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My dad taught me to put the toilet seat/lid down, not for the ladies, but so a toothbrush doesn't get dropped into the toilet.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 02:16 PM
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She explained averages as if we didn't learn it in elementary/middle school. Thanks, professor...
/r/MensRights29/08/20 01:43 PM
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I had a coworker who was in a child support battle with his ex. She was ruthless. He ended up getting his position cut, getting demoted and getting a huge payout shortly before the hearing. Based on both their incomes at that time, she ended up owing him child support.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 11:47 AM
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I tried going with this mentality a few years ago after getting consistently great results for a few years. I dropped most of game and decided to just "be myself" and "if they don't like my flaws, they don't need me". And that, gentlemen, was the beginning of my two year dry spell. Needless to say, I'm back in the game. And with better results than ever.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:02 PM
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I recommend getting a DSLR camera or finding someone with one. Make sure the lighting is enough to show enough detail but not too much to add 10 years onto you. You don't want to use the flash from the camera or direct sunlight. Also, try and at least make the "activity" shots (showing your passions or hobbies) look candid.
/r/seduction30/05/17 08:51 PM
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I was one of those guys that bitched up a storm about online dating being difficult. Yet, I was only using Tinder and for a smaller part, POF. My profile pics were pretty much shit and my profile on each was bare and boring. I was like "Man, no matter what I say, these girls must hate me." Finally, after seeing my friend have success again and again with online dating, I followed the advice he tried to give me years prior. And although my pics are still meh, I am having exponentially greater suc…
/r/seduction30/05/17 04:46 PM
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Something something set up a date. Seriously. Even if the girl seems entertained, stop fucking texting her for much else but setting up the meet up. Of course throw in some fluff and value giving texts if you cannot meet up soon enough. But don't be her entertainment, or else you will soon find that she will be bored of you.
/r/seduction30/05/17 04:31 PM
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Short explanation: It can be seen as somewhat manipulative, women (and people in general) also appreciate realness, which is pretty rare these days. It comes from a place of taking value, like you are trying to sell something to the girl. Direct game cuts out a lot of bullshit and time wasting. I have gone down both roads and honestly I have wasted so much more time running outdated indirect game. It's all about showing intention (yet having social awareness to know what Not to say and when) and…
/r/seduction26/05/17 12:01 AM
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Julian's Ten Game, like the above guy mentioned. Massive spike in results. Also try Jeffy's ETP for some "bonus round" material.
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:27 PM
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Sounds like you came from a place of taking value. Indirect game is the worst kind. First you asked permission, then you asked for their validation almost directly. You didn't give any value in that interaction.
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:25 PM
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If you're about to pull. Then pull. I'm sure the hotter girl is not the hottest girl you'll ever meet. Commit to your investment that is about to pay off.
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:18 PM
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"No one is going to judge you for approaching. But I will judge you for not approaching." - my friend and mentor, just before my first cold approach. My response was going to be "Well. I don't really give a fuck if you judge me" which I got halfway through saying before the lesson clicked: He is my friend and I don't truly care if he judged me for something so silly. So why did I care if these four strangers thought badly of me? I got up immediately and approached, stayed in for twenty seconds w…
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:15 PM
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Day game is intimidating until you do it. I moved to my city almost two years ago and haven't had a solid wing. You just need to self motivate and GO. Back home, it was easy with my friends putting the torch under my ass. When you have to do it yourself, you tend to justify reasons why you are not approaching and meeting women.
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:55 PM
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Trust me, it sucks. It's been a few years since it became a sickening reality for myself, but it leaves you with a new awareness and (sadly, on a way) new expectations. Maybe her being baby crazy from the damn start should have been a red flag, though.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 04:52 PM
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Flawless was great and still contains relevant info, but I would definitely recommend "Shift" by RSD Julien. I know a lot of guys have trouble figuring out internal game enough to gain the strong attitude to align with strong intention. It has really helped me a lot.
/r/seduction12/04/17 04:38 PM
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Good job on the approach. It seems you still have quite a bit of self molding to do... Don't worry about "looking beta" or what you "did". To a degree it matters, but like 90% of it is in how you feel when you are in a set. Are you nervous? Shy? Hungry? Women can sense if you aren't being congruent with your emotions. While you don't want to get stuck on the topic, just tell her if you feel nervous. Or shy. Or if you're stuck in your head. It helps a ton. It is common for guys to see favorable r…
/r/seduction04/04/17 04:53 PM
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Just approach and see what happens. If you lack that much confidence, you will likely get blown out in minutes. Its not guaranteed. But it is OKAY. You will walk away with a feeling of embarrassment and a little more wisdom. Also, you won't be dead. The only ways to start becoming more interesting is to get some hobbies outsise of seduction, be yourself and just open conversation. It will become more natural for you. You are doing okay by opening with honesty. However, try to add a little more t…
/r/seduction22/03/17 03:57 PM
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Username half checks out.
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:48 PM
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I once went up to a girl at a club who was wearing a leopard print top and asked her "Do you kill all your own clothes?" She and Her friends did not find this funny. I was determined to turn it around so I just kind of lingered and talked random bullshit to see how long I could keep the set going till they walk off or lighten up. They told me to leave several times, until I somehow flattered the fatter one and got her warming up to me. A few minutes later, the original one and the hotter friends…
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:05 PM
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Are you on any medication? Antidepressants and mood stabilizers can cause this.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:58 PM
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150
/r/seduction19/12/16 09:11 PM
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I call it "cuddle season" where I am from. Followed by "breakup season" or "mating season" once it gets warmer and more skin starts to show. But yeah, anytime is a good time. Especially if you find a lady that missed the target during shack up time.
/r/seduction19/12/16 09:10 PM
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I'm assuming you don't smoke weed and/or meet enough girls that do. This wouldn't be an issue. Jk, but in all seriousness... God bless California.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:13 AM
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To the stars.
/r/MensRights04/09/16 05:19 PM
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Don't worry about if she wants to or not. Just talk to her and give her reason to want to talk to you. Physical attraction is helpful, but that isn't typically what is going to win her over. You've got to be socially attractive above all.
/r/seduction22/08/16 03:02 PM
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This thread has really made me think about my own parents' marriage. They've been married for 25 years, separated for about 16... But looking back on the end of us all piping together, although my dad was/is an alcoholic, it's clear that he wasn't the only one with or the worst of the problem. Years back, I had to disconnect with my own mother for years and although it hurt, I can see that it helped her in the end. Once I cut her from my life, the rest of my family followed, up until she came to…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:42 PM
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Similar to dating a woman with dogs... oy.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 06:58 PM
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I appreciate the feedback! I do usually expect nothing. I never really had an issue over texting, but in the last few years, I seem to always do something wrong before I can even meet up with a chick. If anything, I'm figuring out my blind spots.
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:38 AM
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That is the turning point for most of us. I had it about 7 years ago and my life and penis have never been the same.
/r/seduction29/11/15 07:21 PM
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I agree with Travass. Outcome dependence and slut shaming may be your two biggest cockblocks. You don't need to be as blunt as "come over" but there are many ways to get her back to your place without making her feel like she's being a "slut". Give her the benefit of plausible deniability. Give her a reason to come back to your place. It will happen naturally. With your experience, however, I wouldn't be worried about a first date lay. Don't overplay your hand if you don't feel comfortable with …
/r/seduction28/11/15 10:25 PM
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TL;DR Move to California. You may not even need a date. Or name. But seriously, it depends on the situation and the girl. Not every girl will go for it. But that doesn't mean they aren't capable of it.
/r/seduction28/11/15 06:30 PM
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Thanks! I had the date on Friday and it was alright. Transportation was really not a big deal. Thanks again for the advice!
/r/seduction22/11/15 07:17 PM
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Yes, I am American and living in California. You're right, car or no car, it shouldn't matter. Unfortunately, I am in an area where public transit doesn't run late at all but cab service will suffice.
/r/seduction19/11/15 09:50 PM
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This is a good point and thanks for the advice. Hoax my next question is should I simply meet her at the location or would it make sense to get her with the cab I'm in? I have rarely used cabs in the past and am not sure how that works, especially with Uber.
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:39 PM
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Bro, that anxiety is normal. It's needed. It's your drive. The issue is that drive may be broken, possibly because of an outcome dependence. I can relate, though. Especially if there's other things going on in your life that may be stressful (responsibilities, school and work, finances, even getting older and going through the quarter and midlife crises) it can make seduction a lot harder. For me, moving to the other side of the country and starting to get serious about life with school and inde…
/r/seduction23/10/15 10:41 AM
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I could second this. Ironically, this will probably even make those girls attracted to you, but if you're trying to friend zone yourself, just keep being the entertainer and don't take it past that. Women can be great wings as well, but that's only 25% of the time in my experience.
/r/seduction23/10/15 03:29 AM
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Yeah, this has been common pick up knowledge for as long as I can remember, but it's a nice refresher. And the job analogy helps put it into perspective.
/r/seduction23/10/15 02:50 AM
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This was more along the lines of what I was referring to. I work in an upscale clothing store where the majority of the staff are attractive women in their 20's. There's too much candy to want to settle with one of them.
/r/seduction30/08/15 09:42 PM
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I can agree with that last statement! When I worked at JCPenney, I dated a co-worker who was very jealous and possessive. Long story short, most enlightening relationship experience, worst ending that led to a roller coaster of a summer.
/r/seduction30/08/15 09:40 PM
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