Hey guys, I really need some advice here. I got into the seddit community about last september soon after breaking up with my gf. Read the game, studied some body language, checked out some blogs online. My inner game and confidence was way up in fall and I had some success. A few k-closes, an f-close, and even had a steady non-relationship hook-up type thing going.

Now I've been in europe the last few months and my games gone to absolute shit. Naturally I want to hook up more than ever now, but I absolutely can't make anything happen. I'm in better shape than I have been for a couple years, I definitely look better in terms of style, but for some reason whenever I get to a club or party I just have no game. I've developed horrible AA. In the off chance that I get past the opening stage it just turns into weird non-physical dancing.

I just really don't know what to do at these loud clubs and parties, and I have no idea how to dance outside of just being goofy with a group of friends. I really have no idea how to even approach in a club setting, and how the hell are guys supposed to even dance? The other thing is, is that whenever I even imagine being really alpha in a club setting, I just feel like I'm going to come off as some creep if I go up to a random girl.

TLDR

Tip requests:

  1. How to get some inner game back after a long slump of nothing

  2. How to approach in clubs. (maybe even some canned process so I have something to rely on)

  3. How the hell do you dance at parties/clubs?