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calisurfer101/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:43 AM
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calisurfer101/r/MGTOW224/03/21 03:18 PM
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calisurfer101/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:55 PM
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calisurfer101/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:08 PM
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Field Reportcalisurfer101/r/seduction20/04/21 04:31 PM
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Field Reportcalisurfer101/r/seduction02/04/21 01:35 AM
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Inner Game calisurfer101/r/seduction01/04/21 07:53 PM
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calisurfer101/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:19 AM
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calisurfer101/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:38 PM
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Field Reportcalisurfer101/r/seduction05/04/21 03:32 PM
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Field Reportcalisurfer101/r/seduction14/04/21 11:46 PM
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calisurfer101/r/seduction08/04/21 02:02 PM
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calisurfer101/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:07 AM
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calisurfer101/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:22 PM
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calisurfer101/r/MGTOW218/04/21 09:06 PM
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Imagine the need of feeling desire by some 3/10 from Tinder. Reeks of lack of healthy self esteem. Go see a therapist.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/25 01:24 PM
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Same. Sex is not hard to get. But going through the motion to rail some average 304 to feel "desired" is some lame ass shit. Been there, done that. It's just dopamine addiction.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/25 08:17 AM
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What kind of noob shit is this? Women respond to the same shit. Seducing a 9 is no different to seducing a 4. What matters is if she's attracted to you. Women are women. Full stop. Treat them the same. Stop posting non sense.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/25 08:13 AM
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Disgusting human being
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/22 05:41 PM
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You did good
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/22 01:09 PM
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Lol is this a troll post? This subreddit is a lost cause.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:25 AM
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I put a smiley face after that tho, so we good baby gurl
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:00 AM
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dont worry bruh, I asked her to reimburse 100$ via Venmo. we good bruh we good
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:52 AM
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Ahahah
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:26 AM
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Thank you dude
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:25 PM
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I understand what a high value man is, but what is a high value woman to you?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:17 PM
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I want children too man. Hard to find a woman that is worth LTR nowaday.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:07 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:35 PM
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Yes I feel like like as long as she's attractive, she's not going to have any issues.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:30 PM
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I agree, but I'm not talking solely about sex. We all know it's easy for a woman to get sex, no doubt about it.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:29 PM
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What if she does not want kids. Does the wall still apply? I mean what if she's in her 30s and still wants to fuck around.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:29 PM
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I'm not a simp, but I agree with the resentful part. My ex-wife was like this actually. I guess that especially the case when she rode the CC in her 20s.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:27 PM
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The income part is very true. I actually met a chick recently and she was 36 and still living with a roommate. She was obviously trying to find a man/relationship. I guess she's looking around and see all her friends getting married and buying homes while she's still broke as fuck.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:26 PM
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Thank you, you're totally right
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:41 AM
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awesome
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:02 AM
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when will they learn
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:27 AM
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Do you also feel like shit is going to hit at any moment when you have something good going on? Like some bullshit just around the corner is going to fuck your shit up?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:13 PM
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Thank you, I do not meditate. I think I'll start.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:49 PM
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Thank you,
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:49 PM
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Lol yeah, I'm trying to be grateful for the 6ft mention. Anyway yes, I grew up in an extremely abusive household.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:49 PM
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Amazing
/r/seduction04/06/21 03:06 AM
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Ahahahahahahah
/r/askTRP15/05/21 07:17 PM
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Cold approach works if you do it directly too
/r/seduction02/05/21 08:27 PM
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You dodged a bullet and saved some $. FUCK HER.
/r/seduction25/04/21 09:48 PM
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Lmao utter bullshit
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:25 AM
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Nice dude!
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:39 AM
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1 out of 15 turns into a date. Again, it depends. Sometimes it's lower.
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:38 AM
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Night game or day game?
/r/seduction21/04/21 02:52 AM
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Lmao fucking gold comment
/r/seduction20/04/21 11:35 PM
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"Ok" does not make you look butt hurt dude. I don't know why you say that. I asked for a date twice, I'm not asking again or continuing to chase. It's a major turn-off for me. 2 strikes, she's out. She can think whatever she wants, once I delete her number, there's no going back. I also don't care if she texts me again (also she's married), I've already moved on. I'm in complete abundance and if a woman fails to meet my standards, then I ax her. I'm super picky. At the end of the day, these are …
/r/seduction20/04/21 11:17 PM
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She’s telling you that because she’s just a time waster who goes on Tinder for the validation. My time is valuable. I know what I want. I’m not going to be your text buddy until you tell me “actually I don’t know when I wanna meet, immmmm so buuusy!!!”. It’s ether a fuck yeah or a no. You absolutely have to ax these people and focus on the women that are enthusiastic to meet you.
/r/seduction20/04/21 09:56 PM
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Yeah dude, I think the reason she was so flaky is that she was testing the waters. Fuck that noise. I was cheated on before and people like her disgust me. Interacting with individuals like this lower your value as a man.
/r/seduction20/04/21 08:37 PM
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I agree with you on the job thing. She's indeed a bartender. Sure, I always set up an activity and place. However, I always ask when she's free to do so. Also, the other reason I deleted her number is because she flaked once and I also noticed on her Instagram (today actually lmao) that she was married. I don't mess with married women or women with boyfriends. Against my moral code. Thanks brother!
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:00 PM
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Ahahahah just a little
/r/seduction15/04/21 02:15 AM
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https://ibb.co/3R1q2Hx https://ibb.co/zQ15J1d Meh
/r/seduction15/04/21 02:08 AM
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She responded, but nice try
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:12 AM
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Ain’t that the truth dude. It’s hilarious.
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:46 AM
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Because I’m awesome. I’m trying to get to know her and see if she’s cool.
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:40 AM
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Ahahahah
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:38 AM
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Don't call. Fuck that.
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:50 PM
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Started approaching women left and right non stop. The more you play, the luckier you get. The 21 year old was a shitty lay because I could not stay hard. Got ghosted lmao. The world is a big place with a lot of women.
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:07 PM
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Women reach their peak early 30s? Since when?
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:36 PM
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I'm 32 and I pulled a 21-year old a few days ago. I just started seduction about 2 months ago.
/r/seduction10/04/21 12:57 PM
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Fucking legend
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/21 04:09 AM
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Yes honestly, I'm just happy she had fun. I don't really care about me cumming. Anyway, we barely slept and I was completely out of it. I also need to get another mattress because mine is way too soft. So it's just terrible for sex. It was very sensual tho, the whole experience. We kissed, we hugged, etc. My only goal was to make sure she was comfortable and happy at the end of the night.
/r/seduction08/04/21 03:45 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. I'm pretty positive in real life, my post sounds negative because I'm trying to introspect and be honest with myself. I think you hit the nail on the head and I'm going to adjust. My main issue is not being present and being outcome-dependent. This is absolutely the wrong way to go at it. The whole situation was 100% my fault. I should have stated my boundaries from the get-go. I can't be mad at someone that "violate" my boundaries if they don't even know ab…
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:51 PM
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Thank you very much for your comment. It’s very helpful. This field report turned into an inner game post. I need to take a step back and reflect.
/r/seduction05/04/21 05:43 PM
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I actually like that you're harsh and I appreciate you taking the time to write that comment. You know what, I think you probably touched on something and I need to think about what you wrote. I'm not going to lie, this for some reason is hurting my ego. I need to explore why, especially if I want to improve. I agree with the fact that it was my fault and I did set a precedent by my actions. One thing I'm going to stop doing is keep the drinking to a minimum next time. Also, I'm not going to off…
/r/seduction05/04/21 05:31 PM
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This is not true. I paid for dinner because I still have the "nice guy syndrome" and I don't value my time/money enough. How exactly did I try to take advantage of her? I ask her if she wanted to come to my place, I didn't force her to do anything. Was I disappointed that she refused? Sure I was. It's a 2-way street. I should have bailed when I realized that she was not reciprocating desire. Also, she is a grown woman, what was stopping her from offering the pay half or helping me with the tip? …
/r/seduction05/04/21 05:10 PM
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I actually really appreciate your feedback and your critique. I think you are totally correct that by picking them up, I'm setting up a precedent. I'm going to stop doing this. Can you expand on this: "I’ll be honest man, I’ve read this and your post history and I genuinely think you’re focusing too much on trying to find bad things that happen so you can tell yourself “that girl doesn’t immediately want to fuck me, next!”" I'm looking to improve and any feedback is priceless to me.
/r/seduction05/04/21 04:19 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you. Thanks man. I'm really pissed at myself, I'm not going to lie. I feel like an idiot for ignoring all the red flags and not standing for myself. This experience is pushing me to do a lot of introspection to adjust and be a better man.
/r/seduction05/04/21 03:54 PM
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This is the most accurate post I’ve seen in a while. Reflects my experience perfectly.
/r/seduction05/04/21 01:26 PM
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Yeah dude, that's not what I want. No desire to be friends with women I want to have sex with. That's a straight road to blue balls city.
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:44 AM
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Thanks brother!
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:54 PM
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I don't really. Perhaps like once a week. I've been eating like crap and not working out recently. That's probably it.
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:12 PM
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Lmao why?
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:09 PM
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Thank you sir!
/r/seduction02/04/21 01:41 PM
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Yup, spot on. Thank you!
/r/seduction02/04/21 01:41 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction02/04/21 01:40 PM
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Thank you for your kind comment. So, the chick with the kiss close, I escalated super early and I made my attention super clear actually. I have absolutely no idea why she changed her mind. It's a long story, but I think she realized that I was not long-term relationship material (she was 35). She straight up told me that I was a Casanova during our date. Who the fuck knows man. On the other dates, especially the most recent one, you are 100% correct, I should have escalated much much earlier an…
/r/seduction02/04/21 04:23 AM
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Thank you! My exact message to her was: "No, thank you. I'm looking for something romantic with you. Let me know if you ever change your mind." Anyway, it's hard to get rejected, etc but I feel like I'm making small progress. I'm learning a lot and I also become better at qualifying gold diggers and time wasters.
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:39 AM
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The fuck is "cucumber sushi" ahahahah.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/21 01:05 AM
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You are competing against millionaires my dude. This is one of the toughest city to game. A lot of golddiggers, fake ass bitches and time wasters. I go to FT Lauderdale to game. People are friendlier.
/r/seduction25/03/21 10:27 PM
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Go game at the Wharf or Casa Florida for night game or Brickell for day game. Gaming in Miami is a pain in the ass. Such a vain and demanding city.
/r/seduction25/03/21 09:50 PM
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Dude 100%. These bitches are veterans. They know all the tricks lmao. I went on a date with 35 years old last Friday and it was basically a job interview. She's been single for the past 3+ years. She realized that I was fuck boy that was going to pump and dump. She actually came to my place but she played hard to get and we did not have sex. At this point, they are either desperate to lock some beta bux or have delusional standards. That hoe ghosted my ass lmao. So no second date.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:35 PM
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This shit really made me laugh ahahah
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:27 PM
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No, it was an exclusive monogamous marriage. I never cheated on the bitch. She was "talking to her trainer" while we were initially dating. Then we took a "break" and she most likely drained his balls before coming back to me to "get back together". That's how beta I was.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:24 PM
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She still wants to be "friend". I told her to go kick dirt. I don't want anything to do with this skank. Anyway she changed all the pictures, wifi password, etc. Probably best to move on. I mean I did the same shit lmao.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:21 PM
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Fucking hell, that's excellent. You're right. I'm free now. I can whatever I want.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 01:21 AM
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I'm 32 brother. I went on a date with a 35-year-old this Friday and it was weird. I feel like she was super "analytical" and she was super stressed that I was lying or some shit. We didn't even fuck, she was playing hard to get. A lot of post-wall left over out there for sure. But yeah, I feel you about the warm body. It's painful. Thanks, man, I appreciate the wise words. I need to focus on myself.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 01:20 AM
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Thank you very much brother
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 01:17 AM
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Good point.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:41 PM
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Thanks, man. Yes I don't miss her, I miss the intimacy of a woman.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 07:34 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:33 PM
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Marrying her was a mistake. It was a huge mistake.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:33 PM
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She was flirting with the mofo. I guess knowing what I know know, she probably fucked him.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:32 PM
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She's a CrossFit skank. She hooked up with some guy at Crossfit before meeting me and she wanted me to hang out with him. What a dumbass I was.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:52 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 05:01 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 05:01 PM
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I was dumb. That was a dumb decision. The reason I GTFO is the fact that she's was never happy. A black hole of energy. Extremely ungrateful.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 05:01 PM
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I just listed all the redflags.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 04:30 PM
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Whatever she did, it's irrelevant now.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:18 PM
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I have not slept with other women yet. I've approached and went on a date with 2 women so far. The last date was Friday, I kiss close but no fuck close. I guess it's a matter of time. Yeah, my ex was not special, actually pretty trashy if you ask me. She wants a family ASAP, so she is probably panicking. Her eggs are drying up. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:32 PM
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Thank you man. You're so right. I need to focus on myself and LIFT.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:21 PM
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Thank you so much, brother. It's giving me perspective.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:21 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. I just kept grinding until I became really good at selling. I went from business failures to going back to the corporate world. There I worked for various companies and job hopped my way to a high six figures salary while starting a side business. The Redpill helped me improve a lot. I seriously lacked motivation and self-respect before that. I went from being risk-averse to going for what I want.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:58 AM
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I think he is liked. The guy is charismatic, smart, witty, and gives the aura of "confidence". I actually always looked up to him. However, 2 things I have noticed, first is that he shows contempt for people he deems "beneath him". Secondly, he constantly feels the need to overcompensate. Aka making jokes about having a big dick (on a regular) or talking about how good he is of a basketball player. I came to the conclusion that in my case, it's insecurity + the fact that familiarity brings conte…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:44 AM
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Trust me, I wish. But I don't it's a good idea to invest more mental energy on this guy. I need to move on to better things and build new friendships with high-value men.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:59 AM
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I get what you're saying. The thing is, the Redpill material helped me realize that I have to stand up for myself and enforce boundaries. This is something new for me. In my case, the guy used to legit put me down in front of people and then say "it's just a joke man, I'm fucking with you" when I address it. It's very weird because just like your friend, he's a very successful guy. I have no idea why he does it. Finally, you'd be surprised that common sense is not that common for people who were…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:50 AM
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Good point. Childhood friends are important to me because I grew up an orphan. So I guess that's my "survival instinct" kicking in. But you're right, time to move on.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:48 AM
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Good observation. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:31 PM
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Yea dude, he's fucking jacked. Also, he just want to fuck young women.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:45 PM
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Nan man, my friend legit told her: it's my baby coming from your pussy or it's nothing lol
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:19 PM
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I agree. He was lucky, she is a good woman. No branch swinging and came from a very good family. She did not divorce rape him. They tried having a baby for a while until the doctor told them that she was infertile.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:17 PM
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Thank you for your help,
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:06 PM
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Thank you, can you please expand on that
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:06 PM
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Nan, they divorced amicably. She could not have kids and she wanted to adopt. He was against it. It became a deal-breaker.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:04 PM
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