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Plus... her friends & family who will defend her, no matter what she does. And also consider: ex-boyfriends who are willing to fight someone to get her back. future boyfriends who are willing to enact their alpha qualities by destroying you. It's nothing personal - you are just an obstacle to their primal desires.
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 11:56 PM
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Hi Bro, Take care of yourself better than you currently are. No-one else will. Be happy and thankful that you're free grow your wealth treat yourself some times to inexpensive things that make you happy watch some videos of bad situations
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 07:03 AM
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"My life's awesome - I'm very happy being single." -this alleviates their fears that you are a lone wolf on the edge. Then say: "When you look around, you'll notice many others are also single, compared to past social expectations." -then they count up the other singles they know and realize you're not alone - and you are perhaps a part a trend being set. - people that worry about your romantic status are often Leftists/Liberals who thrive on emotion as the focal point of existence. They can't i…
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 06:06 PM
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You have a pretty good broadcasting speaking voice for a young person - a natural talent!
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 05:09 PM
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Part of the cycle to buy stuff is to impress females... BUT also to intimidate males. Why? It's so that you appear the most capable of creating (and supporting) a healthy bloodline.
/r/MGTOW14/11/20 07:37 PM
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Situational awareness, taking stock of your reality can offer sustainable joy. Your decisions are reinforced when you learn about the misfortune of other guys who had taken a different path.
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 07:00 AM
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A seed of self-reliance is spurting through the soil. Next-level goals... car... real estate.. savings... etc. It's OK to compare your measurable accomplishments to others - in a healthy way. It's not easy, and it takes time. But what else are you going to do? The alternative: be dependent on the Gov or other adults to survive. Pathetic. All kinds of creatures, big and small - figure out how to survive on their own. You can too.
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 06:53 AM
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FME being not desperate has also gotten me nowhere. Prepare to live and die alone, fellas. On the upside, accepting reality sooner than later brings peace. Leave the anxiety to other guys who chase women in circles. Up until MGTOW, we were all dogs trying to catch cars that were going 60 MPH. NOW we realize that even if we caught one, maybe we don't really want it. Relationships keep failing for even the wealthiest, and most attractive of all men.
/r/MGTOW25/10/20 08:37 PM
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One thing about Muslims (and Asians) that might be observed: None of them seem interested in BLM or claim that they have been "oppressed" as minorities themselves by the Police. Why? If the system and the police are racist, then shouldn't Muslims & Asians be in marches too? Nope.. because Muslims and Asians aren't on welfare, or out jogging and causing crimes. They are generally humble people that just want to work for a living and provide for their families. In fact... many businesses are owned…
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 05:41 PM
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I read the other day that Antifa is creating fake Yelp reviews to destroy businesses they "think are racist". MGTOW Men are generally already successful enough. The tiny extra business isn't worth the attention of activists or feminists who are programmed to destroy.
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 05:01 PM
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Don't know! I think I found this on 4chan. Just a good reminder that we need to take care of ourselves. The years will go by no matter what. Fortunately followers of this forum have a head start over the poor saps who realized they've been nothing more than a resource for others.
/r/MGTOW20/09/20 09:48 PM
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20 years ago, this interaction wouldn't be live-streamed or recorded in any way. What would have happened in that era, to "solve this problem"?
/r/MGTOW20/09/20 07:52 PM
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Isn't that being called homeless?
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 07:25 AM
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Cooking is a basic life skill. So is doing laundry. And vacuuming and scrubbing the toilet. If women from Honduras with a grade 5 education can do these things, I think men can too. If you've ever been in a commercial kitchen to see what goes on, you might not eat out again.
/r/MGTOW09/09/20 04:00 PM
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Money doesn't help like you think it might - it depends on if you are a voracious consumer or not. Many people who have money tend to be savers, not spenders. And... this explains why they have the money in the first place. So if a gal learns that you have money, but are thrifty/miserly? You might as well be broke in her eyes... since it will be too much work for her to extract cash and prizes from you. Gals want guys who spend money on them.
/r/MGTOW09/09/20 01:10 AM
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For all the things you need to do in order to entice females(s) - and then keep their interest? Feels like a 2nd job. I'm a bit older so I don't text. I understand that texting is a big part of relationships, where persons are paranoid about each other, wondering where they are, what they're doing and who they're talking to... every 30 minutes. I've no time for that.
/r/MGTOW08/09/20 08:47 PM
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Life really opens up after HS - You're literally an adult that can do whatever you want. School is training ground to be an employee, not an employer. Learn to love work, but do it on your own terms (always have some emergency cash - maybe 5K). There are adults - of every age - that are full of shit too. Many people possess things, but don't really own them. The banks and finance companies do. There is a script laid out for you: to be happy, you'll need a wife and kids... and it's your duty to s…
/r/MGTOW08/09/20 08:33 PM
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OK, go for it. Be practical. Save money, so if something goes sour you can afford to bounce.
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 04:45 PM
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Learning some passive aggressive skills & statements can really plant seeds of doubt in their minds. And you dominate them socially/mentally. Some ideas: "Thanks for asking... but I'm not your type, I don't have a criminal record." "Wow you're kinda cute actually. But you need to fix your eyebrows, they're a little crooked." "Since you asked me out, where are we going? Being a modern and empowered female, you're paying, right? Oh, come on... don't back out of your offer now - that would be a dou…
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 04:39 PM
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MGTOW generally align with logic and reason, and individual merit and prosperity The left is about emotions, mobs, and are trying to rationalize "redistribution of wealth" in order to correct inequities and injustices. They have a totalitarian and violent disposition.
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 05:36 AM
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Sounds like a good thing. Q: would your natural mom object to you staying with her ex? Is she alive?
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 01:21 AM
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Life changes dramatically when you redirect all that time and energy back to yourself and your own future. Is it incredibly "selfish" and defies all norms? Yes. Is it rational? Yes. The material stuff is not just about impressing females, it's also about intimidating males in order to have them think you're the Alpha in the room.
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 08:08 PM
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One of the realizations I had: If they are willing to have sex with a 5 like me, they'll sleep with other 5's just as easily. So while I had fun a few times, the reality is that these gals have probably had 100+ partners.
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 08:04 PM
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Some people don't feel they're alive - unless there's constant drama. It's exhausting.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 07:02 PM
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I'm thankful to have had some happy memories. It's good to have some ups and downs in your 20's. Life experience. BUT... when we're 30, 40, 50... maybe we all agree we don't need so much drama through every decade. I'd rather just have peaceful but perhaps boring days.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 07:01 PM
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I like metal too. From the heaviest to the lightest of metals. LOL Anyway, based on your post, here's some you might enjoy. manimal Harem Scarem Blackbriar Even when guys die women can't leave us alone. haha Anthem SAXON Myrath Five Finger Death Punch Iced Earth Eternal of Sweden Devin Townsend DYNAZTY
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 03:52 PM
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These days, being happily single is much more socially acceptable. 20+ years ago, if you didn't have a female in your life? The consensus was that any single men were probably gay, wierdos/pedophiles, or there's something extremely unattractive about them that you can, or can't see. Medical problems, addiction issues etc. You were expected to start and build a family as your first priority. Your career mostly existed to financially facilitate that. Whatever interests and hobbies you have - may n…
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 02:54 PM
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There is a de-personalization effect, and this literally why bank robbers use masks. A sea of people with masks walking around is dystopian, they become random disposable souls without any individuality.
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 08:16 AM
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Did I read somewhere that an easily identifiable 13% of the population causes 52% of violent crime? What strikes me is that there are many other minorities and ethnic backgrounds. With our apparently horrible system, shouldn't they be equally dissatisfied? Or are they too busy studying and getting degrees or starting businesses?
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 02:41 AM
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Practically EVERY ONE of the last situations in the US involved career criminals who were arrested and charged numerous times in the past.. and note these are only the crimes that they actually got caught for. The Left in the US white knights for these criminals and thugs. No wonder the criminals are non-compliant. They having nothing to lose by resisting arrest and attempting to murder the police officer arresting them! The police would prefer NO DRAMA on their shifts. They get paid the same ei…
/r/MGTOW26/08/20 04:47 AM
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LOL, brilliant! One thing I used to scrutinize in dating profile pics was the cleanliness of the home surrounding their selfie.
/r/MGTOW26/08/20 04:37 AM
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Instead of fighting, ask him to move her stuff into his place. "You're a perfect couple. It's meant to be. Enjoy."
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 07:12 AM
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Trad, since they: outwardly present as historically desirable females, instead of unkempt androgynous blobs with some visual characteristics of potatoes don't mind working with you - instead of against you - in order to meet worthwhile and wholesome household goals have a positive outlook I think long-term loyalty through times of sickness & health, poverty & prosperity would be better
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 06:17 AM
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Working out is fine, my path was just working. Learning as much as I could about practical and real things, and getting paid for it. You start looking at the world differently when you have real money. The globe can literally be your playground. Today (for fun) I was looking at real estate in Vietnam and also in Georgia (the country). It's surreal to think that I could literally make that happen with a snap of my fingers. In my early 20's money was tight like it is for most young dudes. Work & e…
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 02:28 AM
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We want so hard to believe that there are mysterious forces in life. Out of boredom, interest, or fascination with possibilities. Humans have a unique ability to imagine. Many of us thought that Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny were real. Let go of the nonsense. If a series of bad things happens, it's coincidental. Push through it.
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 07:31 AM
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People digging through dumpsters for empty soda cans are far better off - since at least they're debt-free.
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 07:22 AM
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It's good that you realize how things are. Men are totally disposable and replaceable in the eyes of females, due to social media. The irony is that if you "caught one"? Good luck keeping them interested in you. It's a literal full-time job selling yourself. Since.. your sweetheart has 10, 20, 30 guys offering her the world.
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 02:42 AM
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2 months from now, you'll have your friend back. Then you'll both laugh.
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 02:36 AM
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So strange how the left was euphoric when Obama won, to the point he was nominated for a Nobel Peace price after only 2 weeks of being the president. Then they sobbed in the streets over Trump when he's being sworn in, without even giving him a chance. Presidents, whether Left or Right, are just people. I judge by performance - they are really employees of of the citizenry. It seems adults on the left need direction and leadership from other adults. They also idolize entertainment celebrities. T…
/r/MGTOW10/08/20 01:07 AM
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Anyone who thought that this song/video was "something" that advances humanity is probably a drug addict, criminal, or has zero self-esteem.
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 08:03 AM
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I've never done it, but; It's illegal where I am. Not going to risk getting charged and a resulting criminal record over that. Plus.. if it's also illegal where you are, do you call the police when you're getting beat up by a pimp with your pants down, or when you realize she stole your wallet? Do you want the stain on your psyche of having sex with a drug addict who'll probably be dead within the next 2 years? A gal who's had sex with 1,000+ greasy and pathetic dudes?
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 07:45 AM
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If Trump wins the election in few months, many mentally and emotionally unstable people just won't accept it. The same ones who smash windows, steal things, permanently blind city workers with lasers, and try to murder them by burning them alive inside government buildings.
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 07:30 AM
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consider being a social media manager from a public relations point of view. Basically you'd be promoting/defending your clients on social media sites... reputation management. The dark side (if that appeals to you) is the additional service of destroying your client's competitors online.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 06:43 AM
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There are 2 ways to change hearts and minds. We can persuade others through: Civilized debate with examples. Logic and reason. Positive outcomes. Asking leftists to articulate their values often results in meandering, inconsistent rationales. We know much of their perspective on on what comprises a quality existence is founded upon emotions (such as envy of the success of conservatives) and short-term impulses. Fear, intimidation and violence. Is BLM and Antifa doing a good job? Many people that…
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 06:33 AM
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Not a legal expert, but when it comes to self-defense: The victim attacked a different human than the perpetrator. We're told that sex/gender under the law is equal... for some reason women who harm men sometimes get a pass due to a tradition of them being more frail defense needs to be proportional and to stop ongoing harm when she expressed no remorse, this indicates she's not compatible with civilized society. If she has nice things, such as a career, a place of her own, a future worth living…
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 02:57 PM
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Check this... a misunderstanding at a club. Something tells me a female was involved somehow. Jaw wired shut now.
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 09:14 AM
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That guy is hopefully realizing how toxic his gal is. That situation could have turned out much worse. Stabbed? Shot? Or curb stomped, where he would need to have his jaw wired shut and 15K in dental work.
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 08:11 AM
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It's not really gold digging at my level, but their interest is perhaps not totally sincere. Realize that many single women in their 30's probably have a kid. My experience was more that they wanted a relationship, because I could be a very good beta provider for them *and their kid(s)*. A lot of single moms want to make things work with a good provider. If we were in their situation, we'd probably scan the horizon in the same way.
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 08:07 AM
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The reverse wouldn't work the same. Because every attractive female has 5, 10, 20 male orbiters ready to step in and convince your gal how beautiful and amazing she is. Most average guys don't have that level of interest in them from multiple people. I'm sensing some gals treat their men poorly because they need nervous cucks & simps to think they can never do better. The end goal? Keep that simp on edge, so he keeps bringing home that bacon and supporting them.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 12:21 AM
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Thanks! Appreciated! One of the things about unattractive people is that they only way they can survive is by having exceptional skills and other characteristics other than first-impression physical attributes. Nothing comes easily.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 12:05 AM
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The next decades will pass by, no matter your state of mind. Whether you use the time well, or not, either way, you'll be the only one responsible for your choices. So, choose well. Otherwise you'll end up in rooming house with mold, insects, and people with addiction issues who could have made better choices decades earlier, but didn't.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 07:18 PM
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Age 20-30 is a rough time since there are genetic instincts to pair up and reproduce. For many species, doing that is the primary reason to exist. But... humans are capable of many things, and can transcend primal desires. I'm very average looking - maybe a 4-5. I'm quite successful on paper, that should add 3 points. But sheer wealth doesn't equalize things like you might expect. Example - I could go to house party and have more net worth than 4 Chads there, combined. Women will still not be si…
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 06:54 PM
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Great story! Owning something is great motivator too as goal to pay it off. Dumping extra $$$ on the principle when you can will make a huge difference in the end.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 06:04 PM
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There are people that want us to be unstable, confused, and uncertain. The reason: there is no need for them to provide a solution, until there is a problem first. They want us to be dependent, now and possibly forever. Even if you say, "No thanks, I'm good. I don't need anything you have to offer." That's not what they want to hear.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 05:57 PM
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The first step is realizing the situation you're in. Great! Next... life is like an hour glass where sand is always dripping down. No matter what you're doing, or not doing. No one will be as enthused for your life as you should be. Don't wait around to become successful; start working towards it right away after reading this.
/r/MGTOW29/07/20 04:36 AM
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Nothing actually happened, but I like to be write creatively. Most people admire those who have incremental success over time where everyone involved all along the way were satisfied with the transactions. What I wonder about is 40-60 year-old men trying to make up for lost time after decades of failures. I think about the One Big Deal that they finally pull off that proportionately impoverishes others while enriching themselves, and what the consequences could easily be. Sounds like a movie plo…
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 10:25 PM
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I evicted a mom and her 2 daughters from a rental unit. It wasn't working out (for reasons I won't get into). BUT at the end, I said "if we see each other on the street, it's all good, and I hope she does well". A year later? Her older son (who I'd never met before) is now renting a unit successfully.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 09:19 PM
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It's OK to charge something for your time to friends and family members. I don't expect free oil changes, plumbing, or dentistry from people I happen to know. I like working with computers, but I'm not cleaning up all their systems and updating them because I have nothing else to do.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 09:14 PM
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Some thoughts: WHAT am I getting myself into here? Have a realistic and rational cost-benefit analysis... Get past the stigma of being single. Family/friends/society can imply that you're a "weirdo" for not attracting (and keeping) a woman as the primary purpose of your life. Transcend that. After becoming successful and secure, you realize that this is a very desirable situation. No matter the economy or who's in political power. When you're single, you have all the time in the world to pursue …
/r/MGTOW13/07/20 12:24 AM
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Thanks, I can see your point now. I admit that I lean towards letting people decide what products/services they desire in a free society. For example, I don't drink, gamble, or follow pro sports. I don't resent anyone who is interested in those things and chooses to support that stuff with their own $$$.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 08:24 PM
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What's an example of an acceptable criminal career to an AnCap?
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 06:36 PM
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They have a site, but it's not really simple & clear what they want. https://blacklivesmatter.com/ Some other sites have lists, but there are localized issues on those lists.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 05:08 AM
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Bad decisions make for great stories. BUT.. I'd rather walk a lifetime without a limp due to something really stupid I'd done on a dare to impress others.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 02:09 AM
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Thanks friend, Make some popcorn, and check my post history. I go apocalyptic making others apoplectic.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 02:06 AM
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Your feeling of emptiness reveals that you were way too dependent on another human. Everything is possible now, because you get to decide exactly what you want to do with your time. You don't need permission or approval from anyone. Family included. We'll be your friends here. Over time, we'll come and go, but so will men in the real world too. Find peace within yourself. It might be hard to believe, but half the guys in relationships now envy the new freedom you have. They just can't escape tha…
/r/MGTOW06/06/20 05:32 PM
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I'd buy the house. Eventually it's paid off. Then you just have property tax and utilities. often you can go years without much maintenance. My house tripled in value. Where I live, condo fees are huge, half of what rent would be. If you want someone to mow your lawn or shovel snow at your house, just pay.
/r/MGTOW05/06/20 07:48 AM
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Whether it's the result of black lives matter antifa democrats/globalists or combination of the above, are you now persuaded into supporting any of them?
/r/MGTOW05/06/20 07:42 AM
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Cops have to be the adults - for other adults -who never quite matured properly. Ideally, by now in modern civilization we shouldn't need cops or a justice system at all. How is that possible? People should have the values and principles of MGTOWs: Drugs & alcohol - we should have self-respect for our health and future, and no desire to escape from reality if it's already an awesome one Consider the BS guys end up in trying to flex on other men to get women in social scenarios. You've heard of P…
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 10:59 PM
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I like these - maybe not podcasts, but some have reasonable video lengths while eating dinner: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8c-i0G5ySY3giqIQepEjcQ/videos https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdVVI3oiN4AGwmTJzzfwzww/videos https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYY-xsfMg0TKz-gwQOMhcWA/videos https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfpnY5NnBl-8L7SvICuYkYQ/videos https://www.youtube.com/user/Styxhexenhammer666/videos
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 09:44 PM
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Hmm You got me thinking... There's an ism designation for hating an entire identifiable group based on the actions of a few. I wonder if hating every cop based on the actions of some cops can have an ism too. As in: "You... copist!"
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 09:40 PM
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I think the riots are more for the "ETC." than for "BLM...."
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 09:32 PM
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Thanks for the post. I'd say that the average person (maybe 90% of the population?) has opinions. Yet they aren't committed to a group/gang/mob to the degree where they're literally leaving their homes to go out on the streets to fight for their cause. The 10% are split into extremist groups of one type or another, but because of what they're doing, the whole population is now under curfew and totalitarian laws. The police will get new cars to replace the old, and perhaps look more like military…
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 08:53 PM
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This issue I see coming: we may have crypto, gold or cash. Great! But where do we go, to peacefully live for 30+ years and enjoy the wealth we've accumulated? Without the local zombies (of any race) envying our situation to the point they feel justified in redistributing our wealth to themselves under the pretense of equity, equality, and fairness?
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 08:40 PM
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Young people work so hard to earn internet karma. Last I heard karma doesn't pay for food or rent, so it appears to me those efforts are misplaced.
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 07:53 PM
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Was just about to start a new thread about this... Watched many vids this AM of men taking action. In the background, the women made a contribution: endless SCREEEEEECHING. Excessive DRAAAAAAMA. It's like listening to a police siren 15 feet away that could have been turned off 10 minutes ago. FWIW - I'm on the side of law and order, instead of the side of the dissidents who seem to desire communism through insurrection.
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 05:36 PM
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You're right - discovering MGTOW has saved a lot of guys from depression, I think. They realize chasing after women is one way to live... but in a couple of hours on the 'net they can learn that there's an alternative, and a very logical one. I've had zero affection aimed at me in 20+ years. Learning about MGTOW brought peace to my life. It re-framed my existence into being something a lot of disheartened men actually desire. They're trapped in simpy relationships and being a subservient beta pr…
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 01:40 AM
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Every man should reflect upon the 5 worst situations they've ever been in. Then notice how their lust for women created each situation.
/r/MGTOW30/05/20 11:20 PM
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Thanks for taking a second look, we're good. :-) I've had my ups and downs with women over the years in both personal and professional capacities. Being single makes the most sense to me. I work with many gals who are dedicated employees who I respect in a professional capacity. There are some I don't. The point is that I look at each human for their own merits. So crazy: I'd spent decades learning skills and becoming successful by any standard in order to impress a potential mate, to have a hap…
/r/MGTOW30/05/20 08:52 AM
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That sentence is undeniably true! The vast majority of men here arrived only because of what my first sentence describes. That sentence is the pretext for the next sentence, which starts with the word "But".
/r/MGTOW29/05/20 05:26 AM
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I'm supporting your original post. LOL. Go ahead and explain the trolling part. As a MGTOW for 20+ years - I'm quite sure I've been in this forum longer than you too.
/r/MGTOW29/05/20 04:44 AM
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MGTOW's likely have had a bad experience with ONE or SOME women. But... how you handled it is right, as resenting every one of them is neurotic and illogical. After all, that's 50% of civilization. We're all going to have scenarios and potential confrontations to deal with throughout our lives - best to play it cool. Also - this COVID crap has really put some people on edge... there are many sketchy zombies roaming the streets looking for trouble. They have a lot of anxiety about their futures, …
/r/MGTOW29/05/20 04:29 AM
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Thanks for sharing - I empathize for your situation. We likely agree that one thing that young guys forget - they have a timeline. In our 20's we feel invincible. I've been single for 20+ years, but after 40 it would be brutal to start over at some minimum wage job after being crushed by an ex and the courts. Politically, I think some of realize this event was more than just being about a virus... one party wants to return to normal ASAP, and the other doesn't.
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 11:10 PM
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Wow, that was a wild ride. If drugs and alcohol are part of any household budget, I'm outta there.
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 09:46 PM
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Can't see it happening, but could you imagine the OUTCRY from his wife, if 6 months later he announced he has a side chick?
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 09:23 PM
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At your age, you're still forming your values and gaining life experience. You have a genetically-encoded purpose in your DNA, from your ancestors. It's tough to fight those animal instincts which drive you to pair up and reproduce. Certain goals are logical for any specific era that you live within. In 2020 it seems clear to us that being single, free, and happy is more sensible than being a subservient simp with dependents.
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 09:19 PM
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The outdated idea: All men are clawing our way to the top of a pyramid. VAG is at the tip and there's nothing else worth living for. Ellen thinks that if we are unable to fulfill our instinctual, genetically-encoded mission, surely we'll turn into homicidal maniacs and go on a shooting spree - ending with ourselves. But... since the concepts of MGTOW have now seeped into our consciousness, the dissemination of the principles have brought great peace and acceptance of reality to many guys. We rea…
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 09:03 PM
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Thanks for all the comments guys! Led me to this thought... If Zuckerberg, Bezos, Gates, and Musk were random IT workers, what would THEIR SMV be? Let's be honest: all of them are kinda Spergy (I'm a little that way too... and my moderate success could be attributed to high-functioning aspects of my own personality). If they were middle class, how easy would it be for ANY of them to pick up gals in a club with their animal magnestism and charisma? All of them would constantly strike out - like m…
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 08:49 PM
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Lots of thought, thanks for sharing. You're right, she sure isn't being Diverse and Inclusive! The irony is that once incels snap out of it and realize that life can actually be waaaay more sane and prosperous as a single guy, being rejected from enslavement is the best thing that could have ever happened!
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 08:39 PM
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Brilliant point! There are gals that have checked out the mating game and gone their own way too. And they don't always become feminists or lesbians. Their SMV isn't that great, even with every superficial enhancement. They've accepted the reality of their situation and focus on their careers etc.
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 08:33 PM
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Amazing how Leftists consider their work done by simply Raising Awareness. I think that in the future, we need to evaluate every cause they're involved with, so see if there is actually a problem first.
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 08:30 PM
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Good point! My own SMV is maybe 4 or 5. I lean more towards the Nerdy end than the Chad end of the scale. I'm not blaming anyone, it's just how it is...
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 08:28 PM
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Good point.. I guess they'd come up with frequency metrics, and then even worse performance metrics for the other partner as to how satisfied they were. I think all of us are going.. "ummm what does this have to do with our careers again?"
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 08:25 PM
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Found this in a twitter feed, had to share. Maybe found in a feminist bookstore? Or a intentionally quaint little bistro where they serve free-range dandelions without plates?
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 12:43 AM
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ROFL - I see what you're doing... Let me try! What was once considered a source for news, CNN chose Greta Thunberg to be a global expert on viruses and pandemics. THEY carefully selected her for a panel with 2 others to discuss these specific topics.
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:42 PM
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What program would be in place for unmarried career-women? Ohhhhh that's not a problem at all, because single women = EmPoWeReD
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:11 PM
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Found in a twitter feed. Helps the newbs here understand the public relations outreach that intends to demoralize us. Heh - notice the New-Age SJW meditating in the pic. The plants are important also - to signify "eco" consciousness. Women that HATE men aren't on the political Right.
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:04 PM
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Money gives you real flexibility and security. You may have the wrong idea of what work is. There are jobs and careers. Millionaires often have careers. Careers are known to give people satisfaction and purpose as a grown-up in a civilized society. By their own choice. They might not need to work, but do so because they're renowned in their field of expertise. Do you think that people spend 4-8 years in higher education to not do anything with what they've learned? If you won a millionaire dolla…
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 01:04 AM
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I think you have a strange idea of who the rich are. There are many people who are millionaires who retain a middle class life. That's part of why they were able to build that wealth in the first place, by being humble and remembering their roots and the struggle to get where they are. Many millionaires still work. Approx half the people in my office are such. They are dependable, stable, and productive people. You don't just flick a switch and become a lazy and irresponsible trust fund brat onc…
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 12:27 AM
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I had no idea it was a reference. No time here to notice or care about everything on TV. The people that I know who care the most about being entertained with drama & sports? They're the least successful in terms of personal accomplishments and net worth. There are only so many hours in a day. Watch out for Bread and Circuses... There's a reference for you. So I said goodbye to TV in 1995. Instead, I say hello to my various customers for my businesses built over 25 years, and tenants in my apart…
/r/MGTOW16/05/20 08:53 PM
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"Live an honorable life... so that when you're retired, you can reflect on it and enjoy it second time." Yes, girls can exchange dignity for money, but the fact they did it will rattle around their minds for the rest of their lives like that little ball in a can of spray paint. So they start taking antidepressants, cutting themselves, using drugs, getting a bunch of tattoos and piercings, becoming bulimic. Nothing to envy there. And... if their past is discovered 5-10-15-20 years later, how do y…
/r/MGTOW16/05/20 06:56 AM
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Birth control is inexpensive (sometimes even free) So if price isn't the issue... is this really about competence and responsibility?
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 08:10 AM
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Success means you're supporting yourself as an adult, not being in jail, or being an embarrassment to your friends, family, community, and country. A large amount of people haven't figured this out. You DO have what it takes. Read that again. IF anyone suggests otherwise, kick them in the shin for me, and for you.
/r/MGTOW13/05/20 02:07 AM
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There can be uncertainty about becoming an adult, since there are so many ways life can branch out at age 18. Some advice: always qualify the source of all information. Adults don't always know what they're talking about. Or they are intentionally using you as a pawn to advance their political or economic agenda. In my high school years, the crises of the day were the "ozone layer depleting" and "acid rain". Our teachers made it seem like why bother living when the planet is dying anyway? And "w…
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 04:56 AM
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You're missing half the MGTOW population. Who are fairly attractive males who prefer to keep things light and breezy with women. Their businesses, careers, and whatever else interests them are of primary importance. There are a lot of confirmed bachelors who know exactly what they're doing.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 02:04 AM
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Great story! Years ago, having a woman in your life was considered a basic requirement, otherwise people thought you were weird. Not so much anymore. YOU are the prize. If a gal tries to sink her claws into you? For fun, ask: "Well... what do YOU have to offer ME?" Watch her jaw hit the floor.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 01:51 AM
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Sometimes being a kid is tougher than being an adult. If you're picked on in school, success is the best revenge later. The bully who tormented you is now an alcoholic with a criminal record. And you? Well... you've traveled around the world - because you're one of the best in your field.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 01:13 AM
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It's OK to be a kid and have fun up to 25. Maybe some serious education along the way, or learning a trade with the fun times. There's lots of time to deal with adult stuff... after 25 there are expectations for measurable accomplishment. I think we're going to live to be 100. The reason is that the diagnostics and treatments available over the next 50 years are going to be unreal. In 10-20 years we might be able to grow new organs and teeth using our own stem cells.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 01:09 AM
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Thanks for sharing. If it helps, each generation has their own challenges. Many times a person struggling looks around and realizes many of their friends are too. That helps soften the blow, to help not take it personally. Other generations may have had it easier in certain ways. But it's all relative. Perhaps there was lots of work and opportunities available to them at the time. My point: all you can do is try your best with cards you've been dealt. The brothership, fitness, and skills you lea…
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 01:02 AM
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My path was all over the place, jack-of-all-trades type thing... Some things included: Building Maintenance - which branches off into light electrical, plumbing, carpentry, drywall, painting, yard work, roofing, HVAC equipment, janitorial (don't be too proud to get dirty. Be a man like Mike Rowe. Conquer your fears.) Heavy equip operation: dump trucks/bulldozers Audio/visual installations - some light electronic repair Sales: learning how to talk to strangers and communicate persuasively Bookkee…
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 04:48 AM
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good idea!
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 03:38 AM
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That's great! Gen-Z could very well have a different outlook than millennials. I understand they're much more skeptical of... everything. Which is healthy!
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 01:16 AM
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There are motivated guys from 18-25... but how many, really? Most ones I've seen have never bought a tube of toothpaste out of their own pocket yet. Because... still living with mommy! A lot of young guys are awesome at Call of Duty and GTA V, which is so helpful in real life. LOL Bread and Circuses and spending the whole day in your pajamas is fun. Being punted out of the nest is harsh but necessary. Parents gotta let go. Boys gotta become men some day.
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 01:09 AM
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I think MGTOW means you doing what makes sense for you, but always being aware of what's going on. Women will use every technique, method, and beauty product known to cause you to lose all sense of time and reality. Imagine working as a farmer. Then, something you've never noticed before catches your eye. You start chasing these butterflies deep into the meadow. You catch some! Some get away, and you've also set some free. Fun was had by all. Well, you'd stopped farming to go do that. For a lot …
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 12:55 AM
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maybe https://thedonald.win/
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 11:58 PM
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That is a choice! :-| However, your MGTOW brothers will listen to you - and encourage you to enjoy life!
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 11:01 PM
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Thanks, thinking this way helped me to become fairly successful (regardless of what friends or family thought I could be capable of). I had plans to become a millionaire at 30. That didn't happen. But eventually, it did at a later age. You can do it too! The years will tick by, whether you're happy or sad, winning or losing, healthy or sick. Take control, the best you can, and never give up. I have another simple component I'll post one day that might have helped even more. It put my actual fina…
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 10:46 PM
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Those are chunks of time, represented in ranges of age. Basically, from 25-75 (green area) is when you get stuff done as an adult. I've used this chart to motivate young men who needed help understanding that they need to stop wasting time on things that aren't improving their lives. Not much is usually happening in the red areas, for any of us. However, someone in the service at age 20 might quibble... In my case I was already married at 21. At age 25 - many young people are living at home toda…
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 10:11 PM
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The same thing happened to me as with you. While I didn't drink or smoke, around age 25 I started reading self-help books and started realizing my life & success is my largely my own responsibility. A red-pill moment. My gal didn't envision the same level of achievement & success for our future as I did. When reading stories about successful men, it sank in that luck wasn't that much of a factor. There are reasons why some guys rise through the ranks at work, and why others don't. There are choi…
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 08:34 PM
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While true.... if we were women ourselves, we'd probably do the same thing. Look at a picture of yourself. The irony is if we were females, we probably wouldn't find ourselves "attractive" - relative to the avalanche of thirsty guys available to us (from their perspective). Many of us have attractive circumstances. There are women who can't pin down a Chad by 30 and try and settle with one of us, as a backup plan. But... MGTOW's will just laugh.
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 06:38 PM
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Heh.. "You're hurting us... by not helping us."
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 09:58 PM
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Healthy men who possess time, awareness, wealth, flexibility, energy, and will are a HUGE problem to tyrants.
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 08:03 PM
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Well, these days you also might have to worry about wrestling other guys who identify as a female. LOL
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 07:16 AM
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happened to me too. Reddit is turning into a far-left totalitarian commie-zone where people in many subs are confused about their own gender.
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 07:14 AM
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This SAME question keeps popping up. Much like "WHY do you guys HATE women so much?" Kinda sounds like concern trolling... We're like doctors trying to solve a problem. Analogy: IF malaria = divorce rape and/or general misery and therefore: mosquitos = women Doctors don't hate mosquitos. But they realize they are the source of a problem. It's OK to describe parasites as what they are. No hate. Just evolutionary reality.
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 07:00 AM
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The truth can be hard to accept... because then you have to think about Whether or not you'll ever have a family Not having any more excuses to avoid accomplishing the goals you'd repeatedly told your friends and family that you wanted to achieve How people will perceive you as a single person (years ago people would be suspicious, thinking you must be gay or a wierdo/pervert... but now being single is more socially acceptable) MGTOW has huge upsides though... Time Money Peace Freedom Living a l…
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 06:38 AM
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I'm not angry... I'm grateful to be aware of how things actually are.
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 06:07 AM
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MGTOW is more of a Get Away Strategy than as a tactic to get into a relationship... ;-)
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 05:32 AM
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I'd pick capitalism over anything else. Ever count the amount of exasperated people leaving Florida on rafts for Cuba? Easy to count.... zero! I'm absolutely certain you consume cannabis - daily.
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 04:01 AM
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Either she's using those glasses as a prop - or is really a librarian. LOL Seriously, I don't know what guy would find this person appealing.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 08:40 AM
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There are some women that contribute way more than others. To be fair, there are lazy guys too that don't accomplish much. The point of this post is to look at the big things we all depend on every day.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 08:09 AM
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Yes. Traders can be greedy/slimy, but they generally approve of the underlying prosperity found in capitalism. They're are able to finance ideas and bring new products and services to market. Everyone can do well, to various degrees. I like choices as a consumer based on competition between businesses who try to entice me. You have a problem with soldiers?
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 08:05 AM
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You may be onto something there... "Ladies, we believe in you. You can do so much more than just have kids and bake pies. So dust off that alarm clock and wake up with the men, and get to work. Try your best to compete with us." When women support themselves by working instead of just existing? Sounds good to me. All under the pretense of them feeling progressive and fulfilled through a career. Maybe they should have been careful what they wished for. You may have noticed that being a stay-at-ho…
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:51 AM
2

That's some intense and true mic-drop prose bro!
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:39 AM
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My life hasn't changed. I look around and see people so eager to be afraid.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:34 AM
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I've built my own systems in the past. I was about to built my current one from selected components at the local store. The guy said they'd do it for free and install the OS. So... I thought.. well, OK then. All the liability is on them if something goes wrong.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:32 AM
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It's meant to effect you into reading the content, and it's working even better than I'd expected. Thanks for confirming my suspicions!
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:23 AM
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Mostly it's place to celebrate awareness of how western civilization actually is. Overall, it's hopeful. There's a light at the end of the tunnel for men who want a happier life as a single person.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:21 AM
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I welcome everyone. I'm secure enough in rational ideas (often gleaned from others) and irrefutable success that nothing any poster writes will ever faze me. The main ideas that gave rise to MGTOW are far stronger than anything a female could ever type. Being divisive and telling anyone they're unwelcome seems like a strategy to have this forum permanently banned. We see people trying to do that with nonsensical posts asking why there is so much "hate" here. Trying to bait us into defending agai…
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 07:37 AM
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That's a great start, many adults (of any age) don't have the discipline to save even 20K.
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 07:18 AM
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So strange to have a society filled with freedom and prosperity, but then have people gravitate to this by choice. I can't relate. If these characters are at odds with Trump, it makes a strong case for Trump to be the one with access to the nuclear codes. Not someone else that a circus freak approves of.
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 07:02 AM
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She didn't ignore the donation. She only ignored where it came from. Because... Many Donations, daily. It just all goes on a pile. The worst thing is that he thinks the money is going to a female. Much more likely going to a male scammer in Nigeria.
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 06:50 AM
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Opinions vary, but Going your own way means doing whatever makes you happy as a man. If you're able to milk the situation - in a clear-minded way - then I suppose it's like a FWB scenario. If she's trying to manipulate you or give you attitude in any way, you can start packing up your stuff without saying a word. You might be amazed at how much some women love to please their guy - she might freak out and start apologizing and begging you to stay. As time passes your own emotions can creep in. M…
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 06:42 AM
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Careful bro, sounds like she be prime to sperm-jack you in order to keep you in her life any way she can, and to also extract long-term cash out of you. She might say: "You took the best years of my life". Even though what you had was dysfunctional for a full relationship, from her point of view it may be easier to consider you as a father than to start fresh getting to know a whole new guy.
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 06:18 AM
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Was kind to my wife, worked hard and was successful, but nothing I did mattered anyway (with many of the most successful guys in the world, even their relationships fall apart eventually too).
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 05:33 AM
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Actually I've been happily single for 20+ years. But I see men of all ages get shocked into reality. They start to question the meaning of life. Every guy is amazed at how fast everything you'd built and worked towards can fall apart. The good news is that we have each other as a brotherhood. It starts to sink in that the perhaps the center of our individual lives can be us instead of someone else. And we won't be shamed.
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 12:00 AM
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LOL, we've found the fountain of youth. ;-)
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 04:36 AM
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/r/MGTOW04/05/20 04:31 AM
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Running the country includes the hottest, noisiest and most dangerous jobs. Go for it! If it's not done right, they'll need do it again until it is. They might break a nail or two in the next 2 weeks, or even lose a finger or vision in one of their eyes. Maybe this will be what it takes to learn what kinds of sacrifices men have made over the last 5,000 years to bring civilization to where it is.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 03:02 AM
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Thanks for your thoughts, good ideas. I went the real estate route and have done OK there, but the cost of entry is high, and it's not always easy to sell when you want. But generally it keeps place with inflation. Stock market... can be a roller coaster. Easy come, easy go. My dad has made a lot there, and lost too. In the end he's done OK, but the stress of that world is too much for me.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 02:56 AM
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I would hope that someday, single men have the same protections and general acceptance that LGBT has. Right now, many of us are fearful to express how happy we are to friends, family, and coworkers... We think its OK to live peacefully, and do whatever interests us. We can't relate to drama-filled relationships, undue anxiety, and being constantly financially broke through the actions and expectations of females. We think we should be allowed to keep the money we save for whatever future purpose…
/r/MGTOW03/05/20 10:27 PM
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Do both. Learn & work as hard and as much as you can, while you can. You'll be 30, 40, 50 before you know it. A great future depends on you making a lot of smart choices. About 1,000 of them. All skills are valuable. Otherwise... you depending on other adults to solve your real problems is a path you can take, but be prepared to pay... and pay... and pay. This is how simps live.
/r/MGTOW03/05/20 06:33 PM
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I'm here every day. Not seeing the "hate"you describe. It's now incumbent on you to provide specific examples, otherwise they don't exist. I have seen other randos post over the last year about being very concerned about this sub. LOL. Feeble. The fun thing about MGTOWS: our awareness matches our brilliance. Sure, we see through the ploys of females. But now? Society at large too... who's infuriated that we're not blindly fulfilling their agenda either.
/r/MGTOW03/05/20 06:22 PM
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OK read it again - verrrry carefully. MS alleges "women are facing voices." WHERE are these voices coming from? I want specifics. WHAT VOICE is saying women can't? You won't be finding this happening in Western Civilization. If MS wants to stand against voices and forces against women, they'd better head on over to continents and cultures where actual oppression exists.
/r/MGTOW25/04/20 04:58 PM
1

OK, that would be worse I'd admit...
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 03:48 PM
1

Freedom means the only person holding you back from achieving all of your dreams & goals is... you. Be careful what you wish for. Since you won't have any more excuses. I've been a MGTOW for 20+ years. I'm doing OK since I put the 20 yrs. of dating/family expenditures into investments and properties instead. What you don't want is to be is a broke MGTOW at age 50.
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 02:19 AM
2

Doing good - all tenants paid April rent too..
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 06:28 AM
1

Men... designed that car built that car built the roads that car travels on wrote the safety laws the car is governed by will arrive on scene if there's an accident to rescue the driver will tow the car, and fix it if needed at the shop
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 06:15 AM
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Great post. I've done well; my advice to the young is that in order to have peace and abundance, you have to believe those things are even possible. A lot of our youth can't imagine eventually doing well. Schools and media have indoctrinated them into thinking that: wealthy people are ALL evil and have clearly exploited others to become rich. Don't strive to ever have money, because you'll just be demonized and targeted the planet is dying, why even bother trying they'll never get out of debt an…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 02:19 AM
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Don't let sex define you. Focus on your career or business instead. Build wealth. Laugh inside at the thirsty simps. Take care of business yourself and get back to reality in 5 minutes. No strings attached. There are graveyards full of men who sacrificed for their lives for ungrateful people.
/r/MGTOW30/03/20 02:59 AM
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It's more of a philosophy than a movement. With many different levels of intensity. The biggest thing is just being aware, so that you can make the best decisions for your own future. Which is literally your own... don't let anyone else decide what's right for you.
/r/MGTOW30/03/20 02:30 AM
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I been MGTOW for 20+ years... I have no fear of women, but opt to interact with them in limited scenarios for my health and safety. :-)
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 06:45 PM
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Sounds like your headed down the MGTOW path. In any case, being a man means assessing where you're at, and what you expect to accomplish with your remaining time and resources. If we're all making decisions (both large and small) about every person and situation, we're miles ahead if we have accurate information from the start.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 06:26 PM
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The way this is worded could be interpreted like this: "their egos" could be the powerful women having the ego...
/r/MGTOW28/03/20 04:52 PM
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For most of us, having little money as young adults is typical. After age 25 though... unless someone has a fetish for being subjugated and vulnerable to other individuals, employers, governments.... it's time to reflect on what it means to be a MAN. At some point we should aspire to be able to walk anywhere on this earth with a little self-respect. Having no assets as a 30, 40, 50 year old person? Squirrels are literally more prepared to make it through the winter. :-)
/r/MGTOW25/03/20 05:10 AM
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It's crazy how most people don't save a little $$$ for a rainy day....
/r/MGTOW24/03/20 05:40 AM
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Maybe paste your story here: https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/
/r/MGTOW16/03/20 01:13 AM
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Get to work then, to figure out to get revenue streams so you can be lazy.... :-)
/r/MGTOW11/03/20 04:40 AM
2

Imagine getting a 4-year education degree and a fairly stable job that can support you for a lifetime (with summers off). Then you throw it all away. I understand that once out of jail, they can never teach kids again.
/r/MGTOW11/03/20 04:37 AM
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Ummm doesn't spousal support work both ways? Just remember "the lifestyle in which you've become accustomed". LOL Tell her you'll settle out of court for 10 years of payments, at 100K per year. She can get a loan to pay you a 1 Million lump sum. Then she pays back her loan at her convenience.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 10:57 PM
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Instincts suggest it's unnatural not to have women in your life. BUT from 2000 afterwards... it's illogical. So I replaced all that time and effort chasing and attempting to keep women into career/businesses instead. Relationships were once like Russian Roulette: 6 cylinder gun, one real bullet inside. NOW? 5 real bullets inside, one blank.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 08:18 PM
4

Real estate. But that's generally a 10-40 year wait. Unless you get into flipping houses perhaps. I have women in my life. But they pay me... as tenants. :-) Simple thought: Earn as much as you can - by working hard, like a laser-focused psychopath Do the above while you're young and healthy. You don't want to be age 45 and realize "Oh shit, my total net worth is only 45K." Spend as little as possible. If you spend a lot of your time working & plotting world domination, you're not out shopping.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 08:10 PM
4

Every single MGTOW should be able to become a millionaire. It will take 10-50 years though.... depending on a wide variety of variables. Some tips that worked for me: move to a place where there are many wealthy people per capita learn to love working be pathologically thrifty, but not to the point where people shun you Refuse to be shamed by others because you've done well based on your 10-50 years of smart decisions and sacrifices
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 04:18 AM
6

Depends... are you: self-reliant willing to try new things comfortable meeting strangers a stable & dependable adult If so, go for it! One of the biggest regrets in life is becoming 80 years old and thinking that you didn't really live it in an interesting, worthwhile way.
/r/MGTOW01/03/20 06:20 AM
5

Success has a wide range of scenarios. One consideration. There are not enough natural resources for every person on earth to live in the lifestyle you and I are living. It's fortunate we were born in geographic area that gave us an advantage. Consider WHO feels guilty about that - to the point they want to run for office, and make laws and policies to reduce your accumulated assets in order to help you share everything you've worked for with other people. You've never met them, and their values…
/r/MGTOW29/02/20 11:05 PM
5

Lived alone for 25 years Since your home is YOUR home, live however you like. One idea: live in a way that you'd never be embarrassed if anyone came over to visit as a surprise. Just because you're a guy doesn't mean you have be a disorganized slob. Keep it nice. The bonus: after a hard day's work, you're not coming home to a pathetic shithole, which would be depressing and demoralizing.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 03:37 AM
5

Very smart... I might add that if someone doesn't have an opinion one way or another on important topics then: they're crafty by holding their cards close to their chests, knowing how powerful information can be They're somewhat ineffective as adults; kind of drifting through life in a reactive way. Letting other adults decide what happens next in their homes and workplaces. If you're able to elicit info out of anyone, you can sort out their values into mental bins based on what matters to you. …
/r/MGTOW23/02/20 08:16 PM
1

Thanks friend, you're so right. Imagine this: I end up getting in a fight with 2 teeth knocked out ($6,000 bill for that), plus a broken wrist. THEN you have to explain to your friends, family, and employer what the hell happened. "Uuhhhh I met this girl at the bar, we went back to her place - and her husband did this to me." Your friends, family, and employer are thinking... "You douchbag home-wrecking asshole! Sounds to me like you deserved that, for interfering in their marriage!" (totally ig…
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 02:12 AM
2

This will be the craziest thing you've ever gone through. You weren't the first, and won't be the last. You have a support network through places like this forum - 10-30 years ago many of us were on our own. It's OK to flick a mosquito off of your arm that's sucking your blood. You'll have some ups and downs, but this thought helped me: reflect on how you'll still have opportunities for a great life that most men on earth never will, due to their economic and political circumstances.
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 09:32 AM
2

:-D Thanks for the boost my friend. Inside I've always felt 10/10. When attractive and wealthy male actors/models all end up getting divorced too, none of us are good enough in the eyes of women. Between Chad, Tyrone, and monkey branching... the whole game is too flaky and unpredictable.
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 08:58 AM
1

There's dispute whether the Japanese word kenjataimu is real, but it applies... basically post-orgasm clarity. Under 35, many men are led to situations/scenarios that are outright dicey.... We gotta get buyer's remorse in advance. Is this chick worth being beaten up, robbed, or sperm-jacked over? Will she demand we're in a relationship starting tomorrow?
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 08:33 AM
1

I think you're onto something. A revenge hook-up to prove SMV to her partner!
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 08:25 AM
1

I know what you mean: Some gals (and guys can too) have this humble bragging thing going on. People compete over stuff like academic credentials career status accumulated wealth fitness & health level real estate vehicles (cars/boats/aircraft) animals (purebred horses & dogs) weapons creative ability (music/art) virtue signaling over who is more charitable/kind to the less fortunate Among Leftists, how "woke" and "progressive" they are with LGBT+ stuff, social initiatives centered on embezzling …
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 08:20 AM
5

LOL you're totally right. Also.. people feel like they can be a little freakier than normal because they're playing a character. "My character has been fantasizing about doing ______________________, and tonight is the night." Reminds me of women on vacation. If no one there knows who they are or where they're from? They're more adventurous, since they're less worried about preserving their reputation.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 04:26 AM
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LOL, either that or she went home frantically looking in the mirror - wondering if she's hitting the wall. She was almost irresistible, like she was an overlooked sister of Charlize Theron. 95% of guys would have been enchanted and gone over for sure. But there's the 5% like us that analyze the situation carefully. Gotta trust your gut sometimes if some factors aren't making sense. The irony is dudes learn instruments and get into bands to impress chicks. I suppose that it works on occasion to l…
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 04:18 AM
9

It's bonkers the extent of what guys will go through for access. The long-term devastation that can result from a 10-min interaction is the most terrifying rollercoaster a man can experience. Such as losing a 6-figure job over a misunderstanding or some playful innuendo. Your wealth, your health, your professional reputation... all at risk. Now more than ever. Since everything is documented and magnified. SJW's and their complicit media can't wait to expose and destroy you. You'll be made an exa…
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 10:09 PM
1

What is the point in quoting such a rate - it makes people into my enemy and it isn't like they're going to give me any money. Now, for actual friends/family I am happy to lend a hand (within limits)... Actually I've quoted - in other situations - and got paid. You could be right that I've lost friendships over it. I suspect mechanics, dentists, hair stylists, plumbers, locksmiths, electricians, accountants, carpenters... everyone they know calls them up and expects them to offer either free or …
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 09:34 PM
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I'm the same way. It's really odd that anyone is trying to make you feel bad. Where it would lead between you and her, who knows? Don't let others decide who you should be interested in. Some examples from my life: A gal planned a surprise birthday for me. I was thankful, we all had fun, but I never asked for any of it either. I hate when others do stuff for me. Since there's the potential undertone or implication that I need to reciprocate something... sometime... even if 20 years passes. I met…
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 01:31 AM
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Men who have: Health Time Practical Skills & Knowledge Real Wealth New-found Awareness of their own Subservience & Subjugation are a massive problem to both women (and governments). Both need us more than we need them. Both have depended on us to facilitate their existence, and have for thousands of years.
/r/MGTOW16/02/20 09:55 PM
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If women cause anger and anxiety within you, that's a character flaw. Going your own way means exactly that. Redirect your energy into something productive instead of destructive. You should be able to transcend anything that they do. If they get under your skin, then they are being effective. Raise your shield, and let their tactics bounce right off of it.
/r/MGTOW16/02/20 09:28 PM
1

Watch some compilation videos of psycho girlfriends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZHRBM47H70 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEoFyOS3TrA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6ZxTzPDn_k You'll feel much better about your life - and appreciate the peace you have.
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 06:49 PM
2

You can be happy without women or kids. That idea might contradict your genetic instincts. However, in this modern age going down that path has a high rate of failure and crushing consequences. First step: stop being broke as hell. Save 5....10... 20K. Then you have some actual security. Since, no matter what's going in your life? No matter the drama at work or in a relationship, a loaf of bread is $1.89.
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 09:56 AM
2

Some things are missing at the top: no assets crushing debt poor health no professional accomplishments a dim & uncertain future a track record of fleeting loyalty unstable & violent ex-boyfriends offspring from another man
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 09:36 AM
1

Looks good, I'd add some vegetables, like potatoes & salad. Or some rice. Then you have 3 meals.
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 09:25 AM
1

IMO every man over 30 should have at least 20K in cash (or the bank) at all times. The vast majority of people don't having anything close to that. In fact, they're in debt. Not having any savings causes anxiety and desperation. Others can sense it.
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 09:20 AM
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She said she's at work... in a way, she is.
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 09:10 AM
10

Life is dramatically simplified when we stop trying to impress women. Also when we stop intimidating other men (in order to establish dominance/breeding rights in social settings). Going your own way means you can pursue anything that you like. No approval or permission needed from any other human. Some guys become stunned when they realize how much freedom they actually have. It can be a bit scary, since there's no more excuses holding you back from accomplishing the goals you've always told ot…
/r/MGTOW13/02/20 06:34 AM
1

Asia: Only Time Will Tell
/r/MGTOW10/02/20 01:53 AM
22

The odd thing: much of society just can't believe men can possibly be happy without women. Governments are not happy when the healthiest men in their society have red-pill awareness, time every day to think think/study/prepare, and financial security. They - and women - want us to be exhausted little worker bees who do exactly what's best for them, and nothing else.
/r/MGTOW10/02/20 01:40 AM
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If there's these kinds of dollars flying around, it could be time to coordinate with other guys in your situation and start your own thing. It would be hilarious for your specialist agency to simply subcontract out to them at the rate you all expect, versus making it in-house as employees. That way, their HR dept can still feel sanctimonious.
/r/MGTOW10/02/20 01:22 AM
1

Hello Sir, If you're over 21, you're going to have to start letting go. I'm sensing some dependence there. When we're young, we look to our parents for stability. For some reason we always believe they offer good advice. If they were both gone from your life, would you be able to cope? If you already know that you'd be traumatized, then start taking steps today to stand on your own. Most people can survive. Being successful is hard. I'll admit wanting to do well for myself was its own reward - b…
/r/MGTOW09/02/20 05:34 PM
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LOL - your last sentence cracked me up. I nearly got caught up being a simp to a single mom with 3 kids under 7. I would have had a Thousand-Problem Stare by now...
/r/MGTOW09/02/20 04:30 PM
5

Heh, I follow the same people. :-D Here's one more I'Il think you'll like. I wish I could express myself this forcefully/clearly/cogently.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 11:20 PM
11

Work hard, save money. Aim for 20K USD to start, if you don't have that. Then go for 50K. Then compare yourself to all other adults. You're waaaaay ahead. You also have a realistic way to solve most problems.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 07:56 PM
2

No need to demand anything. Get Money. Working is the most common way. It won't fast, or easy... but at least it's possible. When you can support yourself like a man, and you are dependable and pleasant, it's hard for others to shame you. Now they start to admire you.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 07:24 PM
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You're not alone, you're just another victim. Learn to love yourself. Work and save money like your future depends on it. Since it does. Depending on females for anything important in your private life is very risky.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 07:22 PM
4

There are guys who have lost 20 years, and half of everything they own.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 07:18 PM
2

Many HR depts. have diversity and inclusion initiatives. If anyone is harshing you about your choices, single-shaming you... a case could be made that we are a protected class. Are single men ultra-productive AND ultra-dependable? Esp. relative to their peers? No contest... we don't have excess drama in our lives. Many of us are the first to show up at the office, and the last to leave... every day.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 06:52 PM
1

It's a character flaw to be controlled by one's own irrational emotions. Guys can make some crazy life decisions based on lust, greed, envy... Forums like this help men "snap out of it"... to step outside themselves and analyze how they are living their own lives from a 3rd party point of view.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 06:31 PM
1

I sell some niche software plugins. Pretty narrow market; specialization has its ups and downs. I'll never get "rich" from it, but it still pays lots of bills. My brother does something similar, but with very specific physical goods. The average person on the street wouldn't normally want what either of us sell. My stuff is direct download... he has to ship his items. More generally, you could sell more common things, but now you'd have competition and the margins can be very thin. You'd also ha…
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 04:42 PM
2

It's like form of economic Darwinism. Drugs, alcohol, crystal unicorns from the Shopping Channel, and lottery tickets.
/r/MGTOW07/02/20 04:01 AM
1

Poverty is decreasing - all around the world. The Left keeps going back to a false presumption which is predicated on outright envy. They actually rationalize violence against the best and brightest... the successful people. More Americans are earning their own money today than ever before. The Left hates this, because they need to be needed. There IS a job for practically anyone... who knows how to set an alarm clock. More people have risen out of poverty in America than anywhere else, because …
/r/MGTOW07/02/20 03:59 AM
1

If anyone lives in an economically depressed area.. move. The bus runs every day.
/r/MGTOW07/02/20 03:50 AM
4

don't spend money on them (I'm a thrifty bastard) talk about non-sensational news and politics (they often find these topics dry/boring) If you they want favors from you, tell them you can help, but they have to pay you be an eccentric lone wolf - they find this creepy If the topic comes up, mention that NO females are interested in you (They seem to prefer chasing guys who have active relationships already (as those guys are pre-selected by other females))
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 07:35 AM
5

300K a year? Good luck finding that...
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 06:54 AM
8

An odd catch 22. Companies want cheerful, productive, and dependable employees, but don't like men (or women) having significant cash holdings that allows them to walk away at any second (and still be smiling).
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 06:18 AM
3

A female was near me on transport today. She was thinking I was looking at her, based on how she was shifting her legs around. I suppose she was attractive, but I've been a MGTOW for 20+ years. I was actually fixated on the nickle lying near her feet, and debating whether or not to pick it up. That nickle would have added real value to my life. My entire experience with every female in the past was nothing but liability and expense.
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 06:11 AM
5

You could say: "Ya.. well, many women these days are somewhat unsure - or even delusional about money. They often have all of their credit cards maxed out. Crazy, huh? Do you know anyone like that?" Watch her go silent... "Also.. I love my dad. We get along great. Many women these days aren't sure who their father even is. Many females have been highly promiscuous for decades now. Did you grow up in a home where your both of your original parents were together?" Watch her go silent... "I like to…
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 05:55 AM
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It's stunning that America is doing well by almost every metric, and yet the opposition will stop at nothing to have him cancelled/removed. Childish and emotional. When the main 24 Dem candidates announced, within minutes I'd noticed all would fail - they're not strong enough. All of them have strange un-traditional goals for America and its citizens. The Left has a HUGE problem with people being aware, free, and prosperous. Nothing frightens the Left more than millions of optimistic, unburdened…
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 05:29 AM
4

I get about 6 hours nightly (Trump apparently only 4-5 per night). Sleep feels like a waste of time, if you love your life and what you're doing. My food prep is just 3 minutes a day. I prepare bulk meals in advance. I don't need to work due to my investments - but my theory is that now's the time to really rake it in, while I can. Since.. due to medical advances, many of us will live to age 100 - whether or not we want to. Just think of all the people in 2nd and 3rd world countries who'd love t…
/r/MGTOW05/02/20 03:21 AM
1

Enjoy it while it lasts... Just keep a clear mind. There may be a day when the only affection you had from women is when you search your memories. For me, it was 20+ years ago.
/r/MGTOW03/02/20 07:11 AM
5

It would be helpful for someone to explain why it happened. It's like explaining to an officer who had just arrested you. U: "why have I been arrested?" C: " You were walking down the street, saw a woman, and walked in the other direction. You said nothing and ignored her." U: "That's right!" C: "But... how did that help her, if there's no interaction?" U: "I didn't make her life easier - in any way!" C: "I think you see the problem."
/r/MGTOW03/02/20 06:39 AM
2

Young guys try so hard to climb the ladder for their family. You can't win... unless you have a large trust fund. Only then can you afford amazing goods, services, and experiences like frequent global travel.
/r/MGTOW03/02/20 06:27 AM
1

Many of us probably could find someone that works for us - the problem is that it would be a full-time job to get to that level. Many have determined that it's a poor time & cash investment just to get inside the stadium, let alone first base. The next step: Would we meet their expectations? Likely not. Perhaps only 2/10 would look back at us and go, OK... this has a chance. Micromanaging your gal is like putting a saddle on a crocodile and thinking "This is going to work out just fine." We can …
/r/MGTOW02/02/20 10:48 PM
2

Simpanzees... Monkey-Branching... we're getting primal. :-)
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 08:14 PM
3

There are different levels of MGTOW; men choose how much or little they desire to interact with females. There are no wrong choices after being aware of the possibilities. I suppose that if a guy wants to be a hardcore blue-pilled simp, and knowingly does that, that's a choice too. Maybe he likes having numerous dependents and being a vulnerable and subservient worker-bee to a Psycho Karen. Throughout our lives, we might change levels (in any direction). I started to feel better about my own lif…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 08:01 PM
2

In 2020 - too many guys already know too much about why things are the way they are. Even if Reddit banned this 3 years ago, it would have only slowed things down. The information rings true, the second you hear it - like an epiphany. Trying to suppress this is like trying to stop every drop of rain from hitting the ground... futile and unnatural. It's brazen and disturbing how other adults are trying to micromanage our thoughts and future existence in a free society.
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 07:41 PM
1

I'm a sigma, I assure you. Lone wolves are not Betas or Simps for other people. They have very different life plans/goals/expectations from what Alphas have.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 06:57 AM
2

I can kinda think that competing seems important... but perhaps only because that's been conditioned into us as a value parameter for manhood. If you step away and watch the sharks fight among themselves to get bigger houses, sleeker cars, prettier women on their arms... you realize it's futile at a certain point. There's nothing cool about poverty, so I suggest getting to a comfortable upper middle class level. Your retirement needs are taken care of in advance and you don't feel like you're mi…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 06:46 AM
1

Being selfish is very advantageous in many cases. It's not very "nice", but as they say... nice guys finish _______. Selfish people are objective about the resources before them, and take the money sitting on the table that others are too shy to reach for.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 06:37 AM
1

Best plan IMO is to go full Sigma Male. Each Sigma knows what they need to be happy for themselves. A harmless sociopath in a sense.. :-) Alphas hate Sigmas, because Sigmas are content. Sigmas are so logical and practical, they transcend all the social games. The same games that Alphas created for themselves to compete within. Sigmas sit in the stands with popcorn and are entertained by these games.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 08:04 AM
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One strategy: They call you up in a month and say... "Umm, okay.... so I'm pregnant. 500.00 USD will make it go away. Cash only." Most guys would RUN - not walk - to the nearest ATM. One consideration. Is she really pregnant?
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 12:15 AM
5

The polarization of politics has really brought people out of the woodwork, sometimes within the same family. Two Thanksgivings after Trump was sworn in, some family and friends around the table were ranting about Trump. I tossed it out there that I thought he was "Doing a good job". Numerous gasps resulted. I'm fairly successful - so DGAF what anyone thinks. So we went back and forth with the usual talking points from each side. Fun was had by me. LOL
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 12:09 AM
2

The next level strategy: save your money so that you can set yourself up to be financially secure. Aim for 1 million USD. Take care of personal needs yourself... for free, and in only 5-7 minutes. Then you can use the rest of your day for whatever you like. This way, no potential for BS from another person.
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 08:07 PM
1

This is why men (of all ages) need to constantly think about risk vs. reward. Life can be full of wild experiences and adrenaline rushes. People pay money for this stuff. Some people don't feel alive unless they put themselves into dicey situations and then squeak out of them intact. https://www.reddit.com/r/SweatyPalms/ I mean... great stories come from bad decisions, right? RIGHT? Alcohol and/or drugs are often a component. Some guys think it's cool to hang with their bros and reflect on that …
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 05:45 PM
3

I think we try to channel their energy into something productive. There's a lot of dudes with fresh wounds showing up at our hospital door. If they wanna hop back in the sea eventually, they can. Maybe they'll find an angelfish, or get bitten again by another shark. Or that enlightened new option: just stay out of the water.
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 02:52 AM
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I've been here a long time... not seeing any hate here. Initial frustration perhaps for newbs... If you can provide some examples, that would support your assertion. Hard-core MGTOW dudes are the masters of their own emotions. They're cheerful, content dudes without the burdens they once had.
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 02:25 AM
2

Other men throughout history have accomplished many incredible things, under much worse conditions. What's our excuse?
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 01:11 AM
2

I'm pretty sure NO MAN wants a high-maintenance female. No matter what status level he's at himself.
/r/MGTOW25/01/20 07:27 AM
4

I think insecurities start to build from; constant rejection over weeks, months and even years - single women aren't buying what you're selling political and social justice propaganda (male shaming) lack of mentorship - no father figures MGTOW experiences help other men reflect on their own lives, and to be very careful in what they wish for. In any case, once you've been red pilled... there's no way to un-see reality. If you choose to interact with females? You instantly see past the smiles, ma…
/r/MGTOW25/01/20 06:23 AM
3

It can be that even if everything's perfect, they monkey branch downwards and then eye up the pool boy or some rando at their office. Or some sketchy "bad boy" on a Harley that they'd met at a stop light. No matter how great a gal's reality is, there needs to be mystery, drama, passion, thrills. They like the adrenaline rush of being clandestine. I feel so bad for your boss. As other men, we've admire guys like that since we were kids. We work so hard to become one ourselves. We can climb life's…
/r/MGTOW25/01/20 06:03 AM
3

Just do whatever makes sense. There may come a day when things turn around in western civilization. It may take 5, 10, 15, 20 years. Females may come to realize that if they desire a relationship, they'll need to contribute to it equally - in every way - for the entire duration. The idea that strong & empowered women still need to be paid 100K + when a relationship goes sour... Crazy. Beta Simps and MGTOWs have been around for centuries, it's just that we're much more aware of it and therefore a…
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 08:05 AM
18

I just don't see many compelling options here in the states. If you're in a restaurant and the menu offers nothing that interests you everything seems too expensive (based on on the intrinsic value) You leave. Then, go home and make yourself a sandwich. Reflect on how you were nearly steered into spending the equivalent of an entire week's worth of sandwiches in the restaurant, for only one meal there.
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 07:24 AM
3

Great post - some more FME - They dramatically change their appearance, like cutting off 10" of hair, or dying it, without asking you your opinion before they do it - They start reading romance novels
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 07:10 AM
1

There's a strong chance you'll have 3-7 different jobs in your life, sometimes in totally different fields. Learn as much as you can, everywhere. The key is to keep working, anywhere. That includes for yourself (IF you choose that at some point). for 2 reasons Money keeps coming in. If you quit work or get fired, depression can sink in fast if you have no cash coming in to survive on. Yes, there are people that appear to live blissfully on welfare. But let's be real: these are almost always peop…
/r/MGTOW18/01/20 07:52 PM
0

I suppose that there's always been betas/simps and also mgtows.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 05:07 PM
9

I remember a time when guys didn't know what shit tests were...
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 07:40 AM
1

You're doing yourself a favor IMO. Reflect on the fun you've had in the past. In 2019 - not worth the risk. Too many psychos, diseases, potential allegations, and lost time. I like living vicariously. At the office, I hear about the time & energy spent on dating, and the overall interaction & results. I get the highlights of the 8 hours they spent together in approx 5 minutes. You may have an existential reflection on your life at some point. I did around age 43 when it sunk in that I likely won…
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 04:36 AM
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MGTOW tend to be self-reliant guys in general. jack-of-all-trade types who understand how mechanical items work, self-employed experience, straight commission sales experience where hard work results in $$$. With all the above, these personality types have the innate acuity to recognize what was going on, before MGTOW even had a name. Notice the guys in your community who are age 55+ who had dodged social bullets. They can be introverted/extroverted. But they've spent a lifetime being alert and …
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 04:22 AM
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Can't find any? LOL Dude... there's more MGTOW content on youtube than you have time remaining in your lifespan to watch. Some of my faves: Keeping It Keith Coach Red Pill Immortal Mindz Hammerhand VentionMGTOW
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 03:29 AM
0

It's better to know the hard truth... than to cling to soft, comfortable LIES.
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 06:21 AM
3

Cougars are: refreshingly honest - no strings attached. enthusiastic about being with younger guys. experienced enough that they'll do anything you've ever wanted to try sometimes generous - buying gifts for their cubs
/r/MGTOW01/01/20 11:34 PM
1

In my case I wasn't angry. Instead, grateful for the awareness of how things are. We just want the hard truths - instead of soft lies. A small amount of guys are red pilled - be happy you're one.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 03:01 PM
1

NTA The truth can be harsh, but it's irrefutable. Better to have hard truths than soft... comfortable... LIES
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 04:30 AM
10

It's can be awesome. But exhausting. In my case each of them were all approx 4 points above me in SMV. I was a 5 at my peak. These days I'm perhaps a "3.5" in the eyes of most females. I've had no affection in 20 years. Which may seem sad, and it is - in the sense that I feel a little disconnected from humanity. However.. by not dating & living to impress females, my circumstances are excellent on paper... After learning about MGTOW about 6 years ago, it's much easier to rationalize the lone wol…
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 06:03 PM
1

The clock is ticking for all of us. Gotta do something with your days. Sometimes men put massive pressure on themselves to leave a significant legacy. Perhaps out of personal ego/pride than for practical reasons. Appearing successful to others (based on either strategic dishonesty - or preferably actual accomplishments) is something many men work towards. The other strategy: some black pill men avoid drawing attention to themselves, as that often invites problems. You're in control of your time …
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 08:56 AM
1

The first red flag: any grown adult needing 85.00. That suggests he's living on the edge. Too unstable of a person. If you choose to be charitable and help people who are having a tough time, learn the reason why they are struggling. If they have trouble clearly explaining? Chances are they have an addiction; gambling/drugs/alcohol. Just because you've been friends in the past and had good memories, doesn't mean that a happy future will continue. I met a friend from high school after 20 years. W…
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 08:40 AM
1

Yep... not the typical topics people were singing about: You're leaving now It's in your eyes There's no disguising it It really comes as no surprise To find that you'd planned it all along I see it now It comes so clear Your insincerity And me all starry-eyed You'd think that I would have known by now
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 06:36 AM
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Sandman is mostly right - I offer this clarity; Buying depreciating assets intended to impress women, and which would intimidate men... avoid these. Buying appreciating assets like real estate, businesses, investments... go for it. The goal is that these things expand and multiply your wealth. You can buy some items for yourself as a treat. There are no trailers behind hearses. :-) HOWEVER... they should be things that you do not care if anyone else knows you have.
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 08:58 AM
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She might think you're under her thumb. If she bullies you around, maybe that's something she learned from her mom or friends about "how things should be." Maybe they have Beta simps at home. You may be able to gently terrify her into compliance - so that she reverts to the human you were courting. You're the one with the money and the sustainable future. The direct reality of your concerns will come crashing in fast, if she reads between the lines that she'll be yet another single mom. The most…
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 09:12 AM
15

"very high salary for my field ($15/hr avg)" Isn't that minimum wage in some places? Maybe you get tips on top of that. I hope so!
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 08:52 AM
3

"Dave, yes, you've paid your rent on time. However, at the end of your lease, we have other plans for your unit. Dave, We've had our struggles, back and forth. We just want you to be happy. So, it's time for a change." Isn't moving fun? I doubt the existing Landlord will be a glowing reference for the next landlord...
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 08:48 AM
2

It's priorities.. what do simps give up in order to entice females? Time, money, energy... We all calculate risk differently it seems.
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 08:16 AM
6

Landlords should always follow the laws, good to keep them in line. But we define Alpha male differently. To me, an Alpha... owns his own property. next level: clear title. next level: AND other propertie(s) next level: clear title also One idea is working towards never depending on other adults for your shelter. It's like me saying... "One time I got through the drive-through at McDonalds and they didn't give me any napkins. I totally flipped out! Marched right in and gave a piece of my mind to…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 08:10 AM
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There are usually strings attached, in every situation Be careful what you wish for - you might get it Take a multivitamin/mineral supplement. Only 10-15 cents a day fills in some dietary blanks that your brain & body may be missing. Wealth and assets are very measurable components of your existence. If you're a bit selfish and do what benefits you, it means you're setting yourself up not to be a burden on others Find joy in simple, little things It's OK to be a lone wolf Learn to love working, …
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 04:24 AM
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Perspective.. billions have died before you, and more will in the future. Unless you're contributing something amazingly important by existing, then you're statistically forgettable. I mean that in a good way. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Just live each day the best you can. If you're reading this, you're already in the top 2% of prosperity.
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 02:38 AM
1

Wow, that's nuts. Why do you think there was no justice?
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 01:27 AM
3

" That quote was about the dudes male best friend who passed away and wasn’t romantic " Wow, you're right. Thx for the info. :-)
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 06:01 PM
1

Thanks for the long reply, lots to think about there. I've experienced 2 women who only had eyes for me (for a little while anyway.. haha). I suppose the same groove as when guys sometimes lose their minds over a certain girl - and start to forget about actual responsibilities. Anyway, it was creepy as hell. I was into them, but they were next-level. An unblinking stare, and total devotion like when a cult-following NPC looks to their Leader who can never do any wrong.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 05:56 PM
1

It's seems you're coming from an angle where you don't want kids. Usually, it's the other way around, for instinctual or economic reasons. I see the picture you're painting. I get it, it isn't easy. No guy envies the tribulations women experience by having children. If both parent plan for kids, and raise them as a couple, that's the ideal plan. Teamwork and unconditional support. As for 12-year-olds... with the existence of real laws proliferation of free porn for guys to satiate their urges li…
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 05:32 PM
2

As I look around, it's horrible to say, but it seems most kids come from people who are; The most promiscuous The most inept at family planning The lowest IQ among us In terrible economic circumstances that are wholly inadequate for the expenses to come Our important events in life take some preparation & qualification. Whether careers, buying homes etc. Having kids? Just Do It.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 05:09 PM
1

If I'm not dating them, I charge. Maybe not full-time tech prices though. Guys in the trades get cornered all the time... Hey, you're a mechanic and like working on cars, right? Change my oil please...
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 04:58 PM
1

Thank-you for your insight. None of knows what we'll do in pivotal situations until it actually happens. For example I may have gotten my girlfriend pregnant when I was 20, she 18. Condom broke. At the time, the Plan B pill had just come out. So we went that route. Over the years, I wonder if I played a part in ending the life of the one child I could have had. There have been days I wonder about what could have been. Kids... or no kids. Each decision puts the adults involved on such dramaticall…
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 01:37 AM
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Someone in my community that I knew put the moves on my ex. while I was away from home working. We got through that. We moved across the city and a couple years later, she met someone else at work. Having an attractive partner is a both blessing and a curse. Easy to look at in your own house/bedroom and on your arm out in public. However, they get hit on constantly. Guys are dogs and don't care if your gal is married or not. Your gal can second-guess what you have to offer, relative to the strea…
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 01:00 AM
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We agree, but currently... fathers have no say.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 12:41 AM
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Some that come to mind seeing if you'll pay for everything noticing how much you tip watching to see if you notice other attractive women seeing if you'll do her yardwork asking you to do property maintenance for her install a light fixture etc. noticing if you're a safe driver noticing if her friends like you Asking you to fix her computer issues Seeing if you have the same level of Energy & Drama about the same things as she does She wants a beta provider and spider killer. They've been raised…
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 10:10 PM
6

I'll pay for my own order... Wouldn't it be offensive to tradshame\* her? Which presumes that she's unable to be economically independent? *just made up this term - LOL
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:58 PM
5

The following sounds like a good prank: Roll up in a new C8 corvette with a bulging wallet, chatting with your friends how you love to travel, and that you can't find anyone to take with you... all within earshot of a table of females. Then, as they inch their way over, their eyes wide with interest.... mention you're HIV+ as you loudly belch. What will win? Your behavior and personal style, or your assets & financial circumstances? They'll be so torn... between being impressed and repulsed.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:45 PM
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So many guys should careful what they wish for - looks like you have great awareness at a young age!
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:38 PM
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The holidays are all about emotion. The decorations, the music... you're expected to Suspend Logic. I assure you that every Jan 2 when you're back to regular life, and the decorations and extra-compassionate feelings are put away, reality comes crashing back hard.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:24 PM
5

Interesting, I suggest another angle too... Having impressive possessions helps intimidate other men. It's like having slightly bigger horns in the animal kingdom.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 07:57 PM
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Many of us didn't serve, but the stories of those who did - such as yourself - offers perspective to the rest of the citizens. There is great value in you sharing! It's always good to remind us: Other people are dying, getting maimed, and traumatized so that we can continue our freedoms and lifestyle. The battles we fight at the office are sometimes to preserve our personal pride instead of for purpose. In any case - probably not that important in the big scheme.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 06:36 PM
1

MGTOWS tend to give off the vibe that we're "off the market" also If you have zero contact with females, well... that's half of civilization. I propose that an enlightened MGTOW keeps things professional and platonic. Perhaps you have a situation where they pay you. For goods, services, rent...
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 11:23 AM
7

My internal risk vs. reward module says: "Enjoy the experience and perspective through the video, without actual cost or potential endangerment."
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 11:12 AM
1

Working is a good thing for many MGTOW's... The day gets filled with something legal, personally fulfilling in many cases.
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 06:09 AM
1

LOL, you got it! Side note: imagine all the physical exertion currently applied in pro sports. Imagine it was put towards something beneficial. Like constructing buildings, harvesting lumber, or fixing roads, etc.
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 04:49 AM
1

It's a path you can choose. There's no one right answer for everyone. Personally, I love working. I admit that I don't volunteer though. Instead, I serve others and like seeing cash accumulate from employment and other side ventures. Good Luck!
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 04:43 AM
1

Absolutely, finding some kind of balance is the key. Addictions come in many forms!
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 04:32 AM
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You're welcome, check out my past posts if you like for more!
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 04:29 AM
1

Thanks for your comment. We seem to agree that it's important to have some emergency money to deal with surprises!
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 08:46 AM
2

Be very careful. When you're done with the fling, just become very boring. She'll leave you -and it will have been her idea to break it off. Wish her the best!
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 08:41 AM
2

It's never been easier to start a business than right now. Global reach is unprecedented. Every morning I look at sales that have come in while I was sleeping. My first taste was in 2005 or so, writing articles based on some unique knowledge/skills I have. Someone else had set up all the infrastructure. E-commerce at that time was not easy. I was an author among many. Specialized target audience, but 100-300 per month in royalties started trickling in. That piqued my interest. Do the work once, …
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 08:32 AM
2

The first Half Life - wow some great memories... Games are way more fun and a far better value than clubbing. I suggest that young healthy guys should work real hard on setting up a passive revenue scenario that can sustain them for a long time (ideally for the balance of their lives).
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 05:41 AM
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Men need to become great providers to themselves before even thinking about saving others. I've found that remaining single has become less challenged by family/friends/society with every passing year. I've not heard the term, but let's push back against Single Shaming.
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 05:00 AM
1

A saying: "Success has a thousand fathers... failure is an orphan."
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 01:51 AM
2

Banks have been good to me. The relationship is robotic and simple. They wanted me to succeed - and pay them back with interest. Both happened. Win Win.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 11:42 PM
1

Brother, I'll try... More thoughts here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/e16z4a/tips_for_young_men_from_a_middleaged_mgtow/
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 11:41 PM
1

Most of us were thirsty guys. But... we've learned that we can drill our own wells.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 11:08 PM
1

if you spend perhaps 1- 2 million on her in cars, trips, jewelry, fine dining over the next 40 years - she might hang around. It won't be a sincere relationship, but you might have some laughs here and there with your trophy wife and good memories as FWB. Part of the arrangement - she'll likely have affairs. You'll have to be OK with that - as the Beta provider. You could shit test her by seeing if she will pay for simple things. If she pays for groceries for both of you out of her own pocket on…
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 11:06 PM
1

I'm amused by her creativity. I guess we could return the favor... When she needs help moving? Here are the different service levels... :-D
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 10:27 PM
2

You've escaped. The money you lost... consider it tuition. Investing time and energy into a female is Russian Roulette, where 4 of the 6 bullets are real. You've gotten a flesh wound from a .22.... Other men literally die over the worst of these scenarios.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 10:22 PM
3

Having wealth totally changes your psyche, and how others treat you.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 09:42 PM
1

That's why every man needs some cash on hand or a secret account with 5-10K in it, in case of curve-ball situations. At least you can go get some food and shelter while you gather your thoughts and get legal advice.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 07:53 PM
1

The definition of old is interesting.... Chances are you'll live much longer than you think. The reason: medical advances over the next 50 years. It's OK to find some balance between having an enjoyable life, and also having a future to enjoy later. Part of the key is to live humbly by living in a practical space (that you own 100%) and cooking your own food.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 07:50 PM
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Check with a lawyer... If you have sacrificed in measurable ways ($), she might have to compensate you.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 08:53 PM
1

Valentine's Day is coming soon also. Enjoy zero expectations placed upon you.... :-)
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 08:50 PM
1

Awesome comment. I had a long reply, opted to make new post: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/e0moqq/are_you_successful_be_careful_who_you_share_that/
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 07:28 PM
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#1 goal is to set yourself up with cash/property/investments. Relationships can seem seem awesome and fun - for awhile. Statistically, It will fail. Then you'll find out how psycho your former little cupcake can become. Her friends, family, and new boyfriend are all on her side.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 06:20 PM
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Twice in the last year I learned about guys being kicked out of their own homes, based on allegations. So while the courts sort it all out? They couch surf or live in their cars. They can't even go back to their property or see their own kids without being arrested. Automatic third-class citizens. The women weaponized the legal system against them.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 06:02 PM
2

That's fair, and also a more rational approach.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 05:27 PM
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Next-level progressivism: "Just because she looks like a woman doesn't mean she identifies as one." Ok, let's play along. It means we can proclaim we're Woke and would never want to cause violence by misgendering any human with a flat tire. A handy-dandy get-out-of-situation-card.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 05:21 PM
1

I'm happy to have the experiences I did. Just saying that if they're excited to be with me... then they'll be with practically anyone. Like a different dude every weekend. The difference: average guys often come up empty-handled in their weekend efforts, and average women never, ever have a problem finding someone to take home.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 04:46 PM
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No one knows what tomorrow will bring. Our instincts program us to get all we can in our 20s/30s. You did waaay better than me, I had about 10-12 :-) I agree with you. All the time spent in these very temporary interactions could have been used to help our lives in a long-term way. Such as building a business or anything considered a tangible accomplishment.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 04:41 PM
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As a Sigma Male, I'm so confident as a MGTOW (after 15 years of celibacy) that I can have laughs with female friends (at work). Their relationship stories (and ideas in general) offers entertainment value.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 07:33 AM
2

Yes, a large collection of flawed people there, in one way or another. To be fair, I guess I'm one too. Oh well, I've made peace with it. When men learn about MGTOW, the social pressure is taken off in so many different ways.
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 06:54 AM
1

Great points! Women love to consume... and are often rather materialistic. If they find a guy with resources, they have to gauge how much resistance there'll be in getting him to part with his $. She wants to live a lifestyle in which she believes she deserves. However, I HAVE known a few women who are competitive savers/shoppers. My first wife was one, finding deals was like a treasure hunt. Maybe the next level is thinking... "Sweetheart, do we really need this <item> at all?"
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 06:49 AM
1

Women are pulled in so many directions: Feminists want all females to seek empowerment and independence. However, the contrasting 10,000+ year instincts of many women are to be traditional, and "consentingly subservient" to an alpha male. Some men want to take care of women... and some women want to be taken care of.
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 06:38 AM
1

Remember the "Islam is Right About Women" meme a while back? The posters made the news. But it in the media, there was little discussion about the implications. Even hardcore feminists didn't push back against it like you'd expect.
/r/MGTOW18/11/19 01:03 AM
3

LOL, I was married once but had no kids. ;-)
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 09:59 PM
1

One reason is that you can still have some laughs and conversations about anything. There are some hard-working and intelligent ones out there. Some single women have the same struggles as us. I spend my entire workday around women. What I find is that when I get home, I don't feel the need to spend yet more time with them. I enjoy that peace. Having some femininity in your life helps prevent you from turning into a bitter mad trapper in the woods. BUT, with a platonic connection you don't have …
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 09:08 PM
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Gotta love that Gatekeeping on the Proper Level of Hatred. LOL I find that the more someone hates Trump, the more unstable & uncertain that person is in general. He's really brought them out of the woodwork.
/r/MGTOW12/11/19 02:10 AM
1

Don't be sad, there's a lot of single people out there. Don't feel you're alone because there's many in your situation. I might suggest that more than half the guys out there in long term relationships wish they could be single like you. It's OK to talk to women if you want, or to go further... but you now know the risks. Just keep a clear head at all times.
/r/MGTOW11/11/19 06:14 AM
1

Well... I'm not sure. But if I'm ever feeling a little down, looking at that actually cheers me up. If you really need clarity, click here (NSFW) and report back. Convince me you still have a problem compared to those kids and the bleak & limited futures they'll have.
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 12:09 AM
3

If that's your worst problem, you'll be OK. Consider these facts: You had a parasite in your life that you finally removed. A big first step. Guys everywhere have been through bad circumstances. How you deal with your own will define you as a man. Any situation that can be solved with money is not a problem. It's an inconvenience. A problem is a situation no amount of money can ever solve. Don't let anyone harsh you about doing what you need to do to get financially stable. Once you're FREE and …
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 11:15 PM
1

Get rid of all debts, and start amassing real wealth. No matter where your future takes you, you'll be glad you have the problem-solving flexibility that cash offers.
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 10:59 PM
25

Women want to desperately feel like they're effective. They love drama. They need success stories to tell their girlfriends. Now that we all realize what's going on, would it be 4D Chess to let them win small battles, while you win the war? Maybe. If you have time/interest in that. One thing guys.. if a female EVER thinks you've STOLEN the Best Years of Her Life, watch out (when her SMV is highest before hitting the wall). You may have a psychopath focused on "Teaching You a Lesson" - to save ot…
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 05:21 PM
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I was a thirsty dude up until age 35. Then it dawned on me - basically everything I did was in the sole aim of attracting females. This is common for most single guys. It's an instinctual thing found in most species. Part of the process is acquiring wealth and status. This appeals to females because it suggests you can provide for her and a family. Wealth and status also intimidates other men... functionally, they're your competitors. In social settings, dominating guys appear as being more dese…
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 04:32 PM
3

Reflect on the the time, money, convincing, and planning..... just to have 7-15 minutes of actual sex. That's the real consideration...
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 04:10 PM
2

Just say "No thanks, I'm not interested. But, have a nice day!" It's a better tactic to end conversations with women on a pleasant note.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 06:58 AM
1

There can be exceptions. I had young guy/gal replace my furnace. I'll admit I was surprised/apprehensive when she showed up. They both did a good job though. The gal was very technical/meticulous. MGTOW's should red-pilled enough to look past gender and judge people based on their individual merits. It's like when women don't think men can possibly cook or do laundry. Think of it this way - she's working for a living, and that means less dependency on anyone else. So, there's the professional si…
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 06:46 AM
3

Next step - enjoy your leisure time with gaming, but make sure you balance that out with some other components of a good life so that you don't get lost in a fantasy world. To the degree you become a red-eyed zombie and end up in the first round of lay-offs because you yawn too much at work.
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 05:30 PM
3

Attractive people can use their appearance to their advantage - but it only goes so far. A real career is based on skills. Attractive people can be nice too. Ugly people can be mean. So look at the overall combination of traits. High school is not real life, even though it's all you know right now. Just wait until you get a job where there are people with decades of life experience around you. The people you thought were cool in school - that doesn't always translate to guaranteed success in the…
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 02:54 AM
1

If you break it off, 3 angles: You can suggest that she was the reason because of how poorly she'd treated you. Maybe feels good for your pride, but a woman who feels disrespected ends up keying your car. A mutual split - maybe she's not that happy either Be self-deprecating, suggest that she deserves someone far better than you who can meet her expectations. And you sincerely wish her the best, because she is the most amazing woman ever. Which one has less follow-up drama? #3. She'll monkey-bra…
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 05:16 AM
2

As a MGTOW, if your life sucks, or you're doing great - either way, the person responsible is the person in your mirror. No one's going to nag you to get stuff done. When you're 80 years old and reflect on your life, will you be proud of how you'd spent your time?
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 03:28 AM
3

Some ambiguous responses: I guess I haven't met the right one yet. I'm taking a break right now. I need to find myself. I have someone in mind - we'll see how it goes -one step at a time. (of course there's no-one, but she'll think you have a prospect in mind) There're lots of girls that are just OK.... but no-one is as amazing as you, Karen.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 03:16 AM
2

LOL, true.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 02:28 AM
2

Hopefully you'd have an assertive personality to deal with problems. Kids away from home for the first time sometimes go wild. Plan to be able to afford this project, even if you have zero renters. Seriously. Don't tell potential renters you live nearby - not really their business. They'll learn that eventually. Money is cheap to borrow right now. Check your zoning laws to see if you're allowed to have this many people live there. Find or make a comprehensive lease. Get co-signers if you can.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 02:27 AM
44

Woman leaves a relationship? The guy must still send money to her anyway.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 08:19 PM
26

Having significant amounts of cash and property is way better than sex. Because it's there 24/7/365.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 11:48 PM
2

It's OK to let go. Make new friends who don't feel the need to change you. Or you can now hang out here.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 11:33 PM
1

Practically all of us were surprises to our parents. ;-) Good luck - thanks for reminding us of how 10 minutes of going back and forth towards a gal can dramatically change our futures.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 11:22 PM
1

Just be happy that you've realized some things now that most people haven't and never will. You're in the top 5 % of the world's wealth, so be thankful. You can now fine-tune your situation to be whatever you want it to be.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 07:35 PM
5

Monk for 15+ years. Still notice and enjoy their effort to look appealing. I don't make any comments though - since I don't want: a relationship anything I'd say to be strategically misinterpreted and then used against me IMO being a truly successful MGTOW means blending in, and being professionally pleasant to everyone. It's just that you don't want anything more beyond that level of interaction. You don't need to explain why to them.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 07:27 PM
7

Women can be just as aggressive, but in a different way - using words, courts, emotional manipulation. Non-physical stuff.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 06:16 PM
11

Somewhat related: a couple years back we had a diversity and inclusion course. There were components on privilege and unconscious bias. During Q&A, I posed this question: "Over the last few years, I'm seeing the term Social Justice all over the place. It's also in the materials here. What does that term actually mean?" I wanted to hear some kind of formal definition, knowing in advance that there isn't one. The facilitator had a meandering response...
/r/MGTOW02/10/19 02:27 AM
1

Absolutely! Updating the spreadsheet monthly and seeing the difference between income, debts, and equity gives a person hope that they're making sensible decisions. The idea: planning and long-term vision will pay off someday. Otherwise, WTF? Esp. MGTOW related - I went to the bank to open a line of credit to close a deal on a multi-unit rental. They asked me 3 times inside 20 minutes if I was married. I said no of course. They weren't used to seeing a single person with my desirable situation. …
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 04:29 AM
6

One major goal to work towards is financial independence. It may take 10-40 years. The initial reason guys work towards that is to appear as a good provider. If you now have no intention to provide for a partner, then it's still a worthy goal. Make a spreadsheet for yourself that shows where you're at. You might even have negative net worth. Just be real about the numbers. Lean to earn, learn to save. Over time your net worth grows, and it can get addicting watching real wealth build while you c…
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 08:43 PM
2

Good call - no need for physical abuse.
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 06:43 AM
1

I didn't end up fighting anyone. Instead, some guys I knew who were 15 years older urged me to make a decision. They'd been around the block themselves. Either: try to salvage the situation through counseling etc. break it off But.. no half measures. They suggested the IF I break it off, get legally separated ASAP. Since women get increasingly vindictive over time. Their new boyfriend... friends... and family often urges them to extract as much as possible from you. Which is logical. But when a …
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 06:38 AM
1

Meh.. it's 2019. Live anywhere you like. Part of being MGTOW means not caring what anyone thinks.
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 06:28 AM
2

You can be quite anonymous in a city.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 08:41 PM
1

All I can say: women had better start doing this. Men are objectively starting to weigh the pros/cons of being involved with females - in any capacity. Even low-level casual friendships are appearing to have an element of potential risk that lead men to not interact for fear of intentions being misconstrued.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 08:26 PM
1

I notice their general cheerfulness and hopefully graceful nature before anything they're wearing. For example, a miserable supermodel who treats you like something she stepped in would be no fun to be around. Clothes & makeup can hide a lot of evil or mental problems. For awhile. Quality individuals are enhanced by that stuff, like icing on a cake.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 08:17 PM
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One's perspective changes dramatically once they become red-pilled. For many men (and women), pairing up and having a family is both instinctual and socially expected. That path isn't necessarily rational in modern life. Being happily single is never presented as a valid option. When one removes themselves from the mating rituals/peacocking process to get a female, and also the ongoing social displays to keep one? A man's existence is greatly simplified.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 07:55 PM
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If you've been cheated on, maybe they didn't simply lose interest in you. They can be monkey branching - with a twist. A component can exist where your woman wants you to fight for them. If you really love her, you'll find the guy and kick his ass for interfering with your marriage/relationship. You need to rescue her from the villain who'd tied her to the railroad tracks (even though she let him). That's a shit test. It's a primal, violent contest for breeding rights, and happens across many sp…
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 07:40 PM
2

Umm - the real answer we all seek. HOW do 25/26-year-olds bring in 260K? Talk about a first-world problem. If this young man flicked this parasite - we'll call her Karen - off his arm... his world will be whatever he wants it to be.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 06:51 PM
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You wrote: "take a trip overseas for a prolonged time." What is the thing you seek overseas that you can't get locally? Other idea: take advice from successful people, not just older people. Wisdom doesn't always come with age.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 07:47 AM
1

If you're ever feeling lonely or bummed out, we're just a click away!
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 03:29 AM
7

Being thrifty is one way to get there (I'm pathologically frugal), but I think you'll need to combine that strategy with earning as much as you can as well. That means less leisure and more productivity. A second job or side hustle. The spread between earning and saving gets you there. It might take 20 years. Either you do this, or end up living check-to-check like most people. Money is a great tool that can bring some peace and opportunities. However... once your net worth ticks over the line, …
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 06:49 AM
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Let me propose Reason 20: Very, very soon, women will pay the half the bill for a first date. Soon. They're that strong. In women's terms, it's systemic... and therefore problematic. We need to raise awareness, and have a conversation.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 01:24 AM
3

Speaking of tactical... remember the antics of Obama's secret service in Columbia? https://www.washingtonian.com/2013/03/25/secret-service-prostitution-scandal-one-year-later/
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 01:10 AM
7

What should be the most natural thing in the world has now become a minefeld. There are strings attached. They can be pulled anytime - between now up until your death. If you gain any kind of wealth or notoriety in the future, the interaction you just had might be construed as insensitive - at best. Insensitivity is possibly worse than anything, because it's so subtle, psychological, and like everything men do - oppressive at its core. Like colonialism. ;-) You could pay her 130K to forget your …
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 12:47 AM
1

The MGTOW lifestyle is why you individually decide it to be. I think that MGTOW means being rational and aware of reality, women and your future. If you're addicted to anything that even you admit is adversely affecting your life, only you are the one to do make changes.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 07:25 PM
1

"I'm content and doing what makes sense for me right now. But who knows? Maybe the right person will come along someday." Then put THEM on the defensive. Change the subject by pointing out THEIR flaws. Maybe they're on their second marriage - get them to admit that it's not going that well, now is it?
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 06:57 PM
3

An expansive vocabulary is a form of wealth - that anyone can add to, if they choose to. One strategy: use larger words in your speech, but if they stare blankly, pause and say: "In other words... (and then use a simpler expression). This way, you don't make people feel stupid. Doing this suggests you're creative and mentally nimble enough to state sentences in different ways. There are 4-syllable words that everyone knows the meaning of, but are not often on the street. Such as: consequences ci…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 04:12 PM
3

As men we can hang out anywhere that make sense to. Being red-pilled as an adult is like when we learned as kids that Santa and the Tooth Fairy aren't real. Sad at first, but we just want the truth. Please world. No more lies and delusion.
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 05:46 AM
3

Some concepts that might help: When I was going through my divorce I reflected on the fact that 95% of men on earth would still want to trade places with me. Meaning, my problems were nothing compared to living their lives in horrible places with no hope. In many places in the world, life has no value. People are totally disposable and forgettable. Consider their plight. Compare to your own. When see sites like https://deathaddict.co/ and how people get mangled up in accidents etc., I think, OK …
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 04:49 AM
1

Your future is your own responsibility Most people possess stuff - but don't actually own it. See through that deception. These are people desperate to appear impressive through consumerism. Don't assume that all older people are automatically wiser. There are plenty of broke, delusional people across decades who have insane ideas about what's right and wrong. Sales skills are helpful across all industries. Be dependable. Earn as much as you can, save as much as you can. Simple sincere complimen…
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 03:34 AM
5

You could tell her that you need to "Take a Break, So That You Can Find Yourself". Seems to work for women quite often. :-/
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 04:00 AM
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Changing your life over a 10 minute intimate moment? No way. Word will get out ANYWAY that it happened. She may have qualified for the job, but measurable performance reviews since then show she wasn't doing the work. Sex before she started has nothing to do with the job itself. That's up to her to fill the role.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 03:51 AM
3

As kids we'd tell the parents: "Mom, it's improving my hand-eye coordination!. This Colecovision is essential." Simply: MGTOW's - either you win in the real world, a virtual world, or a combination. What you don't want: living under a bridge at age 60 and recalling the thousands of hours spent on how you totally pwned others in "Game X".
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 03:10 PM
3

Good: It helped rationalize my choices for the last 25 years. After a divorce, I'd made critical decisions based on logic, instincts and experiences of myself and others. Before there was a name for it. So, I'm doing well on paper. Bad: I have no physical human contact (other than hugging my mom 3-4 times per year). Wary and skeptical of interaction with females. Always seems to have strings attached. Also, the potential for career-ending harassment allegations. So, it's kind of lonely and unnat…
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 05:40 AM
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Congrats! Real wealth is irrefutable!
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 05:09 AM
1

I'm amazed at what's come out in the last few years - I know that it would all be very enjoyable, but not that helpful to my circumstances. I have older tech so can't even play the new stuff. This helps me resist the temptation to get sucked into a world where 40-100 hours has vaporized. I find watching the game trailers and other skilled players do their thing is fairly entertaining in it's own right.
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 04:28 AM
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If you're enamored over a girl, fantasize about her - and rub one one out. Do it again a few hours later. Now, do you still want to have her in your life? Maybe. Think about her expectations, demands, requirements for the next 30 years. Which are always subject to change. Now it's more of a partnership. Your whole legacy as a man is now entangled with her goals. Maybe you want that. Some guys like being blue pills/simps. We need to remember who built this society - literally. Some gals don't wan…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 04:41 PM
2

"I fully expect that my wife will discard me for a man with more money." You presume that she'll be able to catch another man. Things about men: Successful ones are often wily enough to preserve their assets. Plus men are exponentially being red-pilled, daily. So she may have a future... with CATS, who earn very little. :-D "I don’t want them to abandon reproduction, but I cannot see a safe path for them to become fathers given the current crop of women." The mid west may offer hope. But they'll…
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 04:25 PM
15

Men are thankful they don't need 30-45 minutes every day just to be able to face the public. Plus... no extra expenses.
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 04:17 PM
16

I dated a single mom for a couple months - she was putting on the pressure - hard - for a ring. 3 small kids... she wanted a Beta badly. She broke up with me, to go back to her ex (father of the kids). Major relief... but a fun 2 months. LOL.
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 04:13 PM
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I'll say that games are fun, but like anything, one needs to have the personal discipline to say "OK, that's enough for today". HOWEVER, women aren't 100% productive with their time either. Men can re-evaluate them too. And we are.
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 04:06 PM
3

The vast majority of guys alive today wish they had your problems - because they live in 2nd and 3rd world countries with no opportunities for wealth. They experience a lifetime of subjugation. One fast way to pass some time and to cheer up is to watch some documentaries about anything that interests you. For example I liked: Napoleon Russian Campaign Documentary Shorter vids about cars: Jay Leno's Garage Education-wise: if there's something you wish you understood better, check out https://www.…
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 01:21 AM
6

There are some good women out there. They cringe at the same stuff we do. Just be professional and polite. Be careful with any women who try to get you to talk about personal/sexual stuff - off the record - in any office. It comes across as small talk. Sometimes they'll ask you for your opinion about something. Be coy.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 03:16 PM
1

She's keeping you around as a post-wall "Plan B". When a guy falls for someone like you have, usually there's no other interest from other females towards you. So you hang on to the one thing you think you might have. I did this for 10+ years. In meantime, I worked hard and built real wealth by not dating anyone else. She didn't look back, and that hurts - because I treated her well. Women are fickle and unpredictable. Any relationship can fall apart over anything, and quickly. Find some joy in …
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 03:06 PM
0

It's OK to disagree about politics - but why not consider it a challenge? Red pill your mom. The way Candace Owens brings truth bombs to college commies.
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 03:08 PM
2

3 related strategies: Don't buy stuff you really don't need Learn to enjoy working - more than shopping Find ways to earn more money than you can spend.
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 02:53 PM
1

The book was good. It's one of various ways to increasing your net worth. Bigger principle: There are startling amount of people who are waiting for permission to attain wealth. They have some internal lack of confidence to believe they deserve it, or could handle it - if it came. Not everyone is happy to see other people succeed, even inside the same family. Envy and resentment can be problems. I have numerous rental properties, and if you're handy, it can be fun. You can always get contractors…
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 02:40 PM
2

To a Leftist: both are true : Men are no longer economically attractive. Women make 79 cents for a every dollar a man makes. logically, this make women more economically unattractive. :-D
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 02:20 PM
2

Just wait until your friends become 30-40 and went through their first major split-up or divorce. The prizes = PTSD, mid-life crisis, wondering what the purpose of living "is", and trying to financially recover. Somehow, even after working full-time (and sometimes doing very well) - guys still end up going back to almost square one. Assets divided, lawyers paid, wealth stripped. You really don't want to have just 20K in net worth at age 40. To avoid going insane, some will rationalize it under t…
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 04:31 PM
2

You have a great career ahead, and the revenue from it can be put to literally anything that interests you. Most men have been trained by friends/family/society to think that women are essential to being complete and fulfilled. We know in this group that this isn't true. I've had good and bad experiences. Their unpredictability is too dramatic for me. Your 5-10-15 year investment of time and energy into them can fall apart - in a single day.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 07:06 AM
15

I have an old Samsung, without a data plan. I don't look at my phone all day, since I have a life. :-)
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 09:46 PM
1

What I meant: if someone is has no cash (or negative cash) 4K is a small but realistic start. Ideally, one should have enough saved to survive until age 100. :-D
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 09:37 PM
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Men: always have savings. if you're broke, set a goal like 4K as a bare minimum.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 07:44 PM
1

You could be right - living alone is safest bet.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 06:35 PM
1

OK, you could be right. I've lived alone for a loooong time.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 06:33 PM
2

Either way - I'm buying and renting. I have a friend who buys, renovates (does some stuff himself but is not afraid to pay tradespeople for things beyond his skills) and then flips them. Makes an extra 60-100K per year above day job. He did that for about 15 years, is onto other things now. He didn't have to deal with tenants, but the pressure was more time-related for getting the work done, and selling in an open marketplace. He learned what matters when renovating that buyers care about and no…
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 06:32 PM
1

Heh, you could be right. But I'd have little patience, esp if I "know" they have active revenue. I understand the vast majority of women have maxed-out credit cards at 20% interest, and have delusional attitudes towards finances overall.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 06:25 PM
1

I get what you're implying, but anyone can loan money to others. If everyone involved agrees to the terms/conditions of a loan, all is well. Interest rates are super low. If a person has the imagination & initiative to parlay 1, 2, 3 hundred K into any investment, and it pays off... there is no issue. When you look at a doughnut, don't get anxiety because it has a hole. Debt Interest is just a cost of doing business. For ex, let's say you buy a used ice cream truck for 25K and it pays for itself…
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 06:17 PM
3

Equality is good, because it's merit-based. individual merit is a cornerstone of conservatism. There may be a whole new world of pure honesty between genders where you can admit that being selfish is virtuous; in the sense that you are self-sufficient. In relationships, there are young tradcon women who desire abundance and will be aggressive in supporting you, themselves, and the household to achieve what many would consider enviable accomplishment. Millennials bounce between finding poverty ro…
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 08:29 AM
1

There can be bad apples, even experienced landlords get stung from time to time. But it's rare to lose more than a month or 2 of rent. In the long run it's still generally good. You'll need a firm personality to ensure tenants follow your rules in your property. If you have problems, get a court order.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 08:19 AM
1

Real estate worked for me, but it's a long-term plan. Your own house, plus rental properties, and all of them paid off - it's a tangible reality. Living frugally allows you to pay properties off much faster than the general public. You can literally watch your home go up in value in a spreadsheet, while you pay off the the debt - the difference is your equity.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 08:13 AM
1

She could move in - but PAY you rent If things don't work out in 2 years, she's helped pay off your place, but has no equity, because you have a rental contract. You have no obligation to support any adult, married or not, esp. if she's working.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 07:59 AM
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All good, except that it's OK to borrow money - if you use that resource to make even more in the long run. The easiest way for the average person to become a millionaire is through real estate. But it requires long-term vision and patience, measured in decades. I own many rental properties.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 07:34 AM
5

Monk mode means becoming rationally selfish. Enough to put yourself in an enviable position, where nothing fazes you. One tip: be respectful to others, women included. Red pill rage and resentment won't benefit you. Don't hand others ammunition to bring you down. Live life in the way that it makes sense for you, at any given time. No explanations or apologies needed. In 10, 20, 30 years maybe you have new plans and goals. Keep a clear head at all times.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 07:29 AM
2

Going your own way means exactly that. From women, society, even other guys. Just consider the proportion of time you spend on leisure stuff, compared to productive stuff. Find a balance that works for you, because no one else is going to nag you into doing beneficial things you know you should probably be doing most of the time.
/r/MGTOW25/08/19 10:09 PM
1

She needed to assess which habits you had that she could change.
/r/MGTOW25/08/19 10:04 PM
1

Multiple sources of monthly revenue. I have 4, to various degrees. The gift of situational awareness. It's brutal, real, logical. But analytical and cold. If you stray from doing sensible things, drama/problems start oozing back into your life. Most of us have dodged bullets either professionally or privately. Recall the relief after flopping into a chair and thinking, "Whew, that was close". Use those experiences to help prevent unnecessary ones in the future. Mentally getting past what you may…
/r/MGTOW25/08/19 09:23 PM
1

80K for a wedding? Yikes.
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 07:46 PM
2

You've spent a bit of money - to get your PHD - in Street Smarts.
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 06:10 PM
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