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"Just be yourself" is a good advice that usually people don't understand. It is not about continuing doing what you are doing without changing, but ir more about finding who you are and changing you internally to the person you want to be. For example, I am far from the "ideal" attractive man people advocate in this sub. I am a bit effeminate, nerdy, gentle and chill personality, like to dress a lot of not manly stuff like chokers, skirts and etc, and that is who I am. Took me some time to accep…
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:10 PM
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Yes, mystery method is about performing, I've read it entirely before, and it is one of the reasons I think it is one of the worst books to read in this aspect. You basically makes seduction into a chore, like you are playing a game to get to a final objective. Completely not the way I would like to expend my time and life. It is mentally draining and frustrating to live like this.
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:55 PM
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I don’t really like going out and having to potentially do all these performative social gestures just to make people like me. No performance. I just behave naturally and being myself. My focus is more on having fun. You are putting too much value on stuff that doesn't matter. The initial parts of dating are really fun for me, regardless if I will be rejected or not. Meeting a new person and flirting with her feels really good with all this discovery stage, even for casual flings. If you view al…
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:42 PM
2

The fact of the matter is, I don’t really want to have to grind and grind in real life and have to put in all this effort to meet people and have to shuttle myself around town a few times a week just in some vague hope of meeting someone to date. If this is the lens you are using to see all the situation, of course it will not be fun. For me, I like going out, talking to people, doing different activities, and I meet a lot of people doing that. Some of these people I never see again, some of the…
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:27 PM
3

How do all of you deal with having to wait months or years between opportunities with women? Honestly, if all the women you meet are from dating apps only, you are literally purposely making your life harder for no reason. And you just said in your post all the reasons for that being a horrible idea. I don't understand why you just don't try having more social life in real life and meeting people in person. Just by doing stuff outside, having hobbies that require you to interact with people, and…
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:51 PM
13

You are taking it to personal. Rejection is not a big deal. And for me, rejecting people is way harder than getting rejected. It is more about the person that is rejecting than about you. Take it easy.
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:09 PM
6

“Oh my God, Becky, you have to meet Adam! He’s sooo nice, he buys me flowers every week!” A lot of women brag about stuff like this, and this has nothing with being "nice guy" honestly. What they actually want is a man who’s a challenge—a guy who other men see as a threat. It’s that mix of confidence and charisma that turns their heads, not a checklist of ‘nice guy’ behaviors. In my experience, men tend to fantasize more about this traits than women. The confidence and charisma part is what I ag…
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:18 PM
3

What did you tell her about you? You only talked about making assumptions and asking questions about her, and then asking if she was single. It can be very intimidated from the POV of the other person as she knows basically nothing about you.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:02 PM
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However if it goes wrong it would make things weird. This can happen, but depends also if you will make it weird. If she is allowed to reject you with literally no consequences (either physical, social or emotional from your side), there are way less chances of it getting weird (and at this age, 30+, even less chances as people are expected to be more mature). You can talk to her after one of the meetings in a more isolated setting or in another situation outside of the direct activities of the …
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:07 PM
2

Maybe, but I don't care honestly. Almost every girl I go out gets that I am autistic really fast and seems to not care also.
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:55 PM
8

What?
/r/seduction03/10/24 05:05 AM
14

Yes. I have autism. I act like I have autism. All good
/r/seduction03/10/24 12:44 AM
1

Nah, I have autism. You are only using it as an excuse. You can still improve, and a lot.
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:17 PM
2

You can't control it. Some people are and some people are not. I am black, sometimes it happens. I just move on when it happens, usually not worth the time.
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:40 PM
28

When you see women talking about creepy men online, they are talking about men who give this feeling of dangerous. The feeling that their freedom and consent will not be respected. This happens when you pass the vibe that she saying "No, thank you. I'm not interested" will not be enough to end the interaction. A lot of men thinks that when women complain about men being like this, they are talking specifically about them. But usually is less than 5% of the men who act like this, but the experien…
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:24 PM
10

Well, that is exactly your problem. You are afraid of rejection. And you are thinking in "leagues" terms.
/r/seduction17/07/24 08:18 PM
17

Honestly almost every girl I've been with is just like that. It tells more about you than about women.
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:15 PM
9

My definition is very simple: the more comfortable she feels on rejecting you without any other consequences, the less creepy you are. Doesn't matter how attractive you are or if she wants something with you. It is just about her being safe. I got rejected by tons of girls in my life that told be they liked the way I approached them and thanked me for that. This is when you are not creepy.
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:51 PM
13

Nah, Seattle is very nice for me.
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:57 AM
10

Good job. Getting rejected is okay. Most of the time people will be not interested for reasons that are completely out of your control. And some girls don't know how to reject either, so sometimes you will have this situations like your example 2. I these cases, just assume she does not want to be rude or don't know how to reject properly and move on.
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:00 AM
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Planning is not a problem. Planning a date or a movie night with a girl is okay. The problem here was that you created a dishonest situation to provoke some kind of "natural" interaction that was fake, way less natural than just going there and approaching her normally as the example you said was "unlikelly to work" (which work everyday for a lot of guys).
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:36 PM
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i don’t want to be one of those idiots on social media “ohh saw you back there and I thought you was pretty cute can I get number” why would you ask a complete stranger for their number that doesn’t even make sense Nah, it makes sense. This is what a lot of people used to do before social media and dating apps existed. Is just a way to get a contact of a person you want to know better later. And it is funny you proceeded to do something that makes way less sense with all your elaborate plan.
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:35 AM
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We’re supposed to meet Mon and frankly I want to do other things but I don’t want to come off as low value if I text her to again. Well, you are already coming off as desperate (or low value, whatever) by just posting this. Doesn't matter much if she is saying the truth or not, may she have other reasons and decided to tell you this. If you want to confirm, just ask again. The fact that you care so much of being "low value" is what makes you come off as "low value".
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:55 PM
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So my question is: how to navigate through this sub? Like there are a lot of helpful content. What is the best way? Get the basics of how to be a more attractive man overall. Unsub from this and never come back. I think this is the actual best way to be honest.
/r/seduction03/03/24 07:25 AM
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So basically, as all of you must be knowing that in the initial phases, there is an element of negging and disapproval required from your end to pique the girl’s interest. This is Seduction 101. Everyone knows it and everyone uses it too. It works wonders. Very rarely do girls come across guys that disapprove them at the start, and that’s where seduction maestros like all of us start our little show. I am very well aware that we don’t want to insult, embarass or bring them any pain. The negging …
/r/seduction03/10/23 05:10 PM
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I was thinking the same. So much overthinking
/r/seduction15/04/23 03:46 PM
1

Better ask in person. But messaging is ok. Just dont try to hide your interest in her
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:26 PM
1

Yes. You should. Go for coffee
/r/seduction07/12/20 11:56 AM
1

You need to take the risk. Think about the times that you had something more sexual that you could said but just hold back. If you are not assexual, you will probably remember some moments like this. You just need to not hold back.
/r/seduction03/09/20 12:30 PM
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Why dont you just say what you want and tell her your feelings about her?
/r/seduction26/08/20 03:20 PM
2

I have no idea. I wasnt here to see. The problem is that you wanted to say something and said other completly different. And this is completely unnatractive.
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:16 AM
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oh boy
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:03 AM
2

Isn't it already akward?
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:40 AM
2

Bro, just tell her what you want. If she rejects you, move on.
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:27 AM
2

So... you rejected yourself? You basically did her job for her
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:10 AM
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It is not only good looking, but having a good shape tells a lot about a man's personality and life style. So it is very atractive
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:22 PM
2

Me too. Too much cringe
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:31 PM
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Never. I think this happens when we create an illusion of a person in our minds
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:27 PM
1

It is very rare to women to have orgasm only with penetration. Try masturbating her during sex
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:28 PM
3

Well, they are right. You need to go for it. Try lease the pressure on you a little and give yourself the objective of just talking with some girls at the night.
/r/seduction18/01/20 06:24 PM
3

Try just go there, dance a lot and make some ramdom people dance with you. It is a lot of fun and almost zero pressure :)
/r/seduction05/01/20 09:28 AM
3

Yes
/r/seduction05/01/20 09:25 AM
1

No
/r/seduction27/12/19 09:01 PM
1

You were awesome
/r/seduction27/12/19 08:44 PM
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I think "game" is an horrible world to use in this context. It is valid to learn how seduction and attraction works and to learn to be more seductive and attractive. But of course a person (myself for example) will not be happy when another manipulates themselves to do something, not being honest and pretending to be a different person. I like to study seduction as hobby, but my goal is to be an attractive person from inside. I just don't like the idea of expending energy pretending to be someth…
/r/seduction22/12/19 12:25 AM
2

I dont know, but i think i dont need it also
/r/seduction21/12/19 10:30 AM
6

I would look for professional help.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:10 PM
3

I agree with your friends
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:19 PM
5

Wtf
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:43 PM
3

Use uber?
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:39 AM
3

Like say that you want to kiss her for exemple.
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:37 PM
5

Dobt try to be smooth. Just do something and see what happens
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:06 PM
6

Why dont introduce yourself and say that you always get the same bus ans you wanted to know her?
/r/seduction12/11/19 11:49 AM
1

100% agree
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:20 PM
1

If she doesnt have a good reason to decline and didnt show interest in going out with you, yes.
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:36 PM
1

Yeah, that is nice. Just dont be afraid -^
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:29 PM
2

You can go slowly, but make your intentions clear. You can ask her on dates as a couple for example, without saying explicitly what you want. But the important thing is dont be afraid or ashamed of wanting to be more than friends and dont try to hide it
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:13 PM
1

Yeah, I know. But I think that we dont go anywhere without taking risks.
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:11 PM
0

Just tell her how you feel and what kind of relationship you want with her and see what happens
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:44 PM
3

I think the problem is that you are expecting sex too much and it can give permormance pressure to her. I am saying that because it happened with me too. And I solved that by just don't getting upset when we start foreplay and she loses interest in the middle. Just go do other things with her and dont be upset with it. This way, she can feel more relaxed in having sex without feeling pressured to it.
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:56 PM
9

I act interested when I am really intersted. And disinterested when I am not interested. Makes sense?
/r/seduction01/11/19 06:35 PM
1

Get some hobbies that need to be done outside and in groups (dance classes, voluntary work, yoga, something like this, but choose one thing you really like).
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:09 PM
1

Kiss him
/r/seduction29/10/19 08:44 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:37 PM
2

Taking risks
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:58 AM
3

Ask her out again. You dont need to say you got upset, but say it if she asks. If it happen again, move on
/r/seduction26/10/19 01:45 AM
1

What i should do if she does not have a purse?
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:49 AM
4

Just say what you feel. Trying to use her insecurities to manipulate her is so low level that i am ashamed. If you feel that she is beautiful, tell her with sincerity. If you dont, you dont need to throw it at her face, she already feel bad for it.
/r/seduction22/10/19 12:35 AM
4

You can move on and start again. And try to understand why you acted needy and read why you feel this way. It is better to dont feel needy at all than just hide it.
/r/seduction22/10/19 12:31 AM
14

It isnt. But the coaches need to make some money. My fundamentals: dont be needy, take risks and have attitude.
/r/seduction22/10/19 12:29 AM
1

Just a tip: relationships are not only made of love and attraction. You and her will need to put a lot of work to make it go well and a lot of people dont understand it at first and fail a lot o relationships before understand that. So, try to have an honest and open communication with her. If something is annoying you, tell her, and let she tell you also. And try to have conversations sometimes to discuss how can you both improve you relationship. GL
/r/seduction21/10/19 06:44 AM
4

I would do what you prefer. I like to being open and talking freeling whitout trying this edgy "I am mysterious" vibe. But is okay if you are not confortable to talk about you also.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:01 PM
-1

Suggest other date if you can?
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:46 PM
8

It's a illusion
/r/seduction10/10/19 01:29 PM
1

Maybe. Idk. But its your mind saying that. I just hate the feeling of regreting doing nothing. If it goes wrong, whatever. You will not see them again anyway.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:40 PM
2

Theres no need to exist a "point". But you dont have no idea of what will happen. And you will probably regret more doing nothing than try and see what happens.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:28 PM
3

The best way to find out is going to talk to her. Introduce yourself to her and try to know eachother.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:23 PM
2

You tell her
/r/seduction30/09/19 03:16 PM
2

Call her to do something with outside school, like cinema, eat ice cream or anything like this
/r/seduction27/09/19 09:27 PM
1

Why dont you just call her on a date or something?
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:55 AM
113

This not even a red flag anymore. Is the full communist party.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:44 AM
11

Almost never. And they complain after that the cute boy didnt went for them
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:01 AM
4

For me it is a natural vibe. I just dont try to hide it from the girls im sexually atracted.
/r/seduction26/09/19 12:37 AM
2

Saying "hi", i guess
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:12 PM
2

Something like escalating physically. Start touching me and leaving that feeling of "i want more", and going further little by little. If you dont know the guy, probably starting touching him more in the arms or back, and increasing it in the process is the easiest way to seduce.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:33 PM
1

Yes. It is. But I dont know how to do it logically. Its from the moment and is very instinctive
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:23 PM
2

You dont need to be mean, but you are probably ignoring your desires by not taking risks in order to not upset other people, that is also viewed as being too nice.
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:31 AM
1

I started to search about this on internet when i was 13 after getting rejected by a girl on school. Today is just a hobbie to learn about it
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:09 AM
6

It will be way easier to attract women (also men) if you are not obese. Having a good shape shows other people that you care about your health and are not lazy with your body, that are attractive traits in a person.
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:30 PM
1

Probably dancing and being direct
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:22 PM
6

I dont know where you live, but was pretty normal to me go on dates in high school
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:21 PM
3

Why not?
/r/seduction13/09/19 03:49 PM
9

Maybe you sound like an douch to her (to me also).
/r/seduction08/09/19 08:53 AM
5

Yes
/r/seduction07/09/19 04:38 AM
8

Your explanation was pretty bad. You really dont need to act like pua gurus or live like mark manson to be in a relationship. The world is not a game and people are not plain. A lot of men live well without ever entering in this pua world, while others learn a lot here. And its ok.
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:29 AM
2

Yes. Take a print
/r/seduction05/08/19 12:40 PM
2

Why not just stop "gaming" in the relationship ant try to be more genuine?
/r/seduction04/08/19 02:48 PM
1

It is not fast. I would do the same
/r/seduction04/08/19 02:43 PM
18

This ginger thing is an horrible excuse.
/r/seduction04/08/19 02:42 PM
1

It works. But it is very mechanic and scripted. I just think that seduction shouldnt be a set of rules, scripts and actions that you execute step by step. It should feel more natural and emotional.
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:44 PM
3

I think the Mystery Method is fundamental even though you dont agree with it (I dont). But it was one of the books that introduced a lot of thinks the pua communities discuss. Other books that I think that might be viewed as fundamental are Mode One and Models as they advocate for different types of approach (direct and natural). But just dont do the mistake of being reading a lot of books and doing nothing to improve irl.
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:15 PM
18

This 0-10 scale is one of the most ridiculous things I have seen in seduction communities.
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:29 PM
3

r/malehairadvice Read the sidebar of this sub before going for a cut. Might help
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:57 PM
3

Well, you got it wrong.
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:25 AM
3

My tip is probably very bad but works fine to me: dont be afraid of rejection and let your balls take the control a little.
/r/seduction25/07/19 04:03 AM
2

Being more genuine and finding out what to say depending on the situation and on what you are thinking on the moment. Using scripts is a big turn off. Is just like being an actor pretending to being another person.
/r/seduction25/07/19 03:57 AM
1

I would recomend to dont use scripts.
/r/seduction25/07/19 03:51 AM
1

You take a move. Ask her out.
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:46 PM
6

Yes, you should
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:39 PM
1

Its basic, but nobody does
/r/seduction20/07/19 04:26 PM
1

As I said: a lot of false beliefs that make you have zero confidence. Mixed races mean nothing, does not matter. You should only care about your looks at the limit of what you can change: haircut, hygiene, working out and clothes, but what is in your dna does not matter (of course there are exceptions as being black in an racist country). All the rest that you can change is what is inside your head, and I am seeing that is the biggest problem here.
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:09 PM
2

Because being mixed mexican/italian should no even be something to be concerned. That is not what is keeping you to meet girls. You said you read models. I didnt haha. But i dont know how to help you from distance and little time, but you seems to have a lot of wrong beliefs that are limiting yourself (the one i said in the first paragraph for example). Probably if I had your body with my mentality, would make little to zero difference.
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:43 PM
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I was expecting something much much worse haha. This mexican italian is bullshit and does not make sense to me. Well, i think you should just try to learn something and improve. I could try to say something here but there are books and videos who can pass the message way better than my reddit comment on the cellphone while i am at work. But the real secret is to practice and get experience. I think the book called Models is very famous around here recently, so you should try it, get some knowled…
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:39 PM
2

What is "your situation"?
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:39 PM
1

Depends of the conditions of the break. You two should have comunicated better
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:57 PM
3

Was i nice attempt. Good job. You can make it a little easier to get some confidence also, like instead of saying you find her cute, saying why you find her cute (her clothes? Hair? Idk, but it sounds more honest to her and to you).
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:22 PM
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You should continue doing these things, but for yourself and not for pussy. To get girls you need to improve on other things as your social skills and confidence. And accept that you will be rejected a lot and will need to put a lot of work. Tha main problem with the incel community is the mentality. A lot of people who start to study seduction started at the same point as a lot of these incel guys, but the mentality to improve and get better will be much more constructive than blaming women, ch…
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:03 PM
52

We cant. I tried. They dont want to get better, they prefer to blame something its impossible to change so they can complain without moving a muscle to improve.
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:37 PM
3

Try and tell us your results
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:33 PM
1

Send a message to her saying you like cycling and ask her if she'd like to cycle and talk with you
/r/seduction16/07/19 01:26 PM
3

I think it was "Inner game challenge"
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:38 PM
1

I dont know how I can help you, but I'm short too and have no problems with it. I have a great personality also but today I kissed a girl without saying a single word, so I think it doesnt matter at all if you have a nice body language and can take care of your body.
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:33 PM
4

Confidence and pratice
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:40 PM
1

If its the only objective, I agree. Dancing is a nice hobbie for me and is nice to meet new people, so I reccoment as a social hobbie :)
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:20 PM
5

You can try to do some dance classes (some dance executed in pairs like salsa or tango). It helped me to learn how to dance something how to conduct other person to dance with me using only me body, talking nothing.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:06 PM
2

Brazil
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:47 PM
13

I really found incredible how much people in this sub cares about their height. Never seem this anywhere.
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:04 PM
5

This is the most ridiculous excuse you could use
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:33 PM
3

Well, the problem imo is that you need to make clear what you want with her and go for it. Even if it will make your "friendship" with her in risk. If she rejects you and you dont want to be only friends, bye bye. Go for the next girl.
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:13 PM
5

Smile, eye contact and good body language.
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:41 PM
2

Wtf
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:36 PM
0

Wtf. The only place i see this much fixation is here. All the girls i have dated are way taller than me (im short too). I know that being tall is atractive, but just here i see so much guys blaming it for not getting women.
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:55 AM
2

Yeah, its ONE feature that can helps. But you guys put so much importance in that and its not even something changeable. Its not defining. There are people here who say: "my name is joe, im 25yo and 1,60 m tall". And others that blame all their rejections on how much tall they are. And, imo, its conformism. Its trying to put the responsability of the lack of success on something that they cannot change so there is nothing to be done. Just ranting a little here but it pisses me off a lot.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:51 AM
2

I think your depression ansmd sadness is not the consequence for your insuccess, but the cause.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:26 AM
1

Its not unpopular at all
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:22 AM
5

Off topic: why are guys here so fixated with height? Every post seems like its one of the most important features a man can think of.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:20 AM
1

I think the main difference is attitude. Ive never seen a guy where i thought that if i changed bodies with him, i wouldnt be able to get girls anymore. So in my opinion is more a mindset thing.
/r/seduction03/03/19 01:56 AM
2

Well, i think it depends of HOW you talk about them. I like playing games and watching anime. And i like to talk about them. But of course i talk in different ways with people who are already in this hobbie and people who dont know anything about it. Its just normal way of making new friends i guess. And i like to listen about what these new people likes to do too, even if im not interested in the hobbie, is cool to see how it is for the other people. And theres always ways to make the other peo…
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:37 PM
1

I dont know what you should do. But I would try to let my intentions as clear as possible and take some risks. Sometimes we need to have some balls and risk a friendship to get something we want
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:22 PM
1

Almost all the girls are taller than me haha. And dont sleep for two days doesnt seem to be a good idea
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:11 PM
1

I dont like to. But i can talk with them and eventually i can find them attractive at some time.
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:56 AM
3

I think the point is talking about things you or her are really interested at the moment. If you try to talk abouth somtehing neither of you want to know, both will get bored.
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:54 AM
2

It depends of the woman, but yas at majority
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:48 AM
1

If she shows interested, let your balls take the decisions
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:24 AM
1

This never happened with me. Would be a cool experience haha
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:02 AM
1

Not only, but having a hobbie in general
/r/seduction22/02/19 11:33 AM
1

I dont know. But its better than doing nothing. Let your balls making the decisions a little
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:48 AM
1

You should take a shot. Even if its a bad one.
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:36 AM
2

Im saying it because was what i did haha
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:46 PM
4

Talking with girls of your school or of other schools. Making friends is easy too, you should do it
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:22 PM
1

If you think she is out of your league, you already had a bad start. And seems that your fear of rejection is bigger than your will to have her liking you. Just do something to achieve your goals.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:46 PM
1

Do something. But dont do nothing. Ask her out maybe?
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:37 PM
1

Thats another reason why i dont drink. I like staying in control of my body and memories
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:17 PM
1

Protect your cellphone and your wallet
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:11 PM
9

How would you feel if her men count was also 40?
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:03 AM
3

I would.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:03 PM
1

Oh. Just go step by step and respect her decision if she wants to reject you (always let clear that she can reject you).
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:21 PM
1

Its not safe. Take risks
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:45 AM
10

Do both at same time
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:28 AM
6

Yes, you can get girls you already know. But going for unknown girls is a lot easier to train and getting better as she knows nothing about you and you will never see her again if things go wrong
/r/seduction13/02/19 08:43 PM
3

My tip is weird and abstract but works for me: let your balls in the control of your decisions.
/r/seduction10/02/19 01:34 AM
11

Maybe she is busy. I take almost this time to respond on phone too. Maybe you should find some things to do too to get these worries out of your mind.
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:53 AM
1

Dont need to be smooth at this point, just hug her when you want.
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:44 AM
1

What i think is simple: all the "alpha" traits are pure based on evolution and istincts. But it is not the only thing that matters although it still can increase your chances. I'm a nerdy man, thin, short, watch a lot of animes and play a lot of videogames. Not the most alpha traits in the common sense, but this is the way i like living and the effort to change this to be a man im not is the most beta action i would take in my life. So, i can do well with girls. I have a gf, had others before, a…
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:29 AM
3

There are some youtube videos you can use to train eye contact
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:01 AM
6

You would feel a lot worse if you hadnt done anything. You were just unlucky. There are a lot of single girls around :)
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:59 PM
1

Just dont be more friendly than necessary. If she wants you as a friend but you dont, there is no point keeping the "friendship" because its not reciprocal and can become toxic. And try to meet other girls.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:55 PM
7

If you dont intent to revert the situation, just dont try do be more friendly than necessary. A relationship when one wants to be friend and the other wants to be something more is kinda toxic.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:36 PM
1

Meeting other girls?
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:20 PM
3

Yes, it is possible. But most of the time it is wothless effort with one girl when there are a lot of others around that can fit you better.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:08 PM
3

Say exactly the reason you are talking to her
/r/seduction03/02/19 05:24 PM
7

Yes. Just ignore the information
/r/seduction03/02/19 04:18 PM
2

That is the situation that i had the best results TBH. I just count up to three and go to say hi. The rest is improvisation.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:42 PM
0

I'm the most vanilla guy I know. I can't think about a fantasy besides "having sex with women I like". My girlfriend likes some dirty things like BDSM, insults and rape, so I'm kind of a turn down guy to her haha
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:37 PM
1

Yeah, there are a lot of pua gurus that also contradict themselfs. I just do this way because i think it makes more sense for me, but i dont try to overthink it. When she feels confortable enought to start to talk more about her, i will hear of course
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:20 PM
2

Well, i think its strange to want a person to open herself with me when i dont intend to open myself with her haha.
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:13 PM
3

Maybe they are boring people? Because of is a matter o being shy, this barrer falls as she gets more confortable with you. So, the best option is to make she confortable on talking and sharing her life with you. And for this, i just try to act like im also confortable with her and share some of my things.
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:22 PM
1

There are some techniques and syrurgies for that (search for some porn actors). But i dont think its worth unless critical situations.
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:18 PM
7

Let your balls take the lead.
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:17 PM
1

Im 22. But started studying seduction with 13. No much has changed at all since i stopped aplying techniques still as a teenager. I just try to go with the flow
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:14 PM
1

Yes, it is worth
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:42 PM
11

You are overthinking. Just go bowling with her and go with the flow of the moment.
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:39 PM
3

I just ignore.
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:31 PM
2

I open myself first. It gives some confort for her doing the same. If dont, i dont try to insist.
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:27 PM
6

Well, i do it because is good to dont have distraction when im doing my things, like working or studying. This is a way of faking that you have a busy and interesting life, but if your life is really interesting and busy, you will naturally need to answer people later on social media, without needing to fake it or pretending it.
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:21 PM
3

Dont try to draw this line. Just go with your instincts.
/r/seduction04/01/19 10:42 PM
5

I would do the same thing you do with girls you don't know nothing.
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:09 AM
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