Let's get some Day 2 advice!

charm3 · 2013-09-21T22:07:49+00:00

Here is what I do - I would usually go for a date where there is some activity involved .The reason for this is that atleast on the first date I dont want too much pressure on me to just keep talking .If we meet for say bowling or salsa dancing then talking is not the central point of the meet.We're out having fun and talking can happen as a side effect of that.Not to mention these are great opportunities to kino.

Regarding the time -I have mostly met during evening /night .Although if I were to go hiking mornings would be fine too.As a personal rule I try to go in for k-close by the end of date or as close as I can get to that.The reason is simple -I dont want to land up in the friend zone .The earlier I know what she feels the better.This should atleast be somewhat gradual.For eg -if you havent even touched her then going for kiss might not be the right move.

BallsOfSteeeeel · 2013-09-22T01:26:30+00:00

My day2 strategy: The date location has to be close to either where I live or she lives (pull spot). I have them meet at my place for 2 crucial reasons. 1. They see it and are comfortable with it. Much more likely to go back after the date if they already know what they are going back to. 2. Just because you guys have a date planned, there are already at your place and you guys may never end up leaving. I like to see if they want a beer or something and just chill and maybe make shit happen.

I feel the start of the date is very very important. As soon as I meet them I will either spin hug, hug, or kiss on lips depending how good of a mood I am in/how well the number close and texting went. Start the physical contact early and gradually increase it over the night. Then I usually walk with them to the bar cuz I'm over 21 like that. Get a pitcher. If she offers to get the 2nd pitcher it's usually a good sign. Walk back to my place (along the bay of course). Take them out to my patio. Have them either sit really close to me (knees touching) with my arm around their back or sitting and facing so I can rub their legs or having me sit and them stand in front of me so I have access to their neck, ears, stomach, and can see down their shirts! Then hopefully that leads to the bedroom.

kingcal · 2013-09-22T05:41:52+00:00

Don't think of a Day 2 as a way of impressing the girl. You're putting a lot of work into thinking all of these super specific aspects of the date out to the most minute details. The best Day 2s are the dates where you are going to do something you already want to do and invite her along. It doesn't matter what it is. If it's something that you like, have fun doing, know how to do well, etc... it's going to work very well for you. You'll be comfortable and relaxed. Even if it doesn't go super well with her, you're already doing something you like anyway, so it's easier to be outcome independent.

joshsway · 2013-09-22T23:19:03+00:00

Cool. I'll work on some posts; though my advice might be contrary to much of what you will see here. My day 2 focus is almost entirely logistical. I want an easy date with no time constraints near a sex location. Drinks at night works great, even dinner is ok depending on the girl. I am not one for creative dates. They are fun, but so is sitting front row at the knicks game with your grandmother. Fun doesn't = attractive.

Ratatagoat · 2013-09-21T17:59:25+00:00

Keep texting to a minimum. You want to intrigue her just enough to set up your day 2. After I get an agreement for a date.What I like to do is tell her ill confirm the day before. Ill text her something like "I've been craving tacos/margaritas/whatever, better be up to the challenge." And then the next day, around mid day ill text "tacos/margaritas/whatever hmmm can't wait". This helps me two fold: assuming the sale, I'm not confirming if we're still on, I'm assuming it ... and getting her excited for the date. So far flakes have dramatically reduced using this method.

Title	Let's get some Day 2 advice!
Author	baconmcnasty
Upvotes	14
Comments	6
Date	September 21, 2013 4:43 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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