To make a long story short, I'm looking to get better with my push pull game overall, but more specifically, my pull. I don't know how to properly use push AND pull outside of trying to have a one night stand or a short term relationship.

So now, I'm in a long term relationship with someone, and all my game feels like push, which I know will ruin shit if I keep it up. What do I do to better my pull game?

Thanks.