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If they are in California they are breaking the law, all single person bathrooms have to be labelled gender neutral, meaning anyone can use them. There really isn't a reason to do otherwise, you're not going to share a bathroom when the toilet is in full view.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 09:47 PM
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you’re not “mansplaining” Thanks for saying that, I remember when I was working as a contractor for a big tech company a female employee would sometimes come ask me for help, and I was afraid of going too in depth into things, so I would just find the files that had the relevant information and ask her to look at that file, and come back with any questions about it. Not saying that is the wrong way to explain things, sometimes people prefer it that way, but I would be concerned she may take offe…
/r/MensRights22/03/23 10:23 PM
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This kind of reminds me of Tuesday, I went to get coffee, on the way there I noticed a young woman talking loudly to a young man like they were having a fight. On the way out they were still there and she was slightly louder, (which I admit is annoying since this is a residential neighborhood and it was 7am). He tried to leave and she grabbed his wrist preventing him from moving without pulling her. I wanted to say something, it looked clearly abusive. But instead I just walked away. By the time…
/r/MensRights11/06/21 09:30 PM
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This (The original twitter post) is extremely tone deaf given the events of the last few weeks. The number of times white women accusing black men of rape and sexual assault leading to lynchings, and events like the burning of Tulsa, are nothing to sneeze at. There has been a long history of this. How these people can't think about the implications of what they are saying is just too much. Enough is enough.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 05:02 PM
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A lot of guys looking for a place to work bring their laptops, so maybe it is talking about that? If you can actually get work done at such places then the rates are really cheap, especially for San Francisco, renting a hot desk will usually cost more than 2x that.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 07:51 PM
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I honestly don't understand what is going on anymore, in the past when I posted images from an article (with link in the comment) my post was deleted by the mods. Now I am seeing a lot of posts on here with just an image, and no link, not even in the comments, I can't get context or anything. Have the mods changed the rules? And if so, can you please change it back, many of those posts seem to be there to illicit a reaction, and that's not bad, but without context I have no idea what to think, a…
/r/MensRights24/08/19 06:21 AM
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"100% male-perpatrated mass shootings" Some of us used to work at Youtube/Google and I don't appreciate that kind of erasure.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 10:58 PM
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I'm going to post the link XKCD is a good comic: https://xkcd.com/642/
/r/MensRights21/06/19 11:58 PM
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There are other sites reporting on this as well: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/detroit-man-sues-women-who-allegedly-called-police-him-gardening-n979566
/r/MensRights15/03/19 04:21 PM
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Not my video, I just thought the discussion on it was interesting.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 02:51 AM
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Sounds like they are conflating "traditional masculinity" with the aspects of society put on men and boys that tend to be unfair. >They acknowledge that ideas about masculinity vary across cultures, age groups and ethnicities. But they point to common themes like “anti-femininity, achievement, eschewal of the appearance of weakness, and adventure, risk, and violence.” So avoid being seen as weak sure, violence, sure, but adventure and risk? That is part of life, granted you shouldn't be pressure…
/r/MensRights10/01/19 09:01 PM
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The husband should have pressed charges, it was clear that he wasn't about to listen to reason. Any man that does that is clear hazzard to the public.
/r/MensRights10/01/19 07:19 PM
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People gaslight you? For real? WTF people?
/r/MensRights21/12/18 06:31 PM
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We figured this out with bankruptcy vs debtors prisons many ages ago, but somehow we can't figure out why, and apply it here?
/r/MensRights18/12/18 03:47 AM
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Is there a link?
/r/MensRights30/11/18 07:33 PM
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To be fair, there is something for making your standards clear from the beginning. If she objects to going Dutch at the beginning it is a good indication that she doesn't want an equal partner, and if that is what you're looking for then better sooner rather than later to know the incompatibility.
/r/MensRights08/09/18 07:49 PM
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That might be discriminatory.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 10:39 PM
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From Slate article: https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2018/04/people-are-molding-their-responses-to-nasim-aghdam-to-fit-the-shape-of-their-bigotry.html
/r/MensRights06/04/18 04:31 AM
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There’s another group of people close-reading Aghdam’s appearance, and they make strange companions for the conservatives doing the same. Feminist-identified women with anti-transgender politics are convinced that Aghdam is trans, and they fear she’ll unduly besmirch the female tradition of not shooting at people in public places. “Is anyone surprised that the ‘woman’ who shot up the YouTube hq is obviously a man?” one such Twitter user asked. Another beseeched the media to “Please report #YouTu…
/r/MensRights06/04/18 04:22 AM
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The poster perhaps feels that the store only accused him falsely in the first place because of some bias against men that the management has. But there is no hint of that from the post or the article to be honest.
/r/MensRights10/03/18 03:03 AM
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Are you seriously saying you don't know how to make your own decisions in life, but would gladly make the same unreversible life altering surgical purely cosmetic decision on an infant? Have you ever taken an ethics course, because you seem to not know anything about it. On one hand you feel totally overwhelmed making decisions on your own body, an yet you feel that you're fully capable of making decisions on someone else's body without knowing what they value?
/r/MensRights13/11/17 04:15 PM
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I've been trying to monitor what is happening on this end, so far significantly more positive than negative press. But we are on the 10th, so more than a week to the 19th.
/r/MensRights11/11/17 02:49 AM
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He should file for sole custody, would you want your kid living with someone known to take advantage of minors sexually? Known, not some crazy idea that males are all peadophiles, this is someone that everyone involved including the state knows had sex with a minor. If I were him I wouldn't hesitate.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 01:01 AM
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I think a lot of boys are like this, but in modern education absolute obedience is greatly valued, and those that don't comply are frowned upon on, or highly disciplined. Seems bigger issue in less funded schools. In the past in lower income demographics that was seen as the "school to prison pipeline", but seems that as more higher income demographics go the same way people have started thinking that those are boys, and troublemakers and deserve that fate. If women started being incarcerated in…
/r/MensRights09/11/17 07:03 PM
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Admittedly if society's view on masculinity causes you do devalue your life to the point that you'd die in such a situation then it could be considered toxic. Sacrifice yourself if your own morals are to do so. Not based on society's expectations.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 04:21 AM
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The abuser in that case probably knew the police wouldn't take the case seriously because the victim is male. It doesn't surprise me that the article was published in a gay site, the gay community has known for at least 20 years how they've been thrown under the bus by the Duluth model, and hasn't been shy about speaking out about it among themselves. Gay people are willing to accept that their own can be victims of domestic abuse, something I wish straight men and women weren't so hesitant abou…
/r/MensRights15/08/17 09:18 PM
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I thought so too, definitely changes context to a lot of stuff I've heard or read.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 07:32 PM
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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/told-men-abusers-women-victims-two-male-rape-survivors-battle/ McFarlane began looking for professional help a year after the attack. Living in rural Scotland, he was discounted from attending counselling sessions from charities based in London and Manchester. Even accessing the services required seeing out a 4-6 month waiting list. Other more local charities he looked into simply didn’t cater to men. “We are the victims too sometimes, but there is not…
/r/MensRights04/05/17 06:49 AM
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There are a lot of reasons when dating a woman things will be unbalanced, I don't think it means all women will take advantage of that. But it does seem that when they do very few people will even call her out on it.
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 10:19 PM
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The cause of incidence of cancer being so high in those African countries should be studied if for no other reasons that if it is related to diet or environmental causes, then it could hopefully be reduced or at least prevent other places from becoming the same.
/r/MensRights16/03/17 05:59 PM
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Why the anger? I don't mean to criticize, but I think that is why our POV becomes marginalized.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 09:40 PM
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I am told I earn more than women, even though I work longer hours and more dangerous jobs. I think it is more that I am told I'm paid 30% more than women without earning it.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 02:09 AM
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It is good to help other men, especially homeless, suicidal or incarcerated men, as many times "the system" or society treats them much worse just because they're men.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 02:02 AM
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I don't think it has made that much difference. Neither has the amount of men that have are gay, and in current generations are not dating women for social status. The reason is that demographics have changed. Since at least 100 years, and probably ever since modern humans evolved boys have been more likely to be born than girls. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IaYhG11ckA, basically 106 boys are born for every 100 girls. As safety, well being, food availability have improved the ratio of boys t…
/r/MGTOW11/01/17 03:36 AM
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This doesn't sound like it was medically necessary at all. I find it awful that we still live in a world were parents will inflict elective surgery on their children for something that is in no way medically necessary.
/r/MensRights11/01/17 02:30 AM
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It looks like it is only the Twitter poster being sexist, nothing in the flyer actually mentions gender, and they well could have it in both bathrooms. But the Twitter poster looks at it based on a sexist idea.
/r/MensRights10/01/17 03:42 AM
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I actually think this issue is more than just DV and crimes against women. While this is a bigger problems in poorer communities, it seems that the worse a school is the more likely they are to discipline boys, and less likely to graduate them. The effects include boys turning to petty crimes or gangs. This has lead to high incarceration rates and other factors like that. In minority communities this was referred to as the "school-to-prison pipeline", but more and more schools are becoming like …
/r/MensRights02/07/16 01:02 AM
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I personally think I would like to have a kid in the future, so I probably won't have this done, I'm only 27 though. I haven't had sex with women in quite a while though. I thought that was part of being MGTOW, at least it was for me.
/r/MGTOW25/06/16 12:32 AM
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Part of the problem is that the Duluth model is based on some outdated sexists and admittedly heteronormative views about men hurting women, that for the longest time many people in the field had no way to help abusers or victims of DV in same-sex relationships, they would almost do nothing, afterall in that model lesbian relationships have no aggressor, and gay relationships have no victim. Having same-sex relationships not be hidden, and things like marriage has forced a lot of these assumptio…
/r/MensRights25/06/16 12:25 AM
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If she is crazy that might actually be better than saying fiancee, less chance of trying to break up the 'long distance relationship'. On the other hand if she thinks OP is gay she may use that as an excuse to get more handsy on OP since it "means nothing".
/r/MGTOW20/05/16 12:08 AM
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I think their underlying assumption is that women perverts and pedophiles don't exist.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 03:37 AM
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It is interesting that this sort of articles are picking up steam now. For a long time it seemed that society was happy just acting as if dad's were second rate parents, or unnecessary for raising children. I'm kind of impressed this was actually written by a mother. Though I wonder if she would also be comfortable having a mixed gender parent and child group for parents (similar to mommy and me clubs), I think a lot of people prefer catering to the comfort of a few particular women over what is…
/r/MensRights27/04/16 03:01 AM
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I think it is important to talk about strategy. One of the problems I see bringing up mens issues is that the narrative has been so painted by feminists as misogyny, just bringing it straight up will get you accusations of trying to derail the discussion or trying to promote rape, as often happens. As you've correctly pointed out the campaign seems to deliberately leave out certain scenarios where consent could be lacking and not mentioned. I would honestly start by framing any communication wit…
/r/MensRights05/03/16 11:23 PM
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It seems to me part of the issue comes from taking the opposite side of feminists in some cases. Feminists are opposed to the presumption of innocence until proven guilty in rape cases for example, most MRAs would say that suspending the presumption of innocence is bad regardless of the crime and that the burden of proof on the state is basic part of how we set up our laws. Taking that position leads to charges of being anti-feminist and misogynist since you're siding with "the rapists" and so o…
/r/MensRights03/03/16 09:53 PM
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I don't think it is easy for legislators to feel sympathy for boys that are in juvenile corrections, so despite the obvious fact that they should be free from rape by those that confine them there, society, especially lawmakers seem to act based on how much sympathy they have for the victim. I doubt that will change much.
/r/MensRights03/03/16 09:44 PM
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I'm a software developer working in Silicon Valley. I like the work I do, even if it doesn't have that much prestige.
/r/MGTOW24/02/16 04:24 PM
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Am I incorrect about the meaning of the word beta? I thought that meant any male that was not an alpha male according to society.
/r/MGTOW24/02/16 04:21 PM
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With the heterosexual male and female population being roughly the same (actually in countries with good health systems men outnumber women up until age 35) for men to be hypergamous some men would have to not get married.
/r/MGTOW11/02/16 09:33 AM
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My birthday is also on the 12th, between Valentine's Day, people going on vacation for Presidents Day Weekend, and Superbowl Sunday I have trouble finding a time to have a party with friends.
/r/MGTOW10/02/16 07:07 AM
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Feminism as it is used in language, not the dictionary, is not about equality, but about improving things for women wherever possible. Hence why the poster said that.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 03:22 AM
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Ultimately the insistence that women lack agency, therefore not responsible for anything they choose to do, is problematic. Such things would suggest that women would need to be supervised. I don't understand why feminists insist on this idea of women.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 11:55 PM
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I'm surprised that is considered enough evidence to be beyond a reasonable doubt. But I supposed if the accused is a man, and the accuser is a woman, such legal standards are not held. :(
/r/MGTOW23/12/15 08:32 PM
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You don't have to answer this, but did you get adopted at some point?
/r/MensRights23/12/15 05:56 PM
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That I think about those guys, or that they are not being adopted. I've debated becoming a foster parent, but a single guy living in a condo is not on the top of their list. I also worry they might think I have alternate motivations.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 05:56 PM
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Thanks for posting this. There is a lot of problems with misandry in society and that affects many boys (a lot of men have are older and know how to deal with the hate better). The thing is a lot of boys are not that strong or in a position where they can just roll with the punches, but still affected by misandry. It sickens me that some people will celebrate their hate for boys and men.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 05:10 AM
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So that makes it okay, the guy should go to jail?
/r/MensRights22/12/15 11:12 PM
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Or was born without one because of hormonal issues like 5-alpha-reductase deficiency? Sounds like in the UK if a woman consents to sex with someone they must be fully open about any genital issues (and possibly STDs?) before having sex otherwise it is assault? I doubt that would work in the case where the "victim" is male.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 11:10 PM
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I'm not that familiar with the UK, so correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think if a woman did the same she would automatically get a pass. Doesn't feel to me like an instance were men are facing bias. Again please correct me if I'm wrong, as I don't know that much about the UK and extradition.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 11:01 PM
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You're going to excuse what she is doing because the guy is trans... ok, that's your opinion. I'm not going to tell you to GTFO, but seriously you're grasping at straws to excuse this woman.....
/r/MensRights22/12/15 10:57 PM
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First of all, I don't like how they handle this guy's identity, if the guy is transgender, he is still a guy. Does he not disclosing the details of his genitals really constitute assault. I am not familiar enough with British law to say, but it does seem like she decided that since he didn't disclose his physical condition that she did not consent after the fact. Is that really how it works, consent can be conditional, and if you're not 100% honest about somethings, then it can be rescinded and …
/r/MensRights22/12/15 10:26 PM
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I would hope that people would have more sympathy for the issues that men and boys are dealing with. Not everyone is as fortunate as they are. Some boys have developmental issues, some boys don't get adopted from foster care. This doesn't mean you should "throw rocks at them" or take pride in causing them to cry over their lack of parents. These are boys for goodness sake. Yeah, they may want to propagate the hate against them just for being boys "Misandry's here to stay, boys. Get used to it." …
/r/MensRights22/12/15 09:02 PM
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I mostly have it in mutual funds. I bought a condo last year so it means I have a lot of money basically invested in local real estate, since condos are crazy expensive. But most of my retirement funds are in mutual funds. A lot of these suggestions are not so great, buying gold is about as good as buying bitcoin, both are purely speculatively driven, similar for other metals.
/r/MGTOW22/12/15 08:49 PM
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I guess it goes against the whole SJW privilege theory to accept that some boys may need help. It is sad that it is getting adopted as a cultural standard. :(
/r/MGTOW22/12/15 08:45 PM
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I've never been in a relationship long enough to bother bringing them to see my family on Xmas. And at least they don't bother me about it. I don't see why family would get in your case. I would just tell them, none of my relationships are such that I would bring them to Xmas, if that changes I will let you know. Pressuring me will make any future relationships hard, trust me.
/r/MGTOW22/12/15 08:43 PM
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I always end up playing the nice guy. Anytime people give me stories of how hard they have it I fall for it. Eventually I get told to get lost, usually I don't care. There are the few times, women, or strangers have made fun of me after the fact, and that hurts. I guess they are making fun of people like me. I guess I step into that everytime, too much sympathy for other people. :(
/r/MGTOW22/12/15 08:37 PM
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When I hear that terms misandry or male tears, I think of the boys in the foster care system that are not being adopted. I used to help tutoring some of them since I have a friend who is a social worker. They were almost all boys. I honestly don't think propagating hate for an entire 50% of the population, some of who are not as fortunate as they are is a good thing.
/r/MGTOW22/12/15 08:32 PM
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Is it weird that when I hear that term misandry or male tears, I think of the boys in the foster care system that are not being adopted. I used to help tutoring some of them since I have a friend who is a social worker. They were almost all boys.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 08:00 PM
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Is it weird that when I hear that term "male tears" I think of the boys in the foster care system that are not being adopted. I used to help tutoring some of them since I have a friend who is a social worker. They were almost all boys.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 07:57 PM
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Didn't seem to me that the author was a representative of the main feminist groups or major advocate of things like the Duluth model, but I may not have really understood that, just seemed like a woman coming from the lesbian perspective being critical of the mainstream feminist perspective. Maybe I misunderstood the author's POV?
/r/MensRights22/12/15 07:39 PM
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Feminists models have been at their core very much heteronormative, or assuming that gay couples can be ignored. The idea that there can be a male victim of abuse or a female abuser is fundamentally counter to their narrative that men are abusers and women victims of abuse. This has obviously led to a complete lack of resources for gay people to seek help from abusive relationships, this is not something they will own up to. In fact they will probably face any attempt by gay advocates to devote …
/r/MensRights22/12/15 07:17 PM
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The big problem is first feminists refuse to acknowledge any issues men have, basically they believe that acknowledging that would weaken their position of being oppressed by "the patriarchy", hence they make fun of those issues, that is why it is very popular now among feminists to make fun or light of issues affecting men, promoting misandry both in reality and as a concept to propogate. SJW is used as a label for people that believe in the privilege theory and propogate dislike of those they …
/r/MensRights22/12/15 02:32 AM
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So they are celebrating hating men? Why is hate something that should be celebrated by anyone in society?
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 10:32 PM
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Well, it doesn't look like the author bothered to look up what Men's Rights Movement is about at all. Just wanting to cast people in a bad light. "The Men's Rights Movement begins and ends with the argument that there is no pre-existing imbalance between the rights of men and women, or that if there is any injustice it is an imbalance which prejudices men." First of all that is not true. Men's Rights movement is about advancing men's rights, like women's rights movement is about advancing women'…
/r/MensRights21/12/15 09:09 PM
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I have definitely seen this, if men do something that is bad for them it is because they are stupid, or myopic, or short-sighted. If women do it is because they are pressure by parents, society or their partners. Men having a lower high school graduation rate and lower college attendance, because they are bad students, or are dumb. Women getting lower scores on tests, the tests are biased against them. Women are not responsible for what they do, but men are, is the narrative. Men not graduating …
/r/MensRights21/12/15 08:24 PM
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Wouldn't the idea of giving all parents time to be with children be better then, Facebook gives 4 months leave to both parents. I used to work at a different big tech company, and feminists were defending having women get 22 weeks off mostly for baby bonding, and men only 7, as if giving men more time off would take something away from them.
/r/MensRights21/12/15 08:20 PM
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I imagine that was totally predictable, guys are let go for things outside their control all the time, if one is going to date, they need a partner that will stick it out with them, not someone who will run the second things get tough. Unfortunately I've never met someone like that.
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 07:52 PM
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It is typically said that women earn $.70 for every $1 a man earns for the same work. Studies show that it isn't true when you talk about the same job, same experience, same working hours. But the counter argument is that women don't choose those jobs or working conditions and they have to take years off of work to take care of children, it is not a choice. I am doubtful of it not being a choice. And regardless, that shows it is not the same work. One can't expect an employer to pay people the s…
/r/MensRights21/12/15 07:11 PM
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What I don't understand is why it was your job as a teenager to do this, instead of the teacher, was this supposed to be some punishment?
/r/MGTOW19/12/15 03:26 AM
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I would've thought you would've just gotten downvoted a lot. That is crazy that you would get banned for that.
/r/MGTOW19/12/15 03:23 AM
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Is the government not providing proportionate resources for male victims of domestic violence, I would imagine if that is the case then we should lobby for change. Though I do think this would be a good donation if I knew the finances were good.
/r/MensRights19/12/15 03:20 AM
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This is great. I wish there were also one for boys as well, I don't know how if I ever have a son, I don't know how I will raise him not to hate himself for being a boy.
/r/MensRights15/12/15 11:26 PM
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I remember this from the early/mid 00s, when some people complained that advocating violence against boys is wrong feminists told them, "don't you have something better to do" essentially, I have a cousin with down syndrome so it reminded me on how he got picked on as a child. I certainly wanted them to stop selling these shirts, books, stickers, since it is just meant to bring down boys. Sure some boys can stand up for themselves, but others are very young, small, or have developmental issues. …
/r/MensRights15/12/15 06:35 PM
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If the only way to get out of paying is to file charges then he should do that, the question then is what is the statute of limitations on statutory rape. I don't think it would be reasonable to expect a 14 year old to pay child support when he can't even legally get a job.
/r/MensRights12/12/15 03:22 AM
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I would certainly say I'm left of center, especially when it comes to most social issues, same-sex marriage, contraception, sex in general should not be banned by the state. I think gender equality does sound like it would go hand in hand with that, but there are only two parties and the one to the left has chosen to back feminism against gender equality when they conflict.
/r/MensRights12/12/15 03:17 AM
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It is sad that being shy and quiet is a reason to break up, the advice though seems pretty good, stop stringing him along if ultimately you don't want him, and don't just have a baby like that.
/r/MGTOW12/12/15 02:27 AM
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Most men don't rape anyone, in fact a very small minority of men rape anyone and are against rape of all sorts, not much will be achieved except for shaming men for having sexuality. Society shouldn't just view men as potential rapists.
/r/MGTOW12/12/15 02:23 AM
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I agree with most of the comments here, I know you want to make it a parody, or perhaps not, but I doubt most people here would oppose women's rights, except 'rights' that are really just trying to keep men down. We can oppose those by pointing out any double standards and arguing for men's rights.
/r/MGTOW12/12/15 02:20 AM
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If you increase your estrogen levels to do this there will probably be other side effects you wouldn't want, like moodiness, lowered libido, and probable impotence.
/r/MGTOW12/12/15 02:17 AM
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I sometimes wonder if humans as a species evolved to be more sympathetic to women as it increased the chances of species survival. After that women have been using that fact to their advantage it seems.
/r/MGTOW10/12/15 04:02 PM
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Minimum sentencing guidelines that cost taxpayers a lot of money has been used to remove many men from the free population, minimum sentencing does not reduce crime, it serves to decrease the number of men. Convicted people are seen as extreme predators by society, even more so than just any guy. This is a mens issue similar to suicide being a mens issue, society treats men poorly and some act out or turn to crime. If women were in that boat feminists would be complaining.
/r/MensRights10/12/15 03:32 AM
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This has always been a civil liberties/civil rights issue as long as the government is involved in it, it is a shame it got to this point, but any government basically saying they can punish without trial is a problem.
/r/MensRights10/12/15 03:26 AM
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It is exactly this, one can logically hold both views since they contradict each other, usually means one hasn't thought it through, sometimes if they have religious convictions about they will claim it makes sense without trying to think about it. How can we get people to think these things through?
/r/MensRights09/12/15 07:08 PM
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That's just going down to her level.
/r/MensRights09/12/15 07:06 PM
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"There is no racism in America, we have an African-American president", kind of like that I would imagine, many people have not taken logic courses, or other rigorous proof based math courses, or anything similar, so it is not hard for them to go through one example that confirms x proves x, but at the same time they can dismiss counterexamples as anecdotal, when it at least proves not all x.
/r/MensRights09/12/15 06:06 PM
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While it certainly seems to erase the experiences of men that have been raped, as if they didn't exist, it doesn't go to the extreme of defining rape, they use a lot of qualifying words, often, many, so on, avoiding generalizing words, all, always, never, or omissions of qualifying words to erase other victims, so at least there is that. 20 years ago none of those qualifying words would be there, at least they are not actively doing victim erasure, just passively doing it, hopefully in another 2…
/r/MensRights09/12/15 06:01 PM
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That would be an example of culture regarding or surrounding rape, but to say culture surrounding something is x culture makes it sound like there is a subculture aspect to it, as if there were rape enthusiasts. Car culture, hacker culture, gamer culture, geek culture, there are people that enjoy certain activities get together talk about it, participate in it, is the claim that there is something similar regarding rape, is there an underground rape convention? Words and language are there to co…
/r/MGTOW09/12/15 05:46 PM
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Using your definition of love, then the only people my age I have ever loved or loved me are two of my best friends, when people speak of love I don't think they are talking about that, romantic love is what people think of when they say love, and it has its own cultural meaning separate from your definition.
/r/MGTOW09/12/15 05:38 PM
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Janet Halley has written a lot about making sure colleges dont punish without process, while her original article in the Harvard Law Review leaves things vague on purpose I dint think she would outright lie about it. Anyway, interesting NY Times article: http://mobile.nytimes.com/2015/09/13/magazine/the-return-of-the-sex-wars.html?referer=
/r/MensRights29/11/15 09:02 AM
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What can we do as people to show that men also deserve sympathy? The biggest issue is that men are not seen as people to sympathize with, and that their problems are all of their making. There is also the idea that men are inherently a threat, so you wouldn't help one out as you instinctively have your guard up. What can people do do change these attitudes?
/r/MGTOW28/11/15 04:08 AM
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The teacher mentions that she thinks the Legos are important to the children's development in the article, but at the same time she makes it clear that boys will never be allowed to play with them. So either there is cognitive dissonance, or she literally believes that boys shouldn't be allowed to develop those skills. I would say this is fundamentally unfair, these boys have done nothing to deserve a purposeful inferior education. Studies show that early education is important in brain developm…
/r/MGTOW28/11/15 04:04 AM
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The teacher mentions that she thinks the Legos are important to the children's development in the article, but at the same time she makes it clear that boys will never be allowed to play with them. So either there is cognitive dissonance, or she literally believes that boys shouldn't be allowed to develop those skills. I would say this is fundamentally unfair, these boys have done nothing to deserve a purposeful inferior education. Studies show that early education is important in brain developm…
/r/MGTOW28/11/15 04:04 AM
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Life can be lonely without company, without dating women men (not all men, some men date other men) can feel unfulfilled romantically, sexually and sometimes socially. Granted often in my experience I feel like I am playing a role I'm supposed to play instead of enjoying myself, but what option would you suggest?
/r/MGTOW28/11/15 03:52 AM
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Men, once they are down like this for any reason society treats them badly. In general, not always, but the majority of the time is a man is in a bad situation the presumption is thrashing he and only he is responsible for his situation. When it comes to women, homeless women for example people have more sympathy, and think in part it is society's fault, this is why even though men outnumber women among the homeless, there are more shelters for homeless women than homeless men. These people were…
/r/MensRights28/11/15 01:56 AM
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By that logic trans women would be very hated and trans men only slightly so. Okay, actually that seems to correspond to anecdotal evidence, and stories in the media, so at it is reinforced by that. I do think it stems a lot from the idea that men should only behave in certain ways and women have certain rights only exclusive to them and men shouldn't try to get any of those. Any man acting outside those norms was traditionally responded with violence, that is no longer the case in most develope…
/r/MensRights16/07/15 03:50 PM
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Domestic violence has been thought of in society, including the police, as a man assaults a woman for so long, that even as gay and lesbian couples became more open, when it comes to DV in such couples it has been underreported or completely ignored. Many times the police does not know what to do, because for a gay male couple, they can't see either party as a victim of domestic abuse, and for a lesbian couples, they can't think of either as a perpetrator of the violence, so they have done nothi…
/r/MensRights04/06/15 05:20 AM
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Until almost all the low hanging fruit is tackled the gender gap in terms of lifespan will continue to decrease. For years men haven't done that well taking care of their health (for personal reasons, societal reasons, the fact that they don't get educated about their health, take big risks sometimes), but a lot of what has reduced the gap are things that public health, worker safety and consumer advocates have helped address. The truth is that a ton of men used to die at work, a ton of men died…
/r/MensRights31/05/15 06:13 PM
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I guess it is interesting that a gay couple is bringing this up, because I guess most dads are okay with being seen as the secondary parent and asking the mom to change the diapers when they are shopping? And I guess you can't do that if you're a gay couple, or a single dad.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 07:58 PM
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