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No more like http://fridaymixtape.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/rad-kid-is-rad.jpg
/r/seduction13/10/10 04:20 PM
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I agree with comedytragedy's technique, that could work if you don't feel too awkward about asking her to come to your house before getting dinner. As for the "how to get her back to my place" techniques: a. That could work.. b. This shows that you already planned everything, including taking her home later, which could come off as creepy. c. Could work, but might sound like a cheap trick. All of these sound like direct one-line plans to get her to your house. These might work if she's really in…
/r/seduction20/06/10 07:09 PM
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Yes. But also about fucking a lot of hot chicks.
/r/seduction10/06/10 06:58 PM
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Girls are more than just their attraction. Just because you have control over that doesn't mean a girl is worthless. Find a girl with the same hobbies as you have, a girl who challenges your creativity, your world view, who makes amazing food, is into crazy sex, whatever. Misogyny is part of the game though, I used to have quite a bad case of it as well, but now I don't anymore at all (maybe just because I don't consciously practice game so much anymore but instead just try to be a cool guy).
/r/seduction04/06/10 02:30 PM
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Definitely a shit test. Hmmm, I don't think so, I've never gotten this myself either and he's gotten it "a lot". I think he approaches and talks to girls like he knows them, which might be a good strategy, but to me that seems a bit awkward. Maybe try some more classic openers, like asking for opinions or help? I'm not very good at cold approaches myself but there's a lot of strategy to read on that.
/r/seduction01/06/10 09:34 PM
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The way I approach moral questions is by asking: "Am I doing significatly more good than harm?" If I can answer that with "yes", then I do it, and I'll always know that I have done it with the best of intentions and don't have to care about other people's opinions.
/r/seduction01/06/10 09:23 PM
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I keep mine under the corner of my mattress. I always like it when the tension builds and I can just grab one without even looking away.
/r/seduction01/06/10 09:17 PM
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This whole murder thing sounds nice! I'll try it this weekend and report back on you guys. Maybe even going to try some karaoke.
/r/seduction28/05/10 10:15 PM
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Yup I noticed the exact same things. Could be a coincidence though, who knows.
/r/seduction28/05/10 10:12 PM
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It's like saying that talking and reading about food and cooking does not make you a better cook - ceteris paribus. I do not believe in such a statement but you are right in the fact that it's difficult to statistically prove wrong.
/r/seduction27/05/10 02:36 PM
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Haha that's pretty cool info! Must be an inspiring environment to work with these guys. The reason I'm asking here is not that much because I want to know what "good" looks like (which IMHO is mostly defined by what satisfies you and makes you happy, which can be different for different people) but more because I'm interested in what kind of people post here on seddit. So far some guys starting out, and some intermediate guys. Would be cool to have some more guru's around. But you'll stay, won't…
/r/seduction24/05/10 04:37 PM
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One other thing I have sometimes done when I'm with a girl and a guy joins in, is pretty much directly upon him joining greeting him friendly, saying something like "I'll be back" to the girl and then walk away to talk to friends or other girls (maybe a friendly pat on the back of the other guy). This way, she feels like she just lost you by fault of this other guy who she didn't even ask for. When you meet up later she'll be really happy to see you again.
/r/seduction23/05/10 09:40 AM
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For me: I'm 23, slept with 16 girls (made a list a week ago), 6 or 7 of whom were last year (one relationship of some 4 months). I think my biggest improvement was actually when I read the book "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. Even though I had already read a lot of pickup stuff, this book made me into a much more likable, friendly person, with a very strong positive vibe. It greatly improved my "inner game", to use the pickup lingo.
/r/seduction22/05/10 06:29 PM
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Confidence.
/r/seduction22/05/10 05:58 PM
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Nice but myself I wouldn't use the word "try". Maybe "Hey I really enjoy talking to you, but I'm very tired and have to get up early. We should continue our conversation another time though."
/r/seduction22/05/10 01:33 PM
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Well, they're married. I don't think it's very hard to have frame control over your own wife. edit: In addition, he's a professional F1 driver and driving on a racetrack, which means he is in his most comfortable situation ever. More interesting would it be to see how he handles himself on more difficult territory, doing things other men or his wife are more familiar with / better at.
/r/seduction22/05/10 01:19 PM
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Well I actually liked your post as it's a nice personal story. I just don't think the advice part of it is that helpful. But be sure to keep posting your adventures!
/r/seduction18/05/10 08:43 PM
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You came here to tell the seddit community not to work on themselves but instead just "be who they are" because you as a tall white guy kissed one Korean girl in your time living and teaching in Korea? Well, thanks for sharing your advice. edit: Ah, that sounds kind of harsh. I just don't think this kind of advice is very practical or beneficial to anyone. But good job kissing a girl you like, keep it up :)
/r/seduction18/05/10 10:29 AM
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I used to be bad at accepting compliments, but it turns out it's quite easy: just say "thanks". You can shrug your shoulders a bit if it feels too arrogant otherwise, but don't go out of your way trying to prove you actually suck. Also, telling about your talents can be quite hard, but IMHO the best way is to encapsulate it in a story (as per Mystery Method). E.g.: "Yeah I didn't do too much yesterday, I was just making music when my friend called and we went to play pool." will very likely resu…
/r/seduction18/05/10 10:16 AM
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Alright I see those giving criticism are getting downvoted harshly, but I actually agree with them. You can ignore the fact that his success-rate is phenomenally low and say "good for you, you're practicing approach!", but he's not getting anywhere with that. With 700-800 approaches, he's far past the stage of overcoming approach anxiety. The thing he should practice is his strategy and technique, attention should be focused there instead of just blindly continuing to make fruitless approaches. …
/r/seduction18/05/10 10:01 AM
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Women fall for confident guys. Being nice or not doesn't have much to do with it, except for the fact that "assholes" or "douchebags" are often very confident. I don't think women's psychology has changed over a couple of decades.
/r/seduction18/05/10 09:39 AM
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I almost never talk about sexual topics with girls, I even steer away from the topics when they bite into them. Most guys will be jumping around like a dog in a cage when the topic of sex comes up, don't be like that. Not talking about sex gives girls doubt in their head: does this guy want to fuck me, or is he just really cool? Make sure there is a lot of kino so she really wants it herself. Softly stomp her belly, grab her neck, etc. Build the physical tension but keep your cool. Bringing the …
/r/seduction29/04/10 09:02 AM
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Wanted to say this. One big mistake I always make is underestimating my own attractiveness to girls. "Ooh, maybe she's just being friendly because she feels bad to reject me, maybe she just wants attention only to dismiss me later, maybe she thinks I'm a loser but doesn't want to hurt my ego." With the right amount of insecurity, these doubts can last even after you've slept with her many times. So: no. She likes you.
/r/seduction29/04/10 08:41 AM
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And be genuinely interesting. Looks are definitely very important to me, but originality and a good taste in or knowledge about music and literature, that's the stuff that gets me hooked to a girl. Right now I'm dating a girl who knows a shitload about music I love, we just lie down on my floor and float away. In addition, she speaks in metaphors a lot of the time. Our discussions are like poetry, they often don't make much sense but are oh so aestetically pleasing.
/r/seduction28/04/10 08:25 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't make too big a deal out of it, waiting for the 3rd or 4th date builds up tension which means great sex when it finally comes to it. I don't particularly like girls doing this, but I respect them for not giving their body away that easily. If you really want them to sleep with you earlier, up the kino all the time, get them to your place because you really want to show them that one video/song, then at one point when the tension is really high, just grab her, throw her in your bed…
/r/seduction28/04/10 12:44 PM
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Polyamory. I've cheated before (a lot), I also slept with another girl while I was seeing both of them, I actually kissed both of them and a third girl on a party recently. However, the reason why this is polyamory and different from "just being a guy" is that I was having a longer lasting sexual relationship with two girls, with everyone knowing about it.
/r/seduction28/04/10 08:26 AM
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You obviously care a lot about being rejected, otherwise you wouldn't post this, and I think it's important to laugh it off (like you did) and then just forget about it. If I told the PUA community about every time I didn't get a girl I would have gotten banned for spamming a long time ago. If you're looking for advice though: I think you quit gaming her too quickly. Your stomach clenching, your face looking shocked? You should have burst out in laughter, poked her in the belly and then if you s…
/r/seduction28/04/10 08:13 AM
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Yeah I'm actually seeing another girl tomorrow, but for now I'll just keep her as a friend, because I kind of like the feeling of giving the second girl my undivided love. What exactly do you mean with the self-worth issues?
/r/seduction28/04/10 07:57 AM
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It gives the impression after you stay past the FTC, you've given priority to that person Yeah but I think the whole goal of an FTC is not making yourself seem like an intruder. The girl knows you won't be hanging around forever, so she just enjoys the short time she has with you as much as she can, without the fear that you will cling to her if she's being too nice.
/r/seduction28/04/10 07:52 AM
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Ha! Completely agree with this. When there's been a kiss, you know it's on and it's mostly a matter of time before she gets into your bed. Now before the kiss, that is when your brain is fucking with you. Can you, or can you not?
/r/seduction28/04/10 07:34 AM
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I want to see his game in action, see him try to seduce me If he is any good at it, you won't notice it. And he seems to be somewhat good at least, because you think he can get any girl he wants (which is really untrue by definition), there's no single doubt in your head that he is mister perfect and all you are trying to do now is try to make him like you, you're trying to prove that you are worthy to the guy that successfully made you believe he is all that you could ever want. He has played h…
/r/seduction28/04/10 07:32 AM
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Thanks for the advice, but things went a bit differently. I already knew I wanted to choose for the second girl and stop things with the first one because I could tell she was in love with me and it felt wrong to sleep with her and others at the same time because I wasn't really in love. I told her more than once that I hoped she'd go with other guys like I did, and so I saw her kissing another guy on a party and this got me really hopeful (not even slightly sad/angry) because I hoped that eithe…
/r/seduction28/04/10 06:48 AM
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Indeed. The first school is like pretending to be from the second school. After a while, you'll graduate.
/r/seduction27/04/10 09:55 AM
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Even though brave and pretty cool, I don't think you will be getting many girls this way. For example, there is no smoothness to this move in that your intentions are 100% clear, you practically throw yourself at the girl's disposal. You didn't build any interest on the girl's side for you, so if you're not incredibly handsome the only thing that you got going for you is that you were so brave to dive in like that, and I think that is too little. Besides, you didn't show to be interested in anyt…
/r/seduction27/04/10 09:48 AM
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I agree! He is pretty good, but really the small boob thing was going too far. The girl has great insecurity about it, which was obvious from her reaction, but then he took it even further and she just felt really bad. That's not seduction, that's just being a bad person.
/r/seduction09/04/10 04:16 PM
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As for morality - I find it a bit cruel, but everyone's got their own set of moral values so just go by your feeling. I myself wouldn't do something like this mostly because I can't really see what I would get out of it. You're not practicing your skills - to do that, you would have to get new girls to like you all the time, maintaining the interest of that one girl is not really any feat IMHO. I would probably cheat in your situation or stop seeing the girl and spend my time on more important t…
/r/seduction09/04/10 04:06 PM
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I can't answer the question because I disagree with the whole concept of "settling". When I like a girl and she likes me and we are having fun, who the fuck is thinking of "settling" for the other? A person is not a character in a video game with 8/10 for dexterity and 7/10 for charisma, and you settle because you can't get 10/10, things are quite a bit more sophisticated. I've been with a lot of girls in my life, but it's not so easy to say one was better than the other, they were all completel…
/r/seduction07/02/10 12:46 PM
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Agreed, but what's R_A?
/r/seduction07/02/10 12:32 PM
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I think you did what you could, but when she didn't reply to your refresher I think you should have stopped because it was a lost case anyway. Too bad, but you shouldn't care too much about getting that specific girl. Keep at it :)
/r/seduction31/01/10 07:58 PM
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Here goes my opinion, I'm sorry if I'm a bit harsh: Of course, I don't hear from her again. She's not interested, and you're showing too much interest by messaging her even when she doesn't reply your message. I'll send a text along the lines of "Dear Sober [her name], you seem like an interesting and I like that you're into [subject]. I'll give you a call tomorrow when you've recovered from tonight. -[me]" I wouldn't do that as it seems really needy. I think the girl was drunk, maybe halfway in…
/r/seduction31/01/10 07:03 PM
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Having read The Game, Mystery Method, Juggler's How to meet and connect with women, and probably some more, will this still be interesting to me? In what does it differ?
/r/seduction27/12/09 07:46 PM
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I started reading that some time ago, but found it was mostly repetition of the title so I quit it. But well, I understand his philosophy so maybe I should try some more.
/r/seduction15/12/09 06:22 PM
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RTFM! Haha, but really, what are you doing in /r/seduction if you've never read the most basic of literature about it? Sincere interest, maybe you know things I don't :)
/r/seduction15/12/09 11:42 AM
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I completely agree with your view and have read about it and practiced several parts of it. I find it very very hard though to successfully dampen my ego's wish for ever more direct satisfaction. Any advice / specific literature?
/r/seduction15/12/09 11:39 AM
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For me, I started about two to three years ago, because I wanted to be with more girls :) I've slept with about 15 girls in total, I think about ten of those were since I started reading and trying pickup stuff. When I started, I read The Game, Mystery Method, Juggler's book, watched Mystery Method and David DeAngelo videos. I haven't really been actively practicing anything over the last year or so and I have a girlfriend a the moment so now I can't. For what it's worth, I think the most import…
/r/seduction12/12/09 04:16 PM
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What kind of evidence are you searching for? It's not scientific research. I agree those percentages and stuff are pretty lame, but the main ladder idea is spot on IMHO. You could say it's just standard theories like Mystery Method seen from a somewhat perspective though.
/r/seduction24/08/09 06:02 PM
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That's a pretty decent opener, even though I would be hesitant to compliment a girl right at the start, except for if you can really say it like you're interested in the fashion and not so much in the girl. A perfect opener should sound like you're interested in the answer to your question and the girl doesn't mean anything special to you. This is hard, but I think your second thing (why women care more about shoes) is pretty good.
/r/seduction29/07/09 11:13 AM
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Interesting, read most of his answers. His ways seem to be similar to the standard pua strategies (opening-wise), but apart from Neil Strauss' the game he's never read any of it. He's 34 now and used to go out 4-5 times a week, got about one girl every 3 weeks, somewhat less impressive than the "200 women" number might suggest on first sight.
/r/seduction23/07/09 03:08 AM
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Yeah I know that feeling, but girls actually do find you more attractive when you are in a relationship (pre-selection), so you actually had better options when you had your girlfriend :) And for me I guess my game just slowly faded. I still get the occasional girl, but about a year ago or so I had these nights that I could really play my game like a game, i.e. using strategy to play everyone in the room and get the girl I wanted. And even on days I wasn't confident or wasn't trying to get girls…
/r/seduction22/07/09 12:30 AM
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In my experience the loss is inconsequential compared to the fluctuations in my self esteem. What do you mean by that? So go out and the skills will come back fast. Don't bother so much with the reading. I go out and see girls all the time, that isn't really the problem. However, when my game was good, getting girls really felt like a strategic game for me, I could see the social mechanisms in work and knew how to play upon them. Now however, I don't anymore, I don't manage to position myself as…
/r/seduction21/07/09 05:09 PM
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