| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 502 | The importance of lying about your disfunctional family | STRATEGY | chamomilepill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | For my fellow kpop fans. Lyrics are FDS back to back. | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | chamomilepill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | If that's not your man's mentality, he is not HV | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | chamomilepill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The anti-narcisist hymn | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | chamomilepill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Dodged a MAJOR bullet | FDS SUCCESS! | chamomilepill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Learn with Sabrina Dahri: Walk away from arguments! | LEVEL UP | chamomilepill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:11 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 27 | Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks?Dude threw a fit and threatened me with the cold shoulder because I wanted to cut my hair 🤡. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 5 | I caught my father watching porn. How should I address this?When I was a kid with 0 filters I exposed all the porn sites my dad visited to the whole family LMAO But sadly it didn't change anything, no matter what you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 59 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meSounds like he is fake-futuring you. The most sensible thing to do would be to drop the business and take a stable job. Huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Queens, what are your plans for NYE?I'm dogsitting a lovely puppy. We are both gonna chill and watch movies, just the two of us. Finally some peace! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:35 PM |
| 22 | Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk"Look for that father when you are dating. Would your husband go above his son to make sure he gets accountability for the women he destroyed? When in doubt, you know your answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 5 | To those who were cheated on and took back their exes for a “second chance” how did it change you emotionally/mentally? What gave you the strength to leave?He love bombed me and practically begged me to take him back. When he returned to his old self, I started grey rocking because I was depressed and resented him for wasting my time yet again. He freaked out and broke up with me over a made-up excuse. I was so done I didn't even try to make him stay. I have 0 patience for men now. People call me bitter and angry but I am actually done with being anyone's doormat and started standing up for myself. I've been really lonely, but I'm finally free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Online dating just to practice or learn FDS?I tried to use it for practice, but the amount of anger and disgust made it not worth it. It's better to vet in real life, because ghosting a guy you met online is much easier than doing it with a guy you already been with. You can make sure you are ripe by practicing FDS standarts with male colleagues, male relatives, even female friends. Those are a bit more similar to real life dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:06 PM |
| 11 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?My NVX immediately went on to fuck women he met on twitter Trash beings that are ruled by their libido | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:04 PM |
| 35 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.The first two ones are my real needs since I'm autistic and a man needs to accommodate. All the next ones are trash. Avoidant men also need a partner to do all the social labor to keep his family/friend group from falling apart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 31 | I know a pickme had to swipe right on him. 🤮Why does men think this is a good thing to say to women? WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK Just saw one on OLD that said "everyday I get fatter and balder" like ok???? Do you still expect to match with someone???? What is this??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:36 AM |
| 169 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”We are definetly not supposed to be paranoid and sniffing for lies all the time, but we get punished for not doing it. I'm still not over the extreme gaslighting, humiliation and sexual coercion from my last NVX. FDS gives us leverage for our protection. In an ideal world, we shouldn't be punished for trusting men, but this world is not ideal and it's cruel out there. You can't go to war without armory, and that's why FDS is here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:50 PM |
| 15 | My milkshakes bring HVM to the yard!Honestly, Kpop idols ruined dating to me. I always think men are ugly compared to them. I have yet to see a man wear a suit as flawlessly as Lee Min Ho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 115 | My milkshakes bring HVM to the yard!Besides all you said: he must have a head full of hair, look good in a suit and smell good. I love me a man who uses a good perfume. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 115 | If he tells you to swallow his cum, tell him to swallow your period blood :)My NVX saw my stomach churn when he came in my mouth and didn't warn me He LIKED me being disgusted and about to throw up Wanting to have jizz swallowed is humiliation more than anything, always refuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 08:57 PM |
| 18 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Can I just say something? If he has a "performance anxiety" it is already a red flag. It's all in the name: he is performing. Sex that's performative derives from porn. A HVM knows the basics to make you cum: kisses well, has the right amount of pressure in his hands, he can find the clit and rub it. It's not rocket science. If you think he might have a performance anxiety, dump him. He is not an artist, he shouldn't be performing shit while having sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 06:06 AM |
| 80 | No one inherently HV or LV. We are what we repeatedly do.This is so necessary, I feel like all of us carry this burden on our backs like "I must have missed something, he was HV until this happened" How you said, we can't read minds nor blame ourselves. When he turns into LV, have the means to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 80 | I mean… I can’t disagree.The only circumstance you are to blame for not orgasming (shit, forgot to buy batteries!!) Loved this LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Taking your time from day 1.HE is courting YOU so the rules are completely yours. That is a good tactic to weed out LVM too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 15 | Rapist redemption on TVThe same thing happened to Bryce in 13 reasons why. I was SO dissappointed at Selena Gomez for making us feel bad because Bryce is "a human being!! And he regretted!!". Guess what? Not nearly enough of the BARE MINIMUM to earn redemption. This feels like a knife to my back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 36 | Role of a therapistI only had one male therapist. He encouraged me to break up with my NVX very clearly. He could see I was suffering and my ex's behaviours were abusive. I changed therapists because of different reasons, but he was decent. He is a unicorn among the majority of shitty therapists. If a male or female therapist does not advice you to break up with your partner or AT LEAST call the behaviour what it is - abuse - change therapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 3 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)So sad my comments were getting upvotes, reddit banned me for quoting Andrea Dworking Reddit despises women, urgh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 01:38 PM |
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