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| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?According to whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?the more high value a guy is the worse he is for a long term relationship I think you have a very, very bad understanding of "high value". What makes a man valuable are things that directly correlate with his ability to function in a long-term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?I've seen a lot of people, widowers and divorcees, get remarried in their 40's and 50's and those marriages were generally successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?That's about 5 years before my oldest child is projected to leave home. So I'll be getting ready to enjoy the rest of my life with my wonderful husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | My Best Friend Says She’s Allowed to Cheat on Her Husband as “Reparations” for Gender InequalityNo one in my circle cheats or condones cheating. The one guy a friend's husband knew who said stupid things like that got bullied out of the friend group for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | My Best Friend Says She’s Allowed to Cheat on Her Husband as “Reparations” for Gender Inequality"Then stop being friends with retarded people" My advice to that person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | If it's fine for hot guys to settle on ugly girls for sex, then it should be fine for girls to settle on ugly guys for relationships.That is such a ridiculous hypothetical that I shouldn't even entertain it. I think that someone being good-looking is literally a requirement for falling in love and having enjoyable sex (especially if you are a woman - it physically hurts to have sex with an unattractive man), but once you are in love and in a genuine lifelong partnership with a person, things like aging, healthy weight gain/loss, and scarring from accidents don't really change how you feel. Plus, the likelihood of something li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | If it's fine for hot guys to settle on ugly girls for sex, then it should be fine for girls to settle on ugly guys for relationships.I would rather die than wake up next to an ugly, unattractive man every day for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 50 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…I know this makes me a big bad horrible mean bully, but men with childish hobbies like comic book collecting make me want to vomit. Grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 35 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Thank God I'm not one of those "he can propose to me with a chicken nugget for all I care" pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Does being pretty tall (6’2-6’4) help make up for a below average (3.5-4.5/10) face?It means broad shoulders, wide build, naturally muscular legs. The benefit of short men is that they don't have freakishly long limbs or freakishly long torsos, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Does being pretty tall (6’2-6’4) help make up for a below average (3.5-4.5/10) face?I dated one guy who was 6 foot something and looked like Sid from Ice Age. I only dated him because I was very lonely at a very bad time in my life. It was most certainly not worth it. I never really liked tall men anyway and he was really annoying about it, like he automatically assumed I'd be impressed with his height and that in itself was a turnoff. My husband, on the other hand, is 5'5 and has a gorgeous face and a well proportioned body. This is much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").My husband was a virgin when we met and admittedly I found that extremely attractive. It was very special taking his virginity and knowing that I'm the only woman he's wanted to do that with. I dated one man who had slept with four girls in high school and I was always incredibly uncomfortable with that and could never work through my feelings about it. He didn't understand why I found it so off-putting and gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Signed Consent, Recorded Consent et cetera is legally useless. Harmful even.Yeah, I'm pretty sure that if this "it's rape unless there's enthusiastic consent" thing ever comes up it's because the people involved are both terrible and stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?The overwhelming, vast majority of women, insist that they behave in a socially appropriate way regardless of what their actual behavior in real life. Because most women really are normal people who are not looking for trouble or anything abhorrently immoral. Same applies to most men. And yet "I live with my mom" is much more likely to ruin a man's chances than "I'm married." His chances at what? Meth head trailer park missing teeth style drama? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?I think that a lot of people's problems with the opposite sex come from purposely associating with the worst possible members of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?I don't know what that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?I'm not sure if this is virtue-signalling; bullshit; or you and your friend being unrepresentative. The overwhelming, vast majority of women are not looking to be homewreckers. Sorry not sorry. most women would rather date a man who lives with his wife than a man who lives with his mother. Both sound grotesquely unappealing, but the wife one is much worse. Mother can be explained by things such as financial hardship or having to take care of her. My husband lived with his grandmother when we met… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?I think that some of these people read the Wikipedia article on, I dunno, lionesses or something and decide "ah, yes, this must apply to human beings too". I would not pursue a man I did not find attractive, and if an attractive man already had a woman I would immediately lose interest in him because I'm not a psychopath and before I was married, I was looking for something stable and long term and not homewrecking meth head from a trailer park drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?I go to this subreddit to laugh at people who are terminally online and thus have a possibly irreparably warped view of the opposite sex and relationships, but this is just sad. FYI, none of the women I know would pursue a man who is in a relationship, myself included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 01:09 AM |
| 32 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsFor most of human history, we have seen men who were overly shy as adults as somewhat defective. I don't think we've ever looked down on intelligence, as the "nerds" claim, but rather we've looked down on men who have childish hobbies like Star Wars action figure collecting well into adulthood. Thus the aversion towards "shy, nerdy" guys was born. Is it always fair? No. Are all men who are "shy, nerdy" bad? No. But it is what it is - those traits typically have a relationship with other traits t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Eh. I don't think I'm going to change your mind on any of this, and you won't change mine, since we are so... vastly different in our ways of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?Should people not perhaps learn how to control their body's instincts instead of giving into them, if it'll mean that they're happier in the long run? That is the biggest difference between us and animals. Since we are smart enough to attach meaning to sex, we are also smart enough to figure out when we should give into the impulse or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?The thing is, most civilized cultures have always upheld monogamy and/or sex only within marriage as an ideal for both sexes. And this is coincidentally how both men and women are at their happiest. Cultures that have not had reasonably strict rules about sexual behavior are usually ones that most people would not willingly choose to live in. You can attempt to reduce men to animals by pretending that promiscuous behavior "maximizes their sexual strategy", but I'd be willing to put money on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?No, and neither are men. It takes a lot of soul-searching and really changing as a person to be able to recover from having done all of that so that you are functional in a relationship again. Usually people are promiscuous due to a psychological problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?That's not "expecting his partner to put effort into the relationship". That's being a stingy bastard who nickel and dimes people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 11:48 AM |
| 134 | A woman is told to lower her standards.A man having high levels of Scrotium cancels out any good looks he may have. It's basic chemistry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleOh, I'm sorry. I actually took German for a long time so I should have been able to tell the difference. But I also read that article at least a year ago. 😅 If the laws stop even just a little bit of porn use, that's fine. I don't expect human trafficking to go away overnight but all of the small steps various countries are taking are adding up and most certainly saving lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 52 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleIsn't Germany the country where they decided that disabled people are entitled to prostitutes paid for by the government? Or is that another German-speaking country? Long ways to go but good on them for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 25 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanIn high school a guy decided I was abusive because I reacted negatively to him flirting with other girls through text, and I only found out because one of the girls posted the texts. By "reacted badly" I mean I cried a lot and didn't want to see him for a month. So yeah, I question it too. I do believe men can be abused and that some women are terrible people, but I think that a lot of people's pride prevents them from admitting what they did wrong in a relationship, so it's easier to pretend th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 8 | This is a new TV show...the bar is drowning nowThey literally look like this https://youtu.be/TyJ-xLj9SEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:19 PM |
| 78 | This is a new TV show...the bar is drowning nowWhy do those women look so fake? I'm not saying that in a way where I'm making fun of them for having a certain body shape or hair/makeup style, but they look like they've been photoshopped to the point where they look like those Japanese robots that are supposed to look like real people but honestly just look creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 28 | Reigning in the extreme pick me horror tales - this is not a place to just vent, get sympathy points for tolerating extreme clownery, remain clueless and go back back to being a complete pushover.I understand that some women are so thoroughly gaslit and manipulated that for a long time, they actually don't see what's wrong. But if they do see what's wrong, and they choose not to do anything about it... sorry not sorry but I don't want them in my life. There are some people out there who live for drama. They feel like their lives would not be fulfilling if there wasn't a new, crazy thing happening every day. I am not one of these people, I don't want my life to be a crab bucket. I like pe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 50 | Reigning in the extreme pick me horror tales - this is not a place to just vent, get sympathy points for tolerating extreme clownery, remain clueless and go back back to being a complete pushover.Yep - I've been called "heartless", "soulless", and "evil" for not coddling people through their bad decisions. I had one friend who was in an on-and-off relationship with a really, really bad guy. At first, I tried to coach her through leaving him for good - she could easily make enough money to be on her own (not that he contributed much anyway), and their daughter would be better off without enduring his constant threats of violence and suicide and his wandering penis. This woman would call m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 34 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!I literally figured cooking out at like, 16. I had a mom that cooked at home regularly when I was that age, but I felt like it was time to start experimenting with food and recipes. It took me like 2 months of trial and error to be able to follow recipes successfully and cook things that mostly turned out alright. How does someone not do any of this in their 40 years in this world? Surely every human being has at least helped their parents chop vegetables or mix dough at some point in their life… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 160 | Again with the height thing....My fiance and most of the guys I've liked are around my height, and I am pretty short. It literally would not be an issue if they would stop with these creative writing exercises and the constant self-pity. Maybe they wouldn't be every woman's cup of tea, but I can guarantee you that a lot more women would like them if they didn't act like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:43 PM |
| 285 | Absolutely not. Negging gone wild."He couldn't have known the impact his words had" is the only problem here, on her part. She needs to know that he knew exactly what he was doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 582 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹Wait so we're supposed to sacrifice some of us so the rest of us don't get raped? Reminds me of my pickme mother thinking I should just put up with getting molested for the wellbeing of our FaMiLy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:36 PM |
| 120 | Scrote ShitI'm sure some of them "chore dig", but others seem to be fine just living in filth. Many of them get deeply annoyed with women for pointing out that their pillows shouldn't be brown and that microwave meals are not cooking. I have experienced that myself - I got called a spoiled princess once for saying that if I am to come over again, the house better not smell of poo and rotten food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 270 | Scrote ShitI don't mind doing the bulk of cooking and household chores if that is an arrangement that makes sense (as in, I am not expected to pay 50/50 or work a full time job and my labor is genuinely valued by my partner), but I would rather die than date another man who doesn't know how to cook basic meals. It's not one of those things that exists in a vacuum. If they can't cook basic meals, they probably don't know how to do other basic things like laundry, cleaning the house, etc. And if they don't k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 105 | “Can’t make a wife out of a ho*” and more bullshitBut please tell me again my fiancé is a loser beta when he works and takes care of me while you LVM jerk off and play video games all day yelling slurs at strangers. Real “Chad” material. It's a coping mechanism, sort of. They write most women off as terrible and irredeemable no matter what they've done to move on from their past, because they can't get any woman. The other part of it is that they are so insecure and controlling they couldn't imagine being with a woman who possibly experienced s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:20 AM |
| 74 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!Yeah, I don't even let people (especially males) that I don't know well drive me around a city I've lived in my entire life. Literally, what guarantee do I have that I will make it back alive? I am done "seeing the good in people". There are still serial killers out there, you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 12:23 AM |
| 312 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!I love hikes. I will gladly go on one with someone I know well. I will not go on a hike with a person I hardly know, especially not a male person. What, you want me to go in the middle of nowhere, where cell reception is probably spotty, with a person whose intentions I haven't even gauged yet? How do I know I will make it back alive? That's a much bigger argument for a big, fat "hell no" than it being a cheap first date idea, IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Oh I really wonder what that “situation” could mean…There's one couple I know where the girl is constantly posting pictures of them kissing on social media, and she is constantly tagging him in lovey-dovey memes. In person, once you get to know them a little bit? The two clearly hate each other and make each other deeply miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 75 | Oh I really wonder what that “situation” could mean…I would say, the girl and her boyfriend are right and those two ought to stop making out in public. An LDR is red flag #1 - fake relationships for stupid people. The age gap is a red flag. The races in combination with the age gap and e-grooming is a red flag that points to a specific kind of fetish. Being the kind of people who make out at a restaurant to make normal, well-adjusted people "jealous" (read: uncomfortable) is a red flag. Just throw these two away. Both of them suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 102 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…Some humorless person out there is gonna take this out of context and act like it means we actually condone robbery. Oh well. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 10 | Please we need to save her. He ghosted her and she still wants to be friends??? That’s code for secretly hoping for a relationship. This girl needs to realize the mistake she’s makingOkay - I did not mean to be judgmental or rude. I just needed to hear that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 20 | Please we need to save her. He ghosted her and she still wants to be friends??? That’s code for secretly hoping for a relationship. This girl needs to realize the mistake she’s makingOkay, no, I'm going to need you to say it with me: He is a pedophile. And him being a pedophile is the worst part of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 28 | Please we need to save her. He ghosted her and she still wants to be friends??? That’s code for secretly hoping for a relationship. This girl needs to realize the mistake she’s makingSome LDRs can be healthy I'm gonna keep it real with you, girl... no. At least not enough of them for it to be worth mentioning. He's more than disrespectful. He is a pedophile that is trying to groom little girls with low self-esteem and not enough parental supervision through the internet. I don't think you are thoroughly understanding the severity of the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:07 PM |
| 56 | Please we need to save her. He ghosted her and she still wants to be friends??? That’s code for secretly hoping for a relationship. This girl needs to realize the mistake she’s makingAn LDR (fake relationship) with a flaky pedophile? I wish we would stop telling teenagers that the cocktail of hormones they feel is "being in love". And her last question is clearly the result of him asking for sex or sexual photos... yeah, she might very well ruin her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 215 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳"I'm going to slit your throat" is a threat worth calling the police about. Might even spend a few nights in jail or go to prison if the threat is realistic enough or if they like, find a machete in your trunk after you make that threat. "I'm going to slit your throat because it makes my pee pee hard" seems to be a protected class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 442 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳"I don't want to shame him" - why not? The dude deserves far worse than shame. There is a high likelihood that the porn he watches is outright illegal. We already know the women are rape victims and the victims of other crimes. Some of them are murder victims. Even consuming and distributing this kind of media is illegal in many places, including places where other porn is hardly regulated. The dude deserves prison on just this alone. He deserves to be in a padded cell in a psychiatric hospital … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 03:10 PM |
| 70 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳Chris Watts didn't even have as many red flags as this guy does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 118 | Ah yes, how could you turn down an awkward marriage proposal in the middle of the street? 😩👏🏻👌🏻Reminds me of the video of that girl being interviewed by her boyfriend's best friend in the parking lot of some mall, and then her boyfriend pops up behind her and proposes to her... and she just says "are you seriously proposing to me in a parking lot?" and everyone acts like she's a horrible person for not accepting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:42 PM |
| 2 | "Pick me's are harmless". Well here's a story of a pick me damaging private property BECAUSE she's a pick meGonna copy-paste the last comment I made because it's relevant here too: I was on the receiving end of this [a mother that covered up her husband's sexual abuse of their children] and I will probably be screwed up for the rest of my life because of it. I consider my mother just as much of a sexual abuser as my father, because if you help cover up a murder, you are considered an accessory and generally considered responsible for the murder too - I am just applying the same logic. I don't view pic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | "Pick me's are harmless". Well here's a story of a pick me damaging private property BECAUSE she's a pick meAnd they actually are dangerous, pickmes are a huge reason child abuse happens because they would literally rather keep a p+do as a bf/husband than tell on him and save their children. I was on the receiving end of this and I will probably be screwed up for the rest of my life because of it. I consider my mother just as much of a sexual abuser as my father, because if you help cover up a murder, you are considered an accessory and generally considered responsible for the murder too - I am just a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 22 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”All of my friends that have been around for a while are people I've watched grow, and they've watched me grow. I doubt any of them would like me very much if I still acted the way I did when I was 18. I would not like them either. We are always helping each other through and talking about new, age-appropriate experiences like marriage, motherhood, etc. Sometimes truly remarkable and note-worthy stories from high school and college come up, but that is not the focal point of the friendships or mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 74 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”I could never wrap my mind around statements like "your first love is the truest and deepest" and "I wish someone loved me like my high school boyfriend/girlfriend did" like... you were not in love back then. You were an uncontrollable hormonal mess with no experience in life and no sense of responsibility. Love is far more profound and complicated than the cocktail of juvenile emotions that high schoolers feel. It also gives me pedophilic vibes. I feel like the men who think this way jerk off t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:33 PM |
| 59 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”Yeah, this is horrifying and that is one of the major reasons why. If I found out that my husband and the father of my children was in touch with a girl he treated like shit in high school, and that she has some weird pickme emotional attachment to him... let's just say, best case scenario is that I take my friends up on the multiple offers of "you can move in with my family for a while if you ever need to get out of a relationship or something bad happens to you financially". That, and these tw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 162 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...If women don't judge, and if we don't judge hard, we set ourselves up for failure in the dating game. This is not the same as judging someone for things out of their control, or for having made past mistakes - this is judging someone on their ability to provide us (and any possible children that come along) with a minimum acceptable standard of life. Those are two very, very different things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 6 | "Pick me's are harmless". Well here's a story of a pick me damaging private property BECAUSE she's a pick me*The asterisk is for the most dangerous pickme of them all: my mother. What is with pickme mothers and doing this? I don't think my mother was into any of my boyfriends, but she sure did motivate me to date and even tried to get me to marry absolutely terrible men. I guess she just wanted to feel better about her terrible marriage? Whereas a normal mother would be begging me not to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:44 AM |
| 5 | "Pick me's are harmless". Well here's a story of a pick me damaging private property BECAUSE she's a pick meone of the above pickmeishas was in her own shitty relationship. He cheated on her by kissing another girl at a party. Later that girl got into a horrible car accident and shattered her pelvis. I have never seen pickmeisha so fucking happy. She couldn't wait to tell me the best part: "since she shattered her pelvis, she'll probably never have sex again! I guess that's karma :)" (car accident victim had a full recovery AND had a baby recently) Did the girl at the party even know the guy was in a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:42 AM |
| 9 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyA good general rule is that things that make you cool in high school make you a loser the second your graduate. It's not always true, but most of the time it is. The nerds really do end up going to college and making something of themselves. The poor kids from working class families do the same with trade school. The "popular" kids who had lots of sex and did lots of drugs usually end up in dead-end jobs and have no ambition in life. This isn't a judgment of their moral character, just their abi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:07 AM |
| 10 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyPeaked in high school. Worst demographic of people to deal with, objectively. Even when it comes to friendships, these days I run the other way screaming if someone still owns class rings or tells more than a handful of extremely noteworthy stories about high school. If your teen years were the best time of your life, you are a loser and have put no effort into your life as an adult, plain and simple. If your best years were in a controlled environment where everything that actually mattered was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Your Friends Are Not Free TherapistsI've dropped so many people for doing this exact same thing to me. I have some very close friends who vent to me and me to them regularly, but we also talk about lots of other things, so the friendship is balanced. And we actually take each other's advice and don't just use it as a dumping ground for our feelings at the time. I saw a meme the other day that went like, "I just spent two hours roasting my friend's ex-boyfriend just for them to get back together the next day". Exhausting. Not too l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:39 AM |
| 10 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guy"Haha, men are so cute! They don't even know how to wash pillows or cook eggs! I'm going to save him from himself, and he'll be so thankful!" is the line of thinking, there. In reality, most of them get upset at you that you found their place gross in the first place. They think that what you're doing is pointless, they don't value the labor at all. They are clearly fine with living in biohazardous conditions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:24 AM |
| 24 | The caption 😂Yeah, every short guy with a complex who complained about hEiGhTiSm that I've ever met in my life was a truly grotesque human being. They could be 6 feet tall and no woman in her right mind would want them if the personality was still the same. Not to mention that there are women out there who prefer shorter men, or don't care about height either way - and "all woman are wh0res, Chad is heightmogging me" is the certified #1 way to chase those women off and make them never become interested in yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMust be willing to consider veganism or at least doesn't say I eat grass and/or am a bad hunter Not vegan (anymore) but this overlaps a lot with grown men with a vegetable aversion in general. I know an older couple through my extended family, where the husband is the 70-something version of the young "vegetables are rabbit food, I need real food for real men" guys we all know and hate, and he looks and acts like he is going to die soon while his wife, who has always eaten lots of vegetables, is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 8 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyno men with long hair/man buns This is something I find very attractive and even strongly prefer (long hair - not manbuns, those are disgusting), but it has to be because it's the guy's personal style and not because he's too lazy to get a haircut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 17 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?No offense, but I think this is kind of... out there. I'm a woman and I dislike cats because I'm highly allergic to them (like, throat closing and needing to go to the ER allergic) and I've never found them cute or charming. I also have huge hygiene concerns with cats. I have nothing against them but I wouldn't want to live with one and I would find it extremely difficult to come to a compromise in a relationship with a cat owner. The worst man I've ever met in my entire life was a huge cat pers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 148 | Couldn't have said it betterWhen I had long hot pink hair, little girls were obsessed with it. I got so many compliments, like that I look like a mermaid or a fairy or that they can't wait to grow up and color their hair pink too. It's much better than unsolicited male attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:54 PM |
| 164 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricI wouldn't be caught dead with a man 5+ years older than me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 114 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricWho wants a teenager running around the house when they are nearing 70? It's irresponsible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?None, because I don't hang out with sleazy perverted people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:20 AM |
| 161 | Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him?There is nothing I hate more than the idea of living with a man and splitting bills 50/50 with him. I cannot understand how this became mainstream and how we are looked down upon for disliking it. I've been called a "spoiled princess who doesn't want to work" by other women for saying that it's not fair to expect me to do the bulk of the housework, give birth to and raise children, and make enough money for half of the bills. I know so many women whose life is coming home from work to cook and c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:56 PM |
| 8 | LVM and Cats: The “Low Maintenance” MythI haven't owned a cat since I was a child so I didn't know. Either way, seems to boil down to him not giving a crap about his pet. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsI mentioned that as a possible exception in my OP. It's so rare, though. Most of these couples live in different countries or different parts of the same country and it's just impractical even if they meet in person very soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 36 | LVM and Cats: The “Low Maintenance” MythLife-long dog person here, but I've been horrified by how some people treat cats. I knew one guy who had a cat that he claimed he "loved so much". The cat was never played with, never washed (he smelled horrible), and most importantly, he was about twice as heavy as he should have been, because he was free-fed the cheapest food all of the time. When I confronted the guy about how this is killing his cat, he said that I'm mean because the cat just likes to eat. He would scream at the cat any time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 04:49 AM |
| 32 | Finally met my HVM 🥰You're joking, but this was literally my childhood. My father was a literal monster of a human being - verbally, sexually, and physically abusive, extremely vulgar, had zero respect for me or any woman, always complained, always drunk (I thought all men smelled like beer until I was in my 20's - seriously!). But my pickme mother from hell would gush on and on about how "he's employed! 🥰". It was really funny when he spent an entire year unemployed and playing video games because he knew he could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 5 | bc you’ve gotta be kidding meI once joined a website for making pen pal type friends when I was a teenager and I was astonished by how many people (mostly men) got upset if I didn't reply to their "hey" message. Like, what am I even supposed to say to that? All of my online friendships were made through just having an organic conversation about a shared interest and then building up to knowing each other personally over time. Never "hey". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsYeah, there are always exceptions to the rule. I know one seemingly happy couple that met that way, too. But it's just so, so, so rare that it's not even worth mentioning. I'm glad it worked out for you though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsI'm mostly talking about people in their early 20's. I feel like every group I hang around has at least one or two people glued to their phones for an internet "boyfriend/girlfriend". Perhaps I exaggerated in my first reply to you, but it's definitely a real issue I run into too frequently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:34 AM |
| 13 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsYes, very young. My life just started to get good at that age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:33 AM |
| 14 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsI always loved the show catfish because it showed how people online can fake anything I used to not understand how people can let it get that far, until I saw one of my close male friends go through it. The intro to the episodes always goes something like, "Jill has always been using the same two pictures that I reverse image searched and it pulled up a woman that lives in Tajikistan, but she swears it's her, so I believe her. The two times we were on the phone for 10 seconds, I could have sworn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 9 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsIt meant I missed out on time with my classmates though which I look back on sadly as I was in Hawaii at the time. Literal “paradise on earth” and I’m choosing to sit inside to make a guy happy. Oh, me too. When I was a teenager, I had friend groups stop inviting me places because I would just be on my phone texting some controlling Sid from Ice Age lookalike the entire time instead of being a normal young person and they rightfully thought I was fucking lame for it. “you invested too much time … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:07 AM |
| 6 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsHow old are you? I got into online "relationships" in my teens for the exact same reason. I was chubby and a bit frumpy and very insecure at that age. I thought I couldn't do any better. I've matured since then, I present myself well, I've worked on my confidence, but I'm still the same person. I feel like I get plenty of male attention now, most of it unwanted and from men I'm not interested in at all, but some decent guys will approach me even when I'm already in a relationship. I think you mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:03 AM |
| 33 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsIn my mind, it barely counts as a relationship. I knew one girl many years ago who was "in love" with a semi-famous blogger, sent him nudes and spent two years of her life dedicated to him, only to find out the account was ran by multiple men who were all pretending to be the character of her one boyfriend. Another girl I knew was from the UK and "fell in love" with a Russian "man". "He" refused to call in any way and only sent a few pictures of "himself", all angled very.. peculiarly. She flew … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:56 AM |
| 33 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsThen share your opinions here and I will deal with the haters, if you want. This is something I am absolutely 100% certain of my opinions on and nothing and nobody will ever change my mind or talk me down from it and I will debate them into a corner if I need to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 262 | Srsly guys. What is the generation of male princesses we’ve been lumbered with. Having to approach a woman to get laid is to much effort for them now - they should be able to press a button and order us like a McChicken sandwich meal. BARF.I always thought it was strange how the PPD/TRP dudes complain about "male sexlessness", as if every dude was some raging cum monster obsessed with sex. I know several adult male virgins who are just waiting for the right person. I know men who are celibate for religious reasons. They're all doing just fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:01 AM |
| 47 | I'm devastated. TW Caroline's murderer was her husband.The only age gap relationships I've ever seen work were when the people were both established adults for a long while before entering the relationship. I have never, ever, in my entire life seen anything good come out of a grown adult pursuing someone in their late teens or early 20's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 4 | He's a divorcee, ticks all the boxes but I need strategies on how to do more researchI have personally met couples where the woman's mental condition made her a danger to her own child, and therefore the father had to have full custody. One case that I encountered pretty recently involved a woman with a major drug and theft problem, and now her husband and his parents are raising their children. I think it's weird how he's comfortable leaving his children with a supposedly bipolar woman six days out of the week. If she's that crazy, to the point where a relationship could not wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 82 | Are there men who don't look at porn?Yes, there are. Also, don't date men in recovery. They aren't ready. Takes years to shed the "porno mindset" that accompanies the addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 51 | Going through relationship subs makes me nauseous now. Women have been brainwashed and gaslit by society to put up with so much disrespect and abuseGross. If she has that many kids at her age, I guarantee you he's much older than her (notice how she never mentions his age) and groomed her into marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 187 | I think its hilarious old men think 30 plus women are bitter and jealous when they are with young womenNow that I'm in my mid 20's, I totally see where she was coming from. I've debated posting the whole story to share on here. The conversation we had last night was specifically about how young I looked when I was 17. I dug up some pictures from back then, and... yikes, she was right. I showed those pictures to her and my fiance (a normal, well-adjusted male). She said that I looked like her 14 year old daughter, which makes sense because I have a developmental disorder that made me look particul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:53 AM |
| 540 | I think its hilarious old men think 30 plus women are bitter and jealous when they are with young womenWhen I was 17, I got groomed by an almost 30 year old pedophile. His "friend" (reluctant acquaintance rather), a 35 year old married woman, immediately went ballistic on him and told him he's a disgusting pervert when she found out he was dating a high schooler. Anyway, the pedo made me stop talking to the nice lady because she was a "hater" and "jealous". He groomed me into marrying him as soon as I graduated from high school, and when I grew up and wanted out of the absolute abusive torture he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:44 PM |
| 19 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.A lot of these guys intentionally confuse "financially stable" for "successful in a high paying field and making over six figures". They think it's "gold digging" to demand that a man has a stable employment history and can make enough money to provide for a family. You don't need a career or six figures to do that. There are many places where an administrative assistant with no college education making $45k/year can provide for a wife and a few children, with money to spare. A tradesman can eas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 30 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.I would not trust any man who claims to want a super frugal lifestyle They want a super frugal lifestyle for you. They want a new $60 Xbox controller and loads of beer every week for themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.That's a good point. There's a young man in my family, who I think needs to grow up a bit more, but he's doing pretty well for being in his early 20's. Not that long ago, he had a crazy pickme stalker who would do all sorts of extravagant things for him, as well as trying to change her personality and interests to be more like him. She'd randomly show up at his family's house and start cooking for him and trying to be best friends with all of his siblings. She could not wrap her mind around him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Fertility doesn't really go down for women til about 40 and tons of women beyond that age have accidental pregnancies lol. I've known women who had grandchildren older than the youngest of their own children. I've seen "old ladies" around the age of 50 with a full head of gray hair get pregnant and have healthy babies. It really isn't a big deal. They'll whine all day about how the chance for (insert rare disorder of choice) will go up from 0.001% to 0.002% if the woman is over a certain age, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.What do you mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Again, I don't know the guy's life story, or if he's even a decent guy, but I thought his commentary was hilarious, so that's why I posted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:18 PM |
| 46 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.I was just thinking about this earlier today, actually. They have this weird obsession with women not going to college. I don't think they really believe that it "wastes a woman's fertile years", or that it's "a waste of money", or that everything women study is "feminist dance therapy in Japanese" or whatever (as if a degree in a silly-sounding major doesn't still make you marketable for a lot of decent office jobs?). I think it's just a control tactic. A lot of them go for girls right out of h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 15 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Yeah, I don't know that guy's life story, I just thought his commentary was funny. Maybe he's an alright guy, maybe not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 32 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Like literally how hard is it to fill up a water bottle, make a sandwich, and throw some yogurt and a piece of fruit into a bag? It would take me less than three minutes to do this, including clean up time. It's a different story if the person is like, disabled or working 80 hours a week. But otherwise, no grown adult should need another grown adult to pack their lunch for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 76 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.One of my friends is a SAHM, and one of her friends was complaining about her husband's ex and how she "packed a can of ravioli for his lunch once, can you believe that?", implying that she was some sort of terrible and lazy woman for not packing him some sort of organic, home-cooked three-course masterpiece. My friend just said "oh, no... well, I haven't packed my husband a lunch in our entire 20 years together, and in fact, he does most of the cooking because he's better at it" and her friend … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | NEVER DO 50/50!! This is terrible.I have never seen a bill-splitting couple be truly happy together. Many of them claim to be happy, but you can tell that they aren't. One example: My aunt and uncle split bills. What ends up happening is that she comes home to cook and clean, and he comes home to drink and watch TV. She thought it was just delightful when he offered to pay for her prescription glasses that she needs in order to function in day to day life, which is so sad to me. In weak moments, she reveals that she is miserable… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 192 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Yeah it's cute when whoever is up first in the morning makes a coffee for the other people in the house. Maybe whoever is up first can also make breakfast on the weekends. That's normal. But what this woman is doing is absolutely insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:06 PM |
| 292 | Just imagine all the NVM raging at this 🤣I have seen a lot of these kinds of posts. Once, I saw a woman post that she doesn't want to be with her husband anymore after she lost a lot of weight and got a college degree and was able to make lots of money more than him. What I saw was a woman who was probably negged into a relationship with an abusive loser due to her weight and economic class, and now that she realized she has some worth as a human being (not that she ever didn't), she realized she could be in a relationship she is actua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Is it me or do dating apps make love feel transactional as opposed to natural?This subreddit makes love and sex into a perverted transaction, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:46 AM |
| 29 | Why you should avoid men in the militarySome of the men I respect the most are ex-military. Most of them got married after their contract was over. A lot of the men that go in are great people, perhaps from working class families where they don't have many other options to start a career. People do what they gotta do. It takes a lot to be truly successful in the military. Then, the guy has to maintain this success in life after he's out. He can go to college or stay in a field similar to what he was doing when he was in the military. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 100 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.I mean, them secretly desiring men is a much better alternative than them really being this delusional about how women's brains work. "You'd discard all your standards for a tall, muscular felon!" - no dude, I think you would. If I obsessed this much over women who I perceived as being attractive, people would probably think I'm a lesbian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 202 | This is why I will never get married again; I'll stay a single mom.My "father" had a daddy/daughter porn fetish, among... many, many, many others. He had searches on his computer for "(my first name) porn". I never investigated what got pulled up when he searched that. Perhaps a folder full of pictures of me, who knows. I got way too creeped out to look any further. He was also incredibly touchy with me, cornering me and groping me on multiple occasions. When I was really little, he would show me porn and tell me that "it's natural". My first ever memory is of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 158 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.My favorite is when my standards come up, and they say "I bet you'd drop those standards for a 6'5" tattooed felon!" and I'm like... no? I wouldn't? "Chads" are usually STD farms who peaked in high school, who don't actually get any personal fulfillment by sleeping with a new woman every week. Never been drawn to the kind of men these dudes are secretly fantasizing about... not insulting them by calling them gay, but come on, they drool over photos of "Chads" and talk about how much they hate wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:43 AM |
| 16 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortNot everything has to be backed by a scientific study. People's lives tend to be permanently affected by huge, monstrously gigantic, significant, and extremely emotionally taxing situations like this. That's just common sense. Just look at all of the stories of "my boyfriend forced me to get an abortion" on Reddit. I know that some people like to pretend that an abortion is just a big nothing, but it's not. There's so many variables that lead women to making that decision that it's just foolish … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:15 PM |
| 42 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortThis may hit a nerve, so please don't read into it the wrong way, but abortion is always a shitty situation for everybody involved. Most women who have one end up at least a little traumatized for the rest of their lives. Men don't treat it as a serious and life-altering decision the way women do, they treat it as a ticket to sex with no consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Society acts like men need women more than vice versa but it’s actually the oppositeI understand where they're coming from and they're the only mainstream group willing to constructively fight against certain evils which are particularly important to me. But I can also criticize them all day, if you'd like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Society acts like men need women more than vice versa but it’s actually the oppositeI go on this subreddit to laugh at people who are woefully out of touch with how human relationships work, but man, this is just sad. Human beings in general benefit from loving lifelong companionship with members of the opposite sex. This is such a soulless view of both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 12:14 AM |
| 3 | What is the ideal male body type?Is that the one that looks like literally every young white guy you can find at any gas station in America? Never got the hype, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 02:51 PM |
| 9 | What is the ideal male body type?I think he looks like the missing link between humans and early apes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | What is the ideal male body type?Ha. My fella is 5'5", broad-shouldered, and has just enough belly to grab when he sits down. I think he is pretty ideal, I wouldn't change anything about him, and I don't look at other men. Given how most people in this subreddit get all of their ideas about the opposite sex from porn and other trashy media (including "pill theory" subreddits), I doubt you will get many answers from well-adjusted people with a healthy perspective on the opposite sex and relationships in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 36 | HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your ExI don't think it's okay for men to be in touch with exes period. It means you want to fuck them. There's never any other reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men?Did you not read my post? Since toddlerhood, I have been surrounded by the "LGBT community" - it wasn't one bisexual, it was also the weirdos he brought into my life. I was in it myself for almost a decade. I went to an arts school full of alphabet soup people. There is something inherently perverse about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men?I grew up with a "bisexual" father who brought all sorts of alphabet soup freaks into my life, I identified as a lesbian from middle school to my mid-20's, there's nothing normal about anyone on that spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 0 | Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men?I'm not interested in a pervert, porn/sex addict, or STD farm. I also don't owe anyone a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 5 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪"Opposites attract" is what miserable people in terrible relationships say as a coping mechanism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪Every time I see a thread on Reddit asking women if they would date a man 30 years older than them, the comments are just women going "eww icky nope nope nope EWW" at the idea. I wouldn't be able to handle the shame of being in a "relationship" where it's clear I was in it for the money and he was in it for arm candy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 94 | It’s 11:50pm, I’m trying to sleep but can hear my neighbor sobbing and her lvm partner probably gaslighting herI used to have a neighbor who I would overhear absolutely emotionally destroying his girlfriend. She was this cute chubby girl with an innocent face, very socially awkward, I could tell she had low confidence. She had a small dog and would always smile at me and chit chat outside. He used to yell at her about how "she thinks she knows everything because she has a pussy", and he would literally yell at her for hours on end and I would hear her sobbing. Once, I recorded it on my phone and was goin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 11 | Men who peaked in high schoolHe kept asking me, "you spent HOW MUCH on tuition? What a scam!" like bro one semester for me costs less than your beer consumption during the length of that semester, I bet. Even though I haven't finished college yet I'm marketable for a lot of decent paying jobs just by having taken high level classes in my field... and bro you have been working in food service on and off since the age of 16. I almost convinced him to give college another go but he said "how am I supposed to do that with a ful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 24 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎Yeah like... did not not occur to him that she thinks "loneliness" is a better option? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 54 | I'm sick of people thinking sex is a need. It's not. It's a want and a privilegeI agree. I know several people who are outright celibate for religious reasons and they seem to be doing just fine. Knowing men who are celibate is actually really nice. They tend to have the best perspectives on women because they don't expect anything besides actual friendship from us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:01 PM |
| 15 | Men who peaked in high school"Epic High School Experience" and honestly theres so much shit snuck in there regarding underage sex that I feel it's yet another one of those methods to condition young girls to start having sex with losers early and also normalize predatory behavior for males. My LVM ex who peaked in high school couldn't wrap his mind around why I thought it was absolutely horrifying that he slept with four girls in high school, starting when he was 14. He thought I was some religious freak, and I am religious… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 19 | Men who peaked in high schoolMy LVM ex who peaked in high school was committed to telling everybody how much of a scam college is. He had various dead end jobs where he would eventually stop showing up to work and crying about how "meaningless" his job is. He dropped out of his first semester in college, because it was "stupid", but in reality, he wasn't used to actually having to put in work. Most classes in high school you can pass by just showing up. There is also no goofing around and skipping class to go smoke weed in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 15 | Men who peaked in high schoolNow he is an alcoholic with a busted liver, two DUIs under his belt, no car and had been fired from most jobs he has had. I thank the gods that I am no longer with him, and I can't believe I wasted almost three years with him. Sounds just like my ex. He became an alcoholic almost immediately after high school ended because he couldn't handle life outside of the artificial, controlled environment of public school. I once opened his kitchen closet and there were empty beer boxes, cans, and bottles… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 59 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateI didn't like my teenage years at all. I had horribly abusive parents and just a bad environment in general. I started to get it together and live a good life after I went to college later than when most people go, and I met some people from church who ended up being a much better family to me than my blood relatives were. I started to process my childhood trauma and find hobbies and passions that made life fulfilling instead of being a sulking, anxious mess with no sense of who I was. I also go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 284 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"If we aren't that much of a prize, why are you upset that we don't want you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 34 | Getting out world of kink. I have no idea where to start... this is the only community I’ve seen where people are speaking out about kink being a negative thing.I'm really sorry that you've been through all of that. You were definitely groomed and brainwashed the way any victim of literal pedophiles would be. However, I think that what happened to you is something you'll need to sort out with a mental health professional. On FDS, we can offer some advice, but I don't think anyone here can help you sort out the effects of being groomed from the time you were literally in 5th grade. There is a risk that advice from armchair experts on the internet can mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Why are you ring to date a homeless man though?Well, I'm the girlfriend that will break up with you if I find out you can't be assed to fill out a job application on your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:32 AM |
| 33 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenI've seen a few posts, that I didn't feel were particularly representative of the general vibe of the sub, screenshotted and presented as proof of how everyone here is a terrible person, but it still boiled down to "abloobloobloo" and it was intellectually dishonest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:31 AM |
| 73 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenThere are some things I don't agree with on this sub, but I'm an old hag by internet standards and I've seen it all - this place has become a sanctuary for me at this point. Finally someone is pointing out the crap that has been bugging me my entire life. And I've still yet to see a criticism of this sub that didn't boil down to "abloobloobloo". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:11 AM |
| 244 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenI found it the same way. "They're just female incels who are bitter that no man wants them!" then why did one of my exes spam my phone with literally 10 phone calls last week and the other went as far as bothering my mother today all while I moved on months ago and am currently in a happy and committed relationship, Kevin McXbox? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:18 AM |
| 117 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.I would have just taken the Uber. I wouldn't let him drive me home. I don't know, like I'm glad you're okay but if a guy shows me his poor character in terms of lying and looking at things I don't want him to look at, I'm not trusting him to drive me anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 21 | Where are all my girlfriends now who used the tell me to get a man asap, because "how are you going to survive without a man?"I’m not going to be a shoulder to cry on in solidarity!! My aunt and mom are both pickmeisha royalty and I've straight up told them that I will not comfort them when their scrotes hurt them again, and that both of them are financially, emotionally, and physically capable of leaving at any point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 26 | We have a list of demands. 1. Clean sheets.I'm looking at childcare resources and I saw a comment on a blog post where a woman said her husband "is terrified of excrement" like... really, you're terrified of 1 oz poops from a sweet baby... so many men say that... yet they DON'T WASH THEIR SHEETS UNTIL THEY ARE CRUSTY. What's worse, really??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 77 | 🤣I always see them acting like women get upset that LVM like sex dolls... I've NEVER seen a woman get upset at that, EVER. I would be so glad if gross perverts permanently left me alone in favor of those things. Unfortunately, they don't do that. Sort of how like MGTOW never actually leave women alone, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:23 AM |
| 20 | Refers to my last post hereThese are the most pathetic and worthless kinds of males. The woe is me ones. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 4 | The state of Reddit.Once, my dad threw a fit and broke several pieces of furniture because he didn't like what my mom made for dinner. My mom explained it away with "men in our culture are just used to having soup before dinner!". She also sacrificed me to the altar of his penis for his paycheck while roleplaying feminist my entire childhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 42 | The only appropriate response, reallyI'd rather die than spend my life with a guy that expects me to look like a prepubescent child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 175 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultIf she doesn't want to get stared at, I guess she should just stay home all of the time? Idk, it's hard to think like a scrote since they're all testosterone and no logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 9 | The oversexualisation of female bodies is ridiculous. A model going out in a coat in a New York WINTER is "covering up" her famous figure...what on earth?Breaking News: Woman Wears Clothes. At 11, Woman Eats Food. Stay Tuned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 41 | Cracks me up EVERY time.As a woman from a different culture that's fetishized, I think a lot of it is their weird porn fantasy. I'm Eastern European and every Asian girl I've met had the same experience with gross guys thinking our nationality means we'll be some perfect feminine submissive docile bangmaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 72 | The best part is that all the women who conceive this way can only have daughters 😌Okay, which one of you wants a bone marrow daughter with me? 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 88 | Is it reasonable for a man to expect his girlfriend to make dinner for him while not intending to marry her? Local BDSM man weighs in."As a porn addict who likes to hurt women" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 59 | Is it reasonable for a man to expect his girlfriend to make dinner for him while not intending to marry her? Local BDSM man weighs in.I am not standing next to a hot pot of oil with nothing but panties on. We could be married for 50 years. I don't care. Are these men out of their minds? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 87 | A message for lurkers....you're not the centre of our worldsI have always almost instantly gotten over breakups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 15 | Need some advice: met a gentleman who turned out to be a pervert. Not sure if I’m handling this right.Are you serious? Avoid him. He'll never stop jacking off to strangers and being gross. It doesn't matter that he's capable of being polite for a few minutes in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 65 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.I knew a guy who always tried to philosophize randomly and act all deep and would get extremely, threateningly angry if anyone told him to stop or that it wasn't that good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 42 | Our Impact 🙌😭. Sis needed a level up about 40 years ago.My mom is one of these women and she also roleplays as a feminist all of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 37 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?My priest is a martial arts instructor and if he knew a guy in our church made some Dumb Ass post like this, he'd beat the guy's ass in the church parking lot. Civilized men don't accept this attitude even if it's masked with some pseudo-religious bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!I've also encountered men who liked how I looked but had no regard at all for my interests, my hobbies, my character, any of that. You throw those right in the trash. One day I'm going to be fat and wrinkly and I might not have teeth, you better like who I am as a person if you plan on sticking around, or I don't need to keep you in my life in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 4 | What are some commonly held FDS talking points do you disagree with?Wait whaaat? She did what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 9 | What are some commonly held FDS talking points do you disagree with?I don't want to be treated like a queen. I want to be treated like an equal. I don't want a man to kiss my feet and worship the ground I walk on. I just want to be treated like a human being. Considering the fact that most of them view themselves as kings, being treated like a queen is equal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Racist LVM tells his black wife that she looks like a slave in her head scarf, yet she's wondering if she's the asshole?To be fair a lot of them know how to act like angels until they marry or impregnate a woman. Then the truth comes out, cause they feel like she's trapped now anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Racist LVM tells his black wife that she looks like a slave in her head scarf, yet she's wondering if she's the asshole?Even if they were both black or both white, that would be straight up bullying and extremely poor behavior on his part. The racism adds a juicy extra layer to something that's already... really, really awful in a marriage to begin with. I also bet he'd complain about her hair if she wasn't taking care of it the way she is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 26 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?I don't know. Just today I saw a girl who had like kilos of makeup and jewelry on with a fancy hairstyle, on a date with a dude in basketball shorts. It's so uneven it's not even funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 20 | What are some commonly held FDS talking points do you disagree with?I don't think you should ditch a guy after the first mistake, either. It's important to figure out whether it was a mistake or deliberate malice, but even good guys fall on hard times or accidentally come off wrong or whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 32 | Can we just kill 2 birds with 1 stone? Assuming most anti-maskers are men since they are unable to empathize with the concept of individual body autonomy even before the global pandemic. Now they are frustrated being told they must wear a mask to go out in public by the government. Sounds familiar..Women on average deal with viruses better anyway. Probably because we understand basic hygiene and healthy eating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Actual r/wholesomememesYour hair would just fucking disappear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 20 | Loving mother trying to help her teenage son recover from porn addiction that cause COCSA...filthy reddit men think porn is normal for kidsI would cry every day for the rest of my life if I was pregnant with a male child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 193 | The double standard is astoundingI personally don't care about height but yeah, God forbid we have any standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Instead of holding rapists/harassers accountable, he mocks women for trying to protect themselves. A true POSI'm am Uber Eats driver and it's really easy to apply. Wish they did more background checks. I always do my job with a family member in the passenger seat because I don't want to get kidnapped or raped. I would never take an Uber or order Uber Eats myself because of how easy it was for me to apply... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 533 | Where is the lie?"Lol daddy issues!" says the scrote that watches porn and would be disappointed if he had a daughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:05 PM |
| 43 | Why Do They Keep Repeating This Stupid Lie?No, this is how they think of us. Projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 29 | How Brad Has Aged Since Wronging Jen"The wall" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 13 | Omg just look at this. "My husband beats me but he's so sweet and I don't believe in divorce!". What the fuck is our society doing to girls to make them think this way!?!?My dad did that exact same thing and my mom justified it "well men in our culture like their soup!" and I was like floored by the penis worship of that woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:05 AM |
| 12 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.She's in love and he's her soulmate and she doesn't believe in breaking up, or some other ridiculous garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:00 AM |
| 18 | “I usually paid on the first dates because I was the one asking them out. That simple.” - another pickme in the commentsThese pathetic women and the pathetic men they're trying to impress are just too funny. How about you prove that you're a provider by paying for my food and I don't have sex with you until I'm personally ready? Yeah? It's degrading to pay half or god forbid the entire tab if you're female. These people deserve each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 38 | Can’t believe this is even a question. Just goes to show selfish men can really be.Probably. We're supposed to thank them for treating us like shit and make excuses for their behavior and everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:33 AM |
| 3 | How high does an average LVM really rate himself?Yeah, I'm getting to a point where I might go with IVF and purposely choose a daughter. I simply don't want to raise the kind of person that many modern men are. The risk is too big. I'm terrified of raising some porn addicted, woman hating, entitled loser goblin. It doesn't matter how good of a mom you are. You can create a wonderful daughter. A son will get a hold of the wrong crowd and there goes all of your parenting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 14 | How high does an average LVM really rate himself?A few reasons. When a woman gives birth to a son, she usually loses all dignity (no offense to any women with sons who aren't this way). Her precious prince is never to be corrected, criticized, or punished. Men are raised with entire teams of female family members catering to their every whim and essentially teaching them that they are kings who deserve this treatment. Women are told from day one that we're less intelligent, less capable, and exist to serve men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:56 PM |
| 5 | We all know why.How are there people in their 20's who don't know how that kind of thing works??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Every day on relationship_advice...She made a whole song blaming the kind of woman he cheated on her with and staying with his dumb ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:59 AM |
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