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RANTcarobonara/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 01:47 AM
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DISCUSSIONcarobonara/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:53 AM
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this made me cackle because you are Me !! min yoongi is the only man who gets a height pass. let’s be real - it’s not that i’d go for a guy who’s 5’10, it’s that i’d go for min yoongi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:15 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:56 PM
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Wow this thread is ... wow!! I’m Australian, so have a perfunctory “my mileage will vary” disclaimer. I got the Mirena hormonal IUD when I was 17 years old. Was (am) a virgin, had never had a boyfriend and wasn’t intending to get one - my periods were just that bad. I don’t have PCOS, don’t have any fibroids, but Levlen hormonal birth control wasn’t doing its job and I would be incapacitated for weeks with irregular and painful, heavy periods. I had a fantastic GP who referred me to a fantastic …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:39 AM
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Okay but baybie ... with All the love and respect ... what is you doing?? do you not have privacy settings on your facebook so that he wouldn’t be able to like your photos?? I guess I can understand not having a private Instagram but after the first “like” it’s clear he’s wanting to reach out so maybe block him again?? And really ... two grown-ass adults communicating regarding a relationship in memes?? You gave this dude MULTIPLE boundaries to cross and let him walk all over them. I’m so very g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:06 AM
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“I prefer to talk and communicate with someone about it than have sex.” Oh, great! So I guess he prefers talking to physical acts. 🥰 Dickhead. Figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:55 PM
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I’ve been rewatching Grey’s Anatomy (don’t judge me) and a quote from nice guy George struck me. He’s broken up with a girl because she gave him syphilis, and she’s trying to get back with him. He isn’t having it. He is, of course, single-mindedly focused on getting Meredith Grey to love him. So eventually he gets the stones to tell syphilis girl what’s up: “There’s this other girl. And frankly, I wouldn’t care if she gave me the ebola virus.” Now, Meredith has been nothing but herself around Ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:52 AM
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Lives with an (supposedly) ex-girlfriend. YEET. Tailgates. Sings the n-word with no hesitation. You’re white, Neil. Says he “could never imagine life without you”. That’s a manipulation tactic and it’s nasty. Makes absolutely no move to introduce you to his friends, even if you’ve met his family. Dude’s ashamed of something, and you don’t wanna find out what. Regularly talks about his “depression”. No minimisation of mental health struggles here, but I’ve found that male depression often ends up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:40 AM
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I’m so glad you found it helpful! Honestly, I struggle so much with this concept as well - sometimes it gets to a stage where I think “well what is the POINT of this anyway?! why not just shack up with 5 poodles and a bee farm and be done with it all?” People can be disheartening. Men? Far more so. It takes a strong will, limitless patience and unshakeable standards to venture into the dating game nowadays. You have to at least know exactly what you don’t want, and be absolutely unwilling to com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:43 AM
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Someone else from Queensland! What’s with all the QLD bashing? 😟 It can definitely be hard to find quality men, as is the case anywhere. I live about 5 hours away from Brisbane, but have honestly had more success in my regional town than in the city. Men in the city wear more suits, gel their hair, talk the talk, but have a lot of trouble walking the walk. Uni in the big city was the worst dating experience of my life - so many LVM posturing as HVM. They take their clothes to their parents’ to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:08 AM
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I’m not OP, so I hope you don’t mind my commenting as well! I stan BTS hardcore, and take an interest in idol culture, but am definitely not particularly attracted to Asian men. In fact, due to male Asian cultural expectations and my own height/personality preferences, I tend to consider everyone on a case-by-case basis and restrict my appreciation to “idols only” because they represent a (generally) safe and unattainable ideal. My love of BTS is completely seperate from my romantic interests. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:49 AM
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While I can very much appreciate your comment, as makeup gives me a sense of confidence as well, what we have to examine as women trying to do and be better is why does it give us confidence? Our choices don’t exist in a vacuum. There’s a reason we feel “better” with makeup on than without. Whether that’s because we see it as a form of self-care, or because it makes our lashes look longer, or our lips look plumper, or it hides our acne - there are identifiable and quantifiable reasons that trace…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:12 AM
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The “yeontan” in your name gave me a clue, and I checked your post history to make sure I wouldn’t make a fool of myself if I made references 😅 As a fellow BTS stan, they really are the standard I love to hold myself and others up to - kindness, dedication, passion for life, all the good stuff. They make me happy and they fill my life with joy 🥰 I hope you get the same wonderment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 12:43 AM
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Well then I’m glad positive change has come about - the flairs seem to have been altered, so my assumptions are moot! Thank you for explaining this to me ☺️ I hope you have a lovely day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:25 PM
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I am Very fresh to this sub, and relatively fresh to the concept of Reddit overall - please take my following opinion with a lot of love and the understanding that I know Nothing in the grand scheme of things! I see the flairs, ranging from (correct me if I’m wrong) “PICK ME PROBATION” to “Ruthless Strategist”, as indicative of a yardstick to which we can measure that user’s frame of reference when commenting/posting, as judged by the mods who run the FDS sub. What I mean is that when someone wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:00 PM
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Yikes. This triggered me. I shared my “virginity” with the man I just blocked and after we do the deed he tells me he loves me - “but not in the Romeo & Juliet way”. I’m sorry, what? Next morning he’s gazing into my eyes, we’re having a Moment™️, and again he says he loves me - I smile, kiss him, close my eyes to enjoy the birdsong, and he feels the need to clarify with “but only in, like, a super-best-friend way”. Excuse me while I furiously put All my clothes back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:44 AM
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Baby. This guy ain’t it. Pump some MIC Drop, scream “all the bad men cop out” to Anpanman, have a cry to Fake Love, and pick yourself up to I’m Fine. Namjoon wouldn’t do you like this, and that’s the standard we’re holding ourselves to these days. You’re worth so much more than he’s telling you how to feel. Block him immediately; put your phone in a drawer. Write out everything you don’t like about him. Drink some water, eat a vegetable, have a good sleep, and wake up ready to do whatever truly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:10 AM
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Hey, thank you for this post. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. As someone with trauma™️, this just helped me realise that him being respectful and considerate of my boundaries should... not be hailed as revolutionary? Just because my confirmation bias has played a loop in my head saying that “all men” will violate consent, doesn’t mean it’s true. Finding someone who’s pleasant enough and takes his time and asks if I’m okay should be the rule, not the exception. It just proves that they’re ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:52 AM
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exactamundo~ “see, you’re overreacting! i declared you as my property to this person we’ll never see again!! accept these crumbs!!!! stop being unreasonable!!!!!” that’s great, kevin, but you still won’t let us eat out in public because you’re worried your peers could see us together and you’ll have to accept that i might exist in your life. no more drive-thru dates under the cover of darkness for these losers 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:22 AM
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you’re welcome honeybun! i wrote it weeks ago to paste to my own forehead - if you glean insight too then at least now we’re both on the right track 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:12 AM
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It’s a “catch-all” phrase that commends immature and degenerate behaviour in men while simultaneously shifting the duty of labour on women to pick up the slack and maintain humanity’s decency. It codifies males’ unevolved dickheadery as “cute” and “necessary” because “they’re just boys!!” when really they’re usually fully-grown adults who should be making smarter choices and washing their own dang clothes. To me it sparks the same fury as “girls just mature faster!” - no, we’re forced to. We’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:23 AM
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hunni smack some gold eyeshadow and red lipstick on to go wow those losers ,, we stan a babyface Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 01:15 AM
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Honeybee, you’ve gotta a) KNOW what your boundaries are, and b) be more than firm in enforcing them with him. If you know you’re intoxicated and he’s sober, speak to him before getting to your house and say that you’re uncomfortable doing anything of a sexual nature because of the power imbalance (or something along those lines). More than that, he sounds like a pile of red flags. He would have seen you drinking alcohol, known he was sober, and any man of value would have put 2+2 together to und…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:06 AM
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“How many people have you slept with?” “Not you if you ask me that again.” ((This is a joke. The correct answer is some form of “why does it matter?”))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 03:17 AM
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recent peak queen? I formed a silly little crush on this guy a year younger than me at college earlier this year. He seemed so sweet! Tall, handsome, kinda dorky, deep voice, my sense of humour, you know. We started spending class and lunch times together (what is this, high school?) and seemed to be hitting it off. We went to our town’s carnival and watched a few movies at his house. I was looking at him with such rose-tinted glasses that all the red flags just looked like flags. Well, spoiler …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:49 AM
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🚴🏻‍♀️🚴🏻‍♀️🚴🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:03 AM
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Don’t we all ?? Thank you, sugar 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:03 AM
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You are Absolutely correct there !! However I’ve made a decision to spend this time working on myself - I’m in a perfect position to do so !! My small town has very few tolerable OLD options and occupying myself with men is nowhere on my priority list right now !! However, finishing my employment course? Getting a kickass job? Beating my personal bests at the gym? Writing a book of poems? Buying my mama something pretty for her birthday? That‘ll occupy my time far better than this d*ckhead ever …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:02 AM
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Baybie, first off, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Our emotions can lead us astray when we’re not thinking clearly and it sounds like you deeply invested in this man who doesn’t deserve your time or energy. u/ino_yo has already posted some fantastic resources, and I encourage you to really advocate and work for yourself during this period of deep emotion. YOU are your BEST companion, and you deserve to find ways to enjoy your own company. Other than that, all I can offer is the standard …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:10 AM
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Making a note of this !! Thank you, sugarplum 🌱💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:00 AM
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!! I made a “con” list just yesterday and wreowza,, how have I been putting this man on such a pedestal ?? My theory is he knows how worthy I am of respect and admiration and as such almost... makes a mission to try and tear me down ?? Bring me to his level ?? Knock me down a few pegs ?? I don’t know but I know I don’t have the time or energy for it !! Proud of you, sister 💛🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:00 AM
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Thank you for your support sweetpea !! I am overwhelmed with sisterhood and feel lighter already 🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:57 AM
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I already love it ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:56 AM
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He worked/lived by himself in the city through his Uni degree then got a medical internship in his parents’ coastal town ! It was a convenience thing and made sense (I also live with my parents so can’t throw shade there) but yes, he also exhibits man child tendencies. No excuses here!! Thank you honey 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:56 AM
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dumped and dusted 🤙🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:40 AM
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Ding ding ding !! We have a winner !! 5 years of stringing me along under the guise of “”best friendship”” and “”you’re someone I could see myself dating when I’m ready for a relationship””. There’s a lot more I could elaborate on but I’m just... done. Blockedt !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:38 AM
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Being single is the perfect time to focus on self-improvement when you’re not beholden to the whims or desires of another person/potential partner. So start healthy habits now: that way you’ll feel stronger and more secure in yourself when you’re dating again! Head to the gym to smash your personal bests. Read that book you’ve been putting off for months - in fact, establish a library schedule. Start self-defence classes! Write those poems you’d feel self-conscious about if someone were to see y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:16 PM
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