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I won’t give any of the numerous obvious ones lol. But do NOT cook for a man who is not your boyfriend. ESPECIALLY if you are a great cook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:24 AM
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Though I have never been in your situation, I know many women who have. You need to break up and move on. This guy will never marry you. You have been together for seven years. He’s watched other people close to him get married. And nothing. He knows you want to get married and nothing. He hasn’t married you because he doesn’t want to. When a man knows, he knows. Don’t be surprised if when you break up, he marries the very next girl. Why push him and give him a dealbreaker ? He won’t be marrying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:16 AM
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No I did not. I actually lied to her and made up an excuse (don’t want to get to specific just in case lol) I felt on your wedding day you should be surrounded by people who are happy for you. I definitely was not one of those people. We haven’t even hung out in real life since the wedding. We speak a lot though. Usually her talking about being broke and having to learn to accept less from her husband because he naturally isn’t romantic... lol. Due to his profession, right after the wedding, he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:21 AM
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Yep. She’s trying to get pregnant ASAP. She already ruined her life by going into major debt for the wedding. Of course all the debt is in her name and not his. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:01 PM
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One hundred percent. I have a friend whose fiancé left her four times during their engagement. And each time he did her dirtier than the time before. They just got married. I can’t even respect her anymore. I don’t know how he can...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:52 PM
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Totally agreed on all points. All that effort and energy spent helping this boy grow, she could be using to grow herself !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:01 PM
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The last thing you should be trying to do is help any man (in this case... a boy) grow. What an absolute waste of your time. If you want to grow things, then get a plant. Both these men sound like hot hot messes. You say Sex is important to you but are considering dating a 19 year old virgin... good luck with that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:45 PM
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You should dump both of them. Girl the first guy is not that invested in you and wasting your time. The second guy is 19.... when you’re 24... that’s too big of an age difference at your age. He can’t even legally drink alcohol. Men are way more immature than women. You might not notice the age difference now but you will...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:08 PM
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Guys that are into astrology are usually crazy as fuck lol. And I’m saying that as a woman who really loves astrology (for fun!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:20 PM
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Absolutely disgusting and you are so right. It angers me so much that there are so many of these “foot spas” where young immigrant girls are brought and forced to become sex workers and local and federal government basically just looks the other way. There are soo many of them (here in nyc at least) they basically hide out in the open and yet still men go to actual massage therapists and try to reenact their sick porn fantasies (delusional idiots) I am so sorry that you were subjected to years o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:06 AM
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It’s okay and trust me I was raised the same way (single mother!) One. Accept the fact that you do not need to impress men. Men should be trying to impress you. Never tell a man what kind of job you have or how much money you make. Don’t lie. But. Be vague and downplay it as much as possible. This will make it so you stop attracting men that are cheap and users. You do not want a man that is attracted to you because you have a good job. High value men are providers and don’t give two fucks what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:51 PM
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I think this is already a NO GO. He didn’t pay for the second date... girlllll. I’ve been in five year long relationships and never ever paid for anything. When a man wants to impress you, he will NEVER let you pay for anything. It’s embarrassing for them. Especially if he is supposedly financially successful. There must have been something about you he didn’t like that he discovered on the second date or he met someone that interested him more. (This has nothing to do with you unfortunately the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:36 PM
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It’s okay. You’re in a low place right now. And he just happened to find you and take advantage of it. The exact same thing happened to me. I was hooking up with a guy I was super physically attracted to who was in love with someone else and completely open about it with me. It destroyed me! What a waste of fucking time. And only now can I see what a loser he was in every way and how it wasn’t about him. It was about ME! I thought somehow if I could make him love me and not her, it would validat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:19 AM
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Wow. You can just tell how jealous he is of her. I hope that she got out of this marriage ! (If this isn’t you !)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:33 AM
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The best thing you can do is block him. And never unblock him. Never speak to him ever again. This man is incapable of loving anyone. He apparently loved his ex so much that he cheated on her. This is a man who feels so shitty about himself he is unable to see the value in anyone or anything. Dont compare yourself to her. It’s not that she is better than you in anyway. It’s that she is a challenge because she doesn’t want to be with him. You aren’t because you are willing to accept him when he i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:04 AM
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Let him go. The more you hold onto him, the more he will pull away. And it will just hurt even more. Rip it off like a bandaid. Give him what he wants but is too cowardly to ask you for. A breakup. Then go no contact. And heal. He obviously isn’t high value if he refuses to man up and end a relationship he is no longer happy in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:07 PM
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Well , I personally do not tell men what my true occupation is until I have been dating them for a while. And no man ever needs to know how much money you make if you are not married to him. I don’t lie but I downplay it a lot. I have a somewhat complicated to explain job so I just kind of say it in laymen’s terms and make it sound less impressive. And I never mention how much money I make EVER. Simply because I do NOT want a man who is impressed by my career or my salary. This attracts users an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:32 PM
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I think you have to just learn that when a man offers to help you, say yes. It can be really hard for some women to accept help, especially if you grew up with a single mother. You were raised to do everything for yourself because you saw your mother do it. It can feel weird to allow a man to pay for you. Or to ask them for things. You should never let a man know your trauma or triggers. But hey. Let him think you can’t open a jar. Let him think you need help building a desk. Let him kill a bug.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:14 PM
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I feel like you’re not in the right mental space to be dating. You admitted that he was shorter than he said and also fat... are you even physically attracted to him ? You admitted to getting extremely emotional while talking to him... you don’t even know him ! I kind of get the vibe that you just want to be in a relationship/get married and maybe you want freedom from (what sounds like) an extremely controlling parent. You should drop this guy. He gives off extremely creepy vibes and probably h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:01 PM
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Oh yeah you definitely should cancel. And I am so glad it worked out for you ! Have fun and I hope he is a HVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:13 AM
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I actually broke up with him because I didn’t want to get married and I wanted to join the peace corps. He didn’t want to compromise. He wanted to get married and have kids. I woke up one day and felt trapped with him and knew that getting married and having kids was a life that I just didn’t want. I wanted to be free to explore the world. We are still very good friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:08 AM
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A lot of incels are short men who actually are not bad looking. Just short. They automatically think that because they are short they are unattractive to women and all “chads” are 6ft and above. There is a reason the term “Napoleon complex” exists. I personally am more attracted to shorter guys as a 5ft woman. I have never been attracted to taller men lol. I just have not had good experiences with short guys and all my long term stable relationships have been with tall guys. It was just my opini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:11 PM
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Also their center of gravity is lower. Shorter people in general have an easier time putting on muscle because of that. I mean I don’t want a tall guy with a dad bod. Sometimes tall guys are lazy with their looks because they think being tall is enough Totally agreed with you on the insecure and mentally ill part. I didn’t mind short guys but I have noticed time and time again how mentally ill and insecure they are. I don’t have time to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:24 PM
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Join a gym ! I have met so many great women and made such great friendships at the gym. especially if you go in the morning before work. It’s a friendly crowd !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:21 PM
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Leave him ! You will find new friends easily. Join a club or a gym. I have made so many amazing female friends at my gym ! Don’t stay in a toxic relationship just so you have emotional support. You can be your own source of emotional support and it will make you a stronger person. Then before you know it, you will have tons of friends !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:15 PM
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Short guys usually have cuter faces and better bodies than taller guys so it sucks ! I am way more into shorter guys but I have noticed they are extremely insecure. Any man under 5’5 is usually a bit mentally ill as well. Just in my experience lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:13 PM
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My ex boyfriend was a great guy and truly a high value man. Whoever ends up with him is lucky ! But our relationship kept me stagnated and if I wouldn’t have left him, I would not be the woman I am today. I am truly successful, independent, intelligent, well traveled, healthy, and most important high value. I am 28 now and I am nothing like I was when I was 20, much less 25. I could not have grown the way I have in that relationship and I am really proud of the woman I have become. I think too m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:06 PM
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Agreed. You change so much in your twenties. It’s hard to truly grow as a person while in a serious relationship. It’s so important to be single and find out who you truly are and what you really are. It’s really hard to do that when you’re approaching every aspect of your life through the scope of “we” and not “I”. I thought I was very independent even in a relationship but when we broke up, I saw how many opportunities I gave up just for the better of our relationship and I was a fooooolll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:00 PM
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I was in a long term relationship from 20 to 25. And I feel like it was a waste of time. I missed out on so many life experiences being in such a serious relationship at a young age! When we broke up, I had to learn so many things the hard way that my single friends had learned a long time ago. Now I am single and I have learned and accomplished so much and I have so much freedom. It would take a really special man to take me off the market! Have fun and don’t settle. It’s not worth it !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:21 PM
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How long has it been since you last spoke to him ? If it’s been more than two days. I wouldn’t go. I would be like wow sorry. I figured it was off since I didn’t hear from you. I made other plans! Maybe we can reschedule for another day this week ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:53 PM
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Even if he was wearing a suit of armor, his bedroom makes him an automatic NO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:42 PM
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I didn’t even want to KISS him. He would have been waiting his entire life for me to want to Fuck him !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:47 PM
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The cringiest part is that he was not American or even black to be saying the n word...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:52 PM
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Hahaha yes he did. I actually posted a screenshot of the later message in a separate comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:50 PM
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Huge egos hide massive insecurity and small dicks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:26 PM
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It’s because they are incels. They do this humble bragging and negging shit and all it does is make them look like insecure immature idiots. It’s such a major turn off. I guarantee you their friend they tried to hook you up with has never had a woman fall in love with him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:25 PM
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About a year ago, I was walking to work one day when this guy parked his car on a busy highway and ran after me to ask for my number. He was NOT my type but I agreed to go on a date with him only because he had shown effort and I felt that needed to be encouraged. (most men nowadays will NOT approach women in public and stick to OLD) On the second date, He was misogynistic, rude, and constantly trying to neg me. He tried to kiss me multiple times but I was so unattracted to him both physically a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:52 PM
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I feel like if you feel the need to have to basically try to manipulate him into moving forward, by trying to make him jealous, you have already lost. Just cut your losses and move on. If he wanted to move forward with you, he would. Men go after what they want. Always. If he hasn’t done what you need/want him to do in order for you to feel secure in your relationship with him (and it’s been a reasonable amount of time) he NEVER will. If he asks you (organically) if you are seeing other people. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:53 AM
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Once they move in together, this relationship will end. It’s easy to ignore the reality of your relationship when you’re not affronted with it everyday. She’s about to be ASSAULTED with his LVM qualities day in and day out. Eventually she is going to want out and want better for herself. Hopefully before she wastes a significant amount of time on him. SO many of my friends and family are trapped in relationships with LVMs... it is so frustrating and sad. But I have learned the hard way... It’s b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:37 AM
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When a man really is TRULY interested in a woman, he would never ever think of letting her pay. It comes naturally because he wants to impress her and show her he is a worthy mate. Men argue about this because they are LAZY and don’t feel confident to go after the women they truly want so since they feel like they are settling anyways, they don’t want to pay more than they have to. They just want to have sex as easily as possible. The few men who are looking for relationships are actually lookin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:39 PM
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I feel a man should pay 100 percent of the rent if we are not married. If not, I would much rather live on my own so that I have my own space away from him and to do as I please. My main reasoning for this is that if I were to get married and choose to start a family, I want a husband that can support my children and I on his salary alone. Men can demonstrate their potential ability to do that by paying for the rent on their own. I just don’t see any benefit in splitting the rent with a man you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:36 PM
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You deserve way better people in your life and I know 2020 is going to bring them to you ! Please do yourself a favor and do not unblock this LVM no matter what. Leave him in 2019 where he belongs. He does not value you nor care about your feelings. You will overcome this. New year, New You!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 01:11 AM
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Lmaooo. Yeah she caught him in a week! So she knows what’s up. And she was so sweet and nice about it. Basically begging me to please not talk to her boyfriend and to text her if he ever hits me up! Why would I ever volunteer to be a security guard in someone else’s relationship ?!!! She is Dominican too. It’s sad because a lot of Dominican women feel like cheating is a natural and normal part of relationships and they just accept it ! Growing up, my mom told me I could bring any man or woman of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:59 PM
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Preach. As a Dominican woman as well, I am so done with Dominican men. The culture is just too toxic. It’s not a joke when they call them Demonicans. I just recently met one who really presented as a HVM and I was breaking my own rule by giving him a chance... everything was going great until his girlfriend texted me lol. Thank god I never slept with him or took things further than a kiss Please if you are unfamiliar with men of this nationality, heed the warning. It is MORE than just a stereoty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:41 PM
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