| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | The absolutely easiest way to get laid now a days.Being upfront and not being worried about rejection is definitely a really great strategy. The problem most guys face is worrying about their reputation for other reasons in life such as career or social purposes. I completely agree though that this is a great strategy if you have no fear of bad labels. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I always never strived for either at any given time. If a girl came along I really wanted to hook up with I hooked up with her. If a girl came along I thought I wanted a relationship with then I did that. I never understood people who closed off the possibility of either at any given time. I felt this strategy worked well for me so maybe it will work for you. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Shit testing about other datesNot really, he’s right. Purposefully trying to invoke jealousy like OP is describing is a huge character flaw that shouldn’t just be overlooked. Since when is vetting potential partners for favorable character traits considered acting in a bitter manner? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Hit it raw, condom sex is overrated*Getting a massage in a winter coat. Shoutout Ari Shaffir | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 12:14 AM |
| 5 | How can i become hook up material ? M30I’ve had the same issue and there are a few things that help other than trying to alter your appearance to make you seem more “bad boyish.” The first is escalating faster/being more sexually forward faster. Being sexually hesitant makes you seem uncomfortable with sex which gives a big non-promiscuous vibe. The second thing is not necessarily showing the side of you that is responsible/rational all the time. Doing this too much can give you a “provider” vibe. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s true actors definitely get blacklisted for saying non-pc shit. They can definitely get away with saying really dumb shit in general though as long as it’s pc. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 09:01 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]If you aren’t already rich or do not get rich by being famous it is unlikely you will be able to ever act like that without it negatively impacting your life. If I’m not mistaken I think Dan inherited all of his money so reputation or employment is never something he’s had to worry about. The other way is becoming wealthy by doing something where your reputation does not matter notice how nobody cancels fighters, actors or other celebrities that are contractors vs employees. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 08:53 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]I think the best general rule is to meet up in person as soon as possible. Getting to know someone in person is so much more valuable than texting everyday. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 02:19 PM |
| – | Never I repeat NEVERUsually a super obvious sign they are not even close to being over their ex. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:01 AM |
| – | I [22M] just graduated from college and now it feels really weird to try and talk with college freshmenDon’t feel pressured to sleep with someone you don’t want to sleep with, you have nothing to prove to anyone man. It’s very natural to not want to sleep with someone who isn’t as mature as you. Im 22 and I get the same feeling about a lot of 18 year old women but then sometimes I get the feeling that a given 18 year old women is way more mature than me. Bottom line, if you don’t want to sleep with someone don’t sleep with someone regardless of what the reason is. You don’t have to justify your d… | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 5 | On being nervous; this sub loves to talk about importance of never feeling nervous, but industry giants like Mark Manson and Mystery will openly admit to being nervous during approaches. So which is it?“Don’t be nervous” translates to don’t act nervous. You will inevitably be nervous, nerves by very definition aren’t something you can control. But it’s best to act and approach even though you are nervous. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women?You might not be allowed to depending on the bar I was lucky enough to be somewhere were all the bars were notorious for letting in and sometimes even serving underage kids but not everywhere is like that. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:51 PM |
| – | Where do I meet women?I think I only met one friend in college through class. All of my other friends were from a shared interest group (sports team) and meeting people at bars. So from personal experience I would say join a club/team of some sort and go to bars/parties. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | (UK) I graduated from university this year and I’m planning on getting some experience in my career first, then might head back for masters - any advice?I’m doing something similar right now. The maturity factor comes in to some extent but not as much as you would think. I attribute this to college aged girls not being the most rational of all creatures. The biggest thing is what you’re getting your masters in. I’m in a pre professional program that is highly competitive, prestigious and makes people think of high paying careers when they hear it so it helps quite a bit for my game. I’m not sure if it would have the same weight if it didn’t have… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 05:27 AM |
| 26 | How do I get more witty?Exaggeration and sarcasm. Just work on making up outlandish stories to anything then spend time explaining them. Jerry Seinfeld said “Comedy is just saying something completely outrageous then explaining why it’s true” You should have just made up some crazy story what happened at the alter then when she laughs smirk and say “I don’t know why you are laughing I’m being completely serious” | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 07:37 PM |
| – | If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you?If she overtly comes on to you and you stop her from having sex she may not be happy about it. I’ve found from personal experience however that if the woman is just fielding the moves as you make them and you go on one or two dates or hangouts first without sex there is a higher likelihood she perceives you as good for a long term relationship. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Does being charming ever become second nature?I think instead of trying to be charming which generally results in bad premade lines everyone can tell you planned it’s better if the goal is to have fun with everyone. Try your best to simply put a smile on peoples faces, even people you have no romantic aspirations with and as you begin to get more confident with that you can simply add in boldness when you want to become sexually attractive. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have tips or examples for moving Tinder connections to IRL quickly without coming off as pushy?My most recent success of a girl coming to hang out with me straight from tinder I began and kept the frame that she was trying to convince me to hangout with her rather than the opposite. Take this with a grain of salt though as she could have already decided that night she wanted to hangout with someone and I’m getting fooled by randomness to think I did anything special. Other than that I usually get a Snapchat and just try to banter once or twice then casually get them to agree to drinks and… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 4 | How should you respond if a girl asks you if you are talking to other girls? (Whether or not you are)Exaggeration. “Yes, I’m talking to 1 million girls” | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Do yall like when other guys are jealous that you have more success with the girls in the room and can feel those guys seething lmaoBetter yet is women in the room getting jealous that you are vibing so well or flirting with other women. | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 04:31 PM |
| – | If you were to recommend your favorite book to read what would it be?Models by Mark Manson is the single best game book imo. Instead of trying to teach you disingenuous lines and techniques to memorize, it analyzes underlying factors as to why people struggle with women. It’s really more of a self help book disguised as pickup. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Suggested Novels? Not pick up booksThe Story of My Life by Giacomo Casanova is practically a game journal of one of the greatest historical PUAs ever. As far as it’s entertainment value goes it’s not the greatest novel I’ve read but it’s not bad and is related to pick up. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 02:24 PM |
| – | What is the most effective method for meeting woman while travelling? Building max attraction in the shortest amount of time.I think the best bet would be to meet them in more pretentious places like a club or bar but then throw a sort of curveball and instead of going straight to drunken sex have a long discussion about something people find “deep” think universe, life, broad shit like that that people feel mindfucked by. This makes you seem more interested in them on a more than sexual level which usually has the desired effect you are going for. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on pursuing woman with a boyfriend?I’ve never outright pursued a girl with a boyfriend but I have been pursued by a girl with a boyfriend who had developed feelings for me. We had sex once but also just hung out and co slept together a lot. Eventually it just faded and nothing bad came from it for either of us. That being said in general my experience is that girls that are willing to cheat on their boyfriends usually hide the fact until after the deed is done so you never know until it’s too late. In my opinion if this happens t… | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 03:30 AM |
| – | I’ve Come a Long Ways Because of this Community big thanksI rarely meet during the day but when I do I usually screen for women that I can tell would be down for something more casual. I rarely go on real dates, and if I think a girl will be down during the week I’ll just invite her to come watch a movie or something. One trick I learned if you are comfortable enough is to offer to go to her house or room because then she will feel less uncomfortable. Otherwise I usually invite a girl I didn’t meet at the bar or party to come to a bar or party with me.… | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 12:13 AM |
| – | I’ve Come a Long Ways Because of this Community big thanksYes I am a college student so mainly bars and parties unless a girl really strikes me in a different place. My biggest thing was that like I said my confidence and self esteem was at an all time low. So for me I really needed to work on my mental health and inner game. Other than that learning to shrug off rejection and not let it bother you was a big thing for me. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Simple line to flip the script - now she's the one chasing me. Steal it and use as often as you can!I’ve always found statements like this to be an effective way to flirt. I was once playing a drinking game and this attractive girl that I met that day targeted me to make me drink a couple times and she said “it’s just because you are the easiest target right now.” I then said “You are definitely trying to get me drunk to take advantage of me, I know your ways.” She smirked and blushed a lot but nothing came of it until later after I had left she was asking everybody where I went trying to find… | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 02:47 AM |
| 4 | [inexperienced 18M] signed up for tinder matched with a girl not sure where to startEveryone always says “talk about something in her bio” but I’ve never had much luck with that. I’ve always had luck with coming out with such an outrageously cheesy pickup line that she knows it’s a joke and usually send back something along the lines of “lol that’s so funny.” I then say “wow finally a girl with a decent sense of humor” even though they all react the same, and send the clapping Drake gif. Bitches love the clapping drake gif. Them they send in some other cliche ass message and I … | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 03:19 AM |
| 3 | With a boyfriend and she's moving back to her cityYou miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. More than likely she will not cheat on her boyfriend but if you are okay with being that type of guy then you might as well go for it doesn’t sound like you have much to lose. I was in a similar situation about a month ago but it was with a girl who had an ex boyfriend that she was still hung up on and he was desperately trying to get her back. I shot my shot and we ended up having a wonderful two week fling until she moved back and got back together wi… | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 05:05 PM |
| – | Advice on reconnecting with girl from pastWe go to different colleges she goes to one back home I go to one three hours away, she hit me up first. | /r/seduction | 06/07/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend constantly getting hit up by better looking guys than me.Well if she adheres to your wishes and is an honest person you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 03:27 PM |
| – | Girlfriend constantly getting hit up by better looking guys than me.You need to talk to your girl and tell her that you trust her to not give them the light of day and let them talk to her. My ex girlfriend immediately told them she had a boyfriend and wasn’t interested and if they continued bothering her she would tell me. I would then contact them and although I am peaceful and not a punk looking for fights I do have the advantage of being very large and intimidating so usually a polite text asking them to stop would do the trick. Other than that if you don’t … | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 05:15 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter