would be the drive to fix it ? I do agree that homelessness is absolutely horrible. But I won't delude myself into thinking that the reason governments and charities actively try to reduce it is empathy. Sure, some people genuinely care but I don't think they're a majority. I do have empathy for lonely sexless people. Loneliness and isolation ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:18 AM
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TIL not having government mandated sex trafficking is gender inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:57 AM
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Read the full sentence: Being smaller makes it easier for them to get around. It's often team work. Here is a breakdown of how it works : House burns, falls apart, people trapped inside, nobody knows where. Female firefighters: smaller, so capable of getting into more restraining situations, but less strong. Finds the people trapped, alerts male firefighters who can then carry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:53 AM
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What about young men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:46 AM
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I didnt say otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:46 AM
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You and your brother duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:45 AM
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Homelessness creates a ton of other issues for society though and often actively harm it. I don't think sexlessnes does or has the same potential to do so. Worse that can happen is birth rate plummets and I'm one of those people who doesn't care about the human specie going extinct. I don't believe all sexlessness is bad. Voluntary celibacy is a thing and not in a "can't fire me, I quit" way. Abstinence is too. Lots of young religious girls are still doing the waiting till marriage thing. Lots o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:45 AM
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Yeah, but I believe it's due to the inherent differences between male and female sex drives. Men need a female input to satisfy their sex drive, while women are very often happy with their vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:30 AM
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Alright. Thank you for this new perspective, and new insights into how you people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:29 AM
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ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:24 AM
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Sure, and I have no problem with the more physical work being assigned to male cops, firefighters etc. I know nothing about the army or cops, but I know that female firefighters are often a strength on the frontline. Being smaller makes it easier for them to get around and it's often a team work between the small woman and the strong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:21 AM
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It's an individual problem for me, in todays american society and I'm guessing much more complicated problem than women having standards too high or Chads fucking every girl out there. I do not have the knowledge to properly assess the reasons that led to this situation. There is a 10% sex activity disparity between young men and young women. So a minority of young people in general (30% and 20% are very much minorities) are not having sex. It could be growing minority, but a minority nonetheles…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:14 AM
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Yeah but feminist teachers are also the most fun ones. I had a crazy english feminist high school teacher, she was so insane she was probably responsible for my misogynist years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:06 AM
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Because we are talking about two wildly different things. I am baffled that you people don't see any sizeable difference between work opportunities and government sex trafficking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:03 AM
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Male teachers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:01 AM
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It's not a high enough percentage for people to start coming up with solutions and panicking the way this sub does. Obviously it's not ignored since there are studies and surveys done about it. Obviously directly forcing women to do would be insane and immoral. Yet this is what OP is advocating for and calling it gender equality. And it would not be the first time I've seen it on this sub. If your idea of a solution is tackling it from an individual point of view, I'd have no problem with it. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:59 AM
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I don't see how that would be much different from forcing women to basically be sex workers to equalize the sexual disparity. Do you believe what you're writing here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:55 AM
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Oh, you! You can't read : a net benefit. You should work on reading comprehension before typing out rants calling other people silly. You guys have serious issues with data, and you are blind to whatever doesn't fit your narrative. 30% of men and 20% of women aged 18-24 did not have sex in the past year. That percentage is drastically reduced to 15% in 25-30 individuals, and from 30 on is in favour of women. Meaning there are more sexless older women than sexless older men. What is society going…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:50 AM
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As long as he doesn't value it at all on paper for both men and women, I would not care. If it's only worthless for women, then I would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:43 AM
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I think that women can equally concede in some areas where things aren't up to par, even if that wouldn't be good for them. If this was about encouraging males into female dominated fields, your comparison would hold and I'd agree with you. But this about individual body autonomy and individual freedom, you have no reason to concede your body for the greater good of society. No moral one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:41 AM
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Yes, there is no reason other than persue your personal self interests. Reducing homelessness, having a better education for the whole population is a net benefit for society in general. I dont agree that sexlessness is a society problem, it's an individual problem. But let's not debate that. How do you solve it without infringing on a woman's individual freedom ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:38 AM
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No, it's not. Here are a ton of objective measures for professional qualifications: degrees, completed projects, past professional experience, success of said past professional projects as well as measurable skills. While sexual attraction on the other hand is not negotiable. You can be perfect on paper and fit all my standards and I could still not be attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:35 AM
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Equality of opportunity. So you want a sex quota filled ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:28 AM
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I personally never seen feminism push for unqualified women being hired over qualified men simply for being women. What I've seen being pushed, and I personally keep pushing for in my personal life, is equally qualified women being denied opportunities they are qualified for simply for their gender. Unattractive men are by definition not qualified for sex and not valued as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:27 AM
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Please ELI5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:22 AM
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Please explain to me how having sex with men you're not attracted to for an "equal" sex quota is the same as that. Like actually ELI5, in details with a justification for every analogy you draw, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:22 AM
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why can't I be a creep too!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:16 AM
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Oh, my bad. But your theory relies on the cost of the wild unrestrained sex being lower, and it isn't. Imo, if wild unrestricted sex happened to some partners but not others the reasons would be : 1) She hated it for X or Y reason and doesn't want to do it. 2) It will change the way the loving partner sees her. 3) It will change the way she sees the loving partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:15 AM
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Men don't seem to have that many boundaries. Any hole is fair-play, whether it be the vagina, asshole, urethra, mouth, nasal cavity, ear canals, gauge holes, between the breasts. They want their partners to not have boundaries. Ask a man if any hole of his is fair game and you will get a different answer. Lots of men refuse to perform oral, their mouth is off limits but expect their partner's to not be. women are more likely to restrict sex to PIV sex for men that they would want to be impregnat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:58 AM
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lesser-known "fourth hole" which is the backside of the bent knee joint. What the fuck did I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:53 AM
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I noticed that if a woman does something and another does something else it turns into "women will do that for chad and not for me", and it's a fascinating thought process I've seen a lot on this sub. Some people are literally incapable of differentiating group vs individuals. At first I thought it was a general incapacity to consider women as individuals but not at all. The same process happens when we talk about men as a group. When they hear "Men cheat" or anything like that, they register "T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:50 AM
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Your whole post relies on a false claim : Women are low T, low sex drive. Women have a mix of hormones that determine sex drive, not just testosterone. It might be lower than men in general but it's not "low". Women desire sex for the sake of pleasure too. proving they don’t really care about equality that might inconvenience women. Caring about equality =/= having sex with unwanted men. There is no reason why every man and women out there should be paired up and there is no reason to make sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:32 AM
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Yup, a real advantage over both blondes and brunettes. When I was a kid, I got a lot of shit for it but it's truly a genetic lottery win long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:08 PM
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The real catches are redheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:07 PM
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Yeah, the company was part of her family assets and treated as such. But I am baffled that he didn't register his patents under his name, instead of the company's name. Would have saved him hundreds of thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:46 PM
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Huh, not sure I agree. It always starts out good, and I nod along with it until like the middle where it becomes straight up nonsense rambling. Quality reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:40 PM
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I honestly think lonely women are less vocal about it than lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:59 PM
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Me neither. No reason ever stated made sense to me (besides maybe making inheritance easier in case one of them dies)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:10 AM
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No, I guess I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:52 AM
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No, I'm fairly sure he had the funds. I'll assume he didn't to make it less triggering, I'd be angry at the world forever if it happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:32 PM
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Yeah, I get that. Not selling it to him is what shocked me, but I don't know the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:26 PM
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He did though. I think I'm very triggered by how she made him buy back his work, and I'm biased about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:10 PM
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good thing I don't, imagine the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:44 PM
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The usually is there because I've had a relationship that started as a friendship and fell in love with a friend before. Would you not fuck your hot friends, even if you didn't want to date them? No, I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:36 PM
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Question : Would you accept exceptions to the rule in cases where a paternity test wouldn't make sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:07 PM
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I guess? I'm usually not sexually attracted to my friends so I'd interpret sexual attraction +willingness to have sex as more than standard friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:47 PM
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Indeed, but hearing it first hand was something else. It's just the cold hard facts, I have no idea why they divorced or how their marriage was but having to buy the patents you wrote and built yourself is so destructive and humiliating. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:45 PM
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the moving ? you have to fuck a sex doll, the sex bot can fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:19 PM
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yes, but I was a kid too. his peak was a few years after hp ended
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:17 PM
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to me he's hot af, close to a 10. could be a 10 with longish hair and shaved face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:14 PM
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hard yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:12 PM
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yeah, but he has "harsh" facial features and he's always squinting his eyes. He's also blond. So many nos, so a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:10 PM
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Yes, but OP is talking about sex bots that talk and move. Not lifeless dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:09 PM
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Hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:08 PM
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Today I came across one of the scariest divorce story I've ever heard and it made me think of you people. I'd be that scared of divorce too. So this client we had is a renowned name in my field but he started over with a new company name at some point and I never knew why. It turns out that he started his first company and his first factories with his heiress ex wife money, and everything was in her name. After the divorce, she fired him from his own company and then sold it, patents and all. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:07 PM
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It's not me, I appreciate your criticism. My standards aren't that high, I just have hard NOs and mandatory YESs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:54 PM
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Your shit posting is the best, I am a huge fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:40 PM
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wHy sHOuLd I bE a FuNctIOnAL aDuLT iF mY diCk iSn'T gEttINg wET !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:30 PM
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god, higher standards than the ones I already have ???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:27 PM
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none of my business really, I'm not judgy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:34 PM
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Yes. I wasn't miserable or terribly lonely and was doing relatively well when I was single for a long time, but I have issues that need constant accountability. Just having a partner in my life helped with that. Although my first relationships were a bad influence on my life, I felt way more lonely in those relationships than I did single. Most of the things that improved in my life by getting into my current relationship improved because my current boyfriend is an amazing partner and we really …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:30 PM
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I do. My best friend is a man, and he's my closest friend. I'm closer to him than I am to my brothers and I truly consider him as a sibling. I've never seen him as a romantic or sexual option and I'm pretty sure he didn't either. It's a very different friendship from my other friendships because I've known him since diapers. We grew up together and stayed in touch through all our changes in life. My other close friendships are a ratio of 70/30 women/men, and it's a genuine close friendship. I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:19 PM
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More equal, I do not want him to take charge and I do need to be included in all the important decisions of our relationship to feel valued and loved. If he suddenly started making the vast majority of the decisions, I'd leave him. There are very few things I resent more in life than people making decisions for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:48 AM
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Thank you for so elegantly repeating exactly what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:21 AM
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Yeah, okay. See, plenty of reasons to still be a feminist even if all men are beautiful giants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:17 AM
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Did I miss a news ? Where is abortion illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:11 AM
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I thought you were american?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:09 AM
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It should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:05 AM
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Thank you for your unsolicited opinion. Abortion is a right, whatever you feel after it is none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:57 AM
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I wouldn't marry anyone but I'd date a guy who has a fleshlight, vibrator even a butt plug. A dildo is pushing it but I still can deal with that. I would stay far far away from any man who owns sexual anime girl stuff, even something as small as those boobs hand resting pads though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:54 AM
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A lot of people are assuming that only men are going to use them ? If they become mainstream and accepted, women are going to love them too. I don't think it will solve anything though, I think a lot of people would be disturbed if they formed an emotional connection to a robot so they would be used like sex toys rather than replacement partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:48 AM
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Aren't you scared of or at least disgusted by STDs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:48 PM
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Yes, feminism doesn't have much to do with what men look like. All men being 6'3 and beautiful wouldn't change the fact that I want easily accessible abortion for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:35 PM
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I hope so too, I've lost contact with her, but she was in and out of inpatient care for years, I can't imagine healing from that in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:42 AM
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Yeah, I've seen it first hand and it's horrible and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:30 AM
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however that doesn't exactly apply when people are obviously overweight and feel pressured to "look good" in a society with set beauty standards. Yes it does, though. Anorexia doesn't start when people are at an underweight bmi, even if you stop eating altogether, weight loss takes time and it often starts at an overweight or even obese bmi. They may be overweight but they still have a disordered view of "thin" and "looks good". Boobjobs are not eating disorders but yeah, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:28 AM
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Huh? Anorexia is driven by an abnormal view. All eating disorders are well disorders because they're driven by an irrational view of the self and what "look good" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:44 AM
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Yeah, but it has the same effect. No one bats an eye if grandma has a nip slip at the beach and would be deeply disturbed to see her in a bikini.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:31 AM
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eating disorders are..not practiced ? they're disorders ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:26 AM
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Yeah, I would like that a lot more. Even if the birthrate plummets and human race goes extinct, we've had our time on earth. Although, it could just mean that we wont need relationships to have kids anymore. Sperm banks are a thing and some women today do want a kid but not a husband. The more I think about it, the more it sounds like a dream to be honest. If this is what's waiting for me at the wall, I truly can't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:25 AM
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Every country I've ever lived in had an "others" group to hate for some reason, the extent of the hate is what differs. consumeproduct tho had very antisemitic conspiracy theories posts, I'm not surprised it got banned. Huh, weird, r/politics didn't strike me as a sub who would be in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:12 AM
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consumeproduct was full of anti-jews posts. Holodomor too. Never went on the other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:41 AM
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huh. college loans are from...banks? and you're supposed to pay it back ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:06 AM
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yes yes, but I'm talking about young men and women. Like younger than 25, because that's where sexless men are more prevalent. What social safety net and welfare do women younger than 25 get that would push them to fuck men their age if it were to be removed ? I'm pretty lost ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 07:52 AM
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Okay. But that would be for older years, like 25+ at least. How would that help 18-25 men ? Apart from teen/single moms, women don't get welfare at that age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:49 AM
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Can you ELI5 how would that help the sexless young men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:44 AM
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I know, stop insulting the orcs. Give me cliffs on the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:52 PM
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I have no words, stop insulting them. Seriously though dude, this isn't the first time we've talked about your views on rape, are you trolling or are they your actual views ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:45 PM
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nah dont have a lot of time right now, will later , but stop calling that scum mr ??! you're showing him more respect than you show single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:39 PM
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well first of all, you think concerts are boring. which is alien to me. a huge blow to our relationship, ngl. then you really cant see how wrong using a convicted rapist as an example of a fat man successful with women is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:33 PM
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you're disappointing me every day lately, and I thought we were doing good. what happened???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:28 PM
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He raped a lot of young women!!! He didn't seduce them with his status and money and made them overlook his fat rolls. I know you're smarter than this weird thought proces, do you not see how it doesn't make sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:16 PM
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poop pee butt mcnuggets!! out of aaaall the fat men you could have used for your weird claim, you picked a known symbolic rapist ???!!? dude!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:10 PM
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Right ? Did OP really not think that women are part of "people"...too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:25 PM
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I truly wonder if I read the same sources as these people or if reading comprehension should really be a whole class on its own. Is the data cherry picking the consequence or the reason for their confirmation bias? Can they not read the whole article? Is it me that is missing something? I have a lot of questions and absolutely 0 of these dudes would be willing to engage in a civil good faith discussion to answer my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:15 PM
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I think it's a good think to put a lot of thought in relationships. Too many people rush into situations that were never meant to fit them and end up very unhappy. But we definitely do overthink it on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:04 PM
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6 boyfriends, was sexual with 4 of them and dating the 6th one long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:53 PM
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Same ! It's truly what fulfills me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:04 AM
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well I am a boring millennial and I still enjoy concerts, good for you if it's all it takes to red pill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 10:42 PM
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Yes once if it counts, not for free food, but for a concert. I was honest and upfront about it though, I told him way before he asked that I wasn't into him that way at all. However, he did something to "harm me" because he was frustrated with my rejection, I guess, and he offered me a ticket to make up for it, as an apology. He offered me the option to take the ticket and go alone but since we were friends before that whole thing, I asked him to go with me, so we could start a new friendship on…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 08:37 PM
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Marriage is defined as the highest level of commitment. In today's world, you're merging your lives, resources, money, and families together and engaging the government in it. It's expensive and socially valued. Why would I want to commit like that to someone I've never slept with ? How do I know we have sexual chemistry, and we are sexual compatible? What if, the sex is horrible ? You've condemned yourself to a monogamous relationship, supposed to last forever, with someone you do not enjoy sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:51 PM
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I'm more of a socially extroverted person than an introvert but all my partners were introverted. Except for one, I didn't approach them first though. Would you ever approach a socially introverted male? Would you try to be their friend? Reach out if they looked down? Make em a cup of tea if your putting the kettle on? Or keep em at arms length? I wouldn't randomly approach an introverted man out of the blue, no. If the situation calls for it, I might talk to him. If we get along and have stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:49 PM
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I'd never do them with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:08 PM
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There are things that would make me see my partner very differently if he even just asked to try them. If we ever went ahead and did them, I'd lose respect for him for sure. I won't try certain things out self respect too. No matter how he ends up seeing me, the way I'd feel about myself isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:47 PM
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You and I already had a conversation about it a while ago, and I agreed it was hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:32 AM
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too bad you'd have financed my surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:51 PM
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you're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:50 PM
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I have a face nicer than I actually am, unfortunately. I should get surgery to get a resting bitch face
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:45 PM
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solid advice, poop pee butt mcnuggets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:43 PM
5

I tend to be cold, I have the opposite issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:35 PM
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Things work best for me when his level of investment matches mine early on. If he is a lot more into me than I am into him, I feel overwhelmed. It makes me feel forced to try and match his feelings, which ultimately pushes me away. I need someone who likes me as much as I like them throughout the whole relationship. If he pulls away, it pushes me away. If he is suddenly deeply in love and I'm not, it pushes me away too. I obviously want to know that my partner is attracted to me, but if he confe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:20 PM
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I think TRP has some (a few) good parts, that I agree with. But ultimately, those are blown out of proportion and not used in ways that I agree with by redpillers. This is why I present myself as blue. I'm kinda confused about what is red pill in my conclusion, that women were only valued by their looks ? Or that youth and looks were traded for resources in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:34 PM
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You also agreed that the more girls they are, the more you'll find introverted ones. Edit: we're talking in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:02 AM
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You conceded that 5 girls out 15-20 weren't in your class, that's 25 to 30%, not 5%. Nobody is denying that college kid are fucking a lot. We are talking about your confirmation bias here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:01 AM
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That's not what you said. You first comment was "Which uni girl isn't a party girl?". They do actually, it is not that small minuscule percentage. 15+ n counts are not the norm, by any means. If not for lack of interest in casual sex after a while, simply for the logistics of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:56 AM
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Don't you think that the more girls you have, the higher the number of introverted girls you'll have ? I got you to see the non party girls, so I'll take that. Confirmation bias is a thing, I encourage you to be more aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:48 AM
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Why do you care if they're being weak ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:37 AM
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Cool. You must know them all pretty much if it's only 10% of girl. Not one of them is shy and introverted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:35 AM
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The key word is constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:30 AM
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What's the point of invalidating the ones who give a fuck, since it is assault ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:26 AM
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Mech eng wouldn't have a ton of girls, I presume, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:24 AM
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Mind reading hasn't been invented yet. So all we have are models that take into account lying and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:17 AM
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Yes, because every uni girl is in a short skirt at 11 at a bar. You have tunnel vision for that type of girls, thus every girl is like that because the others are invisible to you. Ask any college girl, she will tell you who isn't out at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:15 AM
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Brush it off if you want, but it doesn't mean it's not assault anymore. If someone stole a dollar from me, it would still be theft even if I didn't care about that dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:12 AM
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In Mech Eng, you do not have the time or energy to party constantly. Or you're shooting yourself in the foot and fucking up your grades. Not every college kid is partying and binge drinking, especially not in the Us, in mech eng, where that would cost them thousands and thousands if they fuck up. You have tunnel vision for the cool kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:09 AM
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How old are you and in what part of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:05 AM
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I didn't expect you to prove my point so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:01 AM
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You know why ? Because you have tunnel vision for the college party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:00 AM
1

No, eggs are created before birth, in the mother's womb. The DNA in there is predetermined before birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:59 AM
2

I wonder why they deny it. Why isn't it assault ? Is it a coping mechanism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:17 AM
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Yes of course, because anyone who doesn't fit your narrative is lying. Even when you've taken that into account and adjusted your data, based on other data. Impossible, it's my way or they're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:51 AM
1

Not really, it's very rare. I think it happened to me once and he went from the "no" pile to the "maybe" pile, not to the "yes!" pile. I've always been at least a little attracted to someone and then whatever happened built that basal attraction more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:42 AM
1

Alright, so my first comment had this sentence: I had to be an asshole to men to get them to respect me. Assertive wasn't enough. This means that I am not an asshole 24/7, it was not my first approach and that assertiveness was the main focus, but it was not enough. My second comment, after you said that it was a sure way to end up only managing a broom and nobody working for me had this sentence : Bring an asshole sometimes has its benefits, you can't be a garbage human 24/7. Your next comment …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:33 PM
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This is literally exactly what I said, you have to be an asshole in some situations, not 24/7. Competence only gets you so far. Unless you're the best, you will need more than competence. Intimidation is absolutely necessary when competence and assertiveness are not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:38 PM
3

No, absolutely not. That happens if you're a pushover and you do not assert yourself. No one will assign you any important project if they know you're too nice and polite to call out the lazy slacking team member. They will give you the easy non important stuff. Being an asshole sometimes has its benefits, you can't be a garbage human 24/7. Everything in moderation but if you're not afraid of being an asshole, you will be respected. You don't climb the corporate ladder by being pleasant and nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:31 PM
1

Oh that's great! Can I ask what kind of diet guidelines do you follow ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:03 PM
2

It's not so much feeling responsible for their actions, but I empathise. No one should ever think that they could easily get away with it in the first place. Thanks for your kind words, I wish you well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:56 PM
2

Don't have much cleavage to stare at, fortunately but they still stare. I don't get upset if there is no comment made, or if it's a glance and they move on. I glare at those who stare for a full minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:51 PM
3

Yeah, they don't even hug your thigh enough to not ride up. I'm so glad I held onto my old shorts. When did we lose the ability to make normal functional clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:47 PM
2

Shorts are basically all I wear in summer, I can't stand pants. I stick with long dresses and skirts for work or those flowy wide pants but I can't stand the feeling of fabric all around my legs in summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:32 PM
3

Honestly, I haven't bought shorts in years and I just wanted basic mid or high thigh denim shorts but the "leg" is basically 2 inches long and barely covers anything. Same purpose as a high waisted bikini. I think I'm just going to get thrifted jeans and cut them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:30 PM
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I cant find longer shorts either. !! I thought it was just me looking in the wrong places. I've worn out most of my shorts and I can't find one that's similar at all. When did we get denim shorts that basically had the same purpose as panties ??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:13 PM
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No, nobody tries to emulate mad men description of male behaviour. Nobody seriously watches mad men anymore. I had to be an asshole to men to get them to respect me. Assertive wasn't enough. Sure, they get a little angry at first but after a while they move on, and they respect you. I am very much a feminine woman, but femininity brings out the worst of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:15 PM
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Your experience is valid, and actual assault. I'm sorry you went through that. Hopefully the more we move forward, the more we overwhelm people like him. There is a legal definition for a reason, and it doesn't care about his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:09 PM
3

Even Audrey wouldn't fit his description, she certainly wasn't the type of women to be satisfied with a life of sitting at home and looking pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:29 PM
5

How hard your cock gets isn't what defines how feminine something is. Did you look at the men in your documentary? How were they dressed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:13 PM
1

Infuriating and disgusting. Sorry you had to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:08 PM
4

Good for you ! Your feelings are not the standard to base universal definitions on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:02 PM
3

That is not the definition of sexual assault. Why do you insist on invalidating his experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:01 PM
1

I would be horrified if that happened to me in a work setting. It is assault. Did you ever call them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:33 PM
4

That's...fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:19 PM
1

8 years? That's impressive. Did you notice any long term changes/benefits beside your hair ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:01 PM
1

Is this "how to be an orbiter" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:38 PM
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No ? I don't think so ? I dont know. He's a very chill dude, I can't even imagine him in a fight. I guess his first reaction would be to avoid the fight, talk it out, settle it with words. He'd probably be able to fight back but it would be very out of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:22 AM
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Because pretty is what got you places in life. When women couldn't work, being pretty was your best asset and quality. If you're pretty, you could marry a rich powerful man and live a better life than if you were ugly. It's decades of powerful reinforcement built in your mothers and grandmothers and they pass it on to their daughters. So I guess that's what decided that prettiness was a factor in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:04 AM
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Vetting for character is obviously important. Doesn't absolve the cheater of responsibility. And again, it's not like only good looking 6' tall men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:52 AM
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My best guess would be what I explained in the paragraph before that. Prettiness is what we compliment in little girls. It's what we positively reinforce as the best since early childhood. So they grow up with the idea that the prettier the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:48 AM
2

I do not understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:29 PM
2

This implies that all cheaters are an apparent bad catch. Otherwise good people cheat too. It's naive to believe that you can spot who is a cheater and who is not in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:02 PM
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Not absolute control over events but you do control how you react. If you change emotionally as a result of an event its because you decided to. Sure, you can see it that way. So I'll rephrase my belief to fit your perspective: I believe that some changes will make me decide to react by falling out of love. I do allow my love to change and end, and that's why I believe that me being in love with the same person for the rest of my life is very unlikely to happen. You're right that unconditional l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:59 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. How are they stupid for not seeing into the future? Can you predict the future in any way ? Are you.....then calling men stupid...for not being able to ? I have a lot of questions. Do you need to see into your future to know that it's your fault if you cheat and acknowledge it ? I am that math lady gif rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:47 PM
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Oh my! I didn't get the news that we have invented future seeing tools. Do men have no personal accountability and responsibility ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:43 PM
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This is wishful thinking, or men are wonderful effect. Men cheat, and leave their good wife and mother of their kids all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:22 PM
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Based on my personal experiences, believing it can last forever does cause harm when it doesn't. Not to say that relationships don't need hard work, they do. They should be maintained and kept as best as possible. But eventually they do end. It's a reality that people and circumstances change. You can work on your relationship to make it strong enough to withstand those changes and survive them as long as possible and I do believe everybody should do that. But some changes can have permanent con…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:12 PM
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You haven't convinced me that it is. So I'll still believe it, until I'm convinced otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:43 PM
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I was waiting for that, you're very predictable. Agree to disagree, love can last forever for you and it's not possible for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:02 PM
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Good for you if you can do that. I don't think I can and it would feel wrong to me. Being in love naturally dies, love doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:38 PM
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I don't know if it is a nature vs nurture issue. If I had to decide, I'd say a mix of both but a bit more of a nurture issue. In my experience, little girls are compared to each other a lot. And there is a huge emphasis on looks from early childhood. They are mostly only complimented on their prettiness, and nothing else. I still see that a lot with my nieces, they're around 6-7 year old, they're cousins and they're compared all the time, based on how long their hair is, how pretty they are, how…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:34 PM
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I disagree. You control your emotions with thoughts but only to a certain extent. You can't chose to be or not be attracted. This isn't what happens though. Usually you do feel that your attraction and feelings will last forever, until they don't. Even when you wanted them to. I agree that you can't negotiate attraction, you can't pick and convince yourself to be attracted to X person. You can build attraction, so attraction that wasn't there at first sight can happen over time, when you see mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:49 PM
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It's just pushed A LOT by doctors. I'm pretty sure it has some sort of lobby behind it. Even in regular check ups, they ask you if you're on bc and why not if you're not. Then they try to kind of convince you. You have to beg them and present them a whole essay if you want another type of BC prescribed. It's drastically different from my experience in europe where BC is not that big of a deal, you have to ask for it if you want it and no doctor is trying to convince you to take it. And they actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:57 AM
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Lmao that seems very true. All the lesbians I ever knew seemed to all be friends with their exs, and form a whole friend circle of each other's exes. All very friendly stuff haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:50 AM
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My lesbian friend seems to be doing just fine. She's married and thinking about a baby. What she complained about the most while dating were the straight (bi? closeted lesbians?) girls who would flirt with her and lead her on just to chicken out when she wanted to be more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:48 AM
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Not to me. Loving someone does, but you can't chose attraction. Or infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:45 AM
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Ime, in a situation where women were a small minority, we looked out for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:34 AM
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To be honest, I don't think it's a girl vs guy's issue. It's a low self-esteem issue. You see it all the time with those men who destroy their relationship with their own hands because she "deserves better". It seems strange to you because you had a healthy self esteem. I'll try to explain it in this subs terms. You're insecure, have very little confidence, very little self-esteem and a very pessimistic outlook on life. In other words, your SMV/RMV is at the lowest level in your head, you could …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:29 AM
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Yeah, it's an easy solution for doctors and it shouldn't be. It should be regularly controlled, at least in the first months and thoroughly explained. What are all the side effects possible, what to look for and is it worth it. Hormonal imbalances are hard to treat, but all the options should at least be presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:56 PM
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Yeah, definitely possible. But in my case, my libido stayed pretty similar to now, I felt aroused at a similar frequency but my confidence absolutely tanked and didn't feel "worthy" of a relationship and way too self conscious for casual sex. I can definitely imagine that depression could and would affect one's libido drastically. Yeah, I was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism a few years later!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:38 PM
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I was on BC for a year around 10 years ago, to control hormonal fluctuations that resulted in acne and a high metabolism. The effects I needed all happened : I had no more acne, I gained weight, had regular cycles. But I also experienced what could only be described as a depressive state. As well as other non relevant side effects that pushed me to get off BC. It didn't have a huge impact on my libido, I didn't have a light switch effect on me apart from the depressive feelings vanishing once I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:17 PM
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I agree. It's a very tricky situation to navigate, as a majority of actual rapists do walk free and that is also wrong and unacceptable. Rape is massively unreported, but I think it should have its own process to encourage victims to come forward. Something that would protect the victim and reduce the traumatic aspect of it while holding false accusations accountable. The false accusation has to be clearly defined as one made out malice and all that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:59 PM
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I wanted someone taller than me, I've never been as attracted to men my height and never been attracted at all to men shorter than me. Im around 5'6 and all my partners were somewhere between 5'10-6'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:18 PM
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I agree, they need to be held accountable in some way. The way the system processes rape accusations and condemnations needs to be reformed to punish actual rapists and protect falsely accused people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:37 PM
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Interesting, thanks for answering my questions. Glad you're back on the sub btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:31 PM
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Anymore ? You did before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:29 PM
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That's interesting, it's how womanhood feels to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:23 PM
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Did you feel that sense of brotherhood with any random man or just the ones in your life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:19 PM
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So you feel that there is some kind of brotherhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:00 PM
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I can understand the misogynists and women haters to an extent, but I don't think I would want to live in a misanthropist's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:36 PM
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I think this sub has it's fair share of straight up misanthropists, undeniably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:19 PM
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That would make sense, I have a hard time imagining men being on board with it. Thanks for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:07 PM
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Yes, sure. But this is a curiosity hypothetical question. If the group bond extended to the whole gender, how would you feel about that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:00 PM
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The team man post was interesting. I definitely feel that there is some kind of sisterhood between women. So Q4M : Would you want some kind of in group bond between men ? Would that make your life better, worse? Edit : in a hypothetical world where that would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:55 PM
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How do you know they do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:02 PM
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What are those assumptions? That they're attractive? Or an authority?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:04 PM
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How does that work in an online debate sub ? How does a woman, who changes her mind in a debate sub, base it solely on social factors when it's anonymous and there is no real authority to appeal to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:59 PM
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Honestly I feel like this is the case for most people. Men do align their views to fit in just as much, and they do cave in when faced with authority. The difference is, they rarely consider other women as figures of authority. This is probably why, you as a man, see it as following your logic rather than your authority. Lots of people give 0 shit about logic, this is why flat earthers, conspiracy theorists and anti-vaxers exist. I'd say the distribution of genders is relatively equal there. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:51 PM
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Well, love, including non romantic love, is caring deeply about someone, wanting the best for them, enjoying who they are as a person, stuff like that ? You can feel this forever, like I'll love my parents for the rest of my life? Being in love is different, it's a deep emotional connection, with a strong infatuation and a strong physical and romantic attraction to someone, as well as caring about them and loving them. This is what doesn't last forever for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:11 AM
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I know myself enough to know that it's like winning the lottery for me. There's a small chance it could happen but it's unlikely enough to not count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:00 AM
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but they're all crusty old ugly men now. Enrique is still pretty, but hozier is a god on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:19 AM
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No, but Ian somerhalder is barely taller than me, he was barely taller than nina in vampire diaries. Hozier checks all my boxes for physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:12 AM
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no, dude. It's the hair. And he's also 6'5.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:08 AM
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god, no. I can't think of a man more attractive than hozier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:04 AM
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The chadliest of chads to me is Hozier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:58 PM
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How to get chad's trashy greasy cousin 101
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:55 PM
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Love in general or being in love ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:51 PM
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Enlighten me with your knowledge then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:48 PM
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Entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:33 PM
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I care. Because they're valuable people who have my best interests in mind and who I deeply trust. So if they think the guy I've known for a couple of weeks is shady, it's for a good reason and I might as well listen to that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:28 PM
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Yeah. My lifelong friends come before my 1 month boyfriend. It's a pretty easy choice, don't you think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:19 PM
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I need to know someone well enough to feel comfortable including him in things with my friends. And if it doesn't work out, I don't want to run the risk that he might stay friends with my friends and I'd have to see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:00 PM
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I've always been really slow in relationships though,it always took me more than a month to consider someone a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:45 PM
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I'm pretty surprised by it too, I've never introduced a bf to my friends before a couple of months. Unless we met through said friend circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:42 PM
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I believe it's highly unlikely to stay in love with the same person for the rest of your life. I don't believe it's possible, for me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:41 PM
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If a sex act is going to cause pain and discomfort, emotional distress, or involves insults, it's objectively degrading. Being into said degrading act while your partner isn't is where the sexual incompatibility is. My experience aligns with 1) and 2). I've never broken up with someone due to sexual incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:33 PM
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It's dumb to believe in forever imo. Yes it can happen to some people, but they're often the exception rather than the norm. Forever is a fantasy. Nothing is forever, relationships, friendships, even habits. Since I don't believe in forever, I wouldn't say that. There are a lot of people, men and women, who do believe in forever, and I think they mean "it's you and me forever" when they say it. It just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:13 PM
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I don't know haha I'm as confused as you are, but reading the replies here, it seems like they wouldn't trust their longterm partner to not lose respect for them but wouldn't care if the casual partner did. Which is so weird to me, because why would you be with someone if you cant trust them to not lose respect for you that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:06 PM
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Yeah, I really enjoy running. Once you get your speed in check, an optimal 5K is only about 30min. But it took me a while to get there when I first started running, as I always struggled with speed more than stamina. Then from there you can build up to a 10K and ideally to a 1h 10k. I first started with the C25K program and I really recommend it if you want to work on distance. There's a really good app to monitor it. It lasts 9 weeks I think and it alternates very short periods of running and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:17 PM
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I used to be comfortable at 10K in about 1h, every 3 days but now I'm slower, and it drains me a lot more. Now I run at least 5K every day and focus on improving my speed, with at least one longer run (10-15K) per week. Yeah, that's why I specified useless self help books. A few were really useful but they are a minority in the self help genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:55 PM
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I don't know. It sounds like lack of trust in your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:23 PM
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My neighbors too, but I kinda avoid them lmao. I still miss the gym tbh, it's a lot better for me to do one training day one running day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:21 PM
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But are you also as disgusted in women who use their sex appeal to get free drinks, acquire fame, climb the corporate ladder, get meals on dates etc? These are different and I feel disgusted by some but not all. Free drinks/free meals : no. Corporate ladder : yes, deeply disgusted. I don't think getting free drinks/meals is predatory, you're not exactly trying to convince anyone to buy you a drink. It's rude if you accept the free drink and just dismiss the guy, but not exactly predatory. As for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:18 PM
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It doesn't make sense to me either. Why would you be more okay with being vulnerable with a stranger than a loving partner that you can trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:59 AM
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I went back to running everyday again after months of bodyweight training at home. It feels so much better, more calming and it's a better way to meditate and reduce stress. I've lost some stamina though, so I'm trying to get back to my pre-winter level. Quarantine gave me time to get my eating back in check, I have time to have 3 proper sit down meals instead of drinking coffee and snacking all day long with 1 real meal at the end of the day. I've started reading more too, focusing on more tech…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:52 AM
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You're not addressing anything of my comment. How do you define a harem? And how do you support your claim ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:07 AM
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It's really important to read your own sources. Nothing flew over my head. Between 2000-2002 and 2016-2018, the proportion of 18- to 24-year-old individuals who reported having had no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (18.9% vs 30.9%) but not among women (12.1% vs 19.1%). The increase was smaller, but that doesn't mean no percentage of women were sexless. Again from your own source : Smaller absolute increases in sexual inactivity were observed among those aged 25 to 34 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 11:13 PM
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You're missing logical steps. Your own source state a 20% of women being sexless compared to a 30% of men their age being sexless. This 10% difference is not a large percentage of women sharing a small percentage of men. This 10% difference could be explained by a hypothesis more supported than any of your large scale harem claims including the ones explained and researched in your paper. 2/3 of men are having sex, this is not a small percentage of men being shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:52 PM
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Support your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:35 PM
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Your claim : If there is a percentage of men going sexless while women aren’t going sexless, then that mean harems are forming. A percentage of women are sexless. Supported by your own source. If you read the paper, largely unchanged means a 9% decrease compared to a steeper decrease for unmarried men of the same age. That doesn't mean harems are forming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:03 PM
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From your own source : Lack of sexual activity, or sexual inactivity, was also on the rise among men and women aged 25 to 34 years during the survey period, the report in the journal JAMA Network Open found. From the paper that your source is based on : we estimated that 30.9% of men and 19.1% of women aged 18 to 24 years in 2016-2018 reported being sexually inactive in the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 09:47 PM
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There is also a percentage of women going sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 09:08 PM
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You can be disillusioned with the world, while living a minimalist life but with savings strong enough to keep you from worrying about emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 09:02 PM
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No, move somewhere where engineers are in high demand, negotiate your starting salary well, and keep it up for 10-15 years. You'll be doing well enough to buy your house by then. Then you can switch to consulting since you'll have the experience to be payed more for way less work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:03 PM
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Shitty men aren't out there doing that either. I dont know why you're so pressed on people claiming publicly their shortcomings, it's not going to happen. No one wants to broadcast their bad side. Everyone has a right to high standards, they just aren't entitled to the people meeting them. They're left without a partner. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:51 PM
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Not necessarily. If you have anger issues and are overall a shitty partner, you wont actively look for an overall shitty partner. You just won't get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:41 PM
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Or that one worse partner would rather be alone than with an equally bad partner. And you also have the part of population that just doesn't want partners at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:30 PM
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I wonder why everyone thinks society will collapse soon or something. If it does, it's going to be because of a huge economic crisis or environmental problems rather than a small part of frustrated men throwing tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:26 PM
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what happens isnt grooming. the pedos who catcall the little girls arent doing it to attract the kid, they're doing it for themselves. they get off the shock and disgust of the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:21 PM
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Yeah, exactly. So it's not unlikely for a majority of little girls to run into one those normal looking pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:14 PM
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get your iq back up and stop sympathising with rapists, you're better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:12 PM
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You're imagining something wild that every bystander can notice when it's often an old man sitting next to you on the bus and stroking your thigh until you pushed it and ask him to stop. Or instead this man whispers to you that you're so pretty and he wants to take you home. And you're 12, so you don't really understand what he means or what is happening but it just feels wrong. Or you're walking down the street and he slows down his car to tell you you have a nice ass and then speeds back up ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:10 PM
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Sorry but this is even dumber than the previous take. What are women going to do to anonymous BP men on this sub ? Shame them ? Force their wives to divorce them ? If your beliefs require that everyone who disagrees or has a different opinion must be invalidated, your beliefs are just that. Beliefs. Not gospel and the ultimate truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:05 PM
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Yeah. but for that to happen, you'd have to prove that talking to little girls on the street is sexual harassment. It's the little girl's word vs his on what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:58 PM
2

you're so disappointing me. you should know better, I thought you were high iq, what happened to you??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:57 PM
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yeah, I'd rather base it on what I see happening in real life rather than pedo buster tv shows. You really don't think pedos harass little girls on the street ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:56 PM
3

poop pee butt mcnuggets :( what is this, I thought your iq was higher than that!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:55 PM
9

Why ? You don't think 1 pedo can harass multiple girls ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:50 PM
8

I thought BP was defined simply by not-TRP. I believe that not everyone is destined to have a relationship, I don't think there is someone out there for everyone. Some people will end up alone, that's just life. I don't think this is part of trp. I believe nawalt, just like namalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:52 PM
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This is the dumbest thing I've read here today. If a man doesn't agree with you, he's less than a man ? Who do you think you are to say this ? What makes a rp man so special that they get to decide who is a man and who is "defacto a woman" ? Edit : use your words, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 09:19 PM
2

be polite and considerate. Even if they're overtly sexual or send dick pics. No. Men aren't children, they shouldn't be treated like children. Own your fuckups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 05:56 PM
1

How is consent not an actual thing? Only when it comes to sex or in other parts of life ??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:08 PM
3

And in that life, marriage is the only moral way to have sex ? Regardless of consent? I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:56 PM
1

Only when you're young and you can afford to lose that job, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:50 PM
18

Why are people so focused on flirting in the workplace? It's a high risk low reward situation and it could have huge impacts on your job regardless of MeToo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:13 PM
2

Is your view based on religious standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:10 PM
9

My views went like this in the last decade : Nothing short of misogynist in my teenage years -> Radical feminist for a good 5 years after that -> Lowkey misandrist -> Straight up misandrist -> More moderate feminist now. Various personal experiences made me rethink my views every time they switched. Being highly exposed to the most hateful part of both sides is what pushed me to reevaluate where I stood and why. I've always thought the good part of trp were common sense to me, so I don't know if…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:46 PM
2

The real lie from society about women is that a woman's consent is what makes sex moral. Such baloney How is that a lie ? Is non consensual sex somehow moral ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:14 PM
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Your logic is missing a lot of steps, you directly go from neurotism to avoiding responsibility, you skipped multiple logical steps to get there. The only thing from your theory that is backed by science is more neurotism, the rest of your theory is unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:11 PM
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reddit is where I procrastinate when work is slow, weekends are more entertaining so I can get away more easily but man, if there is one motivation to make you get off the internet it has to be people asking for sympathy for the oh so poor so miserable rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:54 PM
2

time to get off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:50 PM
6

Then you can't claim "the science behind it", it's just your own theory. It's not worth more than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 08:13 AM
1

Stop chasing chads cock coattail. Who is Chad ? An attractive dude ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 08:04 AM
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Is this an analogy for rape ? Edit : If you chose to rape someone for your own selfish need, you are wicked. No amount of desperation could justify it, no amount of desperation deserves sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 08:02 AM
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Yeah, they're pretty much invisible, background noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 12:59 PM
2

Mh okay, so would you be okay with a normal but disfigured woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 10:26 AM
3

Date a smart, comfortable financially, funny 40 yo obese woman ? Does it all mean nothing because she's obese ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 10:11 AM
2

I don't understand, you won't settle but you want attractive women to settle ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 09:46 AM
2

spoiler alert : it would be reasonable even if you were 4'11
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 09:43 AM
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Yeah, but I mean people wouldn't even think of it that way anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:48 PM
1

??? why would she wait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:54 PM
1

The economy has never been this connected between the countries before but the previous pandemics did cause a decline in economic activity worldwide. If not because things shut down, but because tons of people died.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:56 PM
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Pandemics much worse than this one have happened before. The response the majority of the countries had were not really in line with the responses an epidemiologist would have recommended when talking about a pandemic 10 years ago, simply because technology today is not the same as 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:45 PM
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Yeah, pretty much. A lot of epidemiologists and scientists have been talking about the high possibility of a pandemic in the near future since H1N1. So pretty much 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:36 PM
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I think the one thing I can see happening is the standard nuclear family not being the norm anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:28 PM
1

Why wait for someone else ? Give us your perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:26 PM
1

translation: great city, big casual relationships scene because there are a ton of students, great party scene, fun people and fun vibe. I don't live there anymore, but I lived in cute little Italy. It was quieter than downtown but I could walk 5min and end up in a few different restaurants. It was pretty great ! Downtown and the Mile end is where the noise was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:13 PM
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I'm considered average in europe at 5'5-6 but in montreal, I rarely ran into a woman taller than me but I was often the tallest woman in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:06 PM
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lmao you are so right, the french are insufferable ngl. I can't disagree more, wth, poutine is great
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:01 PM
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Sure, but again I'm not talking fat as in an overweight BMI with 20lbs to lose. I'm talking obese and morbidly obese women. I believe that to get to that level, you'd have to at least have some level of mental illness and not just laziness. Weight loss like that is possible but I can't imagine it can happen in a short enough time span and without life long aesthetic changes. The other aspect is that the refusal to date their equivalent imo, is stronger for short/petite women than it is for fat m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 10:39 AM
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I've never seen either on twitter, so I'll believe you. I've seen a similar level of bullying towards fat women and short men, in real life. Both with very little consequences. Both in the range of "Kill yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 10:31 AM
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Feelings are not facts, but when discussing feelings, feelings are relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 03:22 AM
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it's my part time job by now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:17 AM
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yeah my mom is ginger, and my dad blond. my brothers got half and half, one is blond and the other is a paler ginger. their wives are both brunettes though and their kids all have a different shade of brown. i got the same red as my mom, no sign of the blond anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:46 AM
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les français disent "Montréal est la ville dont on ne revient pas" pour une raison, et tbh 10/10 can relate, c'est là où j'aimerais m'installer à long terme.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:42 AM
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well c'est une grande ville full d'étudiants, donc énorme scene pour le casual. big party scene too. donc vraiment freaky. tbh j'ai été que quelque fois à quebec city, je sais pas trop comparer mais ça vaut vraiment vraiment le coup d'oeil, au moins quelques mois. l'ambiance est super, les gens sont super, y'a toujours un truc à faire. l'hiver passe plutôt vite aussi haha en gros je recommande beaucoup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:27 AM
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yeah, it totally makes sense. in my humble opinion, while indeed freaky, it's the best city in the world by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:58 AM
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It's really not common in montreal, everyone is shorter than in bc or europe. men and women, all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:53 AM
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You and I already talked about how similar our moms were, right ? Here's another coincidence: I have long red hair that is also very loved too lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:30 AM
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dude, if you're in montreal, you're taller than everyone else. it's literally short people city. Lose some weight, and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:07 AM
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Independence is for sure a factor for me. Being distant, I don't know. I've seen similar things too, like girlfriends demanding to be texted all throughout day and stuff like that. I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with someone so overbearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:51 PM
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I feel you! I so wish I could get my bf to grow his hair long, it looks so good on him. But he hates it so much he gave himself a buzz cut 2 months into quarantine. What we do in the shadows is so great, too bad it ruined his hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:46 PM
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Probably, yeah. Being too clingy is something that personally pushes me away really fast. It feels like a burden, and a good relationship isn't supposed to feel like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:56 PM
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It really depends. My brothers, both from the same parents, are not the same height and are both a couple inches taller than my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:51 PM
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Oh haha. Yeah, especially if people attach a lot of emotional values to those topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:08 PM
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It's pretty funny imo. "If their experience doesn't fit my perspective, they must be lying." What does that have to do with lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:58 PM
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My favourite is : -"In my experience, blabla" -You're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:45 PM
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It's pretty insightful too. It's pretty interesting to hear from people who have diametrically opposed views.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:39 PM
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I'm not saying it's not a thing, it is different for sure. But men have more than their muscles, their words do have power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:59 PM
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This is not true. Men's words have a huge power over other men's opinions of a woman. Men shaming exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:51 PM
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Man, my twitter feed is pretty wholesome compared to that. It's cruel af, and this isn't the oppression olympics but from what I've seen in real life, fat girls do get a similar level of bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:43 PM
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Don't know for sure. But the way I hear people talk about short men is a pretty equivalent level of vitriol I hear about fat women. I don't mean "thick" curvy women who still have a little bit of an hourglass figure. I mean fat, as in fat with a belly and flappy arms. It's called dumpster diving for a reason and the only difference I see in dating short men is that women aren't thirsty enough to dumpster dive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:32 PM
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Reading comprehension is not a skill everyone has acquired. More interesting stuff : There are good people out there, but also some pretty fucked up people too. The fucked up people are a lot more vocal. And it's fun and entertaining to disagree with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:02 PM
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They'd just be treated the same way fat women are now. So yeah, public outrage and acceptance movements, but backstage vitriol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:31 PM
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For an eternity of neediness and no internet ?? Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:21 PM
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Indeed, she needs company in her prison. Unfortunately, she doesn't offer anything worth staying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 02:03 PM
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Calypso sounds clingy and needy, yikes. No thanks, I like the prospect of death someday otherwise I'd procrastinate my life away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:48 PM
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Yes. Unfortunate for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:37 PM
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My bad. Still, the focus of the study was to see if the claim that women who had fgm were less sexually active or stayed a virgin longer. We have no idea what the methodology to "measure" the number of orgasms were. Further down in your link, orgasms do not appear as a part of the conclusions, only the article's introduction. What is the actual non paraphrased study ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:29 PM
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Indifferent to what? To having orgasms? I'm not sure I understand. Your OP was removed, what was in the last part?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:25 PM
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Okay, let's approach it differently. What do you have that supports your hypothesis that most women are not capable of having an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:20 PM
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There is no mention of being capable of orgasms in your link, only sexual activity. Did you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:14 PM
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I wonder if you'll realise how you sound if I modify it a little: Migraines are documented scientifically but there is no science behind the claim that people are capable of getting a migraine. Maybe they're socialized to believe that migraine are real and those people end up believing that any slight headache is a migraine. Migraines here being an orgasm and the headaches physical pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:06 PM
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Clearly you don't think there are any real orgasms happening to any woman out there. You need a few things to get scientific measuring equipments and tests done to prove something/disprove the existence of something. An example : 1) Enough scientists and researchers would have to care 2) A good understanding of what you're trying to research 3) You need a valid hypothesis supported by a strong body of research So far, you don't have any of that. Female orgasms are documented scientifically and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:50 PM
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It's clear that deep down most women know their orgasms aren't real, that's the only explanation for why they're angry anyone wants to verify them. ......I. Moving on. I know a woman who never had an orgasm and has been told that she probably never will. I don't know the details of why and how, but apparently she can feel a certain level of pleasure but never enough (or long enough? not sure) for an orgasm. It's a medical condition. Most women are actually capable of having orgasms, it is not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:35 PM
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I have my own beliefs independent of science, as I believe that science and spirituality cannot be mixed and used to justify one another. I like Dawkins work for the science.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:08 AM
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The interesting thing about the selfish gene is that it fits really well into some very recent evolution theories about the origin of life itself and it came way before we even discovered what makes life and genes themselves work. It's like reading a book written by a time traveller. I asked and he read more than yesterday, he's bored enough to read it all ! What does he write about? If you're using him as a guinea pig for your unethical experiments, I'd rather know the hypothesis !
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:12 AM
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I agree, we'll see how all of this evolves. I agree, there's nothing comparable to actual experience, no matter how many studies you read. Your own personal experience will still change you more. Only heard of the game, never read it. Unrelated but the selfish gene was such a good book to read. I have a strong story with that book, that has nothing to do with dating though, but reading and looking into it purely for the science/actual molecular biology of it was a turning point in my college yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:46 AM
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Maybe it's a bit of self centric of me but it's pretty much common sense to me. But I can accept that some people didn't get that advcie before trp. TRP's belief sets, in my opinion, creates a lethal confirmation bias that pushes people into a positive feedback loop that keeps amplifying them. But yeah, I get what you mean. Acting confident will only get you so far while actually being confident has a different result.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 11:57 PM
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Oh, right, I see. I think that's what's very interesting about environmental changes, you adapt anyway at the end, however you chose to do so. It might take time, and it might change your beliefs, or any other aspect of you but some form of adaptation happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 11:30 PM
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You have to speed learn what someone who has always been attractive already knew and mastered. I haven't ever had dramatic fluctuations like that, but I can see how it changes your perspective a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:59 PM
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Mh I see. That's what happens when you get attractive quickly or lose it quickly, and you keep the same mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:45 PM
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It's not much different than knowing how to style your hair/clothes the best to fit you. You need to try enough options and get good feedback on what looks good and what doesn't. Though I can see the not "authentic" point of view, I think I've seen my mother makeup free only a handful of times in my whole life and that's a whole other extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:36 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:31 PM
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It's knowing what to emphasize and what to tone down. A skill that needs practice and good feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:29 PM
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It makes sense, definitely. But a balance is possible nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:22 PM
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I feel like this is the most accurate description. They're confused by the change. Eventually if they see you going back and forth between a bare face and a full face of make up often enough, they come to term with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:55 PM
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I chose to see the good in it! lmao I'm in stem too and it is so much easier to work with other women, there's no need to compete like with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:44 PM
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Some of us have been blessed with shitty coworkers and don't even have to consider that possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:41 PM
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I don't think so. I think we're doing our fair share of damage but I don't think we're earth's parasites. In the long run, our presence on earth as a specie seems more of a net positive rather than a net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:48 PM
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Don't date people you're not attracted to, it's a great recipe for misery. Both for you and the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:25 PM
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Yeah, that would make sense. In my case, it was men I was already in a relationship with but were way too fast when it came to jumping to the next steps in the relationship (moving in together too fast, or proposing out of nowhere)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:53 PM
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Im confused, that's how you explain wanting to commit too soon or not committing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:44 PM
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Yes, like I said, some women do chase those men and regret it and they are the ones complaining. Most women don't stay in relationships like that, it's just smart decision making and protecting yourself. If you want to believe that all women here are lying that hard to you and to themselves, I can't really change your mind about it if it's set.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:43 PM
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I don't disagree, I personally really liked the bad boy reformed by a good girl trope growing up and really liked the love triangles thing. I can even find you better illustrations of af/bb because even the hunger games isn't. But I strongly disagree that in actual non fantasy romance life, AF/BB are two different separate men that all women look for at different times in their lives. Alpha traits and beta traits are a thing, but they are a spectrum. I really don't agree that you can split men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:38 PM
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I don't understand what you mean in your last paragraph. If a woman once liked and wanted a guy who didn't want to commit but she didn't pursue him, she struggled to get commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:22 PM
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From a strictly scientific point of view, evolution is random. Singularity happens randomly, on a DNA level. If you see more to that, it's your own spirituality and I think we should accept that science will not explain spirituality. It's not science's job to prove that there is a magic or a god behind its mechanics. To each their beliefs when looking for a why. It's not possible to explain that with science because science seeks to explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:08 PM
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Good lord, I lost a few brain cells reading that. Your knowledge of Twilight is much better than mine, I completely forgot that he ends up with the kid, a whole new level of weird if you ask me. But he ends up with her daughter, she's his soulmate. He's not simping for Bella, Bella went with Edward, the original AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:41 PM
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Usually if you're a smart young woman and you realise that the young guy you like only wants that and you don't, you move on. You don't chase him hoping to wear him down or convince him. Some women do and regret it and end up complaining about it. Observing that those guys aren't serious and exist doesn't discount that you didn't start trying to get him to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:42 PM
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But Twilight is not a af/bb example. They're both AF, as in hot powerful dangerous chads with dark triad features. No one is a "safe provider" choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:30 PM
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Exactly, it was never a book about choosing between two men, in the first place. Personally, I saw the movie and the series before reading the book and all the ball scenes and the flirting dances were the romance fantasies I daydreamed about. I, too, wanted to run towards the love of my life at sunrise in a beautiful field with a romantic background music. Never did I dream about fucking Mr.Darcy or how much hotter than Mr.Whickham he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:23 PM
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I had the opposite problem : men wanting to commit way too soon. It took me a while to find someone who moved in a compatible speed and even then, sometimes they just went too far too fast. However, I do see women complaining about that. In general, they're just moving at a different speed too. They project their feelings on that man. It's a compatibility problem, I think. It depends on how you define commitment too, most of the women I've seen complaining were complaining about marriage and rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:41 PM
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Yeah, it is still there for me too, it's just not the thing that makes me fall anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:41 AM
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I feel like the humor things only worked on me when I was younger. I had some intense crushes on guys who were insanely funny but objectively not that attractive, back then. Looking back, now one or two would straight up be unattractive to me. After a while, it didn't have the same effect at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:35 AM
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That's not Pride and prejudice, couldn't be further from that. But thanks for the laughs as always
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:05 AM
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If I remember correctly he did do live streaming and stuff like that, I just couldn't literally dm him on insta. I don't think the level of access to celebrities has increased that much. If I wanted my life to be 100% around Jb I could have had it that way. YouTube had endless content.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:30 AM
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Back in 2009, I liked JB for his pretty face. Never did I sit there falling in love with him or daydreaming about him in a sexual way at all. Pride & Prejudice was much more comparable to romance porn to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:23 AM
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I truly feel like you skim through my comments, take what you want and discount the rest. Like seriously my first sentence a comment or two above was word for word "I don't consider blinking and looking at the guy long enough approaching." Yet all your last paragraph is describing exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:17 AM
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You set the definition by saying it's literally moving towards someone with the implication of asking them out. In the example I gave you, the woman moves physically towards the man with a clear intent. Having the guy signal attraction back before moving further doesn't discount it. Plus, I did include actually talking to him too. It just doesn't involve going all the way to his personal space. They won't approach men the same way men approach women. They will however, whatever you call it, make…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:25 AM
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Is it really? Food seemed more expensive than BC when I went. I couldn't handle heat anyway and I'd miss the snow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:16 AM
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I separated it in a whole new paragraph on purpose: I'm talking about Napoleon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:12 AM
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I doubt my pay would increase enough initially to justify the high rent and the rest of the living expenses if I moved, but god who would willingly chose to live in the midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:08 AM
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No, the Karen meme has been prevalent for a year or two at least now. It just had a very specific definition that didn't extend to an attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:55 AM
1

I'd live in California too if I didn't love having money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:54 AM
1

man, alberta sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:37 AM
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Okay. If your definition of approaching is literally "how men approach women", then no, I do not approach men the way men approach women and never will. I don't see why the men's version is the valid version, since my version the definition too but I'm not interested in arguing semantics and definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:34 AM
1

clairement haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:11 AM
1

3??! god
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:57 PM
3

pire, québécoise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:53 PM
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pas de soucis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:47 PM
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What I mean by signaling is not blinking 3 times and looking at the dude for 3 seconds. Usually, it implies moving closer so he can see you. It doesn't have to be right in front of them, just close enough to get his attention. If he looks at you and moves to you, you have his attention. The key now is to keep it and encourage him to reciprocate. At this point, you can smile and invite him to come to you in some way or another, or talk to him. You've made your attraction clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:14 PM
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If it helps you sleep at night, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:07 PM
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So what is approaching? Straight up asking him out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:02 PM
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No, it doesn't. I don't even know it tbh ? I know of his LTRs and how they ended/why/with who but that's it and that's what matters to me. I just know he didn't have a different girl every week at his place and that's more than enough info for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:52 PM
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Sending signals is not approaching. Why not ? It works, they get the hint and if they're interested, act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:47 PM
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man, you're hilarious tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:37 PM
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yes, but instead of telling me why you didn't like it so we could debate, you resorted to name calling and personal attacks. now if you'd tell me why you don't like it, we could debate it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:23 PM
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see how we got a civil discussion without any name calling ? much nicer, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:16 PM
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and me in mine. it got me far enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:12 PM
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have you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:05 PM
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why would I lie lmao you're an internet stranger going by poop-pee-butt-mcnuggets. I'll give you a hint because I like you: your iq assessment is off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:02 PM
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I'm not changing majors, I'm interested in another engineering field.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:59 PM
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engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:55 PM
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see, better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:55 PM
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either something IT related or economics related
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:51 PM
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still no mention of your major :( can I guess ? I'm better than you at guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:49 PM
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you didn't tell me your major though! Nope, I'll give you a third chance to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:44 PM
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what did you major in ? I'm kinda considering a second degree, any recommendation from you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:40 PM
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I empathise with the loneliness and feeling inadequate that might have pushed them there in the first place. I think I also empathise with the "anger phase" to an extent, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:33 PM
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lmao that goes way beyond the technology I had in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:31 PM
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entertaining exchange, as always
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:31 PM
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I'm fairly sure no one is discrediting your experience and knowledge of women and how they are. Karens, as defined by the meme : a loud, entitled, rude and condescending woman, aren't as common "in the wild" as you make it seem to be. They attract more attention because they're loud and annoying everyone else. People like complaining about Karens as much as Karens like complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:27 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:19 PM
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oh my, my favourite tradcon. it's okay, not everyone wants to talk about cheesy pussy, you don't have to engage with this post. Thanks kandyapplez Pls explain ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:13 PM
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what a chaotic way to lead the world you just conquered, the army of super smart chads are going to need more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:32 PM
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sounds great lmao alright, you have an army, ready to conquer the world, what do you do then ? what mark do you leave ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:08 PM
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I see. But even if they're genetically modified they're not robots, they have their own agency. How would you convince superior beings like that to accept to be your army?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:58 PM
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Sounds scary, indeed. Consider what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:52 PM
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That's an interesting take. I think I'd do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:51 PM
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Yeah, it's very entertaining, especially when you're lockdown and work is slow. I like the variety of topics, it's pretty interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:24 PM
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It's obviously not going to happen, I'm asking hypothetically. And not carbon copies of one type of person, I'm mostly curious about what the people here consider "genetically gifted". I do think though that we could have in the near future (10-15 years) some minimal genome editing to get rid of well known diseases that are related to one specific mutation. We're still a bit far from it practically but it's not complete science fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:21 PM
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I mean, me too ? Nobody is going to look out for me, you have to do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:42 PM
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If genetic engineering of human embryos is ever accepted and made legal,assuming we get rid of every genetic disease, how else would you design your kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:36 PM
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I guess being a mom would put in context a whole lot of stuff my mom did haha Definitely no pants free mom stories for me, I don't think I've seen my mom make up free haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:28 PM
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I see, okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:24 PM
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Things started shifting in France, at least, under Louis XIV, the relations between the different countries as well as the colonisation of the rest of the world definitely impacted the thinking and the culture. He's very well known as a clear shift in history, at least in Europe. He's weirdly very admired and loved in France and Poland but hated by every other country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:23 PM
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However, I’d say the “bad bitch” and “yas queen” attitude are close cousins to this. How so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:13 PM
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Very true. If you don't control it, and form your own thought process, you'll be manipulated in a way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:03 PM
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Yes. I don't need someone super in shape though. Just someone on my level who enjoys physical activity, preferably the kind of physical activity I like doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:53 PM
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I think it would again depend on your environment. If you lived in rural Germany, never seen anyone but people accepted by the ideology and all you've ever heard was the nazi propaganda, I'm pretty sure being a Nazi and fighting for it would sound like the logical thing to do. Now if you lived in a more populated area, had access to more education and frequently ran into Jewish people, I don't think the nazi ideology would fit well in your identity. Of course, it could but it's much harder to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:46 PM
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Oh interesting, I wonder what did the string puller have to gain, I've never heard of him and how he manipulated Napoleon. It is, it's mass manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:36 PM
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Religion could be an important factor too. But yeah, I've seen a rise of "homemakers" influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:14 PM
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Yeah, he rose as a general and did lead as such for a few years and then proclaimed himself as emperor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:03 PM
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I see. I agree with how you describe changing your beliefs/changing your behaviour and being fake. I don't think that environment is at the very end of things though. If we were born in Nazi Germany and raised to be Nazi, it would definitely impact our belief system. Maybe we wouldn't be nazis but it wouldn't be something that has 0 impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:02 PM
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The Renaissance is indeed a transforming period of our history, not just Da Vinci but the multitude of scientific advances and theories we rely on today were drafted and made possible by the Renaissance. I've been taught that a hard end is the times leading to the French Revolution, around 1700, with a clear shift in the French monarchy and the independence of the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:56 PM
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God, bioengineering is such an interesting field of study. Thanks for the quality references, now I have some fun reading to do! I've read about 20% photovoltaic cells, but that was a few years ago. I read a pretty interesting paper about the limitations in plants that would come from how inefficient the biochemicals reactions necessary to sustain the whole plant are and there was research about optimising the size of the leaves and reducing everything else. I haven't looked into that in ages th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:44 PM
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Interesting. And when does it end ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:38 PM
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No, not at all. Renaissance begins at the rediscovery of ancient greek/latin writings and art that creates a cultural shift in Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:36 PM
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Yeah, but it's defined by a specific eurocentric time frame of events and it ends way before Napoleon. Napoleon was a shifting point in French history, but he was not the shifting point that distinguish between "renaissance" and "modern times". But it's all semantics. A general timeline is : 1300-1600 = Renaissance, 1600-Revolution, Revolution/Napoleon-Loss of the colonies, Modern days France.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:31 PM
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Maybe I'm a bit too optimistic on this, but I do think our beliefs are unique to us. Maybe not special, in the "worthy of extra attention" meaning but I do truly believe that each person has a unique experience on earth, and that unique experience shapes their minds, thus their belief system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:24 PM
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He also didn't live in the Renaissance, you're off by a few hundred years. Indeed, things are very much different, but are the banks truly behind it ? I'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:22 PM
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Interesting take. I'll point out this : Napoleon was never a king, the french beheaded and hunted down their royals. But interesting theory, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:18 PM
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Man, you have such an optimist take on science. Is the efficient mangrove tree and trained polyps an actual thing or was it just a rant thing ? If it's real, I'd love to read about it. But I agree with your whole first point. We're more than the other species, we manipulate evolution itself and the only thing stopping us from manipulating ours is ethics and laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:06 PM
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Good content. Indeed, beggars can't be choosers. Ultimately, "why" is very personal. Your own spirituality, experience, morals and character define it. I personally don't think you can genuinely completely outsource it, whether it's from religions or philosophies or even things like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:58 PM
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Genuinely curious : how ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:46 PM
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Sure, yeah, it's just a different deeper take from what I usually read here. I don't think evo psych, TRP, etc can answer the "why" beyond what drives evolution in itself. And that is survival and reproduction. You can also spin it in a darker way and see it as the survival of the fittest, and your "why" could be making sure you're one of the fittest. Then TRP/PUA could intervene here and be a "how".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:40 PM
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PPD has gotten real philosophical. It depends on where you stand in your spirituality. Why are we here ? Why is there a "here" ? Ultimately, we are living stuff. Like all the living stuff we know of (plants, animals, fucking viruses), our existence revolves around survival and replication. I don't believe it's our only purpose though. Even bacteria form some kind of societies with each other, and bind together for the benefit of the whole "society". Maybe that's what humans are doing too, it jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:25 PM
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Life isn't fair and wont gather to you and how you want things to be, yes but you can refuse to compromise on who you are. Putting up a whole persona while crushing who you are can be a line you won't cross for your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 02:57 PM
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A law ?? Am I being scammed by paying for mine ? Send me a link, that stuff is expensive af. Honestly I wouldn't mind a second degree, to go more in depth and specialise. The risk is being too expensive to hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:43 AM
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They're so much nicer to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:54 AM
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