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He's saying let's just hypothetically assume sun rises in the east 😉
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:39 PM
47

Not only that she said -DO IT almost like an order. Nopoints for guessing the outcome if genders were reversed.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 08:43 AM
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From? If u dont mind sharing
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:54 PM
1

Yeah ..u indian?
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:53 PM
1

Raped?! Wow! Sorry to hear that.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 01:36 PM
1

How'd you know she was BPD? And did u only know that after breakup?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 07:13 AM
2

What do i do for my black shoes?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 11:46 AM
1

While i agree with the broader point you're making i refuse to give a free pass to women just because they're women. Women may be like children but they're not exactly children. At the very least i'd expect them to behave like mature adults.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:56 AM
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Definitely agree to this. Got it done myself ..HT is worth it.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 11:29 AM
2

How to get my first job? : • have 5 years work ex
/r/seduction04/04/18 09:26 AM
1

Very well put post esp things like race/other stuff matters but not something you can control. Gives a more realistic/practical view ..Kudos 👍🏾
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 07:18 AM
1

Truer words havent been spoken. Google Salman Khan he does the same in India.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 09:01 AM
148

4D chess by the guy ..OP got conned 😂😂
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 12:58 PM
4

Curious - how do you figure out redflags in the beginning of the relationship when you barely know her?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 09:18 AM
1

?
/r/seduction04/02/18 08:27 PM
1

Sure but did u meet/look at the chics?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 08:17 AM
2

Lol dream on bro...ppl dont really worship NRIs in india anymore ...
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 12:25 PM
5

Also the bar scene where he kisses runckle and then beating up the guy who called him gay is the epitome of alphaness!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:01 AM
2

Right on muthafuckaaaaaaaa!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:01 AM
8

I ROFLed at ' cuz you dead nigga'
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:20 PM
1

Attorney's office?
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:42 PM
2

Yep ..could have been an IOI but definitely could have got her number if i was in your place.
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:30 PM
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Show intent early on
/r/seduction06/12/17 11:48 AM
1

Cool..thanks mate!
/r/seduction06/12/17 09:49 AM
1

Cool ..ping me the website link
/r/seduction06/12/17 09:36 AM
1

Bootcamp? By whom?
/r/seduction06/12/17 09:32 AM
1

You in bangalore?
/r/seduction06/12/17 09:22 AM
2

Dont forget -' love to laugh' behenchod who the fck is out there being like ' laughter? I fcking hate it!'
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:19 PM
1

This! Please tell me coz now i dont even know what a non bpd relation looks like :-(
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:40 PM
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It's okay honey ..we'll be okay honey .. If we need to get rid of some of this shit we'll get rid of it ......................,,,,,,,,,,she's talking about YOU! -Chris Rock
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:27 AM
2

I'm actually surprised as to how common bpd actually is ..
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 09:33 AM
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Any specific personality disorder?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:13 AM
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When you say 'i'm american' are you implying that most american chicks are like that? Like bang someone else pretty soon after a breakup
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 08:36 PM
1

Getting day 2's . No god damned day 2 in a year ...so many numbers though.
/r/seduction22/02/14 08:04 PM
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I am having trouble getting day2's .I can hold conversation, # close all fine.What would be one piece of advice that you think is most crucial for getting day 2s.
/r/seduction18/02/14 01:44 AM
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Cat's Anus? Props for coming up with that !:)
/r/seduction14/02/14 10:50 PM
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Or he could have a seat over there with rest of the bitches waiting for you to give a fuck.
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:52 PM
1

Thx.But as I said my main reason for switching is not girls .It is because I am not happy with it .Sometimes when I am successful with girls the unsatisfaction of my job gets masked .So i've decided to change my job and to get to the base of the problem.And it's more like while I am at it what would be a good job which is suited for more girls(since I dont know for sure where I want to switch to).You see what I am saying?
/r/seduction01/02/14 07:29 PM
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Some examples?
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:28 AM
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Because -Not enough attraction? Comfort?
/r/seduction25/01/14 07:31 PM
3

She seemed completely into it from the start Agreed.Not taking any credit away but this was what I was talking with my wingman last night.At this point the strategy is to NOT screw up.However getting her to that point is the harder part.
/r/seduction23/01/14 07:27 PM
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Good shit!I'll try infield and get back to you on this.What's your direct approach in bar btw? I find you cute and had to come say Hi?
/r/seduction22/01/14 11:51 AM
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No I don't leave after that.Sorry if it came across like that.So clearly that doesn't help.What else can be done?
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:43 AM
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How do I do this specific to the bar scene? Basically I am asking how do i shoot the attraction off the roof? I've been doing Kino DHV Humor(obviously) (No i dont mean it in a checklist kind of way I am just telling what I do may be I am missing some) My usual set would be like - Open Start some guessing like her name/nationality Get her talking When she something I like hug her say you're my new wife now Try to get her to dance.(I'm into salsa show i'll try to spin her and stuff) Ask open ended…
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:17 PM
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I think I suffer from the entertainer problem.For eg 5# in last 3 days and not one text back.How do I solve this?
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:28 PM
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wow! I'm sure he hadnt even thought about that.
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:33 AM
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"Rejection is better than regret" Golden Words my friend! Golden words!!
/r/seduction19/01/14 11:28 AM
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Yep I have the same problem as OP and was do the same thing .But my conversion ratio is dismal.
/r/seduction19/01/14 12:46 AM
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You're cute -> Wanna get coffee -> Number close -> Date. Ofcourse that's how it happens in the real world! A good article though.
/r/seduction15/01/14 06:22 PM
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Was the sex bad?
/r/seduction15/01/14 06:06 AM
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Sean Stephenson!
/r/seduction15/01/14 06:04 AM
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Although people usually wont want to admit it ..it is true that fate does play a part.So the answer is yes.But fate alone cant do anything.You need to have some skill too.So the equation is more like skill +fate.
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:31 AM
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While getting good at yourself/inner game is all fine.This above is the single most imp piece of advice .Approach and take action.
/r/seduction12/01/14 10:12 PM
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When they ask you that -just agree with an evil smirk.Agree and amplify.Easiest way for you to make the conversation sexual.
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:32 AM
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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. I agree with this.Although I am still trying to get this someone else :D I am quite convinced that it is the only way out.For the OP i was in a similar position .Was cut off without being told anything.
/r/seduction09/01/14 09:34 AM
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How about you try it and let us know how your experience was?
/r/seduction09/01/14 01:41 AM
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You've been attested desirable by another female.He hasnt.Social Proof.
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:54 AM
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Have you seen a stand up comic make a joke and it is so funny he himself cannot help but laugh during the act? That is my definition of self amusing.
/r/seduction06/01/14 10:33 PM
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I've yet to meet a super hot or even hot chic from an online site but your comment there definitely boosts my confidence .Infact the "why should she been on an online site if she's that hot" is exactly the question I ask myself.Comments like those will help me break this barrier I have in mind.I can do ok with normal chics online but any tips on getting the hotter ones out to meetup?
/r/seduction05/01/14 04:34 AM
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No shit bro! I had already saved your other post cause it was so damn similar!! (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1rt3w0/a_note_on_oneitis_outcome_independence_and_inner/) It's like your my soothsayer.Can you predict when I am going to get a hot girl next ? ;)
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:06 AM
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This matches everything ...even my oneitis' name :D " Well I think when a girl makes us feel really good the brain will make a connection that “Kelly=good feelings” but if you go a while without getting good feelings from anybody else the brain makes another connection that “Kelly=the only person that can give us good feelings” which is false. "
/r/seduction03/01/14 01:29 AM
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Yep.If you want her to not dodge the question just mention the meetup -nothing else.Usually lets you know in black and white not leaving any grey area.
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:52 AM
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Also I should mention these are not women I see everyday.If I would see them i would say a polite Hi and move on.These are mostly about women from cold approaches that dont have mutual friends etc.
/r/seduction16/12/13 08:57 PM
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This is not every girl.This is all those girls I was attracted to and wanted to go after. But for whatever reason never worked out. It was done and I am over with.So move on to the next chapter dude and just forget about them.
/r/seduction16/12/13 08:52 PM
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Speaking from my own experiences it has been the best for me when I cut off communication with them.It helps me get over them / stops their thoughts messing with my head / kinda gives a closure.Note there is no official "I wont talk to you".It's my actions which give this message.So yes IMO that is the best strategy.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:22 PM
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Thanks! While we're at it - if you want to earn money in the stock market . Buy Low Sell High.
/r/seduction11/12/13 03:09 AM
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Dude u r pretty decent looking man!
/r/seduction08/12/13 08:06 PM
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Coz I think I've havent had that many opportunities.I know I could take it past a certain stage ( after initial few dates ).Just havent got many girls (that I like) to that point.
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:58 PM
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Because then you know you closed it .It's not like it's hanging in the air and you go back to thinking will she contact me or not/should I still pursue her.Exactly the closure thing he talks about.
/r/seduction05/12/13 08:26 PM
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Ahh ! I can relate to this at so many levels!
/r/seduction05/12/13 07:21 PM
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Thanks man! Lot of those things drive home the point for me (Especially salsa one) a) So considering I want to get her out asap and also I have to show intent basically means I invite her out within the first 2-3 messages.Which means I just assume attraction if she replies and go in for the kill? (the reason I go back and forth more is to hopefully build up more common ground before asking her out so that there is more chance of acceptance) b) As mentioned above to build more comfort and find co…
/r/seduction05/12/13 09:02 AM
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Smile Try to go for the weights/same machine close to the time he does .Alternatively , ask how many sets he got left .Smile as you do this.If there is something situational comment on it .if not atleast next time you see him you can smile and that would be perfect ground for something like -How's it going or just wave.
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:45 AM
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Props for that analogy man!
/r/seduction04/12/13 09:52 AM
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Yeah in retrospect it doesnt sound quite right.
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:57 AM
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It's hard for you to see now, but years from now you're going to look back and wonder why did you care so much. This is pretty accurate.Atleast for school/college romances.
/r/seduction04/12/13 02:57 AM
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Thanks man! a) When you say not clear intentions you want me to go all in and ask her out ? Even before testing waters with like asking for her number? b)Desperate for conversation ? Hmm what part makes you think so (not being a jerk genuinely curious so I dont repeat) c) You say I dont have investment from her side.Also i should get number asap.Both seem orthogonal to me? d)The salsa thing was a DHV.Not sure how it comes across like that?
/r/seduction04/12/13 12:56 AM
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i kinda feel that sometimes.but then again everyone here is like you need to get the number in fewer messages(this above is one of the shortest convo so I dont know if there will be any transition if I even cut this number)
/r/seduction04/12/13 12:32 AM
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Thanks man! Btw I 've tried both ways.
/r/seduction04/12/13 12:31 AM
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Atleast he is honest about it.People here generally dnt want to admit that they need women or a success with them gives confidence but in reality that is the case most of the times.There is nothing wrong with that though.Genetically we r designed to work like that.
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:21 PM
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I've seen this thinking a lot and I generally dont disagree but my point is this.Genetically we are programmed to be with the other gender.So yes , we do like to work on ourselves, have hobbies etc but even after that you will need a gf/bf.No amount of lifting will make the need for a girl go away.For eg I've been following hobbies , working out all that.But I still get rejected a lot.I still keep going but it is like after u put in effort u expect results at some point .With every rejection it …
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:00 AM
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See that's my whole point .Liking them would not solve my problem right? It's like telling a hungry man to drink more water ...it's not the solution he is looking for .His problem is hunger and the solution is food.He may cover it up for some time by drinking water but what he really wants is nutrients -proteins, carbs etc.And he cant let go of hunger because that is how he was genetically designed.
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:19 AM
1

" But the damage was done – Kyle had formed feelings for her and now he couldn’t get over her." Man I can so relate to this ( and the much of the Kyle part!) .Your solution is - "The solution is to build a life where you don’t need validation from women" But being human we will be attracted to opposite sex and will need them irrespective of how good and engrossed we are in our hobbies.How do you suggest we over come this?
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:24 AM
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That's lot of shit.
/r/seduction28/11/13 12:23 AM
1

Agreed fr the most part.But if you dont know what you did wrong how do you correct it ?
/r/seduction27/11/13 02:15 AM
3

I'd like to hear too.
/r/seduction23/11/13 10:33 AM
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Agreed.Think of it like this .Every night if you were to step into a pool you would feel the cold water for a bit .But the longer you stay the more your body warms up to it .Towards the end you dont really want to come out because you feel warmer inside. Next day when you step back into the pool you'll feel cold again though :)Same for AA and momentum.
/r/seduction23/11/13 10:29 AM
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Ahh man ! I can so relate to this.If your fav stand up is Kevin Hart I think we might be long lost twins ;)
/r/seduction20/11/13 06:31 PM
1

Are you in the Bay Area?
/r/seduction09/11/13 10:51 PM
2

Agreed.Very few times is this point actually acknowledged in the PU community.Every failure is not due to us.Infact I think most of them arent.
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:51 AM
1

Omg when I read the frst para I was like wait did someone post from my account ..word to word so true bro:-)
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:22 PM
5

What do you mean by warm girls?
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:19 PM
1

Not being able to get day 2's .I get numbers fairly consistently but no day 2's.
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:16 PM
1

Thx.I didnt necessarily mean hiv but other diseases which might be transmitted with fluid(saliva?) exchange.Any info on that?
/r/seduction29/10/13 06:13 PM
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I might be a cynic but off late I've been apprehensive of even kissing random chics fearing fluid exchange.Am I overthinking?
/r/seduction29/10/13 05:13 PM
1

who shows hunger does not get to eat meaning?
/r/seduction29/10/13 12:44 AM
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I dont agree .Nobody is stopping a girl from getting a guy or settling down in her 20s.And again, relationship and career dont have to be mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:00 AM
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I dont necessarily see the hate paradigm here.Women are more beautiful and young in 20s .They have odds in their favor .They use it. Men are more powerful and more resourceful in their 30s.They have odds in their favor.They use it. Sounds fair to me.
/r/seduction26/10/13 12:08 AM
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Being with a partner and having a successful career arent mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction26/10/13 12:05 AM
3

Since you're beginner to this let me give you a Tip.Pull your phone out and the moment you say -"We should hang out blah blah" try to hand it to her like you already know she is giving it to you and it's no big deal.Even if you dont get the number this will help you get comfortable asking for it and remove that awkward belief you have right now about #close.
/r/seduction24/10/13 07:41 PM
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I dont do any of the things you said above.I get consisent # closes.Been all the way once.Personal sticking point is day 2's but I doubt it is because of any of the stuff above.
/r/seduction24/10/13 07:35 PM
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Considering that you are Indian yourself ...this speaks volumes of how insecure you are of your race. If you are going to keep feeling inferior like this you'll never succeed.I am not saying you'll change in one day .But you should atleast try like I am trying.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:46 PM
1

Yes I have that thing turned on.It's just that once in a while I have this sudden urge to visit her profile and that is what I am trying to avoid.
/r/seduction16/10/13 08:13 PM
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Is there any setting which prevents you from visiting their profile while you are still friends? (i mean i definitely control it but incase you get really tempted).I dont want to unfriend them coz that would mean I wasnt strong enough by myself to get over them.
/r/seduction16/10/13 07:39 PM
1

That seems like a good idea.I will try this next time infield.Thanks!
/r/seduction13/10/13 08:05 AM
3

Or you could be like -' Out of sight ..Out of mind'
/r/seduction12/10/13 07:43 PM
6

That is so true ! People just think that it's cool to bash mystery and be like -you should be yourself.If people were that natural they wouldn't come here.Openers , texting patterns etc are of great help to people who have no clue like newbies.So stop bashing openers ,negs,texting strategies.
/r/seduction12/10/13 07:39 PM
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Ahh just when I thought the top comment wont be ->" Anywhere/Everywhere". I am just surprised people give this kind of advice .If the OP could find them anywhere he wouldnt have come here to ask this question. @OP- Some dude here on seddit had an advice to go to wine tastings.Apparently they attract quite a good number of women.Cant find that thread now but yeah try wine tastings.
/r/seduction12/10/13 10:22 AM
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Agreed .But there got to be a limit to rejection.Contrary to what ever people might say/believe fact is that in reality rejection after rejection does hit on your confidence you admit it or not.
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:48 AM
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I get you OP.Good work.
/r/seduction09/10/13 12:05 AM
5

Also in my opinion ' kicking her out' cause she didn't give you what you wanted was not the best move.One's reactions should not be manipulated by a chic's respone.If you had called it a night and came back with that mood then that's not in agreement with what you had thought ...if you were planning to go out before she said those words then it's fine
/r/seduction06/10/13 06:20 PM
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Dont give up.I just #closed 2 chics in a night.At the beginning of this year I used to hesitate even asking for a number.
/r/seduction06/10/13 10:32 AM
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When I read the title I thought you werent going down on a girl again.
/r/seduction06/10/13 04:36 AM
1

GET A WING WHO CAN APPROACH. Best advice on this page.
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:41 AM
1

Yeah I think that would be a good experiment to try.Like become more interested in the old guy than she is and make her the outsider.Other than that I cant think of any way of handling this.
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:36 AM
1

Imho the best way to get in zone is talking to people...or as they say have warm up sets.
/r/seduction30/09/13 09:48 PM
0

Before they even say I bring it up in a funny way ....and then even if they show some dis agreement I would twist it and say something like -' oh just coz I am brown you're gonna do this to me ' ..delivered with a smile and fun body language.at the end of the day remember some chics will not like u because of your race just as you don't like some because of theirs.But the game isn't about getting them .
/r/seduction30/09/13 02:07 AM
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Downvote me all you want but I think most of the guys who come here dont have girls in their life and they need help to get them.As humans we desire company of the opposite gender so IMO i just dont get it when people say you dont need girls in your life.For majority of the folks here who pretty much have everything else but girls it is hard to not make them the center of attention or atleast focus on getting them coz that is pretty much the left out part in life. (And I dont mean just you in pa…
/r/seduction29/09/13 12:05 AM
1

Dude that last line had me ROFL! Upvoted :D
/r/seduction28/09/13 12:31 AM
1

ok cool so it is something related to emotional stability then.Cool I was thinking it might be more to do with diseases/addiction etc.Although I agree emotional unstable behavior is no good but still I am kind of relieved that it is not like some STD which might affect us more direclty.
/r/seduction26/09/13 11:18 PM
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No offence but that doesnt answer my basic question.Who is considered crazy? Is it someone with diseases? emotional issues? alcoholism? gold digger?
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:24 PM
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What exactly do you mean by "crazy"?
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:28 AM
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Ditto.I would like some opinions on how do people go about finding if their partner is clean or not? Do they directly ask them .If so is it wise to simply trust what they say? I might be a bit more apprehensive but these are some of my genuine concerns.So advice on how people handle this would be great!
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:25 AM
1

Here is what I do - I would usually go for a date where there is some activity involved .The reason for this is that atleast on the first date I dont want too much pressure on me to just keep talking .If we meet for say bowling or salsa dancing then talking is not the central point of the meet.We're out having fun and talking can happen as a side effect of that.Not to mention these are great opportunities to kino. Regarding the time -I have mostly met during evening /night .Although if I were to…
/r/seduction21/09/13 10:07 PM
2

So if we dont have kindle which app do we need to get this?
/r/seduction21/09/13 10:00 PM
0

Ignorance is Bliss.
/r/seduction20/09/13 06:07 PM
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"one of the many attractive qualities of a girl is classiness"...Thought about this a bit and makes lot more sense as to why women expect men to make the first move.Thanks .Well certain women are just cold but this helped me put things a little bit in perspective.
/r/seduction20/09/13 01:54 AM
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I can understand where the OP is coming from .Short answer is Yes.And let me tell you this- in the beginning this will weigh in your thoughts a lot.But as you progress and become more mature in the game it would become less of a factor.Kind of like AA if you will.It will never go away completely but you'll know how to handle it.
/r/seduction17/09/13 04:49 AM
1

That's counterintuitive to what this post is trying to say.It's saying to make sure girl remembers you/loves you more than others you have to be good at the deed.
/r/seduction16/09/13 06:16 PM
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But what about a person who isnt that experienced in the bed and just cannot nail uglies to get experience?
/r/seduction16/09/13 03:34 AM
1

From what I see in your FR it looks like you're probably not putting the right amount of effort.Which is a good thing because now the solution is in your hands.You should understand that the hardest part (attracting the girl) is being done for you.You just have to stand out of your own way by working harder.You answered your questions yourself , like with the girl who wanted help with english -you should have done more while inset, probably you shudnt get drunk if it affects your game etc.Make n…
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:46 AM
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Adding it to my list of creative comebacks :D .Reminded me of "cunt-muscle" by Ari gold.
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:21 AM
1

You seem to be doing good.Not sure what your question is ?
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:15 AM
1

" Seduction, once you've gotten laid the first time, doesn't get easier—the girls just get hotter" I thought so too about the first time.But it's been 5 months since I had my one and only fclose from PU.Since that time I havent even gotten a day 2 with a girl that I cold approaced.My brain (which has seen me go to the finish line once) kinda gives me a hard time for being dry for 5 months.It's like my success has come in my own way.Everytime I fail to get a girl out on day 2 I lose a little bit …
/r/seduction12/09/13 06:19 PM
31

It's Dessert.You can thank me later.
/r/seduction09/09/13 11:33 PM
1

You'd definitely not ask him/her to wing you the very first time you meet.At that point I would hopefully have established a commonality and propose meeting in the future (which is when i usually would number close).This is similar to normal close you would do.It's only after you have some comfort with a guy that you should bring seduction up.(similar to how you'd build up to a date with a girl you met through cold approach). Have you talked to your friend circle about this? Are none of them int…
/r/seduction06/09/13 04:07 AM
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No man been a while.If I were you I would go to bars say on green street and chat with people both guys and girls. Usually you would find some like minded guys and can take it from there.Another thing I missed out was attending bunch load of events that happen/societies that are there.Not sure if you realize this but that is a gold mine /biggest plus while in college.So while cold approaching definitely helps utilize the atmosphere as much as you can.
/r/seduction06/09/13 03:54 AM
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Go Illini! Good to see someone from UIUC post here :)I am an alum now but I did do some day game in campus right when I was starting .Good times.Quad should be a pretty good day game spot.
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:46 AM
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Wish I could give this more upvotes.In the same boat.My sticking point is converting to day 2's .I've had just one good success(but that went all the way).So everytime a number flakes I feel like my confidence, mood ,good feelings take a hit by a small amount.It's like a constant battle between me pulling myself up and then every failure trying to bring me down by a small amount .Do you feel the same way too?
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:55 PM
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How about answering this question? http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/1k4bf5/serious_sticking_point_easily_able_to_get_numbers/
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:40 AM
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I always do warmups.Some times my wing would include me in the set and I would get in the talkative mood.Sometimes I'll open guys.Sometimes I'll just open chics with small questions/Hi.All this usually gets me talking and as I gain more momentum I start to care less .Therefore I would suggest that the remedy is to get in state .
/r/seduction05/08/13 12:00 AM
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Depends on what's congruent with your personality.I never give straight answers .So I would be like -"Totally! Infact we are going to get married in like an hour.You can be our witness :)"
/r/seduction01/08/13 07:28 PM
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Look we have a badass playa here!
/r/seduction01/08/13 06:21 AM
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What do you mean by being "vulnerable"?
/r/seduction30/07/13 11:07 PM
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You're welcome :D
/r/seduction28/07/13 11:06 PM
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No 1 rule is dont mess with your friend's girls. Even if he got drunk , left her ,whatever .Point is he brought her , he knows her prior to you so he gets first shot no matter what.Having said that do Talk to him if he is genuinely interested.Unless he gives the go ahead you should never game a friend's girl.
/r/seduction28/07/13 08:15 PM
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Few points - 1) You are not alone.I ( and I guess lot of us here) are in similar boat.So it's not something that is happening just to you. 2) When I read you opened a HB10 I didnt wait to see if you got her or not.I was happy you showed courage to open a 10.Lot of us cant do that.Point is not to take yourself too seriously.If I were you I would have played along -yes I talked to HB10 cause I am interested in her. 3) Without rejection you will never know what was instore in the set.You miss 100% …
/r/seduction27/07/13 08:57 AM
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what does that expression mean?
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:01 PM
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Following up with what he said remember that communicating woth women is more about doing things rather than saying things.As men we are more logical and we tend to go by face value and hence what people say.Not quite the same for women.Look at what they do not what they say.
/r/seduction12/07/13 07:51 PM
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I would advice you to test the waters first by flirting with her.
/r/seduction01/07/13 04:05 AM
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I think it happens to all of us on each new night.Think of it this way when you make your first jump into the pool the water feels cold but then if you stay there 10-15 mins it doesnt feel that cold infact now if you come out that's when it starts to feel worse.Same with the momentum/AA.No matter how good I do one night it usually wont carry over the next day.So just embrace it :)
/r/seduction30/06/13 10:59 PM
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You say -Dont look to women for happiness.But how does one accept this when that is precisely the only thing missing from your life?
/r/seduction28/06/13 02:00 AM
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Hurts? You mean you get nervous or something? Then as it is for us ..try with normal people first.Start with anyone you see , guys, girls, old ,young.Just smile at them as you walk by them or whatever .It'll relieve your stress. Think of it from our perspective if it is any better.We have to go and talk.You have to just smile.
/r/seduction25/06/13 07:25 AM
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Eye contact and smile.
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:12 AM
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Yep .You behaved as a man .As a man who gets lots of women.Good job!
/r/seduction23/06/13 08:49 PM
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Hank Moody.
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:09 AM
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Would be great if you could share some tips on how you got them to this state where they want to text.I know you would probably say something like be good in the field when you meet them.But I have lost 3 chics that i # closed and i thought I did well in the field with them.
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:59 AM
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Watch Wedding Crashers.
/r/seduction14/06/13 11:03 PM
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What is the single most important thing you can do in set to ensure ( or atleast get the highest possibility) that she comes out for day 2? If it is any help I am referring to bar game.
/r/seduction10/06/13 11:36 PM
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Thanks for the comment .Yes I have tried that .With the first girl I seeded that in salsa.I danced a bit and then invited her.Did that with comedy shows .2 flakes and she was out.Next one I tried salsa again.She showed interest- then asked where .Then no reply when I told the place.Seeing this my wingman said it might be a big investment .So I tried something shorter.This time I rooted it in love for coffee .The last one was also with the biggest IOIs, I engaged her friends, kissed her on the ch…
/r/seduction10/06/13 12:02 AM
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"How big of a connection can you possibly build in a 10 - 15 min convo at a loud ass bar or club? "....so true!! I am getting sick and tired of people telling me oh they didnt come out because you didnt rock their world and all that shit.Lets be real here , what is it that people expect us to do in 15 min convo? I've had a 3rd successive flake now which is making me go insane.I thought I had a pretty solid connection with all 3 in set , bunch of IOIs etc.I tried waiting a few days ,I tried askin…
/r/seduction09/06/13 04:08 PM
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I can totally relate to what moonities7 says ..."in retrospect" though!At the moment however I felt exactly like DJR_PUA.I felt like it would have been better if it hadnt happened at all and was feeling very very bad .The only solution is to give it more time to sink in and realize logically that you were not at fault.It is nothing in your control so we should not blame ourselves.I know it was the circumstances but you shouldnt come down heavily on yourself for that.
/r/seduction07/06/13 09:44 PM
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Gosh!! I can so relate to what happened there in the bedroom only that I had bought the wrong size . "A good night turned into a WTF just happened moment" ..pure gold .exactly what I felt but I was pretty frustrated because she was an 8.5 and leaving next day.I totally believe that on such occasions performance anxiety can take a big toll on you.I cant even explain how I felt for next 10 days . Then later when I looked back it did rationalize a bit.It's the first time -odds are that you are gonn…
/r/seduction06/06/13 09:50 PM
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"Why should she see you again? " because I did the best I could in the set considering logistics- 1) demonstrated confidence 2) kino'ed 3) DHV'ed 4) Qualified. I know that doesnt mean any guarantee but I didnt see anything obviously missing from what you're supposed to do. Either ways, my point here is what to do going forward since I still have her number.
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:55 AM
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As VMikeL said this is mostly not the frame I had.I did try that with the last girl (with her I had a much more direct and sexual frame) but that didnt work either.I did the exact same thing you say(told her we're meeting here at xyz place at abc time).She initially was inquisitive but eventually ended up saying 'I should have a say if I want to come or not' and 'I never said I will come'.Which is why the question what am I missing
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:52 AM
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I just want to say that I created an account just so that I could upvote this post.This is pure gold!
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:10 PM
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